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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:09 AM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:09 AM
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Question for RedPillEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:05 AM
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DiscussionEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:44 AM
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Question for RedPillEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:18 AM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:50 AM
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Question For MenEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:37 PM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:31 PM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:52 PM
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Question For MenEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:48 PM
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DiscussionEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:01 AM
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Question For MenEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:30 AM
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Question For MenEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:37 PM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:14 AM
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Question for RedPillEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:04 AM
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DiscussionEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:52 PM
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Question for RedPillEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:48 AM
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Question For MenEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:11 AM
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DebateEmergency-Sell-6713/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:30 AM
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I mean you didn't really specify what does being a good man mean vs being a good woman, and you didn't specify the "irrelevant" categories either where if a man is good at it/a woman is good at it then it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:41 PM
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When you're taught your whole life that women's bodies are inherently, objectively sexual, then your brain tends to associate female bodies with sex, and sex is arousing. In my opinion, it's just a social consequence, especially since those same women still choose to look for men instead of going with women, so it's probably not that big of a deal that would affect sexuality or whatever and is a just a little neat thing about humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:30 PM
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When will you learn that people are selfish and that if they lie, it's probably to benefit themselves ? The defensiveness is not genuine. It has a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:26 PM
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I forgot that in this sub people just check for [word]'s existence and then decide to play semantics. I'll play as well and pick out the word "phrased" which implies that they did say/write this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:21 PM
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Unfortunately human experimentation is highly controversial, especially if it involves newborns, so there's no real way to take on your challenge and you probably know this xD I also fear that no man has truly been challenged on his logical reasoning, because it's very easy to think logically about things that are far outside of yourself, and when your own humanity does not hinge on the answer you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:03 PM
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Oftentimes it's this sentiment but phrased less crudely, yes. Feel free to not believe me : P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:54 PM
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The only thing I managed to gather so far, is simply that they weren't given proof of women's own humanity. Maybe they simply feel indignation at seeing a subspecies that would be less sapient than them, trying to claim itself to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:36 PM
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Tell yourself whatever you want to justify your actions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:38 PM
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You can have a very submissive but very quarrely person, and a very calm and agreeable person who isn't submissive... they aren't synonyms... Submissive just means you give in easily and are generally overly passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:22 PM
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"I don't want a man whose ego leads. I don't want a fight at home, I don't want someone who sees my initiatives and achievements as things to one-up or tear down. I don't want someone who needs to be right all the time, and won't back down if he isn't. I don't want someone whose reaction to their life being small is to make big dramas out of thin air. And these things happen all the time. Men like that might not be the majority, but they are common enough." And suddenly the demand becomes unreas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:20 PM
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Wtf do you mean ? Most women can PRETEND to evolve, but in truth they'll never reach the point of masculinity because it's always out of reach. Y'all males are encouraged to stay in masculinity because it's literally luck that you even have it, so why waste it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:18 PM
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So you just don't like a woman who challenges your masculinity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:14 PM
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You can have a woman that you have disputes with all the time but she still listens to you in the end. You can have a pleasant woman who doesn't listen to whatever the fuck you're saying. So what do you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:11 PM
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You say that as if RP scums didn't end up as exes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:08 PM
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Most men are attracted to humiliated women. Just look at porn. That's why we don't want a man, because he'll want to bring a woman down for his pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:58 PM
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You ever wonder where your authority as a man comes from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:55 PM
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Okay, then be a dick nobody's stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:54 PM
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Oh, so y'all DON'T want to be used for resources now ? I thought y'alls WHOLE plan was taking away the ways women would get resources themselves, so that they'd be forced to pay with pussy in order to get them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:53 PM
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The guy who said "YOU want submission" assumed you were a man who wanted submission from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:02 PM
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Oh so you're chill if I decide you're a woman from now on ? Cause I didn't see you IRL so I have no proof that you're REALLY a man. Am I also allowed to view men as statistics ? For example, women have higher rates of neuroticism, therefore you view all women as neurotics. Is it fair for me to see that men have higher rates of being rapists, therefore I'll view all men as rapists ? What ? Suddenly you don't like this train of reasoning ? Suddenly your own reasoning doesn't make sense ? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:55 PM
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You say that as if the problem was women being greedy. But even if women literally started paying for everything men needed for some reason, you wouldn't be satisfied, so could you stop lying ? The argument you present is reasonable and totally true, but the real reason why you as a male are mad is not reasonable. The reason why you're mad isn't that money is being wasted on people who will refuse to part with it and therefore will make everybody else struggle, instead the real reason why you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:48 PM
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If he earns the total sum, since he spends half of it on the woman, he ends up with the same amount that he would have ended up with if he had earned half from the beginning but spent none of it for the woman. This is basic math. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:41 PM
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Men are transphobic towards trans men and women are transphobic towards trans women. What a fucking shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:31 PM
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Oh, so we're turning this into a dicksize contest ? Okay. . In the beginning, you reaffirm that I'm asking you to prove a lack of something, so you basically just reaffirm that you completely misunderstood what I said. Also, proving something =/= proving a statement and proving a lack of something =/= disproving a statement. This is exactly what I meant when I warned not to get tricked by words. If my original statement is "Crows don't exist", I would have to prove the statement by proving the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:57 AM
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We do know that men don't like women who are human beings. Men like women who are pets. Except that we're not pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:10 AM
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I think this is a RedPill man cosplaying as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:09 AM
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Why is it a problem to not want traditional gender roles ? Why can't both views just be equal, subjective preferences ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:01 AM
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I agree with you on the single premise, word for word, that "men won't go for single mothers if they have the choice not to". It's just logical. But you've let other trains of thought leak in your OP and comments. I want to address those. Just because you have submitted to the idea that, since you're a woman, you're worth nothing, it doesn't mean you'll be able to force other women to think so lowly of themselves too. Everything you say, it just seems like you're parroting something a man would …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:00 AM
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A woman is attracted to almost anything if she's satisfied with herself. If she has insecurities, she's gonna however try to overcompensate for those insecurities by picking a man who has the qualities she wishes SHE would have. A woman who wishes she was more confident, or thinks the male version of herself would have been more confident, will pick a confident man. A woman who wishes she was taller, or thinks the male version of herself would have been taller, will pick a tall man. That's where…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:48 AM
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So, men are monolithic in language which is a positive since that means communication is easier, and women are monolithic in all the dehumanizing ways, is that it ? I told y'all, stop going with the "man > woman" narrative, otherwise y'all are just gonna end up with butches all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:47 AM
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This comment said that women have more varied tastes than men. The other comment said that men have more varied tastes than women. I think that's what this person meant, but unfortunately used the wrong term to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:44 AM
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"Lower your standards" when the standards are just : don't cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:42 AM
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Women also don't lie. It's just that, from their experience living as women, they realize that some parts of their sexuality might be not so ethical. I know y'all say men's sexuality is demonized, but you need to realize we women also check our own sexuality. I could treat men the exact same way men treat women, right now. It'd be easy, and it would fulfill my immediate selfish desire. The thing is that it would also bring me immediate punishment because since I'm a woman, there's a way higher c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:37 AM
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If that's what men mean when they say that, then y'all are fucking idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:33 AM
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You think I was trying to get you to prove the lack of existence of something, simply because I used the word "contrary". We've really fallen so low where people like THIS decide they're inherently superior to a fucking woman by virtue of "being inherently logical" despite the fact that they can't understand basic logic. Almost like meritocracy exists for a reason. If you want me to clarify in five year old terms, I'm asking you to prove a positive : Prove that, in that study, people were rating…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:23 AM
