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Yes! I'm totally down for that:) Hopefully the mods will allow it. I think it is important for us to stay connected with each other and it would be interesting to see where most of us come from!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 06:55 AM
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I think that we need a way to connect through this subreddit! Like there needs to be some way to find out who is your age and from your area
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 06:51 AM
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What is your self care routine?:)
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 11:43 PM
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r/nofap isn't just for men! I'm sure you could find some tips and maybe a little supoort there to help you with what ypu're going through😊 Congrats on taking the first step to a healthier life, just remember that sex isn't bad and even watching people have sex isn't necessarily bad but when it overtakes your life and affects your relarionships then that's when you have a problem. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/19 08:57 PM
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Yeah I really want to have kids once I'm 29 or 30 and I can definitely see him controling everything relating to them. I don't think I'd have a say in anything and he has already voiced that he would never change a diaper or feed the baby because that would be my responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 07:28 PM
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How do keep from feeling lonely or unwanted? I feel like he only wants me to talk to him or be around him at night or in public even though both of us are at home all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 07:26 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I have stood up for myself several times and it always ends terribly. If I say no to something then he gets really angry and keeps telling me to do it anyway and if I continue to refuse then he will either make me do it or ignore me until I apologize. I really do believe that he loves me and thinks that he is doing me a favor by molding me into a submissive feminine wife but I feel like he fails to ever feel any empathy for me or relate with my feelings. It just seems…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:44 PM
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He hates cuddling. We never even fall asleep cuddling. In fact, uf I'm touching him or too close to him in bed then he pushes me further away from him. On his good days he will let me lay on him for maybe 5 minutes? And occasionally hug me but that's about the only time we are physical besides sex.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:38 PM
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Yeah if I picture a relationship with anyone else then I imagine they would be very impressed with my submissiveness and reward me for it where as my husband constantly puts me down for not being submissive enough.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:34 PM
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It seems like he only cares about my emotional needs if all his needs are being met. I feel like it should go both ways all the time. What can I do to make him realize that my needs are important too and that my feelings matter?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:13 PM
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I keep asking myself what I get out of this and I never have a good answer.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:03 PM
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Could you please go into more detail? How do you make it work between the two of you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:00 PM
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I'll read the sidebar again. What is the Pauline L letters?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:57 PM
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No, sorry. I'm not. I just thought that my husband was very traditional and that I wasn't feminine enough.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:56 PM
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I'm actually not afraid about him leaving me or afraid of him. It's just hard for me to respect him or respect myself if he never respects me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:35 PM
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I guess I just feel like it's better to be with someone that is dominant rather than someone who is weak. I don't want to have to wear the pants in the realtionship but I also don't want to be walked over. We are both young; he is 23 and I'm 22 so maybe it's just his age and he will grow out of it and become more like a maculine and dominant man that still provides and cares for his wife. I feel like we could have something really good eventually but I also fear that maybe it would just get wors…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:32 PM
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Thank you for the link. I'll read it right now
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:21 PM
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To be honest, the reason I did research on TPE is because I thought it would benefit our relationship. I thought that if I were collared and recieved punishments when I dissapoint him that it would help me be trained and then once I'm able to fully obey him then our relationship will be better. Because it's true, if I do exactly what he says for a few weeks without messing up then he behaves more lovingly. I just think that if you do exactly what someone wants 100% of the time then they may be r…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:16 PM
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We've been married for 3 years and I had never realized how extreme I guess our relationship is until now. He always makes me feel like it's my fault if we have problems due to me not being submissive enough. I felt like a worthless failure so many times. I thought that I was a bad wife because often I don't agree with him and when he tells me to do things that I don't want to do in the moment I do feel like a slave that he doesn't care for instead of his wife. It's frustrating that when I tell …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:12 PM
