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certainly theres a downtown sort of area where there is high pedestrian traffic? colleges are target rich environments!!
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:33 AM
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if you don't play you don't pay price of admission to any of her undergarments.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:50 PM
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not my color pref, but sounds like an improvement.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:44 PM
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dude its a pussy magnet. even if you look like you need face transplant you are going to get skirt looking your way.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:44 PM
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just closeted gay actors named Tom Cruise. I'm going to leave John Travolta alone
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:24 PM
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I don't watch Tom anything anymore.
/r/seduction20/10/15 07:57 PM
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don't be Tom either, he's gay. way in the closet.
/r/seduction20/10/15 07:41 PM
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you don't do it with a guy if you are a guy. staring eye contact results in a fight or flight response in the brain. when two guys stare at each other they will want to fight or flee, when you do it with a lady, it gets sensual, sexual. that's the goal. Its not a staring contest, its showing your attentiveness and openness. People look away when talking when they are not being completely honest, for example. I met a woman last week who's stare was more powerful than my own. She didn't even blink…
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:37 PM
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walk around the mall, continue to people watch. just don't get overly critical, just have fun with it. skating? sledding? snowshoe? where do you live?
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:53 PM
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yes, i agree. she was beautiful inside, she would be a 9 if her body was a 6. She had no bitch to her. You just don't see hot girls with this personality. Sweet, sensitive, smart, she has it all man. Amazing really. How else could we chat/talk for hours?
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:25 AM
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so true.
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:21 AM
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ignore that. let her taste the silence.
/r/seduction20/10/15 06:04 AM
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just don't be a dick, we're all counting on you. start planting those seeds
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:59 AM
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are you still jailbait? maybe you need to date other guys
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:58 AM
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have her come up for a cocktail/wine AND to look at a few pics. do the drink thing first, and chat with her, relax her get her sitting down. then later you can pull up the pics, sit close together. coming up for a cocktail implies more, just coming up for pics implies a few minutes and nothing else.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:16 AM
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find a new game. having it all about your photos is self centered and not everyone is going to be into it as much as you. Its just like going to your relatives and watching their home videos or movies/pics of their vacation. You just aren't into it as much as they are. remember this, find out her interests places to travel, things etc. and if you have pictures that relate to her interests, then show her a few, but keep it at that. don't go on and on about your photography/art as it may bore her.…
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:58 AM
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huh? were u just being a smartass? ;-)
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:08 AM
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Give it a shot. Whats the worst thing that can happen?
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:58 AM
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ya, say the friends helped.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:54 AM
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high school is full of experiences like this. missed opportunities, acting like a pussy, not following up on a chick that liked you. been there done that. i still wonder why i was such a pussy to not ask that cute girl out that wanted me to. you know what to do, and the next time the chance arises, you will seize the day. you will take the opposite choice, not the pussy choice, and you will ask yourself, what is the worst thing that can happen? the answer is not much, but nothing can possibly ha…
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:49 AM
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maybe somebody else here will get it.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:22 AM
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how old are you? are you in US?
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:16 AM
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no, not in this particular instance. ;-)
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:12 AM
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use spokeo.com, if you haven't already. sometimes, dirtsearch.org can reveal something. you already know enough to contact him, and it isn't creepy. its the age. Most responsible women DO research the guy first to make sure he isn't a sex offender/felon, etc. So it is highly recommended. Good for you. If I was a guy that age (which I am, lol) and a 25yo was trying to find me, I'd be flattered that she did. Just keep it light, 'remember you from the concert', kinda thing. Don't admit your 'invest…
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:59 AM
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haha. oneitis, maybe. She was just so incredible dude, a true 9+. A rare beauty. I'm going to leave her alone, maybe ping her in a month or so. I'm sure I'll see her again, right now I'm just cherishing the memory. thank you.
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:43 AM
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is this the only possible way to contact him? if so, then i guess you have no other choice. If you have any other info about him, other than 'mike' maybe i can help you out, i kinda have a hobby as a PI, so if you have any other info, you can use spokeo or something ? poor guy, missing out on a young thing like you ;-) you sure he's not married?
