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If that's your common and usual experience, I wonder what kind of women you hang out with and how old you all are. My experience here is rather different Chef's kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:13 PM
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There certainly are women like that. But equally, there are women who are not. Jesus. Take a stand and say something for once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:11 PM
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It wasn't though. It's been studied frequently that more choice doesn't equate to more satisfaction. Not that we even need a study. It's rational and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:59 PM
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The OP was not about calling out men for bad behavior. It was about men's "issues."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:51 PM
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If you are committing your future, promising to be faithful to them, to bear their children, in sickness and in health, till death us do part, you had better be bloody picky. Again, you don't seem to understand how choice works. Women 60 years ago *couldn't* be pickier. Regardless of what you think is logical, the playing field was vastly different. Trying living in reality for once. If you make your own money, don't intend to merge finances, don't intend to have children, and don't intend to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:46 PM
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Equating food selection to innate biological preferences is indeed the stupidest thing I've seen on this sub today. And that's saying a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:42 PM
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Her claim was silly. The corollary that people with more choice would therefore automatically be happier is wrong, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:33 PM
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Nobody made such a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:17 PM
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Videos still provide more proof than just “It happens bruh! Trust me!” A video of what? A man calling out a friend? I can do that this weekend If you'd like. It won't change you're mind at all but it can be done. Understanding the opposite gender is not that hard. Then why don't you? WRONG. What happens is that a bunch of guys try to project their personal stuff onto everyone else. What's funny is how stupid you are to go along with your disagreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:16 PM
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Try providing an argument rather than a mere denial. The argument is that people are far picker today than ever and it's obvious as to why. If you needed to get married 50 years ago you had far less reason to be picky. You made the best choice you could. Today you have far more choice, far less need and far less social stigma. Ergo, people can afford to be far more picky. Simple common sense that some people can't understand for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:13 PM
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Again, you're off in left field. These are all logical reasons why someone *might* be happier but in reality they're not. Treating relationships like a salad buffet may sound great but in reality it damages people leaving them far less happy down the line. Living frivolous lives with easy opt-outs may sound terrific but it mostly turns out that people have innate subconscious needs and these new norms don't meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:56 PM
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If relationships are mere leisure, you need not be so picky, as you can be simply chop and change whenever you fancy. This is obviously, objectively, untrue. People are far pickier today than ever before and it's common sense as to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:41 PM
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People are happier not being forced into roles they don’t want You're underestimating the subconscious. Do people seem happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:37 PM
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Women think being able to observe human behavior is misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:30 PM
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but I am able to actually provide proof of the things I’m talking about and you guys aren’t. Imagine thinking that you can provide data/proof for an intangible thing that has no actual data. Women don't understand men and that is reinforced around here every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:26 PM
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Imagine going through life being this dumb and unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:23 PM
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Women aren’t a monolith LOL. Embarrassing. and I’m really not sure what you’re basing this off of Being a rational human being with eyes and ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:18 PM
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It isn't universally demonstrated as far as I'm aware Because you're a clueless woman. That's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:16 PM
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This huge success story of feminism would not have been possible without a critical mass of men who supported their cause, contradicting the feminist narrative that men universally hate women and do not want them to have rights. And this is just objectively obvious given that in the past, might made right. Whomever was the strongest would therefore impose themselves on the rest of the population. Equality would be literally impossible without the support of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:06 PM
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The proof is that we're men who participate in make spaces and understand how men think/operate. You're some teenage girl who knows nothing about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:04 PM
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Men call each other out all the time, they don’t need a Wikipedia article to do it. This is by far one of the dumbest things women do here. They need a citation for everything. Probably because they're so clueless and lack instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:03 PM
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*women* shame men for it. Men just do it openly. Women do it internally and in their divorce filings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:57 AM
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Anyone who needs sources for the sky being blue is the idiot. Men are universally understood as being more direct and better at giving advice. Men actually attempt to solve problems. Women don't. Men lean on their friends to give them *real* advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:50 AM
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Because they know that *women* filter hard for it. The man is still attracted, able and willing. But he's not going to invest in a flake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:51 AM
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Because women, literally all the time, pick masculine and emotionally unavailable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:47 AM
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Because women, literally all the time, pick masculine and emotionally unavailable men. And get outta here with emotionally available. A man who cries 24 times a year is not emotionally available. He's a puddle of mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:46 AM
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Asking for proof for universally demonstrated behaviors is the litmus test around here for stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:40 AM
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Never said it was a choice You said you hoped people become more open-minded, ie, they can change their preferences. Absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:27 AM
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Because me understand that women filter for height more than almost anything else. Again, no man has ever disqualified a women because she was taller than him or "too tall."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:26 AM
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The fact that you're asking for sources for a universally understood phenomenon proves who clueless you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:23 AM
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Like every male friend group, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:22 AM
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Men constantly call each other out. Geez, this sub is so stupid. Yet another example of "men need to start being harder on each other because it's not a woman's fault!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:37 PM
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Well you're actually thinking wrong then. No, I quoted you word-for-word. I could say the same thing about men but that gets us nowhere. I tend to actually answer questions and come down on a side. Unlike people like you who try to pretend that everything happens the same and equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:34 PM
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Dude. No one is gonna admit that Thad is their dirty secret lol This thread went off the rails immediately because it relies on women telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:30 PM
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I'm a man who understands men. You're a chick who doesn't have the first clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:00 PM
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Of course I didn't say any such thing. If you think women who are rejected are "accepting of it without issue" you're delusional. Which I think is what you actually said word-for-word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:57 PM
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Even this point doesnt make sense You're incompetent then. The question is, Is it fair hypocrit to ask others to not have any sex because you cannot have it yourself ? You apparently can't read either. This is not at all what this thread is about. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:55 PM
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Oh I understand them. You clearly don't. Never in human history has a man decided that he wasn't into a women because she was boring. It has never happened, ever. You are the common type of women around here: confidently clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:47 PM
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If you keep making dumb posts then I'll keep commenting. Guess I'll be busy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:43 PM
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People who do care about a human being choose folks with similar values and experiences, not the first woman of 99 who didn’t say no when approached. You don't understand men. Which, again, is typical around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:40 PM
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Being tall is definitely an issue to many men. It's an issue to the woman. If a man brings it up it's because of that and not his own issues. Men don't care. An attractive women is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:37 PM
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I can answer that easily. I’m too tall for most men’s taste Men don't care about height. Women do. It's a problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:36 PM
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Not doing this isn't not comprehending rejection, it's accepting rejection without issue You're delusional if you think that's what they are thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:35 PM
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You dont care if a woman is boring personally, but in the real world- the majority of men do No, they don't. You don't understand men. Which is typical of women around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:32 PM
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Now you're just ranting incoherently. You're completely lost on this. Your claim was objectively wrong. Admit it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:18 PM
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I said what I said. And what you said is stupid. There's a perfectly normal reason why women won't deal with bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:16 PM
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Men don't care if a women is boring either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:15 PM
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I'm constantly amazed by this sub. Whenever somebody says something obviously true there's always some clown who asks for sources and data for it. The idea that women are turned off by bi men or that bi women don't deal with bi men either is so ubiquitous in those circles that's it not even controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:14 PM
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Just the other day fresh n fit were stating most college women were sleeping with 20-50 dudes a semester. How they have the time I’ll not know. I see plenty of sentiment from people saying they’re red pilled and how college is just a slut, feminist pipeline. This also has nothing to do with what Rollo said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:12 PM
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Stop using anecdotal evidence to try to disprove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:09 PM
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Attraction is not a choice. To think so is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:08 PM
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God how are you missing the obvious No, you're just trying to create hypocrisy where none exists. They claim the best for a woman would be to invest their early twenties in securing a good man that the most important skills are sahm skills such as cooking doing laundry and all. They claim that modern women have been brainwashed by feminism and this is why they shift away from their inner nature and do masculine task such as having a career which ultimately ends up in misery since they cant ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:06 PM
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You're just young and sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:00 PM
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LOL. What a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:35 PM
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I hear this a lot but this is so opposite of what my experience is irl You're sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:34 PM
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You and the men your date are/were extreme outliers. Men don't give two shits about your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:31 PM
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This is basically what I mean lmao. You're basically 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:27 PM
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Be financially stable. You don’t have to be rich, that’s the lie. Those men are boring to today's woman. You absolutely need to make more money than just "stable,"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:19 PM
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These people constantly shame women for being educated or not wanting to become a SAHM They shame women for being career-driven until they're 32 and having wasted their 20s. Again, this has nothing to do with going to college when you're 18-21 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:10 PM
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they constantly repeat how they should settle early instead of having a caree This says nothing about going to college though which is the main point of this thread. There's nothing contradictory at all about what Rollo said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:07 PM
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very liberal/feminist woman should re-check her concern towards bi men (if she has any), because that wouldn't be consequent to her values in any way (not sure how many liberal women are "actually" against dating be guys, though). Imagine thinking that you can choose to feel one way or another on this. Hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:00 PM
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Imagine thinking that it's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:57 AM
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20 year olds are notoriously anti-establishment. Using this as evidence is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:57 AM
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I'd say it's probably correlated to socioeconomic status too. The less well-off someone is the less likely they are to participate in niche movements, hobbies, behavior, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:55 AM
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And that gayness is associated with a dramatic loss of masculine virtue by society as a whole. It's not a social construct. Women naturally feel the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:53 AM
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There are a lot of women who find MM hot This sub is hilarious. Always with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:50 AM
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I believe my explanation makes more sense than YOURS let the audience decide It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:45 AM
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apparently back in the 1980's everyone was androgenous This is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:44 AM
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Let’s be honest many women claim to be into women but only wanna makeout and grab tiddy…so they aren’t really into women They're mostly just women who've had threesomes and so they claim to be bi when they're not. They just went along with something their boyfriend wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:41 AM
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You're pushing the exception, not the rule. As usual around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:37 AM
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It's easy to tell someone is young and/or inexperienced in life when they say things like this. That is actually the mature, reasoned response. The younger the man the more likely he is to spout blue pill talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:44 PM
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Men care that women have *a* job or * passion* but they do not care how much money she makes or what he job title is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:39 PM
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Ha, I wish. My female friends and I have a mutually beneficial relationship, but my male friends use me as a surrogate sister and lean on me a little too heavily. You just said your male "friendships" were fantastic. Now they're a burden! Typical silliness. I do not enjoy serving as the sole source of entertainment and self esteem for men who immediately ditched all their friends in order to smother me. You, like most women, have terrible taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:51 PM
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It's inherent in the nature of the relationship. Women "use" men for the benefits that they provide in a friendship or as a coworker. But when it turns into a relationship where the woman is expected to give some they're all "exhausting."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:47 PM
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Sure, some are sexist. But the vast majority of men are just relaying real world information and are merely *called* sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:44 PM
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The right is not presenting anything radical though. The right is what the status quo used to be in America and it worked. Most of the world is right winged outside of Europe and Canada. So basically all of the wealthiest and most civilized countries are not conservative. Great endorsement!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:40 PM
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I picked several adjectives my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:39 PM
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It's not the best defense. It's just the first and easiest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:38 PM
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You are a certifiable lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:30 AM
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Since Trump was elected, the Left has lost its mind, lost the plot, and veered into ranting, insane, nonsensical, unreasoning and indefensible positions on many issues. You would lose in any debate trying to argue that the left is more insane, nonsensical, unreasoning and indefensible than the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:27 AM
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I would say that's a minority opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:19 AM
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It's their default defense mechanism. It's their only move.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:09 AM
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The point is women don't need men as much as men need women. Like most women here you're utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:06 AM
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LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:04 AM
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It’s the way they act and think around women that makes us not like them. Female selection criteria debunk this nonsense full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:04 AM
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I don't accept that explanation. Even if you look at countries where there's low judgement of women's sexuality, like Scandinavian countries, women still aren't sleeping around like men do. It's almost like it's nature or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:58 AM
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Women are socially inhibited from sexual activity and men are socially incentivized. Until surveys about sexual activity account for cultural and religious inhibitions, no one can definitely determine how horny women or men are. There's a thing called testosterone. Maybe if you had a read single book in your entire life you'd be better at this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:57 AM
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Well it would be stupid. It's like if men told each other that they should only allow women into their lives to give her money and a place to stay free of charge Preach. Sometimes it's astounding how little people on here understand human beings or the world as whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:56 AM
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It doesn't seem like it, since most of the time it's men talking about how they think women as a whole are completely shit friends, that they only hang out with us in hopes of getting sex So you're saying that men are honest and rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:52 AM
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I get on with them I have plenty of male friends and even my partner was a friend initially. But most men within the confines of a romantic relationship are hard. It's amazing how ubiquitous this take is among women here. They like men as far as they can be useful tools to them ("friends" and coworkers) but the moment they are expected to give something in a relationship setting, or not "win" 100% of the time, they become "hard" or "difficult" or "toxic."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:35 AM
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So the relationships where you used the men as "friends" and coworkers and were able to extract a direct benefit = good But ones where you were in a relationship and were expected to give something = not good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:24 AM
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they "draining" and"kept you from taking care of yourself and pursuing things that are good for you"? This is typical woman-speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:22 AM
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Men don't want to be your friends though. So basically you like men when they benefit you platonically and in your careers but not in the way that men actually care about (sexually). So I fail to see how you opposed the OPs claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:18 AM
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It was self explanatory. Clearly not. Again, it's good that she's a woman since it would be embarrassing for a man to have those takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:09 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:26 PM
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Are you a man? God I hope not. It would be super embarrassing. Everything she says makes it pretty clear she's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:04 AM
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My issue with it is that it can be very exploitative Oh God. Here we go. One of the most overused and abused words in the English language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:11 PM
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Their actions are to set age limits on dating apps (as noted in one of the links), and most women date for the most part men within a few years? But when they can't set a filter, in real life, they choose older men. And many older than the +3 we always hear about. The average age gap in relationships is 2.3 years. No, the average age gap in *marriages* is 2.3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:34 PM
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If that was the most important consideration for attraction then they'd describe the most attractive to them more homogeneously, as men do. They don't. Women lie. Don't ever believe what they say about attraction since it's mostly virtue signaling. Observe their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:11 PM
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Most young women dont care about that, women closer to their age do. So this is dodge. You seemingly now agree that those men have value. You just claim that young women don't care about it. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:08 PM
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Young women care less about that they are more into looks, height, fitness etc.. Women are biologically wired to seek providers. Height is very important regardless of other factors but looks and fitness are less important than the provider factors. Only the "cock carousel" girls care more about looks than the hypergamous factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:02 PM
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If this were true age gap relationships would be the norm not the exception. No because socialization is still the main thing that leads to men and women meeting. So school, college, etc. This is the lifecycle of claims like this: deny it happens then when provided with proof that it *does* happen, pivot and claim that the only thing that would convince you is some impossible equality between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:00 PM
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Two or three years older. Not gray, balding, paunchy, with popping joints and unreliable dick. Wrong. And then a dumb strawman. Women *marry* a man that's an average of 3 years older because that's their social circle. They don't meet anybody else. When they do, however, the average age goes up significantly. You're really going off the rails here. Understanding human biology = "off the rails!" This sub in a nutshell. That sucks for men, but it doesn't give them license to creep on beautiful you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:32 PM
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Bruv it’s not 1955 women can get up and leave anytime and if married has mad power lmaooo and don’t have a kid Jesus what are you saying now if the guy is abusive okay but that can happen with 40 year old women your assuming that because he’s older he understands manipulation tactics and women psychology to point that he uses that against them this isn’t an episode of you if men were that good with women this sub would not exist Literally the embodiment of dumb Gen Z'er with no clue about anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:03 PM
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None of that are strawmen. Look up the definition. Every single time this topic comes up some moron will insert "if 40 year olds were routinely pulling 20 year olds!" or "old, fat, balding men!" when nobody made such a claim. That's the definition of strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:00 PM
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It's pretty clear that men can't see past their own bias This is a laughable claim around this sub. Neither men nor women are routinely attracted to people 15-25 years older A lie that is belied by the actual world. Women "routinely" find attractive qualities in older men. In fact its hardwired. Men, on the other hand, are attracted mostly to beauty and youth. So it doesn't apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:57 PM
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Older men have more money, more stability, more wisdom, higher status, etc. Basically everything women want in a man. But..."LoL HaRhARHAR!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:49 PM
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Pretty much men are rigid to a fault, and women are flexible to a fault. You think the women here have demonstrated flexibility? On what issue? They seem to spend all of their time rigidly telling men that nothing that they say is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:43 PM
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LMAO. So dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:38 PM
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You need to get out more often then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:13 PM
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For sex, some. But as a partner? Not a chance. Men and women are different, goofball.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:12 PM
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Nobody cares what you would do. Men your age are losers. The reason women date older men is because they have value. You have zero life experience. You're just spitballing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:09 PM
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To 20YO women, quite probably Women are attracted to successful, high-status, attractive men regardless of age (but usually *older* than them). Anything else is just coping from women like you who want to shame men for pursuing those women. than average 35 YOs with the balding or weight stuff coming in . Strawmen unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:07 PM
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I'm talking about total value. Who's to say not sexual value? You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:05 PM
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If 40 year old men were regularly pulling 20 year olds And here comes the strawmen. Balding, paunchy men single forty year old divorced dads aren’t in high demand. And another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:04 PM
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Dating an older man with money is a cash grab, nothing more, those women would still choose a guy their own age. Keep clinging to this lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:54 AM
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all things being equal But all things aren't equal in those relationships. The older man has significantly more value than the "age appropriate" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:51 AM
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But far more of them will be is the point. No, they won't. You think far more young, average 21 year olds will be more attractive than a high value 35 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:50 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:50 PM
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How is she blaming men? The question was about whether a man can demand this from his wife and the first thing the do is say what the man can do. Laguhable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:49 PM
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That's civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:46 PM
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If you wanna bitch and complain about it? Yes! Do something! SMMFH... So I accurately described your position of a woman's obesity being the man's fault? Exactly. I wonder what your advice if for all the women who bitch and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:45 PM
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They make it hard for me to take you seriously. I'd suggest that nobody in my position would ever take you seriously. The only true thing you've said is that I'm young, which you seem preoccupied with, but it isn't even an insult. It perfectly describes you. Young and dumb but somehow totally convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:36 PM
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I quoted you. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:03 PM
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Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:03 PM
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But that's generally in the context of these older men believing they are attractive to very young women, no? The same context applies to this scenario. Men are fat and out of shape? = their problem. Women are fat and out of shape? Also the mans' problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:53 PM
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I don't need to help my case. You're my opposition. My case is laughably unchallenged. Insults drive points home (and are true).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:51 PM
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Again, he doesn't have to do anything. Then why did you say so? Again, rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:50 PM
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You don't sound very mature, especially when you fling around insults. A mature person putting a young goofball in her place will certainly sound immature to said young goofball.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:41 PM
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My first post was spot-on and you've spent the rest of the time dodging and obfuscating to avoid the truth that you immediately jumped to a women's defense in the "fit" debate but would never do so for a man and would never require a women to do anything regarding her man's fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:33 PM
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Then why did you say this? He also should be willing to help her out so she actually has time to work out This is a rhetorical question. No need to actually answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:31 PM
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So now that we agreed that you said what I attributed to you now you'll ignore my most recent quote and attack a post from earlier. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:22 PM
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These things happen in life, if your attraction to your partner is so fragile that you are unable to cope with changes that are highly likely to happen for various reasons, I don’t think it’s right that you make such a commitment as marriage to them or having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:18 PM
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It must be sad to never have anything insightful to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:17 PM
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I know it's fair because that's what you actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:16 PM
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I'm in no need of cheering up given that you and others never have actual substantive responses. It's usually in the form like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:15 PM
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It's full of women dissing fat, ugly, old men. Men are direct about it. "She got fat." Women are indirect. They'll just keep it to themselves, lose interest in them, stop having sex and then serve them with papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:13 PM
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You're deluded if you think they can't be No, I'm just experienced and mature. You're a child who constantly tries to tell people about the world. You're an incredibly silly figure around here. You may personally not have or want female friends, but it's pretty obvious to anyone with half a brain that men and women can be friends. You don't know anything about the world. You're trying to extract value from a man without having to sleep with him. Of course you think that arrangement works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:11 PM
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So if the women is out of the shape then the man has to do something about it. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:09 PM
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Because it's stupid and no man wants to be your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:07 PM
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like a guy who doesnt get out much or doesnt really want female friends Why would a man *want* female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:07 PM
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stop acting like a man interacting with a woman, start thinking like a woman Why would any man want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:55 PM
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Men and women aren't friends. It's as simple as that. If you think they are then you haven't lived long enough or are deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:53 PM
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I have women friends, but I'm going to be real with you, I completely disagree with this. Consider the source. She always says silly things that aren't objectively true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:52 PM
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Maybe if your spouse is struggling, unless they are already rolling in the dough and can afford other help, maybe work with them to see options for re-evaluating your lifestyles together so that they're doing better on rest and self-care. So basically a women being out of shape is the responsibility of the man. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:47 PM
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That poster is a clown. Literally everything she posts is dumb and/or blames men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:46 PM
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Basically, the man has to do more. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:45 PM
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Women seem to be more accepting that their man gains weight. Excuse me? LOL. Do you even read this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:33 PM
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These things happen in life, if your attraction to your partner is so fragile that you are unable to cope with changes that are highly likely to happen for various reasons, I don’t think it’s right that you make such a commitment as marriage to them or having children. Even though you attempted to both-sides this by mentioning your husband, it's disingenuous because women constantly talk about older men being bald, fat and gross. The moment a man says that he wants his woman fit you're here to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:32 PM
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Not at all true Very much true. Most complaints by women are regarding their strong in-group bias. They almost always take the side that keeps power in the hands of women and men having options and agency with younger women is a big no-no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:45 PM
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Care to elaborate what? Good lord. An established man can offer stability, wisdom, resources to a young woman just entering the real world. Men always claim that the 45 year old man is irresistible to 21 year olds A lie. but then can’t come up with anything besides money Don't ask us then. Ask the countless women who engage with older men. I wouldn’t go with a guy who is 45 unless he is wealthy. And then you follow up by proving the stereotype. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:03 PM
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I hear frequently that women’s standards are too high and they won’t give nice guys a chance. Isn’t the implication that they should “lower their standards” and give the guys they won’t give a chance (don’t find attractive) a chance? No, the implication is that they should go after looks matches and not deluded themselves into believing that men above them will settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:10 PM
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Men tend to overrate themselves more than women. LMAO. Consistent if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:06 PM
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Men do more work at home and with the kids than ever before in human history. This just proves that women are constantly looking for more and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:05 PM
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And I'd also say that what women have claimed here is the opposite experience of the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:02 PM
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I don't really believe you but even if this was generally true it still doesn't matter since personality never leads. In other words you have to get your foot in the door for a woman to even get to see your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:59 PM
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assuming they don't do something objectionable in the meantime. I've always been amused by this because it can literally be a wrongly worded text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:57 PM
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A 45 year old man actually has something to offer a 21 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:45 PM
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It’s me saying that it’s an unhealthy and toxic way to view yourself and to enter any relationships you get into. We totally understand that you think having self-respect and being a reasonable judge of ones self is "unhealthy and toxic." The rest of us normal people will continue to live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:43 PM
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Some, especially petite and slender women Keep pumping those outliers and we'll keep pumping the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:41 PM
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But that's irrelevant to what we're talking about. You're probably just talking about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:40 PM
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And most men don't know what they're doing even at 25. Men are mostly still ascending at 25 and into their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:39 PM
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You're kidding, right? No. Can someone simply have a different opinion than you on this topic without virtue signaling? I guess not. A person refusing to acknowledge common sense and thousands of years of human evolution can't just have a different opinion than objective truth. Men will universally say that 21-22 year olds are the best. Saying 20-26 is even stretching it and you're still arguing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:37 PM
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Only a woman would write BS like this. I don't even have to ask the sex. It's always understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:35 PM
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"Guys my age are immature, I want an older man who has his shit together" - said by almost every women ever. Every time I meet a 23 year old and engage in a flirty conversation they almost always mentions that men their age suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:30 PM
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How are highschool girls "forced" to go for the college men who have a car, a place, booze, and money, while they ignore the men their own age who look very juvenile and have none of this? Who forces them to go and fuck older men? Her post is nonsense. That's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:26 PM
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Personally, I don't acknowledge this. Virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:38 PM
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Basically starts to decline from mid 20's. What utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:32 PM
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It seems that a large issue with online discourse around anything related to men and women is that men seem to resent women and women hate men. A lie. We don’t need any examples - they’re all over this sub and online. And then a lazy refusal to back up said lie. Chef's kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:20 PM
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This whole idea that women can’t pair bond with men if they have n>0 is bullshit. That's great because I didn't say that. Women with experience are just less likely to settle for shitty relationships Women with experience are more likely to view every relationships as less than satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:17 PM
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Insecurity as employed on this sub is solely intended to be shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:16 PM
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because they care about the women who are being taken advantage of. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:24 PM
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Any woman who compares her current bf to her ex isn’t over her ex That's sorta the point. Yeah, she still wants her ex. The more men a women sleeps with the more trouble she'll have shedding this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:22 PM
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You simply don't understand simple probabilities and you've invented some dumb "picky" standard to bail yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:52 PM
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So you're going to opt for the "no salient retort" response to prove that you have no point? Bold move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:47 PM
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I don’t think that’s sad. Of course you don't. Why would you demonstrate an understanding of anything? That would be crazy! You just sound mad that an older woman could pull a younger man easier than you can pull anyone. Women want commitment. She's a cum bucket for a young guy who just wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:42 PM
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No it’s not. It is. A modern woman will likely have 6-8 partners at least. The idea that men should delude themselves is totally bonkers. It's the definition of delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:39 PM
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"I don't care!" (I prove that you care) "Yeah, I'm just playing man!" So you lied and then needed a defensive dodge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:34 PM
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You right. That’s on me. God, you're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:33 PM
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At the end of the day only one of us has to resort to tired phrases to bail themselves out. A woman fucking a guy 15+ years younger is sad and can't get that man to commit to her. This is true and you don't like it so you're dodging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:33 PM
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What? You're just blabbering now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:31 PM
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A guy who respects himself would also walk away from a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:30 PM
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You're missing the part where I don't care. You care care given that you commented and *still* are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:27 PM
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A woman thinks it's better to be one kind of delusional over another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:26 PM
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Being confident is not being delusional. Being confident.......that you are the best she's ever had *is* though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:23 PM
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It's just so mindless and lazy. The truth is that they are overwhelmingly on the wrong side of these debates and they just want an exit strategy and those are their chosen phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:21 PM
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Okay? Your personal experience is as good as mine Your "personal experience" is a cope to absolve women for their delusions. Average men do not think they should be getting with 7s or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:20 PM
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You’ve made 3 comments today alone stating that you’re 23, 35, and in your mid 40s. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:17 PM
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Alpha widowed women are entirely about past trauma. Are you sure you're in the right thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:17 PM
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Where are all these imaginary women who can’t find men they want to marry them? Women fucking men who are 15+ years younger than them? Basically every single one of them. But here come the rhetorical questions! You are a tragically stupid person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:16 PM
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You're missing the point and trying to LOL your way out it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:13 PM
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He might be good enough, or *close* to it, and not want to put up with her shit. Somehow this guy should sacrifice himself all so a random redditer won't think he's insecure. Comical and typical of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:12 PM
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Plus why wouldn’t you feel confident that you would be the best that a woman ever had? A woman wondering why a man isn't as delusional as she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:08 PM
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I believe in women comparing you to her ex, however i don't really see the login in avoiding high body count women for this reason You don't understand the logic of simple numbers? The most exes the higher chance of trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:07 PM
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I, nor any woman I’ve ever known, have ever “compared” the guy I’m currently dating to an ex. A typical response for this sub: "I nor any women ever *says* this!" Yeah, they don't say it. That's not a refutation of what the OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:06 PM
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What you call low self-esteem someone else might call an accurate description of what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:04 PM
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If someone could be an avatar for missing the point, you would be it. Forget the alpha part. It's a concept that's fairly simple to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:03 PM
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Being alive more than 20 and saying the things you say. Totally embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:00 PM
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I think if you are hinging your partners worth on providing or on their looks, you are setting yourself up for failure. So every man in human history is "setting himself up for failure." Ok. And? It's still biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:58 PM
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How is a woman pulling younger men “sad” but it’s sad not when a man is with a younger woman? Lmfao Because I understand that men are women are different and Because sex for men is what relationships are to women. She's being used and will never be able to get what she wants. Hilarious. Plenty of dudes are in LTRs with women older than them. The only thing hilarious is how clueless you are. Keep pounding those outliers and pretending that they prove what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:57 PM
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That's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:54 PM
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Good for you. That proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:53 PM
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I can't see a single point you've made that actually addresses what the OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:51 PM
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It's proven. The self-reported studies match the common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:50 PM
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But men are attractive as partners for other reasons and those things are increased with age. There's practically nothing that a woman gains with age that makes her a better catch for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:48 PM
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Stating obvious facts is considered "having a thing against women" around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:58 PM
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Maybe work on your personality? Personality. LOL. You must be 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:30 PM
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Which is the whole basis of initial attraction. You don't wear your personality of your forehead. You won't even get a chance if you don't meet the physical standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:26 PM
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Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:18 PM
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I see fat, ugly men doing the same thing Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:17 PM
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Vast array of strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:14 PM
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No, just English.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:51 PM
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I see a tiny, minuscule fraction of 30 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:42 PM
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You obviously don't read anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:37 PM
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Please explain this. Christ. Men have to become something to get a woman. They need to work on themselves, be hardened by bad experiences, etc. Women already have value and only diminish it by trying to act like men. And how are women "acting like men"? By working? No, by trying to be masculine. By trying to be promiscuous. By trying to be boss bitches. Men are not attracted to any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:36 PM
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What biological fact are you referring to? Men want sex more than women. Hence why gays have the most sex, heterosexual couples are in the middle and lesbians' have the least. No sentient person is shocked by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:32 PM
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"Frivolously" pursuing higher education is a popular way of finding a partner. Since men don't care about what you do for a living this is only true if you're going to school to *find* a husband there. Interestingly, that's very old school and not empowering to women. Finding yourself and what you want also helps "Finding yourself" is exactly the kind of nonsense I'm talking about. Should men not use their peak years doing the same? Men absolutely should. In fact men *need* to. Women don't need …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:30 PM
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You don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:31 PM
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That's exactly what's not happening though It is. Giving marriage statistics is, again, another silly thing that this sub does. We're talking about standards and attraction. Not marriage stats. And "same social class" is vague and tells us nothing. You can't turn off thousands of years of human evolution with a few decades of social change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:29 PM
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That's your opinion. No, that's biological fact. Just because you think everything is construct of whatever such nonsense doesn't mean nature isn't real. The insults are for effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:26 PM
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Ah, yes, the elite super model example. Perfect. It's like you're trying to come up with the dumbest things to say and achieving it each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:25 PM
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I’m in my mid 40’s and I have gotten way more picky about what I require from a potential partner as I have gotten older. How does this refute what the OP said? This is literally the embodiment of delusional female standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:23 PM
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What are they even meant to do, marry the first person they're with, who is even less likely to want to marry at that age? Use their peak years to secure a good partner and not be frivolous getting PhD's or "finding themselves."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:21 PM
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You all need to take a moment and remember that at the end of the day.. young men do want milfs. Yung Gravy wants to fuck your mom. It’s just how it is. You're utterly silly. Yes, men want to fuck women. But no way would they commit to said woman. A cougar fooling around with men 15+ years younger is indeed pretty sad. Not so the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:19 PM
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How many women do you really think want relationships so badly that they are with men they don’t even like? What nonsense is this? Wait until you age passed 20 years old and you realize the vast number of women who hate/resent their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:18 PM
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Bruh, I’m 35 and I’ve been with men long term before. "bruh" You seem like a real catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:16 PM
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another common terminally online fantasy, usually by people with zero relationship experience. Women aren't all settling for mediocre guys in their 30s. usually, like most adults do, they grow and mature, and are looking for an actual PARTNER in life, not just someone nice to look at. that's normal and good. men do this too. OK, just don't be shocked when you get there and there are no men for you. Or no men that want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:15 PM
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Salt it's not that, but it shouldn't take 10 years to finally get it right. This. It's not making mistakes if it's habitual. It's then called nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:13 PM
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Boy, did he make a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:12 PM
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It goes without saying. Shaming men is the default standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:10 PM
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The 32 year old is likely more delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:09 PM
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I'm 23 and the only way I'd date a man in his 30's is if he's bringing more to the table and it's worth my time. Yeah, that's generally the point of 30 year old men dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:08 PM
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There are so many men on this sub who really seemed to have convinced themselves that they're gonna be hot all of a sudden just because they turned 30...the delusion with them is insane..." Yeah all the women who rejected me when I was younger and don't even remember my name are gonna come crawling back to me on my 30th birthday all of a sudden" like are y'all ok?? This is a strawman. Most men understand, from life experience, that by ~30 they will have their career, lifestyle, etc. figured out …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:07 PM
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You don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:01 PM
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Every high value man has fucked an ugly chick. Guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:00 PM
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Yeah... that's bullshit. As we get our shit together, we get more comfortable alone. It's not just women, men also can turn less enthusiastic. Dating at 30s is boring as fuck. You are unusually wise for this forum. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:57 PM
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There's a whole host of biological (i.e; brain development), social (people are living longer, travelling and studying around this age is common) and economic ( hyper individualistic culture and late stage capatilism forces pretty much everyone into wage slaverism) reasons why people aren't pairing off at such a young age that goes beyond just "young women refusing to settle for the nice guys" or whatever reason you're peddaling today. Men need time to figure shit out. Women don't. They just wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:54 PM
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Can confirm, yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:53 PM
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It's amazing listening to women talk about their pointless lives as if we should be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:52 PM
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If anything, hypergamy has actually reduced. Again, this is untrue. Since women earn their own incomes then what a man makes matters *even more* than it did before. This is both common sense and easily observable in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:30 PM
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Every single one of her posts tells people that universally true things are actually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:48 PM
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Good God. You're moronic. It's as simple as this: gays have the most sex because it's two men. Lesbians have the least sex because it's two women. Period. It's not difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:47 PM
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How dare a man prioritize the most important biological factor in mate choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:39 PM
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Per usual around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:31 PM
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The common denominator is women. Lesbians have less sex because it involves two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:30 PM
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Most people are in a relationship. Do you really think most people are miserable? If you really think that, then just don't get into a relationship, that's easy to do. I don't know and neither do you. But If I had to guess I'd lean unhappy. If you think relationships aren't supposed to be happy, you don't vet properly and put up with relationships that don't make you happy, then you complain that people in relationships are unhappy. Whether they're supposed to be or not is irrelevant to whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:14 PM
1

