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| 1 | Self-Improvement classes | Caimthehero | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 10:16 PM |
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| 0 | Just a reminder...In my opinion it's more of high value men or at least that regard themselves as high value that will ask much more of you. Low value men are seriously just happy for someone to talk to most of the time. High value guys I would say if you dont have the same level of commitment because of a difference in personality it's a wash and just consider it not right for each other and let the good guy get away. There's nothing wrong with letting a good guy or girl get away if they're not right for you. Lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/19 04:00 PM |
| 4 | 🔥OFFICIAL MEN'S GUIDE: Standards All Men Need To Expect From Women (2019)I date girls that are still in college and are figuring out their life. It's not a weakness to be 21 and not knowing where you're going. That was the point Please quote that part of the post I literally can't find any mention of bad families above. If there was an original post it's not reasonable to think everyone on here has read it especially when the only link is to a video which to be fair I was never going to click on it to watch. I took that more literally about having a childlike sense o… | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 04:49 PM |
| 3 | 🔥OFFICIAL MEN'S GUIDE: Standards All Men Need To Expect From Women (2019)Honestly I don't think you've dated outside of your type at all then if you havent hit exceptions to most of your rules. So I'm going to list exceptions Younger girls before 22 that you were helping find passions with. Anyone searching for a purpose Many girls have had fucked up family life. Psycho brother, overly controlling parents, and much much worse. If they can explain why they don't see their family this is fine. Only a red flag if they have no important relationships in their life. Many … | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | An unexpected benefit of studying for the MCATThe HB number is something I've only heard out of PUA. You're right guys have been numbering girls for a long be time but that lingo is pua and it is meant to judge. The majority of real players that aren't anxious individuals never use that system. You like who you like | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 01:26 AM |
| 0 | An unexpected benefit of studying for the MCATYou're kidding yourself if you think the start of the PUA community wasn't what I described. Also what's the point of a numbered system? To compare and judge. Maybe stop being a bit of a prick and either accept or reject people based on who they are instead of thinking "if she had bigger tits she'd be a 9" or thinking because you rated a girl better she's more attractive. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 01:16 AM |
| 7 | An unexpected benefit of studying for the MCATThe 1-10 system was made mostly by socially anxious dudes that wanted to show off to their friends. Binary is much better because it does away with looking for the perfect woman with a checklist of features and instead goes for the woman as she is. Not any mark against you Cat just saying | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 11:17 PM |
| 13 | An unexpected benefit of studying for the MCATPua lingo hot babe 8 out of 10. A little outdated but most beginners and intermediate have to qualify girls by attractiveness rating instead of going am I attracted to this girl yes or no | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | FR - Girls DO care about looksWho the fuck told you that women don't care about looks? Maybe I've missed that but what I've seen are looks aren't the only important thing and they're not. Can you get entirely through some sets just by being good looking? Yeah there will be a few but you're saying it like you cant actually become better looking. Steps to become better looking. BE FUCKING HYGENIC. I can't overstate how important this is. Unless you have god level game girls don't want to be with the guys that have Nasty teeth,… | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Tinder is a waste of time: [OC] 13 months of Tinder usage [23F]It's pure psychology you are correct. A study done showed that between a few choices and a lot of choices people tend to be happier and make a choice easier with the few option. I think coffee meets bagel is the closest for that. Maybe there'd be a market for an app that makes guys pickier | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Why Tinder is a waste of time: [OC] 13 months of Tinder usage [23F]Lol honestly I'm giving these men more credit because at least 50% didn't validate her by chasing her when they weren't interested. That's pretty huge. Granted it would be better if they didn't swipe right to start with but it is what it is. Girls will do the same shit though where on OKC when you can send a message with your like I'll have plenty of girls swipe right but never continue the conversation likely because they liked my message but had another reason to not respond. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 07:49 AM |
