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-2

Get her a "romance novel" for Christmas
/r/seduction02/12/25 02:01 PM
2

Ask her what her plans are for the evening. Ask her if shes hungry.
/r/seduction26/11/25 11:14 PM
3

Give her a call. Be normal, but show interest in taking her out if that's the direction you want this to go.
/r/seduction15/05/25 11:22 PM
23

Don't be the first one naked
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:32 PM
6

This is the only real answer
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:52 PM
-1

Nobody taught me...
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:43 PM
25

The thing is if you have to explain this to someone, I highly doubt they're capable of pulling it off in a seductive way.
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:53 PM
2

Does she have a ring on her finger?
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:31 PM
1

Naa I'd tell her you gave your manager her cv via txt. I'd wait until you talk to her in person again to try and ask her out though.
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:38 PM
1

Not everyone can be a millionaire. The system doesn't work like that. For every millionaire or billionaire you're forcing x amount of ppl into poverty. If we were all doctors and lawyers, who's going to work the drive thru window?
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:20 PM
1

I'm beginning to wonder?
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:22 AM
0

Def not wasting time. Lower your standards a little and it'll happen real quick. If you're a semi attractive guy you can probably pull a 6 at the bar easily.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:32 PM
0

I agree. Theyre supposed to be random. Isn't the entire point of a dating app to meet random ppl you wouldn't necessarily cross paths with in your day to day? That's such a weird thing to be like eww that person's random idek them. No shit but you're both there trying to meet someone, no? You wanna meet someone you already know? Lol. Some girls have this mentality about guys being creeps and then you got guys that just hop on their same train of thought. Fuxking simps.
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:27 PM
-2

Big dick energy isn't learned. You either got it or you don't.
/r/seduction16/12/21 03:54 AM
1

I had a gf that lived 2 hrs away. We met in college tried to keep it going for 2 yrs. Didn't work out. Realistically I want someone within 20 or 30 minutes of me. 45 to an hour gets to be too much.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:40 AM
2

If you actually like her and want to be with her I would let her friend know.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:54 PM
15

College... I'd prolly ask her if she has any alcohol or what she likes to drink. Bring that. Pour out a shot or two nothing too crazy. Maybe put a movie on, get the lights down low. Put your hand on her leg, see how she reacts. Nudge in for a kiss at some point. The more you make out the more you know she's into you so if she keeps kissing, your dicks coming out at some point. If she has roommates or friends there, try a game or something instead of the movie. Not monopoly something like Jenga o…
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:28 AM
1

Good taste ma dude
/r/seduction28/11/21 12:30 AM
16

You made out with a girl. Better than 90% of this sub is doing. Maybe that'll help your insecurities.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:25 PM
1

If you're not feeding girls tequila shots, what are you really doing?
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:04 PM
5

Atta boy
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:47 AM
12

You don't necessarily have to say something. Depends on the kiss. I mean if this is all natural who knows what happens next. It shouldn't need to be scripted. Just go with it and don't over think it.
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:52 PM
26

If you come on too strong you'll more than likely chase her away. Definitely do not kiss her and then ask her to be your gf. Unless you're like 14. You barely know eachother. If all you get is sex out of it, just look at it as practice for the next girl who actually wants to date you.
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:43 PM
1

Then maybe a local pub
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:27 PM
1

Hookah bar if you're into that sort of thing
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:22 PM
2

I'm on Long Island but I'm down if I can get an idea of what your about. Pm me if you want to give it a shot.
/r/seduction15/05/21 03:44 PM
4

I think the cheeky line is best. If you kind of insinuate that it's her she may be flattered. I like it. Could see myself using it.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:06 AM
2

That's literally asking her to give her number to a complete stranger so you'll probably end up with a fake number or she has a boyfriend or no reply.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:04 AM
5

Excellent advice. I like how you related it to the best actors/actress'. We all know when a movie has a horrible actor. That's the last thing you want to come off as irl because you're not being genuine.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:45 PM
18

I'm sexually attracted to a lot of girls once they're clothes come off and they're bent over in front of me. It would take a certain type of man to walk away from a 6 that was bent over your bed begging for it. You don't have to date a girl if you don't like her, but you can get some practice in so when you finally do enter a relationship you can hopefully fuck her so good she's gunna love you that much more.
/r/seduction09/05/21 02:54 PM
29

There are girls I'm attracted too and girls I normally wouldn't give a second look. What I realized as I got older was that some of those girls I wasn't looking at because they didn't have a nice butt or a pretty face, they might very well catch my attention if they were naked. You watch porn you see how many different combos of tits/areolas/nipples their are out there? How some girls suck a dick with passion and others kinda just lick the tip? How some girls have an innie and some an outie? Yea…
/r/seduction09/05/21 02:27 PM
3

No joke my mom could pick a better gf for me than I would ever pick. One of those things I think back to and say "im so dumb, wish I could go back"
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:47 AM
1

Cold approach at bar. If she can hear you and she's open to meeting someone it's easy. She's not there to drink all night and go to bed.
/r/seduction15/06/20 08:26 PM
1

Depends if she wants a bf or not. If she sees you as relationship material and she wants you to be her bf then yea I'd tell her. If she's just horny and looking for a fuck and you tell her she might think you're gunna be a clinger and she might drop you.
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:28 PM
1

You say constant eye contact. Does it feel natural or are you staring her down?
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:36 AM
3

Seinfeld got a way with the ladies
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:41 AM
1

