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| 13 | Am i wrong? Feminism main belief is that relationship/marriage should be based on loveIt’s funny to see posts on here whinge about the stereotype of men being reduced to machines that just want sex and then also posts that suggest that yes, men in fact are just machines that want sex. And the cherry on top is that all of this is of course the fault of feminism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 06:28 PM |
| 16 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.The leading cause of death among pregnant women is still murder at the hands of their partner iirc. But that’s not the sort of thing you see on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:58 PM |
| -4 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.For men there is one REAL boogeyman for them. And that’s a Chad. They assume ANY woman can find some “easy Chad” to fuck. The women they know seem to find one in a pinch and the ones they fuck/date always seems to have one or two Chads throwing themselves at their hoe who is near the top of the SMP. What they can’t understand is how there are women who genuinely can’t even get a Chad to fuck them. Because even Chads have standards. They project the fact that women want them and they COULD be Cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Just because a man defends a woman's point does not mean he is a simpDidn’t you know OP? Any kindness toward women is simping. Suggesting they might be right is the woke agenda run amok. I understand women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeYour wasting your breath, this sub is a right wing / manosphere hang out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativePure uncut copium | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | TRP, Late Stage Capitalism, and The monetization of sex & relationshipsThe market under capitalism is not free. If a small group of the people in a society have most of the money, a state of affairs capitalism incentivizes, then the market is a reflection of what they want, not what we all want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 8 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?What makes a person objectively more valuable than another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineBut I can afford to pay a mechanic so I don’t have to change my own timing belt. I can buy electricity so I don’t have to chop my own wood. Self reliance and masculinity is about more than being able to do a few traditional chores technology has made obsolete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineEconomic mismanagement is masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realThe law affects 100% of both the male and female population what are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realYeah this was interesting but definitely more breadth than depth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realThose justifications for not including political representation or labor force participation are mad bullshit. If it was men living in countries dominated by female politicians the reactionary crowd on here would by crying bloody murder. The population may be small but they literally craft the laws people live by. This isn’t even mentioning that regressive countries obviously benefit from eliminating labor force participation - they could then say that forcing women to be housewives is dope, act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What was an instance of a time within a familial/romantic/platonic relationship that you felt as though someone "threw something back in your face"? Please describe the circumstance and full context.Men find it easier to say you can’t be emotive because of judge-y bitches than to actually communicate emotions in honest and vulnerable way. This isn’t to say “throwing back in your face” doesn’t happen, but the prevalence is overblown. More likely imo is men realizing that taking the risk to be vulnerable is…a risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What was an instance of a time within a familial/romantic/platonic relationship that you felt as though someone "threw something back in your face"? Please describe the circumstance and full context.It’s telling that so far most responses are from this happening to women, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How common do you think it is for men to have actual game?Like anything else game (I prefer ‘social skills’ but w/e) is something you practice. If you are consistently in social situations in general and in social situations with the gender you are interested in in particular you will become better at handling those situations. After developing the ability to communicate casually adding flirtation on top isn’t that much of a task. The problem is that technology and now the lockdowns have kept people from being in those situations. Younger folks today a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Do women find alternative men attractive?You have to maybe tone it down a little bit, switch some stuff up, but you can rock a low key subculture look as an adult. Though that would still depend on your social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | It's not "the patriarchy" that upholds unattainable beauty standards, it's other women.If you had plastic surgery does that mean you are contributing to unattainable beauty standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Fellow men, women don't say the truth because WE get angry when they doThis downvote is just for you 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | If you’ve done everything other than PiV, are you still a Virgin?Man, imagine thinking sex is sinful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?Everybody with a brain can tell you don’t have one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?I mean if births are going down then it seems humans are course correcting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenI think you will find the threat of starvation quite coercive. Not that this justifies sex work being illegal, more that under capitalism all workers are prostitutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.And how does that all compare to the manosphere that justifies sexism with phreno- er I mean bio truths? