| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Proper Atmosphere/ Self improvement goals | Burr_burrr | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:03 PM |
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| 1 | Seducing GF Via Text HELP METhis is weird. Sexting is never a good idea. Wtf have sex in person. Time to make a move bro | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Linking with a female need adviceYeah in other words open ended questions lol i agree | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 01:15 AM |
| 5 | I just realised something.This subreddit has helped me a-lot since i was age 20. I am now age 26. And i would consider myself somewhat advanced now with my experience. your right your number one value should always be you nothing else. ( respect yourself or she wont) i get what your saying lmao and I laughed out loud when you wrote “she texted me i have to but her dinner”. ( most girls will do this as a way of escalating and meaning that she is into you and wants you to wine and dine her like a gentleman. ) but you said … | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Flirt On Tinder?Bump. I usually have zero success here also due to the fact that i come off like an asshole online by my answers and approaches.. don’t nearly have as much of a problem in person when talking to chicks just comes naturally. Internet shit i just don’t understand but i never gave it a fair shot if im being honest | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 5 | Probably the best advice you can get with girlsThis is true chicks will genuinely show no interest whatsoever if they don’t have some interest in you. However some people get scared and freeze up when she approaches you. Relax she is a human too. Treat her like one. Pass her little shit test if thats what u wanna call it because most girls do this (not all) and escalate. Well said | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Dating in your mid to late 20s?I like your outlook here but as someone who is a little bit older i would like to give you some insight. Also im 5’8 you are not gunna gain 65 pounds of muscle in 4 years or even 14 without gaining some serious fat or hopping on performance enhancers ( even with the best genetics you cant put on more than 2.5 lbs of muscle a year so the rest of that weight will be water and fat ) so maybe scale that back to 25 pounds i think everyone watches porn but agreed if you are watching in it excess it ma… | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I get casual sex as a 17(M) with a babyface?I would never recommend it though. Just to get chicks? Although it will help speed up the baby face issue if your taking Steriods to get chicks its stupid. If you wanna take up an athletic hobby such as a sport , bodybuilding, powerlifting ... football then i could understand but i highly recommend you do your research first | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How can I get casual sex as a 17(M) with a babyface?Don’t worry about stupid shit like that lol. But if you want to look older ( i don’t recommend doing it) a little testosterone or dbol will do the trick.. do your research first and wait till 18 atleast | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Female friends were shocked that I would go out with the primary intention of pulling girls...Not even a question. The best success is when ive had a wing chick go out with me ( previous ex that im cool with) and help me pull lol. And vice versa | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Tips for 19 year old getting into cold approach.🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️💨💨💨 | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Tips for 19 year old getting into cold approach.This is true but cold approach isn’t the way to do that. Make some normal conversations and develop new relationships with girls as friends. Just like you would when you met friends of the same sex. When you have these chicks that know you now or you have had conversations with in the past. You can go based off building rapport and flirting and there responses will tell you whats good | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Tips for 19 year old getting into cold approach.Facts dude people over complicate things. & if your one of those dudes who’s afraid that your gunna get rejected or is to nervous just to tell a girl that you think she is beautiful or hot then you are over thinking things. Its crazy how you could sneak “stop it, your beautiful“ into a casual conversation into a girl that you would like to take chances on. You can tell by the energy of the response on whether she is into you or not without literally asking her out on a date or spilling how bad y… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | how to be handsomeLmaoo i had to | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | how to be handsome128 min | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | JUST BE HONEST!Timing your texts lmfao.. thats OD | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | JUST BE HONEST!Facts | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | JUST BE HONEST!Solid point. But OP post has some solid points too | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the best city to learn game in?NYC personal favorite over Vegas and cali but definitely not during a pandemic lol its a ghost town | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Exercise to escape woman’s approvalOverall great advice for anyone.! | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna approach 1 girl tomorrowGood stuff!! | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 16 | Guy here! My female friend "jokes" with me about how she is horny ALL