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I've found really cute clothes on ASOS and SHEIN. Even Amazon has pretty good options, though it's obviously hit or miss on there. For in store shopping, I used to really like Charlotte Rousse, but I don't know how they are now, it's been years since I last shopped there. Typically, any "professional" section will have good modest options that are still modern and cute.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 03:42 PM
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He has accused me of thinking I’m better than others and having a large ego. It kinda sounds like your attitude is the issue here, not your income. Just based on this one sentence - those accusations don't sound like they are about humbly earning more, but idk. What have you done to try and remedy this? How do you act in the home? Do you keep your "high income" attitude on at all times, or do you find ways to relax into a more feminine role when you're at home? Has he ever specifically commented…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 07:47 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:40 PM
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This is the dumbest thing I've read today. Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 07:39 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:55 AM
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But this isn't true. Women are MORE nurturing, MORE empathetic, MORE creative, MORE of a lot of things you're neglecting to notice. If you wanna talk purpose... A man's purpose is to provide and protect the woman, who is charged with creating and molding future generations. You are looking at this all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:23 PM
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I have seen fairly "meh" looking men who SLAYED with women because of their attitude/personality. So yeah, 100%. Looks attract, personality amplifies. So even if you don't have a lot of the initial attraction through looks, personality can quickly amplify that and create a pretty fair amount of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:20 PM
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Men and women are inherently different. This does not make one superior to the other. They compliment each other, each bringing something to the table that the other wants/needs/lacks. You have a very warped view of womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:17 PM
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Men, 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:31 PM
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You’re comparing prostitution to a genuine, lifelong commitment. There’s not even a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:27 PM
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Sex can be enjoyable without an orgasm, but I don't feel fully satisfied unless it's "finished," so to speak. Orgasms also release TONS of feel good, lovey dovey chemicals like oxytocin, which increase bonding and that "in love" feeling. So having orgasms isn't only good because it's physically awesome, it's emotionally awesome as well and increases the strength of the bond a couple has.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 02:35 PM
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We got engaged at two years, been engaged for two years.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 01:26 PM
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Thank you :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 11:39 PM
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Both genders are gentler with me. Not noticeably at first, but in retrospect.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:24 PM
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I'm a big history/politics nerd. Very politically active (in the right wing). I debate CONSTANTLY and even teach classes that help others to write an effective argument and improve their debate skills. I enjoy home improvement like painting, refurnishing old cabinets, etc.. I really like kayaking, horseback riding, and hiking. Outdoor activities are my favorite activities, especially when it includes diving into the ocean or a nearby lake.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:21 PM
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Thank you for your response. I'm glad your girlfriend is getting help! I can say I'm not that bad. My "crazy" consists of asking for reassurance about things, people-pleasing a bit too much, and getting sucked into outside moods too easily. These are all no no's, don't get me wrong, but I know many see "crazy" and think a lot worse. I just try a bit too hard and think a bit too much. At least, that's the part that affects my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:53 PM
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I honestly don't know. I know whatever I take, I want it to be extremely mild and easy to get off of; I don't want to be on anything long term. I also will not take anything that causes weight gain. I've worked extremely hard to lose 15lbs, but still have more to go before I'll be happy and comfortable with myself, so I don't want medication that will make that harder for me or, worse, reverse my progress. I'm not sure if I need something for anxiety/depression, or if I need a stabilizer. I gues…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:47 PM
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Thank you for this, it definitely resonated.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:26 AM
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You're right, he does deserve the best of me. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:25 AM
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Thank you for this. You're not kidding about the feeling less worthy part... I've done so much work in natural healing, too, so it makes me feel like a hypocrite to not be able to make it work naturally myself... but you're right. I need to take care of me so that I can take care of others better!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:25 AM
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Aww this makes me so happy! ♥
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:24 AM
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I understand this. I think the thing is that when it's consistently up and down, for no particular reason, consistently needing reassurance and validation... well, it can get frustrating. I don't blame him for that. I'd rather be generally stable on my own, be my own support and reassurance, so that when I do need his support, it's easy and natural for him to give that to me. There will be many moments I genuinely need support from him, and I know he'd give it. But the constant seeking of reassu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:23 AM
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Thank you for sharing. ♥ CBD isn't for me, but I've heard it's great for other people!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:20 AM
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Yes, I've tried exercise, meditation, talk therapy, all the things. I can manage using those things when my environment is very peaceful/stress-free. That just isn't my reality right now, though. When the environment is stressful/unstable, all the meditating in the world can't seem to calm my mind. And worse, I struggle to find the energy to do those things. My brain and body can't just seem to unite and do what they need to do.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:18 AM
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Thank you ♥
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:17 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing this. It totally makes sense ♥ I'm glad you're feeling better, now!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:16 AM
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You're very right. I don't want to end up pushing him away. I know that my best self brings out his best self, so taking care of me is a must. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:40 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:39 PM
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I really appreciate that!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:39 PM
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I had just decided that "this is what I'm like, oh well, sucks". But I'm not like that, I just needed some help. It's ok to need help :) So much of this. Yes! Okay, I do think I'm going to seek some assistance with this. I've always been high-functioning, so I figured... if I can get by without medication, then I should. But I'm starting to see that's not the case... I can survive off of only pop and TV dinners... doesn't mean I should. Especially if it makes me miserable and sick. Thank you aga…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:58 PM
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He's a good man. After almost four years of my crazy, he has every right to be frustrated lol. He's been very encouraging and supportive of me seeking help, despite my own reservations.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:54 PM
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This sounds so wonderful, and I relate a lot. I constantly feel like I can't do anything right, but I spend so much time in my own head trying to "fix" myself that I can't even approach difficult situations (like decluttering the office) without getting overwhelmed and giving up and spiraling into self-hatred for not being good enough to handle simple tasks... This resonates a lot with me. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:51 PM
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Thank you for this response. I really appreciate it. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:39 PM
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Most of the household chores I dislike can be fixed by: Adding something I DO like. It can be a podcast, some good music, a show I enjoy, anything really. I'll just pop on something I enjoy to help me get through the thing I don't enjoy. It also helps when I can only do the thing I like while doing whatever chore it is, because then it becomes a generally positive experience that I'm looking forward to. Set a timer. Ten minutes, on the clock. Whether I finish early or have buttloads more to do, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 02:52 PM
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People in high school suck, period. If you weren't "pretty" you'd wish that you were. Nobody in high school is happy with themselves, it's how it goes. Focus on yourself, choose to show the world the parts of yourself you want them to see, and recognize that you don't want judgmental jerks in your life anyway, so it's good they're revealing their true nature early.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 03:06 PM
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Yayyy! Send me a message?
