BrendasThrowaway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things		BrendasThrowaway	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 07:47 PM
7	One sided open relationships	Discussion	BrendasThrowaway	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:48 AM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities	Debate	BrendasThrowaway	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 02:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up. I feel like men are just jealous because they wish they had it easier with dating. They wouldn’t be complaining if they got more matches as women. They just wanna bitch about w0mEn bAd. A lot of them come off angry and bitter because they get rejected and they are just resentful and envious of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 12:07 AM
3	Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women? But all genders are “settling down” in their 30s. Statistically speaking both men and women are getting married in their early 30s which is not shocking in this economy. Most people aren’t getting married super young anymore unless if they are from religious communities. Also, you think women don’t respect a man unless he’s super hott??? That’s not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 10:24 PM
1	Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women? I don’t think you should stop trying just because you think youre doomed. But you should have other goals regardless other than finding a girlfriend whether you’re 20 or 30… it’s a turn off when a guy is so desperate to find a girlfriend he just makes that his life goal and that is partly the reason why men do so bad in dating because of desperation… women don’t like that I am confused though.. do men really have a better time dating in their 30s? Is it because you’ll have more options with your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 10:05 PM
–	The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issue Just stop using this sub then?? No one is forcing you to be here	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 07:33 PM
–	The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issue If it’s not an issue then why are men so obsessed with wanting a girlfriend? All they do is talk about is how lonely they are and how much they are craving a woman. You guys are such losers that most of those posts are of “passport bros” going to third World countries so you can manipulate poor women into being with you because you aren’t desirable to educated women in the same country as you (first world country) so you have to buy one and ship one from Thailand. But you do say some true things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 07:32 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities 🥱	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 06:18 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities 🥱	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 05:10 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Didn’t read your last comment🥱	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:57 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities It’s literally a debate sub and you’re getting your little feelings hurt. You can keep crying in your basement about it though incel. Now go away you’re just being a creep now like why are you continuing to talk to me if you have nothing useful to contribute to a debate sub? Get lost incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:15 PM
2	DISCUSSION: Are autistic men just "lazy" when it comes to dating, friendship and employment struggles? I’ve never met an autistic man so idk, I would assume they are just socially awkward like the weird sped kids in middle school	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:13 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities “I feel bad for your wife” you’re assuming I’m a male this whole interaction. I don’t have a wife lol like honestly idk why you’re commenting??? You’re not even saying anything relevant to the post topic and not saying anything useful or in any relation to the post, so I’m really confused why you’re even responding when you have nothing to contribute to the conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:07 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I’m not male though?? So what are you even talking about? Can you not read? You clearly didn’t even read it because you have no idea what’s going on which is embarrassing like why even comment when you have no idea whats going on…. Or maybe you’re just dumb? You went on a random rant because you’re emotionally like this has nothing to do with the article so you’re really just being a useless troll on this sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:03 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Sure incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:29 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Cope	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:25 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Aww you’re mad because a woman has an opinion that differs from yours?? Poor little lonely incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:07 AM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I think you’re dumb and can’t read a simple post. That has nothing to do with my post. That’s not what my post even read. Come back when you’re not stupid and can actually read	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:06 AM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities As I stated in my post already I’m married. This post has nothing to do with me. Just because I post about a real issue men are having… what does that have to do with me? I’m not allowed to talk about a men’s loneliness epidemic?? What i said can help a lot of men since they are desperate to find a girlfriend but maybe if they had more life goals and hobbies and stopped being desperate then they would get a girl. Lol I see you’re a little slow and can’t read a simple post. You really didn’t cont…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:04 AM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities How am I suppose to know if they are a creep before the match? You show your true colors after the match? Most men send multiple messages on dating apps, a lot of women have complained about this. Lol you’re really trying to blame victims… just stop	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:00 AM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You don’t have any matches but we aren’t talking about you. There are men who do get one or two matches or even more! And they literally send several messages straight when the girl hasn’t even responded once yet. Like I said in my post men need to find more hobbies and get a life and find better things to do…. It’s creepy and desperate stop trying to defend incel behavior you’re just telling on yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 09:54 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 09:18 PM
