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Exactly! I love whiney blue pill 80s British music and angsty 90s/2000s rock (which often has heavy feminist themes when female lead). These will not stop me being a good wife, my SO likes them too, nor turn me into a lazy, domineering bitch. Just listen to what you enjoy, if your THAT influenced by song lyrics then you have some serious issues. I can never make out the words to songs anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 07:11 AM
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It's not impossible that he'll change his mind, but it is probably unlikely and you won't be able to change it for him. If you really want to be with him, more than you want marriage, then deal with it and don't pressure him. If you really need marriage, more than you need him, then you'll have to leave and pursue this with someone else. The situation is very difficult now because if you've been together so long. If you do leave (I wouldn't really recommend this but it's a very personal, emotion…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 10:13 AM
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Yes, there's definitely nothing that can just fix the issue unfortunately, it's always a case of limitation rather than removal.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 10:54 PM
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I wouldn't put moisturiser directly on dark circles, that will create bags/puffiness to go with the darkness. In the eye area, you really need eye-specific products. Obviously moisturiser is good for the rest of your skin though. I didn't know fillers worked for dark circles I may look into that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 10:22 PM
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I have the same problem, I sleep plenty and drink a lot of water but they're still pretty bad (there may be a link to asthma which I have). Garnier do an under-eye roll on which I've found to be the best thing for me. Much better than eye cream. They do a version with concealer built in but I get the plain one so I can apply it morning and night. http://www.superdrug.com/Garnier/Garnier-Nutritionist-Caffeine-Eye-Roll-On-15ML/p/463132?gclid=CLKk-uKs_sQCFacSwwodvI8Abg&gclsrc=aw.ds It's a UK site b…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 10:17 PM
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Oh right, thank you, I missed that somehow!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 11:27 PM
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I'd never dare speak so disrespectfully to my SO, I thought drama was a bad thing. I thought being disrespectful was shit testing and usually bad. I'm very confused, could someone please explain what I'm not understanding correctly?
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 09:32 PM
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Promiscuity makes a bad female parter, it's not really the same for men. Many of the ladies here prefer men who have never been promiscuous, but that's due to their personal values and not inherently RP (which often encourages male promiscuity). I'm afraid I don't really have any advice for your specific situation. It's unusual for non-religious men to be prepared to wait all the way until marriage, especially when you're so young that it'll probably be a few years away. It's a major lifestyle c…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 10:43 PM
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You need to think about whether you really, honestly think he can pull himself out of this (only he can really initiate change and help himself). If so, then stay with him and be supportive. But if not then you absolutely should leave. I don't know him so I can't answer this for you. Also, the ladies here are just looking out for you and giving their honest advice, don't take it personally, they don't hate your boyfriend!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 05:16 PM
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In general, don't give him advice. If he asks directly then of course offer help but give him gentle suggestions, not instructions ("how about trying..." vs "do this/go here"). Don't nag if he doesn't take your advice. Ultimately, a man has to learn to stand on his own two feet and you cannot carry his weight. All you can do is provide a soft place to land and an escape from the negativity in his life. Keep cooking/cleaning for him, be submissive, pleasant and upbeat. Do not add to his stresses …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 01:53 PM
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We met when we were both 18 through mutual friends. We were together 4 years before moving in together, 5 before getting engaged and almost 6 before getting married. We met before university and then went to different universities (we were close enough to see each other every weekend but not to live together). We moved in pretty much straight away after graduating. I wasn't at all RP when we met. I was naturally fairly submissive in relationships but could be loud, bossy with others and a little…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 07:43 PM
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This is a great idea! If you keep reminding yourself and checking your facial expression, your habits will eventually change. Smiling more and eliminating resting bitch face was the main appearance improvement that my SO noticed and commented on. He regarded it as far bigger than changes in clothing and makeup, which he barely noticed consciously.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 08:22 AM
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Assuming you're not a troll, are you sure you're on the right sub? You don't seem to have even attempted to understand even the most basic parts of the red pill. I know there's a lot of theory and info and it takes a long time to really internalise and implement everything but here are a few very easy to grasp basics that you need for your situation: Do not have sex without commitment, by which I mean monogamy and a man who isn't afraid to call you his girlfriend or similar in public. I don't sa…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 10:02 AM
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Yay :) it's nice to hear the success stories, in a sub that can be so full of people asking for help. I keep meaning to write an FR of how this sub has helped me over the past 15 months or so. Not only has it done wonders for an already decent relationship, it's really helped me become happy with myself as a woman and understand my sexuality and place in the world (which is what I was really looking for when I came here). Well done for putting the effort in! It's one thing to read and agree that…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 05:34 PM
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Yea I'd definitely get her to look at this sub, I'm glad she's the sort to be open to it and not just go 'aaaarrgh evil misogyny'. I'd also advise posts tagged girl game at the Red Pill Room (which is generally female friendly) and The Rules Revisited is a great site for single women looking to up their value for an LTR. The Red Pill Room: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.co.uk/ The Rules Revisited: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 12:02 AM