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From earlier chats, no, he doesn't care. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:17 AM
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We already tried this. Women absolutely desired men's resources and status. They absolutely did not desire the dick. Lol. They even killed their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:14 AM
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Yet you want to return to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:13 AM
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I'd argue women benefit more from risky behavior, because in truth there is no risk. A woman engaging in risky behavior as a way higher chance of success than a man who does. The thing is however that women are fed confidence destroying lies by conservatives so that they stay in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:12 AM
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And how do you know what happens in a person's head when they choose something ? How do you know when a man or woman is being emotional or logical ? Many men vent their emotions by coating it in "reasoning" as if their emotions were just objective. Many women will frame their train of thought as "feeling" out of self-doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:09 AM
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?? A ton of men would fuck celebrities if they could, but they know they can't, yet they still manage to be genuinely attracted to normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:05 AM
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"If women started selecting [starts talking about a type of man that gets instantly suppressed and wiped at age 5 for being too feminine and almost never exists in adult form]". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:03 AM
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You would be repulsed by a woman who was emasculating you too. Edit : Nevermind I read the whole OP. I misunderstood. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:55 AM
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Women are allowed to seek high value men BECAUSE women aren't allowed to make THEMSELVES better. It's a tradeoff. An outlet. "I can stay feminine despite my ambitions, but then you'll give me a very masculine man to compensate". I think it's the core logic for hypergamy. I could be wrong, but as a woman, and from experience, this is what makes the most sense to me. A woman who is satisfied with herself will never try to compensate by finding value in a man. This usually comes down to self-discip…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:49 AM
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What you don't understand is that we were never talking about men as a theoretical unicorn group. We were always talking about individual men. We're not telling you to bear other men's sins like a Jesus 2.0. You know, this whole thing makes me realize something : Do you men talk about women as a theoretical unicorn group ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:45 AM
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The problem is that when a women tells you clearly, in five year old terms, why she's mad, then you tell her "Hmmm no that's not it". At one point, women give up. Also, men absolutely share women's business amongst themselves lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:41 AM
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It feels pointless. It honestly feels like I'm digging my own grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:40 AM
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And if she cheats on specifically redpill guys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:38 AM
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Are we women allowed to talk about y'all men the same way you're doing right now ? Like seriously, this seems sick to me. Just look at your comment and tell me this isn't some script for a documentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:37 AM
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That's because you see, men have normal hobbies, like being gamers, rappers, sportives, etc... Women, on the other hand, have way more sexual hobbies, like being female gamers, female rappers, female sportives, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:35 AM
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Not you using gay people when that's convenient yet being homophobic behind their backs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:33 AM
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Realistically, a woman would care. But at the same time, two wrongs don't make a right, so they learn to accept it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:32 AM
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You don't understand this at all. "Being objectified" is not an action, it's a worldview (aka a feeling). Think about it : would a male prostitute be any less male to you ? No ? That means you don't view him in an objectifying manner. The thing isn't that female prostitutes specifically are seen as objects, rather it's that women as a whole are seen as objects, and female prostitutes are simply seen as "embracing" their objectified nature as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:29 AM
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Lol always "women's fault" even though if a woman happens to be a bit too capable physically or mentally suddenly the man feels too gay to ever imagine himself fucking her to the point where he'll literally reject such a woman despite having little to no options of women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:25 AM
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We shouldn't want for more rapes to be commited... but we WOULD want for such cases to be treated seriously...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:24 AM
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I could, but I try to suppress it until I get to know the man. It feels objectifying to be solely attracted to the image of a man I know nothing about. Specifically it feels like I'm desecrating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:22 AM
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Women will side with women and men will side with men. What a shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:20 AM
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It's not semantics. It's the premise of the argument, which can change what the whole argument in and of itself means. When someone focuses on semantics too much, it means they think you're not honest with your words, and that you use one word to mean something else entirely that needs to be deciphered from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:18 AM
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Is it really faking it if you end up actually doing it ? Sure you might be doing it as a way to buy sex, but at the end of the day, you are what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:58 AM
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That's because men and women have different priorities. Women would rather have no relationship than a bad one. Men would rather have a bad relationship than none. That is because for a man, sex is of higher priority than general lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:21 AM
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You said "Nope, women can't actually tell [if you're really just a guy who wants pussy and there's nothing more to it] if you do it properly." (with the implication of "therefore they won't walk away" since I said they'd walk away upon finding out) "Can't tell" implies trickery and dishonesty, doesn't it ? That's the main thing I've been talking about this whole time. If it was just a language mistake then I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:17 AM
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They probably realized the same shit I did
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:58 AM
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You watch how people act and deduce their intent. If you think that you can hide your intent by changing your actions, then that just won't work because sure you'll fool whoever's trying to judge you but you'll also end up acting against yourself. That's what I meant, mostly. I'm also curious are you implying that stereotypes about men are objectively right ? Yknow, the ones that are made by women about men ? Can't be, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:56 AM
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And what evidence do you have of the contrary ? Because that study can only be legitimate if you have damning evidence of the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:54 AM
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There is no instinct involved. You just have to look at what somebody does rather than what they say, and you learn their intent pretty quickly. And if you're so absorbed in your act that you end up acting in a way that's detrimental to your own goals for the sake of not getting caught, then you're just playing yourself. If you want pussy but you don't make moves to get that pussy and instead make moves to further a sexless relationship you find no joy in, then you're playing yourself. But congr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:45 AM
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It's weird how it's always the exact same study being brought up, when the data might be skewed lol. Maybe the men were simply more objective in their ratings than the women ? They see an average woman, go "ew", but still recognize that objectively she's average so they rate her as average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:38 AM
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I'm pretty sure for a large sum of recent history women weren't legally deemed as individuals, but rather children or pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:35 AM
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Would it matter to you if that stopped being the case ? No ? Then why bring it up as an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:33 AM
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Some men want to be sexually desired instead of being simply used as a means to an end. Like a lot of them. That's one of the main complaints I hear from men. The ideal society you're proposing is one where women aren't sexually attracted to men and simply use them as substitutions to their lost freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:31 AM
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I'm pretty sure he's talking about how women can avoid wrongful accusations of promiscuity, not saying that pregnancy does reveal promiscuity but rather that people wrongfully perceive it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:27 AM
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"it's more like women are cautiously orbiting those guys while being either single or with someone else" I wonder why that's a problem for you ? I mean me I know why that'd be a problem in my point of view, but it's from my liberal worldview and therefore doesn't apply. So I'm asking why it's a problem to you. Is it because you fear she might end up fucking the guy (cheating) ? Once again I'm not challenging you or saying it's not a problem, I'm just asking specifically your reason for curiosity…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:24 AM
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That doesn't make sense tho. Your comment implies that women's choices are objective, and that if a man gets a ton of pussy, it's because he's objectively better than the rest of men. If that were the case, men wouldn't critique women's choices, because they'd think the women are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:21 AM
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"So your solution to this problem is to force women to be with men they don't love?" I don't understand, are you trying to make an argument against avoiding people who are already taken ? You against monogamy or something ? Women would still choose the men they prefer, but at least they'd choose out of the actually available pool of men, vs choosing a man who already has a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:19 AM
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Uh okay damn didn't expect that. Are most redpill men who make the argument that women shouldn't work... as okay with being on the other end of this as you are ? I've been hating on them for being hypocritical because I thought they wouldn't be okay with that, but if they are then that changes everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:15 AM
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This belief doesn't get reflected in the theoretical laws of the ideal conservative society. Else you would recognize that making laws specifically to suppress a human being's agency, even though you just recognized that said agency is a key biological component of how said human being is designed to function, is cruelty. Stripping any animal away from its natural order of functionning in order to force it to function like a different animal is cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:09 AM
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An equivalent to emasculation doesnt exist for women, because if we did invent such an equivalent term, we'd be forced to recognize that women are victims of misogyny 24h/7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:02 AM
