I find myself thinking a lot about the red pill idea of hypergamy recently when speaking to one of my friends. He is very attractive and pretty much has matched with every single girl iv been interested in and lots of girls I just know in general. I feel like talking to him destroys my worldview, because although I know Im capable of love and a good relationship, I'm not capable of hooking up with really attractive women in the way that he is.

I feel like it makes me want to stop online dating because it just doesn't work for me the way it works for him, and I have a really hard time not comparing myself to him. It also is disappointing to know that most of the girls that I have been online dating are constantly hooking up with guys like him. It's truly hard not to compare myself to these other guys I don't know, because I am never going to be as attractive as the infinite amount of matches.

If anybody has any advice I'd like to hear it :) Thank you