5	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Exactly. This is really the main point i was trying to make on my post…. Men are so obsessed with being in a relationship even this guy thinks women are on anti depressants because they are single?? He’s so obsessed with relationships that’s the first thing that comes to mind lol like where did he even get that from? There are so many reasons why people take anti depressants especially in this economy. People have real problems that have nothing to do with having a bf or not lol. There are so ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 09:13 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Yes I have a throwaway account to use on this sub because I don’t need creepy incel men like you stalking me. Thanks for noticing lol?? Majority of the people on this sub are creepy lonely men so why would I want you guys to stalk me??	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 09:06 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities And you think a woman is a solution to fix all of a man’s problem? Lmfao all your comments are low level trolling	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 09:04 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Wrinkles on men are not hott either lol. What world are you living in? No one is getting wet fucking an old man. You are definitely just a troll, what a waste of time. None of your comments will taken seriously in response anymore 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:45 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Why do you think my views of men’s problems are warped? You keep saying the same thing over and over again without any facts or reasonings. Everything I’ve said in my post is true. There is a male loneliness epidemic for a reason, you guys need more hobbies and a life and maybe you’ll be desirable if you guys were not desperate. Maybe real the entire post and then come back when you have a real argument other than going on random rants that have nothing to do with the initial argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:43 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities How is it not the same thing when men and women both age and get wrinkles? “And you know it” once again is not a real argument. You’re really not good at articulating anything you’re saying, you’ve done this in every single argument	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:38 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You didn’t answer anything I responded back to you about in my previous response. This is not an argument. You asked me why I’m on this thread if I’m happy but you are on here on this thread too and you claim you’re so happy and successful?? You can’t just say that to someone while you’re literally doing the same thing also on this thread too lol. I personally find these conversations interesting. This post literally nothing to do with me, this specific post has nothing to do with any of what yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:37 PM
1	Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no one What is circle jerking? I don’t get what that has to do with the comment. My comment is basically what the OP of this post said himself	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:31 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You really think only women get wrinkles? Lol men get wrinkles and grey hairs too. You can’t stop the aging process. Everyone is going to age	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:25 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities What is a higher level man to you? I assume it’s about money because that’s what all the incels make dating about. You guys make it about money. Funny for you to know, I’ve only met normal men because I’ve only dated when I was in college I only date men my own age and the same place I am in life, I don’t date old guys that’s creepy. All of my relationships were in high school through college. I married a man I’ve met when I was in college. I don’t care about going after “higher level rich man”,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:22 PM
2	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Thanks! I love yours too ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:12 PM
-1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities How many men don’t let themselves go? There are plenty of men and women that let themselves go. How is this a gender thing? Anyone can let themselves go. I don’t see any man that still have their fit 6 pack body in their 30s, 40s, 50s??	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:12 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You don’t know the reason why we broke up. Why does it matter to you? It has nothing to do with look lol. I’ve dated someone that wasn’t that attractive too and you don’t need to know why that didn’t work out. Honestly I don’t even know what you’re going on about. Hott men aren’t in low supply what?!?! There are so many attractive people in this world like go outside what are you talking about?!? Men are not in a low supply, there are literally so many men for women to pick from. A woman literal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:10 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Same! They literally get dumb 18-21 year old IG bimbos on that show so they look smart in comparison when all their arguments are trash and no one even does what they preach because it’s literally nonsense. They live in a delulu world where they think 4 girls are going to share one husband and they live in a delusional world where one sided open relationships where the man can cheat but the woman has to stay loyal like know what?? No one is doing this	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 08:04 PM
