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| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?Shape because the way fat is distributed is mostly genetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?To me, this makes sense. Some men are only sex material to some women. Some don’t know how to separate sex from emotions and fall for them, so as long as she is sexually attracted to and satisfied by her husband, he’s the real choice. She may have been quality, but only willing to prove herself to the man she saw as husband material. The issue is that sometimes a woman may give her all to a man emotionally & sexually because she is so in the moment that she doesn’t factor in the future, isn’t qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you think would be some underrated dating advice?Understand what intrinsic desire and reward are, then understand that the only way to avoid wasting your time is to deal with someone who intrinsically desire you enough to do what you want to do or who you intrinsically desire to do what they want to do. Most people don’t want the same things at the same time or in the same order. Don’t expect anything beyond what you’re doing to start with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are some men so entitled to sex so early? (my response in the comments)For a man to make you his woman is to treat you as an exception and a lot more men are aware that if your level of sexual attraction to a man is high enough, that you will treat him as an exception and through your inhibitions to the wind. There are many women who believe in sleeping with the “F-boy” quickly, but making a guy she may be interested for more with wait to vet him to see if he’s serious and to give the impression that she’s not that kind of girl. So, rather than to wait around to ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The Bait & Switch Explained: Why She Went From Hot to ColdYeah, most men rely on the boundaries of the women they deal with vs having their own | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 3 | The Bait & Switch Explained: Why She Went From Hot to ColdIt definitely for a lot of guys who finally have a woman with high interest and attraction. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The Bait & Switch of Female Nature ExplainedValidation is neutral—neither good nor bad. It adds positive motivation when coupled with good direction. Validation in some form in life can’t or shouldn’t be completely avoided—neither should leadership in my honest opinion. The issue with the partnership mindset from my view is that it often is presented duplicitously & can at times be somewhat void of certain peaks of pleasure. The same could be said about either side, so people have their preferences. I do believe that nature has its more n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | The Bait & Switch of Female Nature ExplainedThat’s more-so the nature of a woman. You may not notice them if you’re direct and stay on your square, but they’re there. I think it’s important for men to know the behaviorist baby leads to tests after the woman has already shown high interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | The Bait & Switch of Female Nature ExplainedThere are different levels of interest. Some men are cool with dealing with low-mid level interest women who will be completely logical about everything, but that doesn’t mean she won’t have high interest for someone else. The more feminine & emotional she is, the more the defense mechanisms are subconscious. To her, it’s not playing games. It’s a natural reaction to doing more than she can or than she should in the moment, then concluding she can’t trust the man afterwards for allowing it. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 0 | The Bait & Switch of Female Nature ExplainedWrong. It’s not about pretending to be someone else. It’s about being consistent with expectations you set until you’re ready for more. It’s as simple as someone offering something to you, and rejecting it because you won’t reciprocate. People come & go as they please, but simply not caring at all or using them up and spitting them out is not “just being yourself” unless you’re simply an unavailable person or a user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:06 PM |
| – | Why does it seem like less attractive people tend to gravitate more towards kink/fetishes and other non-traditional sexuality?From what I’ve heard women say, most doms they’ve met have been well-endowed. I didn’t ask so much about attractiveness, but physical attractiveness is one aspect of sexual attractiveness, and sexual attractiveness is one aspect of sexual chemistry and compatibility. Having mutual kinks can boost a person’s sexual compatibility and chemistry above looks if those kinks are rarer and hard to come across. They also make sexual compatibility more sustainable over time. For example, I have a foot fet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?A woman’s value or ability to pairbond is not based on her number of partners—rather how her emotions connect to sex and how she relates sex to you. A virgin could have had fantasies in her mind and a crush so vivid that her husband could never meet up to them. A non-virgin could have had 20 partners with 0 PIV orgasms to speak of them have multiples with him. The value is based on other things. But sexual compatibility & sexually submissiveness is a good basis to start from so I’d definitely ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Freud never excluded women from a Madonna-Whore complexI call it the Gentleman-Gigolo complex and talk about it a good bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?Going out sad is a slang term. You still have to put yourself out there. No way around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?That isn’t the only option https://youtu.be/QVCTx0BfS_0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?I will say that for me, personally, I didn’t get more money or more muscles or more social clout before I started having success with casual sex. It was a mindset shift. A big part of it is getting over a fear of your own aggression while finding balance with not overstepping certain boundaries. But get a good frame of reference on some techniques and it can work. Most guys aren’t as unattractive as they think, honestly. Just horribly awkward and exuding LDE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?Going out sad, as in being alone or with someone you’re not attracted to, or allowing the perception of a lack of options to give up all agency over one’s own love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How can men, and i mean the average common man, actually date/interact/have sex without conceding their terms?Concede your items to find a good coach to help improve your masculinity, sex appeal, and strategies at getting what you want because going out sad is not a good option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?Most of Reddit will ban you from their subs for sharing views that don’t align with leftist, gynocentric views, so PPD is a safe haven for men & women who share views that many consider alt-right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?For many women, they trade sex for emotional intimacy. They have to maintain a lack of desire to do this without being duplicitous. If they can get enough of it without sex, the desire for sex will go away; however, they still desire to feel sexually desirable. If a man gives a woman too much nonsexual access to him without giving her any validation about how sexually desirable she is, she will often initiate sex or at least the a sexual conversation to get the validation. Men typically have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?An attractive woman, who knows how to add value to a man, can get a man who has both good sex & good character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The societal impacts of legal prostitutionIt needs to be legal in America so that the narratives around what constitutes consensual sex can become more realistic. Most sex has some kind of transactional nature to it for most people. Dishonesty about this has pushed enthusiastic, non-negotiated, sober consent as the only real way it happens, which puts women at an unfair advantage but also leads to them being disadvantaged. It doesn’t take a woman’s personal choice away. Women often still handle sex in a transactional way, but are often … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?Offering less & expecting more can be off-putting. I say present yourself in a sexually attractive way and don’t leverage her desire for a relationship or being courted to get sex. Let sex and romance be separate until you know that sex can be a stand-alone, intrinsic desire for her, then let your desire for a relationship be a stand-alone, intrinsic desire based on the dynamic of your interactions outside of sex as you get to know one another. You will weed out women who aren’t sexually attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Fellow men, women don't say the truth because WE get angry when they doMen get angry at women’s honesty when it conflicts with the image women portray of themselves to get the man. If you make a man wait 3 months because you’re “not that kinda woman”, he will be upset to hear her “truth” that she had 2 ONS and a fuck buddy she was dealing with the whole time. If he made sure he was that 3rd guy before getting to know her, knows her history before getting emotionally invested, and she can make herself attractive for a relationship, the same honesty would not make a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Because logical and pragmatic men know that most emotional people are typically socially programmed with propaganda into their beliefs and will be willing to fold on them (or at least just hold them on the surface and be different behind doors) they respect and are attracted to. Expecting a woman to just come to the conclusion of understanding the things you value on her own is unrealistic & upfront, you’re not yet thinking about her being your future wife & mother of your children (which more s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultI know people who have cum from anal, men and women, who were hurt when it happened the first time because of their comfort level or the preparation. I never view being less sexual with me than the past as maturity if it’s something I want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withTypically, most people’s dating issues will boil down to their non-sexual and sexual attractiveness. A woman can be a great person & very submissive, but may not be in adequate shape for the type of man she wants. That woman will typically either get fuck-zoned or friend-zoned. Another woman may be very attractive, but have personality issues, that will typically lead them to be able to have relationships with either guys they don’t respect or be only sex to guys they’re attracted to and desire.