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I have learned from life. Those women telling you that will be singing a different song in 10 years when they are unhappy and do not know why.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 12:08 AM
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Get new friends or move when you can. Know this is the narrative, not the truth. Stay strong and headstrong. Maintain your innocence and girlhood as long as possible. Do not let social pressure infect you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 12:05 AM
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You are male?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 04:44 AM
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I use clinique.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 11:00 PM
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I have been treated not only to an entire another level being mildly dressed feminine, having basic jewelry and a designer purse, the level up is unfathomable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 02:49 AM
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If he doesn't ask you to play a role, stand behind him and don't give him shit about it later.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 05:35 PM
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You are conflating RPM concepts as applied to men with women. If you read and listen long enough you realize that girls in the 6-7 range have lots of value and are more likely to be relationship material (RMV), where the 8-10's are notoriously "community property" with their high SMV. The truth is, you make the best out of what you have and who you are. Increase your non physical assets and make the best out of the things you can't change.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:45 PM
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I agree with this. My man likes for sex to be serial and no inbetween.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 01:11 AM
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Butter knife?
/r/RedPillWives02/08/20 03:04 AM
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Wood markers.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/20 02:32 AM
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Just be selfless and actually care about others.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/20 02:32 AM
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Enjoy your girls before they are 12 🙄
/r/RedPillWives25/07/20 01:21 PM
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Neither has ever been my thing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/20 12:30 AM
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Congrats. My advice is to start the day early ahead of everyone and plan at least 3 hours a day for yourself.
/r/RedPillWives24/07/20 12:28 AM
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You are young. Find more ways to add value to his life and keep up your appearances. Plus, you are the mother to his children. Realize that your marriage is the foundation, not to be neglected or taken for granted. Life is an erosive tide. Maintain the foundation. It takes work.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 03:57 AM
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He either is, has, or wants to fuck her. He did not care enough to protect you from that truth. In public. You can accept it or you can move on. If he loved you, he would not let you find that out. Men will be men, it in their nature to desire women. A man who loves you will not let that harm your relationship. You shouldn't have to "make a choice". And no, I do not advocate cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 03:53 AM
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I try to laugh about and occasionally tease him. My husband leaves cabinet doors open constantly. One time he even left the microwave door open. I just started cracking up and showed him. Whelp, he was here! Haha. I think of all the good things he does as well and just let it go.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/20 11:01 PM
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Watch American Crime 3 on Netflix. There is no way out even if raped by men. Stand up.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 05:13 AM
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It is all about the music and hip movement. Message me, I can help you blow his mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 05:09 AM
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I say put your feelings aside and go with it. You might like it.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 04:58 AM
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When your man tells you what to wear and buys it, it is the best.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 04:57 AM
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My man's idealation of attraction is mutual. I do what he likes because I love him. It results in self improvement and I trust his judgment.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 04:56 AM
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It is harder now. People are guarded. You have to do it one person at a time. As you get older it is more difficult to make honest friends.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 04:54 AM
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Dressing the part will help you feel better. Get some cute sundresses (they are nursing friendly) and wear them around the house everyday whether he is home or not. Do your hair and makeup everyday, preferably before he comes home or in the morning if he works at home. Get your hormone levels checked, thyroid levels being off can sap your mood, energy, and libido. Make sure to do things for him and dress sexy or cute for bed. Keep up with your night routine and make it a priority to have sex at …
/r/RedPillWives29/06/20 10:08 PM
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Fell ya, got a tween now. Being a mom has never mattered so much. Be a great example.
/r/RedPillWives27/06/20 03:39 AM
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You never will. They say women grow old but never grow up. We can be grown up and still be youthful. Keep a twinkle in your eye. Use your wisdom to make good decisions but know good things when you see them.
/r/RedPillWives27/06/20 03:37 AM
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Work out 5 days a week for at least an hour. Spend MONEY on your skin, hair and nails. Wear heels when you got out on dates and dinner...dress for your man and dress UP when you hit the sack. Embrace kindness and feminity, cook well. Other weakness will be amusement...you aren't perfect but you can be mindful and female to a fault. Don't be jaded and have a youthful sense of humor. Not crass, but simply silly. Life isn't over. Be your best.
/r/RedPillWives27/06/20 03:34 AM
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Your parents want you to take care of yourself first. Saddling yourself at this age is a unattainable goal. Small steps but be open to the face that a man can take care of you and your family.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 04:35 PM
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Follow do not lead. So you believe what you believe and honor that personally. Forcing it on others never works. Be peaceful and happy and show the benefits by example.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/20 02:35 PM
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Word of advice, careers will always be there. Your fertility and energy to be patient with children will not. Choose your time wisely.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 01:37 PM
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I'm 20 years older and still on this journey. Let's do it.
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 01:19 AM
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Good points and I do not disagree. My warning to young women is that they are a chameleon to what attracts them, logic aside. Do not lose too much of yourselves in finding others. Boundaries are rarely black and white.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 03:53 AM
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This is not how I define confidence Confidence - Writing down and setting personal boundaries/dealbreakers and trusting yourself and gut to follow through. Be willing to walk away when disrespected. This sounds very personal to OP. For me confidence is trusting your gut in the situation over drawing hard lines that you deem cannot be crossed. New relationships/people present challenges you never see coming. Some times a little disrespect can lead to self reflection and a correction of ways. Ofte…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 03:49 PM
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Personal theory, but I think the Rogam shots caused an autoimmune response that destroyed my thyroid. Went dead and I had to have it removed it was so diseased and causing storms. Life threatening. It was awful.
/r/RedPillWives17/05/20 01:30 AM
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Get your hormone levels checked. Especially thyroid if you are RH negative. Secondly, reach out to other women with babies your owns age, you are not alone. Forums online were a lifesaver to me. "Due date clubs". Is your baby colicky or has sleep issues? That can be extremely stressful.
/r/RedPillWives16/05/20 10:51 PM
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Yes and yes. Transparency in a partnership is important. "I would like to got to Sally's house for an hour or two and hang out. Is that ok?" If it is a friend of yours he trusts he will likely be encouraging, everyone needs friend time. However, if she is a bad influence (single and sleeping around) or you have given him reason not to trust you in the past, you need to defer or just not ask. I play better safe than sorry. I tell him where I am going at all times. I even have GPS family tracker s…
/r/RedPillWives15/05/20 10:07 PM
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Amazon has a ton for great prices. Keywords are: feminine, jersey, spring, casual, day .. dresses
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 02:18 AM
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YouTube is your friend. Personal trainers will also do video sessions.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 08:04 PM
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So sorry honey. Just know you are not alone and other think about you. The kids need you and there will be a new normal, for you and us all. Life will go on. Start to form a new picture of the future and take it one day at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 03:20 AM
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This is the first advice in How to Win Friends and Influence People. A must read for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 01:07 AM
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How are you doing now?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 12:56 AM
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I grew 2 cup sizes and they haven't gone away since having a baby 12 yrs ago. My boobs look younger than anything else on my body lol. Get new clothes and lingerie. Go by your bust size and amazon has a ton of stretchy dresses and baby dolls for bedtime I wear around the house.
/r/RedPillWives27/04/20 03:13 AM
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Oh my god, my deepest sympathies. So sorry dear.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 02:19 AM
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Oh no! Was this due to covid and him not quarantining?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 05:56 PM
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Money does not equate effort. There are no shortcuts as you know, in the long run. Good for you for a healthy lifestyle. Keep it up through children and the trials of life when things really get tough. True beauty is grace and being unjaded though the trials and seeing the good in all. A smile even with wrinkles or without at the end is a light the continues to shine.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 01:18 AM
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Working out, cooking, skills that help my husbands business so he can employ me instead of anyone else. Not a contest. Just a question. But you are young. Your answer displays that. See you at 40.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 01:11 AM
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So you are 27 and look great... Do you have along term relationship or marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 01:05 AM
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2 words.. spray tan.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 01:05 AM
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Outside of maintaining your looks, what else have you invested in?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 01:03 AM
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Are you afraid of what he will say or want do do?
/r/RedPillWives04/04/20 09:09 PM
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Have you talked to him about the types of porn and what turns him on?
/r/RedPillWives04/04/20 09:06 PM
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Is he getting it from somewhere else? Porn. Masturbation?
/r/RedPillWives04/04/20 08:52 PM
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Lose weight. Dress sexy when you want it. Be more feminine even when you do not. Treat him with true respect and attraction will build again. Desire is built outside of the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/20 08:50 PM
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The music
/r/RedPillWives03/04/20 11:55 PM
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Girl smv does NOT mean everything to men. It is an expression of a rating scale which is relative. Different things are more or less important to different men. RMV is what you should be concerned with.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 11:03 PM
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I cant watch that video....
/r/RedPillWives03/04/20 10:58 PM
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I agree. An A.A. degree is mostly what you need. Then go where your passion is. Learn how to hang a shingle (be self sufficient) until you meet your husband and start a family and can contribute when needed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 02:04 AM
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I do not understand why a man is hosting this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/20 03:10 AM
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Even if you are in the same town he cannot visit his mom. Perspective and reality is needed here. Encourage face time type messaging and use zoom to get the family together.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 03:05 AM
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I would just suprise home with a sexy outfit and heels so high you need his help to walk :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 09:12 PM
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Virginity and celibacy are two different things. There are no born again virgins.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 02:43 AM
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It fades. Focus your intent elsewhere. You can make it more of an issue than it is.
/r/RedPillWives29/03/20 01:47 PM
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"He likes certain sex things that I don't personally get any enjoyment out of, but I've learned to make sure they happen sometimes." This can and will lead to resentment and lack of respect and love. Be very careful. Can you do this for the rest of your life because it will NOT change and may escalate
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 04:12 PM
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It totally makes sense. That said, our "oops" was the best thing to ever happen to either of us.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 03:52 PM
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Not preventing, not trying = trying. :D I have been there!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 03:44 PM
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Isn't Tinder the app where you swipe right or left? It is a safe assumption. And we have only been in lock down for 2 weeks. I guess if it is an expression like "a hard pass" I get it. I have not been on the dating scene in a long time, I am married. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 03:42 PM
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The notebook. Alien.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 02:04 AM
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Congrats! This is just the beginning. Stay true.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 01:59 AM
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Never been on Tinder. It is for hookups right?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 09:30 PM
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Honestly? I took time to reflect on myself, my faults, what I could have done better, what I did right and understanding what I really wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 01:18 AM
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Truth. Enter the wine drinking moms...AMD husbands with honey-do lists. Ugh.
/r/RedPillWives23/03/20 01:05 AM
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I love that video. We will be seeing more of that in these times!
/r/RedPillWives23/03/20 12:59 AM
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Coming from someone who was an equal breadwinner, mom and ran the household, it is a recipe for divorce. Tea is right.
/r/RedPillWives23/03/20 12:58 AM
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He can't have it both ways. I only know one couple who the wife works from home and they still relied on daycare. A stay at home mom should not need to go back to work full time until elementary age children. This could take six years or more depending on the number of children you have. Regardless of the plan, knowing you both will do whatever it takes to sustain the household and still be happy and make things work is how you survive marriage and kids. You never know what life will throw at yo…
/r/RedPillWives23/03/20 12:56 AM
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Do not paralyze. Create a plan. Steps to where you need to be. One day at a time. Cut off contact with your ex unless you feel this is salvagable. You are not alone. Most relationships fail. It is not your fault. Learn and be a better partner going forward. I wish you well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 01:30 AM
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Never heard of a man afraid of being skinny-fished as opposed to fat-fished.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 12:06 AM
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Robitussin or cough medicine, alcohol, paper products, soap, bottled water, flashlight and batteries, tissues, pet food and litter, wine, chap stick, personal hygiene, I got razors, ibuprofen and a body thermometer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/20 04:21 AM
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"Thanks, I appreciate that." Is all you need to say. Don't give them an opening as a line if they are looking for it. Keep the conversation moving or end the interaction.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 12:56 AM
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Get your thyroid hormone levels checked. This sounds like hypothyroidism symptoms.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 12:14 PM
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Sure is B.S. Here is one hard truth. NO ONE IS EVER 'READY' to have their first kid. You get that positive test and go, whelp, I guess it's time to do this. Give it a week and excitement sets in. A month and you want to see the heartbeat. Then you start planning on how to make it work, regardless of your situation. No real mother regretted having a kid. Plenty regret waiting too long to conceive their first or to have more than one.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 02:01 AM
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Depends on the kinds of kinks. Some people just aren't compatible or on the same page with pushing boundaries. Try once or twice but be wary that 'duty sex' can take a toll that results in resentment and overall dissatisfaction in the relationship for both.
/r/RedPillWives06/03/20 01:57 AM
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All men are territorial no matter your status. I am sorry but you lost this battle. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 03:34 AM
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Now I am curious
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 03:27 AM
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Thanks ladies, you all are awesome. I was in high school and basically praying for it so I don't know what it's like to be unprepared.
/r/RedPillWives23/02/20 02:37 AM
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He has mommy issues.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 05:58 PM
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You put his hands under your bra and basically asked him to do things to you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 04:39 PM
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I think he is married.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 04:38 PM
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Just curious, are you overweight at all?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 03:16 PM
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How old are you and him?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 02:47 PM
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Word up.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 02:45 PM
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First of all, at 43 she isn't that old and likely knows how to take care of a man. He is getting something from her he isn't getting from you. Think about what that might be. Don't focus on age, that is superficial and an excuse to try to shame him. It may be attention, sex, cooking, appreciation or making him feel useful.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 02:42 PM
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Little one turned 12. Her first friend got her period. Any tips on prepping her a "ready" kit or kits? Any advice you wished you knew before you got your first?
/r/RedPillWives22/02/20 02:33 PM
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Honestly, it is true. Most relationships do not last. Knowing that doesn't discount what you have, however the fear of investment can make it a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 11:43 PM
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Bucket list items; Alaskan cruise, whale watching, see snowy mountains Visit Glacier Nation Park Scenic railroad trip Visit London, Paris, Rome, Mayan or Inca ruins Raise a Bernese Mountain Dog Hit 130lbs (I am in good shape but could improve) See the redwoods Snorkel the Great Barrier Reef
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 10:39 PM
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No need to be sorry. The girlfriends I do have are awesome and I can be open with them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 02:27 AM
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Question: Is he a drinker?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:58 PM
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If it is government sanctioned marriage he is against discuss the pros and cons of private marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:46 PM
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We talk about future possibilities, trips we would like to take, work and articles/events/sports.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:45 PM
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Good luck. I am in my early 40's and have lost more friends than I have gained sharing RP ideas and living the lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:42 PM
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10-12 for girls. But living as an example usually kick starts things. Children like to emulate their parents behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:40 PM
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If he is red pilled he assumes control of his responsibilities regardless for "title". If he is depressed and doing nothing that is a separate issue. Besides motivating him there is little you can do. Encourage a good outcome but know resentment is around the corner of he does not man up, and that is hard to overcome.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 03:15 AM
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Don't question if he stays out all night. Hmmm
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 03:45 PM
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This too shall pass... As trying as infants can be they grow quickly. Keep looking forward and know this is just temporary. Get a sitter, for just 2 hours so you and your husband can get out of the house twice a month. Alternate weekend mornings when one of you can sleep in. Create a personal care schedule.
/r/RedPillWives20/01/20 07:42 PM
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How often are you "too tired"?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 09:26 PM
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I have let it go. I am at peace with today and live for making tomorrow better.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 07:15 PM
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Move on. He has....5 years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 10:16 PM
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Questions like "what do you think.." or "Do you have a plan" that are more about him than the actual situation/problem.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/19 01:35 PM
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I am a problem solver as well. What I learned is not to ask questions. It is hard. The only question to as is do you want my opinion/suggestion or help? If you need more info on something, don't ask questions... Say something trailing so he can finish it. Think about not what he is saying but how he is feeling. That must be very frustrating...I would like to take your mind off that ;), etc
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 04:05 PM
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My essentials are an air fryer, crock pot, grill or indoor grill and sous vide.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 01:31 PM
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Honey baked ham, scalloped potatoes, Hawaiian rolls, cinnamon apples, green bean casserole, corn. Super easy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 02:40 PM
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He has not changed and I love him for it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 10:47 PM
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My go to is a 3/4 sleeve body con type dress with a peacoat and 4-5in heels.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 01:07 AM
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Does he drink as well?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 03:04 PM
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You cannot negotiate desire
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 03:03 PM
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It is over. Make it work the best you can but come to peace that a sexual relationship isn't in the cards unless something changes drastically. Alcohol was the the lubricant. It was never really there.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 02:41 AM
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Women think the badge of "Alpha widow" makes others think that they were good enough to land one in the first place and that is what they deserve.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 01:20 AM
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I disagree with the low smv part of " An Alpha Widow is a woman (with low SMV) who has a relationship with a high SMV man." Her SMV can be low or high, it is irrelevant. She is acclimated to his high expectations and wonders what is wrong with men who come later that do not expect the same and feel their value is therefore lower
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 01:17 AM
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If you are on birth control and mid twenties this is normal. You are being unreasonable. Do not turn him down for sex, it leads to resentment on his part and over correction on yours. Asking for a heads up is ok. The act of preparing for intimacy can help the mood. And once it starts it always feels better when you get going. Keep lubes handy and dont wait until too late at night. Also keep track your sex life to preempt his needs.
/r/RedPillWives25/11/19 02:31 AM
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This app is great thank you! I am going to put it on kiddos phone to manager her chores too
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 06:41 PM
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Kiddo got a great report card, first for middle school and no missed days. She is healthier than ever and starting to earn more freedom and responsibilities. All is well.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/19 03:41 PM
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I agree. You do not leave a good job because there is is something you do not like.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 02:22 AM
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Go above and beyond with the tasks you are given and generate positive customer feedback. Find opportunities for more business to show you are looking to help the company grow. Identify areas of weakness beyond the task at hand and present them with solutions. Never go to a manager with a problem you don't have a proposed solution for. Continue your education. ETA: Been working in IT for 20+ years and am female.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 02:10 PM
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I have a similar success story. We got married in July. Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 02:13 AM
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Good question. Also, how long is "awhile"?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 06:40 PM
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Sports & crime mostly. Netflix has some good ones. HBO too. Free solo, game changers, 30 for 30, strange fruit, the 13th, cocaine cowboys, the seven five, and that series on hulu about Gypsey Rose a victim of munchousens who was an accomplice to her moms murder.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 04:16 AM
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I have no free time but my heart is always in cooking, meal planning, and finding ways to improve our health. I also find interesting documentaries to watch in our down time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 02:48 AM
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I do not think this is abusive or gaslighting. I think this is stress. As you try to protect him, he is trying to protect you and it is coming out the seams. He needs to know you can handle what is really going on and will not question or nag but be supportive. You will give him space to solve the problems. You will understand he needs time.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 02:05 AM
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You do not learn from excuses.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 03:25 AM
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People are habitual and find comfort in routine. If it bothers you, make plans unique to you as a couple and build on it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:44 AM
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He was good enough for you to sleep with him which is preselection, not degradation. He was interested in you for sex, which you easily gave asking nothing in return. He may not be a high value male, simply opportunistic. You have to weed them out early.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:42 AM
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You slept with him right away and offered nothing of value other than sex. How long would he have strung you along had you pushed for commitment first? Not long. He is a player and you got played. Knowingly in the end. As far as telling other women, you just preselected him in their eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:17 AM
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Agree with this 100%
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:02 AM
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Common sense and experience. Not being selfish. Being intuitive.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 11:44 PM
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The first time I told my husband I love him, his response was "I know". Took about 6 months to hear it from him for the first time, I was so surprised.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 12:34 AM
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I recently got a VS one that is very comfy. I wear it bowling.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 12:05 AM
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Thanksgiving is just a big family dinner. You got good advice on how to arrive. I always pitch in to help clear the table and do dishes after dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 02:08 PM
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Demonstrating the values of someone who admires the value of being a SAHM, spends time learning how to be a good cook and be financially sound on their own, cultivating habits and traits a high value man desires, is veneration.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 01:28 AM
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Feminism today is a recipe for unhappiness. Ultimately, it take practice and a bit of tongue biting to get rid of the mindset. I was so angry when I realized what a lie we've been sold. I feel like I wasted half my life.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 07:53 PM
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It's like mgtow for women. Get off social media completely, it will improve your life. I could not be more serious. Focus on family amd friend and work and cooking and things you love.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 02:32 PM
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No doubt
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:48 PM
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Sorry to "argue", I am sensitive to others. However, changing norms to fit the minority makes others feel out of place. I love being a woman. Menstruation defines us. Identify how one sees fit, but making the world conform to you is a losing battle in life.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:36 PM
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Well, a trans handicap person might want an elevator. Why do extra work to fit in?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:30 PM
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I have been working out 3x per week with a personal trainer since April I have not lost much weight but I look very toned! I have so much muscle mass to begin with... (gymnastics, volleyball) .. I look 20lbs lighter than I am.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:27 PM
1