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 05:55 PM
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I would love this so much. I don't think I need the "mama" type so much as just a friend who understands and can help me with accountability, ideas, etc.. I'm 25 and engaged, if anyone wants a buddy. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 10:53 PM
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I don't really agree with this. Some of these take a lifetime for somebody to truly master, and anyone who reads this and interprets it literally is going to throw away what is possibly the most important factor in SMV... youth. Good points, but it needs to be noted that this list is of things to work on, not to master, and that nobody has all their shit together right off the bat. Aiming for perfection leads to nothing getting done at all.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 08:16 PM
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Of course! So men want respect and admiration. This means they want someone who trusts their decisions, relies on them, and really looks up to them for the things that they do. They like to be counted on and trusted, and that's why they most yearn for respect/admiration. Women want to be adored and desired. At the root of every woman is the need to be desired/wanted. When you adore something, you take care of it, nurture it, shower it in things that it wants and do what you can to keep it happy!…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:04 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 08:14 PM
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Emotional cheating is cheating. I do not tolerate cheating of ANY kind - physical, emotional, mental, whatever. You cheat, you can eat dirt. I'll be gone so fast you won't even know what happened. And once I'm gone I'll probably cry for three months straight, yeah, but I'll be gone before that starts.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 08:13 PM
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Men want to be respected and admired. Women want to be adored and desired.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 08:03 PM
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The best sex happens when both partners are focused on each other. My focus is making him feel good, and his focus is making me feel good, which results in both of us feeling insanely freaking good. Nobody is "responsible" for another person's anything, but if you're with someone you should give a crap about what feels good for them. It's not your job, but it is nice/thoughtful. I like my men to be nice/thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:02 PM
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Boohoo, cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:57 PM
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Your partner is a tyrant, not a captain. People that are under a tyrant's reign will always suffer because he fulfills his needs even at the cost of his followers, unlike a captain, who fulfills his follower's needs, sometimes even at his own cost. ^
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:54 PM
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Damn...
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:52 PM
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Yes. Women can be sexually frustrated. Kinda weird this is a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:35 AM
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Yep, that's what feminists have done to the world. Women can have any preference or desire they want. Tall? Check. Fit? Check. Wealthy? Check. Hollywood handsome? Check. Oh, he doesn't want you? GIRL, he's such an asshole, you deserve better, keeping holding out for Mr. Right! Slay, queen! Men on the other hand? At least in a healthy weight range. YOU'RE FATPHOBIC. Well, I like girls natural, without tattoos or piercings. YOU'RE OPPRESSIVE. Okay, uh, well can her hair be long at least? SUCH A MI…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:15 PM
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I think it’s a bit naive to insinuate that one comment thread on reddit means I’m NOT going out and mentoring young people or taking constructive action. I’m not going to keep arguing this. If she didn’t want her opinion to be challenged, she shouldn’t have posted it on a public forum, especially not this one where the entire purpose is debate between very different viewpoints. I have nothing to prove. I know I’m a good person and I know that I work hard to help other people. I also know sometim…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:26 PM
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Awwww that makes me so happy! Yay ♥
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 04:14 PM
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These are beautiful tips. Not OP, but thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 03:50 PM
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Yesss, lol, that's what my doctor said! But at the same time... we've been "not preventing, not trying" for over a year now and nothing. Like I said, I track my cycles diligently and we VERY rarely hit my fertile days... I feel like we need to be having way more sex (at least during that time of the month!) to really call it "trying." If that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 03:46 PM
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People who screw up shouldn't tell others to also screw up because they did it and enjoyed it at the time. If a person does that, they invite others to call them on it. If I made a massive error and then went on to encourage others to make the same error, I'd HOPE someone would call me out on it and tell other people not to make the mistakes I did. I think me telling her "you fucked up, don't tell others to do the same" is much kinder than her telling young girls to also fuck up so that they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:39 PM
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Okay, I misread your comment. I can see what you're saying. At the same time, though, this is a public forum where others are reading, and the attitude of "it's fine, look at me, I did it and had a great time!" is extremely destructive. Others are reading this. It is NOT fine, it is NOT okay, and it needs to be made known for OTHERS who read this that there are serious flaws with that way of thinking. The comment I replied to insinuated that because she did it and had fun, others will too and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:31 PM
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Your re-positioning of the argument is interesting, but still flops. I'm right and you're bothered by it. That's fine. The truth can be bothersome. It's still the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:24 PM
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Lol, u mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:17 PM
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I'm also 25 and have crazy baby fever as well. I try to keep it on the DL because I don't want to throw anything at my poor man, but I'm sure he knows lol. We're not preventing at the moment but also not really trying... we rarely hit my fertile days so it's not likely to happen until we're really going for it, ya know? And it makes me sad because I WANT IT SO BAD. I don't have advice, but just letting you know you're not alone. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 02:07 PM
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Yes, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:03 PM
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There will always be outliers, but studies have shown that in general, higher sex counts leads to higher divorce rates, higher infidelity rates, higher number of marriages, lower marital satisfaction, and lower overall happiness levels. You totally could be an outlier, I'm not saying YOU aren't. But generally, when people engage in sex with multiple partners outside of relationships, it does mean the above. Additionally, higher partner counts is associated with increased risk-taking behavior and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:32 PM
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I wouldn't want him to take it and I wouldn't take BC myself. I don't believe in pumping ourselves full of synthetic hormones to alter our body's natural function, especially when it's been scientifically proven to change people's biology and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:23 PM
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You're wrong. You've absolutely brought baggage and have been damaged. You absolutely should've saved yourself for marriage or love. Those "exciting" experiences you had, should've been had with your life partner. With someone you love. You should've saved those for him because the experience would've bonded you so much more. Instead, there's a parade of exciting experiences in your past and you will never connect on the same level to the man you decide to "settle down" with. You ruined yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:15 PM
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Yes, this. I am a woman who wouldn't date a man with a high n-count because I know it means we don't share the same values/outlooks toward sex. No woman on Earth would ever (honestly) shame me for holding that belief, yet the minute a man holds it, it's such a big problem. People are allowed to have preferences and choose partners based on those preferences. It's as simple as that. Doesn't matter WHAT the preference is, people are allowed to choose based on it. I've met (BP) men who said they wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:10 PM
