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| 14 | Where or how can I (18f) learn more about men’s issues in today’s society? I want to be able to support my boyfriend (19m) more in those aspects but I am a bit lost.I recommend starting off with Jordan Peterson’s and Better Bachelors’s videos. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 11 | My boyfriend's new health issue is making me not love him anymore.What you want to do is completely the opposite of femininity. Let’s say your new boyfriend becomes sick too, would you bail ship again or stay, nurture, and heal him? These misfortunes happen to even the best men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/21 05:11 AM |
| 11 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”This is the best advice. Good high value men value more than just looks. All the other comments aren’t as good as this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told.You’re confusing co-workers and personal circle of friends. Ideally, they should not overlap. Co-workers are not friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend said I was a 7 and I should take that as a huge compliment because that means I am hotter than 70% of women. I can’t stop being hurt about it.Look up normal distribution curve; that’s how grading is done. Roughly 70% of women are rated close to 5.5. Most high value men rated Beyoncé as an 8, so get used to knowing where you stand in a competitive market. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How to gain sensitivity & Feel MoreThese are good and appropriate goals. You’re heading in the right direction. I have seen many women with poor values and no control of their unstable emotions. While pursuing their fleeting emotions, they are consumed by it, and it ruined their lives. Several are in therapy and wish they could even be calm like you. So I don’t recommend chasing emotion just to feel emotion. If you’re not actively looking for a good husband by now, then you should. You will pursue your goals, and then the feeling… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | How to gain sensitivity & Feel MoreWhat do even do everyday? What is your life goal? What is your purpose? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 33 | He found out I had a secret savings account and he's really hurtDo you actually believe your mother to be “financially prepared” and to not rely on men? This is the core issue. It’s completely contrary to being submissive. Your fiancé is not the problem. He’s behaving like any other man having his trust broken. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 0 | Married Male Friend (early 30s M) is Not Allowed to be in Contact with Me (late 20s F)Coworkers are not and should not be friends. There are boundaries between professional and personal life that you’re blurring, when it should not be blurred. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How I become more open and receptive to masculinity?Good that you’re aware of your problems. Go to therapy and learn how to not be so neurotic. I’m guessing it came from your poor insecure relationship with your parents. It’s going to be very difficult. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 6 | How do I determine my value (19F)?A huge majority of women are average, which is normal. Value is determined by several different ways. You can value yourself, but it’s more accurate to determine your value based on what others value you. because most women are different from each other, there’s only a few standard consistent measurable traits. Some guys value straight hair and some more curly, but traditional femininity and submissiveness are objectively attractive features across all cultures. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How does one tell the guy to wait for sex and why should we?What value do you bring in a committed long-term relationship besides sex that every other women are capable of too? You can’t bargain if you aren’t valuable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry meWhy are you telling me your background? I don’t care about your background nor you, and your background is irreverent to OP. Yeah that’s a real risk like anything possible in the future, but is that OP’s interest now? You still haven’t shown actual proof that OP’s concern about being a single mom with kids and child support. This is getting off-topic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry meWhat I’m getting from your previous post is that you don’t seem to understand the OP’s interest. I didn’t argue that marriage is against her interest. It is her interest to pursue marriage, but that’s not realistic if she wants to maintain a relationship with her man. Once again I have to say because you didn’t answer previously: where in OP’s post that her interest and concern is being a single mom with kids and child support? OP’s concern is maintaining a relationship with her man and marriage… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/20 07:57 PM |
| -1 | my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry meAre you saying that she could make a choice without sacrificing anything? Impossible unless the man becomes open to marriage, which I don’t see happening anytime soon. Either choice, she will lose her man or give up wanting marriage. It’s up to her to choose which one is more valuable to her. I’m not suggesting giving up her interest. My comment is suggesting her to choose what’s best to her interest actually. Both options will have her comprising one another regardless. She’s not realistically … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/20 07:43 PM |
| -1 | my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry meThat’s a therapist’s job. She’s not a licensed therapist. She could refer him to therapy, but not change him by herself. You suggest she try changing his trauma herself? Also, I’m not your “bud”. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/20 07:22 PM |
