Dating

PurplePillDebate-ModTeam · 2025-06-11T09:04:29+00:00

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Lumpy-Clue-6941 · 2025-06-10T22:45:20+00:00

a perfect first date

I sit quietly while my date delivers a monologue on Fourth-wave Feminism and its alleged heir, the 4B Movement.

Trancetastic16 · 2025-06-10T23:17:24+00:00

Walk in the park, because as someone Autistic, it’s easy to talk without noise, people and other sensory distractions. And talking to determine compatibility is key to get out of the way.

It’s also good exercise and we’d be exposed to nature, both things that significantly help my mood and would ease my social anxiety.

And as someone frugal, it’s cheap aside from travelling to and from the park and filters out people who specifically see a walk/coffee date as “low effort” as those whom I’d be incompatible with.

And if we hit it off, then we can stay as long as we want compared to many café’s and restaurants now sending waiters to your table to try and get you to order if you loiter too long.

I’d wear my personal alternative fashion style as I do anywhere appropriate that I like to, and although this would attract attention from passerbys, it wouldn’t be as bad at a park versus a restaurant or somewhere else with a denser amount of people.

Even without all those reasons I’d still prefer walking through the park activity-wise in general, but there’s all of those practical reasons as well.

Ultramega39 · 2025-06-10T23:33:51+00:00

Going on a walk or bike ride together through a city or park. We would then find a calm place to sit down at and talk about our goals, dreams, and passions in life. We would then cloudgaze.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2025-06-11T01:10:11+00:00

Honestly, I hadn't thought about it much. Probably because I have no interest in going on dates. To me, dating is just mediocre pretext for what I really want. (Sex in case it isn't obvious.)

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IHATEPOWERMODS · 2025-06-11T07:05:42+00:00

perfect first date?
Go pick her up at her place, she still getting done, wait 40 minutes, she slam tf outta my car door, try to strike up a conversation but she's monosyllabic until we arrive late for the restaurant reservation I made, I look like a fool in front of the receptionist which makes the same contempt facial expression I'm about to witness for the next hour, we sit to order and she doesn't have clue what the fuck "ribolitta" or anything on the menu is, since all she does is eat junk food, so I take the chance to show off my vast gastronomic knowledge and give her some reccomendations to try, but she manages to find "pizza slices" and orders 6 of them before I finish. It's fine, although she told me last time we messaged each other she's on a diet, she then picks up her phone which keeps her distracted for the rest of the evening. When our time is over I leave her at her place and I arrive home with the feeling I got scammed and probably she's talking to her friend chat how "BOOOORING!!" I am. And that's the best date you can expect from a woman in 2025. Tell me if it isn't exciting?

Sander_Supporter · 2025-06-11T08:37:08+00:00

Good food and a conversation that doesn’t feel like a chore

Title	Dating
Author	Calm-Lab-8592
Upvotes	0
Comments	37
Date	June 10, 2025 5:28 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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