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| 2 | How to play it with a girl I dated | Logistics | BritishBatman | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:42 PM |
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| -3 | Game is keyA 30 year old going out with a 19 year old is fucking weird, and I will die on that hill. It’s predatory | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 10:46 AM |
| 6 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"By definition, the vast majority of women at 18 are not experienced in dating. You’re taking advantage of that with your experience. I don’t know why you wouldn’t want to be on a level playing field with the women in your life. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"It’s not about maturity, it’s about experience and similar interests. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:10 PM |
| 3 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Targeting inexperienced women is predatory af. And you’re only doing it because it’s easier. Why would you not prefer to date women your own age, with similar interests? Perhaps it’s because women your own age can see what you’re like? | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:09 PM |
| 6 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"You specify “dating” in your title. You wanna hang out with essentially a child for a few hours just to see them naked, you do you. But don’t pretend it’s just jealous fat 30 year old woman who think you’re a creep. There are plenty of men who share their opinion. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:31 AM |
| 3 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Do you only fuck someone based on their body? You’re doing it wrong if so | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:26 AM |
| 7 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Ok, would you socialise with someone who still isn’t mentally developed? If you’re 35 and your mates are 18, you’re a weird bloke. Given the above, why on earth would you want to fuck someone that age? You do you, but it shows a clear lack of maturity. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Stop using datings appsCrap advice. Instagram is basically dating apps on hard mode. If you're going to get off dating apps, do it to meet people in real life. I don't know why you would though. If you've got a decent profile, you should be getting multiple matches a day. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Stop Fucking Larping , like a chud be a naturalLARPing like in Role Models? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 09:54 AM |
| 5 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.What the fuck is going in that 8th paragraph; am I having a stroke? Also; you’re both acting like children. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 11:34 PM |
| 109 | Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it.This guy is mental, do not listen to him. Wearing a wedding ring 😂 fucking hell | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:47 PM |
| 46 | How Phone Calls Completely Changed My Dating Life (And Why Texting Was Killing My Conversions)What do you answer to the gender swap question? Because I’d just be out there having lesbian sex for a week. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 11:20 AM |
| 1 | 5-7 Matches a day but no dates...40 and your age filter is a low as 18, mental. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 10:38 AM |
| 4 | The quickest way to success with women is...Love the title mate, do you have an amazon link for your book? | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone using this dating app called "Boo"?I think I’ve been shadowbanned from hinge. Haven’t had a match in 3 weeks. Usually had 5 a week minimum. I got hinge plus and went wild on likes, so wonder if it thinks I’m a bot. As you said, it’s the only way to date atm, so no idea wtf I’m gonna do. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Anyone using this dating app called "Boo"?Breeze has been absolutely trash for me. Been on 2 dates off of it, and they were 2 of the most incompatible dates I've ever had. 30 seconds of talking before the date would have saved me the time of actually going on the date. There's not enough on profiles for you to gauge compatibility. And there's just not enough profiles per day. I'll be lucky to like a single one of the profiles they show me. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Rate my opener when i hand out my business cardWhy you saying sorry? It’s not particularly smooth, but better than not saying anything The cheers also sounds a bit pally | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 07:44 PM |
| 22 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?Been to Budapest 3 times, and been with 4 women. English girl, Hungarian girl, dutch girl and a German. Everyone here is right. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 10:03 PM |
| 44 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverThis is my exact experience on both Hinge and Bumble. Super weird, few years ago I was killing it on Bumble. Now have had 1 match in a month, but getting 1 a day on Hinge | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How to get a better dick game while single?Comes with experience, happens to most guys at some point. So don’t worry about it. A fleshlight will probably get you more used to it. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Pushing out of my comfort zone to meet women—any tips?Join social clubs, I’ve done salsa, mixed tag rugby and group singing lessons recently, made loads of new mates and met a couple of girls at salsa. But what is key us don’t go there with the expectation you’ll meet a great girl, just go there to make friends, practice social skills. You may get lucky and meet someone, but the purpose of all this is to build foundations for success in the future. You’ll improve your social skills and open up other groups you’d have never met before. And that’s ho… | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Frustrated with no hookups while in my mind there are things happening, people are getting laid.You’re watching too many movies or TV shows where hookups happen in bushes and alleyways, or reading too many stories on here, that are 1. Mostly made up, or at the very least embellished or 2. Told by guys who are very very attractive As I said, most are 1, so take them with a massive pinch of salt. For 2, us average/above average Joes are never gonna experience what these guys do. Comparison is the thief of joy my friend. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededNo chance you’re a 2/10 fella. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Genuinely if you dress well and are in good shape you’re well above average. I think the fact you think you’re a 2/10 is actually a big reason you’re not having any success. Obviously it’s hard to build confidence, usually it comes with positive experiences. But you’re gonna have to do it the other way around, most guys have to. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 12:32 AM |
| 8 | I genuinely dk why TF this keeps happening.You can’t be a solid 8 and have no success fella. Solid 8s could dribble their way into bed. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Finally beat my anxiety and cold approached. Getting rejected felt way better than regret!To this day I still think about this girl that was basically eye fucking me on the tube nearly a year ago, and I didn't have the bottle to do anything. She even got off 1 stop before me and basically stared at me as she stood up. So you did the right thing. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 03:59 PM |
| 8 | I Thought I Finally Had a Chance… Turns Out I Was Just a JokeThis is oneitis in word form, you’ll have other chances, with other girls. Learn what you can from this and move on. Perhaps the lesson is to be bolder, and flirt more. | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 08:08 PM |
| 36 | The Real Battle Every Man Must FightBtw Gladiators fought to the death very very rarely. So your Gladiator comparison is not only one of the cringiest things I've read, it's also not based in reality. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 10:12 AM |
| 150 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensUntil you are in an actual relationship with someone, do not stop dating other people or entertaining your options. Over the years I've followed this advice, and also tried the opposite. I've finally settled in a place where I only partly agree with you. I will date around as much as I want early on, until I've slept with someone and I want to keep seeing that person, to see where it goes. I've found still dating others whilst you're trying to work out if this person is good for a relationship c… | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Yeah, “did I tell you this already” became a common line in my vocabulary 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 03:32 PM |
| 10 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.I have found I have better early dates when I’m talking to multiple girls (gives you that abundance mentality), but after you sleep with one, and you want it to maybe go somewhere, I always find it’s best to just focus on one. You don’t want to be getting the girls confused, and at 6-8 you’re definitely making mistakes, or you’re a genius. I’ve asked a girl how her sister was before, but she only had brothers, it was another girl who had the sister 😬 | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 01:30 PM |
| 90 | The Exact Process to Master Flirting (in 5 Steps)Role-play: “Oh, so you’re the serious lawyer, and I’m the rebellious developer hacking into government sites. Guess you’ll be trying to put me in prison while I’m on the run.” jesus fucking christ. Have you ever spoken to a woman, or a human, in your life? | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Do this if she leaves you on read!It’s hard to gain massive interest on dating apps unless 1. They find you very attractive or 2. You’ve ticked a box on your profile that is very important to her. Both involve an element of luck. But I’m only speaking about OLD, it is different if you meet them first, as you say. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Do this if she leaves you on read!Especially on online dating women have dozens of matches they’re talking to at any one time, they don’t know you, why would they be that invested? It’s why I’m happy double texting (before I’ve met them). Once you’ve met them, if they’re still shit, then the above holds true, and I’ll never double text or chase. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Life does not have a reload checkpoint button - NEVER miss out on a romantic chanceAren’t we all meant to be outcome independent? | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Suddenly very successfulGuy’s paying women to fuck him, as well as a freebie with a girl who hasn’t fully developed yet, and he thinks he’s Casanova. I need this ego. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Not Sure if I (M21) Feel Comfortable Going on a Date with this Woman (F22)I've been on shit dates with girls who I fell in love with over texts beforehand, and I've been on incredible dates with girls that barely show any interest over texts. What I've learnt from that is to minimise the texting, and also not have any expectations either way. Anyway, if the date goes well, shit texting usually picks up afterwards. So it's usually just a problem before dates. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?I’ve dated and fucked dozens of girls I’ve double texted. My ex of 4 years, I double texted before we met. People have lives, hot girls get a lot of attention, and if you haven’t met them yet, you’re not going to be that interesting to them, they may just forget to respond. I basically always double text someone I’m interested in if it’s been 3/4 days without a response. And more often than not it restarts the convo. People get too arsey about having self respect and not doing it. I would agree … | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Yeah I’m in London, basically every single person here has it. If you travel a lot though, Hinge is also good | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:17 PM |