| -1 | my boyfriend wants to start a family with me and live our lives together, but not marry meHe’s smart to not wanting to be married, especially when having a background growing up in a broken family. Changing his traumatized views isn’t an option and should not be an option. What do you value more? Do you value having marriage or being with him? You will make a sacrificial choice no matter what. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | When does being in a bad mood cross the line into taking it out on someone?I don’t even think he crossed the line if you’re asking for advice on what is crossing the line. He pissed you off, but that’s not crossing the line. Did he do something that’s so unforgivable that you can never forgive him for the pain and insufferable injury done to your entire being? No? Then just move along. Relationships have ups and down, and now you’re experiencing the downs. Just bare through it and work it out with him. People get into bad mood, especially for men working to keep provid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 10 | I am only attracted to the top 10% (looks-wise) guys, while being rather average-looking myself, Is there any way to work around it?There is more to attraction than looks. Looks can get you to the front door, but everything else are more reliable ways to maintain the attraction. Work on having more pronounced feminine behavior is one way to increase attractiveness. Guys will start taking notice of these traits after being used to appearances. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with scaring men offLooks like you have anxious style attachment in relationships. It probably stemmed from insecure anxiety driven relationship with your parents, then again, I don’t know your background. I suggest going to a therapist to look deeper into your anxiety issues. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 15 | I feel like an inferior woman because of my boyfriends friendThis post was so misleading. I thought your boyfriend’s friend was a woman, unless he’s into guys too. Try cooking these foreign food, but you don’t have to eat it. Just cook whatever for yourself. It’s not like the both of you have to eat the same food. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 5 | How does one keep a man's attention without chasing?Why are you chasing these types of men then? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | How does one keep a man's attention without chasing?“I don’t believe in chasing”: sounds like “I want my reward without the effort and hard work”. Honestly, life is not fair. Some girls gets it easy with the right genetic traits and some gets it hard. Some put in the effort with what they have and did really well compared to some who were blessed with good looks, but decayed over self-neglect. You don’t know what these women that you see as successful did to get far searching for their man. Maybe they did do the chasing for many years and came ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Am I being pushy?Why are you making direct comparison between his brother and girlfriend & you and your boyfriend? Not all relationships follow similar timeline. You’re pushing marriage because you mainly want to show people that the both of you are committed; that is a terrible short-term reason to push for marriage with serious long-term consequences. “I don’t care about the cost”: that’s a bad recipe for disaster. If you want respect, you have to earn respect. Prove that you will be a good wife to his parents… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone else find being surrendered and letting him lead EXTREMELY difficult?What makes you think you’re right, as you say “A LOT”? The thing with argumentative disagreeable people, is that the antidote to it is humility. You probably won’t take the advice here given unless they’re advice that matches with what you WANT to hear. I will say this: you’ll learn how to surrender once you figure out how wrong you are or once you learn about your man’s different perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 06:35 PM |
| 7 | He's successful and very independent. I don't feel needed.Then find ways to be useful to him. It’s not hard to make him breakfast in bed in the morning for example. How about start offering to clean up the place instead of hiring a cleaning lady? You would save him some money. Just do something, instead of sitting around waiting for your needs of feeling needed being met. Ask him directly what can you do for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | ‘Only a man with a fear of god won’t cheat’...thoughts?Because you’re now weeding out non-religious men because of “advice” from a few handful of people. Taking a huge generalized advice solely from a few handful of people isn’t a good idea. It’s easy to listen to a few people saying similar things and believing they’re true, especially when they’re paid to give you advice you would want to hear. It’s proper to get advice from many many sources and then come to a conclusion of your own. How about this realistic conclusion that’s pretty obvious and n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | how should i act?And those that expect commitment on Tinder are foolish to go against statistics and the majority. The guy you’re talking to is a dead end when it comes to commitment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/20 02:10 PM |
