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| 0 | Why real men never say sorry. | CANTgetAbuttPREGNANT | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 02:15 PM |
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| 1 | Success rate with women skyrocketed as soon as I moved up north. Does location have that much to do with it?Somebody is dating these girls. You make it sound like all of them are single. Most of your challenge might be your mindset. The women smell your fear and lack of confidence. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 03:32 AM |
| 4 | In Love with a SociopathSounds very needy, but doesn't sound like a sociopath at all. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Daygame as an older guyDude stop worrying about your age. My wife is hot AF and I met her at a bar when I was 38 and she was 27. Age doesn't matter for us Bros. Just go get some tail. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?She said friendliness distinguishes one guy from another. It does. It tells the women who to friend zone. It's bad advice and I was calling it out. Take your name calling elsewhere fucktard. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?I'm gonna be harsh because, well, internet and we won't ever meet. Your post is total bullshit. Women don't generally fuck the super friendly guys and instead friend zone them in favor of the more assertive, more masculine, more emotionally provacative men. Stop lying to yourself and all the other men on this sub. This guy needs to get in there, be direct, say "hey, tell me this class wasn't a real drag. You know what will make it better? You and I need to go out, grab a beer, and get to know ea… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?She has options and you're good enough only when her calendar is empty. I'm a guy and used to do this to girls all the time. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Shit test question/statement "you are a player, aren't you?""Like anything in life, if you're gonna play the game, you might as well play it well, right?" | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Success rate with women skyrocketed as soon as I moved up north. Does location have that much to do with it?I lived in Atlanta and Detroit. I'm a decent looking white guy with good social skills. Never had a problem in either place nor did I find Atlanta any more difficult than up north. I approached and met quality women in Buckhead, Midtown, etc. without too many over the top rejections. I think it's more your frame and being out of your comfort zone. It's not the location that's easier, it's you who have responded to your circumstances and built real confidence. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with alpha attacking my masculinity?This guy Wedding Crashes | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 03:11 AM |
| 2 | M20 - I will probably lose my virginity tomorrow to a Tinder hookup - any last minute tips/advice?Thats some good advice! | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | M20 - I will probably lose my virginity tomorrow to a Tinder hookup - any last minute tips/advice?Don't over think this. If it happens it happens. Don't lose any sleep over losing your virginity to a hookup. Virginity is this overblown social construct that in today's hookup culture is completely irrelevant. I've had my share of women, and I can tell you one thing I NEVER think about - The first one I shagged. The first time you have sex, its almost guaranteed to be awkward, and you could probably hold your breath longer than it will last. Get it over and done with and then start to hone you… | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Why did this girl lose interest?Guy here, used to do this to girls all the time. It came down to options. I had other options and usually they were better (more interesting, better looking, etc.). I would eventually get back around to the ones I left hanging, and by then they were attracted by the chase and an easy hookup. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 09:10 PM |
| 6 | 24 and VirginThis post is useless. We know nothing about you, and you've clearly done no research. If you put as much effort into your self improvement as this post, you'll be a 25 year old virgin in no time. Search. Read the sidebar. Stop waiting for people to do things for you. Take charge. By your post I can already tell the lacking inner game is a bigger problem than the outer game. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.What you don't have is confidence. That's what the other guys have. Pick yourself up, stop whining. Wipe away those tears. Complete the first exercise I suggested. Until you see women as people and not objects, until you see other guys as people and not competition, and until you see yourself as a confident man with unique value, you will have no girls, and you will watch others succeed where you are destined to fail. None of this is about what others have. And you know this because you already … | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 01:49 PM |
| 337 | How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works.If you're really having this bad of results, try this. Stand up. Walk to the bathroom. Look in the mirror. There is your problem. You are not broken, but you are not the man that these women want. Other men are who they want. Now, knowing the problem is the first step to solving it. Get a pen and paper. Sit down. Write at the top "my improvement plan". Then create three columns: external, internal, and environmental. Take real time to think about what you need to improve in each area. Ask a clos… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 02:32 AM |