-2	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You’re assuming that about women when you don’t actually know what they are thinking about lol. Also I’m laughing, how do men grow in attractiveness? Men get fat, beer belly gut, neck beard, and balding???	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 07:57 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Are you having a stroke? What are you trying to argue? I’ve dated plenty of very attractive men above a “7” (pretty cringe you even use a rating scale lol)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 07:54 PM
-2	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I think men need to be more independent and not think that they are dying if they don’t have a partner. I really think it’ll benefit men if they have more of a life like having more hobbies, maybe volunteer more, have a better social group, and seek therapy. Women focus a lot on their friends and family, education and careers, hobbies and focus on community and men should do more of that instead of just worrying about girls all day long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 07:42 PM
2	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Not a valid argument. Getting help for depression isn’t a bad thing. You don’t know they are depressed because they are alone. You don’t know why they are on anti depressants. There are plenty of women who are depressed in a relationship or there are plenty of women on anti depressants while in a relationship. Being on anti depressants has nothing to do with being alone, you’re just assuming that could be a reason why they are taking it even though they could be depressed for many reasons. Women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 06:07 PM
2	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I think it’s laughable if men really think an average woman doesn’t have any options. Even ugly women have a good range of options compared to average men. There was a study on a dating app before where an average girl has more options on a dating app than an above average male	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 06:01 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities My example of the harassment on dating apps is already in my post. Why are you so angry? You and a bunch of men on this post are exactly the time of men that are going to end up alone because of of your mentality and how you are acting. Women do in fact have hobbies, just because you don’t like what they read or watch on tv doesn’t mean they don’t. Women care more about their education and career. Men only care about getting girls that’s why they focus too much about getting girls and not enough…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 05:57 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities True, women do seek a community like friends and they get help for mental health while men are conditioned not to seek a healthy community and they don’t really do anything about their mental health. I remember I saw on a fresh and fit clip where Myron was saying how women can’t do anything they say they are gonna do and he talks about how men kill themselves at a greater rate and how women only attempt to kill themselves and fail… like this is not something to brag about. This just says women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 05:52 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities True, women do seek a community like friends and help for mental health while men are conditioned not to seek a healthy community and they don’t really do anything about their mental health	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 05:49 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Why would I make a fake account impersonating a man on a dating app? Do you really do things like this in your free time? I’m aware men have a more difficult time on apps than women. That doesn’t justify them to harass women on dating apps… that won’t help you get women by sending them a bunch of messages every 20 minutes straight in a row, that just screams desperate and you’ll ruin your chances by doing that because it’s creepy and makes you look like a creep. What I said about men is true, yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:32 PM
3	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You didn’t even explain why or how I’m incorrect nothing I said wasn’t true. All going by facts and you’re again offended. Look it up yourself since you’re that delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:26 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities The male loneliness epidemic is a real thing. Go do your own research instead of being delusional and crying to me. You’ll end up as another male loneliness statistic and it shows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:11 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities You can’t even explain why “wOmEn bAd” lmao what a joke. Seek help incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:09 PM
5	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities What are you even saying? Nothing you say even makes an ounce of sense. Stop embarrassing yourself and come back on this sub when you’re an adult capable of maintaining a valid conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:08 PM
3	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Why am I on a dangerous path? My post just states facts from recent studies and surveys and you’re the one crying over backed up data and studies. The male loneliness epidemic is a real thing and it’s growing. I really hope you get into therapy or else you’ll be one of those men (if you’re not already)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:06 PM