| 2 | how should i act?You went to Tinder and got hooked up. What do you expect? People go to Tinder for hookup, not commitment. You shouldn’t be surprised that people you find over there don’t really care about you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 9 | Is it bad that I like making my husband’s friends jealous?Yes it’s bad. Is intentionally making anybody jealous ever really a good behavior? It’s aligned with attention seeking behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Need Help: Are Women capable of loving husbands unconditionally?I did not say it’s a women only trait. Where did you get that from?? Self sacrificing for the children is a trait of any properly socially adjusted parent. You’re right that a proper man would self-sacrifice for the children, but imagine if the women had to make the choice; the man isn’t in a position to chose. 9/10 I would bet she would sacrifice the man for the kid, which is the correct approach. The man shouldn’t be so naive to believe that the woman wouldn’t chose to let her go for the kids.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Need Help: Are Women capable of loving husbands unconditionally?Because biology. Women ultimately wanting security for her children. Even if it means to give up their men if they are forced in a bad situation. Have you ever seen a mother sacrificing her meal to feed her kids? I have. Now you’re contradicting yourself saying nobody can provide unconditional love all the time, but that is the opposite of unconditional love. Men stay in relationship for many different personal reasons; varies to individuals. The common grounds are sex and children. Some want co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | How to get over his height?You’re not going to get over it. You’re already starting to pick out small negative details about him to dissuade yourself. If you let it continue, you will keep holding on to these thoughts gnawing deep in your mind. You can’t stop comparing him to your past relationships, and it’s natural to compare to your past to judge whether there are improvements and more security. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 03:49 PM |
| -1 | Need Help: Are Women capable of loving husbands unconditionally?No. Women only love conditionally except for their children. They are incapable of sacrificial traits that makes unconditional love except for their children. Men are capable of unconditional love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/20 03:38 PM |
| 0 | My favorite color is green— how do I embrace this in the way I dress without looking masculine? Purple is also my most-suited color, how do I combine these without looking like Barney or “off”?Try out pastel color schemes. They usually look feminine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Dating adviceYou can try, but don’t be surprised to be rejected. People tend to hold on to rejections more than acceptances, that includes when you rejected him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually a good strategy to pursue someone or should I wait for someone to pursue me?If you see someone you like and you’re looking for someone, go up and ask. Sitting around and hoping an opportunity to fall on your lap isn’t a reliable strategy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Motivating your manDon’t even try to change a man and his lifestyle. You ultimately can’t if you’re his girl, because eventually you will lose respect for him. You’re being embraced with romantic thoughts, but they’re not even grounded in reality. How can he support a family if he’s not ambitious? Where does he want to go in life? What is his purpose in the world? These are questions for a man to answer. Until he can know himself more, he’s not ready to even settle down. That doesn’t mean that you cannot be his gi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if a man you only talk to online says that he wants a relationship with you before even meeting you irl?Yes it’s a red flag. It tells me that he’s not experienced in personal relationships. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, but you’ll go through the hoops of setting boundaries eventually. He could be trying to claim you early on believing that you are ideal for him. Now if he has all the traits you want, then it could be a blessing in disguise, but I don’t know what do you want. The age gap isn’t an issue, unless you see it that way. Either that, or he’s love bombing you. That’s heavily tied to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend is a workaholic and it’s getting annoyingHe’s certainly ambitious and a devoted man. I wouldn’t question his sacrifice he’s doing for the both of you. I know plenty of women who would be happy to be in your position instead. Why don’t you want to stay with his parents? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 12:54 PM |
| 8 | I am devastatedStop idolizing the married man. He could have all the amazing traits, but if he’s married and cheating on his wife, then he’s probably not that great as you think. You don’t see it now, but eventually you’ll see more clearly as time passes. Imagine if you were in the position as his wife, would you still see him as the amazing man you’re still seeing? Him cheating on you when the both of you would be commuted with kids? I don’t think so. So how to stop idolizing him? Maybe you should seek and qu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 12:35 PM |
| -1 | Examples of extroverted High Value Women.Then you’re not THAT extroverted unless you’re describing yourself incorrectly. You’re somewhere close to the average in the spectrum of extraversion and introversion. You’re close to normal. Extroverted women you brought up in your OP are noticeable more different. My comment was meant for THESE extroverted women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Daily habits of a high value woman.Taking good care of the kids is one daily habit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 11:44 PM |