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 0 | For Red Pill Men Who Believe In Relationships: What sort of women do you seek for marriage and LTR?Not red pill, but other people would consider me red pill, so I’ll answer. I believe in the Biology-First Approach, Sexual Integration, & Sexual Polarity. It’s more-so about ensuring only entering relationships where sexual attraction, compatibility, & polarity are established before a relationship or friendship are established to not blur the lines prematurely & be in relationships where I am not with feminine, submissive women who sexually desire me & follow my lead. Only dealing with women wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men cater to ‘female delicacy’ or females to the ‘male ego’?It’s mutual manipulation. Not all manipulation is inherently wrong or bad. It’s simply influence another person and yourself through understanding the Human Ego. Game is when you accept that it’s the nature of human interactions, find the bait that best fits your attributes, morals, find what gives you the best return on investment, and tweak it to be as close to who you really are as possible, then hope you connect with a person you can be compatible with for the long run along the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?If you can manipulate a man through access to you sexually, another woman, who is more attractive can simply come around, Showing pure sexual desire and femininity and snatch that man right from under you. FDS is simply long terrm sex work. Masculine men aren’t controlled by sex. We prioritize compatibility. Someone has to put what they want first. The person who knows and can give what the other wants after the fact should be in control. It’s the king & queen system. The king’s wife is the quee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Nice story. See, I’m not red pill, but for the sake of argument, both red pill and FDS are about maximizing your return on investment. The difference is, as a man, a woman being feminine with me is attractive. For a woman, it is not. FDS teach women to emotionally manipulate weak men, who put their desire for a woman over themselves. Your elk are so brainwashed by feminism and society that you really believe that you conflate leadership with abuse. The same way you say she may feel resentful and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I can’t and don’t expect a woman to come to me as a complete package. I’m good with raw materials and can teach her what I like. Children? Special needs? Your played out shaming tactics don’t work with me. Your lot aren’t even worth dick, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I’m a lifetime learner, but respect between a coach and a player doesn’t look the same. That tit for tat attitude would keep you off the team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I don’t care too much about what a woman’a ideology is before I invite her into my world because my program will not be 100% aligned with her perspective regardless. For me, my model is pretty simple, but it is nuanced and accounts for a lot of different issues that could arise in a relationship, so as long as she goes through the steps, what she believed before doesn’t matter. Many women claim they are one way then change in the presence of a masculine man they are attracted to and respect. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guyWhen you realize that treating women who are attractive the way you treated women who weren’t leads to them treating you the same way the less attractive women did, you’ve cracked the code. Yes, options are a thing, but scarce resources are more valuable. Making your validation and approval more of a scarce resource makes beautiful women trust you more. Women don’t trust men who gawk too much over their beauty when they add no other value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 0 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?You don’t know what game is and probably don’t have any. If you think that status is the substance of masculinity, sex appeal, sexual skill, and social skills (in regard to the opposite sex), youre ignorant of what game is. A man with game can get a woman who’s using another man for his resources and take advantage of them too. Actually, men with game somewhat rely on the naivety of men who think status makes them masculine so they can invest in women financially, emotionally, and validationally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipDefinitely true. Mods tend to govern through Misandry, PC, and ego much of the times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?It’s more about game, sex appeal, and masculinity than LMS. Those are overstated. There are average built, average height, below average earners who are slightly above average in looks, but above average in charisma & understanding the psycholgy of arousing women. A lot of them are the men with the most success with women for casual sex and sometimes for marriage Also, in smaller towns, being sheltered causes some women to not see many opportunities to successfully get in the swing of being hype… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Just because a woman gives a man instant sexual gratification, doesn't mean she can't manipulate him.Why do you think I give a fraction of a fuck about being the son of some random on the internet? You’re delusional. I have parents that love me. If you were raised with the idea of being disinherited over your head, I feel sorry for you and hope you get some therapy. That’s not healthy. And I fuck women who want to fuck me. Simple. I respect the wishes of women who don’t want to. If you see that as “feeling owed”, I feel sorry for your dry, crusty ass sex life. A woman is not entitled to my time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Just because a woman gives a man instant sexual gratification, doesn't mean she can't manipulate him.If a woman is going to attempt to a manipulate me , not that she will be successful, I’d rather it be with me getting what I want instead of the idea of it. If a woman manipulates you with a immediate sex, the same woman could drag it out over multiple dates, wasting your money. There are other ways to protect yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | How to ask subtly the men you are seeing if they are interested in you for a meaningful ltr or not?Learn to show qualities that make you attractive for a relationship in conjunction with showing sexual desire. Show both before you bring up a relationship. A man with options is not going to consider you are relationship material only because you are attractive or only because you had sex. Bringing up a relationship before then comes off as emotionally needy & makes sex feel transactional. There are subtle and less subtle ways to do it. But make yourself attractive for the outcome you desire. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?There's a primal aspect to sexual attraction. Making emotional connection or an extended period of time a prerequisite is repressing the primal nature of sexuality. Honestly, if you like blue pill men and enjoy your sex life, then that can be a very enjoyable lifestyle. I don't knock it. My issue is that more women lie about that being legitimately how they are than who are genuinely like that. i know through experience of quickly sleeping with multiple women who claimed to be celibate or sapios… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?There’s no guarantee that a woman who wouldn’t with me wouldn’t for someone else. I’ll happily take the devil I know over the devil I don’t. Too much impulse control with me is the biggest red flag. I next those women every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?You may just have extremely high standards & think you can’t. Or you may be sexually repressed. I’d take my chances with a woman who does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 8 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?100% agree wit what the guy said. A woman knows in the first 8 seconds to 5 minutes if she is sexually attracted. It will take longer to know if they are compatible for a long term, exclusive relationship. If she talks abut a relationship before we’ve had sex, I pump her breaks and if she gets offended at me talking about sex, I stop talking to her. One issue with the sexual liberation movement, for women, is that men with sexual options no longer want to wait, whereas typically only the beta ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:20 PM |