Thanks for another exception. I'll keep that in mind while I live the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:10 PM
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You haven't refuted anything. Those men are considered alpha or high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:03 PM
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You're losing your SMV just as much as we are. At least we get wiser. Female cope. No, we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:12 PM
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Jokes aside, it's a fantasy. These men (black pilled guys, not red. That must be noted) want a young woman to control. Men want attractive women. These nonsense claims on this sub are just elaborate copes because these same men won't take the 30+ year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:12 PM
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It's one the dumbest things said on this sub. And there's a lot of competition for that title. As if attaining more desirable women is easier than attaining post-30 women. It's insane and can only be described as a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:03 PM
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Neither do most men. Wanting someone who "knows what they're doing" is not wanting a "promiscuous woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:01 PM
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No, you've just said so many dumb things that when I see your handle I know that it's going to be dumb. And you neve fail to deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
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So personality doesn't matter at all in first impressions. In fact personality doesn't matter at all in getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
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Typical that you'd not know what's going on. It makes no sense to make a moral judgement about height. Making a moral judgement about body count is at least defensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:58 PM
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Agreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:39 PM
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Most couples are happy. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:30 PM
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Of course you're right but u/TermAggravating8043 has to be wrong about everything so don't sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:27 PM
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No, it's definitely your dumb logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:19 PM
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LMAO. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:18 PM
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Don't bother dude. She's clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:17 PM
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Yep, in speed dating! Makes sense as you hardly have time to learn anything else. No, nothing else matters as much for first impressions. Oh, look! Another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:17 PM
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Height is immutable. Body count isn't. Oh, look. Another silly post by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:16 PM
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Yeah, I stopped reading after the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:14 PM
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My intent is the truth part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:07 PM
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And the people advising you would say the exact thing that you did if you approached at cafes: "women want to be left alone to drink their coffee!" Bars/clubs are good for approaching because it's expected and women are open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:06 PM
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Height is the first filter. Anybody who says otherwise is either ignorant or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:05 PM
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Fitness is the primary thing, face is second, then confidence, then height. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:12 PM
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Yeah. Bars and clubs are the best places to approach girls It's also the most purely free sexual market. When people downplay clubs/bars in that way it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:10 PM
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Exactly, which is a core tenet of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:54 PM
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I'm not even the one making those arguments but for the life of me I can't understand why so many here can't comprehend what they're saying It's purposeful virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:45 PM
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Now you've just moved the goalposts from " men threaten women more online" to "its actually justified that women threaten men more online". Stayed tuned. It will get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:36 PM
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It really isn’t an extreme minority, it’s very common. Men saying they want to rape, mutilate and slaughter women is "very common." Jesus Christ this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:36 PM
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Yeah and I make well into 6 figures myself at 24. I’m not worried about making enough money for a great life. But do you understand how dumb it is for you to discount the money a millionaire has while dating someone making 800k? You are literally the embodiment of delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:24 PM
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So women only date old men for their money? Chef's kiss of silly girl who asks rhetorical questions because she doesn't actually have anything to say. Yes, women care *a lot* about money. Im not risking a terrible marriage with a dead bedroom and an ugly husband just because they are super rich. Money isn’t everything You apparently are already dating a guy making 6 figures so this is a stupid and pointless virtue signal. You're a very stupid person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:02 PM
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My motive is to tell the truth if it's obviously being missed. You just don't like that you can't say it without getting backlash. I don't like anybody who can lie and get no backlash. On any topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:58 PM
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Biological urges my ass. Every man in human history will find a 17 year old attractive. So, yes, biological. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. If you're still hardwired to fuck teenagers So it only took you three lines to lie. You said it's abnormal to be *attracted* to them. So every man in human history is abnormal. Can't make this stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:56 PM
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I bet if they behaved this way in person, all the time, that most men wouldn't be interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:54 PM
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They likely have more money, resources, status, wisdom, experience, etc. What kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:46 PM
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ou must be 12 years old if you think women shrivel up into old hags as soon as they turn 30. Women tend to let themselves go when they have KIDS because they’re so exhausted I'm older than you and I *know* that the vast majority are. Single women in this cohort are not high value. Yes, most women this age look haggard for those very reasons. So then why are you disagreeing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:45 PM
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It's a fact that men have more attractive qualities to women at that age then women do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:44 PM
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Idk probably because you look younger? Right. You're very close to stumbling upon the truth. I can appreciate some older men looking ok but they are few and far between and in 10 years are going to look much worse. If they don't look bad now then why would assume they would in 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:43 PM
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The chances that those guys are "better" than the 34 year old that would be in your range is very unlikely. But you keep your totally arbitrary standards all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:36 PM
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Is this you specifically turning down a particular person for being fat? No, it's me explaining why men aren't approaching them. Your biking analogy is very stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:31 PM
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It's not abnormal, what is abnormal is for a grown guy to be attracted to them in return. This is so silly. So nature is abnormal? Biological urges are abnormal? This sub is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:25 PM
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Like the avg answers from 20 yo women vs 25 yo women will be very different even though they’re just 5 yrs apart You can tell how old some of these ladies are. When they're 25-29 they won't think a 35-39 year old man with wisdom, resources and life experience is "gross."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:23 PM
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childless girls of 30-35 start being...very frustrated The women over 30 in the dating pool are one or more of: Jaded/bitter Fat Divorced Single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:21 PM
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While I agree that plenty of 30-year-olds look great, the question becomes how much longer they'll stay attractive Many women in their 30s have kids or are divorced. The idea that there are a a lot of desirable women over 30 out there is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:20 PM
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Women in their 30s look great! This is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:18 PM
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Women claim they will never date older... you know the rest. Women lie. Their actions tell you that they absolutely would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:16 PM
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I’m 35 and the men who hunt for younger women are usually losers who cannot impress women their age. Women their age are not attractive. This is one of the stupidest things that gets repeated on this sub. The idea that men who can pull 20 year olds are losers who can't pull 35 years olds. Have you seen 35 year old women these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:13 PM
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Men need to realize women are most attracted to guys who are 1-3 years older NOT 10 This is made-up nonsense. Women are attracted to certain types of men regardless of age. Nobody I meet ever gets my age right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:11 PM
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I’m 24 and absolutely not. I do tend to date a little older as guys my age tend to only want hook ups and I’m not about that. So you're not about hook-ups with younger guys but also not about settling down with older, more stable men. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:09 PM
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Don't worry. You'll never have to be worried about any guy wanting to be with you given this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:08 PM
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LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:07 PM
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How is it ridiculous? It's literally not what I want to say. You're just saying you like biking. A fat person could say "me too!" and you've said nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:33 PM
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Somehow never in my life have I managed to say "I am not attracted to fat men" in my life Good for you. And? So no, I do not think it comes up even in cordial conversation Classic. So it doesn't come up to random redditer so therefore it never happens! And if it does, there are ways to do so without being a dick Saying that men aren't attracted to fat women, in a calm tone, is not being a dick. E.g. "I'm pretty active and love cycling and the outdoors. My ideal guy would be able to do those acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:24 PM
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You don't speak for all men. Ah, yes. This dumb chestnut again. There are a couple men here who genuinely prefer fat women Men who "prefer" fat women are such an outlier that it's irrelevant to broader conversations. If after all that you still want to tell the world you don't like fat women, then it really just seems like you are trying to feel superior by making them feel inferior. And perhaps that is indeed insulting. There is the phenomenon of delusional fat women who think they're the shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:22 PM
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It comes up even in cordial conversation. Some people in the this world are so delusional that it has to be spelled out to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:20 PM
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I'm lucky in that I'm 6'3" and conventionally attractive, etc. but that's only really helped getting laid and not in dating. Dating is still annoying as hell. The women my age are all perpetually single cat ladies or haggard divorced mothers. And the women younger are in seemingly perpetual hoe phases with attention spans shorter than 5 seconds. Good luck to you brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:11 PM
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It's sad, I swear I'll never be like her husband now. Fuck that, the dude is great but I can't imagine being compared to a shitty deadbeat baby daddy and having my partner think I'm the lesser man. Women emasculate their men like this all the time. It's wild how being a responsible, hard-working, disciplined man will get you cold indifference from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:02 PM
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Don't be a dick about it If I say that men don't like fat women then that's called insulting. There's really no way to live by the narrow standards that women apply to everything and everybody but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:54 PM
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You’re really arguing that I’m being stupid by saying that the hottest women possible ≠ only women under 25? Yes. It's an irrelevant claim that is being used to change the subject to your preconceived virtue signaling notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:28 AM
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If it walks like an incel talking point, if it talks like an incel talking point, it is what it is Just admit that you're weak and have nothing to say of substance. That's exactly what the incel card is. It's laziness writ large.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:27 AM
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No, you’re being childish. No, your claim is objectively stupid and you're to wiggle out of it. Are there no hot women over 25? It's none of your business. Why do they have to be over 25? You're just imposing your preferences on others. but women don’t suddenly lose their hotness on their 26th birthday - so it’s clearly not just about looks. Whatever you have to say to virtue signal, brother. They're still not going to fuck you. Might as well try living in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:06 PM
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Who is ‘we’ Everybody who knows what they're talking about. So basically everybody opposed to you. Dude at the end of the day If you find offense where there is none you’re handing over all your power. I didn't. I just accurately described what you did and everybody knows that it's a sign of a weak argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:02 PM
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I can't remember the last time I interacted with someone who was wrong about literally everything. But here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:00 PM
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I don't think women withhold sex from guys they really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:20 PM
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Well I haven't dated a shitty person. Who cares? As if we needed more evidence that you're just virtue signaling from your own experience and not commenting on the world as a whole. However, that doesn't excuse men actually being shitty Men would be the first to say this. Unlike women who almost cop to this being a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:17 PM
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I explained my stance, if the accusation stands so be it, my stance stands as well. You don't have to explain that you pulled the incel card. We all saw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:13 PM
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I don’t defect to men You just did. I’m just saying that an argument that makes women look bad, can just be as easy used on men See?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:13 PM
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Obviously you're delusional and probably don't get out enough or observe enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:12 PM
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Yes, feeling shitty is a....feeling. Women prefer feeling shitting to no feeling at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:10 PM
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See, the reason why you deny the obvious truth is that even you think it makes women look bad. But instead of admitting it you just defect to men. The women on this sub to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:11 PM
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Some teenagers are adults. Again, your entire existence in this thread is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:10 PM
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So it's sketchy for men to date the best-looking women possible? Seriously, this sub is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:08 PM
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You pulled the incel card as usual. Rinse, repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:08 PM
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How so? Arbitrary should be self-explanatory. It's a thing that you just made up and has no basis in logic. Silly because adults making things up to fit their preconceived narrative is silly. When your 18 their 16, when your 30 their 22, when your 40 their 27, all reasonable age gaps that grow with time as both people grow Reasonable to a 3rd party who has no connection to the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:00 PM
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I don't even know what that means but if you had a 6-year-old that said it then it would carry actual weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:58 PM
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It's a shitty argument to say women date shitty guys as it's pervasive with zero evidence. No, you're just lazy and/or don't like the implication. There's plenty of evidence as in all of human history is littered with real examples of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:58 PM
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and if you call “not the ultimate dream man” settling then men are settling constantly too, Sure, but it wouldn't be a day around here if someone didn't deflect away from women to include men. So typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:56 PM
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It’s the golden rule for me, half your age plus 7, How utterly silly and arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:36 PM
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11 is old enough to have had societal norms impressed upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:34 PM
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I said it’s a bit sketchy to make it a rule to only date much younger. it's sketchy for a man to date 25-year-old women? Seriously, this sub is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:33 PM
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Also, asexual people don’t exist to you? Always with the extreme exceptions/outliers. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:27 PM
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You just said "not all women" as if anybody made that claim. We very well understand that exceptions exist to almost everything. We don't have to be reminded. It's a lazy argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:24 PM
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But why is it hard to believe that those women are usually already fucked up to end up in that situation to begin with? Because normal everyday women from good backgrounds do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:21 PM
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Nonsense like "sHiTty pEoPlE dAtE sHiTTy pEoPlE". They are shocked to find out that otherwise normal women from middle-class, two-parent households also gravitate towards those shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:20 PM
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Female nature observed = "You're an incel!" Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:17 PM
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But saying most girls are choosing and picking men in a mature, morally sound and rational way? It's totally delusional but she's a delusional poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:14 PM
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You don't get anything out of dating a shitty person. You get the feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:14 PM
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The issue is with saying women prefer shitty men or that normal women choose it. They don't. They do. No amount of your hand-waving can change easily observable nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:13 PM
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What would you have happen? What would you say? Admit it. Which you'll never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:03 PM
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we can't possibly hold women accountable for their actions. Not here at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:03 PM
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Well then, that's A LOT of women, he dated like 5 girls a year minimum. You stole my thunder. A lot of women have personal issues!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:59 PM
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I think the issue here is: not all women date shitty guys. Good God. Stop with this response. We all understand that there are exceptions in this world. But please stop making that your main argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:59 PM
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Kind decent attractive cool women, only flaw terrible taste in men when they were young. This seems to be the rule with women and not the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:57 PM
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It won't make sense to clowns like you who purposefully misunderstand things because you think it paints women in a bad light. Women don't choose based on having sex with someone more than once. They choose the best first and hope to lock them down. When they inevitably fail they start to go down the list. "Husband material" guy is someone they're not as attracted to but has resources, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:31 PM
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Observe nature. Female behavior will make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:29 PM
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Not true. She wouldn’t label the guy marriage material if she didn’t want to marry him lmao. What don’t y’all get about that? She wants to marry the chad and settles for husband material guy. Not that difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:24 PM
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LOL. The lengths that people will go to in order to never criticized or critique female selection criteria is a riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:45 PM
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No, you marry the person who will marry you. The most attractive men, who are pined after by all the women, can't marry *all* women. So the women who they *don't* marry will then marry someone else presumably less attractive then their first choice. Is this really something that you need to have explained to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:43 PM
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Enough to know that his is hogwash. But not enough to make assumptions based on simply knowing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:38 PM
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No women care about personality more. You couldn't signal to us more what a moron you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:21 PM
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Go read Sam Harris on free will. You might learn something. People deciding to overcome nature is mostly bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:20 PM
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You're such a clueless child that you think "nature" is a non-answer. You're going to be a doctor? Jesus Christ what a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:18 PM
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Don't bother. Women have no culpability for anything, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:16 PM
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OK bud, go take your bitterness somewhere else You being clueless and me reacting is not bitterness, sweatheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:13 PM
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Nobody is forcing her. She does the AF/BB thing all on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:10 PM
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Probably because no woman actually thinks "relationship guy" is physically unattractive. He's just not as attractive as all the other guys she tried to get before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:08 PM
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But in general with all the women I've known: casual sex partner = the guy who is just there and will do as a placeholder until she finds someone better. Husband = the guy who makes her cream her pants with one look. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:05 PM
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Women tend to want to marry the person they're the most into, because, you know, they're spending their lives with them. Right, they *want* to but usually don't get to. So they settle for "husband material" guy instead. Exactly what we've been saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:04 PM
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Marrying someone means you find them more attractive than someone you'd only have sex with once. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:04 PM
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It's been proven that women have higher physical standards for one night stands than long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:04 PM
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Husband material can also mean that a woman loves you so much she literally stops even seeing other men This is silly and is definitely not what "husband material" means in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:59 PM
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What does marriage have to do with finding them less attractive? Would you rather be pumped and dumped? You're obviously an oblivious woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:59 PM
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Divorced men are the ones who are more likely to remarry and suffer less financially. What? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:58 PM
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You do know these include couples where the woman doesnt care and doesnt act differently? How do you know this? Of course women are going to say all the right things so that their innate preferences aren't considered a reason for the bad outcome. My behavior was not the problem. Oh, for sure. It never is!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:42 PM
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There are exceptions to every rule but I could easily suggest that their concerns are more about their wife's reaction than their own ego. And the women see it as a threat to their masculinity too. Which is why weak men commit domestic violence when their wife viscerally emasculates them: women don't respect men who earn less than them, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:21 PM
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If you think what I posted above makes no sense then you're an idiot. If you think women wanting *more* than what men offered financially 40-50 years ago means that money doesn't matter then you're a double idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:50 PM
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But of course that's not what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:00 PM
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And of course it's a lack of humility and self awareness that make them victims of bad men. It's not like bad men target women in anyway....Kind of like how pick pockets and con artists target vulnerable people to steal from...Shouldn't have been so lacking in humility and self awareness now. You wouldn't have gotten robbed otherwise. Should've known not to have pockets. As you've so ably demonstrated: women are never responsible for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:59 PM
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Correct. The world is more brutal for men and therefore men, for the most part, have to adapt. Women never have to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:58 PM
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I agree. The Gen Z'ers are either in college are just graduated and the women they're chasing generally aren't considering money as much. But give it a few years when those women are earning decent incomes and it will matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:43 PM
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Money is a lower factor than it has ever been. This is because women are economically more independent than they’ve ever been. This is nonsense. It's never mattered more. Back in the day women needed to marry a man who could provide a house, two cars and kids. Today, women generally make a middle class income themselves and therefore don't need to marry for that. So what do they marry for? *More* than that. So money has never been more of a factor. A guy could be firmly middle class and find a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:40 PM
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I noticed that women approach money differently than men. For me for example, I see it as a tool to invest in better technologies and achieve more, whereas for women, the vast majority of them IME see it as a tool to get the lifestyle they want. Correct, which is why the above claim that women don't care as much about money as they used to is ridiculous. Back in the day women needed to marry a man who could provide a house, two cars and kids. Today, women generally make a middle class income the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:34 PM
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Women no longer value money or in general societal contribution as much as in the past Says the guy who said the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:30 PM
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An impossible thing to prove. Exactly. Like what stats would somebody be able to provide that would prove this easily verifiable social fact? If they don't know this then they'll never accept it because it goes against their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:27 PM
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That's how they were written. Just because you thought they were "turds" too doesn't change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:50 PM
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Women in general. Stop with the silly "all women" retort. We're generalizing because we're normal people. We understand that exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:50 PM
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I tend to agree. Money and status can be a nice bonus, but my point is that it’s not everything This is not what you said. You said women don't care about money. You're laughably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:35 PM
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Umm I’ve dated girls who were bar tenders/servers, yoga instructors, teachers…etc that weren’t making much money Men don't care about what a woman makes. Women care what men make. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:34 PM
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The exception doesn’t disprove the rule He stated the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:34 PM
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They both have a passion for music? Duh LOL. You think that's why he got Beyonce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:31 PM
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But you're a man (child). Women are different, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:29 PM
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Female nature doesn't change because attitudes do. Grow up, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:18 PM
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People who are self made will commonly resent those who leech off of them A guy making 100k is isn't leeching off anybody but your point is correct: a women will resent her man if she makes more than her. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:16 PM
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Those people sound completely immature Jesus. Total clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:16 PM
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Curious is a woman makes 250k why would she turn down a guy makes 100k? Because of nature. I hope to God you flunk out of med school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:15 PM
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You are so incredibly naive His naivete is clownish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:14 PM
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Well you’re incredibly shallow Human beings are shallow. More at 10pm!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:13 PM
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It's reality, kid. Maybe one day you'll grow up and understand life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:12 PM
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Guy is a clown. Needs a source for the most common sense shit imaginable. Dude is probably 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:10 PM
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One of my favorite things on this sub is when someone asks for a source for common sense life stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:09 PM
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If 75th percentile is the benchmark than how is that virtually everyone gets married This responds has to stop. This sub is full of nonsense like this. People getting married has almost nothing to with what women care about, are attracted to, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:08 PM
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Your position isn't even wrong. It doesn't even know what we're talking about :D I don't know what's worse. Your constant attempts to bash men with the insecurity label or your attempt to be a school marm and pretend that you're merely interested in the strict definition of words. Either way your objective is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:32 PM
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No, I really think you just completely misunderstood 90s sitcoms and are now doing some subject-changing and word salading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:23 PM
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Because you're a women. You have no clue about how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:22 PM
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So, yes, you think that she would be totally irrational. Says a lot about what you think or women or just women in general. Hypergamy isn't an incel term. You're problem is that you are intellectually vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:21 PM
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If you think women being attracted to dark traits "has no evidence" then you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:18 PM
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I could not care less about anything that is being said here Well, that's laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:17 PM
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You’re making a lot of assumptions with no actual evidence. Anecdotally I’ve seen the opposite LOL. Says person who clearly has no clue what he/she is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:07 PM
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Do you have stats for that? Guy: says objectively true thing. Other person: WhERe aRE thE STaTs fOr THIs?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:06 PM
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But what if, crazy thought, those men like that had traits that women are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:03 PM
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Unfortunately without her view on this relationship we’ll ever know, I’m pretty sure your wife would be offended if she knew you presumes her “hypergamous” So you think she's automatically a snowflake that wouldn't understand human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:57 PM
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Even if it is for you, it's not for a lot of men. It's not for women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:32 PM
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Men being intimidated by success is a thing. It is a thing. Men are turned off by things that they don't care about. They also understand that women like that will be more difficult to satisfy later on. It's simple human/male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:31 PM
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Women who think that men are intimidated by their confidence and success. Nobody cares, you're an insufferable bitch. It's legitimately wild that women think men care about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:29 PM
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What are signs that a woman is not getting any men? This sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:21 PM
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I don't even know what you're asking. The point is that if you think the point of the sitcoms was that regular guys could land 10s then you missed the joke/intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:13 PM
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Which is totally rational. It's also not mutually exclusive. That's the exact point. Why should a guy, even a super confident one, put himself through a wringer because his woman was a slut? It's a totally unnecessary thing to do and why? So women on this sub won't call him insecure? What a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:10 PM
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Which is why most women will resent their husbands/partners eventually. It's always about what they could've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:09 PM
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This is totally projection on your part. No loser 30 year olds are picking up hot 20 year olds. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t think its good for your mental health to presume all your partners are lying to you about this. Believe them for your own sake. You don’t need to be the greatest guy as long as you’re their guy. It's like you're a machine that built for the express purpose of giving terrible life advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:02 PM
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Reality is that men want to feel like the man, the G, or whatever term you want to use, in the relationship It's not even that. It's a matter of probability as well. Somehow people think that unless you purposefully choose the most difficult path in life then you're insecure. No, we're just rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:59 PM
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Right. I'm a yes too. It's a problem for a myriad of reasons. The attempt to downplay it as insecurity is just a tactic used by women to shame men for judging their ho phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:57 PM
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It's quite amazing how much people like you are invested in this shaming tactic. It's perfectly reasonable and advisable to not take high body count women seriously. Yet you desperately want to change the narrative so here you are pounding away!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:56 PM
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they always make an objective claim that theres something inherently wrong with women having casual sex For them to take seriously as a potential wife, yes. But on it's own? No. You're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:54 PM
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We know the limitations of high n-count women. The lengths that people like you will go to avoid reasonable conclusions is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:54 PM
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Having a perfectly rational fear isn't insecurity. Your position is just stupid and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:52 PM
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If anything it's a display of confidence and self-worth. I've spiked numbers before and stopped talking to women for this very reasons because I was perfectly capable of something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:52 PM
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Exactly, its not a slight It's exactly intended as a slight. Nobody could read these endless responses in every thread and not come to that conclusion. There's never a case where they say "yeah, obviously it makes sense." It's always a slight from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:50 PM
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Genuinely, men here think anything that is not completely agreeing with their position as shaming them Calling it insecurity is not just "not completely agreeing" with their position. It's clearly meant to dismiss it completely. It's done by mostly women as a way to defend their past as a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:49 PM
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rather than superficial qualities. Your woman being a past ho and having issues bonding with you is "superficial" LOL This sub is so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:47 PM
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Insecurity, by definition, is an anxiety about oneself or a lack of self confidence, which means a high n count woman would make you feel bad about yourself/or make you feel less confident about yourself. Ideally, you should feel good about yourself regardless of who you're dating or what anyone else thinks or wants from you. Rejecting a high body count woman can simply be a judgment on her and not an insecurity. If I say that I don't want a high boy count woman because she's far less likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:45 PM
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I personally think being insecure in the ways you are describing is pretty dumb but hey I get intrusive thoughts for no reason at all about illogical things all the time so what do I know. Thinking about my husbands sexual past and oh what if those women are hotter/better like just never even crosses my mind Because you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:43 PM
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Having disdain for someone's body count isn't automatically an insecurity. It's just phrased that way by certain people. Usually the ones who don't like the judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:42 PM
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Plenty of dudes overtly express that their concern is not being able to compare to one or more of her previous partners. No, they express that the *woman* will be unable to have a healthy relationship because of her past. Similar for income difference: men generally don't care but it *matters* because the *woman* will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:41 PM
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The argument is that you will never find a single woman in her late 20s who isn't picky. If she wasn't picky, she would've settled for one of the subpar dudes. And you'll never find a single man in his late 20s who isn't subpar. If he had his life together and a great dating profile, one of the picky women would've chosen him. The first is true. The second is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:19 PM
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Your theory hinges on the fact that the market is completely free and fair. It is not. Women broadly mistake their one night SMV for their long term RMV and our shitty dating reality is the result. Yep. This phenomenon is pretty straight-forward. A woman who's a 5 will notice that a couple times a year she can fuck a 7. So she believes that 7 is her level. Therefore, she refuses to date/fuck/marry a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:04 PM
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You're probably 12-years-old. There are no older men (say 30) who are losers who are beating out the field for 21-year-old baddies. This idea is frankly embarrassing. Like when women claim that 30-year-old men who date younger women are doing so because they can't get women their own age. any guy that age who can pull a 21-year-old has no problems getting women his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:41 PM
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It actually does. We are reasonable so we deal with the general truth. Some people (like you) try to downplay it an live off of outliers that don't explain the general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:35 PM
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I'm not kidding. You really are this dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:34 PM
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What are you talking about? Drunk men at the end of the night are going to look drunk and horny. That's simply unavoidable. I don't care about anything else you said. But that's just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:29 PM
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Go up to the search box at the top and type "hypergamy" and click the magnifying glass. Read away. You couldn't come across as a more clueless clown than you have today. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:28 PM
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It’s kinda just something losers do. (Not gaming, going for younger girls and trying to justify it.) How many losers do you know who can pull 21 year old hotties? You're so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:22 PM
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Its this i dont believe in age wall as there plenty of 50 year old i find very attraive. This is just you not understanding outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:21 PM
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No, she's just at a loss for a rational comeback to the fact that you accurately judged her reasons for arguing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:20 PM
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My impression of feminists is that they very often genuinely don't see women as adults. The issue of infantilizing adults is definitely a result of the feminist movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:17 PM
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Don't talk to me about nature. I wouldn't if you seemed to understand it but you didn't just now. There is nothing natural about men chasing women and kissing their ass. I never said it was. You're off on some weird tangent now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:13 PM
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Now having sex with with consenting adults is akin to torturing animals. Perfect. You are completely bankrupt intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:11 PM
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And please don't project your desperation onto all men. Nature isn't desperation. You sure talk like you know a lot but if you don't know that men will take "good enough" and women idealize then you don't know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:05 PM
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But it is. You're just in denial because it doesn't benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:04 PM
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Saying it's gross is just another way for women to shame the innate sexual preferences of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:02 PM
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This is like saying men are attracted to crazy girls. Realistically we're talking about a very specific subset of men and women who like those kinds of traits, it's by no means all or even a majority of them. This again. No, reality gives us myriad examples to prove that most women like those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:59 PM
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I think he's a clown too but women secretly or not so secretly dig him. If anything it proves what he's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:56 PM
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American sitcoms made everyone think dumpy, low-romantic effort idiots can land 10s who put up with their crap, but that's not really reality You misunderstood what those sitcoms were saying. They were saying that husbands were fat goofballs and that wives were beautiful, lovely, ethereal beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:51 PM
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Take any random 20 women off the street and put them in a room with a bunch of men and I guarantee you guys will only want to talk to 2-3 of them. Men are content with good enough. Far more than 2-3 of those women would get laid. Women, on the other hand, idealize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:49 PM
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So you're arguing against nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:47 PM
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Just because people are in a Relationship doesnt mean they are happy! That dude u/obviousredflag is a clown. Says some of the silliest stuff I've ever heard. This is another thing that needs to be repeated as much as possible. Relationships don't equal happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:45 PM
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most men are doing fine with women LOL. The utter nonsense that you spout is really something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:44 PM
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Just because people are in a relationship doesnt mean they are atracted to each other. Thank you. Needs to be restated over and over again. The amount of times people claim that "(insert truth claim is false) because average guy has a wife!" is nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:41 PM
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Yet blue pill is the mature view of people who “went outside”? Where by all accounts it reads as somebody who hasn’t left their teens and lived on a diet of rom come and romance novels…. Yeah, they went outside and managed to completely delude themselves. You stated it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:35 PM
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Hypergamy is about social status. And finally, the Wikipedia definition of social status. "Status is determined by the possession of various characteristics culturally believed to indicate superiority or inferiority (e.g., confident manner of speech or race)."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:27 PM
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Hypergamy is about social status. It's about women marrying up. Status can be anything from money to class to social standing to physical attractiveness, etc. They all account for social status. Hypergamy is VANISHING in western countries This is complete and utter nonsense. Hypergamy is on steroids in the 21st Century.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:17 PM
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I don't even know what you're talking about since I don't follow those things. I'm just your subject-changing as capitulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:14 PM
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No, you claim that it's: 1) not real! 2) OK, it's real but it's revenge fantasy! 3) OK, might not be revenge fantasy but it's so annoying to hear! You're not good faith actors because you just don't like the truth and want to suppress it and force people to agree with you at the point of your lame insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:13 PM
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So you want to see people whine and cry, is that it? Some form of payback? No, just understand and admit the truth. Instead you claim it's not real and then whine when we respond that, yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:11 PM
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So you deny something because you're annoyed with how many times it's truthfully discussed? So first it's not real but now it's true but you're just "so annoyed with it being discussed"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:10 PM
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Because it's denied by people like you. Another typical move on this sub. I say something. You deny it. Then after a while you admit it's true but complain that it keeps coming up. Yeah, it keeps coming up because you fight against it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:51 PM
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. It goes beyond explaining attraction because you could just let that speak for itself. People like you deny it so obviously it's going to get repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:50 PM
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Constantly and smugly harping on about it on the internet all day does however. Explaining it and then seeing people like you whine, cry and deny it necessitates it's repeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:49 PM
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See, every female selection criterion. Seriously, you can't be this stupid to be posting on this sub and have no clue what the proof of hypergamy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:47 PM
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You must be trolling at this point. people having different mate value is not about hypergamy. Hypergamy is about selecting mates of higher social class, not of higher mate value. Hypergamy is about selecting mates of higher *anything* than what you have/are. You're misunderstanding hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:45 PM
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Explain why then, in the real world, are most men in relationships, and having sex according to every single bit of data? Being in a relationship isn't sufficient to disprove what we're saying. This is typical of this sub. Say something true and someone will respond with "But I see plenty of average men with girlfriends!" which isn't even a relevant response to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah, it's great for *you*.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:39 PM
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This is not true It is true. The more money/success a woman has the fewer suitable partners she will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:24 PM
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Sure, true. But the consequences are as such. So pointing it out isn't some cope. It's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:23 PM
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The average age gap between couples tends to be 2-3 years The average age gap between *married* couples is 2-3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:51 PM
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This is such a weird projection. Did it ever cross your mind that men might find younger women attractive due to the objective beauty seen in them by both men and women? No, this is too much common sense. The clowns on this sub have to overthink and project their feelings onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:46 PM
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Honestly My personal interpretation of it is it’s mostly from spite as a kind of revenge This is one of the stupidest things this sub does. Explaining attraction isn't a revenge fantasy. You're either clueless or you're just trying to deny human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:45 PM
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Who cares? I barely even know what that silly shit was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:21 AM
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That person is a simp and a mark. As is any man that would submit to someone without getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:19 AM
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Neither does nearly every dude on this sub LMAOOO I never said they did. Just that I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:17 AM
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?! You don't make sense at all. Yes, positive that I don't make sense to someone like you. Regular dudes are below a bunch of women. Is a factual statement about the top "bunch" of women regarding mate value. You kno mate value right? And regular dudes are not on par with top mate value women. Which is hypergamy, defined. How dumb are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 AM
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It's only the most discussed topic on this sub. If you haven't seen the arguments, and the overwhelming evidence of it's existence, that you just haven't been paying attention to the sub or life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:09 AM
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I don't know that to be true. What I do know, however, is that everything I read from you is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:05 AM
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If people here really did that then they’d agree that “taller than her” is overwhelmingly the requirement instead of whatever blackpill bullshit people try n say. No, I'd have to lie to myself and not understand reality in order to say that. Taller than her is a meaningless virtue signal. In the real world, men compete for women and those women have options. A 5'9" guy is verbally "acceptable" based on her "requirement" but the 6'3" guy, all things being equal, is going to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:03 AM
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This would be worth a serious response if it wasn't for the blatant dishonesty about what's actually said around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:53 PM
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It's just so damn easy to succeed. There's never been more competition in literally any field than there is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:21 PM
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LOL. What a loser. So he's a good person because he lies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:05 PM
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Most of that remaining percentage will not date you once they find out your mentality in things like the above self-report. The idea that women choose based on mentality = LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:33 PM
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Hypergamy, like it is used in here, isn't even real. For Christ. LOL. The silliest people on Earth post on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:50 PM
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Regular dudes ARE factually below a bunch of women! LOL. "how is that hypergamy!?" Then... "Well, yeah, they are below those women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:48 PM
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How is that an example of hypergamy? The women are looking for a man who is not below their level of education. They want a man who is similar to them. This is pretty much the definition of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:47 PM
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Feminism diminished hypergamy. Legit hypergamy is literally marrying up. Equality means women don’t need to marry up anymore. You lost the plot almost immediately. Feminism just shifted hypergamy away from pure financial support to looks/status. And it's been supercharged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:45 PM
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If this is interesting then it’s no wonder dudes aren’t getting swipes or casual sex. What one considers funny has not effect on whether that person gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:23 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem. LOL. People ignoring long observed preferences will always do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:18 PM
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Lmao East and SE Asian males are the most cucked race on Earth. The East Asan claims made on this sub are so ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:17 PM
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Shameless self-hate seems to come most from migrant East and South Asians in my observations. Because those are seen as the least desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:13 PM
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Of course. Men are blamed for everything that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:09 PM
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For sure. The funniest is when they say "what? you can't get women you're own age!" As if 40 year olds are better looking and more desirable than 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:08 PM
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Or, like some women, she prefers older men. Nah, that's too much common sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
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This is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
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Revenge fantasy is just a lazy and stupid retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:06 PM
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That's what they *say* but of course you can't listen to what they say. Watch what they do instead. And just being taller than them is a bare minimum and not relevant to real world situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:01 PM
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As proven by each and every one of your posts: you don't understand female selection criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:00 PM
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I agree but that at least keeps the family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:56 PM
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You seem to be missing the fact that some random clueless redditers husband is not the idealized man. He's just your husband. He could be a loser, a cuck, or anything else. There's nothing about enduring 9 years with you that makes him a special case. Except that he's exceedingly patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:38 PM
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You have no idea what it's like to be in a sexual relationship with a man for 9 years, but I do. I assure you my response was reasonable. You're right. I'm also not dumb enough to claim that my one 9-year experience qualifies me to say anything, really. I'm 37 years old. I know way more than you do and that's just objectively true given what you've posted. NSA sex is mostly destructive *for women*.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:36 PM
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Agreed. But just because someone has a stupid comeback doesn't mean it's true. It's just their method of shutting you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:34 PM
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Again, I'm sure there's a lot I don't know And you demonstrate it with every post. Who cares about your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:31 PM
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Your opinions about male nature do not have to be mine You're a woman. You have no clue about male nature. If you did you wouldn't have had such a dumb response.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:28 PM
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You're not a man so you don't know what you're talking about. Women are the worst people of Earth to ask about men. Hell, they barely understand female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:26 PM
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I'll toast to that. Let's hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:24 PM
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My mind? How about read just one book first. About anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:23 PM
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I think we agree. Just because somebody gets "cancelled" doesn't mean it's racist. That's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:23 PM
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You're so unimportant and unworthy of my attention that I literally didn't even look at my notifications until just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:19 PM
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They will definitely throw away "happy" for "happier." That's just female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:19 PM
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She would. You know nothing about combat sports or human biology, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:17 PM
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Haha how pathetic Male nature = pathetic!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:53 PM
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You clearly don't understand male nature. As is common around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:52 PM
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It proves you demonstably wrong when men are willing to help non-white girls a fucking ocean away but you claim they somehow don't care about non-white girls in your own country? Again, u/Cult_of_Chad is a moron. There are no class of people in the world more protected than women and children. What kind of clown could claim otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:47 PM
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u/Cult_of_Chad is a complete idiot. Read his/her stuff. Totally clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:42 PM
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If by "men" you mean "reproductive instincts of our species" then sure. Anything they can say/do to make sure women are never to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:38 PM
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This is why you're delusional. So because you and the OP don't understand human nature therefore it's the fault of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:36 PM
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"no shit overeating sends you to an early grave, just show some kindness and understanding to fat people." That should be what the movement is but it's not. The same for when I say that we should treat all trans people respect and dignity but I would never date one. I'm immediately called a transphobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:29 PM
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Prefect answer for his sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:27 PM
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Of course because this sub demands this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:24 PM
3