| -1 | Examples of extroverted High Value Women.The only example I have is an intelligent part-time adjunct professor who married young and only lecture part-time. To me, she’s the best and probably only example of an extroverted high value woman. To be clear, she’s the VERY FEW exception, thus NOT the norm at all. An extreme almost-all extroverted women are NOT high value women overall in the long run. They can be high value when they’re younger, but they depreciate value very very very quickly as each month passes. This is why you typically… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm confused about how trp works and I have some questions...The concept of red pill follows similar ideology, but it’s a fragmented ideology. What I think of as the red pill can be different from other red pill believers, yet follow similar fundamentals. MGOTW is a sub set of the red pill, yet they see women as an avoidance while other red pill are willing to interact with women. Like Christianity, there are many subsets of it. Not all red pill are the same. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 11:04 PM |
| 3 | How do I not get jealous of my boyfriend having female friends?That depends. Are you a good girlfriend to him? Are you providing value in his life? A good girlfriend would be able to list all things they commit and do for their boyfriend on a daily basis. If you provide so much value to him that you lose track listing of how many things you provide for him, then your feeling of jealously will go away. You will be certain that he doesn’t want to lose you, a valuable asset. If you been a bad girlfriend who has been a blockade and a negative value in his life,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Still not over what he said about his exGood luck. Wish you the best on your relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Still not over what he said about his exPerfect happily-ever-after relationship. Key word is perfect. You can have a happily-ever-after relationship, but not a perfect one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Ladies,I need help understanding what a desirable woman is.To men, a desirable woman doesn't depend her self-worth from validations and attention from all the men she passes by. To high-value men, they know these women are recipes for disaster waiting. You getting these "feedback" from other men feels "nice" because they're filling some empty void of needing of security you're looking for. But you feeling this "nice" feeling is a liability to high-value men. You're 31, so get your head out of the old gutter about your poor social status back in high sch… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Still not over what he said about his exYour insecurity and past relationship trauma will destroy your current relationship if you let it. Stop your projection. Get rid of your view of "the one", because there are many "the ones". Anybody can be the "right" person for anybody if they put enough commitment, effort, and time. Everybody in this universe is always second, third, fourth, and so on best to someone, but NEVER first best. You're both 31, so don't expect a perfect happily-every-after relationship. Just focus on being the best … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I would like my boyfriend to be more dominant and protective of meI don’t even know if he has issues or not. This is about you. Do you even know what you want? I can’t even tell anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 0 | I would like my boyfriend to be more dominant and protective of meYou’re behaving like you said, childish: flip-flopping what you and don’t want. You are putting expectation on him and throwing a fit when he doesn’t meet this expectation you made on him. It’s not wrong to want a firm and strong man. Ideally women should pursue that, but it’s wrong that you are aware you have these “daddy issues” and letting it affect your relationship. You may have abandonment issues. Get professional help analyzing and resolving your issues. Based on what I read, it seems you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | I chose the wrong captain and stayed with him for over 5 years, now what?No, you don’t find it very hard to respect him. You just DON’T respect him at all. If you respect him, you wouldn’t want to control him. I don’t need to read all that jargon of nasty personal details about him. I don’t know him, so it’s really unfair that you’re talking bad about him behind his back... It’s not like that’ll magically make me think he’s a terrible person when I don’t know his side of the story. Maybe he needs professional help to guide him if you really think he’s a lost person. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I chose the wrong captain and stayed with him for over 5 years, now what?It seems like you already made up your mind about leaving him based on your largely negative description of him, so there’s no point about convincing you to stay with him. I barely even have a clear and fair judgment of him from your harsh criticisms of him. You’re in the wrong place if you’re looking for an echo chamber of “leave him leave him”, because that’s not really the Redpillwomen way. I’m not going to say what you should do, but here what I would do if I were you: 1) Take a good reflect… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/20 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Can a man claim to love a woman and not want a serious relationship with her?Go look up Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love. There are many types of love, like friendship, romantic, committed, etc. the word love is a one-size-fit-all that is the umbrella of these types of love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I (32F) moved in with my boyfriend (44M) with the understanding that we would get engaged shortly after. He’s now decided he no longer wants to get married. Do not move in with someone before there’s a ring on your finger.It’s a somewhat good advice for women to follow, but the reasoning doesn’t make sense. Why does he not want to engage anymore? I see all this talk, but no explanation why he chose that, but rather just exit strategy from you and your reaction. It’s not normal for somebody to suddenly not want to marry anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What is you guys thoughts on prenup marriages? As a way for a man to make sure your their for him and not his resources, and that if you do get a divorce protecting his