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Are you trying to call me old? I'm freshly twenty-five lol, not exactly offended. Again, nice try, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:23 PM
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Men that really want you and want it to work dont put themselves in a position to lose you. Preach.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 06:23 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:07 PM
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Uhhh, I'm married and TTC. And a woman. Lol. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:10 PM
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The most attractive thing a man can be to a woman is both. Alpha in the sense that he's confident, strong, dominant, etc., and beta in the sense that he's loyal, kind, committed, and family-oriented. NO normal woman wants somebody who is 100% alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:01 PM
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If you can't respect your partner, you shouldn't have one. That's a hard rule. Sorry you're incapable of keeping your legs shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:52 PM
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Their views on monogamy and commitment in general, the way they talk about past partners, their job stability, how close their past relationships are to each other, their childhood/parent's relationship, their reaction to hearing about someone else cheating/being cheated on, how open they are about things, their phone habits, etc.. I'm talking big picture, so no single one of these things is the answer. It's all super subtle and it's not like I look out for these things, it's more like a compila…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:49 PM
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Spotted the incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:40 PM
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You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:52 PM
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I want to be completely and totally adored by the man I'm with. I think that's the short & sweet answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:29 PM
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A lot do, surprisingly. But no, I assume nothing. I do, however, know the right questions to ask and the right signs to look for. It’s typically not that surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:49 PM
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Loyalty, trust, commitment, and respect are the basic tenets of any relationship. When you cheat, with that one single act you destroy all of those to the point of no return. Further, you destroy your partner's sense of self, leaving lasting scars that will stay with them long after the relationship with you has ended. I could go on for paragraphs tbh, but that about sums it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:02 PM
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They're both shitty people and neither is better or worse than the other. They're both cheating scum. It is NEVER okay to cheat. There is no circumstance that makes it "okay." I would never take a cheater back. Further, I'd never be with someone who'd cheated on anyone, even if that person wasn't me. Because if they'd disrespect me and our relationship so deeply once, why the fuck would I expect them not to do it again? I do not share. They can go find someone who does, but it ain't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:40 PM
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Cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:08 PM
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Lol, you mad. Best of luck to ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:53 PM
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Won't happen. Men do the asking. Instead, ask how to make a woman interested in you so that she flirts enough to build your confidence in asking her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:15 PM
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If you're someone who lacks boundaries, you may have some traits of codependency. I found Codependent No More by Melody Beattie to be EXTREMELY helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 02:53 PM
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I do and always have preferred men with low N-counts. The type also plays a big role in my preference (I'd rather a man who had an N-count of 10, all with LTR's, than a man with an N-count of 6, all ONS's). Why? Because it means we view sex in a similar way. I don't want someone who thinks promiscuity is acceptable. I don't want a man whose been with every chick on the block. I don't want a man who doesn't connect sex and love and commitment. I don't want a man who sees sex as purely physical. W…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 04:21 PM
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This is 100% accurate. In sooooooo many areas. I haven't read the book, but now I plan to. I love this stuff!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 02:44 AM
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Why does intelligence mean value? Do you believe your intelligence is the only value you bring to the world? Why do you feel him believing he's more intelligent equals him believing he's superior? Disclaimer, I get why you're hurt. I would be, as well, especially in front of others. It's disrespectful. At the same time, it's a two year relationship that sounds otherwise solid, so I'm just trying to put it in perspective. If you asked who was more nurturing, I'd say ME in an instant. That doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 05:03 PM
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I don’t have one but something like that, sure.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/20 07:28 PM
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Man, this hurt to read. I'm so proud of you for getting out. Time heals all wounds. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/20 02:03 PM
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An honest asshole is always better than a lying asshole. Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:54 PM
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Thank you, and I agree. They don't even know what they're doing most of the time - it's just how they operate. Which definitely doesn't excuse it. But it can be helpful for victims to see that's just who they are - it wasn't because you weren't good enough or because you weren't x, y, or z. A manipulator or narc could have ANYONE and would treat them that way. Nothing would've been "good enough" to fix that type of behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 04:25 PM
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Unless you were telling him about all the dick you used to get and how you could go out tonight and get someone new and never think of him again, nothing you did could've warranted the comments he made. It's not what you're telling yourself. It's the truth. Nothing warrants that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 02:15 PM
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Sometimes, low self-esteem and a yearning for something that person offers is enough. It doesn't typically start with abuse. It's slow. First they love bomb you, offer you all the things you could ever dream of (because they're smart, they can read you like a book and know the way to get you hooked). Then it's a pull back, they make you crave what they once offered. Then the first emotional battery, but it's your fault. You apologize. They reluctantly agree to give you a second chance. Maybe the…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 02:13 PM
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This is a very insightful answer. I'm not OP, but thank you for sharing this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 02:08 PM
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So proud of you. ♥ That took a lot of courage.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 01:56 PM
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This is so well-worded and accurate. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:04 PM
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I've read through all your arguments, and not a single one of them holds any truth. You're applying male thinking patterns to females, which is nonsensical. Women don't think like men. RP should've taught you that. For what it's worth, here's my belief... Both polygamy AND hypergamy are dangerous for relationships. Both chip away at the relationship and disrespect the partner, even if not acted on. Both are toxic and both parties must work diligently to keep these cancers away from the relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:50 PM
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Completely agree.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 02:12 PM
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I would LOVE this. Or, heck, if we can't find people who are in our area, then a group of us can have virtual coffee via Zoom or something once a week. Just to chat and whatnot, ya know? It's so nice to have someone to talk to who "gets it."
