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Question For MenCalm-Lab-8592/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:56 AM
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Question For MenCalm-Lab-8592/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:28 AM
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How the fuck are these things related
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:13 AM
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Huh?? Sexual objectification absolutely violates consent. If you’re objectifying somebody sexually and they DON’T want you to then that’s absolutely a breach of consent… plus I dunno why your even saying all this shit I mean if there’s somebody you encounter you find sexually attractive that doesn’t want you to view them that way, don’t you feel like a creep for insisting upon yourself that it’s fine for you to dehumanize and disrespect them? It’s just weird and gross honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:16 PM
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Well obviously insanely sex positive women with kinks exist but they are no where near the MAJORITY and they aren’t even the strongest advocates for not approaching women in public
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:46 PM
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Well consent and an understanding of what’s happening is involved I think there’s a clear difference. Plus did they really say that or something entirely different I really doubt they said approaching women in public is predatory on its own it’s another factor your leaving out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:45 PM
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lol seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:38 PM
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Yeah okay. Where all these lover men your referring to they never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:38 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:03 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:19 PM
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How is that relating to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:25 PM
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Sounds stressful.. wish you the best and let that 🐱 be safe. Get tested regularly and always wear protection and use birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:43 PM
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Ah okay. As I thought doesn’t really sound worth it. I wish hooking up with women was easier than men. I also don’t like men but I find them to be incredibly easy. Although I don’t go looking for hook ups with them anymore.. I’m just not attracted to 99% of men..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:39 PM
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What do you enjoy about hookups and how would you say your experience has been? Mostly positive or mostly negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:31 PM
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Ts got me crying 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:30 PM
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Even if it’s true that he’d ‘value’ a girl more that doesn’t exactly make him a better match or compatible? He’s just desperate and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:26 PM
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Exactly I don’t understand this question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:25 PM
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That’s what I’m wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:00 PM
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How is this to the benefit of her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:43 PM
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Most of these men have an unlikeable and undesirable personality so it’s no secret they undervalue it when they can’t even grasp it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:32 PM
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Because it isn’t when the quality of men to have it with is sub par
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:56 PM
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Isn’t this just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:19 PM
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Who is doing this though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:02 PM
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Yeah and what is anybody supposed to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:01 PM
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You can’t hide your resentment for lack of sex this much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:59 PM
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Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:59 PM
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What sense does this make to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:58 PM
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You’ll be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:11 PM
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Because your not a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:44 PM
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They are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:44 PM
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What the absolute fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:26 AM
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If your really hot then prove it otherwise I really can’t take anything you say to heart sorry too many men lie to boost their own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:49 AM
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And…?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:48 AM
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Dudes won’t fuck other dudes? lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:22 AM
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Only accurate awnser here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:58 PM
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Uhh no it’s not? Trans Men on T don’t suddenly start fucking everything their attracted to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:58 PM
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Females feel less pressure to sexually preform for each other than heterosexual couples is that really a shocker..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:57 PM
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A lot of men come across as insecure, desperate, generally not charming and pathetic that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:56 PM
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Say what you want but members of all genders worship my curves lol … plus being ‘loose’ has nothing to do with vaginal pleasure. Plus thousands of men would be more than content with a ‘loose’ pussy.. so does it matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:04 AM
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Anything with Adam Sandlers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:18 PM
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What are you talking about lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:18 PM
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Thought so. so now we can finally stop shaming women for having high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:24 PM
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No I just understand the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:24 PM
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She’s a bear.. 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:23 PM
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This can’t be true because every man always brings up how women have incredibly high standards so if you don’t think the inverse of having low standards is good, why shame women for having high ones??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:19 PM
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So funny how you said that but couldn’t even spell correlation correctly haha. Yes I’m asking, how is that a good thing? What is inherently good about simplicity? I’d rather more creativity, specialty and individuality. Seems like most men are just okay with any woman who’s moderately attractive, nice to them and puts out. Which is honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:30 PM
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So you admit it’s a bad trait to have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:27 PM
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Nothing to do with perception how is a lack of standards positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:27 PM
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He can’t even properly socialize with somebody trying to help him he definitely can’t do it with a female
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:23 PM
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How is that a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:22 PM
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Yeah what the hell is the point of these posts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:16 PM
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I don’t do anything I don’t enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:15 PM
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Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:15 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:14 PM
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Men have low standards since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:06 PM
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How is he treating us like people..? He’s literally just whining about not getting anybody then when somebody tries to give him advice and help he’s uncooperative
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:04 PM
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You’ll be alright champ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:17 PM
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Right because 1. All rappers are black and 2. White dominating genres like metal, country, and rock are sooo respectful towards women and queer’s.. delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:16 PM
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But your not nonbinary so why are you celebrating nonbinary pride is the character in your pfp non binary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:59 PM
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Are you super delusional maybe? This is simply a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:59 PM
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I’m well aware What does that have to do with it being a misogynistic practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:58 PM
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You see it as a phenomenon rather than an economic system do you know what a phenomenon is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:57 PM
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I fill my world with other people who hate men.. truly it is you lot who are lonely that’s why it’s a hundred men on this forum every day complaining about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:08 AM
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Yeah even you know how you actually look lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:07 AM
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Wow I don’t understand why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:40 AM
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If your male why is your profile picture the nonbinary flag
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:37 AM
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Okay I can attest to women definitely having questionable interests when it comes to FICTIONAL men but you have to realize it’s all a perfectly fabricated fantasy for these women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:36 AM
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I don’t think your chad haha and honestly no self respecting feminist would disregard her morals just because your attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:35 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:34 AM
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The statistic is actually that women file the PAPERWORK for their divorce not necessarily that they were the ones who asked for the divorce or initiated it which more so points to the laziness and inaction of men and the urgency women feel to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:10 AM
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If she’s 4B she won’t be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:08 AM
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Gross sick of these weird ass misogynistic kinks good thing it’s unrealistic as fuck and no woman would ever beg the lot of you men for this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:07 AM
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As if men know morality utterly laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:30 PM
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You’re embarrassing frankly. The problem is mediocre white men like you who can’t take accountability for your actions/lack there of. Typical liberal male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:28 PM
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Ahh and yet, they do? How is it baseless if she literally has experience in the field? She’s giving you anecdotal evidence. Not to mention she’s right it’s far more women in mental health as therapists and psych nurses and social workers than men. Far more. Uhhh google it, well here’s google! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:16 AM
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Ah, yeah? That’s what they fucking voted for. How do you vote for a man who literally doesn’t give a shit about you, your health, or anybody else in this country and then expect pity and sympathy from women. Like dude we don’t give a shit. That’s what you get. There’s your president. Go beg HIM to give a fuck about your mental health. Go whine to Donald trump about how sad and lonely you are and tell him about male homelessness and violence and blah blah and watch him make that shit a billion ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:10 AM
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It’s not even convenient or rhetorical, you SHOULD be dismissed. Anybody who doesn’t advocate for something like a human rights issue, and literally does nothing to contribute to solving the problem shouldn’t even be participating in a discussion about it in the first place. Like you obviously don’t care that much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:04 AM
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Exactly .. exactly my point. How truly easy it is for a woman to get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:52 AM
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I mean, I’m pretty detached from human emotion and I lack a lot of empathy because I’m a narcissist.. theoretically I see what your saying but if I loved my daughter OBJECTIVELY I wouldn’t marry her off at all young age at all ever for any reason. Yes we all have to do this it comes with being a functioning person but what I’m saying is they had ALOT of responsibility while living in a pretty shitty environment I only say have to marry because, realistically single women who were peasants were s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:41 AM
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What do you see capitalism as
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:39 AM
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What is the patriarchy? What is whites supremacy? What is capitalism? Do these concepts truly mean nothing to you? Not even CAPITALISM? That’s not even anything to do with feminism that’s just objectively a system that exists 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:39 AM
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I can’t stand them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:37 AM
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Because men participate in violence more??? Duh???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:36 AM
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It’s no way female workers lack knowledge in helping men when the vast majority of psychiatric studies were done ON men. If anything, they should be great at it because the science is built around men. Not to mention even if this was the case.. so? Male doctors are often shit at treating female patients too. Not to mention people tend to relate to members of the same sex more often (duh) particularly men when it comes to sharing their mental health. Yet again it’s not the fault of women that MEN…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:34 AM