Try to let go of the past and be positive in the new situation.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:22 PM
0

No, it does not. But it is 1%.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:21 PM
1

You worked for a restaurant with an HR department?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:15 PM
1

Submission is when he says "quiet". You stop talking.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:04 PM
1

Come to him with a solution.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:02 PM
1

How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie is an easy read and helps perception.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:00 PM
1

I start throwing stuff away after it has sat around too long. People will start being accountable when they realize others are paying attention. Chore charts (visual) help too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:58 PM
9

You are your DNA
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:50 PM
7

It is doing more harm than good. See the documentary about the older trans people who regret it. Also, suicide. The issues run deeper than gender identification and changing a symbol will have no effect (good or bad) on the greater good.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:47 PM
5

You must be under 30.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:28 PM
7

How many legit trans people do you know?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:21 PM
1

Own your space and start acquiring household good only you use. Good set of pots and pans, for example. Organize your room amd bathroom.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:18 PM
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Of course it is not the end of the world. And scare who exactly? But where does it stop? My work now has 2 "all genders bathroom". Yet the "they/them" I work with uses the ladies room. Societal norms exist for a reason. Being too sensitive is worse than tone deaf.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 05:56 PM
13

Ok, so remove all gender symbols from bathrooms. Midol male spokesmen. Drag queens in tampax commercials. Got it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 05:33 PM
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I want to learn how to make indian buttery chicken.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 05:00 PM
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I don't use pads so this falls on deaf ears. However, this shit is ridiculous. This gender fluid bending thing is out of control. All the comments I read of these articles is, in what world do you abandon 99% of your client base to accommodate 1%? The math is bad and like Gilette, this will bite them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 04:43 PM
7

Just cause you are 40 with kids doesn't make you saggy. Just sayin'.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 02:16 PM
9

He planned a weekend at an awesome hotel not too far and bought me a dress and shoes to wear to dinner and something sexy for that night.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 02:39 AM
2

Wome aren't empty vessels, however we are chameleons. We tend to align with those we admire. If you think about it, water is a powerful force. Even Bruce Lee says to "Be like water". You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend. https://www.goalcast.com/2017/07/20/top-20-inspi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 12:34 AM
3

I track my macros and realized that I dont eat enough to lose weight which is why my body holds on to my last remaining fat reserve on my tummy. Make sure you are eating enough of the right things, especially protein.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 11:26 PM
7

I focus on making myself accountable to myself. I make lists. I document tasks, make plans that I actually keep...things like a target run or scheduling an errand. It helps and you feel more in control of your life. Also, pets help.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 11:18 PM
8

Get it girl, you got this.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 11:08 PM
11

Become the quality of woman as the man you wish to attract. This can take many forms, but it begins with self care.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 11:07 PM
5

You did good saying something but I think you are out-thinking the room. Guys get lazy too. Saying something honest is a kindness. Good job.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 11:04 PM
11