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 8 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?This the real shit right here tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Imagine blaming women for the capitalist exploitation of the worker lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?I mean, it’s not as if male millionaires are that common either given the state of income inequality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What explains the recent decline of male sexlessness and rise in female sexlessness? Is it due to the destruction of the service industry where women are overwhelmingly represented?Yeah if anything we should be talking about what was happening in 2008 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?So woman with career is bad because she isn’t around to be an egg factory for you? Career women never have children and every single one is bitchy and self involved? Also on the flip side if you’re a breadwinner with the broke girl and you get hurt you’re both fucked (well mostly you, according to this sub she’ll just leave and find another guy) but if you both have careers then one or the other getting hurt doesn’t sink the whole ship. That seems much more desirable if your goal is to have a st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 25 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?How is that man #1 makes a great living without being career focused but woman #2 is career focused with just a potential of a great living? The options are playing to an obvious agenda. If you wanted to compare in a more reasonable way you’d compare a man and a woman that both behave like man #1 and a man and a woman that both behave like man #2. Because I’m pretty sure every dude here would pick “outgoing woman who makes a great living” over “outgoing woman who is kinda dumb and has a poor car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarEsther Perel has a podcast that is more or less just recordings of her relationship therapy sessions called “Where Should We Begin?” It’s pretty good and intense, though doesn’t talk on dating stuff too much. Her writing tends to be more about marriage than dating as well from what I know. I don’t know that much about Dr. Ruth except that she’s been in the sex and relationship biz since forever with a bibliography to match. I haven’t gotten into it yet myself tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarTbh I'd feel that a conversation between Esther Perel and Dr. Ruth would be more insightful than a conversation between an evolutionary psychologist and a neuroscientist specialized in eye problems, but maybe that's just me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So Farsocial science is not the hard sciences This is all the more true considering it's evolutionary psychology we're talking about here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Have women only had true sexual selection since the 20th century?In all of humanity history not really. Not all human cultures have been as puritanical as the west. Nor do cultures operate on “stages” where women being oppressed is a thing that must happen before reaching industrialization or etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:18 PM |
| 3 | For Red Pill men: Which links and motivational reading would you recommend from TRP sub-Reddit to an “outsider” or a woman for better understanding of the ideology?Hilarious that one of the “only two good people” requires us to excuse racism and apparently literal nazism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 15 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesThis. The traditional life checkpoints (marriage, house, kids) have changed due both to changing social norms and also to the inequality caused by capitalism. Men must navigate a new social landscape where the old courtship rituals are dying (and the new ones have yet to fully arise) while also no longer being able to achieve the old markers of “adulthood”. Boomers probably see this as “libs making men effeminate” because they have no sense that men having emotions besides rage is actually ok no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 08:36 PM |
| 13 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?This is all in a society where female bodies are and have been for some time highly sexualized - individuals are primed to see women's body as sexual regardless of their own sexual orientation. Whereas male bodies (at least until fairly recently) are generally not highly sexualized nor are they as often used to sell products or entertainment. This will start changing as women fight to be seen as more than just sexual objects and men are increasingly sexualized (or rather, as men are increasingly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 32 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Is a man with a bi girlfriend unmanly because he has to "compete" with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Despite some protests to the contrary, the pre-selection bias is quite real.......Did they do this study on men too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Blue pill is basically the same as non-radical feminism.The blue pill beliefs the OP outlines in their post is really only slightly girlboss feminism to begin with imo. Girlboss feminism from what I understand doesn’t really have much to say on the existence of “the one” or the underplaying of the importance of sex in a relationship (if anything it’s the opposite - much of modern feminism is sex positive and encourages women to be active agents in pursuing their sexual wants). Radical feminism is about things like gender abolition/nihilism, ending th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Blue pill is basically the same as non-radical feminism.Depends on the feminism. Blue pill is basically liberal girlboss feminism, which is different than radical “burn down the plantation” feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenHere's how you initiate: "Hey, my name is X. How's it going?" And then you play it by ear. That's it. That's the whole game. You can try and write out the whole thing into a script if you want but it isn't going to go like that. (This is also why point 6 is up there - if you can't start and hold a conversation with people in general, how the fuck are you gonna hold a conversation with someone you're interested in?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenWhat exactly are you looking for? Should I hold your hand as you walk into a bar and start a conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 46 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenGet in shape. This can be difficult given your employment/financial circumstances but the truth of the world is that being healthy is attractive. I'm not saying you need to be cut up at 5% body fat but you ought to be able to help your friends move without getting winded. Even if you don't necessarily think it's important for relationships, do it for yourself. Cheaper in the long run (especially when healthcare is a mess in this country) Bathe regularly. Groom yourself. Take good care of your te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?First of all, I’m not talking about sexlessness im talking about where men are getting these notions of what relationships with women should be like. On that question, who is more likely to tell their son that they shouldn’t marry a whore and should find a virgin bride 1) Conservative god fearing parents 2) Liberal sex positive parents I’m sure there are outliers but I mean come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?I never said the liberal/progressives were successful at the feminism thing. It’s better than the conservatives but they still leave much to be desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 07:27 PM |
