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| 1 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?The short of it and the most abstract description possible is that a hot girl intimidates you. This intimidation comes from the higher "value" you perceive the girl to be since she's hot. This higher perceived "value" leads you to feel the fear of loss more strongly than a less attractive girl due to the risk of taking a larger hit in "value." Everyone is loss averse, unless you're wealthy, for the most part. So solutions are to become wealthy. Wealth here is subjective. It can mean monetary wea… | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Here is a recommended place to meet attractive womenYa pretty much. If going to a studio there should be some class called beginning/intermediate/advanced hip hop just take that. If the beginning class is early it might skew kind of young so generally intermediate and advanced are the best bets if you're talking just about finding girls. First look for studios then look at the classes. If you're in the LA area I can give you recommendations. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Here is a recommended place to meet attractive womenWhat do you mean? Don't play a numbers game at least openly (talking to and trying to hit on as many girls as possible etc.). Have general interactions with girls. Keep your tone fun. An easy opener is something like "hey, just making sure, this is so and so's class right?" then gauge your next moves off of response. If girl is just like yeah and ignores you then don't press. If girl is like "Ya it is, I'm so excited/he's pretty dope/whatever" then push like "Oh, okay cool just making sure. This… | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Here is a recommended place to meet attractive womenYa the bboy scene from what I have seen is def a sausage fest that is fair. Ya house works. Idk what hustle is. Generally performance-esque hip hop (literally there's a class at IDA, a hollywood studio, called performance hip-hop and the choreographer is this dope dude who does shit with like lady gaga and mariah carey and stuff but masculine) that is somewhat generic (billed as beg, int, adv. hip hop etc. as opposed to breaking or popping or anything specialized and specific) and taught at a st… | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 01:13 AM |
| 11 | Here is a recommended place to meet attractive womenJust 2 anecdotal points. I've been dancing for the majority of my life (currently on one of my school's best competitive hip hop teams) which sounds really lame but whatever. First anecdote: I took a ballroom course one quarter to meet a unit requirement. The class was fucking huge and maybe like 2% of the girls were hot. This is disproportionate to the campus as a whole. It was like a needle in a hay stack type deal so if you are expecting to be surrounded by hot single women immediately then t… | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 09:32 PM |
| 22 | Winter is Coming: Monk Modechewing on a toothpick Hahahaha holy shit | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Infographic: Where the Singles arePopulation is divided east to west over the Mississippi, so it makes sense to see it in another population chart. Just look up a u.s. population chart and it will look similar to this in terms of distribution. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | 50 cheap date ideas to save your walletLol at the teaching her how to drive a stick part. I've offered my gf sooo many times to teach her to drive a stick, you know so she cab drive my car in a pinch, but noooooooo she won't go for it. She told me she has absolutely no interest in learning and she's confused as to why I drive a stick. She doesn't get it. And in all of my experience I've met all of one girl who was interested in learning to drive stick (she was a friend and asked me to teach her). The learning to drive stick as a "dat… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 11:34 PM |
| 4 | These are the 10 TED talks every aspiring Seducer needs to watchThat's not true man. The high profile, loungy clubs yeah it is. However for the clubs that act more as performance venues, in LA that's the Avalon, create, exchange, could care less as long as your shoes are close toed. These clubs pull the best DJs out of the clubs in LA which means you can see awesome acts for like $15-30. The Avalon is on Dj mags top 40 clubs in the world, a list that I don't know how much value it is actually worth but still the Avalon is not a bad place to be. I agree with … | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 12:28 AM |
| 4 | These are the 10 TED talks every aspiring Seducer needs to watchWhat? Tie your shoe? Double knot that bitch and forget about it the only shoes I tie each time I wear them are dress shoes sneakers get a double knot and I never deal with them again. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 11:45 PM |
| 3 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenLol I'm from LA but I do love techno, that future techno scene is heat, and I would love to go to Berlin at some point. | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 06:41 PM |
| 6 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenIt depends on the club. Some clubs are built around selling the opportunity to pick up to a guy. These clubs are built around having a decent environment, filling the environment with girls, and hitting male patrons for cash. They have monetized the chance of a dude picking up a woman while cultivating an image of excess and pleasure. These are the clubs that will have shitty promoters that heckle you while walking in Hollywood. Then there are clubs that were built around the premise of being mu… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 01:57 AM |
| 8 | What do you do with girls that hang out with you whenever you ask then, but don't try to keep the conversation going or ask you anything?Could I get a summary? I'm legitimately interested but I can't sink an hour into watching this video right now. | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 12:48 AM |