the time. What would you do if you were in my shoes (and interested)?Dude if you dont close this😫😫. Anytime i have had a girl talk like this to me it means she feels comfortable and is obviously sexually attracted and interested in you. But thats just my experience Looks like you Got her already just take her out for drinks or something.. or dinner & a movie | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | FR: the girl by the vending machineOn point 💯💯💯 | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Approaching girls IRL is WAY FASTER than online dating.Lmao relax dude it’s actually a good idea & pretty funny | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | This really isn't any different then video games.This has some good context i agree about 65% percent. Lol - i agree with you about keep on playing the game even though you die but theres much more too certain situations - and everything like states above can be related to a video game .. but your attitude is 👍🏼 keep going | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Are we overthinking?Hell yeah you are shes a human just like you dude worst case she says no. You figure out why and learn from the failure. And use on the next chick | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 0 | What makes a 9 to 5 job guy the top 10-20% in dating / hookup?BINGO🎯💯🙌🏽 | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the need for status and material things for getting women [Natural game]Your approach is on point and the material items sound like just icing on the cake .. nothing wrong with this i like this approach and use it myself | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Im an attractive guy, but not nearly assertive enough with girls I'm interested in. How can I break out of my comfort zone?I agree here, mostly.. ive had girls that were totally obsessed with me and ive said “ we should hook up in my car “ worked many times. BUT ive also tried getting to physical with girls ive met and barley new and had this go horribly wrong. You kind of have to feel it out. IMO.. sometimes its okay but sometimes you will come off like a creep and get rejected lol | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the best PUA books?Models by mark manson | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Pursuing a girl who cheated on her BFSounds shes like insecure and playing games ... gotta take control | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you open up with working girls and with what mindset?Agreed i think its fine As long as you dont cross a line | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you open up with working girls and with what mindset?On the contrary.. i find it it easier to meet and interact with girls why you are working. | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Seduction and pua forums aren't great places to learnSomewhat agree ... there is definitely a lack of experience here but you also have some people with a high body count. ( not murder) . And are trying to help others out.. but i see your perspective | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 5 | [unpopular opinion] I like to talk politics on the first dateYeah i agree here ... sometimes i don’t even try to make it about politics but with all the insanity going on it comes up Anyway .. as long as you are not lecturing her the whole date or trying to change her political views i dont see a problem | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first day of cold approach, and landed me a job randomlyOh im 26. so in my case 20 wouldn’t be to young. Do i try to look for 20 year olds over older girls? Id say its the other way around but ngl the 20 year old girls are much easier of course ... but then again im not looking for anything serious just sex lol | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Just did my first day of cold approach, and landed me a job randomlyHow is 20 to young? Lol unless your late 30s | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting and rescheduling?Factsss | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I get over my loneliness?Which city? la , nyc ? New york city nightlife is the best but this summer is ehh due to the pandemic. In new york at night you can be whoever the fuck you wanna be. But most important of all you gotta get out of your comfort zone and you will thank yourself later. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Asked for shop assistant’s number - got it - but now have issueFactssss | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What makes or has made sexual seduction most effective for you?This is great advice | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Do rich men get hotter and/or more women?Well i mean being broke will get you barley anywhere but as long as you can support yourself it really doesn’t make a difference | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How to keep things “warm” during lockdown / quarantine?The same way you would keep things warm during non quarantine... everything else is out of your control but don’t over text her & come off as needy just to keep “ warm” ... you’ll be fine if she was really interested in you and she wont forget that. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | How to have a good time going out aloneI like this. I feel like the younger version of me needed to hear this about 5 years ago but I’ve had some of the best times going out alone. I like how you viewed alcohol as a tool but not deemed necessary... many people get plastered every time they go out and wonder why they getting no ass.? Because you cant walk dumbass lol | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Is this teasing/qualification or do you come off as a doucheYeah id like the kind of women that would take that as a challenge and be like oh yea? | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Looking for things to ask girls as practice as a beginner (i.e. What's the time?)Theyre not that different at all | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 08:29 PM |
