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Calla_/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 03:18 PM
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Calla_/r/askTRP01/06/15 03:54 PM
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if they get offended they offer nothing Amen
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:13 PM
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Yes, being lonely sucks. But don't let your fear of loneliness ruin your critical thinking skills so you end up with someone crazy or abusive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 03:37 PM
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Oh no I wasn't criticizing! I was trying to say be careful because religions can be corrupt!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 02:35 AM
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Yes, I would want my parents to set me up with someone they know is good and who I have been growing up knowing and who I and him mutually agree to marry. Not like some stranger or something forced.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 02:11 AM
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Eh, I think that there is a lot of abuse in Islam against women. It's not like "patriarchal" oppression it's true oppression and abuse. I have Muslim family and some of the women were truly abused. My extended family relative was married off to an elderly mosque leader when she was 9 and he abused her, and then when he died when she was like 13 she ended up with another mosque leader and had like 10 kids, it was very sad.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 02:09 AM
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I am in my early 20's. Many of my friends are in stable LTR's or marriages which are happy and good (in my eyes). But my friends who are currently dating, especially internet dating, I think it is dark and depressing. Because relationships and love and dating has taken a sour turn, men are less keen to commitment and marriage. Even on sites like Match.com ore eharmony.com, it seems like there are a lot of weird people who are afraid of or not ready for something serious. The majority of my frien…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 12:45 AM
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Every woman who posts here just happens to be a slightly underweight 8/10 with an hourglass figure and larger than average breasts. No one here is average looking or slightly overweight. That would be blasphemous.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 11:32 PM
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I agree with the ideals that they present. However it looks like the producers are going to figure out a way to have weird/fake dramas happen.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 06:23 AM
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Actually no! I actually am seeing a lot of happy marriages with good people who both make sacrifices for the other. I also have been seeing happy relationships where both make sacrifices for the other.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 09:20 PM
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I like body hair, but a clean shaved face. I prefer a head of short, neat hair but if the guy is balding it is fine if he chooses to shave his head.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 05:16 AM
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How do you guys use all this moisturizer and subscreen without getting acne? Even the best sunscreens and face lotions have caused me bad acne. When I stopped putting anything on my face my skin became dramatically better.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 03:07 PM
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I disagree with all the comments saying you have to hurry and find a husband. I have posted this before and I will post it again, marriage is not something to be rash and panicky about. It is something that takes patience and prayer. That said, I don't see why you are dating a guy who you don't feel 100% sure on marrying. Unless you two agree that one day you plan to get married, there is no point wasting time and energy on each other. You could be using this time to build yourself and get a bet…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 06:05 AM
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I have basically no experience.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 06:11 AM
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I think men who are promiscuous have a hard time settling down. I want a man who is not super experienced.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:43 AM
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I hate it when people say "competition" because it implies you should be panicky and rash. It's not a competition, it is a careful and prayerful search to find a life partner who you can be a good wife to, who shares your values, and will be a good leader for your family. I do agree with all the points you summarized though!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 05:37 AM
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I work best under clear cut guidelines too. I didn't think about one day asking for that in the home. Good idea, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 06:56 AM
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Well I like hymns a lot but I don't think that flies well on reddit lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 06:52 AM
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Bars are terrible places. Alcohol is a drug no matter how people sugar coat it or justify drinking it. I hate alcohol and could never date or marry a man who is a drinker.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 05:43 AM
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Have fun entrusting your child's life and well being into the hands of people that are not you. Oh well, at least you can be lazy!
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:58 PM
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Impregnating a woman you have no intention of marrying and bringing a poor kid into the mix is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Think about it; your own offspring and genes will be suffering from a broken family and forced to live with a single mom and absentee dad because you selfishly wanted to have a kid just because it would be cool. This isn't red pill, this is just bad parenting and poor decision making. If you don't want the responsibility of having a kid but want to spend every other…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:20 PM
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You are creative! I I probably would be like "oh you and your sweet tooth ;)" and smile and tenderly touch his shoulder or kiss his cheek or something and then serve dinner with whatever was left for dessert. It wouldn't even occur to me to make a new dessert!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 08:09 AM
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I don't think you should blame yourself for being rejected. Sometimes people just don't work out and it doesn't mean either person is in the wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 04:27 AM
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I spoke with a guy online who said the same thing!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 04:14 AM
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Yeah I am worried that now I will go on a date and the guy will expect me to be a complete BDSM "sub"-- not just being feminine and such but being a complete doormat that gets whipped. I am pretty inexperienced with dating, so I have a lot of bad expectations. Lol this is one of them!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 04:14 AM
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What about lifting weights at home? Every day I do 15 minutes (sometimes more) of weights and 45 minutes of brisk walking and sometimes jogging. It's not hardcore but at least I am doing something.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 04:04 PM
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I agree but if you say anything you are called sexist. Now days it is pretty much financially impossible to be a housewife unless a) your husband is financially successful and/or b) your husband doesn't expect you to work (a lot of men now days expect women to work and manage the home).