| – | Would you be AF or BB in this situation ?Some women will bait & switch sexuality for emotional validation if she feels you’re a beta male who thinks he’s an alpha male. I say don’t allow her to demand shit. Don’t allow her to feel entitled. But her desiring the emotional aspect is good and good way of establishing a relationship. Set your standards & reciprocates as she meets them & don’t get invested before then. Value her based on value she adds to your life & sex is not added value. You are giving her sex. She is giving you desire. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Podcasts you'd recommendhttps://youtu.be/2wOVBi6Jmx8 Check out mine. I do content & dating/sex coaching & talk about socio-sexual dynamics | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Commitment and communication are more important in making a relationship work than sex and passion.Commitment and communication lead to sexual polarity erosion. If success is measured by staying together, maybe. But in the current climate, sex is one of the main sources of divorce. Communicating your lack of passion and desire for sex without knowing how to fix it is a one-stop-shop to divorce or friendzone. Without sex and passion, you are no better than roommates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.I agree. Men can be duplicitous as well. No argument there. I choose not to be one of them. I only reward the behavior I like to see and always start with sex, so for me, there is no room to be sexually duplicitous. Every woman I deal with starts at the bottom and depending on her behavior is how she gets promoted. My responsibility is to properly sex expectations and to make sure that I am sexually attractive and sexually skilled enough to where those women are enjoying themselves enough during… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 11:20 PM |
| -1 | FWB Relationships: The Gatekeeping of Sex by Women vs. The Gatekeeping of Relationships by MenI definitely agree. FWB as a precursor to a relationship is a better indicator that a woman is feminine and submissive with a man, as she is giving access to herself sexually without requiring anything. That takes either patience or intrinsic reward. I believe a big issue in relationships is this idea of equality and both people being equally in control when this is often not the case. Starting with multiple dates or a relationship as a prerequisite for sex that a man acquiesces to is submissive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 20 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.Men resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it creates cognitive dissonance between what women want sexually and what they want for a relationship, so men who want a relationship typically are willing to wait and get to know a woman and are willing to spend their money, time, and energy during that process. to find out that the same women who men do that for are promiscuous and enjoy casual sex makes men feel like they are being used for their resources or emotional invest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 6 | Lol there are REALLY people that believe the red pill junk....or is it just a serious cope?I don’t care about mileage, but only because I don’t deal with women who would make me wait when that’s not what I want to do. If I was cool with it, mileage would matter to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop using toxic masculinity when it’s the only thing that works for me?Emotional discipline is important. Knowing your goal and what standard you want to achieve is also important. Stoicism isn’t meant to stand alone. Find outlets for your emotions and integrate who you are into your ability to attract women and positive experiences in life. If you like women who are feminine, being masculine is still how to attract them—however, let it be from a place of what is authentic to you so she doesn’t see you as a fraud when she gets beneath the surface—similar to success… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 08:02 PM |
| 0 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?I believe it correlates to who they have sex with & context more than body count. Penis equals prowess or provision. Being exposed to high prowess penis pushes a person who would otherwise be a preferred sexual partner into the provision box. Both men and woman typically don’t judge women for sleeping with women & still desiring a long term relationship. Both men and women typically judge men or women for being with many men, then desiring a long term relationship. This is includes promiscuous w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Meta question - For unattractive men, would it be better to never have had a sexual awakening at all?https://youtu.be/KOCwkbbel-U Monogamy as a construct is to sex what socialism is to the economy. Use law and social shame to Make sure everyone has some so that those at the bottom don’t revolt. This goes wrong because of the duplicitous nature of human sexuality. Women who choose their sexual partners through sexual shame and pressure will often still exercise the desire to sleep with those who they are sexually attracted to. the nature of women is closer to capitalism, so where there is sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:59 AM |
| 2 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?There are sexually duplicitous men and women. It depends on your values or how you break down dynamics. I don’t worry about the body count. I feel that for the most part, you either have to choose one of the two & decide whether or not you want to base trust on what she does when you’re not around or how well she treats you in your presence. With one, it is much easier to process her past being different than what you would assume from her appearance or presentation If you wait, you don’t really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Do drunk girls mean what they say?Some women are attracted to you, but afraid of being slut shamed, so if they feel you might be the kind of guy to not respect them after sex, they will only be open to sex under the conditions of either a relationship or.a circumstance where they have plausible deniability, which in some cases can give ammo to say you took advantage of them, I’m not against sleeping with women who like to drink or have rape fantasies, but I require that all circumstances not considered conventional consent, ther… | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts?Love every bit of this. I take similar mindset of judging what someone does in my presence and by some of these comments, I have a high count, but it hasn’t really been an issue for women I’ve been with. They saw me as experienced & trusted my expertise—were just asking out of curiosity. I personally believe in getting all the past stuff out the way before committing and starting off with the passionate ONS that doesn’t end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI am a man. Would choose sex without love over love without sex. People have loved me my entire life. I’ve always felt loved, but it wasn’t until I matured that I began to experience being listed and desired. In my experience, love is often unconditional (to an extent), or at least the conditions do not stroke my ego & make me feel desired. I once had a submissive, a FWB that I liked and she liked me as well. It was more than just sex. One time, I asked her what she wanted some dick. She said it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 03:22 AM |
| 5 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men.This is the wave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?That’s because you don’t know the difference between a sexual alpha male and social alpha male. A woman’s idea of an alpha male is often just a social alpha male who gains resources to have sex with women who weren’t attracted enough to do it otherwise. Alpha Fux; Beta Bux. I’m not redpill, but that’s the redpill axiom I lead my interactions, set my standard for investing in a woman and don’t invest my own money in women who haven’t already invested and shown me that they’re worthy. Women defini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What characters are you attracted to and why?I like feminine, submissive women, but I really like Mikasa on AoT. She’s very loyal and supportive. I love Issa’s personality on Insecure. I really like Tasha on Insecure. My type of woman. A mix between Tasha and Issa is probably my ideal. If she were an Adult, I’d like Uravity girl on MHA. I love Hinata on Naruto. May have to comment some more when I remember | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?Yeah, size has been a contributor in my sexual confidence when I’ve experienced the effects (giving A-spot, O-Spot, Cervical, and multiple orgasms) When I hadn’t had experience with viewing myself as objectively and subjectively larger, I had less sexual confidence. And women have definitely used girl inches with me, but I typically tell them the exact measurements if they ask because some women may feel it’s too big and some may feel it’a too small and I wouldn’t want to set the wrong expectati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?Im a blerd man, who’s a Dominant, and has a foot fetish. I lead with all 3 of those traits. & it bodes well for me & helps me weed women out to find ones who will get on my program. I mostly prefer thick, submissive, blerd women with pretty feet. Carving out a niche is something that can ensure shared values, common interests, kinks, and weed out women who are not interested in doing things your way. If you are able to develop genuine desires & fetishes for attributes that are typically overlook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.Incest can create birth defects that negatively impact the health and well-being of off-spring. Some insecurities have purpose and shouldn’t be overridden. That’s then point, but let’s say you and your sister are the last people on earth, then it would be best to get over that repulsion, which you probably would, so that the human race could continue to be propagated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Guys that are “emotionally unavoidable” aren’t to every girl but, to that specific person.A masculine man does not invest and open up emotionally to a woman not on his program. Sometimes a nice girl will simply give sex transactional for love and not actually on a basis of intrinsically desiring it, so her validational need for him emotionally may actually hurt her chances vs going through the man’s program. A masculine woman does not invest and open up sexually to a man not on her program. A nice guy will do all he can to appease her, and she will reqard his behavior, but if he star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.Attraction is based on factors that fit with our internalized understandings of what we think will give us the best outcome. It’s psychological and biological. Attraction being based on things that don’t affect you or aren’t in front of you are insecurities. Nothing wrong with insecurities, but that’s what it is. Visceral disgust to a crackhead can be a reaction to feeling they are dirty. Being drug addicted increase risks of diseases or the possibility of being a person who may steal. I’ve had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.Bingo. I have the same perspective. & the quality can be determined simply by how she interacts with you sexually without you investing money or committing and if she is still able to get attached to you in a way where she would want a relationship. It could be one man, three men, or thirty men & a woman could be feminine and submissive and excited about fucking you, or feel like there’s nothing exciting about it. Everything is in context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.It sounds to me like you don’t understand womanese and focus too much on what people say vs do because things typically work the opposite in action. & you have a right to your preferences and sexual values. Insecurities get a bad rap. I think that wanting someone on your sexual level or who aligns with your sexual values is natural. I also believe that with some soul searching, you could identify what is behind the visceral disgust, get down to the root of it, and separate the factors that cause… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Your sexual energy can be felt beyond how you present yourself upfront, but in my experience and opinion, a woman who isn’t open and actively desiring to be dominated isn’t submissive by my standards. Most of my subs have been women who are socially dominant & used being submissive during sex & with me as an escape from being in their masculine energy for work and their social lives. It looks like you want a man who is more vanilla. There’s nothing wrong with that, but in my experience women who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 0 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Your experience as a woman just goes to further prove my point. Good Dick is THE most valuable thing on the sexual market, especially from a dominant man. You say that it holds no value, but to most men who possess, your mindset would be undesirable. Either you haven’t experienced it, are masculine, or are overstimulated. If Good D holds no value, I would not have been able to do most of the things I have with women, as I do not invest anything financially or emotionally before I have sex with w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Your presentation probably comes off feminine, attracting those guys. Be more masculine and you may attract more feminine men. People focus on symmetry, but I think sexual polarity is more realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.And most women feel the same way about MSM that most men feel about promiscuous women. It is more about misandry than misogyny on both sides, but from my view, there is some logic behind it—being overstimulation (compared to what a person feels they are willing to accept or able to offer) and transactional sex, which knowing someone is open to it can make one feel that they may be in the same boat, and thus, not be sure if they are truly sexually desired. The two play into each other. If one’s s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.This is why I enjoy my relationship to sex. My lifestyle is more-so a BDSM-style 24/7 dynamic, so as a dom, ie woman placing herself beneath me is the condition by which she may be elevated. That’s submission to me. Knowing female nature, a woman will if she sexually desires or respects a man enough and values him. So, I just make it a prerequisite. If you’re not my Ho, you can’t be my Housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 0 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.Still, you don’t understand it will enough to make an actual argument for the post. So you failed. This is specifically a CMV post. Not a “do you agree? Yes or no?” Post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Yeah, but I focus on sexual integration and looking at the numbers game to not only get more women,but more submissive women by taking a more dominant approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:18 PM |
| 0 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.If you can’t understand it well enough to form an opinion outside of being confused, you definitely can’t form and opinion to CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.What other group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.And this is a short comment that shows even more how you don’t understand, but think you do. Nothing about this can CMV. The argument is simple. I believe the double standard is more about sex with men, while the general view is it’s more about controlling women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.There’s psychology behind it. Maybe understand why that is. Because having standards that are based on things you can’t truly know of control is setting yourself up to be manipulated by someone who plays into your insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Same https://youtu.be/ryoDy-3tUzg I have a YouTube related to this topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 0 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Your lack of positive sexual experiences is showing. Good dick is much more valuable than pussy because good enough pussy is everywhere. & the same way women work guys up psychologically, men can do the same, but such a small amount of men do that when one does, a woman is often infatuated with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 4 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.No. I understood. Your comment just wasn’t as intellectual as you thought it was. Just accept that you failed to CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 5 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.Dirty = provision, must purchase sex with non-sexual resource Predator = Power, imposing Those are just more misandrist interpretations of the terms i used And the double standard isn’t about women being unable to gain value, because a woman being bisexual adds to her attractiveness with the average man. Sex with women adds to the value of both men and women. Sex with men is typically seen that way for both men and women. For people who are very leftist or live alternative lifestyles, none of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:07 AM |
| 6 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.The average person is not super woke and nonjudgmental. I’m not on the body count shaming team, but the post is about the nature of the double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.How can you CMV if you DK yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | The True N-Count Double Standard Is Towards The Gender Someone Has Sex With— Not The Gender They Are.I made a list if you read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:58 AM |
| 2 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?We’ve had this discussion already. You have a gentleman-gigolo complex. I’ve pointed out the issues it presents. I’d take the hook up and be on my merry way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:57 PM |
| 5 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Same. I’ve even spent years of my adult life celibate trying to do the traditional dating thing. Not my cup of tea anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 13 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?While I may not judge a woman for her body count, I do see overstimulation as an issue. If a woman is at a place where she is not excited about sex at all, that sounds like a future boring relationship to me & I don’t want relationship or Scooby snack pussy where a Woman just gives it because we are in a relationship. A woman doesn’t “gift” me sex. At the very least it’s an equal exchange, but best case scenario is I’m giving her dick. It keeps the power dynamic in check | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 9 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?That’s another reason why I have sex with women quickly or don’t deal with them at all. I avoid women who don’t show enthusiasm about having sex with me. I don’t care what the reason is tbh. Because someone who doesn’t know you doesn’t owe you the truth of their life story. If a woman is just concerned with STIs and unwanted pregnancy, contraceptives, sexual health history, and/or testing can be in place. I knew women who were actively holding out for the very same reason with other guys then sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 16 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?If she’s not hooking up, we’re not going to date at all. I start with hookups. Feeling the need to say it is either a sexual duplicitous woman or a woman who wants to control the pace of the interactions through access to sex. That’s masculine to me and a turn off. If a woman is honest about her past of hookups and hooks up with me, I’d consider taking her