| -4 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?Most conservative men maybe. You don't hear this sort of thing when you grow up in a liberal/progressive place - instead they hammer into the idea that men and women are the same, and that these old sexist mores are things to be gotten rid of, "I am woman hear me roar" and etc. Now that I think about it, it would be conservative men whose parents wouldn't teach them about courtship, and who would insist that men should chase and women should be virginal, princess-like avatars of purity... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Nerdy internet women are more sexually immoral, generally speaking, than normal womenBootlicking lies. Liberty is the mother of order. To restrict people into hierarchies is to control them, not free them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Then why is the part of the economy that makes so much of what we consume so little of the overall economy? Go look at the Dept of Labor stats, very few are employed in making things. And those that are making those highly consumed things are not rich at all. Most are employed in office/administrative/info work, which is all bullshit. Saying we’re all overworked because we’re consumerist is like saying the one guy who doesn’t recycle is responsible for the forests burning. In both cases, these a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Lmao you’re a dipshit if you think we have more free time than even the hunter gatherers, and that’s historical fact. I can see that you either are unaware of the problems of working people or you’ve convinced yourself they don’t exist. That you use poverty stats as if every administration in history hasn’t fucked with those is proof enough you’re as dense as a supermassive black hole. Fuck yourself bootlicker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?The work capitalists make people do isn’t usually hard - it’s that it pays so little. Being on the line at a Frito Lay factory isn’t so bad, the problem is that it pays so little that people have to work suicide shifts just to be able to afford to live. They die on the line and are replaced without stoppage or kill themselves at home when they can handle no more. Even office work is easy. Most office workers only work about 4 hours a day. And yet we are still kept on 40 hours weeks, still expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?If technology is so good why are people working 40+ hour weeks? Why does Frito Lay have suicide shifts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:41 PM |
| 10 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?The further alienation and atomization of the worker under capitalism. When you have to spend all day working, or worrying about same, your mental energy is spent at the end of the day. The comfort provided by commodity consumption is easier and more soothing than human interaction, which in capitalist society is often framed in economic terms (“what do you do?”). This often leads to psychosomatic issues and bodily deterioration, neither of which is especially attractive. Rich boys don’t have th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Postmodern feminism has failed societyDefine post modernism for me champ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 5 | In what ways is masculinity demonized by modern society?All media pushes a social agenda - a 'neutral' agenda is just one that supports the current status quo without critique. Would you have preferred it if it was subliminal messaging instead of blatant messaging? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 3 | In what ways is masculinity demonized by modern society?I wouldn't consider a commercial a lecture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Men should start lowering their standards using Online dating.“So men were actually the choosy ones all along?” “Always have been” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionIf we were talking about some trend that was just generally about self-help then you might have a point, but TRP is a self-help ideology that is very clearly about sex, and is aimed at men who have trouble with getting to have sex. Men who self-describe themselves as being trapped in the friend zone and wanting to get out. You can deny that this exists I guess, but I don't know who you're fooling. The claim is that women have completely blown the sexual desires of men out of proportion, and I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionHow men are perceived has to do with how they present themselves. If they present themselves as adherents of TRP, they will be perceived accordingly. If a man perceive women to all be "whores" (weird that you would use this instead of the neutral terms we've all been using) that has to do with things like FDS (and ideas like it), much in the same way women perceiving men being all about sex has to do with things like TRP. In both cases the manipulative and objectifying behavior of both those gro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionMen have nothing at all to do with how they are perceived by women? If a woman perceives men to be all about sex that has nothing to do with how men behave and talk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 10 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionOh so were just gonna ignore the fact that TRP appeals to and attracts sexually frustrated men? If men only wanted a relationship then they wouldn’t have an issue with being friend zoned. But they want more than just “a relationship” they want to have sex. Some of them want to have sex as part of a romantic relationship and some just want the sex. In either case the sex is the main goal. Women see that sex is the main goal and then go on to assume, correctly, that men are interested in sex. Add … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:02 PM |