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"Oppression" really depends on what you value being able to do in life. You really just have to imagine a matriarchal society, and then see if you like that or not and why. Then you'll see why women don't like a patriarchal society. It's not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:01 AM
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I would believe what you're saying, but it seems like your premise is just wrong from what I've heard men say. Your comment implies that if women were restricted again, men's woes would end. This implies that men aim to be desired for their practical usefulness, that men want to be put up with as tools that women have to use instead of their own stolen freedom. Yet I see a lot of men complaining that they're not desired sexually, or that they're being settled for and that this very feeling of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:56 AM
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Yeah but see, those things we tell women to do to be safe else it's their fault, they're supposed to be bandaid solutions that women are supposed to do while waiting for the real fix to settle. They're not supposed to be permanent solutions, but they're still necessary to do right now while we're waiting. They're the "yeah our world's fucked so for now the most reasonable thing to do if I don't wanna get raped is this" solutions, they're not the ideal fix of what we should strive for as a whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:47 AM
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Are you able to give a concrete example related to our topic, or is this one of those things where one single concrete example wouldn't be enough to represent the process ? The problem is that when reasoning is too vague, it's easy for it to tip over in the realm of feelings, which is why I'm looking for a concrete example that would be able to represent the thought process used clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:36 AM
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[Disclaimer : This is a genuine question. I'm not looking to debate against you, I'm looking for an explanatory answer and everything I wrote here I wrote it very literally. I apologize if any of this sounds like I'm challenging you in any way : that is not my intention.] A bit off topic, but speaking of emasculated men, how do you distinguish between what is natural and what is brainwashed behavior, except by having previously chosen which behavior you believe to be more natural in an arbitrary…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:29 AM
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I'd say the problem is more of a language problem than a logic or emotion problem. I don't think that divide between logic or emotion even exists. How you frame something (how you word your sentences) changes how the thought itself is perceived a LOT. You can frame a logical train of thought as an emotional one, and frame an emotional train of thought as a logical one, and most of the time it'll work on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:13 AM
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The problem is that if you're really just a guy who wants pussy and there's nothing more to it, then any self-respecting woman will pick up on that and be like "I don't want that sort of relationship, I will walk away". Therefore the women that are left are the ultra stereotyped women that you redpillers know so much about. So I guess at this point you can take any dehumanizing and manipulative tactic you want that you learned from redpillers and it'll probably work. My problem with redpill isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:05 AM
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If you had watched what women do at any point, then you might realize that framing has a huge role in perception, regardless of whether anything has changed or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:00 AM
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The problem is that there's no realistic scenario where picking option 3 would mean losing your job and getting fucked so catastrophically that you end up losing financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:55 AM
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I have gripes with your second example because both of those beliefs about sex can exist at the same time. The only thing it could take to reconcile them is to add a contextual condition to the both of them. For your overall point though without talking about the example, it just comes down to not wanting to unintentionally justify sexism. You might want to say something that's fair towards the man speaking, but if there's any chance that anybody could take as a conclusion "therefore sexism is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:53 AM
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It comes down to chasing and hoping for that one unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:49 AM
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She didn't say that made it fine. She's basically responding to people who ask "Why do women use dick size as an insult if it's not that important ?" : because they search for insults that are actually effective towards the targeted demographic. Even if women themselves don't think it's an insult, if it works, they're not gonna question it and they'll just start using that as an insult. Therefore they're not inventing standards, they're only perceiving said standards that already exist. Whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:45 AM
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The studies might have usable data but the conclusions made are horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:40 AM
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Compatibility definitely exists in the sense that there are some people you will NOT be able to handle living with no matter how much time you spend fucking them and trying so hard to build an ultimately fake connection with them... There are a ton of people who are great partners but horrible roomates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:38 AM
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Looking back at this comment I made, same reason why an asexual man might not believe that getting pussy is that important, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:35 AM
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The implication of being viewed as man is worth trading for anything tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:33 AM
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Men don't see 80% of women they consider attractive as below average in looks. Lol. The rest just aren't women to y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:28 AM
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Can't defeat them if I'm inferior to them by being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:12 AM
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Trying to delude myself into thinking it doesn't exist won't make it disappear, isnt that right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:10 AM
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That stuff is more of an annoyance but it's not really something I care CARE about yknow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:09 AM
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I'm very sorry for not responding anymore, it's just that this whole thing is so fucking idiotic to go back and forth about. I'll leave you in your own little world. It's not like anything I say would stop you from truly harming me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:56 AM
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Then how can I trust you about the male hivemind ? Surely there's stuff you're overlooking and haven't talked about, because you're part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:44 AM
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It's not a benefits issue. It's purely moral. If you don't believe in any sort of karmic system then ig be a sexist fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:43 AM
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I mean, isn't it true that men despise women for being women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:42 AM
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How the fuck does being a part of it mean I wouldn't see it ? If anything I should see it and be proud of it, no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:40 AM
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Still your claim doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:36 AM
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I've been mistaken for a man and treated like that multiple times. You don't understand how peaceful my life would be if it was like that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:34 AM
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Which is why I think you pulled your whole post out of your ass lol cause I've seen no IRL example to back up anything you're saying in that post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:33 AM
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Did you not realize that her post is an exact mirror of redpill men's experience with attractive women ? Lol. You do the exact same thing as her. Everything you changed about her post, you're doing the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:31 AM
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Tell yourself that all you want... At least it'll make you be honest about you being a hoe lol... I'll have to worry less about that part of vetting...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:30 AM
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Wanting sex is a crime if you still have sexual value (ie you're young enough). So generally only older women ("ruined" women) will express that they want sex since they have nothing to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:27 AM
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Are you parodying redpillers with this ? Or is this a genuine take ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:25 AM
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"Women believe they're better than men" biggest lie of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:24 AM
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Literally all the cases where I've seen the female hive mind brought up is just when a woman gets upset at sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:23 AM
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And I'm asking if there's something morally wrong with trading advantage for a bit of humanity. Why is it that it's "objectively better", in the eyes of an outside observer mind you, for me to have an advantage over others that has been derived solely from the dehumanization of others ? Sure it's better in my own eyes because I'd have selfish interests, but why is it better in your eyes, even though you would be the primary target of said dehumanization ? Are you a masochist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:17 AM
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A lot of men have been able to understand what I'm saying. I trust you can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:33 AM
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The "female hive-mind" is just not liking sexism, actually... Which... you'll naturally not like sexism if you're the target of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:49 AM
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What strategies would you employ to stop your wife from getting a job, if she one day chose to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:45 AM
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Yeah, willful ignorance is a thing that happens when you don't want to be a misandrist. It makes you assume that random men you encounter are actually civilized human beings, rather than assume the worst from them just because of a bad archetype representing the male population in a dehumanizing way. It's easy to fall in discriminatory prejudice, but it's hard to fight against it. But somehow, fighting against its influence on the mind is a moral failing ? I'd love to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:37 AM
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I'm trans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:30 AM
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Damn not my fault you lack basic comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:28 AM
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Please tell me all the ways you and your politicians wish to hurt me. It'll be funny for you to think you're doing anything when in truth I just don't care. It's also funny how you think meritocracy would harm women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:25 AM
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Women who ask that question just aren't total bitches to the point of assuming you hate women for the sake of hating women. That's all. Like damn, sorry for having a pussy, yknow if I had the choice I would've had a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:21 AM
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Women treat men like men. That's the epitome of humanity. I don't understand what more you want. I know if I were treated like a man I'd get very complacent in life bcs that's just the only thing a human needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:20 AM
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I guess it makes sense. Some women have hard limits that are actual discomfort zones, but many are soft limits that can actually be bypassed with enough attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:48 PM
