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| 23 | A problem I see in the community: too much data, not enough emotion. | Outer Game | Burgess_Churchill | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 07:28 PM |
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| 1 | Texting 101 for old men.I agree | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl you’ve dated ghosts you?Here is what you can do: you can either send a funny meme and hope she responds and then continue the conversation. It usually gets a response. I've used that to recover before. Or you send her this: "Hey Debbie...this is SalmonBalm...I thought I'd give it one last shot at getting a chance to talk. I've learned one lesson, living in (insert your city or part of the country) my whole life, and that's beauty is common...but people with a great attitude...a great energy...a great outlook on life ar… | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | What kinds of girls should I look out for when going for One Night Stands?Research indicators of interest. If you notice a girl looking around a club then that's a sign she's down to fuck. If a woman is staring at you or glancing at you or if her feet are pointed in your direction that's a sign of interest. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 0 | What kinds of girls should I look out for when going for One Night Stands?Women don't want to look like sluts. Women are also worried that a guy might stalk them, or cause them drama. They want sex but they don't want the drama that comes with it. You just have to show them that you won't do that. Regarding the self-image thing, I'm not sure if you've heard of the commitment and consistency principle by Robert Cialdini but it means that people have a tendency to behave in a manner that matches their past decisions or behaviors. So if you give her the self-image of a g… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Texting 101 for old men.It's a trap because if you've read any PUA material, you probably think that when a girl starts to ask you questions about yourself, it's now time to drop the humor and start building comfort, eliciting values, etc. But in my experience, if you do that, they stop responding. You need to continue the humor. Let that be the connection. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Trying to pick up customers when working?If a girl stares at you, you can open them like this, "You can't stare at me like that and not introduce yourself. I'm not just a piece of meat you know! I have feelings too!" You can then make a joke about how all women are perverts and they just stare at you and you feel so objectified. But since you're at work, it might not be the best thing to do. You have to calibrate and use your own judgement. You can also just say hello to them if you don't want to be so flirty. Most women will say hello… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | What kinds of girls should I look out for when going for One Night Stands?If you try to move off the topic of sex but she keeps bringing it up that's a sign you will probably be taking her home that night. I also want to add that I believe most women are open to casual sex but you just have to show them that you can keep a secret and you won't stalk her or do anything weird. You have to show her that sex is just a fun thing that people do. You can do that by telling a story or by talking about your opinion. You can also give her a self image to live up to and tell her… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Fellow men, how does one become a more interesting and thoughtful/thought provoking person? 🤔You stand out by not doing what everybody else doing. Don't qualify yourself, don't call her beautiful, etc. Learn to become very curious about people. Ask yourself, "What does this tell me about her?" For example, if a girl tells you about a time she recovered from an injury and she is into fitness then that tells you she is a strong woman. It tells you that she must have a positive mindset. It tells you a lot of things about her. Or if she is an actress, don't ask the usual questions like "Wha… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Texting 101 for old men.I've discovered that humor and challenging them works really well over text. Memes work really well too. Be aware that when they start asking you questions about yourself, that isn't a sign to stop the humor and to start building rapport. It's a trap. Continue with the humor. Let the fun and challenging conversation build the rapport and connection. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Rate my looks/ roast meI would rather rate your skills. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | “I want her but she’s out of my league”There is no league, there is only the states she feels for us. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Can’t get a girlfriend because of my looksIt has nothing to do with your looks. Women look at us through the states they feel for us. We use our language, touch and vibe to put them in states of intrigue, connection, trust, safety, comfort, attraction, desire, arousal, it's on. When you speak to these girls, what are you saying to them? Are you just having the usual conversation they have everyday with people and ask them questions such as "What do you do?" or or you delving deeper and asking them "What is it about what you do that you … | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | I challenge you guys to teach an asperger's "late bloomer" seduction. (25m)Send me a message. I have experience working with a high-functioning autistic person and now his social skills are better than most people. I'm confident that I can solve most of your problems. The issue is that for most people, social skills come naturally so they can't teach you what to do because they don't think about it. I can break down social interaction for you so you'll know what to do and what to avoid. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | A problem I see in the community: too much data, not enough emotion.I'm not saying that you shouldn't ask the usual questions but the problem is that men don't delve deeper. When you speak to women in the way in which I'm suggesting, you'll notice they'll respond differently to you. You'll stand out because they won't be used to men asking such deep questions and connecting with them on such a level. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I (F) express that I'm sexually interested in a guy I met?Stick a note on your head with the words, "PLEASE FUCK ME NOW". Most men are clueless when it comes to reading a woman's signals. If you believe he likes you then just be direct. If you don't be direct, you'll probably be spending a long time waiting for him to escalate. Be direct and tell him you would like to ride him until the bed breaks or stick a note on your head. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Movie selection for first date?The movie is really just an excuse. She doesn't care about the movie. She's just looking for an excuse to go to your place so you can fuck her and she doesn't want to look like a slut. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Dates are not as difficult as I thoughtIf you want help, you can send me a DM. I'm happy to help anytime. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Dates are not as difficult as I thoughtI see that you're being sarcastic but I will elaborate on what I mean. The problem with the word "date" is that it puts men in that frame of mind. The whole game is rigged against you. It's better if you don't use any of that terminology. I don't like to call it dating. Our goal as seducers is to elicit states of intrigue, trust, safety, connection attraction, desire, arousal, it's on and link them to us. We do that through out language, touch and vibe. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Hittin’ her up on InstagramHe could have used humor and said, "If communication is not your thing then how do you communicate? With your mind? 👽" | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth to be honest with a girl about your feelings?Here is what I suggest you tell her if she says that she wants to be friends: It's not important to put labels on anything as it would spoil how we can discover each other. What's important is to let things happen organically, easily and naturally stripping away each piece to reveal what's beneath. Everything she gives us is a toy to play with. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Dates are not as difficult as I thoughtDating is for women you're already sleeping with. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 07:31 PM |
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