| 3 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?I got Hinge+ for the first time ever. And I have so many better quality matches now, being able to view active today and send unlimited likes just speeds up the process so much. Can’t speak on Tinder though. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 11:18 AM |
| 2 | How long a man should last in bed?It’s not about size or how long it lasts for a woman. As long as both aren’t too short. It’s about warming her up, showing her that you want her, but not giving it to her until she is literally begging you. If foreplay is long, and good, enough, you can last 5 mins and she’ll still be blown away. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | A first date idea I’ve been using recently which has some interesting resultsIs it a no brainer? If she says no the gamble the night costs her $0, if she say yes the options are $100 up or $50-100 down. The EV is barely above $0 to her, so why take the risk? | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 6 | How to smoothly reply to, "So technically you're like my son"Your mother/woman line is absolutely awful btw. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Daygame, every number flakes?Given your combative responses to most people here, and the fact they don’t even reply to your first text - I’d say you’re making girls feel uncomfortable, hence why they give you their number (out of fear), then ghost. Be more chill. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do we pick up a girl for a threesome ?😂 exactly. Unless that top of the face is a 10/10, he’s not “very attractive” | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | How do we pick up a girl for a threesome ?If you were very attractive, you should be able to do it in bars easily enough. My ex and I did it a few times, with some great girls, and I wouldn’t class us as “very” attractive. She just had mega energy, and we’re both good looking enough so it wasn’t hard. But from your pics, I think your fella could be the issue, doesn’t look “very” attractive. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 12 | 5 Proven Topics to Talk About on a Date That Build Deep ConnectionWork is a no no, it's fucking boring and will very rarely get her feeling. The fact this is number 1 in your list says all you need to know about the rest. I mean relationships? come on man. Starting to wonder if you've ever been on a date | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | How to play it with a girl I datedYeah think you’re right, cheers geez | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How to play it with a girl I datedNa, the first girl isn’t a date. She said she just wanted to clear the air, in the same comment she mentioned this new guy, assume to be like “this is not a date” | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How to play it with a girl I datedGames are also a part of this sub though. I’m wondering if I mention that I have a date to her or not. Not a confidence issue | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Word of advice guys. If she doesn't respond never double text..... everNa mate. I’ve had many many successes from double texting, i double text my ex so much early on, we were together 4 years. It’s not about the act of double texting, but the context, if you acknowledge she’s ignored you, that’s needy, just have a new question, or a joke, or meme, or anything else. Just don’t do it too quickly, give her a few days. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 01:46 AM |
| 17 | For fast sex you need to be escalating fastBoyfriends don’t exist nowadays? What are you on about | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 0 | She likes it rough, help needed.Increase your chances? Give a little slap in public, maybe a gentle choke. She’ll be putty in your hand | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 12:33 AM |
| 13 | How to naturally connect with hot girls - From Milan to BerlinWhat’s the advice here? Another brag on here disguised as advice | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 10:57 AM |
| 252 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)This feels like an elaborate way to tell us a girl a called you a greek god. Congrats bro. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 10:54 AM |
| 5 | Do men prefer 18-25 women?I’m 34 and in my experience just as many women 30+ are bad at communicating. People who are single for a long time, are often single for a reason, and you get more women over 30 in that bracket than you do in 25-30. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:45 AM |
| 3 | How important is mood in the approach?Well better in person, but as an example - one girl and I were giving each other eyes across the dance floor. I thought it was a sure thing, eventually approached her, as I got close some guy barged between us, then left, I said to her “your mate?” She laughed. I thought “I’m in here”. I asked her “what’s your name” and she just looked me in the face and shouted NO, then turned away from me. Her mate was still facing me and I just looked at her and laughed and said “holy fuck that was savage” th… | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How important is mood in the approach?I have funny stories to share from my brutal rejections. It all helps. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 05:46 PM |
