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| 2 | Getting numbers, but having trouble converting | Byron80 | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 02:32 AM | |
| 0 | If you get physically attacked by a girl | Byron80 | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 09:17 AM |
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| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaThe problem is Olivia makes it very clear she believes Charismatics take up space in a social setting. And although it might be obvious to you and me, men attempting sliverback behaviour at bars is common. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaThis is conflating charisma with "techniques" to build confidence. Doing squats also raises your testosterone, so would you bring your bar bell the cocktail bar and squeeze out a few sets in front of the ladies? Confidence is definitely a characteristic of a charisma, but again, if you need to stand in the middle of the room taking up all the space, then you've failed. You will look like an alpha gorilla about to fight. You will not look like an alpha man chilling with his mates. Best keep the w… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 07:36 PM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaYes that's the teacher-student power imbalance. I used to teach so I've experienced this. The take away here I think is that, the teacher knows he holds rank over the student, the student knows they are subordinate. Teacher is alpha. This can also be proved by considering the "rebel student". in this case we have a student that doesn't acknowledge the teachers seniority, the student invariably wins; not in my case of course ;-) | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers, but having trouble convertingthanks for the feedback guys. I feel that "connection" is the key too. I'm going to make the following adjustments: Add a "theme" to the first meetup. i.e. establish a common interest with the girl. e.g. Arabic culture. Invite her to a shisha bar. take the focus off the date, you're just 2 guys with a mutual interest. Invite her to join you and your mates. This takes more pressure off the date, she can check you out. Your mates social proof you. You've extended the 5min set buy several hours. Da… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 06:13 PM |
| 6 | How to ask a girl on a date whom you haven't seen or talked to in a few weeks?From your post you still have to build attraction. Do not ask her out on a one-on-one date out of the blue. she will probably reject this offer. Invite her out with you and your mates, ideally cool mates that social proof you. If you get her out, start with light playful kino, that's it. Fail to sexualise then you've friendzoned yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Older guys that have success with college girls, what are you noticing about college girls that go for older guys?you're old and in your 20's? check out Nick Krauser and James Marshal, they have 10 years on you and pull teens. and they could't care less about anyone's opinion on that, if its legal and if its consensual then game on. Krauser does say that the young girls that go for older guys tend to be introverted "intellectuals", but no reason why they can't be good looking and mature too. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 10:18 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Clubbing alone for the first timeGood job going out alone, not everyone has the nuts to do that. Tips... talk to guys as well, it looks desperate just talking to women. guys can banter which will up your vibe. It looks like you have mates when in fact you're practising opening groups. even better if the group of guys has the odd girl there. Its way easier to talk to guys to get warmed up. do not get seen flirting with all the girls. instead select your targets. friendly girls will blank you the moment they see you flirting with… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Younger Girlyou joking? that's a perfect age difference. hit on her, and question her outright why she thinks that's a problem. joke and say it should be "me" that's reluctant if anything, lack of experience etc. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Did I make a mistake here?The trick is to sexualize from the start. You missed this, and to be blunt, you showed the girl you don't have the level confidence required to sexualize. No worries, she's a practice run anyway. So how do you sexualize correctly. the key word is subtly. playful light kino, find an excuse to hold her hand for a few seconds, good eye contact. Guaging the correct amount of sexualisation is about trial and error, I've gone from zero sexualisation to overly aggressive, and ease back again, but I'm a… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 02:46 AM |
| 2 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaOlivia Cabane's work mostly BS. The worst advice is "taking up space", its just plane wrong and God help anyone trying to implement this. Standing like H-Man in the middle of the room, or taking up 2 seats, or otherwise taking up more space than necessary, at best will look like you're trying to impress, and at worst you will appear mentally disabled. Unfortunately charisma is very allusive and hard to pin down. what we all know is this, a charismatic man can can be sitting quietly in the corner… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 01:54 AM |
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