| 0 | [College Game tip and partial FR] Quick tip for picking up foreign girls. Inspired by somebody's post about a failed approach at an Asian girl earlier.Ahw I see that's too bad. I'm white and my different groups of friends weirdly separate themselves racially in that I have a group of Asian friends and a group of white friends back home that don't intermingle that much. I end up as something like a go between. The group that made up the scale was the Asian group. My white friends don't really draw lines between the different countries of origin for Asian girls. The Asian group is interestingly made up of an equal number of Chinese, Japanese, an… | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 01:18 AM |
| 4 | [College Game tip and partial FR] Quick tip for picking up foreign girls. Inspired by somebody's post about a failed approach at an Asian girl earlier.You look from one eye to the other to the lips and back slowly. If I can see her eyes kind of follow mine I know I'm solid for a k-close. There's like a look they get that's kind of hard to explain but triangle gaze helps you if nothing else focus on her eye language. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [College Game tip and partial FR] Quick tip for picking up foreign girls. Inspired by somebody's post about a failed approach at an Asian girl earlier.Oh I agree completely. The standard hierarchy for me and my friends is Korean > Japanese > Chinese > the rest. But a cute girl is a cute girl regardless. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 12:43 AM |
| 0 | [College Game tip and partial FR] Quick tip for picking up foreign girls. Inspired by somebody's post about a failed approach at an Asian girl earlier.Yeah I thought it was a kind of cool trick. It came to me in the shower this morning and I had to give it a shot. I feel man I'm a fan of asian girls too. Sometimes you see a girl you have to go after and nationality might come into play. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What's better in your opinion, having 4 really good friends or 50 hi-bye friends?I like your name Bryce. And as a fellow Bryce I second this notion. | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Judging AgeLol I feel man. Honestly you're 19 stick to like 18 or 19+ (they do exist) events. That's the easiest way I can think of doing it. Another trick that I picked up is a lot of venues x people's hands who are underage and give those older than 21 wristbands or at least no x. Just look at their hands and you'll know which age partition they fall in. As far as telling age frankly a lot of girls look the same between the ages of 16 and 26. Add make up and venue lighting and telling how old a girl is f… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Music festivals.ohhhhhhhhhh lol. And a dope one at that. That's a sick lineup | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Music festivals.What's the counterpoint? | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 05:17 AM |
| -1 | Music festivals.Coachella? Stick to the Sahara tent or other edm tent if not coachella. Have fun and dance. If you're not good at dancing it doesn't really matter just have fun with it. Then start asking girls to dance. Don't be creepy about it. If a girl makes eye contact with you saunter over there say hi would you like to dance? Also you can try to tell if a girl's interested in you by switching up rhythms and movements while you dance. If she follows with you she wants to dance with you. Last music festival… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 05:06 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Approach and #Close, Day 2 F-CloseFucking teach me how to dougie. Hahahaha I'm dying. As somebody who loves to dance I'm totally stealing this. I've had success with busting out some basic ballroom if a Dj drops some salsa or something but I never thought of doing a kino escalation with teach me how to dougie. | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 04:57 AM |
| 1 | In case you're having a bad day, I couldn't help but stifle laughter after hearing my date mention this in a conversationEverybody here is recoiling at the M'lady cringe but man having weed ready every time this girl would come back from class is insane. Just money-wise that's a pretty significant amount of money the poor guy is throwing down. That and he's straight waiting for her to come back. I feel awful for that guy. | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Today is the first day of the rest of my life. Starting from scratch. Wish me luck.My man you're a tiger, but you're stripes are a bit off. Unbutton that bottom button of that suit and go get them ;)! | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveI've had it both ways. On one side I had a really close friend in high school who for some reason thought I was the shit and talked me up to her friends and would let me know that she was talking me up to her friends. It was kind of cute and resulted in some very favorable positions for me. On the other hand I have a girl that I slept with and we became loose friends afterwards. One night at a party I was dancing with her friend and all of a sudden girl I slept with comes in, finds us, pulls her… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 02:58 AM |
