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Exactly i had the same feeling when i was in a relationship. But i don’t think i ACTUALLY knew why my mind was thinking the way it was until recently.
/r/seduction18/05/26 11:42 PM
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I mean i get exactly what you're saying no need for the analogy i just wanna know if you or anybody here can speak from experience on how it's changed them
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:02 PM
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I approach somewhat often but ngl I've never really thrown myself right in the fire and bombed hard. If any of you reading this have can you say if it's actually gotten you laid every once in a while and sharper in the field ?
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:35 PM
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You're young and you're needy, you need to work on that internally. If you're wondering on how you should do that, get advices from different subs and see what works for you. that's definitely the case in your situation and the earlier you notice and work on that your future self will thank you for the better.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah it's only so much learning you can do in a book. ESPECIALLY in this sector of life, it doesn't hurt to gain as much knowledge as possible but experience is king in seduction
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:56 PM
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Models all you need twin
/r/seduction27/03/25 05:46 PM
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I can definitely see from her point of view how that can come off as misleading. You should've just said what you really wanted to do and you honestly probably would have gotten it
/r/seduction25/03/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah man if you're interested in her don't hide that you're feeling that way behind a wall. Keep Going bro you got this
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:39 AM
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Bro. You can't change whether she has a bf or not. It's like you're trying to soften the blow of rejection in someway and it's just like man it's apart of the game. If anything i guess you could mention something like in the middle of the conversation like "i bet your bf blah blah" but in my opinion that wastes significantly more time if you just would have asked her out and found out that way.
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:27 AM
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I know this probably comes off as insensitive but are you seriously coming into THIS sub with that story dawg
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:51 AM
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Momentum is a real thing man
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:56 AM
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Yeah , who cares tho. Opinions don't matter If you're not harming anybody , not being a creep or harassing , no ill intent. I think you'd have to pull back ask why are you trying to align what you're trying to do with what everybody else would think at the end of the day
/r/seduction13/03/25 03:00 PM
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Eh i can't agree with calling it strange. Guys wanna get better at talking to girls/getting dates. What better place to go than a campus ?
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:56 PM
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I mean i haven't seen you in action but your approaches do sound a little scripted & forced. From what you're telling me what i can tell you is don't continue to talk to women who aren't very receptive towards you who aren't asking questions & engaged in conversation. It's okay to just walk away. Another thing is in one of your next approaches just ask them on a date during the conversation so you know if a number is even worth getting. Only way to get better is through failure man you got this
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:25 PM
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If you're getting ignored it's probably just a few things you should tweak to atleast get them to talk to you for a second. Make sure you look presentable , eye contact and tonality. If those boxes are checked i guarantee you a girl will ATLEAST speak to you even if it's a rejection. Also if you haven't got one date out of 600 approaches you gotta assume it has more to do with how you're doing it than the women itself. Can you give us a better description of how your approaches go & what you're …
/r/seduction12/03/25 06:48 PM
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Yeah in hindsight it seems so obvious she just wasn't interested, but In the moment even though you know what signs to look for it can be easy to overlook. Atleast for me from time to time.
/r/seduction08/03/25 07:00 PM
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Better for me the faster i find that out & move on to the next
/r/seduction08/03/25 07:05 AM
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I see Whatchu saying but lying to give off a better impression isn't something i think is me. If my intentions are pure & she ends up not being okay with my truth then it's something i gotta live with
/r/seduction08/03/25 05:18 AM
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Ngl I'm just now realizing how low the number is but probably 2-3 each time i go out. Kinda hard to establish a rhythm when you don't drink but guess i just gotta find a way to up the volume
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:26 AM
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Twin you in college. I promise you it's gon be some other shit around if you got your ducks in a row (style & fitness)
/r/seduction26/02/25 10:37 PM
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You just introduce yourself bro and state your interest. No magic lines gonna help you if you just starting out
/r/seduction25/02/25 09:40 PM
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It's too much information to take in for somebody who's a beginner. Just start by introducing yourself and being able to tell the difference between a receptive and unreceptive girl
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:35 PM
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Ngl if you have to get this manipulative to keep her interested. Shes either not really compatible with you and you tryna force it or you have a lot of inner work to handle
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:57 PM
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No , i can understand working with a woman who's kinda neutral but you simply don't continue conversations with women who aren't receptive at all. I mean seriously what happens when you ask that? What are you gaining ? Just walk away
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:51 AM
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I mean shi im not mad at it just don't ever tell a girl you do that. I think the difference between us doing it and them doing it is even if they wanted to they couldn't really do anything to us with the information they gathered. I think with it being a whole thing with how dangerous men can be toward a woman is where it's kinda like okay i can understand why it's not accepted for both genders to stalk
/r/seduction16/02/25 01:44 AM
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I agree & not just projecting to be not needy to women . You also have to actually feel that way internally or it'll never really do anything for you in the long run. It's not an overnight fix & it'll definitely take some reflecting and work but that's the simple truth.