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:26 PM
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My fiance and I are in the process of creating one. Everything's all set and ready to go, just hasn't aired yet. Maybe I'll stop in and share when it does. :D
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:18 AM
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I am the same age and would LOVE to know the same. I desperately need women I can talk to who share my views on this stuff. Following the thread to see what others say!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:13 AM
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I have a ten year age gap, but it's definitely not as large as yours. What it making you unsure? The age alone? Or something else?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 03:12 AM
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No good man (or woman, for that matter) can be "stolen."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:10 AM
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He has not worked in a year and a half. You are the sole breadwinner You are the sole homemaker This is not RP. You sound like his mom. You need to stop trying to protect him and let him feel the pain of his situation - the fire may be the only thing that gets him to actually DO something about it. You're taking over his job so that he doesn't have to deal with it. That's going to cause resentment on both ends. Let him be the man and rise to the occasion. If he doesn't, then let him feel the bur…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 09:24 PM
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Mic drop.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 09:17 PM
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I will have to try that out - I keep hearing about it!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 01:32 PM
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Oh thank goodness. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 01:30 PM
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Thanks so much for all of this awesome information! I have lots to explore, now. :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 03:05 AM
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Ooooh that's super interesting! Good to know. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 03:01 AM
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This was awesome! Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 03:00 AM
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Really? Wow! I'll have to try it!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 02:58 AM
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Oh man - okay, adding it to my list of AFTER babies face care, lol. Thanks for updating and saving me!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 10:42 PM
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Thank you SO MUCH for this! So much great information.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 09:47 PM
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I'll check it out!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 09:46 PM
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I definitely will. I'll use this time as a little experiment and see what really works for me (taking into account my skin of course, but also schedule, ease of use, pricing, etc.), then report back!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 08:13 PM
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I sooooo want to! I've used aloe vera plants on my face before and it was the BEST feeling. I did it for sun burn, but never even thought to use it as my main moisturizer. Just might have to go buy some leaves!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 08:11 PM
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The more answers I get, the more I realize there isn't a set formula. It all seems very individualized!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 07:59 PM
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I love how natural you keep it!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:12 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I will check it out more deeply. Been doing some browsing for the last hour or so, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 06:02 PM
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I minimally use social media (I only use it for business purposes as a marketing tool). I don't know many of my friends that are the same, but I feel like I have seen it begin dying down recently. I've never been very into social media, and I think that came from upbringing. It just wasn't something that was accepted in my house, so by the time I was "allowed" to be on it, I really had no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:39 PM
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I love that! I'll check her out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:37 PM
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Oh wow, that's awesome! Our birthdays are right next to each other, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:37 PM
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Lol, this is definitely advice that is needed. I think my aversion to skincare comes from my overcomplicating it. If my routine was 1-2-3, super simple, could be done in the shower or in 5 minutes before bed, I'd have a much easier time sticking to it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:35 PM
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Thank you SO MUCH for that information - we're in the state of not trying, but also not preventing, so I don't want to have anything that could cause an issue. I'll definitely be avoiding retinol and adding it in when I'm done having babies!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:32 PM
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Thanks for your answer! I'm only 24, but my birthday is in a couple weeks and after a week of not sleeping and having puffy eyes, I'm realizing I really need to turn skincare into a habit, lol. I love the simplicity - exactly what I need!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 05:31 PM
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I never knew that about retinol - omg! Definitely going to stay away since I see babies in the near future... Thanks for the advice! I will check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 04:59 PM
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Thanks so much! I think I might actually have the same one. I definitely know I have a water-based one!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 04:55 PM
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Thanks for your reply! This is super helpful. My skin dries out, as well, when I wash too often, but I've always been under the impression I couldn't moisturize unless I washed first (I literally know nothing about skincare, lol). Seeing that you moisturize twice a day but only cleanse at night is helpful, because it means I can up my moisturizing game without having to add the more tedious cleansing all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 04:52 PM
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Oooh that's awesome! Yeah, I'd prefer not to go expensive, but I also want something that won't burn my face, lol. I actually got a fairly expensive one that raved about being great for sensitive skin, and it totally burned me and left me with red blotches and eyes I could barely open... so I'm a little scared to try a new one, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 04:31 PM
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Thank you for this insight! Super helpful. I actually just got a quartz roller for Christmas, so I'm definitely going to try that out now. Do you cleanse both morning and night?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 04:30 PM
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I've never heard of that line! I'll have to check it out. My face is super sensitive too, so hearing that it works for you is reassuring!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 03:58 PM
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I can't speak for other women, only for myself. I don't want a wedding. I want a life with the man I love. I want to be his wife and serve him to the best of my ability. I want him to be able to brag about his wife's cooking, or wit, or kindness, or whatever else. I want to give him children that make him proud and carry on his values and traditions. I want the commitment and trust that comes with marriage, and the stability it will provide to the family we wish to build. I want marriage, not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:22 PM
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Yes, because divorce is not an option to me. I'd still marry no matter what weird "if divorced" things you throw in there, because I will not be getting divorced. Marriage is a lifelong commitment under God, I'm not breaking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:15 PM
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Your example is stupid AF. If he's a cheater, he can go die in a ditch. No, I'm not "entertaining his fantasies" for him after another woman already has. Now, if my LOYAL, COMMITTED, COMPLETELY FAITHFUL AND ADORING man asked to try something new out where I was more dominant, I'd say sure, because I want to please him. I might be a bit awkward doing it at first, but I'd do whatever he wanted (within reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:56 PM
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Downvote me all you want, you're still wrong, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:31 PM
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You're wrong. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:29 PM
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Not true self, BEST self. The BEST version of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:28 PM
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For me, it was a lot of self exploration. I think one of the best ways was to look at my hiccups (I get cranky if I am not getting enough sleep, etc.) and then image who I'd be without hiccups. It's important to note... NOT without flaws or history. My history and my flaws are part of who I am. But without the hiccups... I'm sleeping well every night, so if I'm cranky, it's for a reason, not for lack of sleep... and so on. This is my best self. This is who I am beneath the bullshit. It's all my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:04 PM
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No, it's not. You don't have to broadcast every piece of your personality upon first meeting someone, but if you think you can hide yourself for life and pretend to be someone else you're very wrong. Emotional vulnerability is AMAZING... in due time. Having oddball hobbies are INTERESTING... but no, you don't have to broadcast it on your dating profile. It's honestly sad how little you understand about authenticity and meeting people. I don't know who made you believe you either need to show som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:59 PM
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No, I don't think you are getting what I'm saying. Your best self isn't an imagined version pf yourself that you WANT to be. It's literally who you CAN be. It's your good qualities on full display with your bad ones well-managed in the background, it's showing up every day and being in the best mood possible, it's who you are without all the bullshit.... kinda like when you're 100% being YOU but also trying to impress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:38 PM
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That depends on if you think authenticity means "this is me, accept it or GTFO" or if you think it means what it ACTUALLY means... be who you actually are, while always striving for improvement, seeing your own faults and working on them, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:16 PM
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The best version of you. It tends to be who you are when you are performing optimally physically, mentally, socially, and spiritually. Obviously, we can't be this person all the time, but we know who they are and typically strive to be as close as possible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:14 PM