| 13 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionShow me a man who started TRP because he wanted friendships and I’ll show you a liar. TRP is very clearly about getting laid. Romantic relationships come after the fact and talk about relationships is steeped in sexist ideas, I.e, women want providers and men just want to fuck. When enough men say that is it really surprising that women perceive men as just wanting sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 14 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionIs not the reason most men start looking into TRP because they’re tired of being in the friend zone? Because they want to get laid? If they were interested in a fulfilling relationship they would probably be more interested in identifying women as fellow equals who give and take in the relationship as they do, but considering TRP was born from PUAs and the like it’s pretty safe to say TRP is about getting laid. If TRP didn’t get dudes laid, or at least offer the possibility, I doubt dudes would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 53 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionCan this really be laid entirely at women’s feet when TRP is literally all about how to get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on r/menslib?Is this why r/conservative is one of the most heavily censored subs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Would society be better off if men fought to the death over mating rights?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 4 | If a sense of masculinity in society is to be maintained, some sense of "toxic" masculinity will always be presentIt’s because the OP is not a revelation. It’s like saying that having feet means sometimes you’ll stub your toe on something. Which...yeah. If you want that to not happen, watch where you step. If you want to avoid being seen as the embodiment of toxic masculinity, maybe don’t shame other men for having emotions or for engaging in alternative lifestyles or etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?When you think about it, the fact that religious people are constantly worried about how some invisible people in the sky will judge them for the sex they're having explains a lot of the weird sexual attitudes the religious seem to develop. It's like some kind of low key voyeurism thing, every time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 04:10 PM |
| -5 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?How could feminism have created the modern child custody system when even now women make up a minority of the government? Never mind anything from before 2000. I mean, women couldn’t even vote till 1920 and their ability to own property was in question for centuries before that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 0 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Why go through the trouble of grabbing the image instead of just linking the place they obviously got it from though? It’s more work and provides less info | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Societies don’t collapse because of sexless men. Usually what happens is there is some kind of revolution that changes the way we relate to and act toward one another, and one of things that changes along with this is the way people form romantic relationships. The sexual revolution of the 60s normalized open casual sex, the state socialist regimes of the past resulted in women having more sex (since they were less afraid of being left poor and had access to abortions) and etc. It is likely we w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I clicked on their link, it’s not a source, it’s just an image | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | A harem is not what you think it means...This makes sense, I attack and eat fish when I see them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 5 | A harem is not what you think it means...Forget it bro, dudes still be working off that broken study about wolves and alphas in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:56 PM |
| – | "men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market.If men took as much care of themselves as women did then TRP would not need to exist, since (as its advocates like to argue) its mostly about telling men to take better care of themselves. QED | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness - an American problem?How could it be anything but Puritanism? We censor tits but leave in the gore on a societal level. How could this lead to anything but a squeamishness around sex and an unhealthy relationship with violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Is Chad what is considered a High Value Male (HMV)? What qualities make someone a HMV?Buddy, in this sub it’s no true Scotsman all the way down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | 'Alpha' and 'beta' in the red pill are merely substitute words for 'jocks' and 'nerds'The idea of the alpha male came from an unreliable study on wolves in captivity that the researcher themselves has made an effort to discredit. The entire idea of an “alpha” is basically a Frankenstein hodgepodge of various patriarchal ideas that varies from person to person and is more or less meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Some women can lustfully have hot sex with a guy they just met in the club/bar bathroom just from instant arousal...other women need to feel the full range of comfort, attraction, and trust to "have the hots" for a guy. Those women who need more time and connection are actually repressed sexually.Weird how women feel it necessary to develop trust in man in a society where men feel entitled to sex and rapists are given light sentences. It’s almost as if the prevalence of sexism and violence against women makes women hesitant about involving themselves with a man in a sexual way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are most college graduates women?It likely has something to do with the fact that this country is still incredibly anti-intellectual (and has seemingly only grown more so), with intellectualism being considered a "feminine" and "unmanly" trait. "Men go with their gut" and etc. It also is likely due to the fact that traditional blue collar work is male dominated and is incredibly sexist in most places, which is not exactly the kind of work environment you want to be in if you're not a cishet man. So you try for a degree to find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Notable peer-reviewed research on TRP philosophy?ITT: The Gang Gets Analyzed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Encouraging male therapy would solve all issues about "toxic masuclinity" while women having to handle little to no men emotion.I don't know if you knew this but sometimes men call each other a son of a bitch in a friendly way, actually. And they've been doing it for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Toxic masculinity is enforced by men, for men, and is necessary for boys