Of course because this sub demands it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:23 PM
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50% of men make 50k, 50% of men are 5'9". 50% - the average man You don't understand math. Of those 50% that make 50k, not all of them are at least 5'9" and vice versa. He's way better at understanding how numbers work than you are. But you sure can be snarky though!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:10 PM
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but say things like don't find black men attractive It's not racist to not be physically attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:32 PM
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No, Ronda Rousey is a 130 lbs woman. She'd get ragdolled by the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:23 PM
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Your inability to articulate your points is what's pathetic. Started a thread and then whined when people responded. What a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:22 PM
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I love how you told him to do the math and then he dunked on you by doing the actual math. The math proves that women are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:12 PM
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"The wall" is a coping mechanism undesirable men use to fuel their revenge fantasies against women who didn't want them and still won't want them Or your response here is the coping mechanism and "the wall" is just a crude way to explain human biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:06 PM
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Sexually sure. Same with women. Being attractive is the barest of minimums for getting laid Not for a relationship though Women want the highest value man and then want to try to mold him into their life partner. Personality is basically meaningless. Women give the worst personality men the longest possible leash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:03 PM
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He doesn't even need to be particularly tall, attractive, wealthy. He just needs to be taller than the woman he's interested in, attractive enough to her, and not reliant on her for money. Female nature being hypergamous renders this as generally untrue. It doesn't matter if a man has all of those things. A women will always compare it to her best partner or the idealized partner she wants. That's the danger for men. Investing in a woman when he knows that whatever he does won't likely be enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:00 PM
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The issue here is that you think explaining female nature is "complaining."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:56 PM
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Ronda Rousey is bigger and stronger than you? What are you? 5'6" 130 lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:44 PM
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The short and skinny is that it's always unfair to criticize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:10 PM
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Browsing on Reddit you would think and women enjoy sex and crave it as much as men and then leave to the real world wondering why that's not the case since most men in today's society are sexless and also struggling to find relationships. Most of what women say on here is just virtue signaling of some kind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:27 AM
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Men with poor social skills, little understanding of women and few friends who do nothing more than create a tinder profile and swipe on everything with a vagina, yes. All men in OLD do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:45 AM
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This guy doesn't have any other words in his vocabulary than insecurity. Literally has no second move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:23 PM
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Not "following" why men are repulsed by high body count women is so incredibly naïve and silly that the rest of your snark is just comedic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:44 PM
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5 dates? If you believe that you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:40 PM
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I live. I observe. You seem very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:17 PM
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Most men disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:29 PM
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Extremely sexually desirable males (i.e. Chads) don’t give a fuck about n-counts. Any woman that engages with them will tell you this. In fact in my experience they prefer experienced women because shy starfish don’t cut it. You're just talking about casual sex. Ask them if they wife those women? Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:59 PM
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It's almost like men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:55 PM
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How so? I don’t follow LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:53 PM
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You're not a man. What a stupid thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:45 PM
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Because he married a women who is 10 years older than him and former stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:56 PM
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Feminism diminished hypergamy. Legit hypergamy is literally marrying up. Equality means women don’t need to marry up anymore. You're confused. Hypergamy is simply about women always idealizing their partner and thus constantly wanting to have better than them. If women don't have to marry for security then they'll be hypergamous about looks or status instead. It doesn't just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:14 PM
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I see stories like this about every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:55 PM
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Most women and men get married or LTR throughout their lives. Clearly dating is working for the mass majority of people This is cliched nonsense. Most people are not in happy, committed relationships. The idea that just getting married means that therefore your wife respects you or finds you attractive is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:53 PM
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Yes. When women talk about the bar being low for men or that "men are shit!" it's because they're all talking about the top 20% of men that they're all chasing. Those men are shit because they're all chasing the same men. The bar is low for men because they're all the same men and they're lowering the bar for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:35 PM
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This is a false dichotomy. There was no other choice. She dumped a "wonderful" man for being single. It's totally her right but at least get the situation correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:32 PM
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I'm describing how men think and act. It's lay to call it misogynist when you don't like what men are. I could easy call that misandrist if I was as lazy and stupid as you. Yes, a man might end up alone because of it but that doesn't make it any less true. You're a walking talking female cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:31 PM
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So as usual you will double down on your claim despite your ignorance. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:28 PM
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Understanding human nature is not considered a virtue around here. So your defensive claim doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:28 PM
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How does that practically, manifest any differently? Thinking you *are* something and just wanting to be treated as such by a loved on is the difference between delusions and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:36 PM
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Go back a reread the thread. She did blame the man. That's obvious without having to read anything else. It's an objective fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:35 PM
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I don't consider it a pejorative. It's just describing behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:34 PM
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Your bastardizing the scenario. Below average women think they *are* 10s. Not just want to be treated like one. Average men, however, do not think they are 10s but just want their wife to treat them like, you know, their wife should.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:07 PM
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I do. People who think men wouldn't choose sex from a woman over friendship is clueless and/or virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah, because you made it out to be some groundbreaking new revelation! No, I didn't. I told men to be aware. As in notice female behavior and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:33 PM
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This tops itself every single day. They make up a statistic and then when I laugh at it they claim that I didn't dispute their made up statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:32 PM
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My post is by itself a rejection of said bullshit statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:31 PM
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My female friends are women I've either slept with or want to sleep with Because you're a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:19 PM
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Yeah, complete nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:18 PM
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I still air on the side of 'you can't be friends if one of you is attracted to the other sexually'. Because that's reality. You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:13 PM
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Maybe if you’re immature, sure. But well-adjusted adult men see value beyond of what only they can receive. LOL. So another example of "if you don't see it my way, which is to misunderstand men, then you're just immature!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:12 PM
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You don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:12 PM
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Most guys like having girls as friends I don't think this is true and shouldn't be desirable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:11 PM
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And given that the most HV men of our society chose women their own age 99% of the tim LOL. An absolute bullshit statistic if I ever saw one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:03 PM
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Men constantly leave their wives for younger women so much so that it's a cultural trope. Really, constantly? Puhlease.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:59 PM
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So now what I said is so obvious yet you and a coterie of clowns have spent dozens of posts arguing with me. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:58 PM
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Anyone can judge another person as being "wonderful" but also acknowledge they're not the right fit as a life partner. But women are way more likely to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:53 PM
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Stop 'both-sides-ing" this. Women are unique in these cases. Men are content with good enough. women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:53 PM
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That women dump wonderful men. That's why I said beware. Women will still find ways to be unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:52 PM
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I disagree. You disagree with female nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:41 PM
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What makes you think they are pretending? What makes you think they're telling the truth? You're probably a kid so I'll tell you what "older" people experience: most "happy" marriages are not. Most "happy" people are not. The façade usually crumbles at some point and you see the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:41 PM
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Damn right I bolted. Great. You should do you. Everyone with an inch of self worth should dump someone if they make your life stressful. LOL. So much self-worth you got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:37 PM
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A wonderful man made you miserable. But nothing is amiss with you. Not at all! Good for you that being a single women in your 40s is so attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:35 PM
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Why would you NOT brake up with someone who made your life stressful? Nobody said you shouldn't. But you don't read anything. A wonderful man made your life stressful and so you bolted. Lucky man to have gotten rid of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:34 PM
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You’re projecting your own insecurities. What? LOL. I tell men to beware of female nature and the response by women is to blame men for "insecurities." She didn’t blame him She did. You clearly didn't read anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:33 PM
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You say that apparently the reflexive response is to blame men but in the original post we both replied to she hadn’t said that at all, so it seems a redundant point Yes, she did. He was "wonderful" but still didn't see a future with him. It was still his fault. And then she backed that up herself when pressed on it. And if a mature, adult, respectful and kind parting of the ways is ‘meaningless to the man’, then that says a whole lot more about the man involved. "The man is to blame!" However, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:32 PM
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What truth are you pointing out though? That a women will dump a "wonderful" man. Did you not read anything? Sometimes the chemistry dies. Doesn’t make much sense to continue a relationship then, unless there are kids involved. NOBODY SAID THAT SHE SHOULD CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:29 PM
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It sounds more like you have resentment and anger issues and expect undying loyalty from someone you aren’t married to. Time to blame a man, again! I'm, once again, pointing out a simple fact of female behavior and the response by women is to blame the man. And lie to boot. Nobody is shocked. But they weren’t legally married and when incompatibilities arise between two unmarried people, then it makes sense for them to break up. Nobody said that it didn't make sense for her. But the point is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:27 PM
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You can avoid trash talking your ex and still respect them while acknowledging that they aren’t horrible people. She said he was wonderful. That's not just the opposite of trash talking. That's a positive description. My current boyfriend isn’t evil, but he doesn’t understand that I want to wait until marriage for sex. I won’t call him evil if we break up. Well, yeah. Wanting sex is not evil. And this woman dumped a "wonderful" man and then attempted to blame him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:25 PM
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But dumping a wonderful man will never been seen as a bad choice of yours until the day you're 40 and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:23 PM
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All incredibly valid reasons to end a relationship. Nobody said otherwise. Just making sure people realize how female selection works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:22 PM
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But it's not a common female trait, it's a common trait for all, period. No, you're just attempting to include men in this because that's what this sub does. Nothing is ever quintessentially female. There's always an attempt to blame men too. Are you implying that it would be better if she didn't break up the relationship?? No, not all. He should feel relieved to be freed from that relationship. And she shouldn't feel obligated to stay with anyone. Just beware that women are never satisfied even…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:21 PM
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Interesting that you attempted to spin this and make me look bad. I didn't have to spin anything. You said out loud what most men instinctually understand. Being a good person isn't enough for a LTR and certainly not marriage. He had no self control and was very stressful to be with. LOL. Which is exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:19 PM
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Agreed. This is a better outcome for him in the long run but it still triggers women to point out the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:42 PM
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Anyone, regardless of gender, can still regard their ex as a wonderful person. The reflexive response by women is to always blame men even when the woman said, herself, that he was wonderful. Somehow we end up talking about "regardless of gender." Much more respectful and kind to set the other person free to find someone that can love them as they deserve surely? This is meaningless to the man. Nobody ever disputed that it's better for him to be let go rather than be stuck with a women who will …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:41 PM
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what does it matter if some unmarried "bf" or "gf" dumps you, its not a serious and real thing It doesn't matter to *me* that's why I was telling other men to beware. This woman said *herself* that he was wonderful but she dumped him anyway. Why are you reacting this way to me? I didn't do anything but point out a common female trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:38 PM
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Just because people vote for democrats, doesn't mean there isnt a general shift to the right happening Actually that's generally what it *does* means. There is a reason why its Biden in charge and not Sanders. Because the Democratic Party isn't as far left as people like you claim. Strange response from you since you were arguing the exact opposite earlier. Politics works on a spectrum, I'm not really interested in debating about the qualities of either party. You're not going to debate because …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:36 PM
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Well if you don't see a relationship with them, why are you dating them or having sex with them? This is a fundamental difference between men and women. If I'm on an actual date with a woman than I've already decided that I'd have sex with her. Women on the other hand will take a flyer for a free meal and then decide later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:44 PM
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You sound like a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:41 PM
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Her claim is so, so dumb. People who are good at something can make it look effortless. But guess how they got so good at it? By practicing and trying over and over again! This should be common sense but around here if you ask older men for advice or read about techniques you're "bad at interacting with women" or you're an "incel."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:36 PM
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Women are really unaware about how dating process is for men. 100%. There is a process to getting a women to sleep with you and knowing how/when to escalate is critical. In fact, if you're good at it then the women will feel that it's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:30 PM
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Beware of what? Is she supposed to hate her ex for the breakup to be valid? Is he supposed to be an awful human being for her to break up? Again, a women will have a "wonderful" partner and dump them for something or someone else. Pretty standard female behavior. Obviously this simple truth has triggered some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:23 PM
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Men should be aware that women will think you're wonderful but still dump you and move on. Pretty straight-forward female mating behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:21 PM
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Absolutely delusional to believe America hasn't largely shifted right. The Republicans have lost 7 of the last 8 popular Presidential elections and just squandered the midterm of a sitting President of the opposite party. Have you been in a coma for the last 6 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:14 PM
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Exactly. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:39 PM
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Then I met someone and had a three year relationship with, and I ended that. He was a wonderful human but I didn't see a future with him. Men, beware.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:36 PM
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Women care about morals, personality and a ton of other factors. Only after filtering for looks/money first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:09 PM
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"WoMEN ArE PEoPlE"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:59 PM
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Lol exactly. I’m 32 and no amount of money would make me want to revert back to 22 This has nothing at all to do with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:51 PM
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I think men just don't understand that we're not mad or lying to ourselves. So you're lying to yourself about lying. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:49 PM
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And the same users do not admit men also become less attractive when the ageing process begins to be more noticeable (usually in their 30s). Men in general are *more* attractive as they get older because women have a wider set of criteria and men accrue more assets and meet those criteria the older they get. Stop trying to make like vs. like comparisons between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:47 PM
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Younger women are more attractive than older women, but women are still women. A 40 year old woman is still going to be attractive to a 50 year old man, and that’s often all that it takes. This doesn't refute the OP and in fact supports him. A woman's pool of men shrinks as she gets older. Yes, a 60 year old man will try to get a 50 year old woman. And? That's an example of her shrinking interest among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:45 PM
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You apparently don't actually read this sub or even this thread. Everything after that first sentence is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:44 PM
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Your anecdote doesn't refute anything. Yes, a 50-year-old woman will get attention from 40s, 50s and 60s men. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:43 PM
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Another woman who only wants to deal in exceptions. I mean yeah there are plenty of hot older women but it's definitely not the general rule. It's immutable on this sub. Women trying to wave off the general rule and pump the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:40 PM
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There's just no hope that people like you will ever understand or stop being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:37 PM
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Anyway this post is nothing more than a thinly veiled attempt to try and make older women feel bad, sorry it isn't working This is exactly the kind of nasty resentment that the OP is talking about. Chef's kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:37 PM
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Income is important, but good financial sense is even more important. I can tell you that women are at the very least indifferent and mostly slightly perturbed at men who have good financial sense or are frugal in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:22 PM
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Yes, see MyLastBestChance on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:20 PM
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Yes, the social incentive to getting laid (which is a male imperative) is *not* to be nice. Being "nice" won't even get you an audience with similarly "nice" women since that's not what's attractive to women. Sure, they may want a "nice" guy later on in a relationship but their attraction cues are not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:19 PM
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I disagree. Women who refuse to date short men are the majority. True. The people who deny this are clueless. They think because they don't hear women say anything about height that ergo it doesn't matter. But it's a subconscious selection criterion. Certain men won't get passed "Go" if they aren't tall enough. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:04 PM
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The true endgame is to remove your need for sex. So dumb. So basically just deny nature. Good advice, lady,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:02 PM
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There's enough truth to it to be appealing to certain people As I've said before, 50% of red pill is toxic nonsense and the other 50% is just logic and biology. Half is useful. The other half is, well, toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:59 PM
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You are insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:50 PM
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You don't seem to understand social incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:48 PM
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It is logical and fair. Your hysterical post doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:43 PM
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Because one is true and the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:59 PM
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This proves nothing. Yes, people usually marry those that they interact with the most. Not a novel concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:59 PM
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Because it’s not that women are attracted to older men because they’re older It is, actually. it’s because these men may have used their time to resource collect. Right, so then why did you make your first dumb statement then? Yeah, they have more to offer because they're older. Duh. Most young people looking for real relationships are aiming to do so on the basis of connection, not transaction. As such, it makes total sense they would prefer someone in their age group. But when given a choice t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:57 PM
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OH, so you completely made up something that the OP didn't say? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:55 PM
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If 20 year olds know nothing then why do you want girls in this age range so bad? To manipulate and control them? We're attracted to them. Hopefully they have more sense than you and it works out. Also, you're claiming that I, a 20 year old, know nothing about how people my age think? No, I'm saying that you don't know anything about anything. The truth is that no men in this sub are getting with any of them, or else they'd be too busy having sex or going out on dates. Older women don't need you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:54 PM
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Do you have any clue how creepy that is dude? Jesus Christ. I find that you being a grown adult (I assume) and yet being completely clueless about life is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:38 PM
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Agreed. But not our own facts. Women are less valuable as mates to men as they age. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:36 PM
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I care because I'm 20 Oh, good to know. We can assume that you know nothing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:35 PM
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The study, carried out by Allure magazine, found women are considered most beautiful at 30, show signs of ageing at 41, stop looking ‘sexy’ at 53 and are thought of as ‘old’ at 55." LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:33 PM
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No, it is true for you. Not all men, and mid 20's and 19-22 is not near the same thing. Men, in general, are attracted t0 20 year olds. Stop fighting nature and using outliers to make your silly points.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:33 PM
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No they don’t unless they’re rich. Most men aren’t rich. But if you can, by all means. Weird. I'm not rich and neither are any of my friends but we do. Maybe you're just full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:32 PM
1

