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Yea bro, I understand. It is.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:42 AM
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I think most guys on here, if they are really “taking the red pill” will not wait, or they will wait but they will have sex in the side. But also many guys on here are definitely not redpill which is why they are here trying to become part of that mindset. Remember that, as someone else said, aThenRed Pill is a mating strategy that points toward more frequent short term encounters. This is because with true red pill comes high testosterone. Higher testosterone comes with wanting to spread seed a…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 07:14 PM
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This is true. Even if you don’t want them to, the shitty people or the positive people influence you. Shitty people at the very least drain your energy trying to fend them off affecting you, and positive people give you energy. “You are the average of the 5 people you spend time with the most”
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:09 AM
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Low T guys still socialize. There’s always vitamin D3 that you can take. Most people are low on that anyways.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:52 AM
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Maybe it’s that you don’t socialize enough? It may not be a TRP issue but a basic social one.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:48 AM
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Basically drive confidence and ease being your best self in a social situation. If you jerk off all day and see an attractive woman while your out with friends, you will not have much drive to talk to her. If you haven’t done any jerking off for a week, you will have more drive to talk with people. Also you probably won’t take shit from a lot of people, which is owning your voice when you speak up.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:06 PM
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Basically what I hear is “why doesn’t everyone care what I care about?”. The short answer is that many people do things or don’t do things for many reasons. It is a waste of time to try to figure out why they don’t see what you see, and it’s a form of mental masturbation to feel superior. I’ve found that out the hard way.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:57 PM
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One other option that is available is to use the gray rock technique if she comes around after ghosting her. The gray rock technique is to act in a way that is so boring or unattractive to them in the way that they will lose interest and break it off with you. The unattractive part needs to sound convincing and can’t be obvious you’re faking it.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:17 AM
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That my world view was based on false facts, so in turn I wasn’t living in reality. When we believe in false things, we feel stress when reality comes our way. When you know the basic building blocks of reality like AWALT, no one gives a shit about you more than yourself, you need to lift, she’s not your it’s just your turn...etc., you have a clearer set of eyes to navigate the world. A plate leaves me for some rich guy in the neighborhood? See ya. It helps you focus on what ACTUALLY matters, in…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:52 AM
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I don’t know where you’re at but I’ve been advised to use TripAdvisor and locate your own town. I’ve heard that is a great way to find out fun things to do. Try to find something unique that will be memorable. This will make you seem like you know your town better and are a leader since you know the area and things to do.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:09 AM
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Damn I can only give one upvote for this. This is true life advice. You can’t control what others do, so if you tie it to what others do, you will be constantly unhappy. If you tie it to what you can control(your goals) then you will feel a sense of accomplishment. “Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.” -Jim Rohn
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:06 AM
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It could be true but it could also be a shit test, but take it as one. Her saying she’s busy and will let you know is saying she has better things to do but will fit you in if she can. Don’t take the bait. If you agree to that at face value, it means you have nothing to do and will wait for her. At the very least you should tell her that if your schedules line up you can do something, even if you don’t have shit to do. If you don’t, figure something productive to fill that time.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:59 PM
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Definitely a good answer. Your mission should always come first. Women are a compliment to your mission in life so if you lose her (remember she’s not yours, just your turn) you still have your own rock. Make sure your sense of mission is strong. Example: if I am on a mission to run from South Carolina to Seattle Washington, and I meet a woman that is a runner and she runs with me for a few hundred miles, but then she suddenly stops running with you and goes in the opposite direction, are you go…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:53 PM
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We don’t know if you are living together but in my opinion, after being in a position where the girl used sex to control (got colder the more I committed), the sex isn’t worth it. When that I used as control, it is #1 priority, which means in the long run that is what keeps the relationship alive. When she does this (if she does) it says more about her than it does about you.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:34 AM
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Admittedly I didn’t read the post, but I could tell from the title: she is an ex for a reason. Either you broke up with her or she broke up with you. Either way, a decision was made for a reason. Don’t give her the time of day. If it was her reason, then she didn’t find Chad and is crawling back to you. If you made the decision, you knew there were better fish in the sea. She wants attention in both cases. Don’t give it to her.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:08 AM
