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ADVICEBright_Blackcheri_66/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 12:47 PM
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Second everything on here but also being skinny makes you look taller. If you really wanted to look shorter you’d gain weight.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:19 PM
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I’ve had to leave for work trips a couple times and he’d joke about finally getting free time and I told him that hurt my feelings but he said it’s his coping mechanism and of course he’ll miss me but I haven’t been able to shake it. I already have issues with feeling like I belong from other things.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 07:02 PM
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Thank you for this! Super insightful! I am very insecure about being eccentric and feeling like I belong. We have talked about these insecurities and I am gaining a bit more confidence/trust. I want him to be my forever person that’s why I’m trying so hard to be comfortable?? I get anxious a lot like we are going to opera this weekend and that’s one of the things I picked a fight about (he reassured me he is looking forward to trying something different with me and I am not forcing him to do any…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 06:59 PM
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I try to shut down my feelings which can come off as pushing him away
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 06:53 PM
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Thank you for the questions! I am the bread winner and will probably will always be (I have an analytics degree and he did not go to college). He knows I don’t want be a girlfriend for very long but have not set exact dates. We are open to kids or no kids but have talked about if we do have kids how we would raise them. Recently had a conversation about baptism. I own my home so he would move in with me. We have talked about buying a bigger place after a few years of being married. I want to be …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 06:40 PM
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Is I miss him irrational? I feel like that is generally the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:59 PM
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Thank you for the suggestions. I journal every once in a while but I didn’t really understand the issue that I was having. I want the fighting to stop. I love him very much that’s why I want to figure out the issue. I want us to get married and live together he says that he also feels the same but the fighting has him putting the brakes on everything which makes me more insecure. I think these questions will really help me figure things out and calm down. Keep the reflective questions coming!
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:47 PM
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I already work out an hour a day, have a full time job and am currently painting my house. My issue is that we don’t do much together to begin with. We have to communicate or else we wouldn’t interact all week until the weekend. Weekends are great we go hiking or stay at each others place and watch movies or something.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:19 PM
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I recently bought a house and I was a bit unreasonable on how much help I expected from him but we worked through it however he still feels a little resentment from it. For gifts I’ve told him a really appreciated it when he randomly brought me donuts.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:10 PM
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I tell him that I’ve noticed I pick more fights when I don’t interact with him often in person. We live 25min apart and he has alternating shifts every week. He is more introverted than I am and would like to chill at home when not working (he also has a more physical job) and I work from home and am extroverted so I like to go out and do things in my free time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/22 05:09 PM
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Got banned from offmychest
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 08:42 PM
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Lmao me, so pissed
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 07:17 PM
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I think this train of thought is a bit misguided. Being dom/sub IS 50/50 it’s two sides of the same coin. But what is going to bring issues is the concept of fair. If you are not bringing 100%, in whatever energy you want to deliver it in, it will become a tit for tat relationship. Secondly, if you are off put by paying could mean several things A) you’re trying to maintain a lifestyle that is not authentic to you and your means (communicate that) B) You don’t actually feel protected/taken care …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 09:47 AM
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Thank you! He reached out to me before I decided to move and was willing to drive the four hours. I’ll definitely keep the rest in mind and talk about it!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:22 PM
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He wasn’t an ex we just hooked up twice. He didn’t want anything serious bc I was moving four hours away and he didn’t want a long distance relationship. I realized I didn’t like it there and am moving back
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:14 PM
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How old were you when this happened? I’m dating the last guy before my ex (we hooked up twice but I wanted something serious and he didn’t). We both dated people and he reached out to me again saying he was ready. We have gone on three dates and the last one he kissed me on our hike (super shy guy to begin with). I want to get married asap but idk how to even begin but in my head I’ve been saying I’m arranging my own marriage that’s why I want your advice lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:00 PM
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