seriously. She just doesn’t know better, yet than to say that goofy shit in the first place. I can have sex with a woman on a day one and sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?https://youtu.be/dj86TBjnqQc https://youtu.be/aXv-f8ff750 Here are two videos about this topic on my YouTube channel | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 109 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Most of the women I’ve dealt with on Tinder probably had no hookups in their bios. I’ve also had fuck buddies and casual hook ups with women who were actively claiming they were celibate on Facebook or even to my face right before sex. I love sexual women, but I don’t respect sexual duplicity unless it works in my favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub should know/understand game (but a lot of you don't seem to)I never claimed to be a chad. That’s why my initial comment is relevant. If I’m not a chad (well, I guess I have been a Tyrone) & simply improving my mindset helped me have significantly better experiences with women, then from my anectdotal evidence, mindset is a bigger factor than many other things when it comes to dealing with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub should know/understand game (but a lot of you don't seem to)You dudes with no game are hilarious. You assume that everyone has the same sad experience with women as you do. Y’all are no bette than women who have bad sexual experiences and assume that every time a guy says his fuck buddy had a vaginal orgasm that she was faking it. Your insecurities are showing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub should know/understand game (but a lot of you don't seem to)Not true. I went from not having much success with women to plenty and all I did was improve my understanding of women and developed my game. I didn’t get taller, in better shape, make more money, or improve my social status to do it and this was purposefully done as a social experiment for myself. I’m only 5’9” and ranged from around 165-210 during this time and never was very muscular (although I was already an undefeated boxer, music producer, and rapper) My notch count went up by 8x in a mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Dominant personalities sneakily justify their need for dominance using false human nature/religious explanationsI believe the idea if Erin inane hierarchies is prevalent in both nature and religion. If the people who they deal with believe them, they’re right. It is natural for a dominant person to mesh with one who is subservient and there is nothing wrong with the dynamic. I think it is more realistic for two people to acknowledge the power dynamic than to pretend they are 100% equals because the chances of two random people being 100% equals in relationships is more of a modern myth than the norm that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I’d be under the former, but not under the latter. I start with casual sex and don’t rule out a relationship. It weeds out women with sexually repressed mindsets, transactional sex mindsets, and women who have a need for control of the pace of a relationship, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I’ve seen a lot of dickmatizing & women experiencing and talking about having vaginal orgasms from penetration alone (like A-Spot and O-Spot; not only G-Aspot) in real life & women on here tend to pretend it isn’t a real thing to use the idea of men not being good at sex as ammo for insults when they don’t like a man’s opinion. In order to make arguments on why men should be financial providers, women have to push the narrative of the orgasm gap. A lot of men who have issues with women with more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?What doesn’t happen? I’m saying that the same women men think are frigid aren’t for others, so the women who are honest about their promiscuity should be judged more so on a basis of the value they bring outside of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 05:51 AM |
| 0 | “Unwavering Desire”In my experience, I mostly agree with this. But unwavering desire by my definition is a little different. Unwavering desire by my summation is regardless of her mood. Most men will want sex regardless of their mood to a certain extent. We should choose women who desire us sexually or who’s sex drives can be triggered whether happy, sad, mad, hungry, or sleepy. Depending on the level of sexual attraction and desire & a lot of the times, how the relationship starts and how it is framed mentally, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?I believe the false premise of thinking it’ll take 2-3 dates for a woman to be attracted enough for sex is what sets guys up for inequitable sexual desire in relationships, I suggest guys improve their seductive skills, sexual skills, attractiveness and get over Madonna-whore complexes. Plenty of guys encounter attractive women who treat them well, & are sexually attracted to them, but because she has a sexual past, they won’t take her seriously. Then, go be with a frigid woman who has been in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Red toe polish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?That’s very reductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Not for all men. I like to break down where the disgust comes from. I did some work on it, engaged in some open situations, and along the way I realized that it didn’t bother me when the situation started sexually and I knew before things move forward emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree. I’d rather avoid the latter and be intimate earlier on than to assume/believe a woman doesn’t have a past, be willing to wait because of it, then find out later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I’m cool with some of these, but I agree. I believe that a big aspect of what many women gaslight men about with sexual insecurities involving their pasts revolve around a few different things. 1: being open to things for others, especially who were not as invested, but not being open to it with the new partner can signify not valuing the new relationship the same or placing added boundaries from a sex-negative perspective, while manipulating a man to believe he is the one who is being sex-negat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?we disagree, but i like the consistency in your logic. And I will say that, for me, I used to view things in a similar way, and the evolution of my thought process has worked out in action to help prevent jealousy. it works more so from a perspective of shifting what strokes the ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 0 | How to Dread Game from a Strong Start?Let me introduce a concept--Daddy vs Father. Dread game happens naturally depending on your relationship dynamic and simply simping, but in a relationship, what's important is remaining her guilty pleasure and knowing when to reassure her so her cup doesn't get too low. If you over do dread game, she will get used to it or start to view you more as her strict father than as her daddy dom. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I’m aware of that. Most men are blue pill. I have my own ideology—the Blerd Pill. It’s expressly purple pill from a perspective of establishing sexual compatibility and sexual polarity power structures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I Prefer to make my basis of trust feeling that how a woman treats me is adequate to meet my sexual needs to where I’m not concerned with what she has done or is doing when I’m not around. I can trust her word later, but I don’t believe in putting myself in a position to trust someone before I have had enough time to observe their capacity is high enough to meet my needs or that I have had enough time to see their character in action. I don’t chase virgins. A woman telling me her N is too low so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I can understand your POV. We all have to choose what negative outcomes we can manage. For me, I am cool with missing out on women who can have a high level of sexual self control with me--regardless of their reasoning, which means I could very well be romantically and sexually compatible with some women but would never know. That is worth not wasting my time or acquiescing to the values of a woman who doesn't know me or owe me anything. The only benefits would be if those were my values or if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree. ofcourse a woman could lie about him being the best, but if she treats him that way and adds value outside of sex, a high N is really no longer an issue. depending on how you frame it, it could be even better than a virgin or low N woman. like in the case of if you wanted to open the relationship. If she only believes you're the best because you were her only partner who cared enough to try and give her an orgasm and that plays a role in her attachment to you, new partners are much more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?That is the norm. A man who is indoctrinated will desire to show a woman he respects her by not being upfront about his sexual desires. He may also have a madonna-whore complex and think promiscuous women aren't relationship material, so if a woman makes him wait until a relationship is committed, he'll value her more. but this value is predicated on his assumption or what the woman told him about her sexual values, which may be inconsistent with her actions and history and this is what contribu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I have a youtube dedicated to this. I call the concept Sexual Integration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?wrong person. you two or 3 are an echo chamber. I lump you all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Didn't you just say you will have casual sex with a man you don't respect? im not waiting either