Has anyone had different experiences picking up girls of different ethnicities? I feel like talking to an Asian girl is completely different from talking to a Latina.

itsmevichet · 2012-07-05T13:55:20+00:00

Relationships might be different, because then you deal with cultural differences more head on.

If they all grew up in the same place you did, then opening, and the early stages of dating are the same as with an average girl.

Just have swag. Be cool and fun. You'll find an Asian girl who's into it. You'll find a Latina who's into it.

Marsupian · 2012-07-05T16:26:25+00:00

I don't think it's about the ethnicity but instead just their social environment and background. An Asian girl from california who is raised by more free spirited parents and has a social circle of lots of typical californian girls will be totally different from an Asian girl who grew up in Asia, lived with fairly traditional parents and just moved to California for study.

It is true that you can guess a lot of character traits from someones ethnicity and get them right more often than 50% off time but never consistently.

Just game as normal and don't make assumptions before you open. Once you are in set calibrate like any other situation.

btw. Never ever fucking even check for IOIs or IODs. When she gives you a serious and clear no you are done and until that happens you are in. Don't wait for signals to do something or you will always doubt yourself when escalating and probably won't do it fast enough.

justthrowmeout · 2012-07-05T20:14:23+00:00

I've lived in Asia for a couple years. There is definitely a difference in cultures so of course that translates to dating culture. Latina culture tends to accept a bit of ogling women as part of the ritual.

A significant percentage of Asian girls are interested in foreigners. My experience with Latina culture is that often hispanic girls are partial to their own kind. I'm sure I've said something politically incorrect so fire away.

imseanpatrick · 2012-07-05T21:32:38+00:00

Try Arabs man, definitely need to step up your game to get with them

Brumbee · 2012-07-05T14:08:27+00:00

Latin cultures definitely have a lot more natural physical contact, even among men. But in my experience, kino doesn't have the same effect on latinas as smart verbal game.

Prophet6 · 2012-07-06T02:25:25+00:00

Much of the theory is universal acroos all cultures, the idea and psychology of attraction is the same, culural norms however dictate delivery.

Title	Has anyone had different experiences picking up girls of different ethnicities? I feel like talking to an Asian girl is completely different from talking to a Latina.
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Date	July 5, 2012 11:33 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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