interest.Because of divorce rates and that about 70% majority of women initiate the divorce, prenups are necessary for the man. Ideally, if the woman refuse, then the man should not proceed with marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Men want Appreciation Woman want Respect?Men value respect and appreciation. Women value appreciation, but doesn’t mind losing respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Women today are lonely and happy... And here's why.Great timing. I just watched a recent video similar to the topic from Better Bachelors. https://youtu.be/GFvVrqgVJvI | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it healthy for men to have a high body count?No it’s not healthy for anybody to have a high body count. An attractive man with a low body count is better for LTR than an equally attractive man with a high body count assuming all else is equal. Still high body count for men is still somewhat correlated to attractiveness, but it’s not the causation, while high body count on women will always decrease women’s attractiveness. Usually high body count is linked to poor mental health and maturity. So I would just be wary around anybody with a hig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Am I being unreasonable for wanting to break up over this?THIS. Also OP has EXPECTATIONS of the man being warm and supportive. When people like OP brings expectations in reaction, they’re not looking for genuine response; they’re looking for feedback confirmation of what they want. OP should seek professional help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | He's a late bloomer with a lot of potential. Should I roll the dice or keep searching?For RPW at your age (28), most RPW would agree that the “late bloomers” men usually are the best chance of finding a successful committed husband. They’re hard to find. You want to lose that chance because of some rumor your friends mentioned? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | What advice would you give to a young woman like me?Go to therapy and take time unwinding yourself. Clearly you are still traumatized. That’s good that you still want the dream of being traditional. You’ll eventually find a man who will be who you imagine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a hard time making male friends?I don't think being overweight is your problem that started your OP. Like I said, there's no shame to seeking better mental health. I encourage even mentally healthy people to try out therapy. I rarely see backwards results from it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a hard time making male friends?It definitely hurts my feelings sometimes but I can’t be mad at them for it. Ive had a hard time making friends with anyone at my school bc I’m so heavy Wow that is a lot to unpack there along with being envious. Hope you're seeing from this thread that wanting male attention is different from wanting male friends. Your reason for wanting male attention, but you saying it as you wanting male friends tells me you may want to sort things out whatever you're dealing with. If your college offers fre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Going to a guy's house that you met onlineI don't know what you define as a "decent" guy with little description about him. Seem like you only had one date with him and now he's inviting you over to his place. The writing is on the wall is so obvious. If you want to hold sex until marriage, I suggest to not accept that invitation. Having sex while barely even knowing him will lead to terrible outcome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a hard time making male friends?Wanting male friends is NOT the same as wanting male attention. It seems like you truly want male attention. You seem very envious of other women in your school. High school? College? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating tips?Quality men value purity and innocence. Keep that until you find the man you're willing to commit to. It's a really attractive quality that brings good men to commit to you too. All the flirting tips and tricks won't do anything really. Avoid men without an established career and ambition. Avoid men who sleep around too much; it's as bad as women who sleep around too much. As for major in college, most women prefer to be in careers that has tons of social interaction. I have friends who studied … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 0 | I try to look at life from a RP perspective and I find that ... men do not lead relationshipsI assume they have problems and issues because all people do So why the target specifically on men when you're now saying all people? There are also women in therapy because they have problems with trauma and it affects their view in relationships. There are women in therapy because their boyfriends wants them to potentially save relationships. I have seen men being with problematic girls slowly turning from the strong dominate men they were into submissive boyfriends. It seems you're using that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Is family an enforced concept.Reason for it and against it? You need more description in your post to start a discussion. I believe the concept of family existed way before the "elite" and the church. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 0 | I try to look at life from a RP perspective and I find that ... men do not lead relationshipsmen tend to ignore their own problems and issues What makes you assume they have problems and issues? What kind of problems and issues you're referring to? Your understanding of my argument is different from what I mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 0 | I try to look at life from a RP perspective and I find that ... men do not lead relationshipsYou're using weak men as a sample to represent the population of strong men; which is inaccurate. Weak men don't have much options, so they're emasculated. They hate being told what to do, because they're have few options that they have no choice. You see it all the time with popular family sitcoms like the Simpsons, King of Queens, Family Guy, etc; the bumbling fathers with the "strong" mother holding the family together. Except, that's not how strong powerful men are in relationships. These me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How to be a wife to an alpha maleThe good news: you are aware of your problems and you're seeking help to fix it. It's not normal for a person to self-sabotage and self-talk negatively. You clearly are disagreeable and neurotic. I would say you're invading to personality disorder territory. Now, I strongly suggest you go to therapy to discover why you're destroying yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/20 01:50 PM |