| 5 | [M21y] Homewrecking or am I okay?Totally wrong sub for this question. That said, I'll give you a brief response. There is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings or intent. But do it once, don't keep going back, don't keep pushing the issue, and don't try to manipulate her and his existing relationship. The act of forcibly trying to insert yourself in between the two of them and intentionally fucking their relationship up is what makes you a home wrecker. Expressing your intent (upfront and once only) is being assertive and… | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | When do YOU escalate physically with an Asian girl with whom you want a LTR ? 30+Live in Singapore, dated girls from Singapore, Malaysia, Philippines, India, Korea, Thailand, Japan. I would always kiss on the first date and would f close on date 1 or 2. No practical differences here at all. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Need alcohol to even be able to get sexual with the girl and move in for the kiss, can I change that somehow?Do you really think you both have a different goal in mind? Afterall, she invited you over... Maybe your mindset is the problem, not the alcohol. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Where to find women around 30?Practically every club or bar (except for those in "college towns" will have a broad mix of different aged people. To get at the 30+ crowd, try bars and restobars that cater to the after work crowd. Think, places that business people go for drinks after work on Thursday or Friday. Other options might be events in your local sit (pop up markets, food festivals, live music, etc.). More likely than not, you're already at the right places, but because you're striking out, you're falsely convincing y… | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 05:01 AM |
| 5 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They're Bad Places To Pick Up WomenArticle clearly written by a guy making excuses for his lack of success in a club. It's so wrong and so inaccurate I won't even waste the time commenting on individual points. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I went for it.Never worry about making it awkward. Most of the time the girl wants the guy to make the first move and you won't know if she's interested until you try. If you let it go into the friend zone (which doesn't take more than a few meet ups) you will likely never get out. In truth, and this sounds harsh, there are an unlimited number of girls to be friends with. There really really are. So hike up your balls, put on your game face, and escalate. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 03:03 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I went for it.Good for you. I am married now, but I rarely used to do cold approaches. Usually I met gf's online or through friends of friends. That said, one day while at a bar I said to myself (and I'm an average looking guy), I'm going to go talk to the most beautiful woman in the bar. I found her in the corner with her 3 friends, and dove right in. Fast forward 3 years and now she's my wife. I often look back on my life and wonder why I was so afraid to shoot for the best. I spent a lot of time dating ave… | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Will I never be accepted for what I am ?But your entire missive was a complaint about how much you suck with women and how you so wish you could be an antisocial shadow of a person and still get laid while having your head stuck into a notebook. You claim to want to understand this stuff but then dismiss everyone's feedback as irrelevant. Based on these interactions, pursuing women is the last thing you should be doing. You need to work on developing yourself to be a happier more empathetic and accepting person. Only then are you goin… | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I don't enjoy the process of gaming girlsWhen a girl plays hard to get, sometimes its a shit test to determine your level of interest. You should have just told her "You snooze you lose, you can give me yours if you want, and I'll ring you up if I'm feeling it." | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Will I never be accepted for what I am ?Then you should be more open minded about a lot of things. Lol 😃 | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Will I never be accepted for what I am ?If that's your response then you didn't read what I wrote. Circle back and read the response again. You don't have to change who you are, but you need to improve yourself, and you need to understand the emotional aspects of what actually drives attraction. If your ego is standing in the way of liking yourself, wanting to be a better person, and or wanting to understand what makes people tick, then you might need to speak to a professional about that. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:50 PM |
| 17 | Will I never be accepted for what I am ?I stopped reading after the second sentence. Seduction is not about changing who you are or learning tricks and pickup lines. Its about understanding the psychology behind how attraction works, and then working on yourself to present the best possible you to a potential mate. Where you need to begin is by looking in the mirror and asking yourself: "Why would someone be interested in me? What do I have to offer?" If you can't come up with a compelling list of reasons, then you need to improve you… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 06:49 AM |
| 3 | How do most of your relationships end?In an ideal world everyone should have a pretty equal mixture of relationships ended by themselves or the other party. But this is rarely how it works. Relationships are about compatibility, compromise, give, and take. When any one of those things is out of balance, it puts the relationship at risk. I've dated a lot, and here is how they went down based on who ended it: Me Me Her Her Her Me Me Me Me You'll note the string of relationships that I ended (6-9). After number 5 left me, I was depress… | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:04 AM |
| 11 | How to check if you have bad breath.I personally believe this is bad advice. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 03:03 AM |
| 17 | 3 steps to approach with insane confidenceThis is so cringtastic. But that's why i like it. Even though it's terrible, you still get numbers. It goes to show you just have to go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 02:11 AM |