| 50 | How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward)''Hey I think you are fun, would it be fine to kiss right now?'' Would it be "fine" to kiss right now. Don't like this. I think there's better ways to ask, if are going to ask. But I think non-verbal cues are better, asking can really take you both out of the tension in the moment. If you're not sure if she'll reciprocate, it's probably a no. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How to confirm a date without seeming needy.Just confirm you’ve booked X at Y time during the day. No neediness | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 02:33 PM |
| 0 | How to become attractive as a man?Should probably caveat this by saying you wrote it yourself? Feels a bit disingenuous to leave that out. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How to become attractive as a man?The guy posting the book is the author, so take from that what you will | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you demonstrate value?I drop a monster condom in front of them, that I use for my magnum dong | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Maximum age gap? Your own thoughts and moral standings.If you’re over 30, under 21 is weird. Many in here think if someone is 18 that’s fine, but as you age you’ll notice it’s always the weirdos that date that young. It’s predatory. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 11:06 AM |
| 2 | So I just messaged the girl on Tinder and she said ...Mate, your chat is woeful. Not a single one of your messages was any good. You come across like an arrogant dick. “Tell me why I should date you over other beauties” is disgraceful. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 19 | Wearing sunglasses at a club. Weird?It’s fine at raves, but a normal club, na. Be confident with your eye contact. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 05:59 PM |
| -2 | Sex Game: Slow down, Build Tension, Use your fingersJust using your middle finger, put it inside and apply light pressure to the top wall of her vagina (assuming she’s on her back). Just hold it there, while you’re kissing. Then, use a heartbeat rhythm (ba-bum, ba--bum) every 7 seconds or so (don’t need to actually count) then resume keeping pressure on the upper wall using your finger when you stop This is absolute lunacy, just keeping your finger pressured on the top wall does way less than pressing there on and off. You need to be pulsing on t… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How to be the person that attracts women?If you’re an 8/10 there isn’t a chance in hell you’re only succeeding with 1 in 100 girls. 1 in 100 is more likely for a 5/10 than it is an 8/10 | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:53 PM |
| 16 | How to be a F*ckboy in 2024, an Official GuideIn the short term sure. I’m 34 in a week and I’m pale as shit, but my skin is so much better than all of my mates who tan well/a lot. Sunbeds will catch up to you, and are really just for short term gain. And the cancer risks are well documented and much higher than most think. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 10:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop being thirsty?Never sexualise the conversation before you have been on a date with them, and probably at least kissed them. Teasing flirts are fine, but anything blatantly sexual will put a girl off. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Should you be a man of your words?He's asking if he should message her in those two days, not after, as agreed. Weird question really, why would you say I'll message you in two days, then message her, before then, gonna make him look indecisive and not self assured. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How many new girls do you lay each week?That’s 10% fella | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 08:10 PM |
| 13 | Do you mention your job on dating apps?I’m an accountant, but I put finance. Not technically untrue, but chicks dick finance bros | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.As Eminem said "I've never in a club, met a woman worth knowing". I mean I don't agree with it really, but if you're meeting these women in clubs, then sleeping with them a few hours later, they're not going to want anything more after that. I can't remember what it's called, but there's a phenomenon where if you sleep with a girl too quickly, before you've built comfort, they'll get a feeling of sluttiness, which obviously most don't want. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on this please so lost rnYou’ve never even met her. You have no idea if you’ll get along. I’ve had multiple girls I got on really well with on online dating apps then texts, then once I met them, the vibe wasn’t there. You’re in love with the idea of her, not her. You don’t need this much drama. She also sounds like an attention seeking liar, do you really want that? Do yourself a favour and block her. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Fair enough! | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 10:23 AM |
| 0 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.You in Copenhagen? The Tivoli bit made me think that. If so, where are you bowling for €6?! | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 10:21 AM |
| 4 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Bowling (6€ per game) Maybe in 1995 | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 10:19 AM |
| 6 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?I guess it’s just that our definition of emotional availability is different, I wouldn’t say stoicism is the same as emotional unavailability. But I get your point. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:35 PM |