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How is feet binding comparable to men killing each other? Feet binding was a horrible thing done to women and something heavily misogynistic. Those women weren’t binding their feet out of choice most of the time and even if they were it was out of desperation to survive. No where near comparable to men murdering each other. There’s nothing to learn from you men, you have nothing to teach if you can’t even be taught by a woman and excel academically without pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:32 AM
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These men are fundamentally weaker
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:29 AM
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Well it’s funny how men all of a sudden want college programs meanwhile you overwhelmingly voted for a president that strips away government aid and funding to schools lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:28 AM
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What do you think should be done about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:27 AM
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You care more about being correct than actually doing anything to solve the issue you don’t really care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:21 AM
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All we have to define ourselves in a society is a perceived ‘norm’ of behavior. Psychiatry definitely may seem like it’s based on how people should live their lives but that’s only a part of it. It’s also scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:14 AM
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Definitely not. The PATRIARCHY could never advance SCIENCE. What a ridiculous idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 AM
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Yes well a lot of things are the fault of patriarchy let’s see.. subjugation, genocide, chattel slavery, gender inequality, femcide, female genital mutilation, child marriage, the normalization of violence etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:08 AM
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You did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:05 AM
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More like because they have to take care of children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:04 AM
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What’s funny is not only does the patriarchy existing but it is a CONCEPT a theoretical framework in which you observe the world. It is simply an idea, a construct to be built upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:03 AM
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Well yeah? Are you just gonna deny these things exist? What is even the point of discussion if you’d rather be deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:00 AM
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Not that they were done with only daughters but often parents sold their daughters off to older, powerful men not really having a regard for what will be done to them or how the man will treat them as long as they get the exchange of power. Considering peasant women usually had to get married young and have a fuck ton of kids, also had to work and to maintain their households I’d say they had it pretty fucking bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:57 AM
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How could you compare two completely different classes? You could argue a random homeless man is worse off than lady Gaga and literally nobody would disagree the issue no longer becomes gender it’s wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:54 AM
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You said a whole lot of nothing. It IS the patriarchy that fuels these issues every single one of them and the vast majority of things he listed are to the fault of men. Truth hurts and being under an oppressive and authoritarian system does not mean you can’t resist. That’s a weak mindset. The patriarchy existing doesn’t mean everybody will conform. We are all individuals at the end of the day with the freedom and will to express. The patriarchy isn’t natural, it’s not how society is supposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:52 AM
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Men like you say this but what’s really funny is that more psychiatric studies have been done on men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:48 AM
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I’ve never seen this nobody is calling men cold and distant for not interacting with women in fact feminists have been begging for men to interact with them LESS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:46 AM
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Men may be disproportionately homeless but homeless women are at a disproportionate risk of experiencing violence and sexual abuse not to mention somebody being a man plays no role in them receiving aid or shelter If your white nobody gives a shit because white men have wayyy lower conviction rates than black men, not to mention are less likely to be arrested and sentenced for a lengthy time period. This whole post is just you whining about not feeling like anybody is acknowledging some made up …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:44 AM
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If it’s stopping men how are these women still finding partnerships and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:02 PM
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That goes against what he’s saying though I’ve seen PLENTY of ugly and average men be the romantic interest of a beautiful and above average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:01 PM
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EXACTLY. MOST MEN ARE NOT SELF RESPECTING. Therefore his point is mute. No matter what you think or believe there will ALWAYS be a man willing to be with a woman regardless of how she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:59 PM
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Be kind but sexy, but mysterious but also attentive and a passionate loving partner. Have some aura about you and carry yourself well. Dress nicely and spoil her whenever you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:58 PM
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So the men on this subreddit shouldn’t get mad when the violence and misogyny of men is acknowledged lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:59 PM
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I did?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:56 PM
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You are bad, you act like your bad so you are bad. Men literally generalize women on this subreddit ALL THE TIME lord forbid it’s done back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:58 PM
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Yeah this just isn’t realistic though because how do we explain how women on my 400 pound life always have a boyfriend or a husband? The truth is being super obese, and even a single mother isn’t stopping men from pursing a woman at all. For sex or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:56 AM
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Yes you do, it’s your post, your comment, you said it elaborate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:55 AM
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Not really concerned about what a racist has to say so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:54 AM
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I mean this is probably true. A lot of porn novels have just downright unrealistic plots and incredibly imaginative ideas of how men are sexually and they don’t even talk or act like real men really. It’s actually sad how women will never truly be satisfied with men because they’ll never perfectly match any fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:51 AM
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They definitely don’t lol. It’s always some rich billionaire, or a sexy mafia man.. or a edgy bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:50 AM
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I can name several movies where the male lead is ugly as hell to me. Thinking of Adam Sandler movies right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:49 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:44 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:55 AM
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Yeah I really doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:55 AM
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You just said a whole bunch of nothing sounds like a YOU problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:54 AM
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Are they also invisible on the internet, and in real life? because I’ve literally never met one ever. Not even ‘trad’ females are THAT desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:30 PM
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It is honestly funny to poke fun at you guys, but I’m trying to figure out with what you said has to do with anything HE said??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:29 PM
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Suureee buddy.. all this to say what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:28 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:15 PM
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I just think being selfish is unattractive as fuck and so do most women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:14 PM
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Oh my god bro either way get over it people are going to say farrr worse to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:14 PM
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You should care about women’s rights because you wanna be a good person not because you wanna be laid that’s the fucking issue and it’s honestly repulsive you think like that “well since I don’t get laid I won’t support your rights” like it’s just gross and makes you even more unattractive and undesirable. That’s just not true though if your a good and empathetic man the only reason you wouldn’t be getting dates is if you didn’t try
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:13 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:12 PM
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It could be but also girth is better too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:12 PM
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You didn’t disprove shit Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:11 PM
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So what though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:11 PM
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Haha got em
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:39 PM
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You got made fun of ONE time and it ruined your whole entire outlook… you need to grow up and develop a self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:28 AM
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Size matters for ME personally when it comes to quality because small and average just don’t do much for me. Everybody should make sure their sexual partner is attentive regardless of their size though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:19 AM
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lol if men are getting sex then why the hell do you see so many men 1. Complaining about lack of sex and 2. Not even getting matches on dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:16 AM
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I’m pretty sure you can have an incredibly fulfilling life with no children at 50 and being single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:09 AM
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Why does it depress you though? I’m chubby I don’t get depressed when somebody says I prefer skinny people. I don’t give a flying fuck it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:04 AM
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I mean you can be hot and short though .. your not ugly because your short unless by unattractive you mean undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:03 AM
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Could go either wau
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:40 AM
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I’m just saying men are always assuming their guy friends are so good and pure well if somebody had complaints he obviously wasn’t that great
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:40 AM
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Oh boo hoo I wouldn’t be with any man who saw me as a financial deficit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:08 PM
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No because you should mind your business
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:07 PM
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Haha what? The last point? Who are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:07 PM
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I want bigger than 6 I really don’t care how unrealistic it is my standards aren’t about realism it’s based entirely on desire Similarly if a woman is educated and has a degree then it’s no reason she shouldn’t want a man with the same. No matter how common something is it doesn’t change the fact that it’s perfectly acceptable to want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:06 PM
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Yeah but how often do you really see this because I see far more of men asking for things and expecting things they just don’t deserve like the average man expecting a romantic and asexual relationship to come easy when he has nothing to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:49 PM
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It’s like these men failed history class or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:21 AM
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You’re absolutely right … and there’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:17 AM
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It’s like you know nothing about history lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:17 AM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:15 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:14 AM
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What’s the point of dating a woman if you can’t make her feel secure in her femininity you say you don’t abide by gender roles but still identify as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:07 AM
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You don’t need to be in a relationship for sex though.. if sex is the only reason you’re in a relationship you shouldn’t even be in one. You need a friends with benefits not a romantic partner. Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:00 AM
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Good looking assholes like who? Who are these good looking dickheads you lot keep discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:00 AM
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Yeah you wish that was the case I could show you a thousand more couples of a beautiful woman and a mid man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:59 AM
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That’s just life though. If anything preferences and standards should exclude a large group of people. When you factor things like age, looks, personality, financial situation, location you’re only getting a small pool of people relatively or at least you should be. Some body who’s just willing to date anybody really doesn’t have much sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:58 AM
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No it IS the bare minimum though. Literally anybody could be nice and kind. How do you know who women are sleeping with Good looks are hard to come by considering most men aren’t all that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:57 AM
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Uhh yeah whatever dude that’s such a made up phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:56 AM
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I think that’s just a pathetic excuse not to socialize but live your life alone I guess It’s true that a lot of liberal men are just parroting the label because they think it’ll get them more women. Little do they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:56 AM
-1