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:33 AM
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i am relieved to see there is someone older on here. ;-) I don't want to generalize. I think phone calls are fine, but remember that a phone call often demands full attention, if they have kids, busy lives, maybe text messaging is better since you don't have to give your full attention. you feel me? if they text you, then use that method. if you just meet and get their number, giving them a short phone call is personal and sweet. A call shows 'old school charm' and also allows for your tone and …
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:27 AM
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there is no shortage of topics. stay positive, don't talk about things you don't like. its a downer. use your imagination. look at all the /askreddit questions. the first page of results on the link below will give you 100 ideas. https://www.google.com/search?q=what+to+talk+about+when+meeting+a+new+girl&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:10 AM
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yes, it means the door is open to you. maybe she had a bad experience, so appears hesitant since the last time she got burned. you should absolutely continue, see how she responds. make her laugh, this will relax her. Don't be too serious. You can always say that no matter what happens, you always want to remain friends. girls dig this.
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:06 AM
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If you can make her laugh, it's not a waste of time. Being too serious can be boring.
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:03 AM
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yes. what is the worst thing that can happen? she's not going to laugh or spill her drink on you. Also, when it comes to alot of things, ask yourself 'is any of this even going to matter in 5 years'? "sometimes you just have to say , what the fuck" -- Tom Cruise, Risky Business
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:59 AM
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FB friends really mean anything. You can say something brief on FB to let them know you got the request, then talk IRL to mention it. always good to be socially/fb attentive, but don't need to write a paragraph about it. keep it on the DL online until you meet irl.
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:56 AM
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MW class? so what if she skips, maybe she is more available if she isn't in class? don't let that stop you. i dont know much about tinder etiquette, so many a crosspost to /tinder ? but i would keep it light, since you have to share a class with her sometime, you don't want to have to cringe going to class if it doesn't go well. have you had any luck meeting on tinder before? draw from those experiences.
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:53 AM
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you have the answer, you find her interesting and want to be friends. reply back detailing what you found in particular to be interesting about her, how she was dressed, her mannerisms, her smile, her common interests with yours. describe what you were wearing, what you're into and maybe share a link/pic of something you think she would like. a mutual cosplay character/moment/thing. keep it light, no harm in being friends.
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:49 AM
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yes, internally it is all about you and the way you play the game to get what you want. i then jumped to game playing. Applying Carnegie principles to get her receptive to you and your game. thank you for reading on and for appreciating my simple advice. You are welcome, my friend. May you also get your dick wet.
/r/seduction20/10/15 12:44 AM
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thank you. a man who knows Carnegie. The only most interesting thing people want to talk about is themselves. How old are you and how/when did you discover this wisdom, my friend?
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:50 PM
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I disagree with the statement, 'steering the convo towards my interests'. this is the wrong approach. PUA or basic Carnegie teaches that the only thing she wants to talk about is herself. Forget you, that isn't the topic during a pickup. You ask about her, with eye contact listening to the answers. The answers, if you listen lead to more questions you have about her. Get her to open up. She won't notice if you aren't saying anything about yourself, but in fact, will be impressed that you listen …
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:49 PM
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as a virgin, you will be lucky to last 20 min. but ya, i mean there isn't much kissing, if any with a pro, its more like get naked and get to business. she will probably give oral, so be careful with that and don't blow early. get the condom on and get on top. she will guide the way. its ok if it is quick. at least now you will know what the big deal is about. vagina is amazing. you will never forget your first time.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:34 PM
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have a good private setting. keep doing what you are doing. as you are hugging/kissing,, keep those hands moving but not groping. she will send the signals that it is ok, to keep moving. it is the mans job to escalate, unfortunately in most instances, so keep it moving, but don't rush. foreplay is very important, kissing her neck, holding her hands, exploring her body over her clothes at first. be gentle, be a gentleman. focus on her pleasure first. don't rush anything. teasing and petting is go…
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:30 PM
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keep trying, no monk mode needed. pursue your fitness goals, this helps with your self confidence and self esteem. also a good habit to keep as you grow older. avoid skinny clothes/black and maybe layer up to make you look a bit more bulked up. Get on a protein regimen and don't eat crap. like anything, it takes practice. don't take it personal, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:25 PM
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may be something in your texts or verbalization that is sending the message u are only into the hookup. if you are looking for a relationship, try getting to know her first and not going for the sex. maybe just talking and not making a move. show her you are interested in convo not just the sex. maybe the one girl, you are not so interested in, you could use as an experiment to get to know more deeply and using this experience to broaden your future encounters. and try to lay off the booze, some…
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:22 PM
