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Inner Game Facelotion/r/seduction21/02/20 06:24 PM
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Facelotion/r/seduction21/02/20 03:28 PM
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This is putting into practice what has been taught in How to make friends and influence people. It is simply being approachable and non-judgemental. Thanks for the example bud!
/r/seduction11/12/20 08:33 PM
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Same here. Also, if you have been in the game for more than 5 minutes you can tell the ones that are going to be problematic from the ones you can trust. Usually women who have too many problems can't help but be turned off by a guy when he is at his lowest. Why? Because they are trying to be saved. If you are weak then you can't save them. That's a no-go zone for them.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 04:44 PM
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#facts
/r/seduction26/06/20 09:55 PM
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Let me list here a few things for you to consider: 1- If you are a stud, have good intentions (I believe you do) then you should not worry about respecting women and leaving them alone. I say that because you are going to provide her with the great experience of being in your life. When was the last time you saw someone apologize for giving you a good time? 2- Women shouldn't be seen as potential targets for dating... the way you word that it sounds like dating you is awful and potentially dange…
/r/seduction26/06/20 09:55 PM
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I think you brought up some really good points. I would like to add a few points that are part of a general perspective: 5 - In the dating world some women are mostly passive - They usually throw hints or just show up and wait till someone who they find attractive decides to find them attractive as well. 6 - Some women are getting too much attention - In our current market women are bombarded by thirsty guys, so when someone compliments them on a cold approach guess what she thinks? Just another…
/r/seduction26/06/20 09:36 PM
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Do you really want to spend your brief existence in this planet being afraid to be a complete human being because someone is going to walk out on you for crying? Their opinion does not negate your previous and future accomplishments. We should purge weakness. If you cry and she leaves, guess what? You just accomplished that task. If we have to choose men crying or men bottling up and committing suicide then I think we can handle a few tears.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 06:54 PM
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You only get flak if you are close to the target right?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 10:00 PM
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It is disheartening and I know exactly what you're talking about. It's such a revelation when it blows on your face.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 09:05 PM
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Actually, that's a really good filter. As soon as possible you should talk about your problems and gauge their reactions. Fuck being a rock for someone who doesn't have your back.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:29 PM
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One thing is talking about your problems. Another thing is whining about your problems. Talking leads to solutions while whining leads to wasted time.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:26 PM
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That's why it is not recommended to talk for too long. Specially if you are texting. You do it just long enough in the beginning to see if she is interested then you set the date and get off the phone.
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:20 PM
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Unless you bring your whole pack of friends with you as you are approaching I don't really understand how it would influence negatively. In fact it can be helpful to have them around. Women that see you around other women may think that you are not a creep.
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:02 PM
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You have to talk to people and be genuinely interested.
/r/seduction07/03/20 01:29 PM
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One thing I've learned is that trying to make it all about you backfires more often than not. If you put your best foot forward and someone is acting weird then it's more about them than anything you have done.
/r/seduction07/03/20 01:18 PM
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I like your directness. Women hardly ever will tell directly through text that she is not interested because they like the attention. I'm going to use this here and see what happens.
/r/seduction07/03/20 01:14 PM
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We could go into more details if you really need us to.
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:03 AM
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I think it is important to note that if you try to be scarce you first need to be aware that she has a high level of interest in you. Otherwise that will backfire.
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:46 PM
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A lot of people frown upon open relationships. For a lot of people the only acceptable outcome is a serious relationship even though many are unhappy, unfaithful and it leads to many emotional wounds when to disolves.
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:21 AM
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This is the way.
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:54 PM
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Good job man, keep it up and keep us posted!