Who said that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:55 AM
1

Cheating, addiction, debt, family issues, abuse, etc? Probably because the options are pretty shitty. Dunno why you’re pinning this on me when I don’t even date cis men and I’d never marry one. Not really sure how women could ‘suck’ at dating when many are incredibly selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:55 AM
1

Whatever then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:53 AM
6

What? What does this have to do with standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:52 AM
0

God you went on an entire tangent and really said nothing. If you’re truly in a relationship how does she feel about you spending all of your time ranting on the internet about meaningless and trivial matters. You keep peddling this idea of ‘equality’ and give and take but the truth is it didn’t take women not caring about men for men to be abusers and users that’s just naturally how they are. Men absolutely aren’t getting the opportunity to use women as ‘cum socks’ considering less people are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:50 AM
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Just the general lack of care and overt simplistic ideals that you claim are built on philosophy when really it’s just laziness I don’t have to date cis men to participate?? The vast majority of the men on this subreddit aren’t even IN relationships with women lol. If anything you guys should be grateful I’m making up for your lack of play lol. Is there a rule that says “AFABS DATE CIS MEN OR YOUR OUT.” I can absolutely still discuss hetero dynamics without participating in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:45 AM
3

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:40 AM
8

I need specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:40 AM
-5

Based also even if it can thank god then these men can finally stop pretending there’s a ‘loneliness epidemic’, the rates of sexual violence will slightly go down and women can finally exist in a world where they are allowed to fully focus on themselves and go on to achieve better things for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:38 AM
1

If that’s really how you feel then what’s the point of having this conversation Women shouldn’t care, they shouldn’t do anything. You’re not entitled to sex or a relationship from anybody. Especially a woman for any reason, but misogyny and degradation reinforces the notion that yeah who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:16 AM
1

Yeah, obviously when your a random man but I’m talking about actually getting to know somebody Also it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:14 AM
-1

I’ll shame them with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:13 AM
1

🤔 What sense does that make? Women get divorced for a multitude of reasons and it’s millions of divorced couples that exist chopping it up to ‘you suck at dating’ is reductive and not really an analysis more like a lazy excuse not to mention incredibly vague ‘lie in your faces’ could mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:12 AM
2