| 10 | Why Tinder is a waste of time: [OC] 13 months of Tinder usage [23F]Well she's definitely not the most attractive considering half her matches didn't bother to message her but guaranteed she's the one that cut short most of those conversation because of any variety of reasons. The one message guys we're probably "DTF?" guys and they don't stand a chance without Model looks. The long convos probably just they suck at talking and girl's are buyers on Dating Apps so when they fuck up "Next" or they realize they don't like her. Ultimately she swiped right on roughly… | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Does height matter to girls?Yes it matters as there are v girls that won't date shorter gentlemen and relationships where the guy is not taller are rare. That said stuff like posture is important. Guys can seem taller by standing upright where many slump. | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 05:41 PM |
| 8 | My First Time ApproachingDo not wait for her to respond bud. Live your life do more approaches. Do not become outcome dependent! Trust me rejection stops sucking and starts making you laugh when you lose the dependency. You'll know EXACTLY when it happens because it's a giant paradigm shift! | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How to Handle Lying/excuses/ghostingSo essentially there's a cake that girls give out. Instead of becoming the guy that is more likely to get cake you would rather the girls change and give out cake to every guy? We're going to run out of cake! The difference between the world opening up to guys and girls is that most girls are treated inherently valuable and guys usually have to become valuable. I think there is a ton of things wrong with how we treat women and how women are treated by society (practically guaranteed custody, get… | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 05:11 PM |
| 5 | How to Handle Lying/excuses/ghostingBro here's the thing. Who is trying to get who? If you're trying to get women you don't get to say "meet me halfway?" like a little punk. Does the Lion asks the Zebra to stop running halfway? The amount of bullshit you just typed literally makes zero sense if you ever bothered to think about women's perspective so here we go I'm giving you girl 101 for your points. The retaliation excuse and girls being more honest? Ok for starters guys are hands down the most dangerous thing to girls (that they… | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Askwomen sub "why a second date?"Bud the first point is advice for a woman and how easy it is to get an average man. I agree trying to get a girl as a guy is far harder. Also there's tricks to see if she's interested in coming over without making her feel slutty. Get a reason for her to come over and see something. | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Askwomen sub "why a second date?""Those responses reinforce the fact that attraction is not something that logical and that's why a lot guys struggle when they're overly fixated on learning game theory and technique." A lot of guys struggle because what would seduce them and what seduces women are very different. Getting a guy into bed can be pretty formulaic. Dress nicely and be somewhat attractive, start talking to him, laugh at his jokes, at the end of a date kiss him or whisper in his ear that you want him to come back to y… | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | My face is the reason I’m a 20 year old virgin.Dude unless you have some serious deformity it isn't. It much more likely is attitude, confidence, grooming, style, skills, humor, social skills, etc. First work on grooming with a good haircut and smell nice. Second go to the gym or get a physical hobby. Third get a stylist or look up style blogs, hint well fitting jeans, black shirt, and black plain boots never go out of style. That will get you to at least decent and that's a lot better than hideous | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | submissive seduction?Ok so approach this logically. One you want to go after women in jobs where they are the boss, better odds they are doms. Two be up front about the type of girl you're looking for. Three don't mistake being a sub as being a doormat. Have lines you won't cross and don't be a sycophant that just tries to please | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Advice for seducing my girlfriend’s momOk you league of legends douchebag. Don't fucking do it. You are going to give the girl and her mom huge problems when you try and fail. Trust me anyone with the competency to pull this off doesn't need to ask how | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Girls with BFsI'm currently that guy right now and I'm a piece of shit. Please just don't | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I have the male equivalent of the bitch faceYou can change your resting face pretty easy. I was told once that my resting face looked like my best friend died. Now most girls say I look approachable | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:47 PM |
| -1 | Joe Rogan | Are Alpha Males and Beta Males Real? w/Adam ConoverListening to this podcast was physically painful. I try and always be open to different perspectives but Adam rubbed me the wrong way with his tone, demeanor, and thought processes. Play a look for the contradiction game. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Is this a rejection or a test?I'll go in depth for you. You asked her a question and she gave you a one word answer. You then double down on a joke about marrying her. She clearly is rejecting you at this point and then you talk about a relationship. I mean there are worse sets but at least you're talking and not complaining about how no girls talk to you. Now why did this happen. Hard to analyze with little info but here's a small idea. You gave zero challenge to her. She obviously could have a relationship with you if she … | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 12:00 AM |