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Is she asking for your advice? If not, I'd be careful about giving it to her unsolicited. If so, would she be receptive to this sub? This would be a great place for her to get info, especially the sidebar, top posts of all time and advice from the mods/endorsed contributors. With regard to previous partners, unless she's looking for a very religious guy, most will expect a 26 year old to have some experience, it would be a bit odd if she didn't. However, casual dating, especially with sex, is no…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 11:37 PM
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I don't have kids yet, but I definitely think getting them to help out is a good idea. Not only is it a genuine help to the adults but it's only fair that they do their bit when they live in the house and it teaches them useful skills and a good attitude towards domestic work. I was always made to do my share growing up, when I went to university I was shocked and appalled at how many people had never washed clothes or used a hoover.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 05:59 PM
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I agree that men should be able to take care of themselves and a household, including cleaning etc. However, I feel that men and women are different and generally suited to different tasks. I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, or that either sex should be unable to take care of themselves. In the couples that I know (which maybe aren't representative of all people) either the work is divided along reasonably traditional lines or the situation is a mess with lots of arguing over housework. Men…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 05:50 PM
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This makes sense, jobs are divided generally and everyone just gets on and does what needs doing. I've seen so many unhappy couples fight over whose night it is to wash up the dishes and the fine details over who has done more on each specific day. Often, the woman starts claiming that the man is using male privilege because he isn't doing cleaning, despite the fact he's done gardening or fixed the computer or whatever. The word housework is used to refer only to tasks traditionally undertaken b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 05:33 PM
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Thank you :) I thought it might be that but wasn't sure.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 05:14 PM
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All this talk of compromise and equal division of power and splitting all the household tasks up one by one. I tried this, it did not work. Most couples I know claim they do things this way but if you actually observe them, many have a far more traditional dynamic than they care to admit. The rest just fight all the time and have terrible relationships/home lives with no respect.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 05:03 PM
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I can never understand how people stop keeping themselves looking nice and stop dressing up for dates just because they're in an LTR. I'm more motivated because I know that during any off period, he will see me, I can't just say 'oh well, not going to try to attract anyone today'. I'm working really hard on my language, but it's been very slow progress. I've come a long way but it's taken me two years to make noticeable progress, despite being able to change other attitudes/thought patterns quit…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 04:55 PM
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1000x this! My mum calls my SO 'the immoveable object' (in a nice way). He will change his mind if he wants to, but it has to come from him. No amount of persuading, arguing, nagging or bullying from anyone will change it for him. It's a very attractive quality and he has this clever ability to stand up for himself by doing virtually nothing, he can shut someone down with seemingly very little effort and without even making them angry. I have no idea how he figures out what to do in each situati…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 08:42 PM
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Lots of women on here are in marriages where both people settled down young, I recently got married and we're both 23 (we met nearly 6 years ago at 18.) A potential problem is that, due to his age, he may want to delay marriage and kids much longer than you do, if SO and I met now, I doubt we'd wait over 5 years to tie the knot. I'm speaking in generalisations here, but a lot of men won't really want to make a life long commitment to a woman who is older than them (http://www.therulesrevisited.c…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 12:07 PM
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Just googled that to see what it was and the first thing I read was a trigger warning, which says a lot. I doubt those boys are predators, they probably didn't go out to parties looking for passed out girls. They were opportunists taking advantage of a situation so they could act like dickhead teenagers.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 02:48 PM
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Ah look a voice of reason! Being on the register is going to follow those boys forever, their career prospects (and therefore general life chances) have gone through the floor. I hate this idea that if someone does something to you that is even close to sexual assault (which where I live includes grabbing a girls bum through her clothes) then your life I ruined. I was raped when I was 14, as in violence and forcible restraint were involved. This has not ruined my life! I stole my parents' booze …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 02:16 PM
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I found this confusing for ages too but the thing is, women just need to have realistic standards to find someone of the right level. If you're a 6 who's only attracted to 9s, then you're unlikely to find anyone and need to adjust your standards. This is your problem that you need to work on yourself, improving your own value where you can and setting your sights realistically. Don't enter a relationship with someone you're not attracted to and then hope you can make it work. Others, seek the st…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 09:09 AM
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I suspect you'll get quite a diverse range of opinions on this. I personally think it's a very bad road for a woman to go down, there are a lot of risks to health and safety and from what I've seen/read there is often a serious impact in emotional wellbeing (it must heavily damage a woman's marriage market value). However, I think it's up to people to make their own decisions and take care of themselves. As long as the sex workers are offering their services willingly, I think the customer shoul…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 12:49 PM