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I read and the author sounds like a lunatic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:45 PM
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If she complains about lack of effort, I'd assume that she's putting in the max amount of effort as well though. Which could maybe make her feel like things are "unfair". But honestly, if you're putting in the max effort because you're comfortable with what the "max effort" entails, it doesn't mean your partner will be comfortable with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:43 PM
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Exactly. "People" means nothing without a biological definition. Therefore it has been determined as being a synonym to "men", which is a biological entity. People means biological men. However socially it is used to mean a human being with some amount of conscience, free will and intelligence. Which means in order to socially be a person, you have to biologically be a person = a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:40 PM
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Wtf are you on about "having a boyfriend is embarrassing" lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:39 PM
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If a woman decides to lock out men, then she doesn't feel trapped because it's her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:38 PM
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Then accept that men are biologically way less sexually desirable than women are. It's not fair to expect equality in sexual attraction/encounters if you try to put women down as sub-humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:37 PM
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If women are to learn that they're a different species from men, then why would they try to behave like men in those regards ? They could try, but they're taught not to and villifed even by fellow women when they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:36 PM
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Yeah lol men are biologically people and women biologically are not. We get it. But the narrative you're preaching is exactly why some women think that they must become men to be people. You discourage trans people in words but encourage them in actions. You are actively working against yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:35 PM
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Pure women will stay pure therefore not go with you. Non-pure women are willing to have sex therefore will do with you. That's just fucking logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:33 PM
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You do understand that most women would absolutely be accepting of this though... Like yes it'd be a bummer but honestly I don't want to make somebody do what he's not comfortable with anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:31 PM
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Alright imma get on it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:29 PM
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Autistic women don't behave like women. They don't stay in their place. So they get shit on way more than autistic men who can at least pretend they're just very focused and have talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:29 PM
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What ? No I didn't say the same one without washing it. I just mean that oftentimes men's style is simple anyway so there's not much room to judge based on clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:27 PM
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What if he thinks he's still not allowed to talk normally because he thinks it's just my female priviledge that I can ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:26 PM
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You replied to somebody who said "Jobs are important, sex is not", but this comment uses hyperbole and only implies that jobs are more important than sex, because jobs actually give you food. You disagreeing with them basically means you think good sex is better than putting food on your plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:22 PM
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If you think that people avoiding you is such a bad thing then I'd figure you should start seeing them being hit by traffic as karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:20 PM
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Yes. I was specifically phrasing it like that to explain why women tend to go for the worst men imaginable. Because they're the least lesbian option in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:17 PM
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You would NOT accept a world in which you have to marry a random woman ASAP or starve. Not to mention you'd have to be a gold digger all the time now. And if you wanna vet in case of bad men, you have to be able to live individually for a while. You also know that men are supposed to live individually, but that women aren't supposed to live individually because they're not actual people. If to be a real person I have to be transgender, I'll be transgender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:13 PM
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I've dealt with social anxiety, it's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:18 PM
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If you do cheat and your woman accepts being cheated on then you better go on a 3 months hiatus to get re-tested for STDs, cause you're not safe for her anymore. If you don't get re-tested, then you just straight wanna harm her. And yeah some STDs are harmless for men but harmful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:09 PM
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I could also say men almost only want submissive women. I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:07 PM
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That may be shocking to you, but men see women as another species entirely. Men slut shaming women, doesn't mean they slut shame men nor themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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Why is it propaganda for me to want to work for myself to put my own food on my plate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:59 PM
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We women are taught that any sort of capability that puts us outside the "needy child" category is undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:55 PM
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It matters what demographic you do your study on, and maybe the demographic you're looking to do a study on, just isn't willing to join that study.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:53 PM
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What are you talking about most guys wear a single tshirt anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:50 PM
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I just want to be a man. That's what I ask for when I say equality. I've been fucking myself up over not being able to DIY crush my breasts because I needed to be a man so badly. I thought my life would genuinely be over if I couldn't become a man asap. That's what I mean. I'm not asking for things to be done for me, I'm just asking to be able to do things for myself and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:47 PM
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No, I get what he's saying. There's a more special kind of censoring you do if it's a woman, rather than any crush. It's not just about being nervous or about wanting to be appropriate. It's not a "normal, universal" feeling at all. It's a feeling more akin to dealing with a ticking time bomb and having to disarm it, knowing it will never be disarmed because there's just infinite layers of stuff in the bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:40 PM
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I have been trying to come up with ways to make men stop doing this with me. So far nothing has worked. Help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:38 PM
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If the one failure is something like cheating on or intentionally physically harming me, then why tf wouldn't I leave ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:37 PM
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I'm only on here to respond to sexist comments so I can understand sexism. I generally leave comments of guys who need help alone if they've already been responded to, or I give them redpill advice. So idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:34 PM
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Most of us keep that worry inside our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:32 PM
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I guess there are also some people who are "friends" with men despite hating men, but then those aren't actual friends are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:31 PM
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My worldview on women, therefore feminism, therefore the pills, is shaped by myself. Honestly, if I took myself out of the equation and only looked at 80% of other women, I'd be much more conservative and red-leaning. Thing is when I'm fighting for women I'm mostly fighting for myself only and sometimes for the other 20% of women, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:27 PM
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You give only the last two ones and I'd have quite a few fwb already lol. Fwb and not random hookups bcs you still gotta get tested for stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:21 PM
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I prefer having to do a real job to put food on my plate, rather than having to be a slut to put food on my plate...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:19 PM
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Is it more important than putting food on your plate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:18 PM
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I love of that's the most of men's worries meanwhile women have to worry about losing their jobs randomly for the only reason of being women like not even because of a boss's bad mood no just because being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:14 PM
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Maybe it's not because she's not sexually desirable anymore (aka old looks-wise), and rather because she's old age-wise ? Lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:11 PM
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If you're not very sexual, then it's society who teaches you what is or isn't attractive. For the longest time I was "attracted" (taught myself to be atttracted) to women because I thought women were objectively sexual, compared to men who were objectively normal. When I realized I was a woman and supposed to like men, I taught myself to like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:09 PM
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MGTOW is a normal thing, as is feminism (which is the female version of MGTOW so WGTOW ig). Thing is apparently feminism is deranged because, no, women should never go their own way. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:07 PM
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She saying that men's implicit beliefs are black and white even though what they say is nuanced. "Implicit belief" means feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:04 PM
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The backing is literally any PPD comment section. You want me to go dig up some comment links to each point she's saying ? I have a few in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:59 PM
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Most of the time the explanation for the accusations is just a game of chance. It's "Here, according to those redpill centered studies I found there's a 90% chance that since you're a woman you believe x and y and you do x and y" without actually taking any evidence for the individual case they're talking with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:59 PM
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Sex can only be treated as a normal thing if it is a normal thing. But it isn't. For men it is a normal thing, but not for women. Because women, when they have sex, their body changes category, going from "Okay" to "Slut/Used up" in an instant. Therefore sex is absolutely special for the perspective that it's gonna be harmful to you socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:57 PM
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With a sexually reserved woman, first sex can happen later than expected. There's tons of reasons for a woman to be sexually reserved like slut shaming culture (I'm not saying slut shaming culture is wrong, it is right, but I'm saying it's normal for a woman to not want to be a slut)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:55 PM
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If men were allowed to say sexist stuff in real life, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:51 PM
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Means she doesn't really hate men and just hates the way things are. I can say "I hate men" to really mean "I hate the fact I'm not considered an equal to men" or to say "I'm jealous of men", without actually hating men. Some women also don't see good men as men, as avocado said. Maybe for them, "real" men means the ones they hate, and the good ones are just males but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:48 PM