So you admit to just making something up? Because you definitely don't see 22 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:24 PM
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More stuff that you're just making up. If that was even the case, so what? So now you care about the opinions of 20-somethings?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah, something like that. The amount of hysterical women jumping into these threads proves that there's some kind of hang up they have about normal sexual impulses. "Men find hot young women....hot? Ewwww!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:19 PM
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I was going to upvote and then you made a really bad comparison. Women do lose SMV as they get older. That's just a fact. Just because guys like to whack off to MILFs has nothing to do with that. Men wants to blow their load. They don't want to date and/or marry those porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:18 PM
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but all men are attracted to very young girls is not remotely true. It's totally true. Men are attracted to the best-looking women and they are usually mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:12 PM
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No, not remotely true. I do not find most 22 year olds attractive. They often look like full blown children, an equal number don't but still. In addition, the mentality of most 22 year olds is pretty childish. I prefer a woman I can have a conversation with, not just stare at. You do not see 22 year old women if you think they look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:11 PM
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It raises red flags when people post these unprovoked. How are they unprovoked? Have you seen the hysterical women who immediately call it gross, creepy, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:10 PM
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Most 22 year old women are not into men 35+ lmao. You just keep making this up. Common sense says you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:02 PM
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Didn't say that my experience is universal, just saying that it's easier to attract younger women than this sub would lead you to believe The women on this sub are extraordinarily clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:02 PM
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Good luck with that because majority of 22 year olds dont want you. You're just making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:01 PM
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It’s just gross. Are men on this sub aware we find older men unattractive? But women don't. I don't know that you spoke for all women but there's a reason why older men with younger women is a thing that everybody recognizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:58 PM
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As long as you take no for an answer, no one cares. This is obviously not true. Men swear women are attracted to men in their 30s. Because it's obviously true. If that’s the case I don’t want to see any more posts whining about being a worthless 30 year old virgin. Apparently you’ll have 22 year old women at your beck and call now. It's almost as if your goal is to be the silliest person possible. Not all men can pull 20-year-olds in their 30s. But many can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:57 PM
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I can pull a 22-year-old. How is that a laughing stock? What's comical is the insistence that no 35-year-old man would be attractive to a 22-year-old woman and that age-appropriate men are better choices for those women. Talk about clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:52 PM
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I don't even see what's weird about that. At what are women finally not children? You can't infantilize women....until it's convenient for them to be infantilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:49 PM
2