way, but in the context of this post, if a woman were to have waited with everyone else, a man would be much less likely to judge her past. The issue is inequitable treatment compared to the expected investment. It's a bad investment unless that is how you would date on your own. & chances are that if a man does not believe in casual sex at all, he doesnt want a woman who has engaged in it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?The context is clearly casual sex vs waiting if the guy wants to date her. It sounds to me like either being hypocritically sexually judgmental or only dating guys who she has little to no sexual attraction to as a form of control. Women definitely do not need romance to enjoy sex. Romance is good, Sex is good, but making romance a prerequisite can easily lead to transactional sex relationships where it feels like a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe a fuckboi is someone who lies to get sex and gives women a false impression of interest to keep it. I dont think most men can be more honest than being upfront about being sexually interested, because that is the first and only thing he knows about some random woman. But if he likes her personality and she likes his, there is nothing wrong with moving forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree. For me personally, it's like if you enter into a long term relationship with a woman who claims to be sapiosexual or demisexual then she cheats and says it was only sex. it subverts the expectation of how she expresses her sexual value system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?It's much easier to process that way and develop a different system for how you value a woman if you are interested in her. This has helped me engage in poly relationships without experiencing much jealousy, whereas I am prone to jealousy under different circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe in taking advantage of the initial mystery and tension, then sexually integrating her if she can get with my program and we want to take things further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Also, i have never taken a woman out because I was interested in casual sex or really ever spent any money to have sex with women. When i saw women as relationship material before having sex with them, it was before i understood how sexual women are. So for me, everything starts with casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?BINGO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?You're conflating two completely different groups of men. This post is expressly about entering into relationships with women who are not virgins, who expressed their sexual interest early on and how this applied to their ability to not care about said woman's emotional past. Youre projecting very hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Of course, if you are not sexually integrated, you've never experienced sex in tandem with love. This is the female version of a madonna-whore complex--a gentleman gigolo complex. if you only seriously date men you can control your lust for and pump & dump men who you do feel lust for, then it makes sense that relationships will be either predicated on sex or emotions. You're ignorantly making my point for me. If sex and love aren't connected, then how quickly or not you sleep with someone is pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?definitely agreed. I have both cared and not cared about a woman's N. This was a big factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I think it is more honed into the context of the specific relationship than past relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?many women who adhere to FDS view being more sexually selective or sexually duplicitous a "maturity". Far from it in the eyes of the man on the other side if he is who is on the side that receives less positive treatment while being expected to do more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?this is exactly my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?At least my clients aren't fixated on things they cant control and focus on the things they can. That sounds like a miserable dating experience on your part. You probably do need a coach. Good luck with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Money and sex are only closely related to women you encounter if you already have a mindset that that is where your value lies and do not possess it and seek women who desire a man to value himself in that way. A woman's value to me is primarily in the value she adds to my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?false equivalency. Women can be chameleons. the number itself isnt what changes a person, but the context and influence it has on a woman and whether your sexual prowess and masculinity are adequate for you two to be compatible. Most of what men fear when it comes to a woman with a high N can occur within 1-5 men and can quickly happen within a short period of time--STIs, Children, "inability to pairbond", risky sexual practices, a capacity for cheating, and being sexually inferior to her past i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Masculine is not always wrong, but look at this--the context is being fully open to casual sex, but not if she actually likes the guy. I don't go virgin and prude hunting. My ego is not attached to being one of a select few guys who worked hard for it. I believe in knowing that we can be compatible before I am committed. I can fuck a woman the day I meet her and still be open to taking her seriously. It's masculine to compartmentalize men into categories that you can control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?women pick up on judgmental mindsets and energy pretty quickly and outside of extremes, this is a set up to be lied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree. I believe that a woman choosing to be with a guy she has the self control to avoid having sex with is a set up. It plays a role in why men are less forgiving of woman cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?i said most. you may be an exception, but the average guy who equates money to male value and sex to female value is most definitely spending his time and money in pursuit of sex. This is the crux of consumerism. I don't believe in a man aquiescing to a woman's program and idea of the pacing of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I do dating and sex coaching, where men and women come to me and pay for advice, so it is literally my job to give a fuck. You are who is truly sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?i came directly at them with the "sexual bullshit" . It's moreso female dating strategies of quickly separating men into two categories and picking based off of their criteria in each. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?have fun with your beta males. Guys out here, including myself, find women that we can have sex with immediately and then build connections with who have personalities miles beyond your bunch. You call it insecure, but I call it leading. Just because you are incapable of transition from casual sex to a relationship doesn't mean that every woman has the same issue. A lot of it is preemptively rejecting yourself with the men who are actually honest about what they see in you upfront and probably w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe the misunderstanding here is that you think a guy wanting to date you without knowing if you are sexually compatible is genuine. No, he is naive about the importance and willing to follow your lead. Unless you're the type of woman who expressly likes and is compatible with submissive men, this is a recipe for disaster. Myself, as well as the other masculine men I know, do not date women they havent been sleeping with actively already for a variety of reasons. A main one is avoiding b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe this is something that really cant be fuly controlled or known, so i assume they all do and just deal with them according to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?What causes you discomfort? why? How would you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?What is a high N or how could you truly ever know? This is my issue with guys who believe in fixating on women's sexual pasts. There are some decent, feminine, submissive women who have bodies on them. There are also women who will pretend that it is not their past to secure a partner by playing the waiting game. I don't strictly go for high N women. Actually, most probably weren't, but it didnt play a factor in whether i was or was willing to deal with them. if anything, I probably was more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and the Laffer Curve.Money should not be your bait for attracting a woman in the first place--regardless of how much or little you have. It's a recipe for disaster even if you actually get a girlfriend. Learn your lane, learn some game, develop your program, cast a wide net, and only deal with women who are willing to follow that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I understand, but I also believe this can easily led towards being misled before a relationship starts if a woman can tell you are judgmental about common sexual experiences. I used to feel the same way, but I’ve realized that most women have and will have casual sex, so instead of not wanting a woman who has, and being willing to wait to be online with the POV she gives her history, I assume she has and don’t deal with her unless I am a part of said past. I’ve meet some cool women on tinder mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree, but most relationships dont typically work that way although it would be ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?No, just have the options to not be manipulated into taking a woman serious before