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That’s just as bad. You’re trying to manipulate a broader audience into liking you under false circumstances. Be authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:47 PM
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It depends on a few factors... Are they aware of their own mental health problems? Are they actively working to fix those problems? Are they capable of being in a committed relationship while working on fixing those problems? If the answer to all three questions is yes, you're fine. There may be ups and downs, there will be struggles, there may be some very rough moments, but so long as you both care for each other and work together, this can be done and healed. Typically, the following may fall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:19 PM
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Damnnnnn this is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:03 PM
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Be yourself means don't manipulate another person with a false self. I.E. It's OKAY to act more confident than you are, because that's likely something you're aiming to be and really, is just putting you out there more. It's NOT OKAY to act like you're a housewife/"good" girl when you're going to parties every night and fucking everything with a pulse. It's OKAY to keep the emotional side of yourself on lockdown while courting your new partner (that's something that can always come later). It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:54 PM
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I LOVE that book (and his others!). Super great for habit forming.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/20 01:43 PM
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Yay, hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:16 AM
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If anything, RP teaches you that you can’t control the opposite gender, you can only control yourself, so it gives YOU the tools necessary to achieve a desired outcome, taking into account the nature of the opposite sex. In other words, me choosing to use an umbrella in the rain because I don’t want to get wet is not an attempt to control the weather. It’s me noticing that rain will make me wet, recognizing my desire to NOT be wet, and me adjusting my behavior accordingly. Learning about somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:14 AM
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Redpill is about having control over yourself, not about controlling others (IMO).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:27 AM
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Aw, yay! I'm glad ♥
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 08:02 PM
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Wipe off pots/pans right after cooking, before things become caked on. Light sage for good smells (and good vibes). Do one small thing a day instead of saving it all for one day (i.e. one day dust all furniture, another day wipe down mirrors and windows, another day clean out the fridge/take out trash, etc.). Recognize problem areas and create easy solutions (i.e. I hate when the sink looks gross, and it normally makes me ignore it because I can't hang and then it just gets worse... solution? Cl…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 01:57 PM
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My January goals: I will lift weights at the gym 3x/week I will write two new blog posts AND publish my podcast on femininity I will track my food daily and stay committed to my eating plan (hello more veggies, fruits, and healthy homecooked meals!). This means at least 4 servings of vegetables and fruits per day. I will up my housewife game and tackle daily cleaning tasks according to my home planner's weekly tasks and challenges.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 01:45 PM
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I would see this for what it is... he's (1) inviting you into his world and trying to make you a part of what he's passionate about, and (2) he is taking an interest in your health and longevity, meaning he wants to keep you around for as long as possible! First, just think of intention. When we look at his intention, this is an absolute win! You should be very appreciative to have a man who wants these things with you. Now, let's look at the situation. He wants you to be more health- and fitnes…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 01:38 PM
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I agree with the quote. I agree that boundaries are vital. But I question what these boundaries are that are causing so many people problems. There's a such thing as being inflexible and pushy with boundaries as opposed to simply respecting yourself and others with them. What kind of boundaries are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:09 PM
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I would never date someone who had been in an open relationship. It means our views, beliefs, values, and morals do NOT align with each other's. I don't care what bullshit these open-relationship people spout, it's just that. Bullshit. No thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:35 PM
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Alphas don't need RP. RP is for betas and others who want to get as close to alpha as they possibly can in order to attract a mate/sex. It's about adding alpha traits to yourself... why would an alpha need to add alpha traits? They're already alpha. RP is actually pretty clear about that, too, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:24 PM
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Fair enough! The term "submissive" has had a very negative connotation to it, so I rarely use it anymore. I typically just tell people I'm traditional. But either way, it was a nice discussion!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:42 PM
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I'm glad I got your views correct! Okay, I'm going to break down mine based on your answer. I do see dominant-submissive relationship as a relation where one person has greater value than the other. I don't mean an actual value "for the world to see", but a dominant person, or decisive person is more important in a relationship in this case. In my view, a woman who is submissive is not simply following orders or acting as an empty vessel of herself. A submissive woman means a woman who ultimatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:28 PM
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Again, I don't really think we're seeing the same thing right now. Which is super common in ALL debates/disagreements, but especially online, lol. So just to clear things up, my understanding of your position is: If I allow a man to lead me, it means that he and his voice are more valuable than me and mine. Additionally, you believe that... If I allow my man to lead and he makes decisions in my best interest, it means that there's no point in him leading. Is this correct? If not, PLEASE let me k…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:58 PM
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I don't see how this is in any way coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:49 PM
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M = 84, F = 125, Sex/Gender = F, Pill = Red I didn't really need to be told, but yay, I'm feminine! ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:46 PM
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If I was submissive there would be nothing he could do to make me happy about going two times in a row to a hot country. If he was a good dominant man, he would choose places YOU liked to go because he wants to make you happy. He wouldn't act based solely out of selfish desires. He'd act in YOUR best interest. This is not a man who I'd submit to, based on your description (though, tbh, I feel that you don't really grasp what I'm saying here). You only submit to a man who is mature and wise enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:38 PM
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See, the man who would do this is NOT the type of man I would surrender/submit to. Yes, if you submit to the wrong man, this could be the outcome. But I'd describe that as something toxic, definitely not a true traditional, happy, meaningful relationship like the one I have. When you submit to a man who understands his own role and what it means, he will go above and beyond to meet your desires and act in your best interest. My man always asks what I want, asks for my input on things, and then m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:21 PM
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Nope! I'm not unsure of myself. I have some self-esteem things I'm always working on, but I'm very confident in my ability to "fend for myself" so to speak. I just respect my man as the head of our household and enjoy the traditional lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:34 PM
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I'm not going to pretend I've never experienced self-doubt, but it's not something that plays a role. May I ask why? My assumption is you think I doubt myself and need someone to tell me what to do. If so, that's not the case. I'm actually naturally very decisive and even hotheaded about things. The thing is, I am decisive in my relationship, as well. I know very well what I do and don't want. BUT... I see my man as my captain. I respect his decisions and know that he'll take my desires into acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:54 PM
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This is something that happens in daily life. It isn't always some monumental decision. A bigger example that happened recently was him wanting to move to a place he's lived before. I don't want to live there and feel very strongly against it, BUT I know that he has my best interest in mind, and so I follow his lead and tour homes with him despite my initial distaste. I still would prefer living elsewhere, but it would be a beautiful upgrade from where we are now and I'm glad I didn't throw a fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:40 PM
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I expect to be treated fairly. That doesn't necessarily equate to "equally." I much prefer to be submissive to a capable man, but I wouldn't ever want to be with a man who believes I am lesser than him. Submissive does not mean less than, and dominant does not mean better than. Both are necessary and will likely flow in different areas/situations. For example, I expect to be more dominant in the area of raising our children. Why? Because it's an area of strength and I'll be the one doing it full…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:32 PM
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He doesn't give me "commands," because I'm not a child. That being said, he has the final say and even when I don't like his decisions, I trust that he's making the right ones for myself and our future. As with anything, there are some hills worth dying on, but 99% of the time, his word is final, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:27 PM
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Submissive means following your man as the leader or captain. As a woman, I am the first mate. My job is to carry out the captain's commands, give him guidance when asked, and take care of my side of things to ensure our ship runs as it's meant to. Submissive isn't sexual at all in this context. There is yin and yang, masculine and feminine, dominant and submissive. Both are valuable and necessary for success. Neither one is greater than the other, they are simply different. I'm happy to give ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:20 PM
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This is a great comment.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 07:58 PM
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Thank you! I'll try.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 04:39 PM
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This is so awesome. Now to figure out how to bring it up to fiance...