We may find it weird a 35 years old man hits on a 22 years old woman, but the fact is that she is at top of her attraction and all men, of any age, desire her. Of course this is true. Yet you'll get the hyenas telling you that it's creepy. "Men having totally normal sexual impulses is creepy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:48 PM
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Shaming a woman for having casual sex is objectifying women like they are car mileage. A man preferring a woman who isn't promiscuous isn't shaming. It's a preference. This is because you have a prejudice that demonize promiscuous women so you form a belief where you can ascertain whether someone is promiscuous or not A prejudice is another word for a preference. People are allowed to have them. It's comical watching you flail around whining about shaming and demonizing while you shame and demon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:46 PM
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I'm kind of embarrassed for them. Male insecurity is seriously normalized. Women admitting their preference and then them claiming it's not true is totally normalized. What's embarrassing is the utter lack of self-awareness that you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:44 PM
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almost as classic as you literally fixating on one statement and ignoring the part where it doesn’t matter proving op’s point. You prefer it. So it does matter. Nobody claimed that it was a conscious choice. Nobody said that you would say it out loud. You're denying your own preferences because you want to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:43 PM
1

Exactly. Women are attracted to men for certain reasons and then the moment they catch them they go about trying to change all of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:38 PM
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either they badger a woman on her sexual history which is weird and creepy Any judgment made against a woman = weird and creepy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:10 PM
0

i have always preferred taller men Imagine proving the axiom correct in the very same sentence where you try to dismiss it. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:04 PM
2

It's always existed. Women just don't verbalize it a lot and those who are making it public now are men pointing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:22 PM
2

This is the common kind of tomfoolery that we get around here and so this must be repeated: You won't even get past her filter if you're short. Every time someone talks about personality, etc. it's always pointless because those short men will never get the opportunity to date a woman like that and have her exposed to his wonderful personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:21 PM
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Women have a huge problem with general truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:13 PM
2

Women marry up socio economically statistically. Men marry down. So how is this statement true. That was one of the dumbest statements they made. Marriage is almost entirely an institution that benefits people other than men; it benefits women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:46 PM
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The difference, however, is that sarcasm is not an attractive trait in women. The irony is that all of those "boss bitches" are even more unattractive to men than they realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:44 PM
3

It was at this moment I knew nothing of value or reality was going to be said. Ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:43 PM
1

Our sisters are not happy about being single and usually come to us to ask us how our relationship worked/works so well. Yeah, the women who claim that they're "queens" who chose to be single and are "killing it" are usually lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:38 PM
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I'm cool with women demanding men be better. But you're attitude will likely keep you single forever. Which I'm also cool with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:36 PM
3

The reality is that women want all the benefits of being a man (the career, the pay, etc.) but without any of the responsbilities. You see it here all the time. "Boss" women who never want to take the arrows that the "man" has to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:35 PM
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You obviously never read this sub. Women are never to blame. In fact, they *can't* be blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:33 PM
1

Exactly. Society conditions you to believe that you’re at your hottest from 18-23. Ah, yes. It's just social conditioning. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:57 PM
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Men that obsess over “youth and fertility” are the men that you ignore. So ignore all men, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:56 PM
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LOL. You're a clown who can't come to grips with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:56 PM
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I just feel like it gets obnoxious that a handful of men that are like this take up all the oxygen in the room and make everyone else feel like they’re defective. All me are attracted most to women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:41 PM
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Because most men are not like men on this, despite what people here will claim, LOL. So clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:40 PM
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You are quite right about that. It just scares me cause you don’t always know that guys are secretly angry misogynist redditors after meeting them a few times Your mistake is thinking that men who want 25 year-olds are angry misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:38 PM
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and I don’t see how telling women that their value will go down as they age is going to encourage them back onto the dating market We're telling you the truth, not trying to encourage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:37 PM
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That's the #1 thing (by far) that men are using to determine who they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:35 PM
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It's human nature. You act as if it's a conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:34 PM
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I'll say this, women once they're about 28+ on dating apps just... dear lord. It's like the trash of the trash. Amen brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:55 PM
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LOL. "You are a biological male! You're a creep!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:51 PM
0

Oh God. We have another one. Judging men by their biological attraction as being "shallow."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:39 PM
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No, that's not true at all. For every guy here that claims men only like chicks in their 20's, there's a guy out there that finds younger women annoying and immature... What does annoying and immature have to do with physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:38 PM
0

True. I would advise any man to avoid dating a woman 9 years older than him. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:36 PM
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Women are better looking in their mid-20's. That's a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:35 PM
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People become friends for any number of reasons. You think that if someone is a friend that you have to like or endorse all of their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:47 PM
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Regardless of who coined the term, what about the rest? Nope. She will never admit that it's a real thing that I guess red pill gave a name. Nope! She will use that label to avoid it at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:07 PM
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Why is it your problem if people make bad choices that don’t affect you? If those people are half the population it affects everyone eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:05 PM
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You'd be surprised. Yes, some guys are just loyal douchebags but you'll find that some of their friends actually resent the kind of dick that they are and would be totally truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:03 PM
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I ended up in an abusive relationship and ended up feeling bitter and angry for a couple of years. What changed that was the realization that I picked her. This is important but fundamentally the antithesis of being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:00 PM
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It's sad that some people re so dumb that they can't come up with a coherent thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:50 PM
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You obviously haven't been around here long enough to know that the response to every claim by a man is someone claiming that women are people as if that's some kind of comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:36 PM
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No they don't. These people are clueless. Projecting their feelings on what "normal" people would feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:57 AM
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Wrong. They're in a better position or else they would be stuck with women their own age. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:54 AM
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Why talk about standards when this entire problem exists on an absurd double standard in society that restricts a woman's sexuality. It's not absurd and men judging isn't a restriction on their sexuality. It's a preference. Which is exactly what the OP stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:47 AM
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So because women have an easier time getting casual sex, it means it's acceptable to judge women for doing so? I don't understand your point. It's always acceptable to judge. Women have a hard time with this concept. They want to act like men but then never be judged. But men are judged all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:38 AM
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FR. "I want them to be virgins for everyone but me." Like maybe just let women be people and let them explore their sexuality the same way we allow men? "WoMEn ArE PeOPLe!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:22 AM
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Sure, I could have "picked better" but I was only 17 and basically groomed by my ex and trauma bonded to him. "Sure I could have picked better but that's me taking responsibility so I was groomed by him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:48 PM
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I get second hand embarrassment reading posts like this that take an absolutely rare edge case and apply it to most people. You think this is rare? Antonio Cromartie. Same thing. I guess you have to define your definition of rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:40 PM
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No, you admitted to being naive. Claiming that you don't know anybody (insert claim) is the height of naivete.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:37 PM
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Here comes the anecdotal, hearsay claims!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:46 PM
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I will totally hold men accountable. But women are never held accountable in the single mother scenario. They *are" lionized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:46 PM
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But people don't gather together and lay into other individuals like you see in 2005 high school movies. I don't have a single friend group that does this, and they're mostly female. So you're naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:44 PM
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His claim is at least somewhat plausible. Women trapping men is not unprecedented. What you claimed has never happened in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:53 AM
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And some dudes poke holes in condoms to trap women or switch out their birth control meds if we want to drum up hypotheticals. What? LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:41 AM
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What? Good God you're dumb. What waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:26 PM
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I'm waving it off because I think it's a moral failing, not a biological condition lol Ok. So you're stupid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:16 PM
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You're the one arguing it's biological. It is. I know plenty of men who don't have these issues you ascribe to biology They do. They just don't have as much trouble getting what they want or carrying on without it. I'd rather spend my time praising those men, not worrying about the shitty ones. You're clearly not a serious person. If I can name some people I know who don't suffer from (insert obvious biological thing) then I can just wave off said thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:36 PM
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No, I'm just arguing that biological "problems" aren't easily overcome by willpower. You're awfully naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:08 PM
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Men are hardwired to pursue women. So your "problem" is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:49 PM
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No, the problem is that men view their only cure for loneliness as ANYTHING having to do with women. Make friends, keep in touch with non-toxic family. It is unhealthy to view romantic and sexual relationships as your only way to connect with other people, and no one of any gender should be entertaining that for you. It's nature. Men are hardwired to seek women. How is this even a thing? You don't know this basic fact of human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:51 PM
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Can you specify the males ones so we know your not just “anti-women” LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:36 PM
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Nonsense. Birth rates decline as a country becomes wealthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:54 PM
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The societies that prioritize getting married and having larger families… will eventually replace those who don’t over the course of many generations. This is ahistorical since the wealthier a country gets the fewer children are born. So those societies prioritize marriage and large families until they become wealthy and then they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:54 PM
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At some point you gotta wonder why that is, why that man is ONLY chasing those women. LOL. So you're not being facetious? You really don't know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:34 PM
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GENERALLY speaking, the issue with age gaps is you have to wonder why a person would be interested in someone who is in such a different life stage. You wonder why men are attracted to 20-year-old women? This sub is so doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 PM
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Because they can't date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:16 PM
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No, you're just naive. People badmouth their friends all the time behind their backs. This sub is uniquely clueless when it comes to the nature of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:15 PM
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Typical response for this sub. Clueless extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:00 PM
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No, you're just naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:51 PM
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Because they can't date younger women. You have not refuted a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:24 PM
1

Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:24 PM
3

So if you're a man. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:25 PM
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It comes from the fact that women at that age are the most attractive. Stop looking too deeply into it. Every man would do the same if given the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:35 PM
1

Why would a man in his late 40s feel the need for this? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:47 PM
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Early 20s girls are absolutely interacting with mid 20s guys on the dating market. But there's no evidence that they have their shit together. Especially ones they're meeting on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:46 PM
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But your point about 25 year olds having their shit together was stupid. The guys that hot, gold-digging girls are around when they're in their early 20's don't have their shit together. Go outside sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:57 PM
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In my experience they seem to set the ceiling at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:22 PM
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Younger guys can get their shit together too. Yeah, great, you make 100k at 35. But the hot, gold digging girls you now think you deserve are going after dudes who make 100k at 25 because they went into consulting or IB. Getting your shit together still puts you at a loss relative to younger guys who accomplished it sooner. 20 year olds are mostly around other college-aged kids. And they certainly do *not* have their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:36 PM
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Oh, Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:31 PM
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What's that got to do with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:18 PM
1

You have everything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:40 PM
1

If you really sat back and observed you'd get the general feeling that women never, ever take responsibility for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:33 PM
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It's why women are terrible at giving advice. They think that every person is different whereas a man will give you the 80% general truth. The man's advice is more helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:32 PM
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Because it's an echo chamber. Actually, because men are fine with generalizing based on statistical facts and women couch everything in "nuh uh! I know a person who doesn't fit the generalization!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:31 PM
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They're still men, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:23 PM
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I didn't realize this until I got divorced in my 30s It's interesting to see women react when they're told this by male acquittances. A lot of them try to deny it at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:22 PM
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You're conflating the sexual marketplace with the relationship/marriage marketplace. For the former, yes, women are just as shallow as men. But for the latter they are definitely more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:23 PM
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Yeah tbh, I don't understand how a man's success is indicated by his body count. So you don't understand nature, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:33 PM
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At my company the management is all women because we're the ones who get shit done while the men cry anytime we ask them to lift something heavy. It's crazy how men get to be perceived as competent by default when most of them are little bitches tbh. I bet this is completely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:53 PM
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Most women I meet, make friends with, work with and live with never demonstrated signs of critical thinking, they always demonstrated herd mentality, ergo shitty workplace environment = shitty women behavior and so on and forth, men on the other hand always made something out of the situation I was banned from the NWSL sub because I made this analogy in sports. The bar for what's considered abuse in the workplace is way lower for women then men. It's not socially acceptable for men to complain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:52 PM
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It's now blatantly obvious to me that younger men who aren't 9's or 10's are expecting to be able to access casual sex relatively easy Younger men are expecting to have access to casual sex *in their number range.* 5's are not expecting to fuck better than 5's (for the most part). Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:20 PM
3