| 9 | Fearing for my mental health in my seduction journey.OP sounds like you didn’t escalate... you did a good enough job to get the interest... but you didn’t keep the interest/attraction. So you either stopped escalating/ became overly invested or things just got awkward. Your doing a good job getting the date but the part to work on is how you do on the day of the date with the girl. Trial and error my man ... it happens to all of us | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to not get flaked on at the one yard lineThis .... fuck their friends lol ( use them as practice) 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Do I just pull back?Dont say that... do not chase em tho.... you know your worth .. create an equal push / pull sounds like your overthinking this we all been there but just be yourself and everything will flow | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | What do these multiple instances mean?Bro, she wants you bad.. but I’ve seen this get fucked up before. Take it slowly .. like stated above slowly show more and more interest until your escalation reaches you in her bedroom banging her.. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 0 | How to get better at deflecting playful insultsThis is on point | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 3 | [FR] College Gym Approach (small steps lead to big improvements)Thats hella confidence for a freshman. But i will continue to question the gym approaches ( only works for girls that are there to get hit on. - or you could do it after the gym - but pre or post workout) some girls & guys actually care about there workouts but i could be bias because i am an ex competitor. So i personally go to the gym for my mind and body not to pick up chicks - but if you can do so im not taking that away. Good job | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Women lie alot, and will do anything for a cute guyI agree With you 100% on this post OP. But your going to see less and less of this when you 30+ ,40+,... when it comes to lying its an issue of lack of seriousness and maturity which comes with a young age.. not your gender lol | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Should I drink alcohol?Yeah I’ve always thought about this logic .... Its like your weird bc your NOT drinking and will get questions such as “ why are you NOT drinking?” My thought is well “Why are you drinking?” What are you so uncomfortable with you need alcohol for? | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I drink alcohol?Drinking makes things worse for me .. sometimes ill get som red wine if my date does. Usually before a date i take an extremely small xanax dose to take the edge off .. im talking like .25 - .5 mg... but i try not to do it every time ( even though i do i have a script) .. if i do it every time im gunna need it on every date... so if your new at this get comfortable with being uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | My lifestyle just consists of me going to class and staying home. What can I do to spice it up?Thats true. But what would u say for someone like myself who has this two hours incorporated 2 times a week and i still find tons of free time. Im gunna work on getting a second job. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | My lifestyle just consists of me going to class and staying home. What can I do to spice it up?Working out is an hour out of the day maybe two though to be fair | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Proper Atmosphere/ Self improvement goalsI think appearance is important to a degree. Do i probably overthink it at times? Yeah your right ... i didn’t give a fuck when i had it together because i was a bodybuilder( who was on steroids and always in shape) i would even bring my prepped meals to the clubs lmao - when drugs got out of hand i developed binge eating disorder and ballooned 70 pounds. I get where your coming from but I’m afraid to go back out on the scene and people be like what the fuck happened to him? ... thats why. Im de… | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Proper Atmosphere/ Self improvement goalsThank you man. I think i just need to look outside my high-school friend group sometimes who are all degenerates lol | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I look young, kinda messes up my confidencePatek phillipe??( | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | "Explain how regret better than reject"?Hit the nail right on the head... keep your head up dude its only one girl theres tons lol | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Going out aloneYeah.. shouldnt be that hard with confidence | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Going out aloneIve done this a few times... and nights i don’t end up leaving with women i end up having a blast and meeting great people. Im interested in other people trying this method ... im 25 , and ill never forget on my 23rd bday ... me and my friend had plans to go to all the top nightclubs in nyc ... he bailed last minute because his sister got into a car accident right before .. i had so much adrenaline still going and i wasn’t gunna let it fuck up my night so i drove 40 m into the city and had one o… | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I think I might give up on girlsAgreed. I feel like we are missing something from this story and 19 is definitely not old wtf. Your