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 07:54 PM
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I don't think any woman here thinks women are superior. Women by nature have natural gifts. Being nurturing, receptive, and feminine are natural gifts that women have, just like being protective, strong, and a provider are natural gifts men have. These natural gifts and inclinations are unique to each gender. When we say you "should" be a certain way, we're not saying that you are inferior. We are saying that there are many benefits to and lots of beauty in accepting/playing to your natural gift…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 08:17 PM
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Yay, I'm glad you liked it! It's something I've thought a lot about.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/19 02:13 AM
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No man is Midas. He won't touch you and make you golden. This means two important things to me. First, you have to see your own innate worth. Him recognizing that you have a beautiful smile does not mean that he made your smile beautiful. Him recognizing that you're intelligent did not put all that information in your brain. Him pointing out that you are super sweet did not make your personality a sweet one. He is only recognizing and illuminating things that you ALREADY ARE. Why does that matte…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/19 01:09 AM
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Indifferent, amused mastery Do you have steps you'd recommend taking to achieve this?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/19 12:58 AM
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It's scary how much you sound like me... wow. If I could recommend a book, I'd urge you to read Codependent No More. It's very insightful and has helped me see the error in my ways. I'm still reading and still learning, still falling into bad habits and still relying far too heavily on his emotional state for my own well being. But at least I'm aware of it now... acknowledgement/acceptance is the first step, right? I don't know that I have advice, as I'm struggling to find my own footing in life…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 06:25 PM
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Honestly? No. I don't think you could. I think that you'd be doing a disservice to whatever potential future child you have by bringing them into this kind of dynamic. Children need a mother and a father. I don't look down on you for your choices, but I don't think you should be bringing children into this world based on the path you've followed in life. For their sake. I really respect that you want to try to raise them with traditional values, but there's no way to do that effectively in your …
/r/RedPillWives23/06/19 01:07 PM
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LOL, same.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/19 01:36 PM
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Maybe I'll try some stuffed chicken, tonight! I have done it a few times, always a success. I just love the lean chicken breast paired with something fatty and rich, like bacon/cheddar/cream cheese. So good!
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/19 01:35 PM
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I'm obsessed with spaghetti squash- just introduced my man to it last night! I'll have to try that pork recipe, for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/19 01:33 PM
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I do this, too! I always add fat to the veggies to make them tasty for him. The coleslaw with bacon sounds yummy, I will have to try that one.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 05:11 PM
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See, my man isn't the biggest veggie person. I incorporate what I can, but it typically ends up with my meal being much more veggie-heavy and his being lots of protein with some hidden veggies underneath, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 05:02 PM
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My man and I have been eating low carb for a couple months now. Anyone else have similar food habits? I'm always looking for low carb buddies to share recipes with, and having low carb AND RP wives/girlfriends would make it even more fun.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 04:54 PM
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This is a quality comment. Beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 11:59 AM
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I want to do this, as well. I don't have good tips for you, but I'd love to join you on your journey!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 08:13 PM
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I’d be happy to be buddies!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 03:12 PM
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I'd love to be a buddy if you wanna chat. I don't really have female friends I can talk to about this stuff, either, so I'd love to have someone! There is no cookie-cutter, this works for everyone method to relationships. She says not to give opinions in the book, but my fiance and I bonded over our political debates and love having them. I've even talked to him about it and he has said how important those are to him. Similarly, she says never to correct your man. My fiance has made it clear tha…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 07:45 PM
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Happy to share! :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:36 AM
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I’ve actually found some amazing and affordable ones on Amazon. This is my captain’s favorite that I’ve purchased recently: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D5T6SWV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_F6k3CbVJ43VAX It’s super comfy and flattering, pairs well with a cardigan. It’s wild how I wear this (& cardigan), which covers every inch of my up to my neck, and every time I wear it he goes crazy and has to rip it off. Modesty is seriously sexy, ladies! I’m seeking more suggestions, too, in this thread, but figure…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:31 AM
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Saving this comment for later! ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:27 AM
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I am 24 and consider myself socially conservative. USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:03 PM
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Very good points.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 10:51 AM
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This is so true. Before we were engaged, if I mentioned "boyfriend" to a coworker, they'd get a weird look on their face, so much so that another coworker would regularly jump in to clarify, "oh but they're very serious, they live together, they blah blah blah" as if my relationship had to be defended. It is clear as day that if you're boyfriend/girlfriend, you're just children fooling around, no matter how serious you actually are. In ancient Sparta, men above 30 who were unmarried were shamed …
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 11:00 AM
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Agreed. Sometimes it slips out when I'm super frustrated, and I never feel lady-like when it happens. I actually use a lot of substitute curse words, like "heck" and "frick," and my captain thinks it's adorable and will always laugh and give me a kiss when I do it. He especially likes it because he'll say a sentence full of curses and I'll say mine in a goofy voice, replacing all the words. It falls into that childlike aspect of femininity and is awesome. I've always done it so it was a perk whe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 08:38 PM
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Nope. I want my children to be mine and I don't want to ever wonder about where my baby ended up in the world. Creating life is something I want to experience with the man I love, and raising that life is something that he and I will do together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:09 AM
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Red flag. You should never be flirting with someone else when in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 12:07 AM
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A perfect analogy that I never even thought of making. Thank you for this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 12:01 AM
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Someone already said it, but I second /r/strongcurves ! The book is direct, well-mapped out, easily modified, and the results seem fantastic. I've toyed with the program but am jumping in fully starting next week. Maybe we could be accountability buddies!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 11:58 PM
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This is not redpill. This is abuse. Textbook abuse. You need to seek help in order to cope with that fact. I'm so sorry you went through this, and I'm sorry he used the guise of RP to manipulate you into thinking something that simply isn't true.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 11:47 PM
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It's a dream, probably based on what you fear. How is your relationship with your dad? Previous partners? Men in general? Do not hold your SO accountable for a dream. Don't mention it to him. Don't look at him differently. It was a dream. It wasn't real.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 01:03 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:33 PM
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I tend to disagree with this. I have spoken to many attractive men, and most will agree that when it comes to searching for a wife and partner, the most attractive thing a woman can do is be feminine. Try reading The Fascinating Womanhood, /u/North_Education, as it will give you good insight into embracing your natural femininity. I've known couples where on first glance, I've thought "What is HE doing with HER?!" and then you meet her and talk to her and feel her energy and you're like... ohhhh…
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 08:58 PM
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You knew before you posted- it’s clear as day. I know, I’ve been where you’ve been (knowing the answer but wanting to ask around and make sure you tried every single thing possible before admitting defeat). You know, though. You’re wasting both of your time, which is limited. Don’t waste anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 10:53 PM
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Surprisingly, online. I had ended a LTR and was not interested in a relationship of any kind. I was big on what I know now as nun-mode... self-improvement, avoiding men altogether, etc.. A female friend of mine made an account for me on a dating app (OKC) using photos she'd taken from my social media. She then showed me, and while I was mad at first, it was kinda interesting to me and something I'd never even thought about doing, so I kept it. I had many men reach out to me, and I only really ta…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:57 PM
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Yep. This has been my motto with absolutely everything in life. "Take what resonates and leave the rest."