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Look, if a man tells you that to get women you have to be nice, and he obviously doesn't do that "strategy" because it plain doesn't work, he's hypocritical, isn't he ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:46 PM
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Slut shaming shouldn't be illegal wtf are you on about ? I never said it should be illegal. It's just that from the way you were speaking, it seemed like you wanted for a verifiable way to track previous sexual partners to be put in place, like governmentally... I guess ad companies already know all our previous sexual partners, but that's another can of worms altogether...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:32 PM
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My question is have you ? And have you seen how your female friends behave around some of the worst pieces of shit to have graced the earth with their presence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:14 AM
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I'm talking purely about risks of actively being harmed, not risks of not getting benefit, because the risk of not getting benefit is pretty easily eliminated by just taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:09 AM
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I am indeed assuming that most of the time when people talk about "Chad got better than me" they talk about an actual mistake she did as an inexperienced person years ago, but assume it's not that. They say "Oh but she's MATURED now right ?" ironically, for example, meaning they really are talking about past mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:05 AM
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The fact that they're dicks, honestly. Thing is that women are attracted to dickheads because those dickheads find ways to make woman feel "legitimately" inferior to them, and therefore by comparison makes dickhead look better and worthy of admiration by her or some shit. It's disheartening. It's also why you see many redpill stats say that misogynists get more women than egalitarians do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:03 AM
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I mean if you feel LTRs as your "only option", then you shouldn't force yourself to emotionally invest in a woman... It's not what you want to do in the first place, so you shouldn't force youself to do that... even with conditions... There are emotionally detached "LTRs" that are just longterm fucking with no relationship involved...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:56 AM
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Most of the time you don't give men shit for selecting bad partners, you just give all women shit based on that one crazy chick existing. It's not his fault, it's all women's fault for even allowing such a woman to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:51 AM
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If I had written this post normally, yes, I might have to worry about them not understanding. But right now as it stands, unhinged shit is the only thing they're gonna understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:47 AM
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Because then he doesn't count as a regular guy so why would he be talking on behalf of regular guys ? It's like if I started talking about how life is as a male, even though I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:40 AM
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Generally people don't respond to those kinds of questions about height and looks, so I provided a response. He literally made a whole post on it on PPD so he probably didn't want to keep it hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:37 AM
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You underestimate how far some men are willing to go just to keep being sexists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:35 AM
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"I'm 6'2. Fairly muscular, but not ripped. Average face and bald head, but I think I can make it work with having a well kept full beard." Taken from one of his previous posts on PPD. Basically he's full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:32 AM
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I'm pretty sure almost every woman would accept unplanned pregnancies if adoption agencies actually did their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:30 AM
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Being at the right place at the right time is pretty rare and tricky for this. Someone would almost always have to have a predatory attitude in order to catch those, but extreme (and I mean extreme) luck can also do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:29 AM
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There are immature grown ass men and immature grown ass women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:28 AM
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You're gonna end up as a deadbeat, aren't you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 AM
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"Maturity" =/= "Age"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:21 AM
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I'm talking about cases where it's genuine past mistakes but where men interpret it as favoritism, which I think this scenario happens way more often than is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:21 AM
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By marrying and waiting until you're both actually ready to have kids (but still within a reasonable time window that the woman's fertility is not compromised)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:20 AM
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An actual feminist that only looks at one portion of women, where have I seen that before...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:19 AM
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I edited right after adding "That said it also means she would do this with future men, so I'm not sure this scenario applies to the whole "Why did she give Chad sex on the first date but not me" thing.", didn't realize you'd respond so quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:18 AM
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In your case scenario, then she's not immature for that and it's not a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:16 AM
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If you went in without thinking about without being prepared, and then suddenly you're surprised when you have an STD and/or you're pregnant, that's maturity to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:13 AM
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I am using redpill men's own logic in my post, so that they can't say shit like "premise doesn't even add up". I'm trying to make them understand how fucking absurd this whole line of thinking is, by unironically saying it myself (but as a woman therefore what I'm saying is wrong :>). Because if I say redpill men's shit, to redpill men themselves who want to disprove everything a woman says, then they'll disprove themselves in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:10 AM
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You're a radfem lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:09 AM
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I'm posting this on PPD, so of course PPD users are gonna be my target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:07 AM
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If I'm talking about immaturity and such then you can surely infer that we're talking about a scenario in which she made a rash decision she didn't think that much about beforehand, whoever that hypothetical "she" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:06 AM
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A "mistake" as she herself deemed it after the fact, realizing she was lucky nothing happened to her. If she doesn't deem it a mistake then it's not a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:02 AM
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Of course, that's important. I think getting tested together is the best course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:01 AM
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I'm assuming a young woman in this example because only young women are attractive and therefore kept in the equation. Unfortunately if you have kids too young it can ruin your life, which can therefore ruin the kid's life. If used incorrectly, condoms are only 80ish percent effective, which means you have a fat 1 in 5 chance to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:58 AM
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Of course she did consent, doesn't hide the fact it's a mistake she shouldn't be doing again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:54 AM
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From experience : no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:53 AM
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Which is why it baffles me that, when a woman or girl makes this same impulsive mistake but is lucky enough to not have contracted STDs, men just take it as proof that she can do it always and shouldn't stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:52 AM
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If you're supposed to have sex with a man right as you meet him, then you unfortunately can't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:49 AM
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How lucky are you as a man to have the right to call that out. If a woman did that, she'd be left with no community. Both men and women would be actively against her : men because they'd assume she's a radfem, and women because they'd think she's a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:48 AM
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I mean, with that response I was basically agreeing with you that yes I do accept being treated this way. I'm not hurt about it, and while you may see my response as cope, it's really not. I'm talking very literally here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:44 AM
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Libido has nothing to do with this. You can have high libido but also high self-control and retain the ability to reason, at least just enough to evaluate risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:42 AM
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I wouldn't really think it's because I'm less attractive, as I said. I mean, sure, it might mean that I'm not attractive enough to make him lose all sense of reason and become self-destructive like he might have done with some other woman, but honestly that kind of attractiveness is not what I'm aiming for. I assume, especially as a heterosexual woman dealing with heterosexual men, that if a man's interested in me it already means he's attracted enough to know he'll reliably enjoy sex with me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:38 AM
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My post is made from a "wtf will satisfy y'all ?" perspective. I'm assuming most men on this sub think of PIV when they say sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:33 AM
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Most men just want PIV and condoms are not great contraceptives if used harshly/incorrectly which a man will use incorrectly if he sees condoms as a useless chore. Female-side contraceptives almost all involve messing with your hormones which for some women can mess with libido. Sperm gets stored in the uterus for up to a week so ovulation tracking isn't all that safe either. Abortion will also get banned so like...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:29 AM
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I would accept a man being more cautious around me because he got tricked by a woman in the past (which includes her not tricking him at all and instead his own libido tricking him). Some part of me would interpret this as "he thinks I'm not attractive enough for this", but I would recognize that part of me as insecure and would understand that he's just trying not to repeat the same mistake twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:26 AM
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TvT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:24 AM
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It might not affect all women, but it affects a significant enough portion that it is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:23 AM
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I meant "can't" as in "definitely shouldn't". Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:21 AM
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ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:20 AM
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Thing is if you heavily judge her for it and care a lot about it, then you're not really gonna care about her, therefore why should I include her as an example in my post if she's not an option ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:18 AM
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Alright then I'll add it depends on the woman in my op to avoid further confusion. Originally it just says "can".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:16 AM