Reverse everything you said and then it would be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:13 PM
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In regards to 2, the media can try to hype up body acceptance. But in reality men aren’t attracted to overweight women. This has always been the conceit of it. No matter what society/women tell you, men aren't attracted to those women. Yet they almost try to demand that we find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:34 PM
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The more I think about it the more it seems they appeal to fairness and equal rules but in reality they get rid of responsibilities but keep the benefits, exploting mens good will Women want all the benefits of being a man without any of the responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:22 PM
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Mate - if you want your world to suck, have at it. You couldn't be more of a caricature if you tried. This has nothing to do with what people want and has everything to do with what the world *is*. Not to get too hippy, but I’m pretty firmly of the belief that we attract situations that confirm our beliefs. You are a perfect example. You want to deny reality so you just assume that it doesn't exist. If you wanna believe that every relationship is transactional Nobody said transactional. You just…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:55 PM
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I think what changed isnt expectations on young men but expectations young men have. They’re aware of who’s available and aware of the men who have access to who’s available. They don’t want to date anymore, they want to be alphas. They want the same access even if their looks don’t reach the threshold. And before you say no they want girlfriends my like messages beg to differ. You couldn't possible be more wrong. In fact you have it completely backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:50 PM
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I never heard any woman say anything about six feet back then. That would have been weird. Did some just think it? Maybe. Not to this extent though. It's subconscious. They are just attracted to tall men regardless of whether they say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:43 PM
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You wanna view everything as a transaction? Prepare to be transacted with. If you wanna live in a world that's so desperately fucking grim, that's on you homie. It's not my experience, and it's not what I see around me. You're a loon. It's always interesting to see people freak out when told how the world actually works. They immediately blame you for being "grim" as if that's a successful refutation. What's more is they claim that it's not "their experience" which is obvious. You don't have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:35 PM
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Sex and romance isn’t a market. It absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:44 AM
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I'm not single but thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:46 PM
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The more freedom a society has, the more the spoils of said society aggregate in the hands of those at the top. Capitalism, sexual free market, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:13 PM
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Men like young women, people can get butt hurt about that and try to police people but that’s just how it is. Yeah, I'm always amused when women claim that older men being attracted to younger women is "gross." Because its "gross" for men to be physically attracted to women in their prime. If that's the case then every man that's ever existed is "gross" and a "creep."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:09 PM
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Dude you're the outlier. You realize that right? No, you're just in denial about the nature of men. It's rampant on this sub. Women being totally clueless about men and refusing to understand them even when told about it. For actual young people? Dating for a month and not fucking isn't uncommon. You live in an alternate universe. The vast majority of young men aren't hanging around for a month without getting laid. If they are, then they're fucking someone else in the meantime. Men try to get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:54 PM
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It's amazing to me that you have to rely on ppd for validation What's amazing is how you just made this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:49 PM
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So you think a woman on Tinder is less likely to get pumped and dumped by a less attractive guy who is on Tinder looking for quick sex? No, she's just *more* likely to find a guy who would invest in a long-term relationship. Possible I guess, but so far as I know, character quality is not directly inversely correlated to attractiveness... Is has nothing to do with character and everything to do with options. Even if that's true, women who are looking for just sex / hookups won't care because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:26 PM
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Dude being in "the game" doesn't really count for anything. LOL. "Dude, knowing what goes on is not important!" Issues with sex also happen within relationships, you can't just discount all married people. Married people are not in the dating game and therefore really shouldn't be counted on to give good takes on it. You're saying "I act this way and it's a universal truth all men do." They don't. We're generalizing about a large population. Yes, men as a sex *do* behave that way. Of course you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:24 PM
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Grown ass adult men know if they like a woman without having sex with her first They don't want to be in a relationship with every woman they "like." sex is very important but it's not everything in a relationship It's necessary but not sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:19 PM
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I don’t see what’s wrong with wanting the hottest option, and I am a dude. Nobody said anything was wrong with it. We're saying that it's reality and there are consequences to this aspect of female nature. If you want to know, objectively, what's wrong with is that it's delusional as the vast majority of women won't be able to bag the hottest guy. And… whut? Women aren’t restricted to only date men in their social circle I was addressing *your* scenario, dummy. But most women prefer to date the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:18 PM
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I've been with my partner for like 9 years but okay. Which reinforces my point that you're outside of the game. My own relationship and my friends and families relationships have really helped me get a better understanding of people and how relationships work. And you're understanding is basic and irrelevant. You have no idea what does on out there since you've been tied up for 9 years and all of your connections have too. Like my friend finding out breastfeeding her son was nuking her libido fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:51 PM
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You still have not provided an answer for this: The same reason men don't: they chose a satisfactory option. The question is why would women want to do that? To not get pumped and dumped all the time as is the driving force for almost every female complaint about men in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:48 PM
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And I don't. Just pointing out the silly double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:24 PM
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Bro, if you are bitching about putting in work as a man you aren’t a real man I'm not. You're just dodging the issue because it's inconvenient. I pointed out the difference between men and women and you just "bro'd" and avoided it. IDGAF about what’s going on on women’s side but fuck All the lazy ass dudes who complain instead of lifting, hustling, or doing for others while the rest of us do. LOL. Clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:23 PM
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Maybe women just put in the work without complaining. LOL. Comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:21 PM
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In the absence of any other criteria, why would women not choose the most attractive option? What would be the point for women in NOT doing that? Men choose acceptable women. Women choose *only* the most attractive. Why is this hard to understand? Both are choosing in the absence of other criteria, yet they choose differently. This is really not that complicated or diabolical...being thirsty and indiscriminate is not exactly a position of moral superiority here. Nobody said it was. You just made…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:20 PM
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Women select for looks when they only thing they have to judge by is a picture, yeah Women only select the *most* attractive when only selecting for looks. Men, when only selecting for looks, still have a wider range. A better more natural study would be more like who women choose to date in their social circle. Which tend to be dudes they get along with and enjoy the company of. When their selection is limited (on their social circles) they can't select the most attractive guys in their city/to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:18 PM
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You meet the girl you like the most, the perfect girl, nothing compares to her, you dream with dating her because she's just that amazing. How do I know this if I haven't slept with her? I'm not a teenager. This person doesn't exist to grown adults with life experience. So you break up or stop seeing this girl, the most amazing girl you've ever met, cause you have needs and can't wait dunno, like 5 fucking months. 5 months? LOL. Definitely not 5 months. Not even one month. But, again, this perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:16 PM
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Nothing to do with feelings, just doesn't match real world experience. Which is why you're naive. You have no actual relevant experience. How old are you? And are you in a relationship? 37, and yes. Edgelord is the kind of language that a clown uses when all of their friends are married and they have no actual experience in the field understanding human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:13 PM
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No one is going to fuck and date people that they don't want. You can shout all day about what "leagues" you think people are in. Yes, some people are delusional and the OP is pointing it out. Again, this is not a refutation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:42 PM
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Because the women on tinder only have pictures to go by, bro So when only selecting for looks, women only choose the *most* attractive and nobody else. This proves the OP thesis. Men aren’t exactly swiping for women on tinder for their personalities. Which nobody claimed. The claim is that men have a much wider range of women who'll they'll swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:41 PM
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Men have to "put in the work and stop complaining." women are "fine just the way they are." I think this is what the OP is referencing and your post reinforces the notion that ugly women are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:37 PM
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They're so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:34 PM
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I'd argue you're naive. lol. This sub. I'm giving honest truths even if they hurt your feelings. Your feelings are hurt by simple life truths. It's not a mystery who's being naive. The idea that sex is prioritized above all. Without sex, it's a friendship. Or business partnership (if your married). This is the height of naivete. It's extremely childish and sounds like it's coming from someone who has not been in a committed relationship for many years, had children, experienced illness, etc. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:29 PM
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No...if a guy likes you and knows you like him he's easily going to wait several months if necessary. So stupid and naive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:26 PM
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That's fine. They can have whatever reasons they want. It's their body. I'll just move on as most other men will do. But some will stick around and cheat. That's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:18 PM
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Lol dude you’re the reason women wait. I've never had to wait. I either got laid or decided to move on cordially. You act like sex is THE defining aspect of your relationship. lol. I'm always amused by chicks who think that sex is just tangential to a romantic relationship. If you're not having sex, then you're just friends. Threatening to cheat if you don’t get what you want IS coercion. I agree which is why I don't do it. But other men won't threaten. They'll just do it. Women should understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:14 PM
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What does this even mean? I'm purposefully not having sex with you right now. That doesn't mean I'm stringing you along. If you're engaging in a relationship with a man and you won't have sex then he will fuck other women. Pretty simple. The fact that you're being purposefully obtuse is not my problem. I think cheating on someone you are in a monogamous relationship with is despicable and cowardly. It's not a monogamous relationship if there's no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:11 PM
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No one should have sex if they don't want to. Agreed. If you cheat you should feel sorry about it. Depends on the situation. If your girlfriend won't fuck you then you're going to cheat. Pretty simple. Just dump them and go fuck around. Easy. Agreed. You're very entitled. I just understand life. You're very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:08 PM
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You're the reason why men cheat and don't feel sorry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:24 PM
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You have every right to remain ignorant and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:01 PM
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Bro this isn’t the topic at hand. Then why are you insisting on double down on being wrong? Reality is that I don’t view the Dems or the Republicans to truly be that different. This is just nonsense that ignorant and/or dumb people do when they're incapable of reasonable analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:59 PM
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Uh no. It's not being ready. Thinking it's "stringing along" it's called entitled. Thinking it's stringing along is called reasonable. Nobody is saying that you don't have the right to do what you want. I'm saying that withholding sex from your partner is a sure way to get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:57 PM
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No one's stringing along. It's literally coerced sex. If women purposefully don't have sex with their men then that's stringing them along. Again, women can do that if they want. But holding out sex from men is a bad way to get what you want. It's just going to get them cheated on. And if you're not willing to wait until someone is comfortable you should probably just dump them and not threaten them. I agree. It's called respecting boundaries. I respect your boundaries. You then have to respect …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:14 PM
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All that was allowed passively by people who were To reiterate: Republicans stole a seat from a sitting, elected President. They then completely reversed themselves 4 years later to take another seat. Then a third seat was chosen by a President who wasn't popularly elected. So there was no backlash. It was all a fluke and/or dirty dealing. You're just wrong on the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah a backlash to the initial backlash that got those guys their seats. Two of those seats were stolen and the third appointed by a President that wasn't popularly elected. So you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:44 PM
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Their veiled threats to ditch them if they didn't put out. Sex often isn't empowering when it's coerced. But at the same time it's awfully naive for young women to string guys along because they're just going to cheat on them. Women have to be aware of the risks involved with that. If they want to hold out then more power to them. I applaud them. But their guys will just fuck other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:10 PM
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Didn’t take millions of red pillers. Just took like 4 conservative justices waiting it out long enough to make their decisions. Have you been paying attention at all? The backlash has been against overturning Roe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:05 PM
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Despite the wants of the some folks on the left the differences between men and women on wanting hookups are pretty much inline with what our ancestors though. Triggernometry is a right-wing channel so I find it funny that they are peddling anti-freedom arguments. On one hand, freedom is everything. But with sex? Maybe you should do what we tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:02 PM
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Why would a woman engage in behavior that might push that guy away if she already knows that she wants him? Ironically, if you actually had life experience you'd know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:32 PM
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Not really. It objectively is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:25 PM
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It hasn’t happened to me in any relationships that I’ve been in. Then doubles down with a *personal* anecdote. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:50 PM
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Your experience has made your clueless so I'd hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:50 PM
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Yes because we get nothing out of sex. If you value yourself this little then the men you fuck will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:47 PM
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The point is your mockery is pointless. You fucked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:46 PM
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RP is adamant about passing those things off as objectives truths but nothing I’ve ever experienced has ever proved them to be true You don't experience much then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:33 PM
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Not all women do this, especially if they are already really into the guy. LOL. Here we go again. Taking a true generalization and saying "Nah uh! *Some* women don't!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:32 PM
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Don't take advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:28 PM
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what if he dates us because he can't get the girl he actually wants, what if he dates us because we we're just there? Men will rarely give up their freedom for someone they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:18 PM
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Can you understand what the complaint is here though? Do you understand why it infuriates the OP? No, they can't. It's funny that when their yarn is completely undone they just say "well, then get another woman." Yeah, no shit. That's exactly what we're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:16 PM
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And I only was with him because he was kinky and I hadn't found someone I actually liked. But you fucked him. That's the point of this exercise, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:14 PM
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He's such an idiot and you still would rather have sex with him than with the chubby nerdy husbandy guy that struggles to deal with his premature ejaculation. These chicks are comical. Mocking the guy who they just let fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:14 PM
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Men realize a lot of women actively mock and talk shit about hookup material guys right? Is this before or after they all fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:12 PM
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You literally get the same thing without the arguing/hassle/emotional blackmail and abuse You fuck and then she leaves. That's the best part of casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:09 PM
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One thing that never disappoints on this sub: women always blaming men for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:06 PM
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height is your own fixation, not most women’s requirement. When presented with *women* filtering for extreme height, we still get responses like this. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:15 PM
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Respectfully...this argument is absolutely atrocious. But par for the course around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:54 PM
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Men don't care about a woman's career or that she likes sports or video games, etc. You don't have to believe me if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:40 PM
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Exactly. Her post is off the mark since men don't value those things she mentioned over how she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:43 PM
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It just tracks with what everybody should already know. Or at least what observant people already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:35 PM
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It just shows that women want to date attractive men and you definitely would find the same if the sexes were reversed. Men want to *fuck* the hottest chicks. Women want to date/marry pedophiles that happen to be hot. Why is this difficult for you to decipher?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:46 PM
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Yeah, the actual measurement of crime. I love that you're dead wrong but now you want to play a semantics game in order to avoid admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:45 PM
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What you miss is that I don't care if I'm alone. I enjoy it. That's great. I'm happy for you. You're the exception to the rule, though. I can have a full family, grandkids, great grandkids, etc without ever settling for a man (or partner in general). And then you contradict yourself. So you still want kids, grandkids, etc. So not so much of an outlier then. Same as the *VAST* majority of women. That's common among even happily married women who are widowed early. They are relieved to be free. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:43 PM
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That's a lovely anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:34 PM
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Oh hi again Bruce! Wow you really like me tonight huh? I’ve never had someone’s name pop up so many times in my notifications! :) Maybe read the rest of my convo with Sigma1979, watch us disagree and politely exchange ideas, before parting ways without being mad but rather appreciating the opportunity to have had a discussion I don't care whether you want to be polite or not. I'm not here to make friends. You have silly ideas about this topic and if you're actually interested in an exchange of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:01 AM
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What you're saying is stupid. It's false to claim that crime is currently bad because crime went up. Yeah, it went up from historic lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:58 AM
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Pretty sure I already told you what I observe, But that doesn't match up with evolutionary biology. Its just your small group of acquitances. Talk to people. Read something. Talk to other people. Read some more. There is no “winning” with you, That's certainly true. Someone like you has no chance. Do you ever think before you comment? If I was bashing you so easily without thinking that would be embarrassing for you. But I can actually attack on the things you've actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:57 PM
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Well, this is one of the weakest recessions in history so you're definitely not from here. But your theory is bunk and the stats prove it. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:53 PM
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If you have ANY evidence I would believe you, but sadly you don’t. Walk outside. Look. Observe. If you need evidence of human nature than you're a goofball. So you can scream in the abyss about women being shallow, but no one will believe you, which has already been demonstrated plenty of times I've never uttered the phrase women are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:48 PM
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It's 2022 and the world is super different to how it was even in 2018. That's an interesting response when your thesis was proven to be bunk. It was 80% in 2006. It was 86% in 2018. And your response is that "It's 2022, man! The world is changing!' Yeah, and the data says it's changing in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:19 PM
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It is anecdotal evidence because you haven’t even proven it, I’m sorry but that is how anecdotal works. You don't even know what the phrase means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:18 PM
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Seeing as most times I come in contact with these views, they are angry and often hateful, and often are used to talk badly about women….is it unsurprising that I am unwelcome to entertain this school of thought? Saying that women will simp for bad boys and/or criminals is not hateful. It's just true. It's not unsurprising that women push back on these things. It paints them in a bad light (in *your* words). However my issue lies in your inability to accept my lived experience as much as you exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:00 PM
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I see just as much evidence presented by you as me, so no, your evidence is definitely anecdotal. Because you're clueless. There are biological traits that men/women have and then there are behaviors that are exhibited in nature. The behaviors that I've observed (and many others) match up perfectly with the biological traits. That's not anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:47 PM
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No, you simply want to believe the stereotype. The inconvenient truth for you is that they become stereotypes because there's a lot of truth to them. You think women don’t care about fixing their relationship problems? No, I think that when women go to a man with a problem they don't want solutions. They want someone to listen. This is pretty much the first thing men learn in the real world. Have you ever even dated a woman? Genuinely what real life experience do you have? I'm probably much olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:26 PM
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Ah so when you insult me its all okay, but when I do the same its not okay. Seems hypocritical to me (a women trait) I said that your insults were OK with me. But keep up the victim complex. Another caricature. Ah so again, your anecdotes are all true, but mine aren’t. Hypocritical again (women trait) My claims are not anecdotal. Yours are. Ironic coming for you, because you are TEXTBOOK incel. But since that's not true you'll have to come up with another mindless insult to hurl my way. Yes beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:22 PM
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But if the woman is a 10/10 she will have no problem finding a partner for marriage, even if she has a criminal history. You are deluded if you think otherways. Nobody said they would struggle. We said that they would choose the most physically attractive and try to marry, regardless of whether that person is a pedophile. There are endless stories about women marrying convicted felons behind bars. Also, the picture did not show marriages or marriage proposals, but tinder matches. My original arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:18 PM
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Clearly you can see users expressing how women are shallow, only care about money and looks, etc etc etc I think most of your examples are just you being offended by reality. Which is what most of the women in this sub do. I do think the ones about women hating ugly men and wanting them gone are silly and extreme. The STFU one was another good example. In short, women are easily offended and/or think that standard comments that don't conform to their worldview are sexist, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:15 PM
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I honestly think at least 1/4 of women don't want kids. The percentage of women after their childbearing years who actually had children was 80% in 2006. It was 86% in 2018. That number is actually rising. This is according to Pew Research. My best friend (a woman, I'm also a woman) doesn't want kids. This is completely irrelevant. It's just another mindless anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:11 PM
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It’s the truth No, it's just lazy. It's a way for you to never learn anything. You’re just making generalizations about women that are wrong. I'm making generalizations that are *true* and you don't like it but have no recourse. I’m a woman and don’t feel that way. You're one person. Maybe one day you will understand why you don't represent the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:08 PM
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You're definitely 20-something and clueless. Glad I nailed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:07 PM
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My guy, common beliefs about womens dating behaviour say that we are Hypergamous. The whole alpha fucks beta buxx thing. Hypergamous covers gold-digging (marrying for status) as well as cruelty as it says we settle for men to just looks after us while actually wanting some alpha archetype. So, again, you inserted the most negative word you could come up with to strawman a simple, universal concept. Hypergamy is a thing and it's not inherently bad. It's just a fact. You calling it gold-digging is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:40 PM
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"YoU'Re SeXISt!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:37 PM
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Thx for saying ma’am again incel, I think I’m just going to call you that, cuz you seem very bitter. Fine with me. It's the only recourse you've got. To act like a clueless woman who calls everybody an incel. You haven’t backed up your shit with a single source either, so its just your against mine. And looking at other threads, seem like people are constantly disagreeing with you. Next up: Source! I don't need a source for basic human nature. You have single anecdotes which is so stupid as to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:37 PM
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Dude OPs literal post history has him posting about how to bribe drug addicts for sex. Who cares? This topic made you mad because he was asking how to get laid. You somehow thought that it was unacceptable to ask how to respect women. Because somehow he should already know? Classic female anwer. "You should just *know* what to do!" okay...somebody has a fragile ego lol No, you're just a 20-year-old who doesn't know anything. "Men are dogs" "men can want sex and respect women" okay . You're not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:32 PM
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Women are not necessarily looking for marriage material on Tinder. Women are always in it to marry. They will try to find the best looking male and marry them. Men will try to find the best-looking woman to fuck. And of course many men would marry a criminal, hot woman, if they got the possibility. Sorry, this is nonsense. Men and women are into different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:30 PM
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Lol? More nervous, 20-something, LOLing. So men can act like men In their 20s but women should settle down? Who are men acting like men with then? The fuck Men need to obtain a career, money, status and experience in order to have value to a woman. So it makes sense that men bounce around for a decade before being marriage material. Women, on the other hand, don't need any of that stuff. Their best years are in their 20s. If they waste it away acting like men, then they're going to have less val…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:28 PM
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Here’s the thing: if you claim women are by nature, as I’ve seen them portrayed here, as shallow, unempathetic, gold-diggers I didn't say those words. You're just making stuff up. But you can’t argue that the things said about women here are unbiased, balanced, or even neutral. It’s often very angry stuff. To align yourself with those viewpoints says you agree with them? So I’m not sure why you’re surprised that I have the impression that you think women are shitty. Again, point me in the direct…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:14 PM
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The question was how to treat somebody with respect and kindness lol, men should fucking know how to do that. So you hate men who don't respect women. But you also hate men for needing to ask how to do it? LOL. When I post LOL it's that I'm actually laughing at you. Not like you do when it' a nervous, 20-something laugh. I'm talking about your comment history bro, I can see your flip flopping amd hypocrisy. My comment history is full of clowns like you who are billboards for ignorance. What's hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:11 PM
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Seems like your reality is online This happens every single day in the real world, ma'am. and mine is in the physical world LOL. Totally clueless. Clearly isn’t exceptions if I know exactly 1 guy who put his height in his bio. You couldn't be more of a caricature if you tried. The "I know a guy" anecdotes. And you think this passes for the real world? Comical. You don’t seem to live in reality, everything I experience is the exact opposite of what you say and many agree with me. Seriously, you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:08 PM
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It hasn't really. It has. The word has been stripped of it's meaning. People are usually very hesitant to even use it to describe abuse What? What planet do you live on? It's one of the most ubiquitous words on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:04 PM
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No real explanation What explanation do you need? Women who act like men in their 20s are wasting a decade of their life. This is simply biological. Again, what I said has been studied and shown. So. Next. See, people like you have to read studies all day because you don't know jack about human nature. Literally, one of the most clueless sub-set of people are PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:03 PM
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Give me the solid statistical data that show that most women are gold-digging, shallow, unempathetic beings by nature and I promise to read it with an open mind. I would if this wasn't a gigantic strawman. That seems to be your only super power. Erecting laughable strawmen. So I attempted to read the rest of your post but it was just you expanding on your made-up strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:00 PM
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Is this English? No, men will try to *fuck* a criminal, hot woman. Not marry her. And they won't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:58 PM
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You guys literally scream when women say "most men all want sex and don't respect women" and now you're literally saying that's true 100% The first part is true and nobody would really dispute it. The second part is just your typical nonsense thrown in. Men can only want sex and still respect women. And looking through your last comments, you literalky try to fucking cry about how women label men poorly and most guys are good guys and women are actually the mean users. And now you're literally s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:57 PM
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Oof my guy, if you think that this sub is a microcosm that represents all of humanity that is an issue. I think it's a sub-section of humanity. And since the behavior of women roughly tracks with the real world, I'd say it's pretty representative. If you approach people respectfully to air your grievances and argue in good faith, you’re gonna find people who will wanna talk about it. I don't have many grievances. I just explain things and people like you usually deny it with some nonsense claims…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:39 PM
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Well if I can genuinely give a guy that advice, I would be stupid not to consider it for myself. Sure. But men want to solve problems and women don't. Women want a shoulder to cry on or someone just to listen. Every man knows this from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:36 PM
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Nah see I can accept there are shitty women. See, again, this is not what I'm talking about. You think what we point out are just shitty women when, in fact, we're just pointing out female nature. It's actually worse to just call them shitty. I'm not doing that. I'm just observing and remarking. You can’t accept all women aren’t shitty. I don't. You just made that up. Your worldview doesn’t have space for me being human. See. Total nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:34 PM
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It's not logical, that's why It is. It's just that what you think passes as logic is just a female coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:33 PM
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Not a woman though, and my experiences may differ because I am from Europe Sorry but you sound like every PPD woman that's ever existed. Denying reality. It may help, but it isn’t the definite thing. I have never put my height in my bio and know very little men that do Stop talking in exceptions. Height matters a lot. Stop giving people outliers. Give them the reality. I can say from experience, that this is definitely not the truth. I have two friends Here comes the "Nah uh! I have two friends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:32 PM
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Well if they're unable to change then what exactly is your solution? There might not be one. It would help to admit it and stop telling people just to change themselves. I also don't believe people are unable to change, they are if they want it bad enough. You're basically wrong. What makes you want it bad enough? See where this goes? It's awfully tone deaf and condescending to tell people just to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:27 PM
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If you admit that not all women want children Nobody said this. why pretend maternal instincts are an absolute? Or this. What's your malfunction anyway, you do this so often I actually recognize your name from your habit of declaring absolutes. You consistently say the dumbest shit, give the worst advice and typically misunderstand everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:25 PM
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"Hey, how do I treat other humans with kindness and respect, but with the goal of getting laid? Asking for a friend." Every man that has ever existed. Sorry that you're so clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:34 PM
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This can work with men. They want to solve their problems. They will sometimes listen to advice. Women, on the other hand, cannot be told that they're not already perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:15 PM
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Who told these hogs they were pretty? It wasn’t me that’s for sure Society. But I laughed at this. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:10 PM
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Men refuse to believe that personality, attitude, and behavior factor in to a man’s appeal. Nobody refuses to believe this. It just has nothing to do with the straight sex game. Like zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:02 PM
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I think it’s horribly counter productive. Men yell ‘not all men’ about rape but if we say ‘actually women aren’t all like that’ we’re told we’re lying. But not all men are rapists, just as a statistical fact. Like overwhelmingly. But most women *do* behave the way we describe in the sexual/relationship marketplace. This is a false comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:50 PM
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LOL. It was so tone deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:48 PM
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This is the issue. I see upthread someone said that women need to empathy with men as if thats the issue and not men trash talking women in general on here. You consider being told the truth as trash-talking. If I genuinely saw men calling women garbage and trash and the such then I would be the first to call them out. But mostly I just see men telling women how the world works and then them just denying it and giving them an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:47 PM
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And when I run into a person here who genuinely wants to debate and discuss and empathise I offer them that in return. Even if their views are different to mine, if they are coming from a good faith place and are open to learning, they get all the empathy in the world I can offer. You don't consider being told the unvarnished, inconvenient truth to be "wanting to debate." The things that we say are harsh to your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:45 PM
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Most women will accept that truth. You don't read this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:44 PM
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What women say and do are totally different things. This. If there's one thing men need to learn from reading this sub it's this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:40 PM
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What is this trying to proof really, I am sure you could easily do that with the gender roles reversed? Yes, men are naturally dogs and will admit it. They are usually just looking to get laid. Women will try to get the most attractive man, even if he's a child molester, and try to make him into their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:38 PM
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Sure, but it's on the person to take responsibility and change Some people are not capable of changing because of how they are or how they were raised. You were capable of change. Good for you. But free will in this case is basically a crapshoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:29 PM
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And you can keep living in your internet world. Believe me, ma'am, this happens every Friday/Saturday night in every city in America. I have never, NEVER seen a length requirement on tinder, NEVER. Because it's so obvious that it goes without saying. Men know to just put 6'3" in their profiles. It doesn't have to be said. And in real life I only got the comment “its nice that you’re taller than me” a couple of times. But never the 6” delusion All things being equal, a guy over 6'0" will win over…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:24 PM
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Why not ask a gynecologist? Why not just understand biology and female nature? This has been a challenge for you. Stop being a doofus. For sure. You've got that covered. Maternal instincts aren’t a given. You're just the kind of moron who thinks it's something isn't 100% than it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:20 PM
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Every woman is different Haha. It's like you get your wisdom from the back of a Cracker Jack box.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:05 PM
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Don’t, there are so many women who don’t want families. Uh huh. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:04 PM
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The word abuse has also been abused to the point where it's sometimes used to deflect personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:56 PM
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I laughed when I read this but it's true. I remember laughing when I realized I got ghosted and the reason why. But then I had women I knew who were with physical/emotional abusers for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:53 PM
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Well, their upbringing is a huge part of who they became. Read Sam Harris on free will. It's pretty compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:51 PM
