Hey guys,

I know, given the warm reception that I got for the first part, I decided to write a second part. I see a lot of you making these MASSIVE mistakes, which are turning you into a weirdo. Hopefully, these tips serve as a course-correction and for you guys to become high-value guys. Unfortunately, a lot of the free advice out there is given without an adequate context. Therefore, it is easily misunderstood.

1-Ignoring the girl's cue's to instead, apply your pick up knowledge

"What she says she wants is not what she is attracted to, "this was Mystery's advice and many of the old schoolers in the community. Unfortunately, this has made a lot of you guys into weirdos since when you are on a date, you will ignore the girl's cues in favor of applying the right pick up technique! This action is ironic because the right move to do in that situation was to follow the girl's cues. For instance, I was at the Jane Hotel with a wing, and then we approached two sets. My wing's girl told him to leave but turning her back on him. However, he keeps insisting on telling me that you need to be persistent. In the end, the girl got pissed off and left.

Moreover, later when we approached another set, the girl offered to give us her Instagram, but he refused since he thought only numbers mattered, which isn't true. There are a million examples, but the underlying problem is the same: You are not listening to what the girl is telling you. The key to calibration is to LISTEN to the girl; she will say what she wants and how to solve any objection she might have.

2-Using Game techniques on your family, friends or co-workers

Many guys who get into the game get excited in learning that it can have multiple applications. Unfortunately, unless you know what you are doing, you should not use game techniques on your family, friends, or co-workers. Some social circle coaches will talk about how they used the game to network with people and build a business. However, for most people who are starting, what will most likely happen is that people will quickly pick up on that behavior and call it out. For instance, I remember a classmate who used to obsess over being a higher value than their peers and would do so to their detriment.

For instance, he started not to return people's calls to show he was a higher value than them and to show that other requests to show that others were seeking his approval. In his mind, he thought he was sub communicating high status. In contrast, most people around him thought he was plain weird and wasting everyone's time. He was sub demonstrating the opposite of what he wanted to say. I've seen this time and time again with most people in the community who want to stand out over their peers and end up standing out like a sore thumb.

3- Obsessing on games techniques like push and pull/teasing/playfulness

I've noticed a lot of you guys message me about how to be funnier or how to playful. Unfortunately, the marketing of some coaches had led you to believe that you need an arsenal of techniques to able to build attraction with a girl. This statement couldn't be far from the truth; in fact, I only use the funny lines or teases sporadically, and only when the situation calls for it. Since I'm well-versed with sexualizing techniques, I skip to that overdoing all these teases.

Obsessing over this game techniques will turn you into a 'dancing monkey.' The dancing monkey frame is wrong from three angles. First, a lot of people will think you are a clown. For instance, a wingman of mine would run routines on girls and their group of guy friends. While in his mind, he thought he intimidated the guys and impressed the girls. In reality, most people thought he was a joke; they would laugh and then leave. Second, the girls will think you are weird; after a few laughs, the girl will wonder, "Is he ever normal?" She might say, "Thank you, " and then leave. Third, you will ruin a lot of your interactions by trying to force or tease or make light about a problematic situation. For instance, if a girl trips and you say, "Haha, you klutz." The girl will get mad at you and tell you to, "Get lost." I've seen this happened to a friend of mine.

Moreover, it doesn't need to be that dramatic, but in general, you will start to annoy people, and they won't want to be around you.

4-Being cheap or being broke

Seeing people being cheap is a pet peeve of mine since almost 90% of the PUA's I've met fall into this category. Most have heard that looks, money, or status shouldn't matter. Therefore, they should focus exclusively on game. However, what ends up happening is that the lose set after set. For instance, I was in Las Vegas at Gold Spike with a fellow PUA. His set was going well, but then the girl asked him to buy her a drink. He wouldn't do it because he follows the alpha fucks/beta bucks mantra that he understood to mean you shouldn't use the money to get girls. The girl eventually got annoyed and left. The girl ended up going with an older guy with money who bought her the drink for $5. The older guy had way less game than us, but he calibrated to the girl's need and dealt with the objection.

Unfortunately, this is a pervasive issue in this community. I've seen it over and over again. For instance, guys losing a set because they can't pay for a $10 uber ride. Guys are losing a girl because they live with their parents or guys losing a set. After all, they live with their roommates who won't let them bring girls home.

5- Running Game in a lot of inappropriate places

Most guys who get into seduction find online game very difficult and nightgame equally as challenging. Therefore, the newbies gravitate towards day game. However, this leads to tons of unfortunate consequences. For instance, I have seen all the horrors from guys getting kicked out of malls to getting security called on them to getting banned from restaurants. For example, I remember I went to Santa Monica Pier, and guys were trying to game girls while they were having their lunch. The girls were very annoyed by his behavior. However, he thought he had a stronger reality than them, so he continues talking to them while they were trying to have lunch. Eventually, I had to get my wingman out of there, before the girls called the restaurant security on us. It was not a pleasant experience, and most people thought we were weirdos.

Conclusion

Message me to join our secret mastermind group. I hope you guys learn from this list**. Social skills are about adapting to your environment and responding to the needs of the given environment.** You need to become contextually aware and focus more on common sense and life experience as opposed to following mantras or advice, some of which are for marketing purposes. At the same time, others are dogmas made by keyboards jockeys.