If both guys lost their jobs/wealth tomorrow which one would you stand by?
/r/RedPillWives20/10/19 04:05 PM
9

Resist the carousel. Sexual validation is cheap. You are worth more than a hole.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 02:34 AM
4

When you are a matriarch, your family starts with you. We all start out alone regardless of family or where you are from. Make your own traditions and carry the best forward.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 12:01 AM
1

You are equally important, in other ways. And he shows his respect and importance to you in his way... providing, protection, reliability, faithfulness, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 03:32 PM
3

Need more info. Does he works full time?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 05:27 PM
0

Women are different than men. Understand men. Stop internalizing.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 02:15 AM
1

Haha ok. You must be my ageish. I never have used my legit names online but it makes sense that most people do.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 12:14 AM
3

"I like your profile, would you like to talk?" Simple. Easy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 11:21 PM
1

You posted your full name and info on a dating site? Enough for a BG check?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 11:20 PM
8

Yep. You do not want to start a life with someone with resentments and animosity hanging over your head. He is just not that into you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 10:43 PM
0

Terrible advice. Stay fit, dont get fat, dont be a bitch and be kind and consistent. Age does not always negate attraction.
/r/RedPillWives05/10/19 11:23 PM
4

There are alot of opportunities in all kinds of webmastery.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 11:13 PM
5

Administrative assistant, project management, and bank teller come to mind.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 11:12 PM
3

Had my first baby 5 years sooner.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 01:06 PM
6

He is regretting not having seen his wild oats? If that is what he wants, to see if the grass is or isnt greener, let him go. Trust me, hearing him lament "you're the only woman I've been with since I was 20!" In 10 years isnt fun.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 10:04 PM
1

Are you both virgins waiting for marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 04:25 PM
2

I prefer a crewneck height with a mid necklace to keep eyes up. Not too high, too hot! Only DD though.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 01:44 AM
3

I stick to higher necklines.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:10 PM
4

People do not change that much. I think you are both comfortable and have grooved in the habits. I would consider moving out and going it alone and see how he handles it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 09:44 PM
10

They settle down and want commitment eventually. I got one. Be prepared to not get away with shit tests, bitchiness, or hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 10:02 PM
2

Is this "new" relationship someone you JUST met or knew before you had the breakup?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 03:20 AM
3

You sound like and an addict branch swinger. How can you "jump" into a "relationship "?. There had to be some lead up before meaning you had a foot out the door before the other one ended.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 03:10 AM
1

Women are instinctively "fixers". What I have learned is reading the room and how you go about it that turns it from annoying nag to, like you said, inspiration. When men want our help, they will ask.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:41 PM
13

You can't have it "all" and most importantly, you don't really need or want it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 11:35 PM
1

Class A attention whore. Run.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 09:57 PM
1

My advice is dont put the cart before the horse. It can take time to get pregnant. Make yourselves (yes both of you) as healthy as possible. Eat clean, take supplements, and live well. Take it one day at a time and do not buy baby stuff or go crazy until into the 2nd trimester. Join a due date club via online forums or groups. They are so awesome for first pregnancies.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 01:30 AM
2

Talk to her, show her things, take her for moments alone together. Read hook and make it fun. Kids that young love repetition. Play silly games.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 04:58 PM
5

You are normal. Now stop and take stock of your life now. What is new is never easy. Remember you love him and your vows. Get some lubes and don't rush things, set a mood you enjoy. Have fun with creating this blank canvas that is your life together. Be honest and open and ask questions, you are in this together. Give yourselves both time to acclimate, but be open
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 02:14 AM
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I dont work out to look good in the gym. Looks are the last thing on my mind. The less attention I get the better. I am utilitarian. Capri leggings, sports bra and tee or tank.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/19 02:28 PM
2

It's all good. We all live, few of us learn.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/19 12:53 PM
1

Simple. Men and women are different.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 11:27 PM
1

Like what? I got into this knowing the responsibilities. I am past 40 and had a 13 yr marriage fail. Trust me. I learned from those mistakes.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 11:03 PM
3

Thanks sweetie!
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 07:20 PM
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Do differently? Nothing. We got here for a reason and it is my job to maintain status quo - stay fit, follow his lead, keep on cooking and most importantly never take his attraction or decision to be with me for granted. Learned that is important....There are no "innocent" interactions between men in women. You constantly have to have your guard up in your interactions with men and nip things quickly. Be the wall that protects your relationship. By doing this and especially while in his company …
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 07:18 PM
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Thanks. Seemed natural.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 01:03 AM
4

Eat as you normally would. Baby doesn't need "extra calories". Take folic acid and follow your doctor's advice. Use coco butter from week 10 and on, every day. It improves skin elasticity. Practice kegels.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 12:30 AM
7

Fractionated coconut oil. And yes its normal.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 06:14 PM
1

No one had their lives improved or changed habits by being coddled. We are wired to remember what hurts over what feels good. No, I am not saying bully people. But flat out honesty is the best kind of encouragement. Someone honest enough to tell you a harsh truth is being encouraging. They are trying to help. Self improvement is hard.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 12:51 PM
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I just got married to a high quality man and he puts me at a 6-7. Guess what. I can cook. I love taking care of others and I have found ways to make him happier than a 10 ever could. It matters who you are, but you still have to be presentable and do the work. Love is NOT unconditional.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 12:40 PM
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This sounds like it was written by a fat person looking for an excuse not to do the work. Guess what? The world judges books by their covers because 90% of the time it's a good assessment. DO WHAT IS HARD and the rewards will find you. The world doesn't judge you for things you have no control over. Your weight, appearance, and the way you present yourself to the world are under your control. Quit with the excuses and victimhood and hold yourself to a higher standard. If you want permission to b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 12:36 PM
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You guys are in a rut. You have two choices. 1. You can continue to emotionally divorce yourself. We all know this leads to long winded ugly end. Or 2. Change your behavior. Stop complaining and start solving. Set more boundaries and demand he does as well. Set expectations , make clear roles and responsibilities and tell him what you want out of your lives together. In turn, you have to turn off the resentment, envy, and the "breadwinner" attitude and go back to partnership mindset. Sounds like…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 01:27 PM
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I would just ignore them. You will find most men are cowards and too afraid to approach you directly.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/19 03:57 PM
2

Kratom helps some, sure protien can as well. I do not even drink coffee and prefer my supplements from the source...good food choices and a good night sleep. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 11:55 AM
2

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/is-there-really-any-benefit-to-multivitamins Johns Hopkins doesn't know what they are talking about I take it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 11:53 AM
1

Monk mode Terrible typos I'm sorry. On my honeymoon.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 08:18 PM
5

Short answer. Eat good food you cook. Or don't and eat raw. Most supplements are overkill bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 06:42 PM
8

Shame is powerful and meant to hold people to societal standards. When shame goes away, anything goes and the masses must swallow it or the script flips. There is no pride in shaming others, no power. But it is a necessary evil to maintain healthy standards of normalcy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 11:36 AM
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Honestly I was recommended monk mode here after a long term marriage divorce and it helped so much that I am now, 3 years later I am getting married to a great man tomorrow. You can recover if you give yourself time to reset and put what is important first. Validation is easy. Do what's hard and earn a man of value.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 12:54 PM
3

I had one ay 11 weeks and it broke my heart so much I stopped trying for children. I feel you and I am so sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 04:33 PM
1

It is not for everyone. I have found that the stress is worth it. But I stopped at one.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 06:22 PM
1

I agree. "Curvy" and "cute face" says nothing but possibly plump and pleasant.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 02:59 PM
1

You are looking for a guarantee that doesn't exist. Anyone can lose a job at any time. You want a rich guy you are saying, with generational wealth. Good luck with that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 02:52 PM
0

You can never afford a kid until you have one. You find ways to make it work. Your needs are no longer important. It just happens.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 01:03 PM
1

I did the pill, nuvaring (yuck), depo shot, all but the implant. It all sucks.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/19 01:00 PM
1

Right. I had to fight for years after "advanced maternal age" and completing my family.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/19 12:59 PM
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Getting sexual attention from men is shallow validation. That's why they need so much of it. Getting the attention and commitment from one high value Male is rare and the ultimate goal. You cant get there being an Instagram model.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 10:30 PM
1

Tied the tubes. Wonderful not dealing with hormonal influence or worries.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/19 04:39 PM
1

Damn, I dress up every time we have sex. He sends me pics of what he wants me to wear. He doesn't like me to be sexually aggressive, only playfully suggestive.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 11:52 AM
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2 month LTR? Is that even a thing? Already weaponizing sex? Dump her.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 12:18 AM
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You can be consultative without being aggressive. He does need to know you are listening and care. Asking questions and saying "I trust your judgement" is better. You want to engage without being pushy about your opinion. Give your thoughts. They might help.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/19 01:59 PM
1

You are asking for permission to crack the door to something you know isnt the right thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 11:35 PM
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So you don't care is she dresses like a slut at work, advertises herself, cheats, disrespects you out of your company so long as she acts right in your presence?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 12:11 PM
1

I am trying to give his disinterest the benefit of the doubt.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 06:44 PM
1

Is he on any medication or has he has his testosterone levels checked...does he take care of himself medically?
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 06:41 PM
3

Was this 5 day trip pre planned? Where did he go? He sounds like he is dealing with you, not loving you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 01:22 PM
2

Great comment here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 01:21 PM
3

Good warning. Do you have a restraining order or some kind of legal protection now?
/r/RedPillWives04/07/19 01:17 PM
2

The classic book How to win friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie helped me with this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 09:45 PM
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https://www.homechef.com/meals/caprese-mini-quiches is similar to what I make.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 02:05 PM
1

What school. Why is the post deleted?
/r/RedPillWives30/06/19 11:31 AM
1

Relax sweetie, I am on your side. I know you are in pain. When are you due?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 11:30 AM
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I wanted to be a mom because I had a great one. My child is 11 now. I wasnt ready when I found out I was pregnant...no one is ever ready. Brought out the best in me. And I had a great group of women online that helped me through the first 5 years.
/r/RedPillWives29/06/19 11:41 PM
1

Are you a journalist? Who are you?
/r/RedPillWives29/06/19 09:47 PM
1

This "what if" question is disingenuous. If he and I are together, out of respect, I speak to him and he relays my requests. It is not hard to understand. If I am alone, wait...why would I be in a cafe alone? Right. With a girl friend, sure, no big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 08:23 PM
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I do not mean it as an excuse. But the underlying cause can prevent it in the future. There are always 2 sides to the story.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 02:28 PM
0

I do not drink coffee.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 02:26 PM
1

"Ready or not, here I come, you can't hide" We have to rise to the tasks our bodies are worth. Life is life. I do not think men understand how much it transforms what women go through when becoming a mother.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 12:55 AM
2

Full access to all my accounts. No social media. Keylogger on my phone. Rations what I am allowed to drink. No talking to strange men in public including waiters. Decisions go through him. Stuff like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 09:41 PM
6

Sweetie, looks are just the door. My man says I am a 6 in the face, maybe a 7 with makeup and a 9 in the body. I do not take offense at all. I bring so much more to the table. I am over 40. He is younger. I have everything stacked against me yet I locked down a great man. Men get tired of running game and "spinning plates". Most men are happy to settle down with a quality woman. Problem is, they are far and few in between. I can hold an intelligent conversation, not be bitch, I can handle stress…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 09:37 PM
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Do you have any idea why he cheated? From my experience men cheat for sex, women cheat for more emotional reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 08:56 PM
3

I agree. You dont really hit your stride until they around 5 years old.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 08:53 PM
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Curious about what? Most would say he is controlling. He is not. He gives me viable choices. I can choose to follow his lead or not.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 08:52 PM
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Having kids is scary and expensive. It seems impossible. No woman is ready for her first kid until she pees positive. When your world flips you have no choice but to change your perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 06:46 PM
2

You stayed 3-4 times per week. That is different from 2x per day. On occasion that may be the case. On vacation I'll have sex 5xs a day. Big deal. He desires you more than you desire him. Maybe you dont love him as much as you think.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 04:37 PM
1