establishing sexual chemistry. Emotional connection is not a replacement, but it is often traded for sexual access. That’s no better sex work to me, not that I have an issue with sex workers, but I’m not involving myself in transactional sex unless I’m the one benefiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?You equate a man wanting to get to know you after he’s had sex you as equating sex to love? But you make men who you “actually like” work for what the others got for free? That’s a very backwards mentality, but I understand where it comes from. That’s a set up for both of you having Madonna-whore complexes, so at least it will be equally yoked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?You have what I refer to as a gentleman-gigolo complex It’s no different or better than a man having a Madonna-whore complex. Those guys are dodging a bullet they don’t even recognize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Is this AF/BB? Does AF/BB need to be connected to money?Attention and emotional security is becoming the new BB for many women because many have their own money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe in being realistic. Things matter differently depending on the circumstances for me, so I opt for being treated and seen the way I see myself upfront and consistently. Sometimes men will give a woman a pass and respect a woman’s boundaries and comfort level to find out that she wasn’t like that for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Yep, looks like a pegged it. All men want sex. If he doesn’t, that is a bigger issue, but if he doesn’t know you and goes along with those games, there are bigger issues involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?It is, but I like to think about the why. For me, I found a thread between experiences where I have and I choose not to date that way anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Yeah, you’re one of the those types that would deal with a guy who would either be submissive or have a strong Madonna-whore complex, then complain about men being insecure. If the guys know and decide they’d rather date you, that’s cool. But if you do it to give the impression you’re not promiscuous or because you want a man to devalue sex and invest in you to feel comfortable when you feel comfortable for near strangers, you’re part of the problem talked about on this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?If you don’t care about her past because you personally like to wait, then you are doing the waiting thing right. Most guys wait to get it. If you’re waiting for your own reasons, you’re abstaining on your own, but if she were to be only not into casual sex with you, but was for others, it would be uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?For me, if she has already told me her past and she’s evolved sexually with me, then the past is something to laugh about together in my experience. Now, if you know you are not and could never be the best, then coming into contact with whoever you know about would be very uncomfortable. This is why starting off with sex mitigates it some. He feels less threatened by the sexual past because he is also apart of that past and if he gets into a relationship with her it’s for reasons other than feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Definitely agree. But most don’t.they assume it when they’ve invested in a woman before sex to where she wants to keep getting those things. She’ll lie to protect his ego or be honest later down the line when he sees the signs through her lack of openness to new things, or lower sex drive. Then, he’ll want to know if she was always that way & if she says yes, he’ll keep working on the other aspects of the relationship, but if she says no, he’ll be very distraught by her past experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?No. You are the target audience. Do you think that that prerequisite of pure sexual attraction and compatibility is what makes it easier for you not to be judgmental? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I don’t work that way either, but that’s the norm. The norm is a guy taking a woman on several dates or pursuing her emotionally for a relationship for sex in most relationships. In those situations, the guy may really just assume she is satisfied and is respecting her comfort and boundary levels instead of looking at things she is not willing to do are a lack of lust and desire on the assumed premise that she is not that kind of girl. I say assume she is and move accordingly and if she is not, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?That’s why I’m saying mitigate. It may not go away completely, but if they choose to sleep with you regularly without you having to add any other value upfront, it’s a lot easier to believe that she is fully satisfied if you enter into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Only a masculine woman is unable to transition from one to another. So if a woman feels like that’s all it is, she can stay in that position. But if she listens, we can take it as far as it can go. But if she isn’t attracted enough to me to be receptive to me sexually without believing that she needs to be reciprocated with a commitment or if she believes that sex means only sex ever, we won’t work out anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Not all relationship models are saying exactly what it will ever be the day you meet one another. Some people start dating through being immediately monogamous, some start through dating, some go on married at first sight, and some people transition from a hookup to a relationship with something called a program. I don’t deal with women who only want sex either, but she needs to have a capacity of desire for me to be satisfied with only sex before I take her seriously as a romantic interest. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?That’s a lie told to manipulate men. Attraction and desire dissipate fear. Physical attraction is not the same as sexual desire and lust. If you can easily fight it, you’re probably not feeling it. B | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?All of this. the guy may also not continue to do what he did to get the sex after he’s had it & encourages a Madonna-whore complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Yes, because women benefit from men believing they are not promiscuous, regardless of the truth of it. Most of what men do before sex is for sex. So this also contributes to women who do things this way feeling their man didn’t continue to do what it took to get her. Trading emotions for sex also negatively affects women& a man pretending to not being upfront about his sexual intentions to make a woman feel comfortable is exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I 100% agree with this. Sexual chemistry should be the default setting before wanting to get romantically involved on a serious level. The earlier and more candid conversations about our sex lives were (especially if she regularly sleeps with me without the promise of anything emotional or financial from me, is willing to try new things, and is getting a variety of orgasms), the more I feel that we have enough intrinsic sexual desire for one another that the past doesn’t matter. As far as with f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?This is more about reciprocal analogies than double standards. Men and women tend to be attracted to those who attract and have sex with women. Men and women tend to have an innate visceral disgust for a man or woman with extensive sexual experience with men. V=V, but P CAN =P Vagina is typically viewed as having inherent value. Penis is usually seen as either lacking inherent value unless it excels in power. Both men and women can tend to feel threatened by the idea that their partner either ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I definitely believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Let’s dissect trust. What is a man trying to trust? That he is desired, satisfied, and pleases his partner. Some men do have irrational fixations, but what often happens is men try to trade emotional investment or financial resources to have sexual access to a woman on the premise that she is not the type of women to be promiscuous. The fear of promiscuity is often tied to the idea of sexual competition and inadequacy—not all of it but some. For many men, if they know they are desired sexually a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I feel the same way. I developed something I call the biology first approach for transition for hook up to relationships. How early and how sexual a woman has been with me has played the biggest role in how sexually possessive I feel. Unless I know she can balance multiple men and me without breaking our agreements before feelings are involved, or unless I know I’m not at the top of her sexual experiences from the beginning, finding out I’m not after the fact or the idea of someone replacing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I believe that the comparative value often works like this—most male jealousy stems from feeling that how much they invested in a woman emotionally vs how sexually open a woman is with them is interpreted as a lack of desire if others got more for less. I believe on a small level, it triggers a smaller form of the fear of cuckoldry that most men have. Men who are big on body counts typically also believe that a good woman is one who makes them wait for sex. He’s making assumptions about a woman’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?In my experience, it is the difference between being open to poly situations vs taking pride in being a woman’s biggest or best (by her own admission) and then not wanting to lose that position to another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I agree, but what I’ve realized is in my experience, how much I care about the past directly correlates to what she does for me and how much I know before feelings are involved. In one situation, I could be fully poly. In other situations, I would prefer to be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of makeup?A beard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 04:19 AM |