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It really does not though It does. you can keep telling yourself and people on this sub that to blame shortcomings on, but it really doesn’t work like that I'll keep saying it because it's true. Because women actually select for it. Nobody is forcing them. This is all observation of female actions. You can keep being a clueless dope if you with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:48 PM
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You still haven't proven that claim. The only evidence you've given is your opinion. It took you 14 days and you didn't even come up with anything clever to respond with. I'm giving you the actions of the majority of women. They act. We just observe. You don't like those observations and so you dance around, lie and/or play games like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:47 PM
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It's a generalization fallacy. By definition The fallacy in this case is the anecdote. Happens all the time on this sub. "Nah uh! That's wrong! Why? Because I have a friend who didn't do that!" Generalizing is rule. The anecdote is the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:45 PM
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The filter peaks over 6'0"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:43 PM
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We understand that logic makes no sense to you. No need to keep reminding us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:27 AM
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I have seen the lineups, woman constantly pick guys taller than them, not the arbitrary 6” height Women filter by height. In one, they made a 5'4" guy a doctor, an award-winning writer, etc. None of them women chose him. I doubt they were all above-average women in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:08 PM
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Okay so you are literally saying most women say the same thing, which I already explained makes no goddamn sense so. We know that it doesn't make sense to *YOU.* No I'm changing the subject TO reality because words are the things we use to describe it. Fucking common sense. You literally keep changing the stance, and you got upset when I called you sexist and you then said most women think the same again. Makes no sense at all lol. I haven't change a thing. You're delusional like most of this su…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:33 PM
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Over all you are correct but no one without autism would bother searching crime stats for something you gave no proof on and is logically highly improbable. Overall, I'm correct. Thanks. I already knew that. I didn't make the original claim so the burden isn't with me. The statistics are so obvious that I don't need to post anything. The guy is wrong. Crime is down across the boar from 50 years ago. It's not even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:30 PM
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Well if it was only my own then it would be too anecdotal, but when I look around me, and just in all social places etc, then I see the same thing. Plenty of people dating and being under 6 ft Go read surveys and studies on this. Go look at YouTube videos where they do mock lineups of men. It's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:29 PM
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So not most or even a significant portion of women, got it No, most. Generally speaking. You're just changing the subject to words because you don't like reality. Yeah again go ahead and backtrack your ass into the ocean, I really don't care. Of course you care. You're here changing the subject so you can avoid the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:26 PM
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That's basically this sub in summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:25 PM
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Because you're mistaking fucking with relationships. Women will fuck the broke, loser guy who makes them wet. But the hypergamy part is that they will settle down with the rich, high status guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:17 PM
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Because in my own experience So there's your problem. Typical of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:57 PM
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So you jusy Said most women talk like me and now you're saying no, women and reality disagree with me. Which is it? Most women on this sub say one thing while the women in the world behave differently. We just pay attention to how women behave and not what you say. You absolutely Said all women say the same thing. Your words were "all women seem to say the same things" So now you don't understand what the word "seems" means. You're right on schedule. The amount of self-delusion that goes on here…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:55 PM
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I don't have any ex-husbands or baby-daddies bc I knew I wanted a child, but didn't want to be tied down to any men, so I chose to be a single mom from the start. That in itself is a red flag. Of course my standards are higher. A decent parent wants their kid around the best possible human. You don't LOWER your standards when you have a kid. That's illogical. But your value as a partner for a man has significantly decreased. I get your maternal nature. But that has nothing to do with your value.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:49 PM
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So weird though, that two people can have that different of an experience? The statistics prove that women filter for height. This is not about personal experience. You're just denying the reality because it's inconvenient for you for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:42 PM
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When it's decreasing. But I get that you have to dodge and deflect to avoid changing your preconceived notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:39 PM
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They moved section 8 housing to my area and crime increased quite a bit So this is all anecdotal and not statistical. Which is what I said. Thanks. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:38 PM
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You should of said "its generally true for the women ive experienced", then saying that its generally true which implies you mean all or most women. Next time be specific. Why would I say that when it's ones I've experienced + my friends have experienced + my father has experienced + most of the meh here have experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:34 PM
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Lol pretty sure plenty of women disagree with me. Reality disagrees with you, too. So yeah, you saying all women think tbe same is absolutely sexist dude, like its just makes no sense lol Nobody said this. You're just making stuff up because you don't like the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah, who else would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:46 PM
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So please present some stats, because last time I checked my city just hit an all time murder record. In fact if you look at the stats, we had 120 murders in 1970, and 239 just last year. Same increase in every violent crime including rape. So, is this the safest era ever? Fuck No. Of course you're not accounting for 50 years of population growth. Also, again for the slow people, an increase in crime last year is an increase *from the 40 year trend of declining crime.\* In fact I challenge you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:45 PM
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"yOU jUsT HATe woMEn!" I say "women" because they all seem to say the exact same things over and over again. So, yes, I'll generalize because it's generally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:43 PM
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This entire does nothing but generalize all women and its ridiculous. Because it's generally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:12 PM
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This was common for me when I was younger. You're conditioned to walk on egg shells because a woman will ghost you for using the wrong word in a single text. As I got older I just became more comfortable being myself and not caring if a woman flaked. But the phenomenon you mentioned is, indeed, real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:10 PM
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The cdc says that the average number of sexual partners for a woman is 4.3, nd for men it's 6. So mine is actually 2x the average. You have to use median in these cases since the 80/20 rule applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:56 PM
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How can I easily admit that but women here will say that a woman can have a body count of a 100 and her bonding ability stays the same? I seriously don't get it. Coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:54 PM
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Figured that would be your response Always. Gets stuff wrong. Answers with a snippy word or phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:52 PM
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So if a woman fucks 100 high value men she knows, how is that promiscuous? I love that women are claiming that as long as she "knows" the men she's fucking on one-night-stands then it's not promiscuity. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:49 PM
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Well actually hate crimes against minorities and women went up under Trump They went up from historical lows. This is a common fallacy that convinces people that crime is always bad when it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:42 PM
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I don't agree that we live in the safest times. Then you disagree with statistical facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:40 PM
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t's more dangerous right now than at any other point in my life. This is statistical nonsense. I guarantee that you've never looked at a single statistic and are just bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:40 PM
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How dumb can you possibly be to not get it: most women don’t care about being single anymore. I can assure you, ma'am, that I'm not the dumb one here. If women don't care about being single then that would be the end of it. We would never hear from these women and/or they'd never be flirting with men at bars late at night. But, of course, that claim is ridiculous. Women would rather be single than with the majority of men Which is *exactly* the point yet somehow you're arguing it. Most women don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:36 PM
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No, it's not It is. Go look up what the word means. She just isn't willing to settle for whatever you were offering. I didn't start this thread. I'm not the subject. I'm just telling you the reality. You can ignore it if you want (which you *will*). So of course my standards are higher now. Which is ridiculous and is *exactly* the point. You are likely in your 40s with a kid and your standards are *higher* now? LOL. It's a personal choice. Again, your entitlement is a personal choice. Women just…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:31 PM
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And yet she's not on here crying about how her life is over. YOU ARE! I didn't start this thread sweetheart. I'm merely giving you the reality. You can ignore it if you want (and you *will*)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:26 PM
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Irrelevant and an obvious subject-change. It goes without saying that a lot of men have little to no value. But narratives gotta narrative!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:25 PM
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Women lie and/or virtue signal. In other words, women like you claim that your preferences are common when they're not. Height is just about the most obvious filter than women use yet here you are claiming that it's not a deal-breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:24 PM
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Good. Because I don't have to convince you. I can just use my own experience and the experience of millions of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:20 PM
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Wrong. You're just out of ideas to counter his claim so you're just making up things that he never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:19 PM
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What strwaman are you talking about? That someone said this women couldn't make up her own mind. Or that she can't be alone if she chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:19 PM
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I don't think those are the same men making those two points. But I agree that it's hypocritical. I just understand why men don't like women who act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:18 PM
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So do you see how men's desires are contradictory and how that creates a problem? I can see the hypocrisy of it but then again I *also* understand that men and women are different and so men will behave one way and not be attracted to women who act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:36 PM
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Yes. And? Nobody said you couldn't be entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:35 PM
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his entire premise is that women overvalue themselves. it’s a touch untoward. His entire premise was that women in their *30s and 40s* overvalue themselves in the market. He's mostly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:35 PM
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Lmao when will you guys understand that being alone is better than being miserable with someone you don’t even like I totally understand that and don't begrudge a woman who does that. But this scenario was *not* that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:34 PM
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Yep. Their default move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:33 PM
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a woman has self respect and values herself "YoU dON'T reSPecT WOmEn!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:32 PM
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Which is fine. Nobody has said otherwise. You're being hysterical trying to knock down that strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:31 PM
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All of this is presupposing there is some kind of requirement for her to find a man, there’s not. No, it's understanding nature and that a 40 year old woman of her level of attractiveness can't afford to be *that* picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:13 PM
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Okay but why would I as a women above 30 wish to be with someone who thinks I am worth less? Because you might be worth less than you did 5-10 years earlier. In fact, I'd bet on it. Why would I want that? You don't have to do anything. You can deny it all day long if you want. Why should I decide to accept someone thinking that? You don't. but I can decide not to spend time with people who think that I lose worth as a human being bc of an unstoppable natural process. Of course you can. Nobody sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:12 PM
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Thinking that at 40 year old, only somewhat attractive woman can get better is a form of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:10 PM
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in his example, he has no idea if the woman he was talking to has plenty of options or not Again, he was making an observation based on her age/appearance. Nothing untoward about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:09 PM
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It may or may not be but the fact remains that if a woman turns down a man it's because she doesn't want him Agreed. Who said otherwise? That's not entitlement, that's her exercising her judgment and free will. Those are not mutually exclusive. It can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:09 PM
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I also said 'all spheres' not just physically. But studies have shown that women are at their most beautiful or attractive in their early 30s LOL. This sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:03 PM
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Women are at their best in all spheres in their 30s. Delusions personified.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:02 PM
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He's making an observation. He never even insinuated that women *couldn't* act in whatever way they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:59 PM
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Which means worth less Yes, it's nature. Women have less sexual value as they age. This is not sexist or anything of the sort. It's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:58 PM
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Women in their 30s and 40s can be very selective because they are not past their prime. There is no wall. These women are hot, smart, emotionally mature and the best sexual partners on the planet. It is your assumptions that are bizarre. LOL. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:57 PM
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It is not respect we are talking about here. It's amazing that that response is so common on this sub. A guy is observing female behavior and commenting on it and women immediately think that she's being disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:55 PM
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Either way, if they're rejecting men in bars, It's because they're capable of pulling better ones. This is ridiculous and obviously not true. Turning down a man is in no way a sign that a woman is capable of getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:53 PM
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Anyone can be as picky as they can afford to be I'm certain that his point was that she *couldn't* afford to be that picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:52 PM
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Wow you have such a negative out look on men I notice that you didn't say *wrong* outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:46 PM
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I would love to see a woman with the same sense of responsibility, honour and fairness as men. I laughed. Yeah, women have adopted all of the bad traits that men have without accepting responsibility for their actions and all of the other positive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:43 PM
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Men on reddit rely too much on "surveys" vs actual life experience. No, men know this from life experience. But the surveys exist to convince women who are mostly clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:16 AM
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Yes. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:15 AM
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But men want to get laid. So if a women wants to sleep with *them* that's cool. It's the pump and dump, "just having fun" mentality that turns men off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:14 AM
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Height is not a deal breaker for everyone as guys will claim on here. Which basically every study, survey, etc. disproves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:45 AM
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Why — WHY oh WHY — do you want women to act like men? We don't. In fact, I've said often that men are *not* attracted to women who act like men. The promiscuity, the "boss bitch" personas, the masculine traits, etc. Men want women to be women. Feminine. Which doesn't seem to be of interest to a lot of women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:37 AM
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Not being attracted to someone is not racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:44 PM
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The manosphere thinks it knows something about chimpanzee behavior. You mean one of our closest relatives in the natural world? One that doesn't have any social constructs to blame? Yeah, makes sense. We act in similar ways to apes. Doesn’t know shit about human sexuality or social constructs. LOL. So exactly what someone like you would say. Chimps don't have social constructs to blame and so their behavior is totally natural. Which is why they're a good comparison. One day maybe you'll make som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:06 PM
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"Taller than me" as a minimum criterion. But the Bumble chart tracks with my experience. Over 6'0" preferred, up to 6'4" optimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:03 PM
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If women understood them than this sub wouldn't be so clueless. The "manosphere" itself displays much more knowledge of female behavior than you or this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:38 PM
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Men understand it way better than women. Just read this sub. Or your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:10 PM
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So if 30% are sexless than Pareto would suggest that 20% are having 80% of the sex and the other 50% of men account for the remaining 20%. That's not preposterous at all. So I don't think you proive that Pareto was overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:09 PM
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I’ve always found it weird that some people on this sub say things like “if you’re under 6” its over. Well, yeah, that's just stupid. But saying that men obsess over height is also dumb. Women are the ones who make it a thing by their selection criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:57 PM
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Yeah, so, basically your entire post is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:53 PM
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Certainly there's a lot of blaming going both ways. But I also see women getting nasty simply when it's *explained* to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:24 PM
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So you're jusy making a baseless claim, rooted in you just not respecting women. LOL. Like clockwork. Man makes obvious claim. Woman claims that he doesn't respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:09 PM
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He didn't say he dates those women, jusy fucks them..so you're not losing a product or being outcompeted. The result is that those lower tier women think that they're higher quality and start behaving accordingly. This is basically what has happened in the last couple of decades with the body positivity and other movements. Women have been conditioned to over-shoot their worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:08 PM
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I also know 7 women like that. So extrapolate this out to, I guess, the rest of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:55 PM
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By your logic By my logic perfectly normal women that behave like this, exist. You can keep trying to twist yourself into a pretzel to avoid admitting the truth. Doesn't matter to me. You may think your logic is normal, what you think isn't a reflection of reality. What I'm describing exists in reality so it's a reflection of reality by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:54 PM
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They are desirable. They're not. You missed the point. You lack comedic chops.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:52 PM
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It's incredibly lazy to hand wave disordered behavior as behavior of all people. You claim it's disordered because it makes women look bad. But it's common. Perfectly normal, middle-class, two-parent households turn out women who act this way. As I already said, if that is the way that your logic operates, then all men and women are meth addicts. My logic operates like a normal person who isn't trying to sell you a narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:32 PM
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Disagree. You don't have to keep saying this. You literally missed the comedy in those shows. They're meant to be lovable and funny and that's why the hot women are with them. Now you're trying to walk it back. They're the dumb, lovable, goofball. They're *not* desirable by design. That's the comedy. It's not surprising that you completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:30 PM
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It's incredibly lazy to just hand wave common female behavior as just being displayed by non-normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:22 PM
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There you are just making stuff up. The amount of panic posting and subject-changing that is done when confronted with simple life truths is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:20 PM
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I *know* they will because it happens. Women don't like weak men who pretend that false narratives are true just to fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:18 PM
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Normal people aren't putting up with the shit that you described. You're in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:15 PM
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[almost] everyone makes mistakes when young, and misjudge of character is a common mistake. Women make these "mistakes" their entire lives. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:12 PM
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One of the first signs that some women don't know what they're talking about is when they claim that being attracted to 20 year olds is creepy. So basically normal human behavior is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:10 PM
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Those are not mutually exclusive. So there's the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:07 PM
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Generalizing accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:04 PM
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Disagree. Then you don't understand comedy at all. The whole point was that these funny guys are so great these women like them for who they are The concept flew right over your head. This is next level cluelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:02 PM
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Chris Pratt also got insulted when he lost weight by many, so its not a men vs women thing lol. No, he didn't. He was insulted when he was pudgy. Now he's a sex symbol. Like Melissa Mccarthy? I think her Weight loss hurt her fame. Because being fat was part of her schtick. And, again, society wanted her to stay fat because they wanted a fat icon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:01 PM
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Adele dropped weight incredibly fast and did start to look quite unwell. No, she didn't. She looks better than ever. People shamed her because they wanted a fat icon. You clearly paid zero attention to that whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:59 PM
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When overwhelmed by common sense and human nature, they always just say that you hate women. Rinse, repeat. No, I'm just normal and don't tell people I care for them or love them after just meeting them or going on one date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:57 PM
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Just asking them to get to know me as a person without expecting sex Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:30 PM
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My entire point is I AVOID the men they’re describing “don’t want me” because effort is too much The effort required to get *you* is too much, yes. You're not worth it. And most women aren't. The demand that you prove that you "care" about a woman so early in the courting process is silly and counter-productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:29 PM
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You know how easy it is to ignore that stuff? So you admit that it's happening. We should just ignore it. OK. But we're just saying that it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:05 PM
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Nobody is shoving lizzo down your throat, The culture is certainly trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:05 PM
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Complete outliers and if they were not famous nobody (especially women) would give two shits about them. Women continue to miss these simple points: women are attracted to things other than physical attractiveness. A powerful or high-status man can get a beautiful woman. An average guy with average money and average life can't get much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:04 PM
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That's not the point. The point is obese men represented in media as desirable partners. First, this is just not true. The idea of those shows were: fat, dumb man meets amazing, ethereal woman. Then the man is the butt of all the jokes. The woman is the virtuous one. That was the concept. Not the man being desirable. I almost feel like you never watched or understood any of those shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:02 PM
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but I do call it out when they expect to be “celebrated” for gluttony. I think this is where most of the backlash comes from. It's now perfectly normal to celebrate fatness and tell people who are obese that they're fine just the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:00 PM
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Fat women are idolized and made a virtue out of. When Adele got into shape people *shamed* her for it. There is no equivalent here between the sexes. Fat women are value way more than fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:54 PM
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They value commitment if it comes with regular sex. Often times it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:36 PM
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This sub literally has a narrative that all men care about is sex. This thread is literally about men not valuing commitment from women and seeing the men that women commit to as low value because they only value sex. Because that's largely true. Men are truthful about this stuff. Women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:22 PM
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Well then ask *him* about it. I don't think it's worthless. It's just not worth it under current conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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But it’s disheartening to hear. Because you're a woman who doesn't seem to understand nature very well. That a woman can genuinely love her husband and be a good wife, give him beautiful children and a life of happy memories…and he’d still swap places with Leonardo DiCaprio if he had the chance. People are only as loyal as their options. I don't think this is gender specific either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:57 PM
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I think it’s actually pretty unfair of men to complain to women “never want to have casual sex” but also complain when a woman has a high N count. I agree that this double standard exists but I don't think the beta bux guys are the ones who make those complaints. This is about marriage/relationships and I guarantee you that no man is complaining that his wifey prospect didn't have enough casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:53 PM
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Based on “Alpha Fux Beta Bux” I thought the implication was that women were only with Beta because of money (bux). No, the implication is that they fuck the alpha (when they're young and in their prime) and then they marry the beta (when they're older and ready to settle). The beta *can* have money but it's mostly a good husband material decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
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Yes. According to this sub, men only value women for sex and find the commitment of women worthless. No, men *do* value sex but they don't find commitment worthless. It's just not *worth it* without the sex part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:50 PM
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LOL no it is not attractive to women. It is. Women talk poorly of these men and then they fuck them. Women don't care about promiscuous men. In fact they prefer them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:41 PM
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I’m actually glad you said this. “It’s not what men want” and that’s why it’s “bad”. Yes, a man thinks it's bad because it's not what they want. Again, common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:36 PM
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Women want different things from a short term sexual partner than they do from a long term relationship, and they want different things as they age. Yeah, that's literally the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:46 PM
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Care to use some logic and sense? LOL. This is exact opposite of what you're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:35 PM
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Men engage in the same behavior in youth was my point. Men and women are different. Shock!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:29 PM
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Also these comments make it clear that (some) guys, despite all the talk about wanting a wife and kids, actually see marriage and family as a penalty / payment for consistent sex. A penalty that mythical “Chad” doesn’t have to pay. That’s why “husband material” is such an insult to them. This is just common sense. That's not the whole truth but that's a lot if it. Men are motivated by sex, women are motivated by the rest. This is news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:26 PM
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It’s exactly what men do — screw around with sexually available women when younger and then marry a “good girl.” Or another variation, string along girlfriends with no intention of committing long term. So you won’t get much sympathy from women on this one. Yes, and that's an innately attractive trait to women and *not* an innately attractive trait to men. The idea that men want women that act like men is one of the more silly concepts that are espoused around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:23 PM
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It's a bad thing by definition because it's not what men want. Did you even read this before clicking reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:07 PM
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So now you think that men traveling to screw Filipina women makes them as attractive to Asian women? Why is this sub so consistently stupid? Anecdotal evidence. "Ha uh! I know someone who's the exception to the rule so the rule is wrong!" So on and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:32 PM
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And I responded by concluding that this was partly outdated and that Korean men nowadays have more sway than European and especially White American men in Asia. So you think Korean men are as attractive to asian women because there's a K-Pop group that's popular? Jesus Christ. This sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:41 PM
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What the hell does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:58 PM
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Asian men have been shown to be the least attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:52 AM
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It's been proven not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:51 AM
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Newsflash fat men do this shit all the time too. Like who? Men can have value outside of physical attraction. Women, less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:51 AM
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Western society has European/White beauty standards because it's European/White people who make up the majority of the population and they dictate the culture, for now atleast haha Attractiveness is not cultural. They've gone to Asian countries and asked women who's the most attractive and they say European/North American white men. It's about facial symmetry, etc. Yet another biological phenomenon that people claim is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:32 PM
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They genuinely thought they could land a slim, taller and attractive dude rather than a dude that was more in their league. It's jarring. I see these fat women carrying themselves like they're queens who deserve the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:23 PM
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No your statement isn’t a fact lol. It is. You're just so afraid to say it and so you give anecdotal examples where one woman you know didn't follow the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:18 PM
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You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:16 PM
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I don't assume that you're going to lie. People like you just always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:16 PM
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I know attraction isn't horniness You don't seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:15 PM
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Singular women. As in *a* woman. Again, stop dodging the issue with anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:15 PM
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I don’t get why In these posts all women are lumped together. Because it's a generalization. But your response is common: "Why are you making a statement of fact when I know one person who doesn't fit that description?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:16 PM
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What women aren't attracted too is the creepy, uncanny perception that the guy is putting up an act to appeal them. This is laughable since women sleep with these guys constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:12 PM
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Pot calling the kettle black much? I am literally a woman, so I’d think I’d know more about how other women act more than you. This is one of your many delusional claims. I'm a man so I know way more about female sexual attraction than a woman. You will lie and/or virtue signal to men while I'll tell them the truth. Because women are terrible at giving advice of how to interact with women. The worst ever. Yet here you are claiming that you know more than me and other men who have spent our entir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:56 PM
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Again, that one time. I'm convinced that half of this sub is totally unwilling to consider anything other than the claptrap that they've been told their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:52 PM
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Attraction is not horninesss. How old are you? Jesus. This isn't even that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:50 PM
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If they're actually trying to make a move it isn't subtle. You have no real world experience if you believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:30 PM
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But if you make a move and she's just being friendly you'll be labeled a creep. The rub is that women are too subtle as giving signs of interest and men are too incompetent at picking them up. So of course men are just going to make moves on any woman that they find attractive and have held a conversation with. Which is what you should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:30 PM
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It’s not. It is. You're just delusional or don't want to admit it. Which is par for the course around here. In fact, it's the exact point of the OP. Who is more horny. A man who finds a hundreds of women attractive but can only maintain that horniness for 1 sexual release a day? Or a woman that finds only 5 men attractive but can maintain that horniness for 4 sexual releases a day? Finding someone attractive isn't what horniness is. It's thinking about having sex with everybody you see which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:26 PM
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Do you understand what "ALL" means? The OP didn't say all. A response strawmanned what he said by saying ALL. The argument that OP is making is that individual women saying that it is not true in their relationship is somehow PROOF that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations. That just doesn't make sense. You're (probably purposefully) misunderstanding what he's saying. He's saying that when confronted with this information, women usually just insert thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:22 PM
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Generalizations only work if you can prove it's the case for the vast majority. It is the case for the vast majority. It's as true as saying that men are stronger than women. I'm sure some dopey woman will come around and say "Nah uh! There's this woman I know....!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:19 PM
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She's right though. It is a fallacy She's wrong because she didn't even get his statement correct. He's generalizing men and women. So of course the first thing women do in this sub is go "Nah uh! This one time a woman was super horny!" Or "In some cases women can be horny!" Neither one is even close to being worth a second of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:18 PM
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Rare? Whats rare about it? Celebrities have millions of women offering themselves You're not even talking about the same thing. Wanting to snag a celebrity is not a sign of horniness. Yes, rare for *a* woman to be as aroused as *a* man. Again, generalization. They get horny for men with power Again, you're out in left field and you're giving *specific* cases. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:16 PM
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That’s not rare. Most women can get as horny as a man at the right time. We. Are. Generalizing. It's rare for a woman to be as sexually interested as a man, in general. Stop telling us about that one time or that one moment. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:15 PM
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yes i have them for companionship. i'm not looking for it because i have it. you just said it. now leave me alone lol You have female friends and you *only* get companionship from them. Hence you get female friends for companionship. Sorry that you're too much of a dope to even understand you're own life. Or explain it to other people in an articulate manner. you just repeated what i've been saying but i'm the one who's lost, right? Clearly. You started one of the dumbest threads in sub history …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:13 PM
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Fact: Not all men are way hornier than all women. That is a fallacy. For christsakes. This is what he means when he says that women are unable to have an honest conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:18 PM
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Women can get just as horny for the right man Again, for the millionth time, we're generalizing for populations. Stop giving us specific, rare, examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:06 PM
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Your thread is so stupid that you don't even know what you, yourself, said. And you freak out when it's mentioned to you. Classic. because i literally just said how EYEEE look at it is i already have the companionship because we're already friends. But you get nothing out of them except company. So if you become friends with a woman it's only for companionship. Are this dumb when it comes to common sense? Logic? i honestly don't know what you don't get about what i'm saying unless you're just pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah you completely don’t understand. I assure you, sweetheart, that I do. It means that all people typically go on is a 2D version of another person and their looks. And when women have only looks to choose from they only swipe right about 20% of the time. Why is it so hard for you to accept reality? It means that other factors are harder to take into account so women swiping on 20% of men in a place that is meant to focus just on looks and is superficial is NOT going to match up with their dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:51 PM
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Lol it was supposed to be a bit sarcastic. Sorry that you couldn’t pick up on it What everyone says when they want to walk it back. But yes I do think his take is delusional Yeah, I know. Most of the time 20-year-olds are full of shit and don't know anything but insist on pontificating to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:48 PM
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