| 11 | What are the most harmful beliefs feminism promotes? Harmful beliefs in traditional Western gender roles?Thank you. Completely true. Hollywood keeps putting up this falsehood of a woman having anything she wants no matter how bad her life choices were. Sex and the City is a good example of that. Funny enough, the creator of Sex and the City, Candace Bushnell , openly regrets choosing her career over having kids. She's now 61 with no kids and no stable relationships. She's truly alone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend with no jobYour boyfriend should have stable income to sustain your long-term commitment. Why are you attracted to him when he has this fatal flaw? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel like I'm taking advantage of him?Mine just so happens to be touch, and words of affirmation, Everybody has the ability to utilize all 5 love languages. Limiting yourself to just two won't help show gratitude. To be blunt, words of affirmation is the easiest one for anybody to use. Anybody can do it without effort; nothing special. Anybody can talk whether by lies or truths, but actions are tangible and reliable, which is why gift and acts of service are levels above the rest of love language. Giving gifts isn't about when, it's… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Experienced in the game, now losing interest completely. Happened to anyone else?Sounds like you enjoyed hedonism and have reached to the point where all hedonism leads to: emptiness. Start off by questioning your life's purpose. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel like I'm taking advantage of him?Good thing you're going to therapy; insane need to prove yourself like high level of insecurity is not healthy at all. This ties in with my initial thought of your actions as entitlement, but your direction to gratitude is a good antidote. Are you aware of the 5 love languages? They are used to show your partner that you appreciate and love him: words of affirmation, quality time, providing gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Words of affirmation, quality time, and physical touch are a g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend asked for my fathers blessing. He said no.This person is asking the right questions. Find out WHY your father doesn't like your boyfriend is the question to solve. When you don't have the answers yet wanting to not care, that won't solve anything. Claiming somebody to be a narcissist before asking questions on why is one-dimensional. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend asked for my fathers blessing. He said no.If he's really a narcissist, then you already know what to do about his opinion: just don't invite him and move along. But then again, he could not be a narcissist and really dislike your boyfriend. I don't see an explanation from you that would label him as a narcissist. Why doesn't he like your boyfriend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | My materialistic standards are quashing a promising romance. Please advise;I mean, think about how would you break a bad news to a family member and a close friend. Treat him to a dinner and have a sit down for a serous discussion. Find ways to bring up the topic about your wants in physical attraction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 05:56 AM |
| 2 | My materialistic standards are quashing a promising romance. Please advise;Weight out the pros and cons. You seem to see tons of pros for him, yet this one single con is bothering you. Now it’s a question of where you place your values. You said that physical part of the relationship is important, but now consider whether it is more valuable than the rest of the valuable traits he has. Nobody can ever meet every SINGLE rubric in everybody’s checklist. Often times, people make the trade-offs and negotiate, even for the smallest traits. Now consider his potential to impr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Am I cockblocking myself?You may have avoidant attachment issues. Though, I think it's a deeper issue. You said it yourself, though I think you're understating it: your insecurity. It's not normal to be attracted to guys who have girlfriends or any guys just because you can't be with them. It's not normal to be highly anxious and neurotic about your crushes after they respond positively back. I recommend going to a therapist and get a screening on your mental health before your problem snowballs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Hi everyone...I am quite overwhelmedAnd on the earlier post here where someone mentioned most MGTOW just wish for a Unicorn.. sure that may be true. But the thing about MGTOW is even if the fabled unicorn did exist, he still probably wouldn't risk it. Why? Because no matter how much of a Unicorn you may be, the laws have not changed, nor will they any time soon. In fact its more likely they will get worse. It's not that every woman in existence WILL divorce rape you and ruin your life... It's that every woman CAN. Its how family c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/20 03:22 PM |
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