0	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities That’s a good point, because why be in a relationship that’s makes you feel alone when you might as well just be happy and alone and then eventually find someone that doesn’t make you feel like you’re alone in a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:55 PM
4	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Yeah I never understood that either, we love our animals. I’m not a cat person, but we do have dogs and I definitely feel that! Maybe if men had more things in their lives even if it’s just a pet they wouldn’t feel like being single is like dying	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:53 PM
1	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. Seek therapy for the porn addiction. I’m not going to take anything seriously from a porn addict. Feel free to keep responding to yourself though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:51 PM
1	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Finally, at least a somewhat sensible argument other than men being triggered and crying on this post. Yeah I think that’s true. I do think women are more valuable than men and that’s probably the results of why men have a difficult time finding a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:50 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Ok I’ll play this game! You need to seek therapy because you’re so triggered by facts and can’t even make an argument because you’re too busy crying	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:48 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Have fun with your seven cats. You’re definitely going to end up alone and virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:47 PM
5	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I’ve never had anyone tell me this actually as I already said I’m married. I’ve just seen it online a lot in comments made by bitter men and videos on this topic. Also you’re forgetting this is a debate sub I don’t get why you men are crying over this post and you can’t even come up with an actual argument, other than getting triggered and trying to come up with middle school come backs. You can arguably say what you’re saying to all the other posts on this sub too, I don’t know why we can’t tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:46 PM
6	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Going overseas isn’t going to solve your problems of being forever alone. Again, nobody has made a reputable argument on this post, and all the men are just triggered and going on random tangents and just ranting about literally nothing irrelevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:44 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Why doesn’t anyone on this sub speak proper English? Go back to school and come back when you are intelligent enough to have an adult conversation with real words and able to make sentences that actually makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:42 PM
7	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities It’s not as common as it is for men. Theres a rarity with this happening with women because of all the things I’ve stated in my post. There’s a reason why there’s a men’s lonely epidemic, and not a woman and a lot of you men are looking over that fact because you’re triggered	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:41 PM
5	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities It’s not as common as it is for men. Theres a rarity with this happening with women because of all the things I’ve stated in my post. There’s a reason why there’s a men’s lonely epidemic, and not a woman and a lot of you men are looking over that fact because you’re triggered	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:41 PM
1	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. You literally didn’t say anything to the original comment that debunks anything what I said in my original comment is something that happens all the time and now you’re crying about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:39 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities Aww I made the incel really angry, did i hurt incels feelings? Nobody is talking about women having sex with whoever they want? Good god you’re 🐢… I can see why this post triggered you so much you’re one of those men on my post	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:38 PM
1	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. I’m not going to take anything seriously from an incel addicted to porn. What you experience has nothing to do with my comment, my comment is a real thing that’s true	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:30 PM
4	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities I sound insane for stating facts lol okkkk then. You can’t even say anything to refute the argument, but you’re just going on a random tangent about nothing, you sound stable…. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:29 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities What are you on? Lol I didn’t respond for 12 whole minutes and you start freaking out because I didn’t check my phone immediately when you added your comment?? Wow you’re one of the men I’m talking about in my post that keep responding to yourself 😂. Go outside. I don’t even understand your microphone comment, again this has nothing to do with my post. I don’t want to talk to some random creep outside of Reddit. Comment what you have to on here, I don’t see why you’re so scared to defend your po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:27 PM
–	Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecurities It’s a debate why are you on this sub if you’re just going to be crying? Men try to attack women all the time over this topic and I’m just simply debating against their theory. Go cry somewhere else if you can’t handle the heat 🤷🏽‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 03:09 PM
–	Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no one Obviously. No woman does sex work because they genuinely like it and find it empowering, if they had a job that made just as much money or more they would not be prostituting themselves. Sex work is degrading	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 12:31 PM