You said you have been together for 5 months but only sleep together every few months. Is this a long distance thing? Is he obese?
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 04:34 PM
1

Being overweight is bad for heart health. There are ways to get in shape without cardiac strain. Like not eating bad food. Are you also overweight?
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 12:38 PM
11

You are jaded and depressed. It will pass. Meanwhile, good luck with your cats.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 12:35 PM
2

I have to agree. I have a highly dominant man and if I gave details I would get backlash here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 12:31 PM
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I would avoid the word dominant. I would say something like a man who knows how to take charge and/or assert themselves in traditional ways.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 12:30 PM
3

Go to a place that shows MMA fights or Boxing. Skirt around predominantly male things without getting absorbed into or trying to insert yourself into them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 12:29 PM
1

No worries. Didn't mean to sting anyone. I tend to approach matters head on. Sugar coating lends to excuses.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 12:24 PM
1

Roomate complaints do not depend on the living/working situation. It depends on you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:59 AM
3

There are alot of long replies here, but I will break it down: side pieces want sex and are happy with just that. They are sluts willfully ignorant. They really do not mean anything to men other than a expression of sexual volition. To me it means you are not doing your job correct if you man takes one on. Sure he may want some strange now and then, but the root cause is you not meeting his needs. Both parties take ownership.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:52 AM
2

Saying NO to sex is the best way to get cheated on.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:43 AM
2

Let your man be the man and be happy and accept you are his woman. You have to trust him. You have to resolve issues in a calming way. Even today I had to say "Babe I think you are mistaken"...pertinent facts ... and he thought about it and came to a clear conclusion. Communicate with docility.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:42 AM
1

I was not being rude. I was asking for honest self reflection. We often slack off and not realize it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:35 AM
2

See if he will go to text, off platform.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 01:32 AM
5

From my experience, bachelor parties are just men letting off steam and bonding with one another. The women are entertainment, not the goal of the evening. I personally, am not threatened by strippers or women flirting or shaking their butt in front of man. He has been ther/done that and chooses me every night. I think you are more jealous of him going to Amsterdam without you than what might or might not happen. I would support him on this trip but explain to him that an experience together to …
/r/RedPillWives27/06/19 11:28 AM
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I was a line cook and sous chef for 5 years through college. I loved it, but not a feminine profession for sure. I wish I could take culinary classes just for fun. I love your passion! It is so rare to find women who not only master the art of simplicity but elevate it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:23 AM
3

I would do circuit training 3x a week (I use a trainer, female) and low carb/cal for 3 months. Also have your metabolism checked, including thyroid. Pregnancy can wreck havoc. Especially if you are RH-
/r/RedPillWives26/06/19 12:22 AM
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Do you have any background in cooking in restaurants? That sounds wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 12:15 AM
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I dont need to have the last word. I state my opinion when asked without arguing. I know when to shut my mouth. I keep "roomate" complaints to myself and see the big picture. I dont nit pick. He orders for me at restaurants, I speak to him, not the waiter. Same if other men are around us. I speak through him. I trust him to make good decisions. I go above and beyond without needing to be asked. I do not argue when he has complaints about me. I listen.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 11:42 PM
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I packed meds for headaches, tweezers, clippers, band aids, antacids, basically a what-if kit. Anything he needs I try to anticipate, even a sewing kit. I bought wire string led lights to decorate the room for ambiance. I baked goods and brought snacks for the trip. I also brought some new dresses for dinner and let him decide what to wear. The most important thing, go with the flow, let him take the lead, be flexible and pleasant.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 10:07 PM
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I made chicken parmesan (my fiancee's favorite) last night with enough for his lunch today. Tonight I am making Hawaiian burgers with pineapple, bacon and bbq sauce on Hawaiian buns. On deck this week is: steak teriyaki stir fry over rice; margherita chicken with cauliflower fritters; chicken with a tomato basil cream sauce; and a blue cheese steak salad. Breakfast this weekend is caprese quiches in puff pastry. Last week I cooked a garlic parmesan ranch encrusted chicken, chicken alfredo over l…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 09:56 PM
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The newness naturally dissipates but as long as the desire is there you're good.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 09:38 PM
2

I would focus on self care and losing that 40lbs to make yourself feel more yourself again.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 12:51 PM
3

I would take better pics and refine your profile with your honest intent and be true to it. Talk more before agreeing to a meet up, on the phone. Not text.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 02:53 AM
1

May I ask your age for context?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 02:18 AM
14

In my experience a man doesn't care how much you make, he cares about what womanly value you bring to his life. I have mostly out earned my life mate and it is a partnership. Take money out of the picture and approach relationships like that. Be respectful, kind, cook, be a good lover, pleasant, take care of yourself. Plenty of rich fat, crass spinsters out there.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 02:12 AM
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Do what you can and keep him happy. The little things matter long term. I was not being critical. It feels like asking questions here about accountability gets downvoted but that's ok. I mean well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 11:13 PM
2

Understandable. Is he mad one day out of 7?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 03:08 PM
2

My man works out of the home. I always pack lunch for work. Typically pre planned leftovers. I always make sure he has a portion and tell him how to prep it before I go. If not, I leave a list of lunch ideas on the fridge of options before I leave. It is a good gesture of love.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:40 PM
-11

Is he spoiled or have you gotten lazy?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:38 PM
5

Being cared for is so meaningful.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:37 PM
7

You are still a kid. Relax and be that. Cultivate good habits and it will come naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 06:37 PM
9

Thick skin kiddo. That is what it comes down to. Outwit, outplay, outlast. Be you and don't waver. True colors always come to light and at worst they will respect you in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 12:39 PM
1

Between 2 and 4 years.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/19 01:10 AM
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Grateful for my amazing job that provides well without stress for my family.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 11:10 PM
1

My bad. There is alot to unpack and men need to make their own conclusions. Rollo has my respect. But he made a mistake. We all do. But damn.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 02:41 AM
1

https://www.scribd.com/document/412763803/Statement-on-Removal-of-RT-From-21
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 02:35 AM
1

And... the truth come out https://youtu.be/Fd5dm3knRF0
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 11:44 PM
2

They are asking if you are a virgin or a born again virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 09:46 PM
1

Lol I have no idea
/r/RedPillWives02/06/19 08:34 PM
1

I actually heard Roosh talk about this on a podcast last week. It was pragmatic and interesting. Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4AhIB8xEMA
/r/RedPillWives02/06/19 04:56 PM
3

General advice, relax.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 02:26 PM
1

Because it is true. Being overactive on social media, posting pics and "flaunting" is a red flag to most men. It is perceived as a advertisement. So stay conservative and comment to only women, do not respond to men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/19 02:25 PM
-7

If you are on social media be a ghost. Do not interact, post pics, comments, etc. It is a slippery slope. High value men do not want a social media attention whore.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/19 02:16 PM
2

Honestly, you are on your own. If you happen to find like minded friends along the way in your interests and journey, great. But you will never bring others to your side of the red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 01:44 AM
2

"Men are not slot machines where you pull the sex handle until you win the relationship jackpot. " That's good!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/19 11:23 PM
2

FWB at 15? Yikes sweetie. You should not he throwing your sex or commitment away at all yet.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/19 11:21 PM
2

You sound young. It takes time and practice. My advice is to start dressing up for intimacy and at home and build up your confidence for going out. Do NOT dress up for work or casual outings alone. Only dress up and put it out there when with him. His desire and compliment is all you need to feel comfortable. Fake it till you make it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/19 12:57 PM
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Here here. I love carbs. And avoid them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/19 02:31 AM
3

I wear sundresses and tanks and skirts around the house.
/r/RedPillWives25/05/19 01:09 PM
1

Do you have more sexual experience than he does? Were you a virgin bride?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 12:40 AM
5

I work out with a female personal trainer 3x a week and it has make a huge difference! She comes to me and the exercises are simple and effective. Mostly circuit training. I also cook and eat clean for the family. I often skip dinner for myself and do intermittent fasting a few times a week. I am at my lowest weight since having kids a decade ago.
/r/RedPillWives23/05/19 12:27 AM
5

I agree with this. "Looking forward to tonight!" Should suffice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 11:32 PM
2

Also, mending clothes, and just knowing how to cook anything.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 11:01 PM
8

Protein, starch, veggie for every dinner. I have since dropped the starch/carbs for most meals. But well rounded meals stuck with me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 11:00 PM
1

By posting this you haven't learned shit. What the actual fuck.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 09:52 PM
1

Grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 09:51 PM
2

This is tough to argue with https://spectator.org/red-pills-and-red-hats/
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 11:11 AM
13

Fake it till you make it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 12:23 AM
2

Are you on hormonal birth control or any medication?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 09:18 PM
10

I don't understand it either. These things do not require talent or special knowledge. Just takes doing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 12:49 PM
3

Got engaged this month. Not a shit post but had to share lol. Yay!
/r/RedPillWives21/04/19 12:45 PM
1

Likely the most delusional post and replies I have read on here in a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/19 12:43 PM
3

Amused mastery works on all women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 03:08 PM
4

Cats are like sex partners. Too many of them will make a woman crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 10:53 PM
16

You are thinking like a man. That will bite you in the ass. Come back in 5 years and tell us how that worked out for you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:58 PM
16

" Got to live your dreams, and I won't put mine on hold for a man, when they're two a penny. " You have a lot of growing up to do and are clearly still influenced by the feminist lie. Good men are not a dime a dozen.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:57 PM
5

Right. It's like have multiple orbiters until you get tired enough to settle for one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:55 PM
13

Do not do this. That is horrible advice. Manipulation gets you dumped long term.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:54 PM
2

Not sure. Interview a few, ask for a 15 min introduction.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:52 PM
1

"We generally look for a mature man able to provide and ready to settle down and those obviously come with age" You said this. The truth is most 20 year olds are jumping on the carousel not looking to settle down. If a 20 year old woman wants this, older men are where they most likely will find it. It is not so far fetched, it is just uncommon. Young women rarely have the desire to think long term.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:38 PM
-2

Is Tom Brady repulsive?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:17 PM
1

You are right. What makes sense on "paper" is not often the reality.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:16 PM
2

You say that only because you aren't looking for high value 40 yr old men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:13 PM
0

Good for you. Describe your workouts.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 08:11 PM
4

Get a male therapist. The women unless they are over 45 are going to look down on rpw ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 12:24 PM
0

What are you doing to lose weight?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 12:22 PM
7

If you want to see how bad the messaging to young women is, go to a kids clothing store and read the tshirts. The LIE is profitable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 01:31 PM
4

Protect your sister.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 02:01 AM
3

You don't know how to trust.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 01:56 AM
1

Please define a "casual relationship".
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 01:21 AM
11

Please remember the optics aren't important as the relationship. Find a reasonably priced ring and find cost saving ways to hold a lovely wedding. You dont need a ton of stress starting out.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/19 11:09 AM
6

Mad men.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 11:28 PM
8

https://images.app.goo.gl/DcTx1RdUP4vhjJvk6
/r/RedPillWives16/03/19 11:24 PM
0

I worked at McDonald's for 3 years and never gained a pound. Stop making excuses. You make choices and YOU have to reconcile them. No outfit is going to make you look fit if you aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 11:19 PM
3

Don't you think a good man won't let himself get caught texting other women out of respect?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 10:34 PM
3

Thoughts on playful teasing: "How's your other girlfriend doing?" So he knows it is on your radar? But in a good natured way?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 09:32 PM
15

He is not red pill. He is an asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 10:19 PM
1

If this isn't a troll I don't know what is.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 02:48 AM
1

I agree. This is very vague. Often (cultural) traditional means of finding matches helps to find traditional relationships. It hard to advise with little info.
/r/RedPillWives02/03/19 12:37 AM
1

How would you describe your figure? Endo, ecto, mesomorphic?
/r/RedPillWives02/03/19 12:34 AM
1

What is your weight, height?
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 03:08 PM
9