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I’m not sure but it seems like she is using him as a sex crutch or is trying to control him with sex. The more he’s roped in the colder she gets. I say leave her be since I used to be a chump in that situation, but without a kid, where they would use sex for control. Now when I see that, I have zero tolerance for it. In the long run, if someone uses sex as a bargaining or controlling tool, it is never worth it because that is out above all else.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:55 AM
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Don’t approach first, tell her to come your way; wave her over to your direction.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:47 AM
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It doesn’t found feasible to be a father but not put his dick in the mother? I’m not understanding your point. I work with many many people that are not fucking their ex but are great fathers. How does the dads dick inside the mothers vagina relate to him being a good father or not?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:45 AM
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It doesn’t sound like the kid doesn’t have a father, and being a father doesn’t require him to put his dick inside the mothers vagina. That’s how you complicate shit even further, especially since the mother is an ex.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:59 AM
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I didn’t read that part, that is my mistake. But my point still stands of not being a chump. He’s still not respecting himself by having sex with his ex. That is one of the most beta things a guy can do. There are literally a million girls within driving distance and he needs to have sex with an ex that he broke up with? That is the opposite of abundance mentality. Also it’s not hard at all to stop having sex with her. If it is then he is addicted to that one vagina which is one of the most blue…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:23 AM
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Don’t be such a chump. You say that so there’s an internal excuse for you to feel better about what you’re doing. Block her right now. Blocking someone on a phone isn’t hard at all. Don’t pick up a phone when she calls. Not pressing the pick up button is easier than pressing it. Anything else is internal to your mind. You’re acting on feelings and that’s what women do, so yea, you’re returning to beta behavior. You probably never actually internalized TRP behavior because it took beta behavior t…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:47 PM
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I think a well rounded read of classic books and more modern books are essential. Being a well rounded person is essential. Think and Grow Rich Stop Worrying and Start Living Intelligent investor One very useful book that I read to understand dating is 5 Love Languages. It didn’t make me be a pushover and beta but it did help me understand others in the dating realm and what turns them on to being receptive.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:56 PM
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My uncle taught me to just “measure what matters” and pay attention to what was in front of me. He taught me I don’t have to live in a trailer my whole life jus because my parents did. I can breakout of the family dynamics that have plagued us for generations. I can ask for so much more without having to do it perfectly. I guess he was a mentor of sorts and every boy needs one. That is one thing I had to learn to break the hard way: perfectionism. This wasn't taught to me by anyone buy myself, w…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:00 AM
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I know how that is. Its amazing how TRP and askTRP has opened my eyes. I had a preconceived vision of how things really are, which is the exact reason why I ended up where I was in the past. It was amazing to me how reality actually worked compared to how I was taught growing up. It is like I have been trying to use a ratchet backwards: no matter how many times I turned the damn thing, it wouldn't tighten the bolt. When I was taught how to use that little lever that changes the ratchet's positio…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:53 AM
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Will do, thanks man. In a huge fucking rut right now, trying to get back on track. Thanks for the advice/info. I wish you the best. I saw a post back in 2012 about the aneurysm. I hope you see that you are tough as hell to survive that. That is part of the base that proves you have a definite solid base for success ingrained inside you. Feelings may make you feel weak but the real life experience says you're strong.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:42 AM
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This is definitely a great observation and feeling when women see that. In my own life, Ive also seen people with crab bucket mentality say that I am starving myself and that I will hurt myself working out so much. I think the root of that is, unknown to them, they mentally put themselves in the situation and condition I am in now, they compare that to how they are now, and all they feel is great discomfort. They don't know where that new feeling is coming from so they look at the new thing in f…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:34 AM
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Steroids can definitely mess you up in the way you described his skin condition, but can also get you in peak physical condition. given the trade-offs, I would not recommend people juice, especially without proper medical supervision/tests. Also if someone has low testosterone but eats like shit, they should have respect for themselves and clean that up first. If someone downs sodas and beer every day, gets 3 hours of sleep a night and jerks off 5 times a day, of course testosterone will be low.…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:27 AM
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100% this. Don’t pay attention to her.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:18 PM
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I think MGTOWs are a combination of many types of people: monk mode, incel, neck beards...etc. the mink mode will graduate away from the group but the others are stuck there. Many of them claim to want to go their own way because they’re above the need to deal with women like they are all just so horrible. In reality it seems that most of them actually just lack social skills, have never been good with women, wont actually put in the effort of losing weight...etc., and use the MGTOW label to men…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:26 PM
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Which book?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:08 PM