There wouldn’t be a whole lot of women interested in the ‘average’ guy regardless of standards and metrics placed on him most women don’t want an ‘average’ man Okay but that’s just unrealistic I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman say she want a man who’s 5’ im sure those women do exist but that’s definitely just not what’s desirable to most
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:10 AM
4

Exactly lol rules for thee not for meeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:08 AM
1

Why even be in a relationship if you feel so scorned though? Stop dating women if your attitude is “women say they owe me nothing so I don’t owe you honesty” stop punishing women in your personal life for your pre conceived notions on the dynamics between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:06 AM
-1

Honestly I think you should just move on. It’s no shortage of men out here girl … somebody will wife you up in an instant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:02 AM
4

Security? Status? Commitment? What’s the point of being somebody’s girlfriend it’s practically meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:01 AM
-6

So unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:59 AM
2

Personality is simply just the bare minimum. You could be a really nice and friendly person but it’s like.. okay? It’s a lot of nice friendly people y’know like.. the old lady down the street is nice and friendly too, that’s not gonna motivate you to sleep with her or date her lol. Like, none of this cancels out wanting a good kind man.. You want a good kind man AND somebody with a good career.. AND somebody with a nice family.. AND somebody who’s good to their community Men are the only ones I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:54 AM
-14

Heightism like it sounds like something a 3rd grader would make up to be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:36 AM
-5

Their probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:32 AM
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Yeah but the men on this subreddit could never be comfortable with the idea of preferences because they loose their shit any time they think of a woman who prefers taller men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:17 AM
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It’s not even a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:27 AM
-6

Oh my god heighest? And if you’re not attracted to red heads what does that make you, ginger phobic? Men are so dramatic about height when truly it’s just a preference just like everything else. Men are perfectly allowed a preference to everything and you think it’s fine but god forbid a woman want a man taller than her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:27 AM
3

Be yourself less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:25 AM
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Haha okay you caught me I’m taking the piss out of you but to be fair you made it so easy, definitely won’t be keeping that same energy you men just make it too easy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:25 AM
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I guess that anybody who’s loving and committed will always be virtuous and faithful regardless of who is perceived as higher in status and this goes for any person it’s not a gendered issue because men and women cheat at a nearly equal rate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:24 AM
1

Yeah frankly I just think you’re deluding yourself. A lot of men are still approaching women, attempting to date women and court them and they are absolutely still thinking about them. This whole entire subreddit is mostly just men thinking about women and their lack of sex with them. I’d actually love if what you were saying is true, and most men didn’t pay attention to women but it’s simply just not true. They may not care about women on a personal level but they certainly care about the lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:23 AM
1

Maybe maybe maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:15 AM
1

Yeah your just not telling the truth it happens literally all of the time especially on this forum I’ve seen men genuinely argue against these things on all social media platforms not that I remember their arguments or care enough to but yet again, the generalizing all women and you wonder why you lot can’t find a female to stick around with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:15 AM
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Yeah he absolutely could NOT be my man. I’m stunning so he’s delusional and I’m gonna find somebody who appreciates this ass 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:13 AM
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Yeah this is just some cuck fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:12 AM
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Yeah but that’s just not true and other men in the comments have reinforced the narrative being stated so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:11 AM
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Texts and pictures? Of what? Your friend shows you pictures of him having sex with women? That’s definitely 1. Illegal and 2. Yeah a little gay why are you watching that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:10 AM
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Think of it like this.. most women don’t give a fuck, the ones that do aren’t going to do anything to assist. Once you take a political stance against said women and choose not to support them that’s just reinforcing their lack of care and not to mention making you look like a jack ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:10 AM
2

Yeah it’s just cringe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:06 AM
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I mean yeah.. somebody who’s pretty average, not really significantly successful, uninteresting and not very physically attractive is gonna have a harder time dating. I think that’s just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:33 PM
1

It’s just disrespectful and cringey and it shows that you have no care or decorum really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:28 PM
1

So? Many things could be validating to their ideology they’d find any little coincidence or phenomenon to justify their delusions doesn’t really have anything to do with women as individuals. Nobody really cares what those men think they’re the main ones complaining on how they don’t get anybody. If the male partner isn’t thinking positive, productive, meaningful or affirming and affectionate thoughts why WOULD any woman be attracted to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:25 PM
2

I don’t enjoy his company if he doesn’t compliment me so he couldn’t possibly be my man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:23 PM
2

lol seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:21 PM
3

All of these things make men violently unappealing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:43 PM
0

Not really your ‘kid’ more like your clump of cells and it shouldn’t really matter considering the fact that it’s entirely up to her to decide if she wants to carry to term or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:42 PM
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Either way it’s still delusional also this coming from somebody who’s tag says fatty fat neck beard man..?? Hypocritical much? Why do you care if a woman gains weight you and her would look just alike
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:41 PM
1

Hm yes but that very reason is exactly why they see you as a monster your lack of care, compassion, and empathy. Never have I seen a man who empathizes and supports women shamed for it. I don’t understand how you desire a demographic you seek to oppress. It’s all about control and submission for you lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:39 PM
1

Oh well boo hoo that’s why you lot are pilled and single 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:33 PM
1

So? Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:33 PM
1

And it shouldn’t your just a random guy to any given female you need to actually have a connection with somebody for them to care for you in any capacity and you shouldn’t align with political values just to get pussy you should do it because morally it’s the right thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:32 PM
1

I just feel like any socially and politically conscious person is obviously going to discuss that at some point in their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:31 PM
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You really didn’t put me in my place though.. it’s not these men doing that it’s powerful republican lawmakers many of which probably have wives and children they go back home to. Sexless broke incels aren’t empowered by any means. Just because the government is conservative and incredibly sexist doesn’t mean they have any power or influence it just so happens that we exist in a sexist and conservative country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:19 PM
1

Yeah comparing SEX to human rights is never the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:18 PM
1

And my opinion shouldn’t change regardless because at the end of the day because if you’re a sexless male it’s no woman’s job to provide you any intimacy. Couldn’t imagine how you lot would react if gay men or queer people complained about not finding a partner as much as straight cis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:17 PM
1

FOMO makes people cheat? Like yeah I just don’t buy into that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:16 PM
1

I don’t think you lot have the mental capacity to understand that not every female wants to be approached or desires gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:11 PM
1

I don’t believe in gender and I don’t adhere to gender roles, there’s a good portion of AFAB’s who feel the same way as me why should we have to deal with consequences and gender roles we never asked for. It’s literally nothing desirable about female gender roles. What’s the point of being approached by men when the vast majority I meet are useless to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:10 PM
2