Communicate. He doesn't know if you don't tell him. Do not out think the room or use "respect" as a roadblock. Just tell him how you feel. Talk about it.
/r/RedPillWives25/02/19 01:39 AM
1

I send my man with food when he travels or to him there... chex mix, magic cookie bars, cookies, any kind of unrefrigerated snacks he can rely on on the way.
/r/RedPillWives25/02/19 01:35 AM
2

Send him batches of food.
/r/RedPillWives24/02/19 03:41 PM
5

Most women aren't so self aware that they realize they are being dishonest. Women lie to themselves often, more so than to men. Being self aware is a quality men should look for. It is rare. Anyone can be self reflective...hindsight is 20/20. I like the 'in the moment' quality of her response.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 03:35 PM
1

There are many topics I could write about personally from their submission guidelines. There may be some good bits.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 02:11 PM
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Too much too soon. If you just meet a guy and he sends you flowers or a gift it's weird. Over investing without reciprocation is a sign of desperation.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 11:15 PM
2

Got it. Thank you. I fear echo chambers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 12:54 AM
1

I do not understand the downvotes. Can someone elaborate on what I said was wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 04:43 PM
1

Most times libido drops due to insecurity. He saw this come out of me? How can he ever find that desireable? If you feel ready, go for it! Kegels are your friend. You dont need fancy shit to tighten your pelvic floor afterbirth. Squeeze when you drive, twist in your chair when you sit at work. Kick ass in an at home workout program (I loved slim in 6 by beachbody). Doing something for yourself will make you feel sexier and confident and more like yourself. So you had a kid...so what? You are sti…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 04:40 PM
1

TRP doesn't make men insecure. It makes them hyper aware. I have a friend who complained about her man not wanting her to look good at home. Turns out, they had 2 other male roommates. No wonder.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 01:46 PM
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I crave his affection and his dominance makes me relax. Honestly, relaxed is a great way to put it. He demands my best and I love him for it. I wouldn't be as good of a woman as I am today, without him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 01:38 PM
1

Time. Time is the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 01:36 AM
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There has to be more to the story. How have you behaved in the past when you are out with him all "dressed up"? This type of response is typically because something happened or a pattern of behavior when you do certain things that raises his own red flags. Do you act more boldly, talk to other men, overall act out of line? This is something to reflect upon. No man wants to take out a frumpy woman unless when she is looking good she acts disrespectful. Something to think about before putting the …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 02:08 PM
2

Thanks for sharing. I know I am not alone. I am here to help others as well. Wish you all the best.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 01:16 PM
1

Understanding what went wrong in my 20 year relationship and 15 yr marriage ending in divorce woke me up. When your man lays down for any circumstance and gives up, you have to stand up and run the family. The why doesn't matter, the fact is, it doesn't work. I never wanted to make that mistake again. I felt lied to. I choose poorly. Not again.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 12:32 AM
1

Twitter too. 2.5 yr LTR. No interest in marriage at my age. Happy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 03:03 AM
1

You cant live in a ring. I wore a band for over a decade and never felt bad about it. Save the money.
/r/RedPillWives05/02/19 02:08 AM
4

How does ones health crash? Can we shed a little light on this?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 11:49 PM
19

This is true of almost all birth control. Women do have a sex drive dip in their mid 20's or after securing a relationship. Hope you feel better regardless and you all take care, protect your sexual drive health.
/r/RedPillWives01/02/19 11:43 PM
5

Lovely post. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 11:28 AM
2

She never said she was a feminist or that she hates women's rights. Relax. She just feels that being a traditional stay at home mom is demonized by modern day feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 12:19 PM
3

I agree 100%. I read a blog post that addressed this harshly and a Ted talk from Ester Perel that says you man has a role and friends are for support and the danger of expecting too much from your man to fulfill all needs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 09:31 PM
3

I have to agree. I am sorry :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 09:27 PM
1

The further the distance the less of a 'problem' this is. You should be honest, truly honest, and it may be a deal breaker but it is what it is. You cant build a relationship on a lie. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWives26/12/18 07:48 PM
1

How close do you live to your family?
/r/RedPillWives26/12/18 07:31 PM
3

I think you took one word to an extreme.
/r/RedPillWives25/12/18 03:25 AM
2

That isn't my quote.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/18 03:42 AM
1

The same could be said that in marriage a man's assets and livelihood are on the line via alimony and support when married. I feel marriage benefits women more than men from a legal standpoint rather than a stability one.
/r/RedPillWives16/12/18 02:53 PM
1

Right, but if your woman has already checked out, there is no saving the marriage. File the papers and damage control. Women tend to live life on easy mode and the easier you make it the worse your life will become.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/18 02:45 PM
2

Yeah Op. He is no Captain.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/18 05:41 AM
3

Good reply
/r/RedPillWives15/12/18 05:38 AM
2

A good man is a dictator and you are on board or you are not. He does listen to reason but you need to be clear and concise.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/18 05:36 AM
1

https://www.realredpillwoman.com/rpw/pets-are-not-children
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 03:00 PM
1

Then why connect with them?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:30 AM
1

You are a geek attracting other geeks. Why is this a revelation?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:28 AM
1

Your dr is lying to you. Mirena
/r/RedPillWives02/12/18 07:14 AM
13

Create a schedule for yourself and stick to it. Set goals and a plan each day towards those goals.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 06:58 PM
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Roast beef with roast carrots and broccoli.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 10:03 PM
8

It's been almost 3 years for me. My life has drastically changed. I locked down a strong man who has helped me with my work, health, family and all around life. Things are finally as they should be. It's not easy, it's great and worth working. I am grateful.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/18 07:27 PM
1

Do you have children?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/18 03:59 AM
1

I cant believe a dr did it to a 23 yr old. I had to fight for it at 39.
/r/RedPillWives12/11/18 02:26 AM
7

I find it pretentious that you feel divorce is her only option. Sounds like you are the cancer. Help her through it when she finds out but keep your opinion and self out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/18 09:04 PM
5

He is a doctor who smokes?
/r/RedPillWives10/11/18 02:23 AM
1

No updates for awhile but I like realredpillwoman and notesfromaredpillgirl both .com
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/18 10:53 PM
2

Intermittent fasting.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 05:57 PM
3

If you are off the market who cares about your SMV. Now can you get your body back? Yep. Will the pussy go back? Yep, sometimes even better since you have to do kegels to restrengthen your pelvic floor. You have to take care of yourself during and after pregnancy and get regular bloodwork to check for any hormone imbalances (like thyroid). Workout during pregnancy and dont use it as an excuse to eat anything you want. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 03:39 PM
2

Exchange sexual innuendo texts. Send him naughty pics when you can. Be the girlfriend and the wife.
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 02:39 AM
2

Sex is mental with women , physical with men. Mix it up, get out of your comfort zone. Prepare for it, get made up for bed. I know when I feel blah, my drive is blah.
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 02:37 AM
1

It's common to have a lull at this phase of life. Mind over matter. Create your own reality and yes, the more sex you have the more you will rev the engine back up. Do you find yourself not wanting sex until you are actually having sex?
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 02:10 AM
1

Be a woman and tell him how you feel and show him with your actions. If he means it, he will say it back when he is ready.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/18 02:06 AM
1

The right ssri wont affect it. How do you get ready for sex? Is there any forethought ?
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 02:04 AM
1

Are you near 25?
/r/RedPillWives03/11/18 02:02 AM
5

Give yourself allowances. There is no messing up when you work hard. Perfection is a problem, flexibility is key to dicipline. I do think getting off social media and connecting with your friends in real life is the healthiest route. Good for you for making changes. Prepare yourself if you meet a high value man who doesn't want marriage if no children are involved.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 11:50 PM
1

He should have doesn't mean he cant. FMLA allows it within the first year.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 12:42 AM
5

I think about it this way, they are family, your childs village, and trying to help. Setting boundaries should have been done early on. It isn't too late and you cannot give yourself over to others having an imprint on a child who will look to you as #1 the rest of their lives. I had a colic baby too. It is exhausting. Talk to your pedi, antacids can help. Also, thank and embrace the women around you who want to help but control it by telling them how....and that is to support YOU and not the ba…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 01:56 AM
1

Honestly, I would talk to a behavioral therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 01:29 AM
3

Take your time!!! Get off dating sites and go monk. Understand why your engagement failed. Clear your baggage.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 03:03 AM
8

She is projecting. Live your life. Do not let her pull you down with imaginary wild oats or the yolo nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 03:01 AM
1

I agree with this 100 percent
/r/RedPillWives19/10/18 07:03 AM
10

I had a this recently. We never know truly, how much we matter to our men. They are resilient and will survive without us. But we make their lives so much better.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 06:56 AM
1

Does he drink?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 11:07 PM
1

A no is a maybe until you leave.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 07:08 PM
5

Yeah, she sleeps above the covers. 5 feet above the covers!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 07:03 PM
2

Live and learn and move forward a better person. Write about your experience, your mistakes and how you will be better. Reread it when these self abusive thoughts happen. Don't rewrite history to absolve yourself. Own it and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 07:02 PM
11

This. EVERYONE I know who paid for an expensive wedding wishes they chose otherwise. It is ONE day. A home can last your entire marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 06:59 PM
4

I think we are confusing SMV vs RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 01:27 AM
1

I had a nursing gown that was feminine yet functional.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 01:25 AM
3

I dress to the 9's when I want his attention and to turn him on. Otherwise yoga capris and top is fine. I never leave the house without him looking better than at home casual.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 01:24 AM
5

Burr is great. I also like Tom Segura and Bert Kreisher.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 06:03 PM
1

I like cooking light and sports illustrated (my man is into sports and it makes good fodder for conversation).
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 12:51 PM
2

Very important. I do acrylic cause it lasts longer and I cook a lot. He pays for it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 12:48 PM
1

The saying "Lady in the sheets, Freak between the sheets" exists for a reason. Be both.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 12:47 PM
2

I like this article on the topic https://www.realredpillwoman.com/rpw/a-red-pill-womans-guide-to-the-workplace
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 12:33 PM
0

And downvotes mean they felt a sort of way. Red pill thinking often goes against the grain.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 02:29 AM
1

Right. People assume the worst, extreme.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 02:28 AM
4

Signed but wtf on the suggested petitions?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 01:56 AM
1

Look. I wear leggings or jeans with a long top with sneakers or flats to work. I look like a woman. I don't wear anything above the knee. Ever. No v-necks, modest. You can look feminine and not advertise. Should I say, only look HOT when you are with your man? I assumed that was obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 01:48 AM
-1

No one is talking extremes here. Stop with the apex fallacies. I can be professional and look feminine without a dress and heels. I save those for when I am with him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 12:45 AM
1

Save your best self for your man. Otherwise you are advertising...and you know it. I dress down for work and dress up when I get home.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 11:46 PM
1

Save your best self for your man. Otherwise you are advertising...and you know it. I dress down for work and dress up when I get home.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 11:46 PM
-12

If you look like a lady, you get treated like one. Good for you. Just remember to only do it when you are with your man.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 03:25 AM
1

Agree.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 10:39 PM
1

I tried to listen but it all Patreon. How do you all listen?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 08:21 PM
3

He uses an app to track it. He knows whats up before I do lol.
/r/RedPillWives31/08/18 02:11 AM
3

I go to bed early and wake up early every day. I do cardio 3-5 days a week. I tan. Oh wait? Love these things? Naw...look and feel better because of them? Absolutely.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/18 12:36 PM
1

Men weren't part of the process a long time ago because death was common. This is why family doesn't attend surgeries. Things have changed and evolved. It was not about desire. It was protecting patients. With spinal blocks and epidurals, suffering is a choice.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 01:54 AM
5

Blood and guts? Lol. Have you ever attended a birth?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 12:52 AM
1

Shaming language... lol. You can put a baby in her but can't stand the heat when it is time to reap what you sow? You sound like a woman, dodging responsibility because it might "kill the magic". Hearing "It's time to push" is the scariest thing a woman can hear. To not have her man by her side can also deeply seed resentment and have a negative impact on marriages. Pick your poison. #staynorthoftheborder
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 12:50 AM
1