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:44 PM
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Look, I am not talking about American women. I am talking about Afgan and Middle Eastern women. Don't paint a portrait of the middle east as being some joyful haven for women, because it is not.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:28 AM
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It's probably like 80% for men in the Middle East.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:14 AM
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I am not a troll. I seriously have a great aunt who was married off at age 9 and a relative who got acid thrown at her face.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 04:13 AM
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I have the right to say this because I am Middle Eastern. Do not spout out bullshit about how the middle east is all peaceful and flowery and full of joy for men and women. My great aunt was forced to get married at age 9 to an elderly Islamic Mullah who abused her and then died of old age when she was like 14, only to be forced to marry another abusive Islamic mullah until he died and then she was alone and destitute with like 10 kids. 97% of women in Afganistan have major depression. The famil…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:57 AM
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Oh that makes sense I understand now
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 03:30 PM
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I don't understand is it bad or good
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/15 03:51 PM
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No. I thought thinking that way was considered being entitled for women.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/15 06:25 AM
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Yeah but Bertha is in the Neuro ICU because she shot herself.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 06:23 PM
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If you go to a university hospital Neuro ICU it's basically all brain dead or nearly brain dead people who are incontinent and hooked up to several lines, and most of the nurses are female. And most nurses have a lot of gross and difficult scud work to do. And most of the new female (or male) nurses have to work night shift. And nursing is like 99% female.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:59 PM
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I like this post thank you
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 03:43 AM
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By mutual do you mean I like/ love him back?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 04:35 PM
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But how do you know what your worth is and who you should and should not be grateful for?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:56 PM
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I haven't settled or dated, I don't even know what settling means and what people mean by "don't have standards that are too high"
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:55 PM
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I guess I don't know what it means myself, and I guess I should have asked that instead sorry. I always read general articles and such that say "don't have such high standards" and I guess that means to "settle".
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:54 PM
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See, this is what I mean. I am not fat by the definition of overweight--I am average weight BMI wise. But men hate women like me who are average, and what you are saying proves my point. I need to lose at least 20 lbs to be considered of any value to men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 04:14 PM
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I get very nervous and worried that he will think I don't like him
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 03:50 PM
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I guess I feel fat because I spend a lot of time reading theredpill and 4chan and see when people post pictures of women like me they get offended and say she is fat. I think men are secretly grossed out by most women who aren't like Erika Schwegler
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 03:49 PM
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That is a good idea! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 03:47 PM
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The status I want is a guy who has a good and stable job that allows us to raise our family in a good neighborhood, who doesn't drink alcohol or smoke, is smart and kind and gentle, and who is 100% devoted to our family.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 04:43 PM
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Pretty much church I switched churches though so it's going to take some time for me to meet other young men
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 05:34 AM
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I am kind of a WGTOW. I kind of have lost hope in dating. I assume any man I like will prefer someone much hotter and not me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 05:33 AM
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This is so weird I would marry a guy who loved me and cared about me and thought I was sexy even if I become morbidly obese.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 03:30 PM
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Why would a woman want to be a breadwinner unless she is making good money? I always wanted to be a mostly stay at home mom. I always want to work part time though because I know being out of the job market for too long will not help me if something happens (look at the thread where the lady got cheated on and abandoned by her husband after years of marriage).
