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Brave_Quantity_5261/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 01:13 AM
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You sir must be rich!
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 06:20 AM
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Zoloft helped me tremendously at that point in my life too. Same dosage as you. I had a hard time sleeping at first with the Zoloft (taking it in the morning even) which I hear now is common for some, so I wasnt able to get enough sleep until the Dr prescribed trazodone. After that, it definitely was noticeable improvement while I took time to grieve the end of the relationship. Just something to watch for
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 10:03 PM
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I feel you on the lack of energy. Wish I had some tips more than just time but that was all that worked for me. But definitely get the paperwork going and make a new will asap. If she tries to talk you into pausing the separation, don’t do it. She might be trying to put off the divorce for a while, in the case of the tumor taking your life then she doesn’t have to split anything with you. It’s all hers to do with as she pleases. I had a friend whose parents went thru the same kind of situation, …
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 09:56 PM
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I think of it as almost like a new car. Your old car you took care of it at first, then got a little lax. Started getting dirtier, maybe stretching out on the oil changes. Dings and dents here and there. Weren’t as excited about it as time went on, just an old beat up car but it works and it’s pretty nice to not have a payment. You gets you where you need to go so you keep it for now. Well then the lack of attention and care catches up and it blows the motor, leaving you stranded at the lowest p…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 06:50 PM
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I think what he’s saying is a little more predatory than that. Asking someone who is struggling bad if they’ve accepted Jesus Christ is their savior is a lot different than an atheist telling them a non-religious thing that helped them. I haven’t yet seen any atheist in this thread say something to the extent of “forget Jesus or abandon all religion and just go to therapy”. Could be wrong, but that’s my observation
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 04:58 AM
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Very few people are actually diagnosable narcissists, but people can have narcissistic tendencies. I’ve heard it argued that many people have some degree of narcissistic traits, yet fall short of diagnosis. Also important to remember and remind people that only a mental health professional can diagnose someone as a narcissist, and they will only do so in a proper doctor-patient situation (i.e. my ex wife can’t tell her psychologist all about me then I get diagnosed a narcissist)
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 05:15 AM
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Following this. In same boat
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 03:21 AM
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Depending on where it is (once you find it) I would just block it with something inconspicuous. If it’s a cellphone charger block plugged into an outlet, I’d just move something infront of it sometime and once she moves it, I’d move it back again. Or lean a broom up against it, maybe a big pile of clothes. If it’s like a fake smoke detector, I’d go and buy a new one and swap it out. Tell her the hallway one was dying and you bought a three pack and just figured you’d replace them all now before …
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 09:01 PM
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I’d just delete what you can easily and then tell her to sue you. She’s not going to want to go to court over this, unless you are doing something with the photos. If you aren’t distributing them and you tell her (and the judge) that you deleted them all, it’d be dumb to try and force discovery in court and expose everything. I keep thinking of that line in “Tommy boy” - I can get a hell of a look at a T-bone steak if I put my head up a bulls ass, but I’d rather take the butchers word for it. I …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 04:00 PM
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All I can really say is what worked for me - I just allowed myself to feel that way. Don’t fight the feelings, they’re normal. Divorce is quite possibly the toughest thing most people go thru so it’s going to suck. Suck real bad. No easy way out, you just got to go thru it and feel the pain. But understanding that and knowing that everyone else understands that helped me a lot. Quit trying to find a shortcut, or thinking there’s something you could be doing to not hurt so bad. And just know that…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 06:59 PM
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What helped me tremendously was telling myself that the wife I loved is gone. “Dead”. As in the person I loved no longer exists. That’s been really helpful in getting past this
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 12:45 AM
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Interesting… this is kind of my same situation and was wondering about this. We have been separated almost a year, I’ve been only getting by because my mother rented me a place to stay. I hope when we start filing that won’t be held against me, because there is absolutely no way I would be able to afford on my own any kind of place safe enough for my kids to live.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 04:06 PM
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My ex introduced her new boyfriend to our kids like a month after we moved apart. Didn’t even tell me. The kids told me that mom had a new friend spend the night, slept in the same bed together. Now 3 months later she wants to move him in with her and my 2 kids. Not to hijack this thread, but I’m kind of in the same boat right now and was curious how everyone else dealt with this kind of situation. We are supposed to be bringing the kids to the therapist soon, before the boyfriend actually moves…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 04:51 PM
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What’s KYNV mean?