| 1 | FR and question about older girl. Posted earlier and messed up length and formatting so this is my re-submission. Lengthy 3 part post with TL;DR, skip to TL;DR and concerns if short on time.Awesome thank you for the response. Should I pick conversation back up sooner rather than later or wait until it's more appropriate to make plans with her? I'm in a finals grind right now and as such I don't really have anything interesting to talk to her about but at the same time I don't want to lose the momentum. I haven't talked to her since I ended the conversation a few days ago with the short term pretense of having a meeting and the long term pretense of being really busy the next few we… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | FR and question about older girl. Posted earlier and messed up length and formatting so this is my re-submission. Lengthy 3 part post with TL;DR, skip to TL;DR and concerns if short on time.Allright awesome, thanks for the response. I killed the conversation a couple days ago saying something along the lines of have a meeting, got to go see you in 2 weeks? and she responded pretty well, told me to tell her how the meeting went, good luck, etc. I haven't spoken with her since then I told her I'd be really busy so she knows I'm not just blowing her off but should I talk to her now or wait until closer to making plans to meet up? If I talk to her now I really don't have much to talk a… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditI've been with older women too, it is definitely not an issue of how I act. At my school being a freshman and coming up through the notorious freshmen dorms is a right of passage. When you've completed that you enter the town next to the university and live there. The dorms are so infamous and separated from the town that the school developed two social stratospheres, freshmen and the rest of the school. Technically speaking I have sophomore standing and I've gone to introducing myself as such. … | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditLet me rephrase. This girl is gorgeous, an absolute smoke show, and I am obviously attracted to her. However I'm not any more attracted to her than any other hot chick. Hope that helps man. She's not so hot that I'm going to drop everything and only pursue her. Obviously I'll probably try and fuck her but not if I feel it would jeopardize any chance I have at absorbing her social and professional network. End goal is to get her to invite me to one of her shows, if I fuck her on the way there it'… | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditIn college | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditYes. How do I deal with the stigma of being a freshman while pursuing older women? | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditDamn you're right again. I get trapped in these environments where I feel in control. I know coffee, food, music, and dancing so I fall back on these today maintain a feeling of control and confidence. You've opened my eyes to improving an element of my game that I thought was completely fine. As long as you're giving me advice here I have a question about a completely unrelated girl and situation. I've been working on my Fclose from new years and as it turns out she's a junior at my school and … | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditWell shit. That's all just completely fair... I usually take dinner as an opportunity to pay the bill and just have conversation but I see where you're coming from. I'm in college so it's just really easy to ask a girl to go to dinner with you. Especially if you make a big deal about getting out of the dining halls, going down town, jokingly making it into something more exciting than it is. But you're completely right dinner and dancing may not be the best if ideas. As for her inviting herself … | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 06:41 AM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditWell damn those are a lot of ideas and I have never done any of them. My usual is dinner and dancing, my comfort zone... But wow I will definitely have to consider these if and when I ask her out. She kind of already invited herself to a show I'm going to in 2 weeks but that's going to be loud and more of the same as when I met her. So now I'm in an odd spot as to do I ask her out before or just keep talking to her or what? I'm also going back to school in 2 days which presents its own logistica… | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:50 AM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditMmmm creative activity like what? As far as creative I'm a pretty good dancer and I Dj but I can't draw or do pottery or anything like that. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 02:33 AM |
| 2 | How I stopped worrying and learned to love seduction.I haven't read any literature on the subject but I have found a fair amount of success with women and lurk this sub. I completely agree with you. If one views seddit as a tool to use in the hopes of manipulating women then obviously seddit will be presented in a negative light. Instead I think of seddit as an extension of subs like howtonotgiveafuck. They more or less preach the same concepts but in different contexts and with different applications. It's like a self improvement environment for … | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | FR - Number-Closed a Model / Follow Up On My Earlier Post and a Thank You to SedditThanks for the input brother. Don't worry I've been talking to her today. I am of course going to at least attempt to cultivate a relationship with her, obviously simply having a number is completely empty. By not pursuing anything I meant I don't know what my intentions are towards her as far as banging, dating, or just networking. After talking to her she's actually well connected in an industry that I am obviously not connected to. I want her network. And sorry for the format I was dead and h… | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on going out alone ASAPWelp that settles it. I'm easily swayed. Any tips on enjoying a club by myself? | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on going out alone ASAPEdit: If I go any tips on handling the situation alone? I'm not old enough to buy alcohol or obviously this would be a non-issue. | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Tip for Talking to Girls in Loud VenuesAs someone below said you can use the tragus the bit next to the earlobe that is usually not pierced | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Tip for Talking to Girls in Loud VenuesYou would imagine. It's a bit counterintuitive which is part of why it's so strange. My understanding is that you are creating a medium that simultaneously blocks white noise while amplifying directed noise, specifically your voice. I'm on mobile but I'll see what I can do. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Dude you're over thinking it. Mostly you more or less sway with the beat. If you want to get cheeky put some hips in. Arms aren't that important it's either up or down for the most part. If you're feeling a tune you can put your hand up and move your fingers up and down with the beat to show the Dj some love. Pretty much dude move in a way that makes you feel happy and like you're having a good time. What that is specifically changes from person to person. Just be you but a you that's moving. Ed… | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Tip for Talking to Girls in Loud VenuesLike the little earhole area. Imagine you were to plug up her ear with your finger but instead do the same with the earlobe over the earhole. It sounds strange, feels strange, but in a pinch it works. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Can't say I know a Brock Osweiler | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 08:02 AM |
| 2 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Ahw dude I know exactly what you are talking about. I have done the same thing too many times. The worst part is when you reflect on it this poor girl put herself out there and in her mind you rejected her. It just leaves you feeling like a cock. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 05:27 AM |
| 5 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Well I'm from LA so the scene is pretty good Haha. But yes, I agree completely. For the most part ravers give no fucks. I go to more club things than legit raves, mostly I can't afford festival prices all the time, but you can tell the rave girls from the not rave girls in a heartbeat. I mostly see big DJs when they spin in a club anyways so that helps too. That and hooking up with a girl while she's rolling is just an experience in and of itself. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 05:23 AM |
| 8 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I don't know dude one of my best friends is a 6'7 white kid from Denver. He isn't lanky, he's actually really athletic, but he gets girls coming on to him all the time just for his height. He does dance like a goofball though. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 08:43 PM |
| 26 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I looooove dancing. But rave girls are also my bread and butter. So there's that... | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 08:20 PM |
| 28 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I don't know man, as with all things it depends on the context. I go to a lot of shows and clubs just for the music but I rarely leave without at least a k-close. Both me and my good friend play instruments and Dj so we go to a lot of shows together, sometimes with other friends too. What I usually do is find a spot in the middle of the floor where the sound is good and there's room to move. I then look for an area not saturated with dudes in my desired locale, with girls just generally in the a… | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I do not seem to get past this: When I am making out with a girl who is clearly into me and I want to get her sexually aroused, what do I say or do?Sorry I don't have any advice for the after the kiss part but if you were looking for something to escalate during the kiss I would say just go for the neck; start giving her a hickey. When I'm dancing with a girl or whatever I use it as the ultimate shit test. If you're already kissing her judge the reaction it gets you. If she starts pushing up against you and clawing you or playing with your hair or what not you're in. If she's not that into it then there are two possibilities: that she is no… | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 06:48 PM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachFuck I knew most of the crowded club pointers save the time/ I like your dancing opener pointer. I've had these used on me including things about clothing and thought it was odd but I didn't realize these girls were trying to open; I thought they were just being kind or weird or something. Right over my head I feel so stupid now. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Interesting situation. Need help asap!Personally I'd drop it like it's hot. I don't know why she'd give you her friends number other than she didn't want to give you her actual number. She probably thought it would be funny if you started randomly texting the friend. It could be other things too but if it were me I'd say fuck it and move on. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Whenever I see attractive girls in public, I'm afraid to make eye contact or smile or anything. At the moment, it feels uncomfortable and don't want her to think "why are you looking at me"? How do I stop pussying out? I should be smiling at them, right?So am I the only one around here that looks at attractive girls to see if they are checking me out? Damn it validation is a two-way street. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 07:27 AM |
| 3 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?Wing girls are great. They understand things that wingmen don't. It's uncanny. Besides that you might get into a situation where she will begin to throw girls at you. Long story short the other night at a party one of my friends walked in with a bunch of her friends. She walks up to me, we go through the pleasantries, she teases me about how we hooked up once way back when. She then proceeds to point out her cute friend. She tells me that her friend needs a good time and to go hook up with her. … | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 07:18 AM |
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