| 2 | I wanna ask out classmate, but have to do it over text and don't know howDon't do it over text | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on prostitution? Would you do it?Ok one it's safe to assume your satisfaction is most important to you. That crosses off a section where getting their partner off is most important. Also there won't be any real intimacy. You might be close to escorts but at the end of the day you are giving her a paycheck. Would I do it? Maybe but it's lacking a ton of the things I require from my women so I'd never be fully satisfied no matter how hot or cheap. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.Uh what? sexual marketplace value goes up for men maybe try more mature dating marketplaces | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 6 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.Seriously I hear this way too much. At this point I kind of would want a judge me section of seddit where you would post your profile pic for dating apps and we tell you what's good or not so good about it. There are two similar things but not dating focused if you're feeling brave. https://www.reddit.com/r/firstimpression/ or https://www.reddit.com/r/RoastMe/ second one is not for the faint of heart or lowly self confident | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 8 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.Ok bud you don't seem to realize that dating apps are HEAVILY skewed towards women for power dynamics. Guys swipe right on pretty much every girl average or above. Look at the standard deviation for male swipes and it is in a standard bell curve. This resembles the normal population of most women being average looking and the farther away from average the less people there are. Women on the other hand are far more selective because they get so many matches with guys they can afford to be choosy.… | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | A cry for helpNope was agreeing with your point before expanding on it lol | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 02:38 AM |
| 3 | A cry for helpOne this is important. Two set something up by saying you want to do something and invite her with. Also did you kiss her or show interest yourself? | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 02:13 AM |
| – | I’m proof that height doesn’t equal lots of girlsI think you missed my point. That doesn't change men can and have been disqualified from certain girls because of height restrictions. Not saying it's the most important thing to most girls | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 01:00 AM |
| – | I’m proof that height doesn’t equal lots of girlsWho the fuck told you that? Dude it's a disqualifier not a skill. Here's an example. Most girls won't fuck anyone that they are taller than. That eliminates men not guarantees you sex. Congrats on making it past the first round of eliminations because you got lucky on the genetic lottery now go do something with it and be a person that brings value to those around you | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | EVERY PUA PROGRAMScam | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Had a girl over who was into me, said we weren't going to have sex. Then some weird shit happened and I don't know whether or not to run or if this is normal behavior.Insane. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Why aren’t we having sex?Dude this is on you. It is your job to turn her on and get there. Also you're probably shooting yourself in the foot by talking pre sex time and saying the wrong thing. Let your tongue do the communication. Don't ask for permission but if she tenses up or worse, stops you, go back to safe territory and warm her up more. Also this is a little more fucked up but works really well when she pulls back punish her for it. She doesn't get to pull back and go back to what she wants and is comfortable wi… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I (f/26) saw my ex (m/29) this weekend and it was amazing. I'm not sure where to go from here, do I let him come to me?Depends Im not sure if I missed something but I didn't read anything on what happened with his dad. If his dad is still ill nothing has changed. You know him well enough you should be able to tell if he's lying or exaggerating. Feel free to text first but I'd keep a guard up for awhile. Also generally if a guy really wants to be in a relationship with you he'll find a way to make it work. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | mommyHope to stop being attached easy. Stop. Talking. To. Her. Enjoy your day | /r/seduction | 16/03/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | I just used Tinder Passport to swipe for 10 minutes in Sweden (I'm in Canada) - not a SINGLE fat womanWhen you move to a new location your score is reset for that location. Sweden has a thing for chocolate and you're a rarity brother | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 02:42 AM |