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This sounds just like my ex and you absolutely did the right thing. The unwillingness to see you when you live so close, the melodrama in believing he can never have a good life, all sound just like my ex. I felt upset all the time and started acting in ways I'm really not proud of. He was not only screwed up but he had clearly chosen to be so. I never really figured him out. About a year later, I met my husband. He was so different, there was never any hint that he'd treat me like that. A good …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 11:36 AM
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The British stereotype of Americans is loud and obnoxious, very friendly but then quick to anger and turn aggressive/sassy. We are much more reserved here and less comfortable with conflict and speaking our minds. I know that stereotypes are obviously gross generalisations. Family systems have broken down pretty badly here too, SAHMs and housewives are often vilified and seen as scroungers, even when the family unit supports itself. My mum had a problem with this as far back the early 90s, peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:10 AM
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Yes I have one pair of these but I should really get some more, there's snow outside and I'm wearing 40 deniers.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 08:47 AM
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That HabitRPG sounds amazing, I will look into that, thanks for the tip! Edited to add that I will also look into fleece leggings, rather than just freezing my legs in tights all winter.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 08:12 PM
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I really like this concept, I need to remind myself that it's okay for change to be gradual, especially if it means it more likely to last. Thanks for posting this! For the last several months I have been putting on makeup and accessories everyday, even if I'm not going anywhere interesting. I have also learned to cook by making proper meals from scratch several times a week (I never did this before). I have vastly improved the state of the house by doing a daily housework session. For the last …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 08:10 PM
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Don't just stop trying to stop him doing things you dislike, stop disliking those things. You probably can't just turn it off over night, but while you're calming down, just try really hard to let it go and tell yourself you're being silly. Eventually, you'll stop getting angry in the first place and it will happen faster than you think. This worked really well for me, I used to feel angry with my SO over stupid stuff all the time. Now, it only happens very occasionally and I can control it so i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 12:31 PM
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It is difficult at first but becomes much easier as you work on yourself (what's inside, not just the image you think you project to him). If it's not a big enough issue to end the relationship over, then it's probably not worth being angry about. If you feel yourself getting angry over something silly, then take a break to calm down. Think about something else, go and do something productive. Take some deep breaths and tell yourself to let it go. I don't mean push it the back of your mind, addr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 12:46 AM
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I second the birth control thing, especially you're on one based on progestogen (I think this might have different names in different places, basically it's the mini pill (not the usual combi one), the injections, implant, the coil that has hormones in and probably some others too). This stuff gave me serious problems with mood swings, to the point where I started messing up things in my life, and also killed my sex drive and gave me migraines. I have a friend who was affected so badly she start…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 10:45 AM
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I'm English too. Beauty standards definitely differ from those of the USA and also amongst the English regions. Where I live, girls start wearing makeup between 11 and 14 and if you're 16 and not wearing it daily, your seen as weird. Every man I speak to about it is quite open about the fact that tasteful makeup makes a woman look more attractive. I used to visit the South East regularly and was shocked by all the unmade faces (and greasy hair and hippy clothes). What I hear from the US is very …
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 04:32 PM
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It took me months to get this; my SO would get annoyed because he tells me exactly what he likes and expects and I was resisting for random, arbitrary reasons which I didn't even explain. I kept thinking, 'why can't he see I'm being the woman that he wants?' instead of listening to what he actually wanted. I would go along with his requests but I would resist initially and then worry that he was making me a bad woman, rather than being genuinely supportive and happy. I actually was concerned tha…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 02:37 PM
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I really recommend menstrual cups too (where I live, Mooncup is the main brand and is pretty good). Once you get used to them, they are far more comfortable than tampons and would still be my preferred method even if they cost more or were more wasteful than tampons. It didn't take me long to get the hang of using them and I'm terrible at using new hygiene or cosmetic problems. Just a warning though, some people find them to be really very unacceptable and see them as horribly unclean. This isn'…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 11:53 AM
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From what you've said about your SO's jokes etc., it sounds like he's happy enough with the situation. As long as you're sure this really is the case (does he always communicate his opinions openly? Have you ever given him reason to feel he can't?) then there isn't a big problem. If I understand correctly, when in a LTR it's best not to think 'what is the RPW thing to do?' But instead 'what does my SO want/need from me?' It doesn't matter if you aren't doing the typical RP thing, as long as your…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 10:48 AM
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If your SO says that's how his family is then trust him. It's easier for women to lose perspective and worry unnecessarily; that's the advantage of a strong captain, they ground you and guide you but you have to trust and respect their judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 03:15 AM
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You say you aren't from a large or close family and that could be a factor. Both my husband and I come from very close families, not just parents and siblings but extended family as well. We are always doing all kinds of things to help each other out, it's not about feeling needed, it's just what we do. This is a fantastic thing and something that really seems to be disappearing from the Western World. Don't try and compete with your FMIL. Being competitive is not an attractive attribute in a wo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:47 AM
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