to grow up mentally healthy and sexually confident.You don't need to be hazed in order to get better at football. This idea that a boy needs to endure emotional/mental suffering in order to be properly considered a man is just as absurd and nonsensical as the idea that a boy needs to be thrown into the wilderness and survive on his own for a month in order to become a man, or the need to kill another man to become a man, or any of the other foolish bullshit the patriarchy demands as a show of loyalty. All degrading other men does is teach them t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | New HereThe pills are nonsense, just fairy tales about how romantic interactions are supposed to go. They establish certain expectations and assumptions as "objectively true" which then sets their duped adherents up for frustration when it turns out that living humans do not conform to those measures. If anything can be gained from them it's the understanding that there are a lot of people out there chasing ghosts. That there are men who are more interested in the idea of a woman, of sex, of the status … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"See also: the cishet male obsession with tomboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 52 | Missing out and making up for itOh one thousand percent. Young folks are duped into believing the illusion of the "normal" high school romance that the media and the culture feed them. When that illusion breaks they are not encouraged to analyze that illusion or the other illusions in our society, they are simply fed another ready made illusion, that of TRP/FDS or other related notions. Why? Because the status quo is benefitted by young people (young men especially) busying themselves on the treadmill chasing their "tradwife" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The Red Pill is Cult-Like and PredatoryI mean the enlightenment was a mistake but not for the reasons they say. But anyway yeah there’s a lot of cross over between trp and reactionary groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The Red Pill is Cult-Like and PredatoryPosting screeds on internet forums is more or less the modern version of handing out pamphlets on the street. And you’re sort of proving their point by highlighting that it primarily preys on men who are frustrated and isolated from the rest of society for one reason or another. Con men are very well aware that disaffected young men can be tricked into all kinds of nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | There is little evidence of hypergamy in human biological history.This dude is deep in their feelings about something lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Arranger marriage done properly are the most beautiful, love filled and successful marriages.I doubt that in ancient times society really gave a fuck about what the woman wanted. To say nothing of the inevitable infidelity that would occur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?Women should also engage with men as they actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it true?What makes something a blackpill truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?Socialism means the means of production are in the hands of the workers. Capitalism means the means of production are in the hands of those with capital, capitalists. Both are systems that sit on top of the market; both are ways to organize interactions in the productive sphere. There is no real correlation you can draw between these and the "dating world." I mean, I guess you could view feminism as being socialist since it advocates women should have their own bodies and autonomy in their own h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 12 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?That is not what socialism means. That also isn't what capitalism means. This whole question is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Jordan peterson said that it's common for women to have affairs with high status men. Is this accurate?Cool. Now do his drug problem, keeping in mind he is an expert in the field that prescribes them. As well as the whole “clean your own room first” or whatever his mantra is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Jordan peterson said that it's common for women to have affairs with high status men. Is this accurate?Jordan Peterson also thinks eating a meat only diet is a good idea. I wouldn’t pay him much mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 13 | Why is a woman’s income to the household not given a lot of value ?Market masculinity is one of the ways that the patriarchy keeps men who would otherwise not be categorized as falling under the hegemonic deal of masculinity from turning against it. By offering another route to romantic/sexual viability (or the perception of same) the patriarchy casts a wider net of men to support and maintain it Women making more money threatens this. When incomes are made equal the men who previously used their market success as a means of finding romantic/sexual success no l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 5 | A chief reason why pregnancy causes hypersexuality in women is to ensure continued protection and providership of the male(s)You didn’t even provide any evidence. For an argument based in science all I’m seeing is speculation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Conflating “high value” solely to financial and professional status versus overall positive qualities.Men who are obsessed with "strength" are men who have been duped into chasing a spook. Setting aside the fact the current social-economic has all sorts of problems with it that advantage the economically privileged (which is to say, the rich) this hyperfocus on "strength" as a means to exploit is short sighted. Being able bodied is temporary - a man who works to exploits others and perpetuates a system that allows him to do this will find himself eventually at the mercy of that exploitative syst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 69 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.What kind of fragile ass man can’t allow his partner to buy him something? Like who the fuck is he fronting for, the waiter? Sounds sus tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Do people still care about masculine and feminine energyThese energies and their "importance" are all spooks. A woman who already conforms to the "tradfem" stereotype will advocate for it's primacy because she benefits from it and this advantage pleases her. She will tell others (and also herself) that this tradfem mold is the "objective" model for femininity, but clearly this is not true, for we can see many other women living other kinds of femininity and being happy