not even 20. I would consider 40 to be old and even then not all hope is lost. No girl is going to respect that vocabulary ill tell you that. If you were so successful in high school it should have been a smooth transition to college... I’m not saying your lying. Just find it a bit odd. ... you might give up on girls? Then what??? | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep going?Sounds like shes playing hard to get... play the same game back at get imagine the rejection didn’t happen. Continue to show interest.. just not too much. Let her show more... in the meantime your a free agent | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Should you text girls you see often?Well facetime is more life like .. wouldn’t randomly do it atleast not Untill you have a decent amount of chemistry. Once you get past that part it’s pretty natural and your words cant be misinterpreted like text. You can do it at most times but not to often .. i think it displays something a guy who is confident in himself would do. The shy introvert usually dosent throw a facetime curvball in the mix but even facetime has its limits. Everything in moderation | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What’s your counter to “I’m not that type of girl”?This couldn’t be more correct. Cant tell you how many times that line has been dropped on me ... and 3 -5 days later .. they are that type of girl like lol your good man. I actually think this is a good sign in some scenarios | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Should you text girls you see often?I think you got it down. I personally only use it for hanging out/ going outto dinner.. or replying ... i also hate texting because its so easy to come off clingy... texting is useful ., i like facetime better once you get to know her a bit better ... texting is so easy to misinterpret words | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How to isolate a girl who is always with her female best friend ?Brother you in the perfect situation u can play it a few ways ... fun means sexual relations without all the intimacy be a wing man for one of your buddys go after the friend if shes good looking byt bot so obviously that it comes off weird | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Slid into a girls DM's with an emoji and she liked it, what next?Facts | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Am i over analyzing this?She probably wanted you to join her fans only page & you didn’t click the link in her bio | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Talking to this girlI’ve done this before and it has failed and succeeded I would say about equally. I feel like the ones who don’t show up ... that show a lot of interest. View myself as being a narcissist.. but again if she expects me to chase her I don’t do that and I find that a bit narcissistic for the women that do this | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Talking to this girlYepp I agree | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Advice when cock blocked by another female (who doesn’t know the person I’m talking to)I don’t know what it is about this topic. It’s been happening so often in my life lately. Do exactly what smoothmax says this is really good advice. Don’t be an idiot like me. Was at a club in Atlantic City New Jersey - this hot girl was with her gay ( male friend) - I have nothing against gays btw. This girl was all over me all night- chatting / dancing / hooking up... her gay friend was extremely drunk. So he punched me in the face. I hit him back and he broke his nose. Apparently it’s not sel… | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:30 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I understand where your coming from ... I took a few years off from college and I commute to a school that’s right by my house and I am also in my 5th and final year. I always find myself in my head are there hot girls on the campus? Yeah. Are there any in my classes ? No because I’m in weird classes just to fill my credits with 95% guys. I almost use my success that I’ve had over the years with women from sophomore year of high school on as an excuse to stop me from approaching these gorgeous u… | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this good or... am I dead in the water?RIP | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Wtf did I do something wrong???She probably would have responded positively to this. But if your not confident in your self. How do you think she is going to feel? Even if you gave her a sarcastic answer that made her laugh | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceLOVE THIS | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Question about "can guys and girls just be friends" opener?This is a good one! Transitions very smooth also | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Painfully shy around women, but can talk to dudes with npLmfao this is good advice but funny | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the first date?Yepp | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | best shit to take before hitting the clubsAdderall or coke and Xanax to sleep if you Don’t have an addictive personality | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I've invited someone on a date VS a friendly meetup?It doesn’t seem like a serious date if that’s your question or a date at all. Like stated above she might be interested and testing you out which could lead to a future date. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Quick tips for combating neediness and overthinking.That Robert Greene quote is the Bible . | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 09:23 PM |
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