/r/seduction01/02/25 06:15 PM
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It's really just another way of saying show interest but don't be needy
/r/seduction31/01/25 08:09 PM
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Is this a book i actually should read or would i be better off just reading notes on it online
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:39 PM
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Man i feel you on this thought it was just me. Went on a first date and went amazingly well. Asked her for coffee couple days later and i guess i ran out of momentum & wasn't really in state. Could definitely tell she wasn't as interested as she was the first go around
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:56 PM
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Good work kid keep going
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:04 PM
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Yk bro i actually agree with this and noooobody actually is talks about it. Definitely tired of acting like some conversations otp before seeing eachother are taboos. If you fuck it up cool learn from it and keep going but as you said you can actually save yourself allootttt of time this way
/r/seduction20/01/25 08:25 PM
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YouTube video just to get the basics down
/r/seduction01/01/25 04:16 PM
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Ngl as another introvert, this is terrible advice. Not only do you build confidence with cold approaching you also build social skills while also seeing if you have chemistry with the girl you're meeting instead of going thru the whole dating app process.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:27 PM
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Great question. I always feel like the timings off when I'm walking by a cute girl (which it probably isn't) but i can't shake the feeling
/r/seduction26/12/24 10:20 PM
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I'm 23 but i do take pride in how I style myself and i think if you're older than 30 the main thing i would build my wardrobe around is really good pairs of denim. Doesn't have to be too expensive but don't cheap out on them either. After that it gets a little easier on what you wanna build your wardrobe around. Get a good watch/necklace & other good accessories & you'll be surprised on how 2 simple things like a nice pair of jeans and a watch uplifts your style. A good brand I'd recommend start…
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:32 AM
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Oh shi ngl i definitely didn't read your whole thing but i don't think there is a "makeup" for men you really just gotta thug it out if you already did the other stuff
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:30 AM
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Aye man long as you get in the gym & take care of how you dress and maintain any hair/facial hair you'll be solid
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:53 AM
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Just cold approach bro
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:26 AM
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Seems like you got the spots down don't overthink it. Coffee shops, bookstores , target . Just take 30 mins-1 hour to approach at those places
/r/seduction23/12/24 09:34 PM
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Idk what you should say exactly but i can tell you from experience you playing a little too safe. Like i can imagine those type of questions being chores to answer
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:17 PM
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You're going to have to start a convo, if she's receptive just throw in a "btw what're you looking for on here?" Or "what're u doing on here?" & then when they answer with whatever just say you're looking to hookup
/r/seduction15/12/24 03:50 PM
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Same brother. It's always a few things you learn to tweak as you keep going but it's usually more volume to get in. I have the same problem
/r/seduction14/12/24 08:37 PM
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Alottttt of women your age are on the same typa time. If im being honest you'll be surprised at how often they'd agree to have sex once you just be a little straightforward about it. Success rate might be lower than if you were to go out on dates but if you are indeed getting matches it's definitely some who are down to just go at it first link
/r/seduction14/12/24 02:21 AM
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Gang you sound insane 😭
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:39 PM
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Bro tell me why i had a very similar situation this past weekend. Went out solo & sober , seen this girl at the bar dancing & i went to go dance with her. we're chatting a bit & hitting it off so i told her let's sit down, we're touching and conversation is going well. She then says "hey let's go to the bar" I'm thinking "okay cool whatever" assuming she's buying her own drink. When we get there she's like "oh hey i don't think they take Apple Pay do you have a physical card on hand and I'll Ven…
/r/seduction25/11/24 04:40 AM
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I only go out sober brother. One thing i recently learned was to CREATE IOIs. So a girl you might make eye contact with , do something to get her to react whether that be a wave , finger point idk whatever. Her response after that will let you know if she's approachable if she kinda swerves and looks away obviously yk what would have happened if you went to talk to her. So it kinda saves time and lessens rejections
/r/seduction24/11/24 06:04 AM
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As a young person it's awesome. Women look great coming from all different parts of the country & honestly probably a slept on destination if you wanna travel and have some casual fun or go on some dates
/r/seduction18/11/24 06:05 PM
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Okay bruh you didn't have to make it weird. I just thought the women didn't look good
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:18 PM
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Bro!!!! I went there with a couple friends last year. Was veryyyy disappointed with how there wasn't really any attractive women. Especially cause the westcoast tends to have some of the prettiest girls in the country
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:25 PM
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Yeah you're not ugly bro , I mean you can always work on your looks but don't think that's the thing holding you back when in all reality it's probably social skills
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:11 AM
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Nah u in there broski
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:18 PM
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It's no way you expected me to read this whole thing man. Cmon😭😭
/r/seduction30/10/24 01:25 AM
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I really have the same problem as OP. I gotta give your advice a go
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:35 AM
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Now im curious on what you look like dude