| 9 | I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done.This is not about giving up on girls, it's about giving up on life. Go see a counselor and work on your self esteem and depression. You must truly love yourself first. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 07:17 AM |
| 7 | How To Makeout INSTANTLY At The Bar/Club with Infield exampleDude, that chick is a.) drunk, b.) desperate, and c.) not at all attractive. If you want to relabel your system RubbageDating I'd have more respect for the effort. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever get scared of STDs?Bodily fluid, specifically vaginal secretion or blood is what carries hiv. It doesn't matter if she is on her period or not. Go to an std clinic, get tested and counseled on basic std prevention. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 01:49 PM |
| 9 | Do you ever get scared of STDs?99% sure you're trolling, but just in case you're not, there is no way to tell if anyone has an std by looking at them. So wrap it up with extra thin condoms or get into a monogamous relationship. You are being a selfish asshole by having unprotected sex with so many partners. When you do contract hiv (It might take years, but with your behavior it is likely), you will end up paying it forward to others, and that makes you guilty for screwing up other people's lives for your own immature satisfa… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Went out clubbing and failed hard. What should I have done different?If the girl is interested in you, and clearly she was, the hard part is done. You are too focused on the game and have psyched yourself out. In reality you just needed to be a normal human being with the balls to ask for her number. Don't over complicate it, and don't get discouraged. There will be another girl to practice on next week. :) | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 02:06 AM |
| 235 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)TLDR: Confidence. Outcome independence. Approach volume. Don't over think, just execute. Build momentum. Repeat. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethLol, never hurts to keep looking! | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethCool thanks, keep up posted! | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethOP which product are you having great success with? Not all are created equal. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 03:20 AM |
| 8 | I am afraid I answered this question wrong. Was this a shit-test?You gave the perfect answer. You need to tell her that you won't put up with bullshit or games. If you told her no, then you not only give her permission to do it, you also show yourself as a weak man. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 01:51 PM |
| 5 | A girl I met with starts flaking out of nowhere and now tells me why lolDude, you can't get so upset over someone you met once for 2 hours. Who cares. Shes a flake, so what. Move on and enjoy the next girl. Don't over think it. If she really liked you, she would have made more effort to get in touch and hang out. Did you ever think this is just an excuse to get you to go away with minimal negativity? | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 01:48 PM |
| 39 | How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything...Just for perspective... My ex wife left me for a more mature, better looking, more athletic guy than me. It really hit my ego hard and made me question my self worth. About 2 months after it happened, still devastated I banged my ex-wife's best friend. That was the first boost to my ego. The second boost was when the ex who left me for the "so called better guy" broke up with him because he turned out to be a stellar asshole who treated her like dog shit. The thrid boost to my ego was when after… | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How To Text A Girl - In Depth With ExamplesAnd that downvote is most certainly from the author! | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 10:52 AM |
| 10 | How To Text A Girl - In Depth With ExamplesChrist, this is creepy. Rather than just being a fun person, this guy has a freakin' routine of photos and pictures he uses with girls under differing circumstances... "I use this one with tourist girls" he says. It's one thing to be a PUA, and it's a totally different thing to be a fake, manipulative creep. wtf man. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I've gotten this question a lot...Say "I'm not really looking for a committed relationship right now.." | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How to Just Not Care?Lookup outcome independence. Its not that you don't care about life career or goals. You do, thats part of your inner game. Instead you don't care about the outcome of your interactions with women. You stop holding back because you're afraid she wont like you or wont understand you. You instead fall into a frame of being totally who you want to be. Soon you'll realize that nice guys finish last because they are liars, not because they are nice guys. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What attracts women based on 9 years and 600+ dates (Warning: It makes NO sense sometimes)tldr: After enough women, everything on earth can be attractive. | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 12:13 PM |
| 0 | Should I approach girls on my campus?If you have to ask, you probably lack the confidence for success. I suggest reading up on game (start with the sidebar) until you realize why this is a ridiculous question. Then you'll be better positioned for success. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 01:14 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: I finally asked the gorgeous girl out from my class.This isn't a date, it's two people having coffee. If it goes well, Then ask her out. "Hey, this was actually a lot of fun, I didn't expect you to be able to hold my interest (smile), why don't you let me take you out next Friday..." | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Looking for something casual? Here's why you shouldn't say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."Okay fine... "I don't set expectations around dating. Every outcome is as unique as the individual. Let's get together and see where things go." | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 12:07 AM |