| 7 | I just used Tinder Passport to swipe for 10 minutes in Sweden (I'm in Canada) - not a SINGLE fat womanUh bud tinder uses an algorithm. This generally rates you on swipes and matches you with the corresponding girls. Aka top 20 percent guys to top girls. Aka if you think you're only getting whales you might want to improve your profile | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Guys, I’m 19. Why is it so hard?Seconding this. If you are really hot then your social skills push girls away that already want to sleep with you. On top of that I can already tell you qualify yourself and put more stock in logical reason a girl should like you | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Are clubs really better than tinder?This explains Las Vegas where a bunch of dbag guys are ruining it | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Have a rare chance to (finally) lose my virginity, I have 16 hours to learn Seduction. Any advice?This. you're going in with expectations instead of letting everything feel natural. Defining yourself and night based off results is going to be the only thing that fuck s you. Lose the outcome dependence and have fun | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls just want to have fun, on Tinder--My Tinder profile philosophy/ engineeringCurious what you mean by this | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How should I make a honest friendship?Bro I mean this in a loving way but stop being a pussy. You legit had nothing with this girl. You need an abundance mentality which only comes with time and exposure to women. Go out and talk to more people or get a social hobby. Don't waste any more time on a girl that doesn't deserve a spare thought. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Playing the long game worksI definitely might be misunderstanding. I think you should flirt with girls you're interested in. Are you advocating starting in the friend zone and crawling out of it with subtle escalation? Are you saying be your self and if it happens then good? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Playing the long game worksThis seems incredibly manipulative because you essentially want a certain relationship but are taking the most roundabout way possible in order to disguise your intentions. Regular pick up and dates you are still being indirect but you are showing intent through action. Am I missing something? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Guys I have been interviewing and talking to women about the problems they face while dating. I wish I hadn't (vent)It's called the fundamental attribution error and actor observer bias | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How can a girl get game?Same way guys do. Read, Practice, Review, Adjust, repeat. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Opinion on Robert Greene’s “Art of Seduction”...is this a sociopath guidebook?I've read power by green and it's the same shit. He basically tells you the most efficient way is generally the most sociopathic way through his writing. Dude is all about pure efficiency | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Need a translator to read between the linesNo you don't just go for a kiss without proper escalation. This is you taking advantage of a drunk girl that sounds really close to you, if you kiss her in that state. Here are some things to ask. Does she see you as a man? She might just see you as a really good friend or even a brother. Have you ever done any flirting accompanied by physical escalation? This is pretty key because when a girl isn't comfortable she will shut you down or go catatonic, either way easy way to figure out to back off… | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [29/M] I'm an omega male. Is there any hope for me?Ok I'm not going to pile on when there is a ton of good advice already on here. But your pics are a huge problem. Also fix your posture. Start looking up self improvement I'd suggest reading Kezia Noble Master seducer book | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 03:00 AM |
| 11 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?Jesus christ man come on. First girls never day game first so if that's what your asking get over it. Second just because girls aren't approaching you at a bar/social event doesn't mean they don't approach, or they are approaching and you haven't realized that's what they did. Girls open game almost entirely with body language. Here are examples. A girl that likes you will make these moves. 1: She will stare at you and try to make eye contact, usually followed by a look down after she does and t… | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Is this why you shouldn’t game co workers?One sexual harassment cases are at an all-time high. I just got out of one training where they told the men "it doesn't matter what you said only how it made them feel". There is little to gain and a ton to lose. Think about getting smeared on social media because of this. Never do any escalation at any work functions and only maybe if you see her outside of work, still not advised though. This isnt you get rejected, you move on. This could legitimately be a career ender. Think about it hard bro | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | For males - How do you know your good lookingThere are plenty of cases of men or women getting better with age Clooney and the Rock are prime examples. It's just on average and for women it's more vicious | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | For males - How do you know your good lookingOk you have to get out of that