Seriously and it’s just cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:09 PM
1

Did I say women can do no wrong or did I say his friends probably aren’t that good of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:08 PM
1

The patriarchy is literally what constructs and creates misogyny gender is a social construct and isn’t real there really isn’t many vast differences between men and women when it comes to capability it seems like most you men are the way you are because of the way you’ve been raised and brought up by society you believe your entitled to certain things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:08 PM
1

No dude I think it’s gay for two men to talk about how much pussy they get and your friend could easily be fucking lying to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:06 PM
1

True their horny dogs on there wouldn’t really expect much out of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:05 PM
1

And yet when a woman tries to argue most men are misogynistic, violent, and think degrading thoughts about women you men cry and call it misandry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:04 PM
1

If his family is calling him an incel he probably is one…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:01 AM
1

You don’t have to believe me but it’s true I’ve spent thousands on my partners. I’m not even female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:14 AM
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Yeah but you told me to reverse it and I just can’t imagine a woman saying something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:12 AM
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Okay what does being an adult with a job have to do with anything? Exactly so they weren’t really providing or protecting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:08 AM
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COZ it’s the fucking truth lol. Date women your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:07 AM
1

Uhh yeah I financially provide and I spoil my baby with gifts. 🤷 more manly than most men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:06 AM
1

Doesn’t matter what men want they’ll sleep with anything. No matter what the vast majority of men think there’s always a few who don’t care at all, those are the ones said women will be dating.. uh duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:05 AM
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Still creepy as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:04 AM
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Don’t for a moment believe your not like those other woman do you hear yourself? A man who yells at you, raises his voice at you, gets angry at you and hates other women is NOT a man you want to be with. Please exit the relationship, for your own mental health and sanity.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 02:04 AM
3

Sweetheart you’re in an abusive relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 02:02 AM
1

What the hell kind of misogynistic drivel is this…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 02:01 AM
0

Stay single please lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:55 AM
1

These people are just boring lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:54 AM
0

Seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:53 AM
2

Didn’t have to be an asshole at least he found somebody unlike the rest of you losers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:52 AM
1

Feminism is against said patriarchy you discuss upholding so how are they using absurd reductionism when your literally admitting to supporting misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:16 AM
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I hate that inceldom is associated with autism when I’ve heard way more prolific and substantial think pieces from queer autistic people than I ever have from any incel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:21 AM
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I just think it’s pointless and it’s more important things to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:35 PM
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So what’s even the point of this discussion? Often times I find men bringing up problems there’s absolutely no solution to. Talking about it just to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:24 PM
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Hmm I can’t imagine a woman saying this because most women don’t think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:23 PM
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Yeah I mean women will say we don’t care about you not getting sex and said men think they are doing something by saying well we don’t care if you can get an abortion like … okay that’s why your not getting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:19 PM
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I mean you literally brought it up don’t mention it next time if you’re gonna act like a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:18 PM
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Yeah but like, okay and? What is anybody supposed to do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:15 PM
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Nah I’m trying to understand that too. Sometimes you just do things because you know you can. Like it was just too easy not to. I see men on this subreddit complain about not being able to find a woman for casual sex or a partnership but I found a pretty decent guy (college educated, relatively tall-ish, in shape) in less than like 24 hours literally. I guess I just did it for the lolz like why not? But then I was greatly disappointed so oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:15 PM
3

I think stoicism is limiting to others world view
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:13 PM
1

They really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:08 PM
1

Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:08 PM
1

If your fat and pansexual get on Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:06 PM
3

That’s why women don’t care if men can get sex. If you don’t advocate for a woman’s rights why would she care about if you get laid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:04 PM
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Not really no. Considering most of these men aren’t getting lucky anyways. It’s just men partying with other men talking about how they want a woman. Like a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:58 PM
2

I haven’t seen stoicism expressed in any way other than “me mad me no show, me sad.. me no show.” Like whatever it just doesn’t seem that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:58 PM
1

Trying to compare the holocaust to imaginary trauma men got from world wars is funny to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:57 PM
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Damn is it my fault he’s bad at eating pussy?? 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:55 PM
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And yet it covered religious demographics across all spectrums. Not sure why the study is categorized that way either but the overwhelming result is that people are having less sex. Not to mention I don’t think that old people having sex in nursing homes is a big enough demographic to tip the scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:55 PM
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If that’s what you got from what I said then your deluding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with being promiscuous people should just learn to get over things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:52 PM
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Not really though. Why would anybody care if a single man died? Whose issue is this beside the man who died? People die every day from worse things that are wayyy bigger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:52 PM
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Why do people bring things up and refuse to elaborate further
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:51 PM
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They are the most at risk when it comes to sexual violence though, men being victims of other men mostly just feeds into the idea that men are violent so it’s going against your point. I’m simply going to live my life and not associate with you pigs that’s also an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:51 PM
1

Maybe but 4B isn’t really a loud movement it’s something you do passively along the course of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:49 PM
0

Haha aww did I hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:48 PM
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The movement isn’t really about political policy it’s about sexual agency, freedom, and independence so that’s no surprise not to mention 4B has way more followers than just 10K not sure where your getting those numbers from but there’s a platitude of radical feminists and forums that host them that are gatekept and it’s not like anybody is rushing to do studies on this so you’d never know. Femcels and misandry are directly correlated and it’s not about rage baiting it’s about genuine thought. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:47 PM
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Because it’s just generally boring and unattractive to be stoic I can’t genuinely sit down and think of a single thing appealing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:45 PM
0

Ah really because I think men going to clubs is quite un attractive and I don’t really understand why they do it in fact it makes me not want to go clubbing at all. I thought there would be beautiful women not sweaty old men who can’t get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:43 PM
1

Doesn’t really matter how popular 4B is considering most of you men will never get any more pussy regardless if the movement exists or not let’s face it the average female doesn’t need to co-opt celibacy to swear off men and the women you want still exist just happily and without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:42 PM
1

Just admit you have a cucking fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:41 PM
1

