So I went on a few dates with a girl about 3 months ago, we stopped seeing each other because she wasn’t in a good place. Had therapy etc since and we started talking again.

She wants to meet for a drink on Sunday afternoon to “clear the air”, but she also said she’s now “seeing how it goes” with someone she rekindled with from uni. Now I know us; and I know we had a great vibe, I know that if this guy isn’t too far down the line datewise I have a chance. But I also have a first date with another girl Sunday evening.

So my 2 options in my head are

  1. See both, whilst on the drinks tell the first girl I have a date and can’t stay beyond 5/6. Thinking this might make her a little jealous or whatever.

  2. Rearrange the first date, and try my luck all evening with the first girl.

Thoughts?