What does this poat have to do with abundance mentality, and women in particular?
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 11:18 PM
1

You can be there for your wife and not HAVE TO WATCH the actual delivery. Keep your focus on her and let the DR know your wishes. In the day and age of epidurals, the male punching bag thing doesn't always happen either. I never got to that point. My husband never saw a drop of blood and got to announce the baby's gender. It was bonding for him with our child. You, lonliness-inc are a piece of work. Grow the hell up.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 11:14 PM
3

Reading: How to win friends and influence people. Watching: Insecure Making: Sausage gravy and buscuits for breakfast in the morning for the first time!
/r/RedPillWives19/08/18 01:17 AM
6

This statement is another way of stating the golden rule. "Do unto others as you woukd have done unto you". People are stupid for being upset about this. Reflect on the other wall the opposite... Act like a gentleman and she will act like a lady... ooohhh scandal!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 01:14 AM
10

Read "How to win friends and influence people" to curb your selfishness and understand how people think.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 01:42 AM
0

It is difficult for a matured divorced mother to understand that mem in their early 20's and are underdeveloped and not ready for marriage. If she had picked a man 30-40 things may have turned out differently.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 11:01 PM
5

Same here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 10:52 PM
6

Steak and a BJ. Haha works everytime.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/18 07:12 PM
2

He was the first person I had sex with (sorry if TMI). How many other guys have you had sex with?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 12:49 AM
0

Be a nurse practitioner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:24 PM
3

My boyfriend, in addition to his job, is a musician It's not his job. It's his hobby. "My boyfriend, in addition to his job, is a musician"
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:21 PM
24

"He doesn't want you there because he's planning on cheating on you with a groupie/he's invited some other girl(s) to go and wants to appear single." This is likely it. When he initially said you could come he forgot and made other plans or promises. You being the for one show isn't the basis of stress. The whole tour? Maybe. A normal response is for him to take pride in seeing him in his element and respecting him for being great at what he does. Something is amiss. I would respond that you wou…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:19 PM
6

I am usually very kind but seriously ... WHAT THE FUCK??? That aside, you state "even though it doesn't turn me on in ANY way shape or form, and I'm actually already accepting of it". Do you not realize that fetishes escalate? Where are you willing to draw the line? Honestly, if you don't like it, you will end up resenting him. Do you still respect him? How will you feel in 5 years when you can't even shit alone and have to feel like a humiliated piece of garbage in order to please him? It turns…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:11 PM
9

You need therapy before dating again or you will carry this baggage on someone who doesnt deserve it. You are a good, loving person. Value yourself. Set boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:32 AM
7

That would be any red pill guy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 12:19 AM
2

Generic zoloft helps with PMDD alot with no side effects.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 11:15 AM
3

You are an adult. You are educated and you make a decent living. You decided to have sex, knowing this was a possible outcome. Put on your big girl panties and mom up. No one is ever "ready" and no situation is ever "ideal". A healthy baby is a blessing and the meaning of life. Make the most of it, you got this.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 03:56 PM
53

The answer is an emphatic YES. Avoid the cock carousel, form a healthy social circle or join a mommy group for support and stay focused and open to love. I come from the point of view of your child, similar situation. My mom remarried when I was very young and they are still together, had more kids. Wonderful marriage. Hold out for the best and focus on being a wonderdul mother and kind person. Do not compare yourself to the stereotypical "single mom" who demonstrates irresponsibility. Wish you …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 12:31 PM
3

It is hard enough keeping one person happy. And diseases. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 12:25 PM
1

I can't believe you still think she "lost her virginity" ~2 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 04:57 PM
5

Yes. I have. Make up your mind and do it. Do not rely on him to hold ypu accountable. Do it for yourself.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 01:57 AM
3

Be afraid of saying what is on his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:45 AM
3

VLCD and HCG (not drops) works. Phase 3 or off VLCD, low cal keto (no sugar, processed food and under 30net carbs) and eliptical or spin 30mins a day.
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 08:27 PM
14

Porn is not real. I fail to see a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:31 PM
2

This is disingenuous and you know it She dresses up for herself first,him second. She is fishing for attention.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 02:29 PM
23

The cock carousel is a saying for a reason. Women can get laid as easily as breathing. Men can't. Define a "phase". Because women can have a month long phase and notch 8 counts. Men can have a year long phase with the same body count. You can't compare apples to oranges. Men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:33 PM
-4

If you are noticing other men noticing you your eyes are wandering too much and your man is not your focal point. This is a red flag and a turn off for men. Ask him to order for you. Ask him to do simple easy things. Let him know you want him to, not that you need him to.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:03 PM
14

For dates, change your look. What you feel is dressing up may not be IT for him. Think heavy red lipstick, eye makeup. Wear something that makes YOU uncomfortable and heels so high you HAVE to hold his arm to walk. Finish the night coming out in bedroom only heels and something so sexy he instantly reacts. Make HIM notice You. He won't stop.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 12:59 PM
2

https://youtu.be/ehbufoHTl1M Red Man Group with Rollo on thia topic
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 12:51 PM
1

It sounds to me like he either is being too hard on himself or is trying to live up to some projected expectation of what life should be. I would reassure him when appropriate that he is a great father, a wonderful husband, he is doing it right. Give him opportunities to enjoy the little things and talk about how wonderful they are later, to highlight them in his memories. He may be preoccupied by responsibility to recognize them.
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 12:48 PM
2

Just ask him what he is doing for lunch or if he knows of a good place.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:54 PM
10

A femcel would either be a cat lady or a voluntary celibate.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:29 PM
1

Also wanted to say I hope your thyroid condition is resolved. Mismanaged thyroid disorders can be lethal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:20 PM
2

I wasn't offended either. But I've never seen this approach before so I wondered if it is genuine. I am happy I asked or I would have blown it off as jaded and suspect.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:18 PM
1

Thank you. Won't happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 05:28 PM
2

I've maintained my recent weight loss but I've stalled. I need to get aggressive about it again. I have reached out to two women at work and opened up more, forming valuable allies after a very rough week for us all. This will pay off in the coming months. I'm glad to no longer feel alone or blindsided. I have been doing great with financial planning and budgeting.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 05:26 PM
2

This was where my mind went as well. I think she could benefit from a therapist. You can't expect or accept love from anyone when you have none for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 05:22 PM
1

Thank you, I believe it is fixed now. Please let me know if there is anything else I need to do.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 05:16 PM
2

Ok thanks. I will have to edit on desktop as this app has no option. I appreciate the opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:21 PM
1

I do appreciate your honesty. It is not easy, this is a tough crowd with alot of good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:20 PM
1

Does he have access to your phone, gps, email and social media accounts? How transparent are you really being.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:19 PM
1

You are going to have to withstand it. As long as he is still voicing his feelings, he still CARES about you. Don't argue, say you know, you are sorry and stay strong inside.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:17 PM
1

This is actually good advice, HOWEVER, get his opinion first and tell him you want to be m his ideal you. A version of yourself his own. Self improve to your ultimate, for him. Tell him you want his guidance to become the wife he is proud of again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:15 PM
1

You have two choices. Weather the storms and know he may never get over his pain. Or give up and walk away. Try to see where he is coming from and start anticipating his needs more. Be proactive, be your best consistently and mean it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:13 PM
2

This is awesome! It will last a lifetime and the physical result of a labor for his love is a gift that keeps on giving.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:09 PM
1

I am thankful for a man who is balanced. You really have to accept the good with the bad. Appreciate the good, mitigate the bad, love the whole.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:07 PM
3

That I agree with. It is just a harsh way of putting it. Do people listen to tough love? For me, I found it motivating but it is not the way I would say it. Then again, people gloss over most sugar coating.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:03 PM
1

Too late to fix?
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:00 PM
1

Sorry. Went to edit and see its removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 01:59 PM
3

I agree. Most people don't want to hear that they aren't putting in the work. They think they should just be 'loved for who they are'.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 02:17 AM
2

Women of color aren't inherently low value. Men speak in majority and you can't take it personally if you are the exception. The world is not black and white. Don't devalue yourself. Hold yourself to a high standard and you will attract the same. And don't put out for players.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 12:38 AM
1

Yes, this but limited. It has to he transparent and non invasive.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 11:37 PM
16

"I lied to make you happy and life unnecessarily more difficult for us. You're welcome." What a S*** Show.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/18 06:49 PM
10

This is correct. Of all the couples I know who have done it, only 1 has survived. And they are 40+ with no kids.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 02:17 PM
1

Yes. We all have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 11:34 PM
11

Let him know he is not at work anymore. You need him to be your partner, not adversary.
/r/RedPillWives04/07/18 12:47 AM
1

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/r/RedPillWives03/07/18 10:13 PM
14

Men aren't looking for the 'life of the party' in a woman. They like a woman who is stable, so in your case, your definition of 'boring' is a good thing and I don't see anything wrong with it. As you get to know someone and you learn about his interests, you can then take it on to yourself to learn more about it and hold conversations with him going forward. The other commenters are correct. A woman can be a hard 10 and if she goes on and on about dumb stuff she may think is 'interesting' a man …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 02:29 PM
1

I have a question. What age should girls start shaving or using a cream to get rid of hair on their legs? Noticeably dark hair. Kids these days will make fun of girls with hair legs at younger ages, and now that it's summer time, I'm wondering if I should start giving into her requests. There are older kids at her camp that may tease her. Help!
/r/RedPillWives29/06/18 09:52 PM
0

That is a valid concern. I would make it clear no one with any illness is allowed around the baby, handwashing is a must befote interacting with baby, any kind of cough must wear a mask in your home and keep lots of hand sanitizer around. Talk to a pediatrician and breastfeed if you can to pass on your immunities. If you feel strongly about adult vaccines please get a letter from the doctor. Honestly, you can be smart but try not to be paranoid or you will go crazy with worry. Babies are fairly …
/r/RedPillWives24/06/18 02:06 PM
3

did you do an in person class with your husband? Was it helpful? We did a one night birth prep class. It terrified me and nothing they told me happened, but still glad I did it. are/were you a part of a breastfeeding mother's group? Was it helpful? No. But I did have an online mommy group/due date club that was tremendous. how did you handle unvaccinated people & your child prior to their six month vaccinations? This is less common than you may think. Most adults are fully vaccinated and if you …
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 10:47 PM
2

HLH here, by choice and by acquired disposition. He is very dominant and loving and a proud leader. I am very accomplished at work but not assertive, I get along well with the people I manage and work with. I could be that person, but I choose to live my life low key and focus on performance and accountability. I have a high tolerance for my man and willing submit to him, and only him. He does not steer the ship astray and doesn't ever fall asleep at the helm. I trust him implicitly. We have a g…
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 07:40 PM
1

I can see this being the case as well. I think your response was likely you didnt know he wanted to marry you, right? :) I would not worry about it. Have a talk with him upon his return and express you were both flustered and flattered and if he was serious, it needed a deeper conversation. I do think he misses you and want's to make sure you will be there when he returns.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 07:26 PM
4

We eat clean avoiding boxed/bagged carbs and processed foods. He leans keto, I lean low calorie. It works for us and we all eat well.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 01:17 PM
2

How will that sustain a year? And he will think, who else is she sending photos to?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:12 AM
2

This is outdated advice when we have live video chat.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:09 AM
0

Seriously, wtf.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:08 AM
3

My cavalier king charles spaniels say otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:03 AM
1

What does he plan to do with that degree? You do not need a degree to be sucessful. You need ambition and drive.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:01 AM
2

I disagree that 90% of men have no interest in being the custodial parent if 50% custody solves the child support issue. If a woman cannot support herself and children half the time, she doesn't deserve the thought of full custody. In modern times it is RARE for one salary to cover the needs of a family. Health care alone will rob you blind. 2 parent working house holds are the norm. So a woman's income is always on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:54 PM
2