How would you know how much pussy your friend got
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:40 PM
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No correlation to causation just because men are attracted to revealing clothing doesn’t mean women wear it with the intention or purpose to attract men in fact women as a majority are vocal about how this is rarely their attention and men will still insist the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:33 PM
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Mind you he’s claiming to be liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:30 PM
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You knew who she was that’s the point don’t except somebody to change something they enjoy doing just for you especially when your only a man and those are a dozen a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:29 PM
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The thing is I’m an AFAB who would absolutely love an all female club but I just don’t believe that they fail and aren’t successful considering how many niche clubs exist that cater to very small minorities. Like gay men have clubs for bears but women can’t have female only clubs? Just don’t believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:27 PM
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Okay what female-only clubs do you know that have failed? Because I wasn’t even aware any existed on a large scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:25 PM
3

These men are boring as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:25 PM
0

Wow what a desirable alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:13 PM
1

Your giving two completely different scenarios and reaching but notice how none of these are factored by what they are wearing and has everything to do with the situation they are in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:11 PM
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So? Stay lonely if you’re so against it. Better than bitching about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:10 PM
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What’s shameless about a woman dressing the way she desires? You men are insecure and controlling. If your woman wants to be unfaithful and promiscuous she’ll do it regardless of what she’s wearing. Boundaries are not what you enforce on someone ELSE they are what you enforce on YOURSELF. Why would you be with somebody who dresses a way you’re so against in the first place? You knew who she was when she got with her. How are you a liberal man if you still believe in regulating what your female p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:09 PM
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Stoicism is just another way of saying I have no personality and I think being boring is cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:43 PM
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Speak for yourself arrogant women are hot as fuck 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:40 PM
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It means women will become more accomplished and desire equally accomplished partners then they’ll quickly realize they can’t find that in men anymore and they’ll move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:15 PM
1

This is seriously your BIGGEST issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:56 PM
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I think men in general are just cringe so no it’s no man that can do better because even if he does I’m still gonna cringe at the fact that he’s a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:54 PM
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I guess the thing is that no ideology is really that popular in retrospect but that doesn’t mean it’s nobody in support of it. The 4B subreddit is still relatively active and still trending on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:53 PM
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Where is the thread? I believe you I’d just like to see it for myself so I can comment on it. Ngl what would forced marriages or relationships do for anybody that concept sounds so totalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:52 PM
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What trauma do men have from world wars lmfaooo most of those men died and if they didn’t their children surely didn’t go on to inherit PTSD or as a matter of fact any ailment from war that’s just not how that works at all. The truth of the matter is the misogyny women have experienced for literal decades is far more influential and important than you care to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:50 PM
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I’m just saying if we lived in an equitable society without any bias men and women would be in leadership roles at a proportional rate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:48 PM
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Exactly I mean no woman who truly is against racism transphobia homophobia etc is gonna date a man like that in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:47 PM
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When I say a lot of women I mean women as a whole, not women in the 4B movement. Women in the 4B movement aren’t having sex at all. https://www.graphsaboutreligion.com/p/the-data-is-clear-people-are-having
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:43 PM
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The true issue is that men cannot accept that women are can be flawed individual’s and also simultaneously cannot accept that women acknowledge shitty men and stay weary of them. When you see a woman complaining about a man he’s an abuser, he’s a misogynist, he takes his anger out on others.. when you see a man complaining about a woman it’s because she gossiped or badmouthed somebody or has unrealistic standards. These things are comparable by no means and yet seem to be enough for men to gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:35 PM
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Yeah well I doubt they were fine honorable men then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:21 PM
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Yeah seriously haven’t even seen what this post is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:19 PM
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Because they are the racist homophobes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:18 PM
3

Both should be equally shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:13 PM
1

Why would I watch a podcast that degrades demeans and belittles women don’t you think I have better more constructive things to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:10 PM
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How is that irrelevant when the whole conversation is centered around the violence of men and why women should be afraid of them? Okay, men are more likely to be victims of violence but that’s also because men are more likely TO be violent and involved in violent crimes and dangerous activities. All this proves even more is that yes women should absolutely fear men. Considering how men have been socialized and raised to be perpetrators of violence and society finds this acceptable and describes …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:09 PM
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I guess I just don’t understand the statistic then. I’m trying to figure out how anal is correlated to female orgasm in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:07 PM
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No nigga it makes ME sad I was literally rolling my eyes and he was eating my pussy like it was his last day on earth like eughhh… then he brought up how I didn’t orgasm from it like whatever homie you didn’t nut either. That’s why I’m really gonna stop talking to men 😬 so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:04 PM
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Because if your going to get into a relationship with another person you should be able to financially provide for them I mean it’s pretty important to a long term relationship anybody could tell you this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:01 PM
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How is it superficial to want a provider? Men for centuries said to women we provide and protect you god forbid a woman want to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:00 PM
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But why do you deny the popularity of a movement when you can literally research it online and see thousands of posts on social media about it? It’s by no means a small movement. It’s about as popular as redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:57 PM
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Many countries of origin so which specifically are you referring to because it’s becoming increasingly popular with western women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:56 PM
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And yet these women are practicing celibacy it seems a lot of women aren’t having as much sex with men as they used to. This isn’t even evident with just movements like 4B but also an observable reality when you look at statistics and even this subreddit where men constantly complain about lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:55 PM
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No matter how popular 4B is women will always want and deserve the right to abortion and women of the 4B movement are avid advocators FOR abortion so I’m not sure what you mean by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:54 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:53 PM
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This more so speaks to misogyny and patriarchy than it speaks to women’s ability to be in positions of leadership
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:52 PM
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Men have no value because they associate all of their value with a woman and what she can do for them. That’s why masculinity is fragile and laughable now. Nobody is failing boys they need to grow up and develop a self esteem and self worth that doesn’t rely on getting a woman. It’s funny you speak of Islam considering many Islamic women would rather be empowered and free than under the rule of any man. They envy the freedom of western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:51 PM
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Too bad incels are getting a little to pathetic to go ER anymore sucks for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:48 PM
2