| 15 | Looking for something casual? Here's why you shouldn't say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."Looking to meet cool people and see where things go. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 03:42 PM |
| 37 | Looking for something casual? Here's why you shouldn't say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."Much more effective just to say "I really like the way things are between us, and I think it's great keeping it casual". This has worked great for me and I have 3 fwb. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?How is HSV-2 different? And if you did have HSV-1, and you told someone, you would be in the absolute minority. How many people have you kissed? How many stopped you beforehand to inform you of their herpes? None? Good. You should be aware that upwards of 90% of them were infected. What I'm getting at is that HSV-2 is a stigmatized non-issue. Its no different than cold sores. So this massive deal about disclosure is a double standard and quite frankly a joke. For full disclosure, I don't have he… | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?You are wrong. Most people ARE lucky. 87% of people have no symptoms. | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?Thats simply stupid disclosure. Make sure to tell them about the colds you've had, your flu, and those nasty thoughts you had about them before as well. | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?The Majority of people have HSV-1. (Cold sores). Do you stop a person before you make out with them and tell them "Hey before this kiss happens, you should know, I've had a cold sore before". No. You don't. HSV-2 is NO different. | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 04:10 AM |
| -1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?It is true. The downvotes are from paranoid people who are uneducated and have bought into the overblown hype / meme machine that conflates herpes into some life ending disfigurement when in actuality the vast majority of people are completely unaffected by their infection. Reddit takes a stance of responsible disclosure around std status which is right and Noble, however, herpes is far over blown and you have people like op walking around feeling like life is over when (assuming he is asymptoma… | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?How often do you get outbreaks? Are you on medication for them? | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 10:39 AM |
| -31 | Seduction if you have an STD. How does it affect your game?Most people with the herp never get more than 1 or two breakouts ever. Its uncommon to get lots of them. Most people can have sex without condoms when not having a breakout and NEVER pass it to their partners. My advice, ignore it. Use condoms. Don't tell any partners about it unless you are a.) having a breakout, or b.) want to have unprotected sex. In both cases you need to tell the other person. Thats my two cents. | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 10:39 AM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?I would personally start with less attractive girls. They will be more likely to say yes, and it sounds like you need a few yes answers to help build your confidence. As for being awkward and creepy, try to work on your body language and eye contact. Look them in the eye, but don't stare endlessly. Keep your back straight and shoulders back. Put your hands in your pockets if you can't figure out what to do with them. As for your opener, try to make it non threatening but direct... "Hey, got a se… | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 08:08 AM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?You need to analyze what you're doing wrong. Are the girls too hot? Are you too ugly? Are you awkward? Are you using kino? Are you escalating? Are you coming off creepy? Yoiu need to analyze it. I think it would be good for you to do that, then post back here your analysis of WHY this isn't working. That will help you to pinpoint what you need to be doing different, and give the team here some areas to advise you on. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 05:37 AM |
| 3 | FR: A weird weekendThis girl is a game playing attention whore. Ditch her and move on. The only thing that will come out of this is a set of blue balls and a bout of depression. I've been there before and while you MIGHT be able to get in her pants eventually, or you might catch her when she ditches the current BF, do you really need all the hassle? | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR]I went on a date with a girl who was "out of my league" last nightBe sure to escalate next time otherwise you're gonna end up in friend zone. The lack of intimacy on the first date combined with interacting with all of her friends pretty much guarantees it. Get aggressive my friend! Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 01:16 AM |
| 2 | One reply then nothing..."How is your day?" is a rhetorical question when you don't know someone. You're coming off as socially awkward and annoying. I wouldn't want to interact with you again because you are already whining and complaining and we just met. Nothing you said was funny or whitty. When she asked how your day was, you could hae said something like: "Terrible! I spent all day throwing myself in front of cars to try and meet you on the job, but everyone kept swerving out of the way!". Its online dating. Keep … | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 03:05 AM |