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I love that quote. Thank you. That's the first time I have seen it. I do feel lonely sometimes. I feel like I shouldn't have to initiate affection in order to get it or I shouldn't have to ask permission to go for a walk or to change up my makeup. I know that he is how he is because he is naturally extremely dominant and controlling but I really think that he believes he is controlling me for my own good and that I should be grateful for his guidance. I do appreciate leadership and advice, but I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:07 PM
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I have to admit that he only does this sometimes when I meet someone new and want to become friends with them. He says he is helping me since I lack the social skills to secure a friendship over text.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:02 PM
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Thank you for commenting. This makes a lot of sense! I guess I never really thought that being introverted still has its advantages when it comes to being more feminine :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 09:07 PM
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I think that a few people misunderstood me a little. I wasn't saying that if you're introverted then that means you aren't feminine. I was trying to say that the ideal feminine woman to most people is more of a social butterfly and talking to people comes natural for her. So the opposite which would be an intoverted woman would be less likely to strike up conversations and connect with people unless she is putting in much more effort to try to be that way.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 03:00 PM
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I agree with this. Both the male and female in the relationship need to have a little time to themselves. It isn't always healthy to be around anyone 24/7. Plus alone time does allow the other person to be more creative and productive sometimes. Imagine trying to study a new language or read a book and you constantly get interrupted by your partner talking to you. It's not nice for either side so I wouldn't consider it a problem at all.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 02:55 PM
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She actually goes back and forth between convincing him to stay as long as he needs to in order to save money to critisizing him for being jobless and sitting around all day. She also would talk badly about him to me and make things up that he said about me and then go to him and tell him that I said all these bad things about him to try to get us to turn on each other. I know that she wishes we would divorce and I do agree that she is jealous of me and sees me as a threat to her relationship wi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 12:00 AM
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I was just about to recommend dance over sports! Im 21 now and married, but in high school I played almost every sport and now that I'm older I really regret it. Running in track and playing soccer gave me big muscular legs and the sports took up so much of my time that I could have been spending doing things that would have better prepared me for my life now. They also made me extremely competitive! Honestly, if I could do high school over I would have started a gym routine like Strong Curves a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/18 06:16 AM
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Thank you for your insight into how Russia really is like. I know this film is from the 2000s so maybe times have changed. I also am aware of the big alcohol epidemic with Russian men and it's very unfortunate. However, I still found a lot of the views and opinions in the film to be inspiring for RPW
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 04:47 AM
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I feel the same way! I'm 20 and married so I find it extremely hard to find like-minded friends:/ I wish there was some kind of online group for young redpill women!
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 04:57 AM
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He is almost always on top actually. We lift weights a lot though and especially on leg day he is sometimes really sore and thrusting can become painful for him which I understand. I just want us to equally be able to be on top or bottom and both do our part.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 04:44 AM
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Thank you! I really needed this. I almost alwayss hesitate before doing or saying something because of my fear of a bad reaction from him. It's hard for me to focus on my happiness when I'm so worried about his. I'll try to incorporate your advice into our relationship:)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 02:54 PM
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I'd love to know what I can do to be completely comfortable around my husband and not be afraid to let loose and have fun with out feeling insecure! Also, could you tell me what specific change in myself would make the biggest impact on how attracted my husband is to me?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 02:48 AM
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It seems like it's partially his fault too. At one point she mentioned that she doesn't want to have to be the controlling one and feel like his mom all the time. This just proves that if a man is beta then someone has to take the lead. I'm sure that she wishes he were an Alpha male. However, it still doesn't change the fact that she is taking advantage of him being beta instead of reclaiming the feminine role and forcing him to become more masculine.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 09:14 PM
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I lost 25 pounds doing HIIT and eating a high carb, low fat diet. By doing this I got very lean and also gained muscle. I'm still just as lean today and that was 2 years ago. You're the one with the weight issue so I don't know why you're trying to give me advice. If you follow your own advice and it works for you then that's great! But apparently it isn't working for you so I suggested what worked for me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 05:45 PM
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To actually lose weight and maintain what you loose you are going to have to work out. Diet can keep you from gaining weight, but it won't make a huge difference in your appearance of you're not also working out. Diet and fitness go hand in hand. I suggest looking up high intensity workouts which only take 10-20 minutes but are EXTREMELY effective. You can also do them at home(:
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 04:02 PM
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