Seriously, gay men like women more than straight men do and it’s apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:47 PM
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4B isn’t a trend it’s an entire political movement too bad you just wanna wash it off. Not to mention you should SEE Instagram it’s even worse. Misandry and femcels are trending now more than ever. Literally see the #ihatemyboyfriend meme. In comparison I haven’t seen tradwife propaganda in a LONG time and those women can SAY they live that life but the reality is the vast majority really aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:47 PM
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Don’t worry buddy give it 5 years 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:45 PM
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Right men are more likely to be victims of violence, from OTHER men. That just goes to show you that even men should be afraid of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:44 PM
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No but that’s the thing you ARE responsible for misogyny that YOU peddle and the patriarchy that YOU feed into. You’re all responsible. I didn’t have to be alive to experience the affects of it my mother was, my mothers mother was, her mother was. Do you not understand generational trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:44 PM
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Actually maybe some men just can’t eat pussy I recently hooked up with a guy and I could tell he was trying his best but it really didn’t feel like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:41 PM
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Coercion threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:41 PM
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This group literally is nothing but men complaining about lack of sex that’s like 99% of posts here they all have something to do with men and lack of sex that's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:30 PM
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Got their asses 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:27 PM
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I find it really difficult to believe that somehow anal factors in women orgasming there is no causation to correlation because anal absolutely is one of those sexual acts that’s not innately or super pleasurable to women in the slightest considering women biologically don’t have much to be stimulated in their anal cavity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:26 PM
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Who the fuck is doing kegel movements during sex?? And for what reason?? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:24 PM
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Men like you just blatantly ignore the fact that gendered violence and misogyny are still very real rampant things in our society. Literally why should women in general be any kinder to men as a whole when they’ve subjected women to torture and subjugation for centuries you’re lucky there isn’t a WORSE reaction. Like yeah women SHOULD be leery of the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:59 AM
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Women have accepted that and that’s why 4B and feminism is more popular now than ever you’ll rarely see a woman who doesn’t acknowledge this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:04 PM
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lol too bad none of these losers have the power, ability, or influence to do anything to women let alone revoke their rights. These men are delusional. Fathers picked husbands for their daughters for centuries and women still experienced traumatic abuse and lived horrible lives it’s far better now that women are able to be independent for themselves obviously these men are just frustrated and angry no woman would willingly be with them, but even if fathers did choose the husbands for their daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:03 PM
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Women DO want nice good men but that’s like the absolute bare minimum you still need to have an interesting personality and be able to function in society
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:12 PM
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That’s not the question though, she’s basically asking you would you drop all your standards simply for love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:26 PM
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Genuine women who want connections also want to know that the person they are with can provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:26 PM
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How is it a stupid standard? It really doesn’t matter what you think the fact is some people want it and others are willing to do it. Obviously it means a lot to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:25 PM
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It’s nothing wrong with wanting only attractive men to approach that’s not entitled that’s a natural reaction of disgust/repulsion. You’d be upset too if you were a pretty woman and when you went out only guys you found unattractive approached you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:24 PM
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How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:23 PM
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Notice how the comment was about men shaming other men and you still brought up women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:26 PM
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No they don’t need to stop doing that nothing is wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:26 PM
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Yeah that’s just gross lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:25 PM
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It’s entitled to not wanna be approached by random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:02 AM
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I really don’t think it matters science can’t even prove if the human conscious exists or not either way I really don’t care I have more than enough faith and love in me to know a true soul is far more valuable than a fucking computer algorithm and no amount of science or ‘logic’ would ever convince me otherwise. My relationship absolutely fills my desire for love, connection, understanding and mutual commitment but it’s just downright unrealistic to expect somebody to do and want EVERY single t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:49 PM
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Not a response really just the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:46 PM
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I thought that was implied though??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:35 PM
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I’m sorry but AI doesn’t compare to another physical human being with a soul in the slightest. Somebody who appreciates the beauty and connection of another person could see that. I wouldn’t need my partner to fulfill every single kink or desire or fantasy of mine because I can recognize they are their own person with their own wants desires and boundaries. That’s the beauty of being in a mutual consenting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:30 PM
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Exactly we all experience negative feed back this isn’t exclusive to being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
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But the men on this subreddit aren’t? Even though they constantly complain about not getting pussy or dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
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Exactly it literally happens all the time on this subreddit lol. It’s almost like these guys are purposefully obtuse so they can continue to wallow in their misery and pretend to be shamed and oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:25 PM
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Exactly that’s what I’m saying these men think everybody is supposed to pity them and have endless sympathy and compassion for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:25 PM
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Okay and? Being judged isn’t about harm people are always going to judge you just live your life’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:24 PM
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Okay at the end of the day we’re just calling it LIKE IT IS. If you have to literally TRAVEL ABROAD to find a partner, need an AI bot or a sex doll you’re probably just a loser. Truth hurts. Nobody is shaming them for dropping out of the dating market by all means we hope they do so, we’re just describing the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:23 PM
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Ehhh.. beautiful like an exotic rat okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:18 PM
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aww too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:18 PM
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That’s because your standard doesn’t include him paying for dates? If your standard was that a man should pay for dates you’d care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:17 PM
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Any woman with actual standards WILL care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:52 PM
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I’m literally laughing all the men you think are beautiful look like discount white Jesus.. also Jeffery is NOT beautiful what the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:51 PM
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Why do you people always have to bring black peoples into some shit like your obsessed actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:49 PM
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Okay but masculinity doesn’t exist so none of what you’re saying goes against my point, you worshiping something doesn’t mean it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:49 PM
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Then do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:07 PM
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Yeah most likely.. they have more options I think that’s just basic math
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:04 PM
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Okay and
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:03 PM
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Men who seek out women who have no experience with relationships are doomed for failure regardless of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:03 PM
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As they shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:04 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:00 PM
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People like you are aggravating oh my god there’s nothing wrong with having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:59 PM
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Good thing most you men aren’t hot enough to be promiscuous hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:59 PM
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How would you know if it’s a tiny minority of women? Masculinity doesn’t exist because it’s simply a social construct made up by society. For example superhero’s are typically seen as a masculine interest, but why? When women also enjoy superhero’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:54 PM
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I feel Ike your lying edit: THAT’s beautiful? Okay..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:53 PM
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This was a man who posted this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:53 PM
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Both are assholes in different forms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:56 PM
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If anything your being obtuse you know damn well crying on shoulders, complaining about problems, and gift giving are all parts of a friendship I mean literally any children’s show would tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:20 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:19 PM
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You have to walk around ducking to make it? What the fuck does that even mean. If pussy is so inferior to you it’s a good thing you don’t get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:18 PM
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These are all social biases taught to you. Men can have babies, see trans men as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:18 PM
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Your absolutely right they just want to play dense it’s weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 PM
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Difference in sex and brain chemistry doesn’t really come down to personal traits things like ambition, drive, having power.. all these things are considered masculine and yet plenty of women fit these descriptions. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 PM
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What are you talking about that’s not what they said at all it’s almost like you didn’t even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:16 PM
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Emasculation doesn’t exist because ‘masculinity’ doesn’t exist. How can somebody take away an identity from you in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:15 PM
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How many men have you seen you genuinely felt were beautiful, real question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:59 PM
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Okay the point is that women can embody these traits too therefore the concept of these things inherently being associated with men is mute
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:58 PM
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And married women live shorter lives because of the men they marry.. meanwhile single women outlive them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:57 PM
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I don’t think that your point was that men CANNOT obtain typically feminine things I think your point was the vast majority of times they don’t align with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:56 PM
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This is just ridiculous.. because 1. Absolutely you can with a vagina and 2. Trans women exist so yeah.. absolutely haha not to mention this is in reference to MASCULINITY. Would you describe pissing in the snow as a masculine trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:55 PM
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Yes your right masculinity and femininity don’t exist they are made up concepts. Duh. Gender is a social construct. Thought we were all woke enough to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:53 PM
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I think the vast majority of men center sex around their penises and that’s why they suck at it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:58 AM
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Not really, people rarely change. Not to mention he has nothing motivating him to change his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:21 AM
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All men have issues liberal men don’t get a pass and they really are barely any better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:20 AM
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You did but it doesn’t make it any more sensible lol. 1 out of 3 young black men will see prison compared to only 1 out of 13 white men. This more so says prison institutions and police have rampant racism and biases which has been proven time and time again. This isn’t the fault of black people it’s the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:21 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:18 AM
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What women are extracting resources from men? When it’s mostly men in power who make laws and revoke them. Look at the trump administration and what they are doing to aid and healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 AM
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You can’t be manipulated into being somebodies friend your either in the friendship or your not. Not being able to enforce boundaries is another thing but being manipulated into a friendship? Like how? Nobody is blaming you for anything we’re saying it’s your RESPONSIBILITY as somebody with autonomy to make decisions for yourself and those decisions include saying no and making boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:16 AM
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Okay, so you’re admitting you do the same exact things with another man and it’s not considered husband duties but somehow women are different. If you don’t want an intimate friendship then don’t have one but don’t act like it’s a burden it’s a lovely thing. Not being able to hold a purse for somebody a couple of times is just.. like what a weird hill to die on. Firstly you can say no, and secondly if you agree to hold it how can you claim she’s using you? Oh yeah she’s only talking to you so yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:14 AM
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I refuse to believe college girls are struggling to find boyfriends or casual sex have you ever considered they have no interest or are queer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:10 AM
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I still don’t see your point because even if what you’re saying is true, doesn’t this just justify being scared of men even more Considering they are the number one violent AND sexual offenders at an incredibly disproportionate rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:07 AM
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You’re just downright ungrateful. This is probably why women like you less. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:58 AM
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Okay then don’t complain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:54 AM
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Okay but, even if this was true how the hell is this sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:54 AM
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Your insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:53 AM
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Damn and none of them would fuck you huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:48 PM
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“And please fuck me instead those guys are all losers and douchebags who will pump you dump you and make you a single mother and you’ll be in your 30’s and regretful you didn’t pick me”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:01 PM
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The friend zone doesn’t exist. If you wanna fuck her, don’t be her friend. If she won’t fuck you, and you’re upset, and don’t wanna be her friend, then don’t? Simple concept
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:53 PM
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This is almost like some sort of cuck fantasy what imaginary woman are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:51 PM
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Oppress men.. how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:50 PM
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Okay but why are you comparing RACE to GENDER? It’s perfectly sensible to be scared of all men considering how many men are offenders and how violent they are, while the violence of a minority like black people is not determined by their race
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:47 PM
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Thank you oh my god
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:46 PM
3