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Thank you for this book suggestion. I just ordered it. It will be one of the books I read on Winter break. I love reading with a highlighter. When I got back for a refresher but don’t have much time, I can read the highlighted parts.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:16 AM
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Damn that sounds awesome. It really is diet and workout that can change your life. For many people it’s the things surrounding themselves that cause or contribute to them not doing those things. Like in your case, you got rid of games. Most people would think that is nuts. I remember sitting playing Call of Duty Black Ops2, playing the same level I’ve always played and I suddenly stopped playing it. I immediately got a box and put all my Xbox items in it to give away. The guy I gave it to though…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:15 AM
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That is exactly why Apple is so valuable. Their hardware really is not that special, but the ecosystem they built around their products keep people addicted.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:22 AM
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I agree. Leave it to scum bags like me to take care of her. Things get very sticky when you mix roommates with sexual relationships. It’s like having a plate that you can never soft or hard next without huge costs.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:33 AM
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You’re looking for mental masturbation that you can “see” yourself being like. You already know what it takes to be alpha, you know there is the side bar with all the info you need. Get out there and make things happen.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:54 AM
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Contact them first means they’re your first choice, higher than their choice to contact you. Lessens your SMV in that instance. You Don’t contact? Means you must have better things to do. SMV higher in this instance.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:02 PM
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Yes it helps. If you can talk about it and what you will before and actually know what you’re talking about, it will make her feel like she’s already getting it in the right circumstances. (They react to feelings). Since I pick up fast on these types of things, A few YouTube videos is what it took for me to learn enough. Just like in many things, if you know a lot about a very small part of something, people will think you’re a genius with the whole subject. they all couldn’t get enough and said…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 01:24 PM
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Jedi Thundercock lol
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:38 PM
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What’s your phone number? I have a cousin that has a for-sure business opportunity. I’ll get I’m in touch with you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:22 AM
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It’s definitely worth a look. I saw it earlier this summer but I still remember the link to it. It has had a great impact on me. Having a label for something helps put a complicated subject into a simple term.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:22 AM
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Do you jerk off a lot as well? If so, reduce that. Also as someone said, get your testosterone checked. There are a few places online that will test it for you. I went through Defy (not endorsing them, just saying what I did. I can’t endorse them since all I did was research the tests I wanted and ordered through them. I got my results online so no actual services were used. It had to go through them since a medical professional needed to order tests. There are many other sites. Check out testos…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:51 AM
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This is exactly what helped me. I can’t watch the whole,thing to give points but I did see that at 7:00 it starts talking hoe your mind is all you have and everything you experience is through that, including validation. There’s the idea about the phaneron (said right at 8:00) which is the barrier between reality and your mind, which is you: https://youtu.be/L45Q1_psDqk It helped illustrate what made since to me, I hope it has some value to you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:50 AM
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Remember, “the difference between a master and his apprentice is that the master has failed more times”. RP tools and thoughts are just knowledge until you attempt to apply them, fail, and learn what to do next time. There is no magic way to learn it quick other than by attempting through guidance, and if it works you know you’re on the right path. When you fail, learn from it, fail, learn from the first and this time...then succeed, you will have more experience and it will be more part of you.…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:32 AM
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Realize that you are getting nowhere by just being in self pity. If you’re in a car race and you get a flat tire, will you just sit there and feel bad about your situation or will you get out, change the tire and head on your way? The self pity is more of a comfort zone type of situation because that feels better in the moment than accepting reality and doing the work necessary to get out of it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:57 PM
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Don’t say not to drink? If it causes you to lose SMV, then you have a choice to make: either don’t drink and keep SMV or drink and lose some. Reality doesn’t care what you want or that you don’t have many opportunities. That choice is why few people make it to the top. They let what they want in the way of where they want to go. What would you think about a fat person that said they want to lose weight but don’t tell them to not chow down since they do t have many opportunities to go to an you c…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:14 PM
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Reading TRP and finding ways to apply what you learn are two different things. I’ve learned that way late. The TRP isn’t an antidepressant, it’s a tool box of truths and it’s your job to take those tools to go build a life that you want. And remember that you will fail a lot, but that creates experience. Staying in your comfort zone by just reading and not trying to apply what you learned will get you nowhere. Nothing ever grows inside your comfort zone. Internalizing this made me look forward t…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:35 PM