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 09:01 PM
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I’m just curious how… Like for custody situations before a judge? Like how could she use that against me? And how could I use it against her? I’m right there myself
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 09:28 PM
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Interested in this. Please explain more.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 06:26 PM
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The poor kid adds a whole other layer of complexity and sadness to this sh*tty situation. I’m so sorry, it’s gotta be so tough. You’ve made it this far now, don’t give up. Great move calling your parents, good first step. I can only imagine what you’re going thru but the fact you’re still alive shows how strong you can be.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 08:43 PM
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I feel you. First Christmas alone and I just want to hang myself. I would never because of the kids. That makes it so much worse. The urge to die but the obligation to live. My stbxw is such a fucking bitch, has me so fucked up. Moved to be closer to her family then divorced me, leaving me all alone but her with her family. And I’m stuck because of the kids. I wish i could get an attorney and move the kids back home, where we all lived til 2 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 06:37 AM
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Man, I’ve been there/still there sometimes. She does little things that make me think she’s sorry and wants to try again. But I’m usually wrong and after I drop my guard a little she sucker punches me again. I want nothing more than to give it another chance (like you probably), but I think I’m in a fantasy world. And like you, she’s done so much damage to family relations with the in-laws that I can’t imagine getting past a lot of that. But I can still dream…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 01:15 AM
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Taller the better, yeah? I’ve heard so many girls talk about some guy they met online and he’s just so perfect and amazing … “…but he’s 5’7” Is there such a thing as being too tall on online dating? Like, “he’s perfect but he’s 8 and a half feet tall”?
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 10:37 PM
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Same boat here, almost exactly, minus the rich in-laws. I had joked in the past (long before divorce was even talked about) about alimony and she flipped out. She says she wants to be friends too, which I suspect is to trick me into making the divorce as painless for her as possible. She’s already pulling away and not acting very friend-like. When we were dating, I made more money than her. She went back to school and I covered maybe 75% of the household bills. Now that she has a degree, I make …
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 05:33 AM
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What’s everyone’s thoughts on the different dating apps? Been going thru a divorce, in a relationship since 2007. No smart phones, no apps. I missed the rise and fall of some many of these dating apps and would appreciate everyone’s feedback on the various platforms.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 05:17 AM
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Same thing just happened to me. I feel like such a joke
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 08:19 AM
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I just feel like every aspect of my life is in crumbles, on top of depression. It’s like, where do you start? No career, no money, no friends, no family, bad living situation, etc I’m just barely hanging on here hoping “time” will eventually be enough to start addressing all the other issues.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 09:38 PM
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Not an Elon fanboy by any stretch, but my take from this post is at difficult times like these, grab motivation and encouragement from any source you can (as long as you’re not hurting anyone that is). If a crack-smoking street person told me something that resonates and gives me the courage to continue on, great. I guess just grab hope wherever you can.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 04:54 PM
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I feel the exact same way. Everything I experience in my day I just want to share with her. I miss her friendship more than anything. We were real good friends before we started dating and then eventually marrying. I’m clearly very depressed, which affects my motivation obviously. But I also think I’m not motivated to do anything because she’s not there to share it, either by doing it with me or by hearing about it. I guess it’s just real tough to try and do things for myself, I’m realizing now …
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 11:47 PM
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Man this post gives me hope. I’m in a deep dark place right now. I don’t believe any of this right now, but hearing others posts makes me want to believe. I’m pretty bleak right now. Just when I think I’m feeling rock bottom, I go lower. I really thought my mind would snap into a coma or something, like a circuit breaker, before feeling those much pain and sadness. Like I feel it’s not humanly possible to hurt so bad as I do today. But then I wake up tomorrow and it hurts worse,
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 07:39 AM
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Divorcecare is the name I Google for more info? I’m desperate for anything at this point. My mindset is pretty bleak right now… not going to lie, it’s dark
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 03:59 AM
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