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Believe it or not maturity involves controlling yourself enough to not make stupid decisions that are solely based on attractiveness. If you're ignoring your own rules for somebody just because they're attractive enough then it means you've not matured enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:13 AM
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I didn't make my post from a female/my own perspective, otherwise it would have looked a lot more liberal and naive. I'm a freedom to all kind of person. My post was made from redpill assumptions though, because it's more fitting for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:09 AM
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Your response should be to hate all women, of course. That's the only course of action that's really feasable if we take this perception of things that I presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:06 AM
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If toys produced sperm, trust me that a lot of women wouldn't be using that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:03 AM
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If she let a man fuck her on the first date 5 years ago because was stupid and immature, she's not gonna, five years later, pretend to still have a teen mentality for your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:01 AM
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She doesn't convince him. Plain and simple. Safety is way better than some pill-obsessed fuck's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:00 AM
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I draw from my own experience trying bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:59 AM
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I covered that in b1.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:55 AM
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Still no reason to want to make women stop being cautious around you. You should instead tell women to be cautious around "tall and attractive" men. And again, if she fell into a trap of getting with a man only because he's tall and attractive, that's a mistake that she's not gonna repeat on purpose just to make you feel special. Men do that mistake all the time with attractive women that in truth steal from them or are revealed to be sluts, and their reaction is to learn from it, not repeat it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:54 AM
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I hear a ton of men whining about how all women are trash and women have ruined their lives in some way. When I look more into it, it's always some conventionally attractive slut-looking ass who he decided he'd try to get with rather than somebody who has actual values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:18 PM
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Y'all always choose women who look more attractive but would be more likely to fuck up your lives. And while yes it might not be 20/80 proportions, the logic is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:09 PM
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Y'all always choose women who look more attractive but would be more likely to fuck up your lives. And while yes it might not be 20/80 proportions, the logic is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:08 PM
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The 20/80 rules is something that men do to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:10 PM
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Guys used "you" to refer to women so why should I use "they". Remove my comment if you must, but I'm not gonna change this part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:25 PM
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You're just a fucking ragebaiter who shits on all women just because they were unlucky enough to be born as women. I'm still a minor so I can't transition into a man, so obviously no matter what I say I'm just gonna get clowned on. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:23 PM
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Would it have been better if I said "men" in general and came across as a sexist ? It doesn't seem that much better. I'll edit to replace "like you" by "some", better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:20 PM
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Even if companies handed out free vitamin supplements and did everything to accomodate men you would still want to ban women from society. Why the fuck am I even talking to you. Women are not a separate group from men, is what I'm getting at. Black people also have different needs from white people yet you don't ban them from society do you ? You jackasses are the reason why I'm not confident I'll get to live in this world and be useful unless I manage to grow a dick. You weren't born thinking y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:13 PM
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I said "y'all" as in "men". I was making observations based on who men are most attracted to. Men do those observations about women all the time and use "you" and such pronouns yet they don't get qualified as personal attacks. Just yesterday I was told that I only liked Chads four separate times, but it's not personal attack because it's obvious it's a commentary on most women instead of just me. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:09 PM
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China has something to do with it because there are certain things that can't be measured without other areas of a person's privacy being heavily breached.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:07 PM
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He's a redpill, and redpill specifically aims to observe how women act so that men can take advantage of that and attract women. If he's saying "women like x" as a redpill, then it implies he thinks he should become that x in order to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:05 PM
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It's just insults that women hear men say amongst themselves (except those "insults" are often said in order to actually help the guy who's being insulted), and they mimic it by instead using it as an actual insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:43 PM
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Redpill is right about what it observes, and egalitarians are right about what should realistically be legal assuming that future generations are gonna be affected by said laws, not just the old/already existing generations that redpill has observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:39 PM
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Moving on after a breakup has already happened isn't a bad skill to have, and it's one that men would heavily benefit from. The real problem is that people (in your argument you could say women) break up liberally and for no reason whasoever every like 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:36 PM
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In the second part of your post, you just make fun of men for wanting different things from what women want so honestly I'll ignore that. In the first part of your post, though, you dunk on men who willingly choose the same kinds of women they complain about all the time, which FINALLY someone actually said it !!! I'm so tired of men choosing the very people they despise and then going like "Ugh, all women are trash, we should probably take away their right to have a bank account now or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:30 PM
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I prefer to be left alone in terms of dating because I know that I'll be the one approaching. Some other women want to be approached because they know they don't want to do it themselves. It's a matter of the individual, and a man shouldn't get punished for not having read your mind to guess your preferences, so it's also important to be open when the opposite of what you prefer happens and to treat that as an opportunity. ... what an elaborate way to say "I'm fine with either".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:21 PM
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I'm having a hard time believing anything other than : This is a woman you imagined in your head. This is an immature teen posting trendy pseudo-"feminist" stuff on instagram that she doesn't actually understand bcs she's trying to get validation and engagement. Because the model you're proposing for women's reasoning seems way too fucking contradictory to be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:14 PM
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This is the answer I had in my head, honestly. Thanks for always being so honest and down-to-earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:12 PM
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What benefit would women get from getting "victim points" ? Most of the time, victim points just serve to keep you as a victim instead of solving your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:09 PM
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Cutting off everyone you know is fucking extreme ngl please rethink on that decision
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:06 PM
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I said "you're allowed to not like women" because I meant "you're allowed to not like women". I never called you a homosexual. You can not like something but still get horny because of it, in this case women. A lot of men express the issue of despising women but still being attracted to them and so having to deal with them. I said "please be honest about this if you want to court one" because it's not an alien idea that a lot of men will often change their behaviors and lie about their own value…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:01 PM
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I wasn't talking about myself, obviously. I was talking about other, way better women than I'll ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:56 PM
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FIDE is fucking stupid, for one. Also damn I never heard of free pads and tampons in New York bathrooms. I do believe you, I checked, but that's news to me. Also I'm pretty sure it's women who asked en masse for unisex bathrooms (because most trans supporters who aren't trans themselves are women) so I'm not too sure what you're on about here ? Most workplaces have unisex bathrooms anyway, at least the ones where I live. The gendered ones only apply to schools so that students don't fuck in-betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:54 PM
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You basing your perception of women off of OP is the exact same as if I based my perception of men off of Chads, rapists and dark triad men. But in the end I guess a lot of y'all (both normal guys and the guys I mentionned) just go crazy over unhinged and inhumane women. No matter how much y'all say you wish women would pay, would have actual morals, would lower their standards, would approach instead of men, or you know any other actually genuinely valid point y'all make... well, in the end, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:29 PM
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Do you even know what you're encouraging ? You're not even just a misandrist anymore, you're a misogynist as well... Why the fuck do you want honest women to get chased to hell and back by guys that they clearly rejected ? And why do you want guys to despair even more by making them think "there's a chance, keep going" when they get rejected instead of allowing them to move on in peace ? What's wrong with you ??? Touch grass and stop reading fanfics. And you know it's bad when I tell you to touc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:25 PM
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A guy getting rejected is... hot... IRL...? Fiction sure because a ton of people loves reading/watching fiction where terrible things happen, but IRL ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:22 PM
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To answer your title, if I were a man, I'd honestly give up on that. Way too fucking hard to even be a ladies lady, I can't even imagine a ladies man. Shit is just pure gambling and after you're born there's not much you can change about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:17 PM
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I said I was basing myself off of the common usage of the words. It's just a fact that misogyny is a word that's way more often used to describe sexism than to describe contempt and hatred. I didn't event the common usage of this word, as I barely use it. It's just how it is. Common usage is a way more accurate basis to go off of than literal definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:15 PM
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Honestly, if y'all stopped thirsting after the women who clearly view relationships as just transactions and infinite courting dances, then maybe y'all would be better off... the truth is, though, that you will keep going after those shitty women, because they're the kinds of women that y'all deem as "real women". And I'm not necesserally blaming y'all, because sometimes depending on where you live you really do end up with only shitty people, just like how some women get disproportionally high …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:10 PM