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:47 PM
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This person is not interested in talking to you. Wish them a good day and go try someone else,
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:30 PM
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The way I think about it is this: I know how to have fun. I know how to have an engaging conversation. People enjoy having me around. When I approach anyone, not just a good looking girl, what I am looking for are the same qualities I just described. During the day, when I am going about my business, I don't waste people's time by not being direct with the reason why I am engaging them. That's because I don't want people wasting my time either. With that said, when I approach women during the da…
/r/seduction24/02/20 04:07 PM
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I missed that 3AM deadline when their numbers spiked... Oh well, I guess I will have to wait till next weekend.
/r/seduction24/02/20 03:59 PM
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I am not interested in kids or marriage and I don't plan on quitting the bachelor lifestyle. I'm turning 34 this year.
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:19 AM
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You can have a relaxed relationship. However do not broadcast that from the beginning. Wait till you have sex and they ask for the commitment. You can tell them that you enjoy being with them but at the moment you are interested in a relaxed relationship that doesn't involve whatever you are not interested in doing i.e. kids and family. Reinforce that you like being with them but make no promises. Do not use open relationship as a term since it might have a bad connotation. Go with an explanatio…
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:17 AM
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Maybe you can try a salsa club, hiking, golfing or another activity that involves talking to people.
/r/seduction22/02/20 11:33 PM
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I would suggest increasing your social group. Do you have a good appearance?
/r/seduction22/02/20 11:17 PM
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One thing to keep in mind is that women notice that they are being "approached" online and not in real life and that affects them. I went to a lounge last night and obviously it was filled with men. There were some cute girls and some pretty average girls. None of those girls had guys approach them. The only girl that got approached was my wing and simply because we were friendly with everyone around us. A decent wing woman will get you many drinks for free lmao.
/r/seduction22/02/20 09:52 PM
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My man!
/r/seduction22/02/20 07:05 AM
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Do you guys really call women sluts?
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:56 AM
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Let me give you an honest opener: Hi! (Pause) I have to admit I have no idea what I am doing, but I think you are kinda cute. (Pause) Don't say anything else and let's see what happens! Good luck!
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:54 AM
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One of the comments that I see frequently is some variation of "How am I supposed to have an abundance mentality when I can't even get one girl" or essentially "how am I supposed to believe that I'm high value without proof?" This goes back to Confidence. One definition of which is: a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. I went out the other night and had zero luck(several opportunities for 6's, but I have my standards). Under the same co…
/r/seduction21/02/20 08:37 PM
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BUT then her friend joins the table and the girl actually introduces me to her friend. This here is what got you going. Judging by what you wrote here if this had not happened I don't think you would have gotten results.
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:42 PM
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Outstanding answer. What I find interesting with seduction is that sometimes previous results may not guarantee future results. Following your example: I may have been able to consistently sleep and date 10s, but if I switch to a new location I may not be able to reproduce the same results with much ease.
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:36 PM
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I think one needs to take into consideration the form of how something is being learned. If we learn that an interaction is emotional painful we are simply going to avoid it. You can try to rationalize all you want, but if the interactions are painful not only will you reinforce that neurological path in your brain but you will want to avoid it at any cost. A lot of people like to pretend to be more rational than they really are. Our emotional brain is an elephant and our rational brain is the r…
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:38 PM
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Here is what she also said bored.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:30 PM
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I have never bought a stranger a drink or paid to get their attention and had tons of sex while living with my parents. Also in my experience many people consider daygame to be way more challenging than nightgame and online dating. I do find it very interesting how your experience is so distinct from mine. Keep these coming!
/r/seduction21/02/20 04:56 AM
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Gotcha. I completely understand your situation as I live in a small city outside of Boston, so to find abundance I need to drive 35-40 minutes into the city. Which also complicates with logistics. When I hear of abundance I understand that these guys are talking about their realities. So I try not to get too upset about them. Some coaches, like the guys from Natural Lifestyle live in parts of Europe where there is a lot of foot traffic. In fact they even suggest to some men to move if possible. …
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:58 AM
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So there is an abundance for the night game? Where are these women coming from?