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 04:57 PM
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I am saving sex for marriage and I want a man who is doing the same and who is of the same faith as me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 05:29 PM
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I don't think men are as sex obsessed and afraid of commitment as the media makes them out to be. I think portraying men as commitment phones who are helpless slaves to their sexual desires is very sexist.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 05:27 PM
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I don't think one should be as frugal as my parents were, but one should still be frugal. I am okay occasionally buying a nice ($100-200) purse or shoes with my money, but I am a big believer in saving most of it. I think it is ok to let loose a little bit from time to time--within reason. I have learned that instead of buying junk like coffee or alcohol or candy or fancy dinners and other "not too expensive luxuries" add up. Instead, I would rather not buy those and get one nice thing. Right no…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 05:24 PM
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Imagine if she joined a men's Bible study instead of a bowling team.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 07:27 AM
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Oh dear Lord where I am from a 500k house is very cheap. 500k is like a modest 1.5-bedroom condo in the middle of a weird neighborhood. A normal, modest house is like 600k+ if you want to avoid living in the ghetto.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 07:55 AM
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I am a little overweight for my height (132 lbs) and I will tell you one way it has affected me. My relationship experience is null and I am extremely single. I want to lose weight desperately but I have been travelling all over the place for job interviews and that messes all my progress up.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 05:20 AM
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I am single and I plan to stay so until I find a job (I need to support myself and wherever I get employed I will probably be living for the next 2-3 years and if I move far away having an LDR would be too complicated). I have always approached guys first, several of who, have liked me back! But it's all in how you approach. Ask questions, give compliments, listen to what he says, act interested and friendly. You can approach a guy without being sexual. Men are not mind readers and if you are so…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 11:58 PM
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Yeah but rural Montana doesn't exactly have a bustling market to meet good men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 06:10 AM
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You probably look like a child because you are a child!!!! OMG when I was 16 I looked like a kid. I didn't feel like I looked like a kid but when I see photos I see a child. Despite what TRP trolls may say women do not peak at 16. Women start beginning to look like women at 14-15 then fully look like women at around age 18-20 and hit their prime through their 20's. At 16 you have more growing to do. Your face changes, your body parts catch up to each other, you gain confidence and learn how to p…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 06:07 AM
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I don't really like players for a couple reasons. The first reason is because I am saving sex for marriage for my faith and personal values. I would actually prefer a guy who does the same, but as long as he is willing to wait for me it is not a requirement. Guys who have a promiscuous past are generally not waiting for marriage. Second is that if he used a ton of girls for sex I would assume he is planning to do the same with me. Thirdly I believe having multiple relationships that didn't work …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 05:46 AM
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My mom is a SAHM who worked until I was 6-7 and I think it was harder for her to be a SAHM then to work.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 04:14 PM
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A 21 year old living with his parents with no car or "real job" through college is very different from a 28 year old living with his parents and working a low wage job without any plans for improvement. I am 21 so man A would be fine with me but man B would be a turn off. I agree with what you say, though. A suave and flirtatious guy B would still not be attractive to me but a shy and friendly 28 year old man with a steady job, a decent and safe apartment, and a clean drivable car would appeal t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 04:09 PM
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It's okay to approach a man, in fact, I think if you like a man you should approach him. But it's all in the nature of how you approach. Approach a man by being gentle, kind, a little shy is fine, and showing genuine interest in him and his accomplishments. Not being all "hey baby lets have sex!"
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 06:06 AM
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I think it's fine to initiate contact with a man but for me initiating contact is not sexual. It's just going up to the guy and asking his name and questions about his life and getting a feel for whether or not you two are compatible. Example: a few months ago I met a guy through my church. I was attracted to him and I sat next to him and spoke. We exchanged facebook a that day. I had my crappy job so I was too exhausted to message anything but if I had I would have messaged him and said "hey th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 07:10 PM
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Good news everyone! I got my first interview for a job with daytime hours! There is hope out there :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 01:42 AM
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Thank you!!! I am bookmarking this how-to!!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 09:45 PM
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I never watched it, but it annoys me. I don't understand dating just for sexual gratification. It just leads to unnecessary heartache and drama. I would rather be a 25 year old virgin who has only dated a couple guys but is marriage minded and loving/gentle/feminine than a 25 year old who had several sexual partners who viewed her as nothing more than a plate and who is cold/ bitter.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 05:40 AM
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How do you clean shoes? Do you use an old toothbrush and scrub them? Sorry if this sounds dumb.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 07:47 PM
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I made the eggs today :D They were good! I just made one egg like the recipe called for and it was satisfying!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 07:46 PM
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I am going to try to make biscuits this week :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 07:45 PM
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Thanks! Will make tomorrow!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 02:18 AM
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In my field I could make about 10-15 k less per year before taxes working daytime hours in a less prestigious place. But for 10-15k less you get to sleep at night and get 2-day weekends and major holidays. If I could live with my parents and get a job like that close to home, I would actually end up saving more money, since I wouldn't need to pay rent. Rent where I live rent is like 20-24k a year after taxes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 10:45 PM