| 2 | How exactly do women sense insecurity/a lack of confidence?When you read about game you hear a lot about outcome independence. This is what you need to strive for. Don't worry about I look at her and she looks at me a certain way. You have to just approach, and let your personality and confidence shine through. When I'm picking up girls I go for the ones I want. I go in with the intention of a 5 to 10 minute interaction, phone number, and leave. Majority of the time I never call them. Therefore whether I get a number of not literally doesn't matter. For… | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 08:31 AM |
| 2 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?I was divorced at age 35 about 3 years ago. I have had more action since divorce than all years combined. I realized via online dating that I had real value in the dating marketplace. Once I built up my confidence, I stopped dating online and began meeting people at bars / clubs. This is the BEST time to be out there, so have no fear, you are far from an over-ripened fruit. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 04:47 AM |
| 10 | [20] College guy been visiting this place for 6-7 months now, can't take action.You can't take action? Bullshit. You choose not to. This is what you have to remind yourself. You are your own worst enemy. What you must realize is that once you do it, it gets easier because the outcome is always going to be better than what you imagine in your mind. Get out there and just do it. You'll be great. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 10:35 AM |
| 2 | I'm on fire guys. I'm on fireExpat in Singapore and this place is a meat market. Confidence is rare here, so in my experience, if you are confident and a decent conversationalist, you can pickup most anyone you want. I would say my odds of a # close on any approach are about 75% when night gaming. Day gaming I generally don't do, but have never needed to. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 05:05 AM |
| 2 | I'm on fire guys. I'm on fireAmerican in Singapore for 3 years. I work for an american company in a management position. This is the easiest path over based on most of my acquaintances. Message me if you have questions, happy to help. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 05:02 AM |
| 1 | [POV Infield w/ Mars] Daygame In Toronto #1 (rejections, numbers, blowouts, and captioned lessons)Thanks for making the video and nice work getting out there. I think you need to stop talking a bit. Ask the girls some questions and let them answer. Some of this is really painful to listen to. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 08:56 AM |
| 2 | What are your guys' thoughts on long-distance relationships and making them work?Don't waste your time. Unless you've SERIOUSLY invested years before the relationship goes long distance, there are far too many local options to even bother trying. Inevitably, one of you will cheat on the other anyways. Its biological. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 10:49 AM |
| 1 | I need help. I think I'm fucked up inside. I've been browsing this sub for three years, and I've made zero progress.You can get over the fear. You have to realize the outcome of escalating doesn't matter. Even if she acts revolted, so what. It doesn't change you. I would suggest getting a wing man to help you here. Tell him you need him to force you to escalate. When you get to a situation where you should, have him remind you to do it. Get him to remind you a couple times, and if you don't do it, he will spill his drink on you. FORCE yourself to break this cycle. I'm telling you, once you do, it will no long… | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 05:35 AM |
| 3 | So this happened last-night. Feedback?Two mistakes. 1.) Never tell her "were not having sex". Thats her line, not yours. By saying it, you made her conscious of the fact that she shouldn't be doing it. You got her mind racing. 2.) You shouldn't have taken her back to your bedroom until you were in a situation where sex couldn't happen unless you did. (Ie: clothes are off and the couch is awkward). I would give it a couple days, and message her with "Hey, you can't be playing hard to get already! I'm going to take you out on Sat, how… | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 02:47 AM |
| 21 | When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up"Yep, had a girl walk me to her bedroom after a makeout session on the couch by saying "Lets go to my room, its more comfortable, but we're not having sex". I said "No problem, its cool". 20 minutes later we were having sex. It means nothing. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:40 AM |
| -2 | What Seddit has done FOR me and TO me.This should be the top comment. I understand OPs point of view. Once you get good at seduction it IS difficult to see how to transition from to romance, love, etc. That said, the key message is in your comment above. You don't stop seducing... her. Soon as you do, your relationship has a two year run (max) till she cheats on you. The difference here is not whether you're still seducing, its WHO you're seducing. Don't forget this. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 03:29 AM |
| -1 | A random girl says "you have beautiful eyes", what would be a good reply to that?Try something like, "If you think they're so beautiful, why don't you give me your phone number and you can stare at them anytime I want." (Note the I, its about you, not her). Keep it cheeky, and this one is money. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | QUESTION: ARE YOU GAY?I love this question. I get it occasionally because I am generally well dressed and of slimmer build. My response is to step back half a step, look them in the eye, smirk (just a small one) look them up and down 1 time then step back in, put my hand on their lower waist and say into their ear "Put your hand on my crotch and find out". I generally do it in an overly dramatic way so as to let them know I'm joking. The ice is broken and its on. This is the best shit test to open doors. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Attracting the HOTTEST women?I think having a bunch of hot friends does help, but its not required. I expect the problem is with ops opening and general technique. When I'm doing bar pickup, I arrive with my buds, I use them as wingman only to build confidence, then go off on my own. The girls I hit on have no idea who I arrived with, and I prefer to be on my own. It lets me have full control of the situation. I'd say my approaches are 75% successful (# close with actual post # followup and agreement on a date). I'm not a g… | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Attracting the HOTTEST women?I'm an okay looking guy and recently upped my standards to focus on only the hottest girls (8's, 9's, and 10's). I've noticed that when I neg them in the bar as an opening, I get far more attention and interest than with other approach styles I used to use on less attractive woman. As an example, two weeks ago I picked up a beautiful airline stewardess at the bar who was in a group with 3 of her friends. All three of them were on their phones while this live band was rocking away with great musi… | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I have mild acne and I'm self conscious at times. Is acne a huge turn off?Try Proactive. I went to the Dermatologist and nothing worked. Proactive fixed me up in a month. Seriously, that stuff works wonders. You have to use all three steps. Stick with it, it doesn't work overnight. But once it starts working, it will be fast and it keeps working with consistency. Pro tip: It has Benzyl Peroxide in it, and it will bleach the color out of the collars of your dark shirts over time. Just be aware. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 04:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 years in the making; still getting blown off.And that's how you do it! Nice work bud! | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 01:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 years in the making; still getting blown off.If its been more than 3 or 4 days, then I think its okay timing. | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 2 years in the making; still getting blown off.Try something like, hey there, are we playing hard to get already??? Too soon babe! ;) or something like that. If that evokes no response then let it go for awhile (weeks) | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 12:30 PM |
| 2 | I need help. I made a mistake and I don't know what I'm doing.Good luck bud! | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 05:45 AM |
| 2 | I need help. I made a mistake and I don't know what I'm doing.What if she does? Who cares, then you go for the next hot girl. Be outcome independent. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 2 years in the making; still getting blown off.My guess is that she is invested in someone else at the moment. This may just be poor timing. Back off a bit, let her come back to you. She will if it was that good. A little reminder now and then (funny pic, story) would be good to keep her thinking of you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | For those of you looking to learn how to dance with girls... Here's a FREE training series that teaches you step by step how to dance to get more girls! Check it out! FIRST VIDEO REVEALS: Why You're Ruining Your Chances if Your Primary Move Is "The GRIND"Or you could, you know, talk to them. Picking up with dance moves is pretty lame. What's the point. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Enjoy PickupI give the guy cred for his confidence, but the scene at the beach sitting down was so painful. He came across downright creepy and desperate. | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 11:37 AM |
| 5 | To all the virgins out thereI'm amazed by all the people coming out to say sex isn't a big deal, yet they're posting their professions on /r/seduction. This sub is about seducing someone. By definition: Seduce: Entice into a sexual activity. So if its so not a big deal, why are we here? | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:35 AM |
| 1 | To all the virgins out thereI totally disagree with this post. This is like morbidly obese people telling each other they're beautiful on the inside. Bullshit. Sex IS a big deal, you think about it all the time because, well, hormones. Go out and start a self improvement plan based on the many posts already in this sub and turn your life around. Its totally worth it, and don't let this guy tell you otherwise. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 01:41 AM |
| 2 | So I live by the boardwalk/beach...and there's tons of beautiful girls there in the summertime. Need some tips.This is so easy when you realize your own value. Literally just walk up and say, "hey, I think you're really cute and just had to come up and introduce myself. I'm TRYNAGETGIRLS, whats your name?" Then ask her a few questions and use her answers to start busting on her a bit and creating a bit of humor. If she's single you have a far better chance than you'd think to get her number and take her out. If she says no, you'll never see her again. JUST. DO. IT. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 05:26 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with "You know we aren't having sex right?"During a makeout session on the couch, I once had a girl tell me "come on lets go to my room, its more comfortable, but we're not having sex". I just said to her "No worries, its okay" She was naked 10 mins later. Of course YOU have to escalate, but her telling you that is to help deal with her internal conflict of wanting to bang but not wanting to be a slut. Ultimately, because she said it, clearly she is thinking about it, and wants to do it. There really is no more clear cut announcement tha… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 04:28 AM |
| 2 | I HAD a hot date...but now idk where we standShow her you're a man, text her, "im going to take you out on Saturday, free up your schedule, I've got gummie bears :)". She will appreciate you taking charge and demonstrating you've been paying attention. | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 05:08 PM |
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