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Become so awesome that they come to you. And yes, as stated above, let them introduce you to their hot friends.
/r/seduction29/11/12 05:50 PM
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Why would she agree to go on a vacation with you if she wasn't interested in sex? Just fucking kiss her, man. You probably haven't been framing your end of the conversations in a sexual manner, so start doing that, but playfully, so she's not weirded out on the looooong ride to the resort. Why were you being so aloof and uninterested on the phone? You should be up front about your interest in her, physically. There's a big difference between confidently stating your attraction to her and being a…
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:20 AM
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You had a justifiable reason to eject for a minute, being in the bathroom line. You could have told her unless she plans on helping you in there you'll find her in a few minutes, and taking the time to get your head right. Sounds like you weren't in state for one reason or another.
/r/seduction16/07/12 01:25 PM
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You were answering your own question in your FR. Yes, just kiss her. In fact, you could've broke it off after a couple seconds and told her to take a walk with you so her friends wouldn't get jealous.
/r/seduction15/07/12 08:41 AM
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I guess the essence could be distilled down to "Be a grown up, mind your manners". That simple.
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:55 PM
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This is a community of mostly men supporting other men to better themselves and expand that into their relationships with the opposite sex. If you think you have nothing more to learn, why not stay and contribute to those who have not been as fortunate to figure it all out?
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:45 PM
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In my experience, even girls that are turned on by hairy legs, which mine are, are NOT ok with a Buckwheat rug down south.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:20 PM
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Excellent opening. You kept the attraction going and you probably had better kino than you think because it sounds like she was very comfortable with you. Post an updated FR after lunch!
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:59 PM
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I think there aren't enough FRs. Downvoting isn't a constructive criticism. It's just a yes/no button. Say something helpful in the comments. My first FRs looked like bragging. A sedditor set me straight and I adjusted accordingly. And that's what makes a healthy community.
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:50 PM
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Obsessions usually don't play to well outside your interest group, so be careful. Even if you know everything there is to know about 19th century cavalry swords, she will only be impressed by one or two facts. baddestdog calibrated his HB9 well by tying her interests in with his. Bam, comfort and attraction built.
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:26 PM
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Tell her to make a quick playlist for you. Most women are pretty eager to qualify herself to you. Plus she's complying with your request (but don't ask her, tell her), built in escalation.
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:20 PM
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High five, sir. To the victor goes the spoils, and all that. To think you could've had been jerking off in your room like all the other AFCs that night.
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:04 PM
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Well you get points for responding to every riposte so far. I think the numbers are just too small to make much of an impact. There are a few bars in large cities that are flooded with sedditors and their ilk, but if anything, it should motivate us to evaluate our techniques and step up our game.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:52 PM
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I'm not sure if "Y'all niggas are bitches" should be in the running for quote of the week.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:36 PM
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True. I haven't practiced much Asian game unless they were pretty much Valley Girls. From what I've read about etiquette when visiting Asian countries, overconfidence is considered disrespectful and you may get the "socially embarrassed" laughter. Hopefully someone with experience can weigh in on this.
/r/seduction05/07/12 05:45 PM
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I'll write it up today, look for "Field Tested OKC first date techniques." Bonus 4th of July F-close and how I almost completely fucked it up afterwards FR.
/r/seduction05/07/12 05:39 PM
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Latin cultures definitely have a lot more natural physical contact, even among men. But in my experience, kino doesn't have the same effect on latinas as smart verbal game.
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:08 PM
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I recommend having 2-3 beers and just saying whatever stupid shit comes to mind for those questions. That's funny! Just stop after 3. More than that and shit gets weird.
/r/seduction05/07/12 01:49 PM
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Sounds like you're looking for a LTR. I would concentrate on building comfort and attraction in this girl firstly. The good news is, she already likes you enough to meet you in person! Use that as a source of confidence and just concentrate on having a good time. Abundance mentality: If it doesn't work out this time, there are many more women out there that would love to hang out with you.
/r/seduction05/07/12 01:26 AM
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Well what's your plan?
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:40 AM
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Well said. I try to remember even the greatest hitters in baseball history have pretty high strike out percentages. That "Win it or bin it" mentality breeds champions, insports and life. And nice K close OP
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:42 PM
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I'm glad you prefaced this with "in my experience", because I haven't found this to be true at all. Now, sleeves to cover track marks is another story...