Ah, you did state that, I apologize, I was unaware of the differences. I am used to making eggs into little pigs and cheese into pandas, haha. Beyond leftovers, which are great...thats what I eat every day and make for my man who works at home. For on tue go, salads, chicken salad sandwiches and deconstructed burgers are go-tos. Only use containera for wet items or those needing reheating.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 01:50 AM
1

My man I have have a "financial summit" about once a month where we plan out our financial calendar, what comes in and out. It started using 2 calendar white boards and planning the first 2 months, then eaxh mon the roll over, new dates and deaslines. It makes it clear to each whether finances are combined or separate, what is coming in and going out. This transparency is a must if you accept his help and want to prove you are responsible. Saving at the end is always the goal, so save receipts a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/18 11:02 PM
1

I want to follow up on a few things. I am now down 15lbs in 5 weeks! Eating clean. Half way there way ahead of schedule! No stopping now! Did my spin class this week. I got my raise! Moving further into upper management which is great. Took some hits this past week. Lost a family member. Got bad news about another's health (terminal). Good news about another. 1 of my direct employees gave 2 weeks notice but is positive. It was a commute thing. All will be well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/18 10:53 PM
1

Bento boxes are super fun, but more for children than men. Does he have access to a fridge and microwave? You may want to consider disposable containers and ziplocks if he is hit or miss about bringing them home.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 10:43 PM
6

I agree with the calming of negative thought patterns. When you feel yourself doing this, yell from the diaphragm loud "STOP!" And understand that there are more positives to you than negatives. Focus on what you can control and congratulate yourself on the small goals and milestones you set for yourself and allow them to motivate you. Finally, let go of 'perfect'. It doesn't exist. Focus on wanting to feel great and knowing your man is attracted to you and loves what you are doing. It is rare w…
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 10:26 PM
1

I have modified a lot due to my man leaning keto so eggs, steak, chicken, Bacon, and a ton of veggies. Amond milk, almond flour, stevia, spices and coffee. With some cooking wines and a few sauces, I can make most anything. I lean to the low fat low calorie side due to my size so I portion accordingly. Carbs are melba toast, grissini sticks, and flatbreads. I may bake some whole grain tortillas for chips in the air fryer when we want something crunchy which is good with hummus. It is a happy mix…
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 01:32 AM
9

I agree. If I am welcomed, I will be jumping ships as well. A lot seems off over there.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 01:24 AM
3

I understand what you are saying. I was only giving example as perspective and my take on it, not a personal experience. I appreciate yours as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/18 01:14 AM
2

Exactly. Unless you are willing to self analyze and actualize your findings, you are destined to repeat your mistakes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/18 12:48 AM
2

You are correct.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 11:42 PM
4

Thank you so much for sharing. He sounded like a great person and so do you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 11:10 PM
5

Good stuff, thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 11:00 PM
16

Wow, I had no idea TRP had any vested interests in RPW. Thanks for the info. That is super weird.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 10:54 PM
4

I think after a certain age men do not bother asking, they just assume and go by your behaviour because that is the only barometer they can trust.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 10:37 PM
2

Exactly. She did not listen to him. Of course he is going to feel disrespected! I think this example is a microcosim of what is really going on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 10:30 PM
10

Sometimes that is the best you can ask for. :( Any examples in your family or life or husbands are also welcomed!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 10:25 PM
3

Oh yeah. Once upon a time I thought I wanted "a man who matched me in all respects!". What an idiot I was.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 10:20 PM
1

Eeek. I have been guilty of backseat driving. It took my man yelling at me to STFU and pull over for me to drive to get the message. I have since learned to bite my tongue and now I do not have the urge much of the time. Show trust and he will show confidence. As he learns he can only get better. Buckle up!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 10:16 PM
2

Welcome. I am happy you have learned from your experience and have not lost the love and drive that it takes to be better. Truthfully, we were all lied to, so don't take it too hard. Knowing what does not work can work in your favor and keep you vigilant. I wish you all the best and happy you have you here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 09:50 PM
1

I do not think it takes low self esteem to suffer being alpha widowed but if one cannot take their lumps and learn to be better, as with any type of relationship, they are doomed to repeat their mistakes rather than improve. This pattern of repetition is what is most damaging to ones esteem. Regardless of the reasons a relationship fails, it is my feeling that we each have to process and understand our role and responsibilities as to why it failed. Only then can we learn to grow and move forward…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 09:44 PM
3

I agree. However in the eyes of the alpha widow, the average guy isn't going to 'do it' for her anymore. Context is important.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 09:36 PM
8

In my eyes, and 'alpha widow' experiences feelings that no other man will be 'man enough'. She felt safe, had to work for his attention and be accountable, and was rewarded for good behavior. Then she dates men who let her get away with things the other man did not and automatically loses respect/interest in them. 95% of men will never give her tingles. It is not always about money or status. It is about the way a man makes you feel. That is my take on it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 05:42 PM
1

There are no caucasion americans here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 12:50 AM
1

Look up tattoo lightening creams.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 08:27 PM
3

Point taken. I was unaware. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 08:26 PM
3

I understand better now, thank you. I find it highly disrespectful of him, and I am so sorry you are facing this at such an important time. I hope he wakes up, apologizes with his heart and future actions.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 08:25 PM
1

So this is an ongoing thing?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 03:25 PM
3

Got my vote!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 12:05 PM
2

Thats the way to do it! Much the same here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 12:03 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 12:01 PM
3

I worked my way through college as a sous chef. Worked 2 jobs starting out as reception for an IT company. Learned HTML in my own time and moved into online marketing and webmastery. That was 1997. Been doing that for a few companies over the years since. I now manage the marketing team doing analytics, SEO and PPC for a number of clients at a IT company with 500 employees. I love it. I am still on the way up.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 12:00 PM
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I understand the insecurity that sets in during pregnancy and postpartum. It often leads to depression amd everything magnified. Please keep perspective and know this-- YOU are having his child, he comes home to YOU every night. Talk to him about what you witnessed and how you feel. Clear the air. How he responds will tell you where to go from. You mentioned he was drinking. That also magnifies behavior. In the end, he high 5ed her. That shows he drew a line. To me, that is a good thing. Look, m…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 11:52 AM
3

A behavioral therapist is not expensive and can help so much to break negative thought patterns. 200$ for 2 sessions a month without insurance.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 01:29 AM
1

Herself. Her health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:03 AM
2

Thanks! :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 12:32 AM
11

Delete all your social media. Get off the sauce. It ruins relationships and makes you unhappy. Men trust women who don't seek validation online. Tinder and POF is a mistake. Want to meet a quality man? Persue quality interests.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 08:31 PM
3

This is great advice. Learning to be confident without external validation will truly help your selection process as well. You are obviously not ready to be dating. Take time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 01:27 PM
7

Thats great! Keep up the good work! I am also making weight loss strides with 13 lbs down since May 1. Keep on!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 12:34 PM
1

It is a witch hunt.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:37 PM
9

Thats awesome. My man often tells me he wants me to be the soft pilliow he lays his head down on, not a wall or rock to hit his head against. Being together through growth and challenges shows true colors and builds a solid foundation. Growth is not a weakness, settling for OK is.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 06:30 PM
1

Unfortunately, some men just have that nature and it is not a reflection on you. It sucks. Vett carefully if that is an all ending dealbreaker for you. There is NO excuse for cheating. But it does not always mean he doesn't love you. A careless or frivilous cheater does not consider your feelings or investment and should be left, always.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 04:43 PM
3

Honestly, consistency is what most men crave. Be the woman he fell in love with, always. Dress up for sex, not just a date night...and yes, those are important too. Act like a dating couple always.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 04:39 PM
2

I buy my swimwear here https://www.doll.com/ the runched cheeky bottoms are a perfect compromise. This one has pineapples! https://www.doll.com/laguna-blush-gold-pineapple-classic-bikini-top-panama-blush-gold-pineapple-classic-bikini-bottoms
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:54 PM
2

You are off the mark here. This isn't a naggy girlfriend situation. This is way deeper than that. Both parties may have faults, but this man is not being a man. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:47 PM
9

Unacceptable. Have you searched his car? Addicts are superbly capable of hiding their habits.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:45 PM
2

One more thing....he is the male example you are setting for these children. Is that ok with you? Hard questions.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:39 PM
1

Look, you are already putting up with unacceptable behavior. You cannot love someone you don't respect, and every minute he spends willingly apart from you, it builds resentment and disrespect. If you have a no drinking in the house rule, pull it and really see what happens. Give him rope to hang himself. If he is hiding his drinking you have 2 choices, go out and confront him or call the cops...drinking in a running car, even parked, is illegal.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:37 PM
1

Can I ask what predicated the downfall of his previous relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:34 PM
1

This isn't about you being good enough, given you both have responsibilities, is he holding up his end? Talk won't fix this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:31 PM
2

This. Dress up for 'bed' and become the archetype...lady in the street, !#?$% between the sheets. Get some outfits for sex and do the double eyeliner and feed his desire. You dont have to go to work like that, just for him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:21 AM
2

Cowardly bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:11 AM
1

I agree. Even if you have your own issues to take ownership of, as lonelines-inc implied, the way he treats his kid tells all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:10 AM
1

Do the gaslighting comments remind you of your dad?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 02:06 AM
5

Not. Sexually. Compatible. It will build resentment and disrespect if you try. Can't gloss over this stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 01:46 AM
1

I am guessing trailer or small apartment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 01:34 AM
1

Damn.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 01:33 AM
1

Do you also drink?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 01:30 AM
2

This is tough. My first thought was drugs or an affair, however after reading more of the comments, he is a classic alcoholic. The truth is, there cannot be an alcoholic captain. An impaired captain cannot make good decisions. It sounds like he is using you to take care of his kid and home. He is using you to drink and by letting this go on, you are enabling him. Stop. Get a plan and get out. You cannot depend on him to take care of himself. To be a dad. To obey the law. To make good decisions. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 01:15 AM
2

Think of all the things you have lied about. Do not jutify them, understand them. If it is insecurity, explain it calmly. If it is fear, ask yourself why and question if this is the right person for you. If it is mistrust in him or men, figure out the root cause. You need alone time as well. Write this stuff down. A baby cannot have PARENTS that are not cohesive. Problem solve. This isn't about how you feel right now. It is about how much you are willing to change to correct your own faults.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:25 AM
1

One other question. Do you love him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:18 AM
1

Can I ask your age and length of this relationship? Why is he talking to your ex pretending to be you? Fact checking? Does he doubt paternity? Give him space and calm down. Ground yourself and be honest. The truth is rarely pretty but it helps to level the playing field, so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:18 AM
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You are insubordinate and cannot follow simple rules, it sounds like. Are these rules in place for a reason? It sounds like there is a lot of mistrust and lack of disrespect on all sides. Being pregnant doesn't give you a pass. Tell us more about the rules you cannot seem to follow and why they are in place.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 12:42 AM
3

Delete
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 12:39 AM
5

I do not understand this post. Can you provide specifics?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 12:28 AM
2

My bad. Don't wanna start drama.
/r/RedPillWives07/06/18 12:31 AM
2

I saw a women who mentioned she was divorced after 15+ years and in a new LTR after a few years to regroup, she was there to improve (she said). She was ripped apart for her past situation and for giving advice against what doesn't work. It was weird. Maybe it was here or RPW, don't remember. One would think the two would be aligned. Don't know the history of the subs so...grain of salt.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/18 11:08 PM
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I will put out there that much of the 'unethical' is a subconscious response to the amoral in women. The DECISION to act on it is the ethics and morality at play. ETA: the subconscious resoponse is stronger in women than it is for men. Be aware ladies. It bites back.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 10:51 PM
7

You can't put a number on it...but men who have given up and let themselves go to shit. Physically...jowls, gut and low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:29 AM
3

Trickle truth is human nature. Ask leading questions, look for tells and don't be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 11:03 PM
2

I lost 10lbs in May so I am aiming for 10 more in June. Reaching a my goal of 130 by Oct. At this rate it will be by August. 1 spin class at least per week. I started the month with a 5:30am spin before work. Get a raise. My annual review is next week! Continue eating clean no less than 6 days a week. Home made meals - every meal. (My work has a full kitchen). Alot of changes this month...Office move, my daughter starts summer camp, etc. So to keep my family and my team happy through the changes…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 05:03 PM
2

My man led me to understanding the red pill and female nature. Coming here has helped me learn and grow. So a bit of both. I have come a long way in our journey and we both are well on our ways to becoming our best selves, together. I enjoy being around like minded people.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 04:50 PM
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Sage advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 02:21 PM
1

Only wear high heels when you are our back or knees ;)
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 12:25 AM
2

My point was to show fidelity and relieve all doubt. With long distance it is the only way. Be transparent. If he ever has questions, you can back it up with proof. Be proactive and he WILL appreciate it. Also share passwords to any social media and email accounts. It is extreme, but LDR is HARD to sustain.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 12:19 AM
1

It was tounge in cheek. A soft approach because they are young.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 11:20 PM
1

I would ask him about the same thing you know he doesn't like when he does this. "Do you like kale?" "No, its gross" "ok". Next time... "Do you like kale?" "No, its gross" "ok". He will get the hint.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 10:09 PM
1

AttaGirl!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 09:29 PM
1

True. A good partner would know in the first place and not even suggest it. Respect is mutual.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 11:27 AM
3

Also harping on "10 mins" or 'whatever' is distracting from my point and dishonest. Not every love making session is a marathon.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 09:05 PM
8

I never feel like I have to. I love him. I put my feelings aside for his benefit in many ways, the definition of love. He doesn't threaten me (EVER), I am just aware of reality. Bad habits can form overnight. Avoid it. Be generous. YOU are the one he wants. Be there for him. (Reasonably of course). Turning a man you love down for sex sets a bad precedent.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 09:04 PM
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Put Hoverwatch on all your devices and show him your transparency. Get a security alarm and camera in your house he can check remotely and monitor activity. PROVE to him your fidelity. Check in often. Don't do "girls night out" or sit at bars alone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 08:59 PM
6

Why is your vagina too sensitive? Try fractionated coconut oil. Tired isn't an excuse, it is a choice. Weigh your decisions carefully, bad habits are east to form. I never say no. Why? I know if he doesn't get it from me, he has options. 10 mins or whatever isn't going to kill me. ETA Did he wake up with his D in your mouth?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 08:43 PM
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He is an outlier. We give advice based on the majority. If he chose you, don't compare yourself to others. He has his reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 08:39 PM
3

Yep.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 08:18 PM
1

I just followed the label. It helped when I had a thyroid storm and my hair became fragile and was falling out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/18 01:15 PM
3

Reviews are gold for businesses. Doesn't need to be involved, but every review helps their Google local business ranking.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 11:42 PM
1

Supplement with biotin.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 11:29 PM
2

Exactly my thoughts. Good comment.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 10:45 PM
2

I know a 43 yr old unmarried woman who wears a faux wedding ring to project marital status. She feels at her age, to not be married is a red flag in a professional environment...she is an IT manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:48 PM
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Point taken. Looks like you dodged a bullet then and let him go. You cannot build a relationship on lies.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 02:36 PM
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This is over and I am sorry to say it. Please learn from your mistakes and understand that men and women are not the same. A man in contact with his ex does not mean it is a romantic pursuit and you are in the wrong for a) asssuming authority to jump to conclusions and make demands or ultimatems and b) acting wishy washy in your apologies and c) disrespecting his decisions. No man wants a questioning woman who reacts emotionally without just cause. This could have been handled with a talk. Then …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 01:55 PM
5

Just be polite, ask questions, LISTEN and pause and think before replying. Being thoughtful and considerate is feminine and it allows you to not reply out of pure nerves. You may want to have a purse of questions to keep in the kitty and replies prepared if they are turned back on you. Also, don't give your number out to every guy. Say, nice to meet you, perhaps we will cross paths again. If he seeks you out twice, then consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 12:30 PM
14

Robert Downy Jr. Took his lumps and rose like a phoenix from the ashes. Wildly successful. Joe Rogan lives life on his own terms and carved a wonderful family life with his wife and 3 daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:30 PM
1

He has been loyal to his woman for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 11:24 PM
6

I agree with this and it is unfortunate. I know a few couples in VERY long marriages that decided early to not want children and stuck to it. It is something you both have to agree on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 11:22 PM
5

Many men see being in a sorority as a red flag. I would just do you. You will gravitate to kind people through daily social interaction and classwork.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 11:16 PM
2

Also, my parents used to have a once a week nanny or sitter to take the load off my mom so she could get things done and take care of herself. Maybe a respite caregiver could help.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 10:08 PM
3

Hmm, then perhaps do the down and then up method. "This and that was challenging, however we got through it and are glad you are home..or she had a good day at school...or other self positive" Information without the connotation?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 10:06 PM
1

OP can you give some examples of his decision making while disregarding your opinion?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 09:58 PM
2

I am not sure what this means but my husband has every Alpha and Beta Green Flag. He does have some red flags like anger (but gets counseling), he mitigates or takes responsibility for his flaws. I love him so much. It was tough to gain his commitiment and well worth the long term effort and life after.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 09:55 PM
2

Oh me too! Quitting biting my nails was a hard habit to break but a year with acrylics and now they are natural and healthy and unbit!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 09:41 PM
1

Natural mostly, but Sally Hanson Miracle Gel is the longest lasting for me and doesnt need a curing light. I have a bubble pink for days/work and a ruby red for special ocassions.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 09:39 PM
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Women do have the tendency to try to fix the problems and often overcorrect by being to sweet and distracting in their efforts, which demeans the issue at hand. I think your comment to your husband is great. With my husband, I tend to just be patient, when he wants to talk or brainstorm, then we will. I know he respects my input and if he wants it, he will ask. Asking "Can I do anything to help?" never backfires. Taking efforts to reduce external stress, no small problems, prioritizing his time …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 09:36 PM
1

What is the point here? Men are not housekeepers. Somethings you grin and bear.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 02:00 AM
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It is important to understand that sex drive does wax and wane across time. For both genders. Think about this, he wants you ALL the time now. In 6 months, when work is kicking his ass and other factors, or just settling in, he only wants it 3 times a week, will you internalize it and wonder what you are doing wrong, or welcome the new normal and be unwilling to change if it ramps back up again? Relationships are dynamic, a give and take. If you love him, be there for him. In all ways. And no, N…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 01:56 AM
2

Happy to help. Even a little.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 12:18 AM
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I have a different take. I think this is a result of lack of trust, of true submission. You developed an attitude of questioning which he percieves as disloyal. He wants you behind him 100% without question. It is hard for women who have been wronged to accept authority in their own lives. You can decision guard and give thoughts without being a contrainion. You can question without disagreement. It goes to the golden rule "It's not what you say but how you say it." Great advice here. Everyone i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 11:22 PM
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Have your husband spend a full day with your daughter, normal routine. Not a weekend ot special day. Let him SEE the challenges and then work TOGETHER to find ways to live with them. Honestly, all the advice here is good. But he needs a daily life reality beyond your feedback to truly understand. Another option is to install an in home camera with sound, review it once a week and discuss.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 10:55 PM
1

I would like to see the comprable divorce rate for these stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:20 PM
1

Sure, in the age of stong male role models for boys, before men were stripped of their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:17 PM
1

5% or less. Most of men and women have to suffer the reprecussions of the lies in order to find a path to true happiness. And we ALL find "TRP" online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:15 PM
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She has naked pics everywhere! Google it. She is no outlier, she gamed well. And she looks exactly 36. She was an 'actress' for 10 years, guess her notch count. If you put this through a filter of the obvious red flags, he made a mistake. Check her wiki page.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 09:50 PM
11

Good parents lead by example. Regardless of society, if you come from a functional family you will want to emulate it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 10:21 PM
2

Don't deploy shit tests if you trust him. Call him once a day at the same time. When he is ready, he will pick up.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 10:19 PM
4

I do not think so, however there is a lot left to interpretation in this question. In my experience, there is no such thing as a 'platonic' male friend; given an opening, most will take it. It is asking for trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 10:12 PM
2

Female rationale. You only want someone to prove you right. The argument is logically ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:17 AM
3

I have a few ideas. Chicken cordon bleu with swiss or provolone, ham and chicken with a creamy cream of mushroom sauce over rice. Simple, clean, no red flags. Seared Beef wellington made with filet, sautteed mushrooms and shallots and steak sauce, wrapped in a puff pastry and baked. Any vedge, roasted with parm or tossed in olive oil and garlic after boiling (green heans and cherry tomatos!). Steak you can gently flavor up with lawrys and montreal steak seasoning. Lemon pepper chicken, chicked p…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 09:30 PM
1

Learning from our mistakes is a part of life. I wish you the best of luck in love.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 09:12 PM
2

Be firm and conclusive. Leave nothing to interpretation. Tone of voice matters. Treat them like solicitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:47 AM
12

Men vent. You internalized it. You asked for this. You pushed the bar and felt hurt when a man asking for male feedback came to light. The breakup is your fault. Make ammends. He did not do anything wrong. You did. You pushed him to the forum, likely for approval (is he alpha?). You snooped, you punished him for what you discovered. We all have thoughts we want to vent on a sounding board. My man is controlling and impossible at times, he has issues and sometimes I want to just tell him he is nu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 02:35 AM
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Let us know how it goes!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 02:14 AM
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Have you met her yet? I find confronting the reality early on helps assuage my fears. Stay quiet and be your best. Be alert is he starts talking about her often, going to "lunch" and any out of office activities.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 12:31 AM
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0.... I am not on Facebook. I think social media is detrimental to comitted relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:25 AM
1

Mental foreplay: underrated. Physical foreplay: overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:22 AM
1

You're welcome, best wishes!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 10:22 PM
1

So sorry! It is a common acronym on mommy forums and pregnancy FB groups.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 11:29 AM
2

Oh yes, of course! Also, step moms and other moms, and role models come in many forms. A good day to send love to those who matter most. Share your day!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 02:04 AM
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A special home cooked meal (like beef wellington or Filet cooked in a cast iron skillet with blue cheese or garlic butter) dressed in adorable apron (flirtyaprons.com), candlelight dinner, rent a movie of his liking...while he is watching step away and change your look for a sexy intermission. Heavy makeup, lipstick, super sexy out of your comfort zone outfit like he has never seen you on before that brings out his animalistic desire kicked off with a toe curling BJ. (DiscountStripper.com has so…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 01:17 PM
1

Love is work. When you stop working for what you love, love dies. It is a conundrum. Love is always worth it. Death is no fault of your own. Divorce is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:40 AM
3

Luckily my man likes to clear the air immediately when he has an issue. I take more time to reflect and process. I have found sometime taking the time to write my thoughts down helps. Agree to send an email to talk about what is on your minds and take thoughtful time to respond can emotionally diffuse the situation and have an outcome you both can reference. I emphasize, state you have something you would like to discuss over email and ask if that is ok. Different communications styles work for …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 11:00 PM
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Honestly? It is fairly simple. Anticipate his needs, take care of him, cook awesome meals respecting his diet, stay fit, have more to offer outside of sex like intelligent conversation, your work, represent him well in public. Do things only for him. Check in, dress modestly when you leave the house without him. Come up with fun date ideas for things he enjoys doing...bowling, batting cages, video games, watching sports or his favorite movie types (regardless if you also enjoy them). Demonstrate…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 10:59 PM
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I interpreted Oneitis from a male perspective as priotitizing her needs/wants above his own, failing at self improvement and losing a strong mindset that got him the girl in the first place. Oneitis is not a term meant for women to hold. It is also not always congruent with being in a relationship. A man can love (commit to) a woman and not sacrifice his "frame", personal goals, or value.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 10:16 PM
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What a thoughtful and wonderful reply. You have a healthy persective. Good read. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:42 PM
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