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go see a pro. no shame. make that first experience memorable. you can try more things, positions without guilt. her job is to do what you want. get it over with.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:16 PM
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Dale is gold. #1 lesson, favorite thing girls want to talk about is themselves. This applies to all people. drugs/party will have her think of ditching her friends. if you have a joint or something else (molly, yayo, etc) she is def going to think twice about going home with those girls.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:14 PM
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Attitude is everything. If you take everything personal, you don't have the stomach for it. Keeping a smile and positive outlook allows you to learn and try again. Its like fishing, you just keep casting. How else are you going to hook anything? A good fisherman varies the retrieve and tries different bodies of water.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:09 PM
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no, dont get laid where you get paid. will end badly for one or both of you. this may be old school advice, but you don't want to have to dread going in to work after if ended badly. let her drool for your bones, and keep her #, for another day.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:02 PM
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a date isn't a relationship, so if it doesn't go well, you don't really have to text anything. a relationship, on the other hand, should be 'ended' in person with a mature convo. starting a relationship with text is pretty status quo now.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:00 PM
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haha, i assumed you may be younger, most are on here. i'm 40's, but now see that text is the way it is done. you have to adapt. calling now is pretty much unheard of, i think, but i know where you are coming from. its traditional and personal. embrace text and ask for pics and share some of you. just keep it clean G rated. if she shares more, you are on your way.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:58 PM
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yes we are all into ourselves, but you are into her. so use this main topic, herself, as the base for the convo. you are getting to know her, and only by asking and listening will you know. eye contact during her answers shows interest and can lead to a kiss faster than you might imagine. keep smiling, and good luck my friend.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:50 PM
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sure dude, you are welcome. she's not saying it to shock you, she feels comfortable enough to share. show her you are into it by smiling slyly or offering to look together online/catalogs to explore further. a girl picked me up once and wanted to show me lingerie catalogs, asking me what i liked, i said i was curious what she had now and if she would show me. take it to the next level when they share intimate info .. you will learn and experience so much more. good luck
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:46 PM
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herself. Its classic Dale Carnegie.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:43 PM
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i think most girls communicate with text. i am assuming you have texted her for awhile, not just a random first text, 'do you wanna date', so establish a convo in text, then just lead it to the date. you have her number if you are texting, unless you are really good on the phone, i would stick to text. its the way it is now, not necessarily impersonal,.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:42 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=what+to+talk+about+when+meeting+a+new+girl&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:39 PM
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do a search on 'what to talk about with a young woman'. there are hundreds of questions, but most importantly listen to her and have great eye contact. you will appear interested and attentive, there's nothing more she wants to talk about other than herself. use her answers for more questions. this is about her, not you. keep your answers brief, with a smile, begging more. her hobbies, interests, dreams... keep it positive. and light.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:38 PM
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prolly not into you, and your game isn't yet to the level to get her attention. see what others are doing to get her responsiveness.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:35 PM
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Listen to her. You have two ears and 1 mouth. use them in that proportion. use her answers for more questions, don't go on about you unless she presses. dont' answer her questions, you will seem confident and maybe mysterious. There is no right time to kiss. It's not something you want to delay either. You can hug goodnite and kiss her cheek, or whisper in her ear as you are hugging. don't ever ask for a kiss, its what teenies do.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:34 PM
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you're welcome. you are just building your own ideals based upon your experiences. now you know what you like, what you don't so its a foundation that you build on.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:27 PM
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Sounds like a roundabout way of approach. Just be honest. OF COURSE be clean and showered and sober. Dont worry about next time, be in the moment. Listen to her and use her answers to your questions for more. They love to talk about themselves. Be attentive with good eye contact. Eye contact leads to other intimate things.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:24 PM
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text is fine, calls can be awkward. when you text, they have the option of calling you? maybe suggest that , but don't push it. Respect their comfort level. i recently had a girl describe to me an ideal perfect date. she texted some things involving drinks, pool, watching the sunset. guess what, i made it all happen. make sure she is attractive to you first, you don't want to go to the trouble of wining and dining a fat four. lol
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:20 PM
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Reply to her questions with questions of your own, let her open up. You don't have to give answers. When she is talking about toys, ask her what kind she likes, has tried, is into. Dont giggle, use a sly smile and ask more. This will make you seem open maybe a little mysterious. You don't want to send the message it makes you nervous (giggle). Maybe she is a hellion in bed and just needs somebody to help her pursue her fantasies?
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:16 PM
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You simply have established a standard that you are now looking for. Don't focus on her, but focus on the traits that made you attracted to her. Let her be, and remember what she taught you. Use that to mold your future relationships, and cherish the memories that you shared with her.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:12 PM
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don't ask next time. with the 4, you should just kiss her neck or something, it doesn't have to be lips. hold her hips, and go for the neck or whisper something sexy into her ear as you kiss lightly. no tongue. tell her she is sexy. practice on the 4-7's, the 8's will come once you have confidence. asking for a kiss is polite, but its also a thing 14 yo boy does. Its on the dance floor, if you get shot down, move on. This is about building confidence and experience. Don't dwell on the misses, th…
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:10 PM
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if you've known her for a year, then you must know some of her interests. don't make it a date, just ask her to meet you for a movie, or something she is into. most girls aren't into sharing much text, you need to have the F2F to start learning more, and remember the most important thing she wants to talk about. you know what that is, right?
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:05 PM
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if you are making out, you already have your hands on her right? just move the hands, find out the boundaries. don't be a dick , be smooth and gentle. don't push it. hold her hands when you are kissing and move them to your lap, she will get it if she's into it.
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:01 PM
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go for a walk, in a park or on a trail. that way you are moving and not stuck with awkward silences sitting in some place. keep moving and people watch. in fact, people watching can be done almost anywhere.
/r/seduction19/10/15 09:59 PM
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wow what a bunch of little pussy boys on here, are you too scared to hold her hand? jesus christ maybe you can pass her a note at recess?
/r/seduction19/10/15 06:56 PM
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Make sure to mix em a Cosby Cocktail, the only chance you have is if they're unconscious.
/r/seduction19/10/15 04:47 PM
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Bill Cosby your hero?
/r/seduction19/10/15 04:46 PM
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how about you find some purpose other than to treat women like shit? you are insulting an entire gender, you need a smack down, punk.
/r/seduction19/10/15 01:17 PM
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i hope you never find them, pig.
/r/seduction19/10/15 12:24 PM
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pig, all of you, PIGS
/r/seduction19/10/15 12:23 PM
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give them all cosby cocktails, when they pass out, you have the choice of the litter.
/r/seduction18/10/15 10:01 PM
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'practice pickup ' sounds so fun. objectifying women with no concern for their feelings seems like such a pleasant pastime. maybe you should change the expectation from acting like a lying douchebag player, to meeting new and interesting people? if you are just a shallow penis-focused child, then please. just stay home and leave the ladies alone.
/r/seduction18/10/15 10:00 PM
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is this in your video game or IRL? there's no video you watch to pull girls into your bed. wtf
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:50 PM
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dont even mess around at work, when it goes wrong its very uncomfortable.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:49 PM
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note would be weird, you would be the weird guy too pussy to talk in person. be a man and approach her, ask her for coffee. don't go lurker and put shit on her car, thats creeper stalker shit.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:45 PM
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its not like they congregate in areas like migratory birds. theres no particular area for anything like that. you need to open up your eyes and look around and not be blinded by the bimbos. its like a chick asking where are the guys that aren't douchebags? they are all around, you are looking in the wrong place.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:43 PM
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i just dated a 9+, she said most men don't approach her. not nearly as many as you would think. so, treat her like a woman/person first not a sex object on a rating scale. be yourself
/r/seduction18/10/15 04:46 PM
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you need to hug, then you have her in your arms. be gentle yet firm, kiss and explore with your hands. if there is no resistance, you start going under the clothes. just takes some practice.
/r/seduction18/10/15 04:39 PM
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enjoy your mormon youth and pray
/r/seduction18/10/15 04:37 PM
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when they say that, it means, you need a girlfriend that isn't me. and it says they don't want to be your girlfriend.
/r/seduction18/10/15 04:35 PM
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