It’s not really a fuck you though it’s just making some racist woman rich for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:45 PM
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Your weird as fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:44 PM
2

Filmed in a black neighborhood to create a narrative against men? What does that even mean and what video are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:44 PM
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Black women love black men that’s all I can see 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:41 PM
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You cannot compare race to gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:39 PM
2

Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:39 PM
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Assuming he’s Asian from this is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:38 PM
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Sorry being nice isn’t enough to fuck somebody I guess? Like what did you really expect haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:19 PM
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You guys are sad and that’s all I can say as somebody with a pussy who has successful relationships and sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:18 PM
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What do you consider being a “nice” guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:05 PM
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How’d you get downvoted for this lol your actually trying to help him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:03 PM
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Holldon. Pause. These are not boyfriend husband things? I have multiple female bestfriends they cry on me, get gifts on holidays (just basic fucking friendship things by the way??) and always pick them up when they need it. These are not boyfriend husband things these are parts of a FRIENDSHIP especially when you’re close to somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:01 PM
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I looked at it the girls there seem so sweet wish I could join ughhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:43 PM
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So mad because they can’t get pussy like grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:17 PM
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What kind of feminism? Intersectional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:05 PM
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So why don’t you hate them then? Put all of your misery onto them instead of women. Focus on eliminating your competition. You can’t though right? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:04 PM
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That’s never going to happen. Men have subjugated and demeaned women ever since the dawn of civilization. There is nothing women can or cannot do to stop this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:08 AM
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You guys should be mad at the top men then. Maybe they should be celibate right? That’d solve all your issues huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:07 AM
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Haha got em
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:05 AM
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That’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:04 AM
3

What are you supposed to do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:03 AM
1

Could you tell me more about vexxed? What exactly is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:43 PM
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You should feel embarrassed for even commenting this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:40 PM
2

That wouldn’t really change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:39 PM
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These men are desperate in the worst way possible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:29 PM
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Well if a man is partnered he’s probably likely to be able to find another one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:19 PM
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That’s absolutely what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:49 PM
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Is it hateful to say that a teachers gender has little to no bearing of somebodies success in a classroom particularly the males? I’m sure if a study was done on it we’d find maybe males SLIGHTLY preform better but not by much. Or it could even be the opposite maybe they actually get worse grades. More importantly than grades we should be looking at the outcome of their life. Do males taught by other males become anything of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:34 PM
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Dude I think most people actually realistically only would like to date a slim margin of people. Factoring in age, education, interest, hobbies, availability ETC.. realistically the average person really only has 5%-3% of people globally they’d be viable to date. That’s just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:22 PM
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Unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:20 PM
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But even more men are single, so doesn’t that also say men have higher standards? No right? Your just biased towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:19 PM
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It’s such a pathetic idea that men don’t succeed in school because a lack of male teachers when really it most likely has no affect in whether or not boys pass classes more and get better grades
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:52 PM
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It absolutely is, it's just uncomfortable and disingenuous and trying to force a connection that just isn't there will make everything worse in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:33 PM
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