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After I took this job, I had several places call me for interviews with hours like you described, and one place with daytime hours, but I couldn't go to the interviews without calling off sick from work. Ugh I am so depressed that I rushed through job hunting.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 10:42 PM
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Aw thank you. Before this job nightmare I used to volunteer a LOT. I am taking a couple weeks off then I plan to volunteer again. Volunteering was my favorite activity and if a nice nonprofit near home will hire me, I will jump on it--that is my passion.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 03:45 PM
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I graduated college with an in-demand-ish major. I got this job because I applied to everything that no one wants, and I took the least prestigious job imaginable just because I was sooo scared of not getting a job and being a "loser" that I rushed. Now I have learned my lesson. Be patient, don't rush, don't panic, and ask a lot of questions about what is expected of you before accepting something. The job market for my specialty is still relatively decent for all the "unwanted" places. I have n…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 03:36 PM
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If the job had the hours they promised me, I would have stayed and applied to other jobs while working. But doing exclusively nights was driving me insane. My parents are able to support me and since they saw me decline they told me I am better off quitting. If I didn't have them, I would have stayed for a much longer time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 03:22 PM
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Thank you! I am aggressively and patiently applying to new jobs with better hours and will go back to school at my local community college and take classes next January if nothing opens up. I want a steady job with steady pay that gives me the time to have a family.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 04:33 AM
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Thank you!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 01:33 AM
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I agree. And thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 01:33 AM
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I walked about 3-5 miles per day this week, and a couple days I walked 7-10 miles. I got weights and will start moderate weight training this week. Next week I have moderate goals: walk everywhere I can possibly walk: walking to the grocery store easily adds 30 minutes of moderate activity, and start basic easy weight training. I haven't weighed myself in about 6 weeks. I am scared to look. I ate some delicious macaroons this week. I don't buy sweets in bulk; if I am craving a sweet thing I walk…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 12:32 AM
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I don't go on TRP. I get stressed on there lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 12:25 AM
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Aww see I want to do the same one day. What do you make for breakfast? Any suggestions that are easy?
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 12:20 AM
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correction: it never favored women, but i think it is just harder. I think women should have the choice to be career women if they want to be, but not be belittled if they choose not to be.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 12:17 AM
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Yeah I agree. I don't think our world is built to favor women any more.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 12:16 AM
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Thank you! Yes originally I was going to stay until another job opened up, but mentally I was in a bad place. Like I would get extreme rage for no reason.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:16 PM
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I am no career woman. I do personally understand, though, how some women are very passionate about their faith and become missionaries in my religion.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:14 PM
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Aw thank you, I hope so!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:09 PM
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Well in my field night work is common but on rotation, like you said. And usually people are honest about the requirements: if you need to do nights only then they tell you from the moment you apply. It's stupid. In this economy, there are many other people who would happily do 3rd shift exclusively. They should have just advertised themselves honestly!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:09 PM
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Well to me it means "Care about the well-being of and love"
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 08:43 PM
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Yes, I have my parents and they will take care of me forever if they need to (But neither I nor them want me to be under their care forever)
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 08:38 PM
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Thank you!!! I needed to hear that as I am pretty discouraged right now!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 07:24 PM
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I've never had a relationship before so I have nothing to be responsible for. Yayyyyyyyyy
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 06:37 PM
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Every day take 5 minutes to throw all trash away Once a week vacuum everything Lysol wipes are an easy way to disinfect the toilet seat Efferdent is an easy way to clean your toilet bowl-plop two in before you go out and when you come home it should be clean Get no scrub foam spray and spray it in the shower when you are done showering Easy cooking: rice/ pasta, boiled vegetables (made from frozen or raw veggies), and tofu, add an avocado or egg if you want more protein or fat
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 06:34 PM
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Putting your child first does not mean making your husband a wallet. If your husband is resentful about financially supporting his flesh and blood then he is not ready to be a parent. My parents raised me putting me and my siblings first and they have been together for 25 years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 05:29 PM
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If I was in a burning airplane and I could only save either my child or my husband, I would save my child. Likewise, I would expect my husband to do the exact same thing; save our child over me. My parents raised me with this mentality and they have been together for 25 years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 05:28 PM
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I am talking about needs. Not wants! The husband's wants come before the child's wants but the child's needs will always take first priority.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 11:41 PM
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I respectfully disagree with her. When a baby comes along, you become a mother first and your husband should become a father first, and that baby should be your number 1 priority, no matter what. Husband and wife should work together as a team to help cultivate a happy, healthy, good-natured character into the baby. Have date nights, and prioritize private time together, but always put the kids' needs first. Marriages fall apart because people put themselves before their families.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 08:54 PM
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