| 18 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?By definition leading the conversation, and wanting to find out about her/talk to her is being emotionally available. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | I need help with Tinder or Instagram chatting,someone with experiences please!!!what is the background between us in the conversation? No sure what you mean why do girls respond to messages slowly, every 12 hours or a day? that's just how it is nowadays, some girls will be quicker. Just make sure you match her energy ie. length of texts and time between messages. If you're replaying instantly and she's taking hours, that looks needy, like she has things to do, whilst you don't. how can I emotionally make a story for the two of us, to get more reactions from her and of cours… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with UK tinder?Yeah you could be right, my range is 27-33 | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with UK tinder?33, have my profile on here if you want a reference | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with UK tinder?Oh absolutely they are. Well over half of my matches either don’t reply, or stop replying out of nowhere. You get a lot of on the day of date bails as well. Frustrating. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 11:19 AM |
| 2 | What’s up with UK tinder?0.5% date to match rate on hinge probably means you’re doing something wrong in the chat. I would say it’s usually around 10% - 20% match to date. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matches😂 | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matchesThe thing he’s done right is talk about her interests, obviously just poor execution. We haven’t really got anymore to go with than “hot yoga” since that’s all we know about her. It’s not personally one I would have chosen to comment on. But maybe if he wanted to tease her he could ask what’s wrong with room temperature yoga, or ask if she prefers all versions of sports in sauna temperatures. I dunno that’s a bit shit, but it’s better than his imo. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matchesPretend you’re her, what would you say to “wow” as an opener, I’m shocked she even responded at all. And the last message implies she’s lying about one of her interests, how would you respond if someone said “I bet you’ve never even tried what you’re saying you like, want to try it with me?”. It’s just awful | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?Even trialed that, with low success. Feel like a lot of girls just like the validation, and don’t want anymore | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:38 PM |
| 4 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matchesNothing you have said inspires conversation, and your last message is borderline insulting. Be interesting | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?(even if I get ghosted like 98% of the time) Not the point of the post, but I feel like this has really ramped up over the past year or so. The amount of flakes I'm getting is off the charts. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How many girls do you talk to at a time?Date - max 3 at a time Talk to - unlimited for me I’ve tried the 1 at a time, but if it fails I just don’t have the mental fortitude to not get affected if I get binned. I frustratingly only really have abundance mentality when I’m dating others. Once I’m 5-10 dates in, and like a girl, I’ll stop talking to and dating others. I still get dates muddled with 3, telling girls I watched the show they told me to, when the girl hasn’t even seen it 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women?I have a mate who is 5ft 9 and pakistani, he cleans up. He’s not even good looking. Just life and soul. Like I am. So I know I wouldn’t be a kissless virgin at 33 | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women?Married an ethnic girl? What do you mean? There is absolutely no way I would be a kissless virgin 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women?It’s not zero, there are millions of average guys with hot girls. Hell I’d say I’m pretty average, you can check my hinge profile on my account. And I’ve been with a few rockets. Confidence, persistence (as in approaching enough) and a sprinkling of luck is what you need. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 2 | As an average looking guy, what kind of success rate can I expect from attractive women?Well endowed means fuck all in seduction, they’ll only discover when they’re in bed with you. By definition by that point they’re seduced. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs?God that sugar daddy/sugar baby subreddit he posted on is absolutely wild. Fascinating read. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideWill any purse do? Or does it need to be a big brand? Am I talking to them, or holding them as I speak? | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:20 AM |
| 2 | What happened to this sub?This is the guy that’s 32 and likes “taking advantage of” 19 year olds, but has no problem with it! | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you care if there's an age gap in dating?I'm a similar age to you, and won't date anyone below 25, it feels predatory, even in your post you're admitting taking advantage of a 19 year old with far less experience than you. I'm more attracted to personalities of people that aren't over a decade younger than me. But you do you. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Met this gorgeous Honduran woman working a ride at a carnival yesterday but I'm probably ghosted already.Double texts are ok in very limited situations. Feel like you need to leave it quite some time though, then start up a new convo. I’ve had mixed results with it, I double texted my ex early on, and we were together 4 years | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Instagram is killing my GameYeah, I’d try and just use it to post then, rather than scroll | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Instagram is killing my GameI have Instagram, but I just don't scroll through the discover page, I don't follow girls I don't know. Just use it for people you know, and talking to them, endless scrolling is mind numbing anyway. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?It should change your mindset. Be grateful for what you have. What's the point in thinking so negatively about everything, it makes you feel like shit, it makes people hate spending time with you, there is no good to come from it. If you can't combat that by yourself, get professional help. Nothing I'm saying is going in anyway, you've literally just argued with me, I haven't seen a single word of agreement to me, or anywhere in this thread, from you. Until you face the demons in your head, rega… | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?You're coming across pretty bitter fella. I'm literally trying to help you and you're just being combative. I'm obviously not suggesting that women can literally smell emotions, they are just far better than men when it comes to spotting a general vibe that a person gives off. I can tell you from experience, both ways, that anxieties and insecurities are far more obvious than you think they are, when first meeting someone. People may not be able to fix being ugly on the outside, but they can cer… | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?You feel very pessimistic from your comments, that won’t help. Girls can smell things like that a mile off. Think it’s clear you need to work on your self confidence, is therapy an option? You see thousands of “ugly” guys with great women, it’s guys who don’t give a fuck and have confidence. Your height and build should fill you with self confidence. What are your photos like? I changed mine to professional photos/photos with mates a few months ago and I’m getting 5x the matches I was. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Just being tall in a vacuum doesn't make you attractive I kind of does though. So many of my girl mates say "I don't know if he's hot or just tall". There are a lot of girls out there who just want a big boy. Post your profile on here, I did it on the Hinge subreddit a few months ago and got some good feedback. Also if you think you're unattractive, maybe dating apps aren't for you. You're far more likley to have success approaching girls, where you height and stature is more apparent straight a… | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Hinge chat analysis and adviceNot sure why you’re being downvoted, this could have been a good save. Something like “at least you know when I pick you up I won’t let anything get in the way” But yeah, never tell someone they’re a standout. I do on dates with the ones I’ve been on but that’s usually after we’ve already built a good back and forth. And never ask about or mention other matches/likes. No stress though, we learn and improve for next time If it makes you feel better the standouts are usually some of the worst date… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 2 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)Ok cheers man, will keep this in mind for my next first date. I always wait until the end of the date to go for the kiss, which of course is sometimes hours and hours, I guess if you do it early you put her in a sexual mind frame much earlier and you can build on that. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)Try going on 5 plus dates a week with that mindset yeah doing this at the moment, and it is exhausting, find it hard to end dates before before the 3 hour mark, unless it's a car crash. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What Are PRACTICAL Tips For DanceFloor Game In 2024?What sort of dance classes would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)So after having met, and talked to, a girl for 45 minutes, you then go "back to mine"? Those girls are fucking regardless of how long the date is, and you're not getting the others in 45 mins, but you might in a few hours. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 02:49 PM |
| 0 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)You're rarely getting laid in a <1 hour first date, it takes far longer than that for most girls to feel comfortable/attracted enough to fuck. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 11 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)No dates over 1 hour. This is terrible advice. The best dates I've had have been 5+ hours. Why put a time limit on a good time? If your chat is good, it doesn't matter how long the date is. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | If a dolphin can bag a 10/10 baddie, so can you. Believe in yourself kings! ☝️You can’t be a 10/10 and date a dolphin | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 12:36 PM |
| 2 | I fumble girls by being too honest.Just chipping in to let you know you sound like a massive cunt. And clearly fucking stupid. Get some fucking will power and shut your mouth when you know you should. | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 11:52 AM |
| 14 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATESo the guys getting paid to do this know less than some bloke on reddit? | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 17 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEShaking hands is too businesslike for a date. Like that is universally accepted amongst all the big pickup youtubers and reading out there. | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 10:45 PM |
| 12 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEI honestly don’t even know what point you’re trying to make. Are you implying I have no confidence because I don’t shake a woman’s hand when I meet them? 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 10:43 PM |
| 42 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEShake hands? Wtf is this. Always at least a little hug when you first meet. Minimum. Do not shake her fucking hand | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | 12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men!Not sure on 12, just treat everyone with respect until they've proven they don't deserve it. Their status is irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 30/03/23 02:37 PM |
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