/r/seduction04/07/12 10:38 PM
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That one might haunt you for a while but shake it off. Sounds like a shit test. In a month you'll be able to come up with an appropriate response on the fly. "I have a belly button", "I have a pet rock", etc. Is there any way to see her again through friends or something? Just pretend that whole exchange never happened if you see her again. She'll probably appreciate that you could brush it off. I'll bet you could have escalated and made out right where you were with her.
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:37 PM
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Regardless of the outcome that sounded like a great fuckin night. Kudos!
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:51 AM
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I would go with insane. But it's not terribly difficult if you can find the ones that aren't all business. A lot of it has to do with separating yourself from the average "customer" and being sensitive to genuine IOIs.
/r/seduction01/07/12 08:55 AM
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Bahaha! Doesn't matter. It will be easier to practice if she's not as attractive as you thought
/r/seduction01/07/12 05:05 AM
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baby steps! ill bet you werent anywhere close to this before seddit. We expect a quality second date FR with a minimum K-close though. Good luck!
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:13 AM
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Do you think you held back on that girl at all? Sounds like she would have been ready for a kiss.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:48 AM
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This is why inner game should come first. Your confidence is low so you need to examine your life and find reasons to love yourself. If you can't then you should damn well be able to go out and make this happen. Volunteer, travel, pursue some higher education. Then work on being a great person that adds value to your friends' and family's lives. Then the girls, if they haven't already lined up to get with you, will be just another relatively simple step.
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:46 PM
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Great job, you totally could have spent the whole night talking to a guy about video games and called it a win for going outdoors. But this isn't veddit, so you got some digits too.
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:38 PM
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Brilliant FR. You certainly know how to juggle.
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:17 AM
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I'm a little concerned that "everyone is pretty much 18." If she's not 18 this is probably a bad place to describe your hookup. If she is, then congrats on the escalation.
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:50 AM
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If her friend told you that you can be nearly certain they had a conversation with your name attached to it. Take some confidence from this and be casual but fun in turn.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:57 AM
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seems a little hasty to make plans the week before. I doubt she even knows where she's going. She's definitely a party animal.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:49 AM
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Sounds like she likes to play games with guys. Your apathy was probably the best thing to go with but the second you show more than a little interest she will move along. But you weren't interested so it's a moot point.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:27 AM
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It's as simple as a guy wants to make it. All it takes is a moment of daring.
/r/seduction24/06/12 10:59 PM
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You got inside your own head. If going out was an accomplishment, then opening two sets once you were in is a win. Just build on that success.
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:54 AM
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Thought of this post all night. My first date with a girl, she was throwing mixed signals and throwing off my game. I said "Fuck it" and went in. She's on her way to my apartment RIGHT NOW. Thanks for the boost, sir.
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:46 AM
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I just reread my post and it looks like I'm bragging. Not trying to blow my own horn, just demonstrating why this sub has been so good for me.
/r/seduction20/06/12 12:23 AM
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I'm not ugly but you can't shred cheese on my abs or anything. I honestly think it's all about crafting a decent profile, using lots of humor, and tailoring your messages to each individual girl. It's all about setting yourself apart from the army of AFCs out there.
/r/seduction18/06/12 12:40 AM
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If it wasn't for Seddit I would have fucked it all up I'm sure.
/r/seduction17/06/12 09:46 PM
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Sounds like you hang out with some uptight people. I would go with the No Fucks Given policy.
/r/seduction16/06/12 03:27 AM
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Is your kino any different between guys and girls? Male kino should be more "bro", while female kino should be increasingly seductive. For example, you shouldn't good-game a guy if he isn't already a friend. Same goes for arm squeezing, face touching, and remaining in a guy's personal space. Do you think you change your kino based on sex?
/r/seduction15/06/12 10:48 PM
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That's what I like about you guys. Even with criticism, you remind a bro to glove up. And if she is gaming me, she's losing. I've come out ahead so far....if she's gaming me.
/r/seduction02/06/12 03:59 PM
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perceptive. thanks! I definitely know enough to refuse any obvious requests for goods and services. Strippers are a tricky and volatile bunch though. The sex is insane though.
/r/seduction02/06/12 03:17 AM
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