mindset now. There are no girls (if you get rejected it doesn't matter there are over 3 billion other girls) that you have tried to get since you've become attractive and now all you need to do is put yourself in the correct situation. Be high value or fake it until you make it. Also just like for women it's a passing thing. Beauty and looks fade and the girls that will do that shit are all in their 18 -20s from my experience | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | For males - How do you know your good lookingFrom what it sounds like you're heading in the right direction. That said fully bragging here but I have been grabbed, fondled, made out with, etc by girls I've never met before and used zero game on, admit some of them I wouldn't game if I had a choice. So yes drunk girls do act different with attractive guys | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | My [23M] FWB's [20F] other lover [39M] is jealous of me. How should I proceed?Personally I act like I don't give a fuck and laugh. I'd say that he's being insecure and that's cute. I've also had a girl break it off with me because I didn't get jealous when she brought up another guy. Up to you dude | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Picking up women when you have a disability?Sounds like you're too weak to lift them now dude | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | For males - How do you know your good lookingThis works lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | For males - How do you know your good lookingGood question. Do you work on your style? Are you in athletic shape? Do you have any sort of deformity? How tall are you? Do you have good personal hygiene? And finally when girls get drunk how do they act around you? Some of these you can control and will boost ugly people to adequate or better. Some of these you can't. I was very unsociable and lacked charisma as a teen. I thought I was average looking at best. I sometimes pulled off confidence for a night. I would dress well, stood straight, … | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I discovered a way to get over ten times the amount of matches on TinderIt's not about devaluing your sexual marketplace value. You get more women with cold approach anyway. It's about having integrity and doing the right thing even if it is harder. | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 08:10 AM |
| 2 | I discovered a way to get over ten times the amount of matches on TinderOk so would you be Alright with random guys stealing your image, Being a douche because it's a numbers game and giving you a bad name. If you say that's fine please post your social security and credit card numbers. It's dishonest. You're a catfish. Honestly it's as simple as taking better pictures of yourself and being active on it. Tinder uses an algorithm. Find out how to beat that and resets don't work anymore btw you need to create a new account | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 03:44 AM |
| -4 | I discovered a way to get over ten times the amount of matches on TinderSo lying. You are the male equivalent of a girl who stuffs her bra. I would never do this because any girl that realizes what you did and doesn't unmatch you is either retarded or lying themselves. Fully admit dating apps are stacked against normal guys but what you're doing is legitimately fucked up. You're also stealing a guy's image without his permission and impersonating him. I'm guessing you are younger so I say this full of love. GROW UP | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Guys, should I just fucking give up with everything?I would say start with How to Win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. Second it's the internal locus vs external. Be a better person | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be better looking than you think and not know itBud add a tldr. Second yes it is possible. If you know all these things wrong with yourself..... FUCKING WORK ON THEM. Figure out what you can do to make yourself more attractive. Ex. I was a 6'2 140 pound kid in college with shit experience. I worked out consistently, looked up style blogs, read a ton about human interaction, etc. I still have a long way to go but at least I'm moving instead of excusing myself | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 03:39 AM |
| 2 | 1 year on pickup but still no dates no resultsCharisma on Command is a youtube channel that is pretty good on a lot of Charisma/Seduction ideas. I'm pretty sure the founders have heavy research into PUA and decided they wanted to do something like it but in a different vein. A good video on Tonality is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nSuNK9UHpU or the second and probably better one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFgJCPzkuy8 This is the better video on tonality in general but I'd say CoC is the better channel for more charisma, confidence,… | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 3 | 1 year on pickup but still no dates no resultsThis is how detailed Pickup can be and generally why you need someone in person to point out what you're doing wrong if you're looking for a cause of failure. It could be you if you have a good memory for everything you did or you tape yourself. First Stage: Non-Verbals This in my opinion is the easiest to fuck up and the hardest to fix because you might never know what you're doing wrong so let's go over a few things you might be fucking up. Eye Contact: You could be giving too much, or not eno… | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | 1 year on pickup but still no dates no resultsHow can we answer this with anything but vague general statements that work for 90% of situations. We don't have enough info to actually give anything specific to how you're messing up | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 01:49 AM |
