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Extending on what the first commenter said, I probably went out with 20 girls over three years, before I found my first girlfriend. Dr K or healthy gamer GG, has a really interesting video on dating timelines. It is extremely normal to go 3-5 years before a relationship, for everyone. That isn't an indicator of you as an undesirable partner. Truthfully I think the bigger issue with your post is your idea that a relationship is the indicator of your life starting. I'm telling you that very little…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 03:31 PM
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Just to add on a few thoughts: if you're looking for some actionable good, healthy dating advice I suggest models. Parts of the book changed the way I viewed the world. I think right now though you need to defocus on dating and work on your mental health which leads to #2 Dr K or healthygamerGG has some really good videos. He can be a good seg way to seeking mental health support or therapy. I would suggest therapy. I hear a lot of confusion over your identity in this post, and I'm assuming its …
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 02:37 AM
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I also think it's important to realize the subtle damage of consuming "negative" content constantly
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 03:54 AM
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If I take that as true, (which is doubt it is to the extent you're saying it is) then why not do everything in your power to work on it? There are things you can do to help bump yourself up a few points. That being said, I think much more important then the physical aspect of it, is the emotional aspect of being ok with your looks.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:31 AM
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I feel like there's a few things to unpack here. The first thing that sticks out is your view on yourself. Whether or not you meet the object definition of "attractive" or not is irrelevant. If 3 people find you ugly and 3 people find you attractive what does that then make you? These things aren't black and white and people view attraction through different lenses. It's not good to define yourself as unattractive, because its going to give you a mindset that's gonna set you up for failure. The …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:21 AM
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I doubt its your looks. I find it hard to believe somebody who is as ugly as you're implying you are, is so socially adept. If you really think it's your looks you should try to maximize the things you can control- fitness, grooming, and fashion. Any guy who does all three of those can push himself up a few points. The next thing I'm curious about is how often you're hitting on girls. I get rejected all the time and so do all of my friends that get girls. It's just part of the process. I think i…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 01:49 AM
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its not 100% about looks because everybody has different standards lol
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 01:40 AM
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Thats not a bad thing. The only human experience you're going to have is your own, so why not feel full of worth?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 06:13 PM
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Hi, thanks for a thoughtful response. I sorta disagree with you. If you are speaking purely in black and white, sure. Certain people bring more "value" in certain situtations, such as firefighters in a fire. That being said "worth" has nothing to do with that strict sense of "value". I have worth because this is my only life, and Im gonna make the best out of it, and do the things I want to do because this is all I'v got. I think I disagree with you because I do not believe there is really any s…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 01:33 AM
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Hey, sorry I am taking awhile to respond I just saw this now. I understand your feelings. Finding a relationship is not easy, and finding a good relationship is harder. I think there are also some things you can do to find a relationship, like go to the gym, dress good and learn to communicate with people in a way that helps you build relationships. I think besides that you need to understand that while we all want to find love, dating is harder then it seems. People do all these crazy things li…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 01:23 AM
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Not to take away from your comment but I want to add that I dont think basing your self worth on achievements is an answer either. I did this for awhile and while it works in some ways, there will always be people who have achieved more and have x y and z. just being ok with yourself, is how I view it now. this is my only life, so I will take care of myself and like myself because I am lucky enough to be given this life.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 01:14 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being short. I know online there's a lot of talk about height standards and on dating apps which can suck. Being short is not going to stop you from finding love and a good life partner, but feeling like you don't deserve it will.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 10:20 PM
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