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If I were in your shoes I would also state clearly what you want. Do you want to work on the relationship or are you done too? If you don’t want a divorce then just say no. Say “I don’t accept this” but also, start fighting for the marriage and show her you care. She wants change and you admitted you had become complacent. Get your uncle and aunt to watch your kid for a weekend and take her on a trip somewhere just the two of you. Start showing up for her in ways she doesn’t expect and make her …
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/26 12:55 PM
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It’s all about your mindset however I also realize that my situation is not the same as many others. My x-wife and I had a very amicable split fortunately. We live 3 houses away from each other which is great for our two boys (6 and 10), and we both have loving partners that get along great with our kids. My x-wife’s boyfriend is a really nice guy and he doesn’t have any children of his own and has really enjoyed becoming part of my children’s lives. He is even coaching my son’s soccer team righ…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/26 03:55 AM
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Yea, what country did you go to? I don’t understand why you wouldn’t say unless you’re concerned that all of America is about to move to that country and start dating all the women, making it more competitive for you, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 01:14 PM
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I had the same issue after a 17 year relationship and turning 40. I got my doctor to prescribe me some 20mg sildenafil and that helped with ED but the biggest thing is whatever is going on in your head and the chemistry you have with your partner. If you’re concerned about ED keep that line of communication open with your partner and talk about it. Maybe try moving slower with more emphasis on foreplay and a build up and less emphasis on orgasm.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 11:47 PM
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My brother had a false positive and then second test results came back negative 3 weeks later. That was rough 3 weeks.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 06:03 PM
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I spent zero. I drafted the separation agreement from one that a friend of mine shared with me and then my x wife paid $1300 for an attorney to review what I drafted and he basically just copied mine in “his own language” and it all looked just the same. It was a 50/50 even split for us, amicable breakup, we have two young children but both work in the same industry and make relatively the same amount of money so no alimony or child support. Feel super lucky, especially after reading all this. W…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 11:32 PM
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Even if your kids don’t respond right now I’d suggest trying to stay in touch. Maybe just sending them uplifting notes that don’t imply a need for response or sharing funny memes. I mean, try to have a relationship with them like you would a friend. Your message sounds very cynical and implies that a lot of this is not your own doing but your attitude about it all seems like perhaps partly what has gotten you here. Writing all this out seems like you’re looking for validation to end your relatio…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 01:30 PM
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If he just moved out and is having an affair I’d say lawyer up. Take a snap shot of the accounts and make notes for the attorney based on the statements and any big withdrawals. Half of those assets are yours and what he’s doing is abandonment from what it sounds like. You have a stronger case in this scenario to keep the house and custody and he can just move on and pay child support / alimony if he’s going to handle this so sloppy. Don’t let his threats stop you from being smart about this. He…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 08:44 PM
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Obviously doing it for religious reasons also.. 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻.. agnostic for life 🤘🏻… don’t let the “after life” stop you from living your very short existence on this planet to the fullest. I mean realistically try to imagine what heaven would be like. Does that make sense? Does hell really make sense to you? You can’t have the good without the bad and vice versa. Life is here. Life is now. Live in the present and do it up bro, it’s not getting any better.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 05:18 PM
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My wife was devastated and falling apart for months. Each situation is unique. You shouldn’t be trying to judge an entire gender.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 08:08 PM
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You should buy a book on Cognitive Behavior Therapy. I bought one by Lawrence Wallace, it’s not a big read. Buy a journal and start processing this stuff. Putting it on paper can help you digest it and get it out rather than looping it over and over again in your head. You need to see the good the bad and the ugly and journaling will help you lay it all out. Seeing a therapist is good too. I know it can be expensive but maybe amp it up to once a week for a little while, while you are also doing …
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 01:17 PM
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Sorry man, it can be a tough pill to swallow, especially for the one who didn’t want it, but truth be told you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you and you need to stop focusing on the past. Try meditating and see if you can clear your thoughts. Seek out a therapist so you do have someone you can confide in that’s not your children or your friends. Everybody has shit they’re dealing with. You don’t want to burden everyone while you’re inconsolable. Go to the gym and get …
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 10:29 AM
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My x has some dude and his friend living with her… and our 2 kids. He bought a camper but is having a tough time getting everything set up I guess. I dunno.. not my place, I really try not to let it bother me. She’s going to do her and I think it helps that he splits some of the bills so if that’s what works for her then that’s cool. My kids say he’s a nice guy and I’m just choosing to stay focused on quality time w them when I have them and quality time on myself when I’m not w them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 12:43 AM
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I was excited about dating when I got separated. I went on numerous dates and had a couple 3 week relationships before I met someone that I’ve been with for the last 14 months. I think this is totally a “to each their own” and I’m glad you decided to take time for yourself. I think that would have been good for me too but I really like the woman I’m with and she is actually a psychology major and in grad school for clinical counseling so she has a really good grasp on healthy relationships with …
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 02:37 PM
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Sorry man. It’s hard to know your situation exactly but what I can say is that having my kids 50/50 was always something that I hated the idea of and what honestly postponed things for a long time. Now it’s like a blessing. I feel like it’s a cheat code for getting your life back. I’m dating someone and she’s so much more calm and easy going, no blow ups and we get quality time together and I don’t have to pay for a babysitter. When I’m with my kids I’m excited to see them and we get super quali…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 12:51 AM
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