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And how can you prove that somebody truly has a certain moral belief, other than by seeing them actually apply it IRL ? If somebody pulls the "Do what I say, not what I do" card, you can most of the time infer that they're not doing what they preach not because of impossibility or impracticality (like with your Earth example), but because they just lied and really they don't believe a word of what they're saying therefore of COURSE they're not gonna do it. Generally, if you do the exact thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:03 PM
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So, since in the comment I posted like 3minutes ago I said that I wouldn't argue about this anymore, I'm just gonna take the hypothetical route of "Yes, we should do this" and ask : What do you think would be an effective way to enforce this while still not turning the country into China in the process ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:58 PM
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I guess I brought some confusion by using "unattractive" as a synonym for "undesirable", I'm sorry about that. But I mean if you see the legal system itself's entire purpose as a way to give men desirable pussy, then there's no point in arguing with each other about this anymore. We have wildly different perspectives that would take way too much time and too much back-and-forth for us to understand and truly get where each other's coming from. That said, you taught me a lot about how men view th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:53 PM
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I think it's way easier for 80M people (1% of population) to get seen all at the same time on the same platforms when they're posting borderline-porn vs for 1% of rapists who are all scattered around the world irl and certainly don't want to get seen. And yeah I'm exaggerating with 1%, but you get me. It's still a lot of people and social media generally gives clout to the same few people instead of evenly distributing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:45 PM
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Just because some women have no shame doesn't mean the rest of them don't either... It's like me saying that you should rape actually since SOME men do it... or that you should post yourself in skirts actually, since some men do it. Remember that 1% of the population is still like 80M people... but still 1%...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:34 PM
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I was talking about the moral side of it only, not what one would actually realistically do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:00 PM
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Are you telling me then that misogyny and misandry aren't mirrors of each other, despite seemingly being the differently-gendered versions of the same word ? But fine. If I only take common use as reference, and throw all reasoning out of the windows then : misogyny = sexism against women misandry = general disdain towards men as an idea and/or group Is that it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:00 PM
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You wouldn't post yourself as a femboy in order to get attention either... it's called humiliating yourself. Or emasculation for you guys. And you could argue that by the simple act of existing as women, we're constantly worthy of humiliation everyday, but I'd still want to keep that to a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:55 PM
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You wouldn't post yourself as a femboy in order to get attention either... it's called humiliating yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:54 PM
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"Vetting" implies you're not giving sex as a main bonding experience for a WHILE though...? Which men don't like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:51 PM
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We don't seem to be arguing based off of the same assumptions, I just realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:47 PM
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I mean you just took a whole paragraph to explain something I said in one sentence... And I doubt the justification is "because he's the one that will be paying", because, what would you think in the case that the woman stepped up to be the one paying ? You're allowed to just... not like women, you know. I'm just hoping you're being honest about that if you're trying to get a woman's pussy. Being a nice manipulative bitch is ten times worse than being an honest jerk, ethically, but since that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:41 PM
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I mean yeah that's why I said that probably wasn't what you meant. Glad we're able to agree on that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:36 PM
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Sorry I found a typo in that reply you responded to. I'm sorry. I meant to say I'm not trying to justify any subsequent action. Pretty embarrassing typo to make when the whole meaning of your sentence revolves around it, yeah. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:33 PM
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I mean I'm pretty fucking stupid, it's why I named my flair "dumbass pill". It was just the closest thing I found that "stealing" could be analogy to, cause raping is literally "stealing sex" even if it wouldn't really make sense for you to say that. Can I please know what this was really about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:30 PM
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I mean I don't disagree with you on that : it's hard work that takes a toll on your body and it's absolutely worth it for the kid, as I said. I just also mentionned that pregnancy is kind of a special kind of fucking up your body, not in the degree of its impact, but in its nature. Again, not to justify absolving anyone of any responsibility, but simply to make you aware that damage to the body caused by pregnancy is not the same kind of damage caused by an sick and sleep-deprived mother or fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:26 PM
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I am not trying to socially shame you, I'm trying to confirm with you that my assumption is correct or not. I asked a question, so that you could correct me. Instead you went again with assuming ulterior motives. Oh well. Can you tell me what stealing is really about, then, please ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:18 PM
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I'll just keep that comment in mind if you ever accuse a woman on this sub of nagging behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:17 PM
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I am implying that, just like the word "feminism" has changed over time to be completely denatured from its original meaning, so has "TRP".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:14 PM
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A simp and a slut are not remotely similar... A slut is seen as much lower profile than a simp... And again, why would I try to bond with you by having sex, if I know that having sex will make me a piece of shit ? "Most precious resource for less than nothing", but if I'm supposed to bond with you by having sex, then I can't treat it like a precious resource, can I ? It doesn't make sense to complain about women withholding sex and then complain about them giving it. And look, I don't care if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:09 PM
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I mean, for the first part of your comment, I'm just gonna reason with the absurd here and say that, since your health is never guaranteed, might as well not worry about STDs as well... I'm sorry for sounding mean, but that's what your argument looks like at first glance : "If your health is never guaranteed, then you shouldn't even try to take any steps to protect it". Now of course you didn't mean that, but that is essentially what you wrote... It'd be much more sound to say that, since it gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:06 PM
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Yes, technically, there's a risk in everything we do including even breathing, but if there's inherently a lot more risk than everything else when the body tries to do one specific thing, then you could maybe conclude that your body is not too well suited for that one specific thing. It works, it manages it, and it's supposed to do it but it's not suited for it straight up. And women are incredibly good at seeing something that's actively harming them and then going "Oh well, that's normal I gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:59 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong comment again. You may want to check that reddit's working well on your end bcs the abortion thread is not this one. There's a ton of ways to prevent having kids besides abortion. There's condoms, IUDs, birth control pills, sponges, etc... You did say that nature wants us to "reproduce" specifically though, so sex without reproduction wouldn't really be natural or right, would it ? It is a question, not a rhetorical one. . I also don't see what this : "That you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:39 PM
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I did say I was talking about this completely disconnected from abortion. Maybe it was a bit hidden so I apologize for that. Next time I'll put it in bold letters. I'm not trying to justify abortion, I'm just trying to point out one reason why women generally don't like to be pregnant. For other, unrelated reasons, some women might then want to terminate their pregnancy by aborting, but that's on them. A woman who views her zygote as a human being and therefore doesn't want to terminate her preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:34 PM
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This wasn't the point I was making. Maybe you responded to the wrong comment. I'll copy paste :) "Not many people are inclined to live "as God intented" you know. Especially when it doesn't make sense. If we're made to fuck, why are sluts seen negatively ? Not to mention, many men want the sex but not the "reproduction" (kids) to go with it." I was asking a question : Why are women who fuck seen negatively, if they're using their body for what God intended which is to fuck men ? Of course sluts …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:28 PM
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Providing for a kid that already exists is not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the process of creating a kid that doesn't exist yet. I am also talking a lot more about quality of life degrading, to sometimes the point of death, not sudden death of an otherwise healthy person. Hence why I was talking about biological health. Nobody wants to become disabled or contract a chonic illness for something that's supposed to be casual and natural. I'm not talking about abortion, again. I'm talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:22 PM
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"Not making sense" doesn't mean I don't grasp it. It means you contradict yourself and act like a hypocrite a lot. You make a ton of paradoxes, act all high and mighty, then when someone asks you to explain yourself you either copy paste something that has no relevance with their question, or just default to insulting them with pretty wording so that you can say you technically didn't "insult" them. You assign ulterior motives to everything that is being said too, as if it's all a matter of prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:13 PM
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Your comment is something I anticipated and is the reason why I had brought up point n°2. in my second comment. This isn't a matter of abortion anymore, this is matter of why women just don't want to be pregnant and skip out on having kids despite the fact that they want them. If you work hard to provide to your kids, as a mother, and it shows on your body because you're sleep deprived or something, that's just normal. What isn't normal is how pregnancy in and of itself, as a biological process,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:56 PM
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I'm not trying to justify anything, I'm trying to get you to make sense, because it's infuriating when you don't make sense, which is 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:47 PM
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The problem is that you kind of countered yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:46 PM
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Not many people are inclined to live "as God intented" you know. Especially when it doesn't make sense. If we're made to fuck, why are sluts seen negatively ? Not to mention, many men want the sex but not the "reproduction" (kids) to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:44 PM
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Even lillith doesn't hate men, you know. You're just misinterpreting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:43 PM
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Again, why give out sex if sex is the number one thing that a woman shouldn't give else she's ruined ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:41 PM
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Emotional vulnerability and companionship aren't really the same thing, imo. With women you can be emotionally vulnerable but it's all... idk. Distant. Compared to men where sure nobody wants to hear you whine but everything feels more real. At least that's how I imagined it would be like, watching from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:40 PM