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:49 PM
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Nothing about this is RP in any way. This whole thing is a hot mess. IMO, if you can't be committed, you shouldn't be in a relationship. It's very clear that both of you are toxic for each other and he's clearly manipulating you, but you're also a cheater so don't think for a second that you're innocent in this. This relationship should've ended before it started from the sound of it. You need to cut yourself off and work on yourself before you even think of being with someone, and when the time…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:47 PM
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Nah, we're not big into football in our house. Just eating burgers today and I'm committing to meal prep tomorrow, hehe. The chicken is AMAZING! I use boneless, skinless thighs, toss them into the slow cooker and put 20 whole cloves on top, mix olive oil and paprika together and then pour over. Cook on medium for 4-6 hours. I normally shred it and serve with rice, or mashed potatoes if I'm feeling naughty. You can throw diced onion in, too! (Fiance hates onions so I skip that, now, haha). It's u…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 10:28 PM
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Mostly this is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:18 PM
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Yeah, this sounds awesome. I also think that I'd be far more personally invested in meal prepping if I was paying for the recipes as opposed to finding things on Pinterest and then forgetting about them a week later. I'd be investing money into it, which would encourage me to invest time into it, too. Thank you for introducing me to this service. I am pretty positive I'm going to subscribe!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:24 PM
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You're not blabbing at all, this is SO helpful! It's so silly, but I didn't even think to change the meat with me not liking pork... LOL! I'll totally make it with beef! And yes, I LOVE chicken thighs! Twenty garlic chicken thighs is one of my favorite slow cooker recipes (it's the easiest thing ever, which is probably why... chicken thighs, paprika, olive oil, twenty garlic cloves, DONE, lol). Chicken thighs are cheaper AND tastier... can't go wrong! Breasts feel cleaner (healthier) for some re…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:16 PM
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That's great! I honestly think I might just try this. It seems like it would take the guesswork out and some of the complication of trying to shop every recipe. So you typically will choose from the recipes of the week and make 2-3 of them for the whole week? That sounds pretty perfect for us. I could meal prep on the weekend or throw it in the slow cooker while we're at work and then not have to add anymore stress during the work week. That might even give me more time/energy to clean up the ho…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:10 PM
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Thank you! I tend to stay away from pork, but I bet my fiance will love this, and I'm down to try it out! It looks pretty yummy! That's awesome advice about cuts of meat - I didn't even think of the money saving aspect! I love that! We're not on that tight of a budget but saving up for a larger, more family-friendly home, so anywhere I can save, I'd love to!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:02 PM
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That's a good point... I need to be nicer to myself!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:59 PM
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That sounds awesome! I'm going to look at eMeals, I've actually never heard of it. We do have Shipt, as well, so that may make things super convenient since grocery store trips can be a hassle with the work schedule (sometimes I leave a bit early to go, which works out, but this doesn't happen as often as it needs to, lol).
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:57 PM
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I have one, but I don't use it very often! I'd like to change that!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:53 PM
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Thank you so much for the advice! I'll definitely poke around on pinterest, but do you have any all star recipes for the slow cooker that are easy to prep for? I have one, but I don't use it too often. I'll definitely get liners since dishes are always a hassle!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:05 PM
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This is good advice! I’m going to work on food prep- that’s been a goal of mine in the new year. I suck at prepping. I like the idea of slow cooker meals that cook while you’re away!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 06:26 PM
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It’s just rough because I know he expects me to do it all and it kills me that i can’t. Despite us both working, he pays for pretty much everything household related except for groceries, which we split depending on who shops. So I feel like he thinks I’m not holding up my end of things. I’m just gonna try being more tidy in the moment so that it doesn’t accumulate later. Focus on cooking healthy food and being tidy. Thank you for taking some of this edge off, though, because I’ve been feeling s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 05:29 PM
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I totally agree with this, but what about when you both work the same hours? What if you work more hours? I want to be the woman who is the homemaker for him and earns his love, adoration, gratitude, appreciation, etc., but when I walk in the door 5 minutes before him and leave in the morning two hours before him, I don't know where to find the time to get to everything! I normally use the tiny bit of time I have to do the dishes, I always put away the laundry (though he throws it in the washer …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 12:56 PM
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I am a female. I am extremely conservative/right-wing. I wouldn't consider myself either pill because I don't like the whole "sexual market strategy, pick-up, lie to and manipulate people for personal gain" games that they play. That being said, I theoretically side more with red pill (there are obvious gender norms, each gender has a role, women should be submissive to their partner, feminism is cancer to men, women, and society as a whole, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:53 PM
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Men looking at pornography is the equivalent of women producing pornography. Men seek to chase women, and women seek to be chased. I'd argue both are a form of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:42 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 12:02 AM
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I would have zero attraction to a man who labeled himself as a feminist. He could be 6' 5", make three billion a year, clearly spend hours at the gym every single day and hasn't eaten a carb since 2001, have EVERY SINGLE THING IN THE WORLD going for him, and I'd still think he was gross. Male feminists are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:17 PM
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If all else was ideal, I'd rather deal with sexual dissatisfaction than emotional. I want somebody who can make me feel loved and appreciated and understood more than I want anything else in the world. My emotions are intrinsically tied with my sexual feelings, so if I'm not emotionally connected with someone, I wouldn't feel sexual toward them anyway. If I feel adored, I can deal with some sexual dissatisfaction. To me, sexual dissatisfaction means we don't have sex as often as one of us would …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:12 PM
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Oooookay, I'm starting to see it. What your argument says to me is that all men have the potential to be dangerous, and therefore women need to constantly be one step ahead "just in case" inner male nature comes out and attacks them. I wholeheartedly disagree with this. By nature, I believe men want to protect women. There are bad men out there, yeah, but you shouldn't be marrying them? You never surrender to a man you can't trust. A man who is dangerous to you is not a man you should marry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:17 PM
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You pretty much ignored everything I said and just repeated yourself as if I didn't address your statements, and then went on to make the sweeping statement that some children are abused which means any type of submission is DANGEROUS! I'm not interested in repeating myself to someone who isn't interested in hearing (reading?), lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:46 PM
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Yeeeaaaaah so we just aren't going to see eye to eye here. You clearly view the world very differently than I do, and are intent on misconstruing my words. If you were just interested in debate/clarification, I'd continue this conversation, but I'm not going to waste time writing out a thoughtful response when it's very clear you are not open to seeing things another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:12 AM
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Every person is different and to claim women should always be the first mate implies that the women are never the expert? It doesn't imply that at all. A first made is invaluable to the ship. If it wasn't, it wouldn't hold it's own position, it would simply be another sailor. Just because the captain guides the direction of the ship does not take away from their needing of the first mate, their reliance on the first mate, or the importance of the first mate. I think you misinterpret what a first…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:56 PM
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I think that you're a little confused on submission, inferiority, being led, etc.. The man is supposed to have the dominant role in the relationship, and the woman is supposed to have the submissive role in the relationship. This does not mean one partner is superior or inferior to the other, they are both vital in the dynamic and simply have different roles to play. Look at your masculine partner as the captain of the ship and look at yourself as the first mate. While he may be the one leading …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:41 PM
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Yeah, same. I think one was to always hold your car keys between your middle and pointer finger in case you needed to use it as a weapon. Always lock your car doors immediately, don't linger with them open in a parking lot (especially at night). Only meet people in well-populated places and always have someone who knows where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:40 PM
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I was taught these, as well. Plus, a few others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:24 PM
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My biological father, no. He was a drug addict and abandoned me over and over again. I want a man who is reliable, loving, and never makes me feel like an option. My stepfather, maybe. He's a good provider, conservative, traditional, romantic toward my mom, goofy with the kids. He's a good guy, but he has some mood issues and did a lot of psychological damage with the ups and downs. I am a woman and have my own hormonal ups and downs, I need a man who is a rock, not one who I feel completely uns…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:31 PM
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I'm a woman in my twenties dating a man in his thirties, so I guess I can't talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:26 PM
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I'm twenty-three and engaged. I would've preferred being married by now (had I chosen at a young age what I wanted), but my fiance and I had to find each other first, and due to the difference in age (he's a fair bit older than me), it was best we met when I was firmly into my twenties rather than a fresh spring chicken. Lol. I think youngest is best. It gives you the opportunity to grow with someone, learn with someone, get old with someone. I also think that it is best for family-building, if …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 09:03 PM
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You sound like a lucky lady!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 09:29 PM
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You're welcome! Always happy to help. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 10:58 PM
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Stole this from a comment I made a few days ago, because it works here, too... You need to be direct and concise about what you want. You don't need to explain, ask, give a whole long story, or approach it like a problem. If you're sick of the brown walls in the bedroom and want to switch it up, simply say "I really want to redecorate in the bedroom." Then he can have that information in his court and take it from there. Let him take charge of the situation, he's much more likely to do it. Men d…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 09:41 PM
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I really do think this comes down to the individual. Speaking in generalities and focusing on singles, I'd argue that men want it more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:51 AM
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Not unless they're attractive. Okay, that was a bad joke. But, no. Money/power has no influence on my attraction to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:50 PM
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Thanks to you, too! Merry Christmas!
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:14 AM
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Smart way of going about it- I appreciate that!
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:04 PM
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Two people asked the same exact question (at the same time). So I posted the same comment as an answer to both. I don't see how that's an issue. The only other option would be to ignore one of them, which seemed unfair. My answer wouldn't have changed from one person to another.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:11 PM
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Thanks! A much quicker way of describing what I would've typed 20 paragraphs about, LOL.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:48 PM
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are you actually a woman? Yes, lol. how you found this sub reddit? I heard my SO talk about RP a year or two ago, so I began exploring the community. I am very conservative and had heard of it myself through right-wing circles, but didn't really look that much into it until he brought it up. what dp u like/ dislike here? I like the basis of the philosophy... the human nature parts, the gender differences and importance of gender roles, etc.. I've always believed those things and thought of them …
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:37 PM
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While this topic is up for debate on a forum like this one, I would argue that increased promiscuity in women is being pushed for the purpose of degradation of the family unit. While those who are turning plates may appreciate this attitude in women, I know that when RP men begin looking for LTR's, they do not want a high partner count. Why? Because it's in male nature to not want a women who has been with every dude on the block, and because it degrades the mechanisms women have to pair bond, a…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:28 PM
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While this topic is up for debate on a forum like this one, I would argue that increased promiscuity in women is being pushed for the purpose of degradation of the family unit. While those who are turning plates may appreciate this attitude in women, I know that when RP men begin looking for LTR's, they do not want a high partner count. Why? Because it's in male nature to not want a women who has been with every dude on the block, and because it degrades the mechanisms women have to pair bond, a…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:28 PM
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Our culture has not only normalized birth control, but it has normalized abortion as a backup plan for if that fails. It also pushes an agenda of sexual liberation and "empowerment by embracing female sexuality," making women feel it is their duty to "compete" with men when it comes to promiscuity. In reality, they are being brainwashed for much more malicious purposes.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:11 PM
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In my opinion, intention to cheat is the same as physically cheating. An attempt is just as bad as the act, as it means the other person or other outside factors are the thing that prevented it. He is seeking and trying to cheat, so, to answer your question, hell no. You should not trust a man who cannot be loyal to you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 07:27 PM
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Start with a goal of 5-10 minutes. If you go for an hour, you'll hate it. I always pick out a scent that works well with me (mine is Lavender), put some on my hands, and take deep breaths in to inhale the scent. Dim lights, relaxing music. Just focus on breath. I'm a visual person, so I try to imagine each breath in brings in this white light (happiness, positivity, cleansing, whatever good thing you need), and each breath out exhales grey (stress, worry, doubt, anything bad you need to let go o…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 06:00 PM
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