I gotta thing for strippers maybe? Idk this got sidetracked into why I do what I do. The girls there are easy to talk to if you're having a tough time that's all I was trying to say. To each their own I suppose.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:21 AM
1

Naa then your just gonna get in your own mind about keeping maintained eye contact. No need to glue eyes to her. You just have to get over that pause where you think about going for it. The shorter you make that pause the less time you have to mess up.
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:17 PM
1

My train of thought is that I get a night where I can really just kick back chill and talk to a bunch of good looking women over a drink. You have to realize there are lots of different types of clubs. I'm not referring to the type in Miami or AC where there's dudes ballin out throwing stacks of money at a bbw while she twerking on his nose. I tend to gravitate towards the more hole in the wall type of place where the girls are pretty normal and from my area. Might end up smoking a Dutch and hit…
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:20 PM
4

Nope. Sit at the bar 1 drink per every other dancer on stage that's 6 girls. Talk to only the ones you like after they got off stage. That's a good 2-3 girls. Offer to buy them a drink if you really like them. That's maybe 40$ with tip your at 50$ maybe $60 tops. Do it once a month you'll be in good shape/ right mindset.
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:13 AM
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I don't smile at bouncers. They're known to charge cover fees which go right in their pocket and the place never sees a penny of it. Tip the bartender well, girls who are dancing only tip the one's who interest you well or you're gonna get flooded with girls who aren't your type trying to get you to sit for a dance. Go in with like 50$ only plan to stay for an hour. Maybe like 2 or 3 drinks. Talk to girls you like. Talk to the bartender. If you're there to learn to speak to girls stay away from …
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:19 PM
1

Dude you gotta realize when an opportunity arises to at least get some conversation in. Start going to strip clubs and at least learn to speak to a girl (but don't let those bitches take advantage lol).
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:21 PM
1

It could have been flirting. It was her way in to engaging you. Howd the interaction go after she returned?
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:07 PM
1

For real. I've never been a fan of calling it game in the first place. It's ok to need some advice to get some self confidence. Some dudes acting like it's a literal game and if they do everything the coach said they gunna get laid. Shits weird and I laugh at ppl who act like they're this mysterious dude brushing off females. That's shits not for most guys and girls can pick up on when you're not being genuine.
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:11 PM
1

Wait. So you're trying to use a broken off engagement as a topic for picking up new chicks? I gotta say those are two things I probably wouldn't want to segue from one to the other. Unless for some reason you believe females are hitting on you because of the breakup?
/r/seduction14/02/20 04:54 PM
3

I'd just be honest without going into too much detail. Gotta be a simple way to put it without lying yet at the same time not going into detail. I'm sure most ppl will understand it's a touchy subject try and not mention it.
/r/seduction14/02/20 04:43 PM
2

You got this. Remember you gotta update us tmrw so no pressure haha better have something
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:14 AM
4

"Try and be interesting" is putting a lot of pressure on someone who is already a bit nervous.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:10 AM
3

It's better than going out with others. Just do you and remember everyone is out to have a good time. Relax and you got this.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:09 AM
2

Well said
/r/seduction07/02/20 03:50 PM
1

I'll tell you I know a time where I could have kissed this chick, felt like I should but I didn't and I will always think about it. In your situation I wouldnt ask her to meet up then just kiss her because. I'd carry on your relationship as normal and see where it goes. All relationships have ups and downs. If she's apartment hunting rn with her bf they might be in an up part of theirs. That would be the worst time to try and make a move on her. I don't think her attraction slipped. I think she'…
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:07 PM
1

I'll just say I think what you're feeling is natural and I definitely understand your situation. Good luck with it.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:53 PM
1

Like I said been there done that. Still think about her year's later. More respect to you for not making a move, just saying that's the only thing that would really move that relationship in any direction, whether it be forward or killing it all together. You hear about plenty of ppl having affairs and getting divorced over coworkers. It's not uncommon and it may really be something btwn you 2 it's just that you both have different lives and they're not in sync at this point. Could they be at so…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:39 PM
1

If your separation is indeed a thing then you may be in the clear at some point but you have to see it from her side. Seems like her living situation revolves around her bf so when things get tough (or maybe their lease is up) they are in it together. You haven't made a move romantically so what is she supposed to do? Ditch her real life in hopes you're going to sweep her off her feet? She's probably not replying right away because she's with her bf getting real life shit done. I know what type …
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:18 PM
3

If a girl doesn't like you because you have no Facebook that's a shallow type of girl. Not saying she's ditched you because of it yet but it seems like you're worried thats the direction this will head. I haven't had social media in many years, takes the complication out of life. There's way more important things in life than likes and seeing what everybody else is trying to pretend they're doing.
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:58 PM
0

Need more sex and you'll want a gf
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:54 PM
2

This story made my day. Glad you got to experience really going out 👍
/r/seduction12/01/20 07:17 PM
1

There's so much communication that's nonverbal. If you felt it, possibly she did too.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:55 PM
1

Don't follow her but try and time it so that you're leaving the gym at the same time next time you see her. If you can hold the door for her or something then just make a comment about how your legs are shot or something after that workout you could have an in. That is if you're actually interested in her. If you were just going for practice fuck it on to the next one. Imo she very well may have been tryina catch you. Source: also a fast walker
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:14 PM
1

You shoulda been like "I'm a fast walker and i thought you were about to pass me lol". If she laughed and smiled just keep the convo moving. Should have shot.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:07 PM
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