| 11 | No woman is ever interested. I don't know what to do!Dude you gave almost zero information about yourself so no one on here can tell you why you're failing. We don't know you or know how you act around women. It would be similar to saying you want to learn how to shoot a basket but we don't know you're kicking the ball. I'd suggest taping yourself or getting a wing that can tell you what you're doing wrong Edit: it also sounds like your coach was shit, most are, they should've observed you and told you where you were sticking | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 12:40 AM |
| 7 | I make it impossible for myself to spark something with women I like. Please help me I'm desperate.Ok Tom Hanks MegaFan this is what you need to do. Get off your deserted island that is your head. Go through the beaches of Normandy and realize the worst thing that can happen is you get rejected (way better than death like if you were in D-Day). You have to be dedicated to getting better, unwilling to leave your terminal for years if that's what it takes. Get it together sheriff and be the person Andy needs you to be. When the people tell you to stop you remember that you need to be better, th… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Scene in new Gillette ad caught my eyeOn terms of approaching it settles what girls want anyway. Girls only want Alpha's approaching in the current society or they want to be the ones to choose. If you're the type of man that gets caught up in your friend saying you shouldn't approach then you're not the type they want approaching them. Seems like when it comes to cold approach the commercial is saying "Shut up you know your place" | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 10 | I don't know if she likes me? Please help!Ok I read none of your post but adopt this mentality. You're awesome. She knows it. Don't be creepy. Go for it | /r/seduction | 15/01/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ?Yes but I can tell you right now you're already too focused on sex. You sound incredibly outcome dependent and want to boil it down to numbers. VERY FEW women can relate to that. I'm guessing you're above average intelligence and probably in a field dominated by men. Let me put it this way it's like you're playing a PVP game for the first time and the majority of people you are playing against are going to crush you. Practice against bots and get used to the "GAME OVER; Try Again" screen. You'll… | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 01:33 AM |
| 4 | 18 yo kissless virgin, kind of in desperation w zero self confidenceOk bud this is going to sound harsh but you need to know what you bring to the table. If you have nothing it's not the end of the world. Get better. You suck at conversation? Practice on randoms. Don't like your body? Go to the gym. Think you're boring? Do crazy fun shit or pick up skills. You have your life ahead of you. Own it and do something with it | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer" womenIt actually came from Adam Lyons and Jason Capital. They talk about needing to know what you have going for you | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer" womenLol let's see if I can guess. You think it's RSD? | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 05:05 PM |
| 7 | A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer" womenYou're pretty nuanced in this. I'm not saying what you are saying isn't right but it is limited in applicability as well. Girls that are younger (in their 20s or so) are much more likely to only want fun guys than older girls. "They make their own money. They have orbiters willing to pay for stuff. Beautiful women will always be taken care of by someone. Hell, some of them have online followers willing to send them money." This is the part that sticks. Most beautiful girls know that their time i… | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | 22m Kissless Virgin needs helpDon't get both you won't need them and a lot of them cover the same basic material as a launch point. Kezia's book (15 steps) was on for like $70 but I feel is the best reading material for game until you get to the point where coaching surpasses that and when you're learning specific techniques. Gambler (the natural) doesn't have the knack for writing that Kezia does but he does an adequate job of getting started and his is like $20 | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 22 | 22m Kissless Virgin needs helpYou're already in a bad mind set. "I don't really have the chance to go to the standard places where you usually meet girls." Don't make excuses for yourself. Also you're probably not up to there yet. Right now it is all about socialization. Talk to everyone you can talk to (guys and girls) while developing a personality. Start doing interesting things so you have experiences to talk about (sky diving, riding a motorcycle, gym, sports, cooking classes, dancing, etc). Make yourself a rounded pers… | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Crippling fear of rejectionThe way you counter this fear is by living it. You go through exposure to the fear. First imagine the rejection you're likely to get. Next imagine someone just ignoring you. When you get used to that it's time for the real deal. Go somewhere you'll never see these people again, another city maybe. Start approaching. By the time you've done triple digit approaches the fear is nowhere near what it was and you'll only get better. Also rule of thumb you don't get more than 15 seconds from seeing to … | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsOne your friend is a good guy. Two don't ever get hung up on a girl. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask out an older girl?Ok real chance that she sees you as too young. Will be much easier if you have a fake ID or you meet her at a party. I would 100% recommend house party or frat party over fake ID. Flirt, Disqualify, Escalate, Disqualify, Keep escalating. Up to you if you want to use age as a disqualify but I personally wouldn't as that is a very real reason she shouldn't sleep with you while something like "you're not my type" or "I have to go sky diving with my Amish friend early tomorrow" works better. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap.Ok bro I very rarely would suggest this but it sounds like you might be putting girls on a pedestal right now. You're 24 and maybe link your sexual worth based on the fact that no girl has hooked up with you yet. It is hard to get past something like that and act like a man of high value. You might need to get a hooker, bang it out once, see that nothing about you really changed, and break the pedestal. I've been there too where I got blown out by five girls in a very short time. They aren't rea… | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | one of the worst dates I've hadYou bought her food I'm guessing and the price was putting up with you. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Where can you find milfs/cougars (UK)In my personal experience it is much easier to go younger than older by a margin. Now For younger I'm talking as little as a year or two. For older I'm saying at least five to ten years older. The only time I've bagged girls in the (friends of my mothers age category) is when everything was set up just right to do so. If I was setting it up it would've been absurdly difficult, I took advantage of opportunities that presented themselves. Milfs categorization to me starts at 30. So for OP he has t… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Wow women actually look at the bio, atleast on bumbleWould definitely much rather come off as arrogant than unsure if I had to choose. Yours sounds good to me. I think you maybe had an outlier week or it just upped what they might have thought was too much effort for a guy when schmucks keep throwing themselves at her. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Wow women actually look at the bio, atleast on bumbleNot knocking it bud, sometimes acting like a jerk will produce wonderful results. Basically you're demanding a girl put more thought into her opening than she would otherwise. You definitely would be screening girls out that don't want to expend the effort of coming up with something witty. It also sounds like you don't have any type of conversation hook in your bio. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Where can you find milfs/cougars (UK)So you think milfs at your age will be easier???? Holy shit dude put in the work and get better until it get's easier. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How to answer to this shit test?If you're asking me to get platform shoes I'm going to have to say no. Just say something you find funny that might make her laugh too. Not sure if it's used anymore but a lot of times when girls said this you point at a dude that matches her description and say you'll introduce her and fake about dragging her over there. I haven't had a girl go "yeah introduce me to him." I also don't pick a guy that is very attractive that matches her description. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Wow women actually look at the bio, atleast on bumbleI mean you sounded like a dick and why wouldn't women look at bios? They get at least triple, if not more, matches than your average guy unless they are heavy, look like a bot, or with some kind of deformity. Know the game you're playing. Men want to get matches, women want to screen out guys. A 7 that swipes right on twenty guys will have at least five matches more likely ten. I'm of the opinion that all female friends and average girls suck at talking on dating apps. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?This happens in literally every aspect in life, so long as you're hungry for improvement | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Honestly this is 50/50 to me. I've definitely got stuff girls look for physically but am for sure in the 95%. I've had women throw themselves at me before and I've had to chase. The ones where the women threw themselves at me were situations I wasn't even trying in. I was the most fun, witty guy there and had the most going for me. Any time those specific girls talked to me in those specific situations they had a good time which led to them grabbing and dragging me away when they started drinkin… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:04 AM |
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