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Women can offer a fucking lot, it's just that men don't really accept anything other than the womb. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:38 PM
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"This is a female-centric perspective. Women tend to see relationships as transactional far more than men do." Men tend to see relationships as a barrier, a requirement to meet in order to get the pussy. I'd argue that's transactional thinking as well. "If I do this and that, she'll let me fuck her in return". . "Sex is part of companionship. If you want to be in a romantic relationship with someone but don't want to have sex with them, you really just want what amounts to a gay best friend." I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:36 PM
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Look, all I'm saying is, if you want a hookup, just say you want a hookup and skip the relationship nonsense. Chances are the woman is not looking for a hookup or FWB though. She's looking for companionship, so she tests if you're able to handle being with her even without the sex. If even without the sex you're able to handle it, it means you're really fucking compatible with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:28 PM
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You saying autistic people are "blaming autism" kind of makes me think of a scene where a guy's getting mad bcs the one in a wheelchair "refuses" to stand up. Autistic people do behave normally and it's called masking, but it's just that : a mask. You have to allow them to be themselves in their own homes aka with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:25 PM
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It's not entitlement if, after you said it, you yourself begin to do something about your own problem. It becomes just acknowledgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:16 PM
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I thought your holy book told you that women naturally like being shepherded though. Damn. Way to disprove your whole belief system. If you wanted to make sense, you could have said that women naturally like being shepherded, but that they've been plucked away from their roots by modern feminism making them blind to their true desire to be led, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:12 PM
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You literally nag everybody on this sub without even seeing that you're doing it. What's to say other innocent men aren't doing the same thing ? Lol. And even if you're just "stating truth" guess what, most women who nag are also just stating truth. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:10 PM
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Physical accidents are not the same as sicknesses. Not to say one is better or worse, but it's just not the same category. Honestly if you give me numbers of men who had medical complications or died because they were forced to take steroids, it would be much more of a mirror to pregnancy. Bodily health is 100% more important than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:02 PM
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Are you implying rape is an okay thing to do with that "(or steal)" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:56 PM
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Pregnancy does force your body to change irreversibly in a pretty detrimental way, most of the time, and microchimerism makes the mother keep her children's cells within her, sparking new autoimmune diseases and sometimes diabetes. If with your experience you've found some way to make a woman post-pregnancy body the exact same as her pre-pregnancy one, then please include that so that you can idk make sense and shut us up for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:51 PM
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Maybe you should remind to some people what TRP is then, because most of the time we learn what TRP is from a ton of guys misusing the term. Women learn from practical observation, not prescription. I suspect guys do as well though, considering that "feminism" has been misused so much by some women that men had no trouble refering to it by its new man-hating definition after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:45 PM
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Even the mods are ragebaiting me now why did this guy's comment get deleted. Just cause he acts like a pompous ass doesn't mean he needs to be censored come the fuck on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:41 PM
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I always assumed that those women were just talking about what they themselves thought, but mistakenly talked about "all women" while doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:39 PM
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...? Did I infect you with something ? Do I need to call the hospital ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:38 PM
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Thing with redpillers is that they're so hyperfocused on this idea of men and women being different species, and think there should a male and female version of everything. If one thing already exists in normal (male) society, then women should make their own bootleg in order to participate in it, or something ? Men are one society and women are another, and women are parasites to men's own society, is that it ? All that women ask is to fuse the two so that they may be able to work alongside you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:33 PM
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OP's whole premise is that men are complaining lol. Not at an individual level because they can just leave as you said, but at a group level they are apparently complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:22 PM
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OP acknowledges men's own free will in her posts, so I don't see how it's sexist. Most sexist guys don't acknowledge women's free will and that's the reason why it's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:21 PM
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Equality means both groups get the exact same shit for better or for worse. Feminism and MRA. Equity means that both groups don't get the same shit : one group gets more so that things "even out". Or, one group gets more because they're generally understood as needing more. Redpill shit and religious guys who believe women are naturally content with being men's pets or something, those who want to go back to the 18s or 19s. And the "men opressing women" narrative was never meant to attack men, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:17 PM
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I said "if you truly believe in your shit, why don't you go through with it" which is definition of a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:05 PM
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Just cause you have morals doesn't mean most people do... And even if 80% of people did, 1 in a 5 chance to get screwed for life is still pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:02 PM
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What kind of totalitarian country do you live in where the legal system exists to punish people you don't like ? And if it's not about being unattractive, then what is it about ? There's not much that differenciates a slut from a normal woman, besides the fact that she's "ran through" and therefore becomes unattractive in a man's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:01 PM
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I'm not saying women are unsafe because of this or whatever. What I am saying is, don't complain when women give you exactly what you asked for, if you fucking lied about what you wanted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:57 PM
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I wonder how many males the guy who wrote this article met, because he describes what bluepill women are taught as if it's not reality ? Like honestly most of the time you're not gonna get abused, that's for sure, but you ARE gonna get blackmailed a ton if you 100% depend on another person. And honestly if that happens, you're gonna lose attraction real quick and it's just gonna become a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:53 PM
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"Seeing women as objects" means seeing men as people and seeing women as that alien species that isn't quite your kin enough for you to care about. Kind of like how most people aren't vegan, because they don't give that much of a shit about chickens or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:49 PM
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Yeah it's just about having something to fall back on if you're in deep shit financially you know ? Like of course if you're more passionate about your job than your husband it's kind of fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:47 PM
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"More likely" is not 100% so honestly uh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:45 PM
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You do know that the main thing about redpill that makes women mad, isn't the part where the man is "lame" or whatever, but the part where he's here to lead us and give us little room for self-autonomy ? We hate the same thing you hate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:44 PM
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If you're talking about chocolate, it's just because there's tons of iron in dark chocolate which is pretty handy when you lose blood every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:41 PM
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It honestly seems like the only reason you made this post is to advertize redpill to bluepillers as something that will satisfy them. But we both know redpill isn't what you wrote. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:37 PM
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What you pulled is so devious I think he's just gonna give you a non-answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:34 PM
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Official reason is to "protect the child's DNA" basically saying nobody has the right to casually get your DNA without your consent, which you can't give if you're not even born yet. Real reason is purely so that men get cucked though. Them finding out the truth through DNA tests would "tear apart too many families". France's words not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:30 PM
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I'm gonna copy-paste what I wrote in another comment : Misogyny isn't about saying "most women are like that", because that's just observation. It's even egalitarian to make genuine observations about a group, without disregarding some actions just because they belong to said group. Misogyny is instead about adding a sense of "and no exceptions exist, and women are incapable of changing, since women cannot control themselves and it's wired in their very DNA to act this shitty since they're a who…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:27 PM
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I did the one thing Americans are hated for lol. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:20 PM
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Wasn't there a post like that like two days ago ? Did it get deleted ? But also are you speaking from personal experience for what you're saying or... are you just saying in theory ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:17 PM
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Damn I forgot those were legal outside of France, mb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:14 PM
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Her posts are just observations, while the people she talks about are people who make genuine demands that contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:13 PM
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I honestly don't understand either, are you saying she's too ugly to have a respectful partner ? Not trying to insult you, just trying to reiterate so I can know we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:12 PM
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Idk there's no rules against sub-posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:11 PM
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Look, if you think of yourself as a counter-example to what she's saying, I'm just gonna stop you right there. Because it might be true that a ton of men aren't insulting and disrespectful like she says, but you are very much part of the group of men she describes. And before you reply saying that I need a mirror too, just because I'm this way doesn't mean you aren't as well. I'm just giving you a gentle reminder to practice the self-reflection you preach so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:06 PM
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"Talk to shy men." She said shy guys do this too in her OP. You even quoted the passage where she said that. She's saying that it's basically part of one's identity as a man to be insulting towards women, regardless of what kind of man you are no matter how nerdy, shy, feminine, etc... because in your core identity you're still a man, and that's what identifying as a man entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:03 PM
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Copy pasting this in notepad and changing everything for it to talk about women instead... no. It's not misogynistic. