Finding like-minded women IRL

theawaregirl · 2020-02-02T03:13:46+00:00

I am the same age and would LOVE to know the same. I desperately need women I can talk to who share my views on this stuff. Following the thread to see what others say!

foxy_heterodoxy · 2020-02-02T04:28:13+00:00

I would be interested in this as well! I’m also a non-religious person (and I’m a public school educator), so I’ve struggled to find like-minded individuals in the flesh.

Lyssbuh · 2020-02-02T04:33:06+00:00

I’d be super interested in this. The cooking/baking classes seem like a good place to start.

Does anyone happen to live in Seattle? :)

z0mb1equeen · 2020-02-02T05:03:13+00:00

I've wondered about the idea of having some sort of meetups for RPW in real life. But not sure how to go about it or if people would be interested. Maybe asking here for other gals in your area and creating a private chat? No idea haha.

princessinvestigator · 2020-02-02T02:44:15+00:00

You could try to look for a community class in something traditionally feminine like cooking, sewing, knitting, gardening, or creating floral arrangements. I took a few cake decorating classes and they were super fun and I got to meet a bunch of other young women. See if your local newspaper, town hall, community center, or Facebook events for your area has anything that looks interesting to you. Some community colleges and high schools also offer these types of “adult enrichment classes”. Look for “series” classes as opposed to one-off events so you have more opportunities to develop relationships with the other women in the class. This isn’t as much of a guarantee as church would be, as its very rare to find non-religious values-based groups, but it’s more likely to find other RPW there than in a lot of other types of classes if that makes sense.

Book clubs could be a good option as well, but check the types of books they read or have read in the past to make sure they align with your values. There are many women’s book clubs on both ends of the spectrum so make sure you’re joining one with like-minded women. Check and see if your local library and/or bookstore hosts one or if they have a list of other book clubs in the area that are looking for new members.

Finally, many RPW tend to have conservative-leaning political views, so you could try volunteering for a local Republican (if you’re in the US) political campaign. A lot of the volunteers would likely be men though, but most women there would be RPW. If you’re not really into politics I would try one of the other options above.

Good luck!!

Mollysmumu321 · 2020-02-02T02:47:47+00:00

You might want to check out your local library! Ours does monthly craft days where women can get together and see, scrapbook, or do other crafts. Most of the women there were older but were incredibly sweet and knowledgeable, willing to share recipes or techniques!

relaxilla420 · 2020-02-02T05:12:45+00:00

If you find anything that works, let me know! When I tried to explain to my (mostly female) bosses that my fiancee is the head of the house, they looked at me like I had 3 heads. Getting real sick of being treated like I'm crazy.

Thyra- · 2020-02-02T04:39:44+00:00

Most women my age are into partying and are going to college and are too busy to be bothered for even a cup of coffee. Ive been trying to use apps that are for finding friends irl but it hasnt been all that helpful.

2020-02-02T14:53:56+00:00

Most of the women with this mindset are busy raising their family. Meeting single women like this... very tough. If you meet a single woman she might be open to this mindset but if she hasn't ever dated a man worthy of leadership she might not even know she is RP. Obviously the standard Portland radical feminist is a hard no, but I wouldn't rule someone out if they dont know the lingo or arent 100%.

Places like Portland you also have to consider that people are afraid to share their true self if they arent anti men whackjobs. You have to be the bold one to make like minded friends. Church is the cheat code but even there I'd say the majority of relationships are not true RP and are actually more female centric where the wife sits on her pedestal and whips the plow horse as needed. He isnt leading, he is worshipping the wife and enabling her stay at home life.

Quick story I lived in the most antigun liberal place ever in college. It came up in one class and I ended up being that guy that tells the teacher and everyone else why they are wrong and guns are awesome. Guess what, walking out of class people are giving me high fives and talking guns to me like we are leaving a gun show. What's my point? The bold dissenter attracts their flock in a hostile environment. Be willing to drop some truth bombs and see who is drawn to you.

As to a specific suggestion gun ranges often have a women's club, for Portland I know tri county gun club does. Maybe counter intuitive as it's a typical male hobby but all the women I know into it are pretty RP probably because they learned it from a strong father or previous alpha.

Whatever your interest id say it's easier to find friends that share interests and easier to keep friends that share values than the opposite, so do what you like doing in groups and raise the flag.

CallMeFeminEm · 2020-02-02T06:51:39+00:00

I think that we need a way to connect through this subreddit! Like there needs to be some way to find out who is your age and from your area

ThomasTheSowellTrain · 2020-02-02T05:13:46+00:00

Too bad you aren't a believer. Your best chance is the Orthodox Church. Most based group ever, multiple opportunities to meet every week.

AnnaAerials · 2020-02-02T09:05:26+00:00

Well if you’re in Sydney AUS, there’s me!

AnnaAerials · 2020-02-02T09:08:15+00:00

Also! Try physical activity meet ups via reddit? I’ve gone to a rock climbing event and surprisingly a lot of people off reddit are down to earth and accepting, not all conservative but a decent amount.

organicsunshine · 2020-02-02T15:42:57+00:00

Good luck. I am in my early 40's and have lost more friends than I have gained sharing RP ideas and living the lifestyle.

hidinginahippo · 2020-02-03T16:53:58+00:00

I’m planning on going along to crochet groups where I live. I really need to expand my social circle a little, since I don’t feel like my social needs are being entirely met. I’m not religious, which does make it harder I suspect. Luckily, I’m quite introverted and content spending lots of time on my own, so a couple of hours of social time a week would be sufficient.

A friend of mine actually confessed the other day that she would like to be a housewife. They plan for her to be home when they eventually have a baby too. For now, I’ll keep my views and beliefs to myself and just continue to find a couple of social activity groups I can attend regularly. My gut tells me that she would probably be fairly receptive to it all though, and her husband certainly has many alpha traits.

I__love__cheese · 2020-02-06T15:43:15+00:00

Are there any girls here from London, UK? :)

Title	Finding like-minded women IRL
Author	phoenixtycho
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Date	February 2, 2020 1:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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