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:31 AM
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You are 25 and you think you are too old for an 18 year old? LOL I'm 33 and I would go after them without any hesitation.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:28 AM
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One thing that I would emphasize here is that very rarely people behave this erratically out of the blue. This woman was probably giving signs of having a bad character from the go and he simply pushed forward due to lack of abundance. In any case, this is an awful situation to experience and I wish him all the best.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:25 AM
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This guy gets a lot of props from me. Y'all bashing him... let's see the video of you doing better during daygame.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:19 AM
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If a guy could control the outcome simply by improving his skill set then it would not make sense to say that dating is a numbers game.
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:37 PM
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I think that the most important piece here is this single line: It’s amazing how many second and third chances a woman will give you if she likes you.
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:29 PM
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That's a difficult situation because they could really enjoy your company but for some reason they don't want to come out. However, the principle is still the same: you are presenting an invitation. ​ I say that it is important to build your tribe and to also be comfortable going out alone in order to bulletproof yourself from the situation you described. ​ What does that mean? You got your wings, you got girls that want to go out with you to have fun (your social proof) and every weekend you ar…
/r/seduction18/02/20 09:59 PM
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This is indeed a funny list as pointed out before. 1-Making forceful eye contact with strangers The idea is to look at someone when you are interacting, not stare at them as if you are trying to intimidate them. I am not sure how someone cannot know the difference. 2-Trying to show dominance(Sitting first at the table and getting service early) You need to show dominance or else someone else will or nothing will happen. I have no idea where this sitting first at the table thing comes from. 3- AM…
/r/seduction18/02/20 07:13 PM
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Mmm not quite. It is the same thing as me working out, learning skills and having ambition and picking up the acoustic guitar and expecting success. I can be super confident but I will still suck because I just don't know how to play. I have seen other people do it and I know I am supposed to move my fingers and hands but it simply doesn't translate to reality. To be confident in seduction you need to be practicing the skills involved with seduction. You could be jobless and never been to the gy…
/r/seduction18/02/20 06:32 PM
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Even this conversation about neediness I find mostly superficial and downright wrong. If you feel lonely, if you feel like you want to connect with someone - these are valid feelings. It only becomes "neediness" when the other person doesn't want to participate. And that's the important piece. If you find yourself thinking that trying to talk to someone is a needy behaviour it usually comes from either a perception or a known fact that you are not important. By perception I mean that you see you…
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:59 PM
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One issue that I have found lately with these "work on yourself" or "don't chase" mottos is that they don't really get to the core of the matter. Look, there are guys out there that don't have much going on and still get the girl while there are guys with cars, accolades and all the BS doing a 5v1. The difference is confidence. Is belief. One guy believes he is going to get action the other believes that he needs to prove himself to get action. You can work on yourself all you want, but if you g…
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:43 PM
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It will most likely happen within 20 seconds of you approaching her. Almost doesn't even matter what you say. Within that time she will know if she likes you enough to sleep with you. That's why increasing your level of attraction is important.
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:33 AM
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It appears that you view sex as a negative thing. You sound sexually repressed. That's usually a side effect from listening to women for too long. Women like sex. Their biology has an organ which only function is to increase pleasure while having sex. Think about that. Creating an opportunity for sex to happen is what you are naturally designed to do. Think about that. If you subscribe too long to the female mindset you will end up in the provider role while getting nothing from it.
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:25 AM
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Unless you live in some backwater country, the chances of anything really strange happening are quite small. But I understand that women live in a perpetual state of fear.
/r/seduction17/02/20 03:42 PM
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It really depends on the situation, but the best way to go about it is to always reply with "OK, just let me know when you are available and we will go from there." And you drop the interaction. If they really wanted to reschedule they will contact you. If they were flaking, well, you are already on your way out.
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:36 PM
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I am also looking for a wing for the Boston area.
/r/seduction09/02/20 04:42 PM
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What did you say when she asked you to buy her a drink?
/r/seduction09/02/20 12:41 AM
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