| 10 | What do men and women genuinely get wrong about one another both here and in real life?Women think men are worried about body count, when it is mostly not wanting to feel that a woman you are invested in was more sexual and quicker for someone who wasn’t nearly as invested in her emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Even within an LTR non-horny sex isn’t enjoyable for many women and usually leads to bad feelings even if she doesn’t mean for it to — how do we mend this?Many people would not agree with this, but it is important that before you commit to a woman, that her mood and drive is more influenced by her desire for you than the other way around. When the sex drive is more influenced by mood and her natural sex drive, then the things that are done in a relationship will play a bigger part in the sex life in a negative way. The things that correlate to a healthy LTR don’t encourage that feeling of lust and excitement and novelty. In situations I’ve been in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Even within an LTR non-horny sex isn’t enjoyable for many women and usually leads to bad feelings even if she doesn’t mean for it to — how do we mend this?https://youtu.be/U5TsvJMAYE8 I personally believe that part of the vetting process is sexual attraction, compatibility over time, and sexual integration . But for people who get into a relationship before they establish it, here are some tips | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?The best form of trust is to base your trust on your realized chemistry & compatibility & get to the place where you’re so satisfied in your dynamic, that you’re not worried about what they do when you’re not around. After that is established, tougher conversations become easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?You’re so far removed from reality that you don’t know men live like this. I live like this. I’ve said nothing that isn’t true & I have receipts to back it up. I do dating and sex coaching. The only person embarrassing themselves is you for not getting the bang for your buck in your own sex life and assuming everyone who enjoys there’s is lying. Nice try with the shaming tactics. I already told you they don’t work with me. 😂😂 You’re laughable at best. I feel sorry for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?I look stupid but yet they pay me for it. I’ve been with many women & rarely has a woman known more about her body than I did. There are also women who know more about men’s bodies than the men they deal with. It’s anatomy and psychology. Most people like self awareness and exploration of their own bodies, By your logic, the women who I’ve taught are “retarded” because I taught them, but you’re even worse for claiming to know more about their bodies than them. You see the logic? No. You’re the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?I’ll happily take the opinions of paying clients and happy campers over yours 😏. Must suck to be a woman and not even know how a woman’s body works. Have fun with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 07:33 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?Your shaming tactics don’t work with me. I have too much experience for that. In the same way that elevated attraction and desire can make a man cum faster, the same thing happen with a woman. The same way a man can have a prostate orgasm without stimulating his penis, a woman can have vaginal orgasms (and from a variety of spots), without stimulating her clitoris. One of the primary factors in this is the level of arousal. 😂😂 I’ve been paid for this, so I think I know something. I get paid to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?That’s a little extreme, but I agree with it and understand it. Wanting Beta male or a guy who primarily offers emotional support and security vs pleasure, excitement, and intensity is not usually a malicious decision. Some women just haven’t experienced it to know they can & probably will with a more short term situation in the future. Me, personally, I prioritize the sexual chemistry before I go too far into getting to know a woman and making her think she will have any access to me emotionall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.This is more about the man’s choice than the woman’s. And you know when someone wants to fuck you. Let’s not play oblivious. Not caring how he feels about the situation simply shows your own lack of compassion. A woman in the same situation with me would have had that same conversation with me & if there weren’t any way of us continuing to be in a sexual relationship without her wanting a relationship if I knew it wasn’t a possibility, then we would end things or give her some time to let the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.If you’re the only one who decides it’s best you don’t fuck, then I question the reciprocal nature of those friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.Why would you want to be in the constant presence of someone who wants more from you with no desire to reciprocate? Like I said in my precious comment, if I have my own reason not to want to sleep with the woman, cool. A clear rejection can do that at times, but I’d say that if you know that their desire for you plays a part in the time and energy they invest in you, you’re delusional if you think you aren’t taking advantage of them if you have no intention on ever reciprocating that desire. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.Your definition is spot on with what I was getting at and I personally thing the tradcon girl and virgins are overrated. I assume they all have pasts, and treat them accordingly, and have slept with what people would think were tradcon women casually in the process by not adhering to their social programming. I think that men should see sex as a prerequisite before emotional commitment and investment, and then not allow the access or lack of access to influence their decisions as far as relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.Men choose who they will pursue and if they have to work for it, then they try to find a woman worthy of that for them—atleast with attractiveness. So the desire is there. And I don’t see making a commitment as settling down. Settling and deciding to be in a Relationship with a person are two different things. And the biology-first approach is about prioritizing mutual sexual attraction and chemistry ahead of developing an emotional attachment & weeding out women who either feel that sex is a tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.What I’m saying is that many women have this dichotomy where they will lose attraction to who appease and supplicate them, so the guys who she wants to sleep with are usually guys who either she wouldn’t want to be needy with because she knows that won’t put up with it, so when she starts to feel a little lonely or needy, she knows that a man hoping to have sex with her will be there for her. He didn’t lead with sex so he believes he had to prove his worthiness with emotional investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.If it’s dumb, then why does it happen? Let’s not gas light. I know women who do this, personally. More that do than don’t. That platonic friend is just entertainment and attention for when she’s bored or doesn’t want to be alone and knowing that he wants her and would be willing to spend time and sometimes money on her makes her feel desired. Similar to women pining for likes on social media. Although they wouldn’t want to sleep with most of those guys, they still want that validation. Similar t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:18 AM |
| 2 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.This whole post is about how that isn’t just a matter of money or gifts being the Beta Bux. For many women, that person you’re happy to see is the currency. If he wants sex, then he may be enjoying the situation, but he isn’t getting all that he wants out of the situation. If he doesn’t want sex with you, then it’s just platonic friends. That can be cool, but I personally don’t make platonic friends with a woman unless I have my own reason to not want to have sex with her. Sex also doesn’t deval… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.This is very disingenuous of you to pretend that the dynamic doesn’t exist. I allowed for the possibility of what you speak of, but if them desiring plays a part in the time and attention they give you, and not the quality of your platonic time, then he is wrongfully making an investment towards an ends and many don’t do it purposefully. I’ve developed game around this dynamic, taking advantage of the fact that women we’re trying to use me for time and attention (not money) and turned those situ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:07 AM |
| 3 | AF/BB is modern times is more about excitement (desire) vs consistency (emotional & financial) security than just being a matter of money vs sex.I think that the difference is that men usually don’t make long term relationships when they are settling, so the more honest men will make it clear that it is casual sex. In that grand scheme of the encounter, the woman can judge the situation to see if the sexual situation is inherently desirable enough to go that route. Because men usually place a higher priority on sexual desirability when deciding who they want to pursue, and because of the discrepancy in access to sex, men usually have sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 01:08 AM |
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