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Someone hit my car and the frame took a hit but it held up, because it is a strong frame. Be more like a car frame. Build a stronger frame. Things can take hits and not fail.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:21 PM
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A bigger question for you is: How do you live life outside of dating? Do you work out/lift? All of life isn’t compartmentalized from each activity we do, it pretty much bleeds way over those lines or mixes completely. Also, how you treat yourself sets up for how others treat you. One example: If you joke about yourself or put yourself down, stop that. If someone disrespects you, learn how to handle that in a non douche bag way.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:00 AM
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Damnit why can’t i upvote more than once to this comment?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:20 AM
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If you don’t care, then the answer is no. Why would you spend exclusive time with someone you’re indifferent about? Time is your most valuable resource that can never be replenished. Don’t waste it.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:10 PM
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Definitely this. People want to dish it out but they cant take it back. I read what OP said and spit out my chicken sandwich. That was gold. Don’t give that up.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:20 PM
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I’d disagree. Both are important. Degrees tell others that you don’t know that you have a minimum level of book knowledge of the subject presented at that institution. Doctors can be different because they require experience before they’re an MD. Getting most degrees don’t require real world experience. I have gotten all my jobs through networking. I don’t have a 4 year or masters degree but the network that I have knows that I know my shit more than most computer science graduates. People will …
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:13 PM
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To get a job, sure, but many jobs are reserved for those that know someone to get in. I know people that has never had to apply to a job to get a job because they knew connections that gave recommendations through a network. It can never hurt to know people in that way, I can only help. The more connections you have, the more likely you will succeed at a higher level. That also depends on what success is. I know a guy locally that lives in the woods in a shack with a wood burning stove. He kills…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:05 PM
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That is just one of the items in SMV, but a well rounded person with all of the items that make a person have high SMV is also important. Networking is very important for high SMV and success in life. Very rarely does a single person not need anyone else to succeed.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:47 AM
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It’s all in the side bar material. Basically make yourself more valuable, ask what is value in the social environment? Social status (knowing a lot of people, and those people respect you), fitness (you don’t want a 300lb gf? They don’t want a 300lb boyfriend), and finances are a few ways.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:15 AM
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Having someone else fuck your wife. Yeah, no thanks. Literally a cuck.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:53 AM
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That is NOT what i was picturing lol I pictured that she was picking something up with straight legs.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:16 AM
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Exactly. By saying “If you decide that you have time, hit me up”, that means that if she doesn’t have anything better to do, you will make time for her since what you have going on isn’t as important as her. On the surface it doesn’t sound bad but the deeper meaning of what is being said is what matters. The only way to play it is to ghost and, even if it’s not true, act like you have better things to do and have no problem moving on to other things. Anything other than this will make you look l…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:08 AM
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This is exactly why I am looking for a new job, and why I dropped so many friends lately. I would be frustrated when things around me weren’t to my liking (severe things at work, not simple things) and would try to change them. Just accept reality, watch out for yourself, and take responsibility for what happens in your life no matter who’s fault it is. At the end of the day I am responsible for being at my job because I wake up and go. No one is making me. Being frustrated with friends is my re…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 11:55 PM
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Being attractive is a byproduct of doing the basics consistently, and consistency is the key. Remember that no growth ever happens inside a comfort zone. Everyone that buys exercise stuff off tv are looking for that “One thing” they can do to get skinny and attractive, but they’re ignoring the basics and doing those consistently. One other thing that can affect this is the people you hang out with. “You’re the product of the 5 people that you spend the most time with”. If You want to be healthy …
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:27 AM
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100% this. Don’t waste your time on people that can’t commit right then. People do things because of feelings they get, so if she doesn’t have the feeling to say yes right then, the only way she will say yes is if something else falls through and they’re the last option. Fuck that noise. When you wait around for that, it shows you have nothing else better to do. A fast attraction killer.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:35 PM
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Study abroad, in America!
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:28 PM
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This is meant to come across as non judgmental but....it seems like asktrp has become a forum to shortcut around reading and understanding the sidebar and asking people about material that they should understand.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:43 PM
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Just go to the doctor if it spits out coins and/or bills.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:50 PM
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