/r/seduction29/10/24 04:15 AM
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I don't think i ever noticed the dilation of pupils that's a new one to me
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:41 PM
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I can agree yeah
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:29 PM
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Anything that doesn't result in a date or number. That includes everything you just named also getting hit with the "i have a bf"
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah bro definitely has the right cards in place to jump in wherever
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:51 PM
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Nah don't do that . Apparently most women HATE when you send selfies or pictures of yourself early on
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:31 PM
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To keep the consistency going is in the consistency itself. What you're experiencing is you falling in & out of social rhythm . To stay in that state is going to have to come from constant approach
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:37 PM
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Tim brazeal is a pretty ugly guy, he look about 6'3-4 tho
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:25 PM
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Idk how old you are but uni campuses & coffee shops in the area are pretty good
/r/seduction21/10/24 12:56 PM
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LMFAOOO
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:08 PM
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Talk to people, Give compliments, Not just women EVERYBODY. Yes it's not easy but i promise you bro you'll feel better about yourself once you do so. Women can feel when you're not sure about yourself so take some baby steps and if you do that everyday or 4-5 times a week you'll turn those compliments into good conversations and you'll get some cheeks in no time my guy.
/r/seduction17/10/24 10:47 PM
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Man. You tryna dunk when you can't even touch rim yet. I think it's cool you see yourself slowly building confidence and you should keep going , but from what you're saying here it looks like you need to focus on talking to women in general first
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:04 PM
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I sometimes feel the same exact way you do but the answer is a lot simpler than you think. It's more volume . If you actually are a guy who dresses nice and looks good it's just a matter of time. Get more volume on your approaches you'll start getting dates bro
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:25 AM
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I mean obviously bro. I'm just curious on how successful people have been when approaching in that setting
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:28 PM
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Bros suffering from success
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:45 PM
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It's hard bro we know but you have to go through it in order to see success. Unless you're Chris hemsworth it's no other way but to get punched in the face time after time again until you get a yes . All it takes is one yes to get some momentum
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:54 AM
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Damn i feel like everybody needed to hear that bro
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:09 PM
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Aye bro i gotta ask you . How'd you escalate a majority of the time ? You sound like you know what you're doing
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:28 PM
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To make it easier , you wanna start interacting with strangers on a daily basis not just attractive women. you see that barista that you run into every other day? Ask her how her mornings going . Things like that, then eventually you'll start to feel a bit more comfortable & create some social momentum. Another thing is once you create social momentum you should start complementing attractive women with no goal of besides giving her a compliment, that will diminish your fear of a rejection a bit…
/r/seduction11/09/24 12:06 AM
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Talk to whoever's near by , man or woman doesn't really matter
/r/seduction04/09/24 08:32 PM
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You building that confidence and momentum up brother keep going!
/r/seduction02/09/24 09:07 PM
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Couldn't have said it better , everybody has to discover their own style of talking to women & what might work for this guy might go terribly for you . Just a matter of trial and error
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:50 PM
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It's gonna suck bro and you probably are looking for an easier answer than this but the fastest AND best way to improve your game is just talk to girls . Yes that's it. Experience is the best teacher but there's a couple things in mind that can help & get you out of your head . Start talking to people you come across through out your day . It could be men , women , elderly people who cares they build social momentum . Also it's a high chance the first girl you talk to in the day will be your wor…
/r/seduction31/08/24 01:11 PM
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I think it's cause you're going in with a script , even if it's as small as where you from that's still a small script , i think you should open with "hey" then read & react to see how receptive she is, it also gives you a second to process the situation a bit . Having specific questions in mind make the conversation feel very logical and she can feel that
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:39 PM
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I've realized how much easier it is when you just say "hey". it lets you analyze the situation for a second to see whether she's receptive or not . Also it's just not my style to lead with a super direct opener and I'm sure a lot of people also feel super awkward doing that. It's gonna take some practice but literally just say "hi" and read & react
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:03 PM
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I'm 23 i actually did this for the first time this week . Walked around got a girls number and literally just told her i was sight seeing , went on a date the next day . So yeah you can definitely get by doing that if you aren't creepy or weird about it. And i can't stress this one enough, GO TO COFFEE SHOPS NEAR THE UNI
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:04 PM
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I guess i don't have an answer for you there brother
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:17 AM
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I'm not a weird guy at all , i just have no idea how it's generally perceived as a non student walking around a college campus meeting people
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:03 AM
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