nonetheless. This hypothetical tradfem woman has conjured up a ghost in the mind -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Do you have sex and seduction secrets that you keep entirely to yourself?I can’t go into it here but let’s just say I have the romantic equivalent of the Five Point Palm Exploding Heart Technique on lock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | People here always talk about "alpha males" and "beta males", but is there also alpha/beta females Or does it only apply to men?Came here to post this. This alpha/beta stuff is like cargo cult sex politics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a pagan/wicca girl?I’ve dated women who go to church so yeah probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how?I had the opposite problem: too thin, had to put on some muscle. Things changed somewhat. Mostly it was little things, small looks, gestures, a certain easiness in conversation - you are "seen". Apart from that though, it's not as if women are going to be flocking around you all of a sudden. Unless you are an almost comedic representation of hegemonic masculinity you will be doing the approaching still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.But why would male and female cultures diverge if more and more people are switching between male and female identities at will? If anything the two will begin to have more and more overlap: femboys will spend time in female culture and tomboys/butch types will spend more time in the male culture. The non-binary will walk through both with ease. There will likely be more people who end up being non-binary or who switch between identities since they will be able to do so as easily as deciding to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.How would they do it in such a way that prevents divergence? That is the point of my post. You mean how will women becoming men prevent women's divergence from men? Bodies are disposable, minds are not. Men will remain roughly as gynephilic as they've always been, they'll just find new sources of femininity to exploit. Specially the kind of weaponized femininity that sophisticated fiction can provide or that a culture that revolves around brutal competition for male attention can embody. You're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 53 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Not only are we a long way from the kind of sophisticated brain/computer interface able to completely replicate the sensation of something as nerve dense as genitalia, the premise of this post is based on bullshit "biological truth"isms. Men are biologically defenseless against being objects of sexual desire. It's not the kind of pressure that was part of men's evolutionary environment nor is it part of the average man's reality today. Men are biologically defenseless against flattery? This is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Broad generalizations don’t work based on genderITT: men who don’t like being stereotyped stereotyping women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | FINESSED.Men are also the leaders in charge of deciding to go to war, now and for pretty much all of history | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | BDSM stats show that there are far more submissive men than there are dominant women. What might this imply?The alpha male/ beta male dichotomy is bad science from a study on (exclusively) male wolves in captivity. Wolves typically travel in family units with the mother and father as the pack “leaders” showing their young how to survive until such time that the young leave with their own mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 4 | "Gender wars" will always exist in society, because the male and female sexual imperatives are diametrically opposed.My prehistoric imperative is to shit wherever I happen to be and to be afraid of loud noises. By your logic, living in a city should be impossible for me and yet I go to sleep with sirens and planes flying by and I shit indoors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?Abuse and human trafficking is an issue that only gets worse with prohibition. Once porn is illegal all porn producers become criminals, and at that point they’ll have few qualms about trafficking. The degradation of women is definitely an issue but it’s a chicken and egg issue. Did violent porn create our sexist society or does our sexist society create violent porn? They feed each other, that’s true, but I’m more inclined to believe that the political reality of sexual politics and institution… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?Ethical porn companies exist. They’re super hipster-y and there aren’t very many, but they’re there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 3 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Three sixes and know how to please a woman? I wish you good luck ma’am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Wait that’s still only 2 tho, 6ft and 6-pack. Is the third one 6 inches? Ya gotta dream bigger than that for a dude standing at 6ft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What are these “high standards” that women have?I count two sixes, for your sake I hope the third isn’t the one you see in a mirror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What are these “high standards” that women have?I think the idea is that tall men should be reserved for tall women, or something along those lines. That way short men go with short women and tall women go with tall men, so that everyone “has someone” for them. Which seems weirdly eugenic imo but I don’t mind a tall woman so maybe I’m the weird one here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Your personal perception on the decrease, or increase, in intimacy among the younger generation A.K.A. How often do you think people are getting laid?Young people are having less sex is something that keeps showing up in studies and I am inclined to believe it is true. What we're experiencing right now is a shift in the social mores around courtship. As a society we've become aware that the old ways (the man pays/handles everything, the woman is the housekeeper, "dates" being something that must be approved by parents) are sexist and problematic for all sorts of reasons but, at the very least, they were recognizable. American society today ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Do women wear what would be considered revealing clothing because of hot weather?For real. OP are you wearing long sleeves in the summer or what? Every dude I know goes topless or bro tank when it’s hot because fuck pitting out and looking like a mess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 04:41 PM |
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