1	Question for Women: Would you date somebody who was neurodivergent? No I don’t wanna be with anyone with a mental illness	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 12:29 PM
1	The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them. I honestly feel bad for you if that’s really the way you think because you’ll end up alone thinking that. I don’t know what kind of girls you go after but it’s clearly a specific type. I love how men complain about girls but they have a very specific pattern they are attracting. Everyone around me is married or in a serious relationship and nothing you said is true because you’re going after the wrong type of people. My husband never provided me with anything before we dated, we literally were a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 12:18 PM
1	Is it common to look up the salary of your date's job? Ok lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 05:50 PM
1	Young women can be very abusive&manipulative in a relationship regardless of their partner's age Pedo	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 01:24 PM
–	Young women can be very abusive&manipulative in a relationship regardless of their partner's age Pedophile	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 12:55 PM
1	Is it common to look up the salary of your date's job? I know I’m the anomaly here, but I have never even asked what a man does for work because I don’t care lol. I don’t like talking about what someone does for work because it’s boring and I don’t care. Also, keep in mind that I dated in college so everyone I dated was also in my uni… they would ask me what I’m majoring in and I’ll just ask them about their major just to be nice but honestly I don’t care about your degree or job. I know a lot of people think this is crazy, but I really have no inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 11:43 AM
–	Young women can be very abusive&manipulative in a relationship regardless of their partner's age How are you comparing a minor to an adult male? You’re gross. A 15 year old girl is not a woman. That’s a kid that has no experience and knows no better. You Pedophile	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 11:35 AM
1	Why beautiful women attract men who are shallow and fickle in short, fleeting relationships? Dang girl you are ugly and fat lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 06:40 PM
–	Have You Ever Been Cat Called Or Wolf Whistled, And If So How Did You Respond? I was scared because it mostly happened when I was underaged by old creepy men	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:44 AM
1	Why do men leave their sick wives? I assume it has something to do with them not wanting to be in a caretaker position. They don’t want to take care of the sick wife and take care of the kids so he will leave her and find another woman that’ll take care of his household	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:39 AM
–	Who cares more about sex? I do think generally men care about sex more if we have to pick a gender since men in her so have a higher sex drive than women. I also think sex for most people in general is important. I know I’m the odd one out because my husband never was a sex crazed maniac, I have a higher sex drive than he does. I have never denied him sex once in our marriage but he has denied having sex with me because he just doesn’t want to and I know this is not that common that’s why I stated we are the odd ones out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:34 AM
19	Why beautiful women attract men who are shallow and fickle in short, fleeting relationships? Young and dumb. When you’re brain is fully developed your less likely to keep falling in toxic patterns. A mature woman doesn’t think the same way as a young immature girl does. It’s a life stage thing. I didn’t make the best choices when I was 15,16,17,18,20,21 and so on. People don’t make good choices when they are young because you don’t know what’s good for you or not, you don’t know what manipulative or controlling and what’s healthy or not. Men have also regretted dating someone they’ve wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:22 AM
3	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things Thanks for your comment! Very well thought out	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 11:08 PM
2	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things I told him it’s so unreasonable for him to expect me to pay for a gift out of my personal savings and he said that’s more than reasonable to expect on holidays/birthdays/annivarsies (mind you that I have spent $$$ from my own savings account in the past on gifts but it’s draining now and I am not able to do that now.) He felt like I’m being ungrateful because I don’t buy him gifts from my personal savings. Then he got mad because my mom sent us extra Amazon money for my husband to get himself so…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 09:29 PM
1	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things Thank you !	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 09:13 PM
2	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things I’ll try giving him a hug I really don’t want this silent treatment to last during the holidays he’s off work now and I feel so lonely and this marriage honestly sucks because of the poor communication. Even if I just give him a hug it’s just that it’s not going to solve our problems that we’re having since we’re not really doing anything about it. We’re just gonna get in another dumb fight next month and it’ll be the same cycle. Idk if he will ever mature because he’s always kind of been like t…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 08:24 PM
-8	We keep arguing over the smallest and stupidest things I do understand that was rude and uncalled for that I said it tasted gross. He got me a chocolate bar that he KNOWS I don’t like so I guess I was just more annoyed that day because I was already having a hard time with my 4 month old baby and honestly my sweet tooth craving was the only thing that I was looking forward to that day. Yes he wants me to be a SAHM because this just benefits our family with me being a SAHM and honestly he would never pay for a daycare to raise our kids so the plan wa…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 08:07 PM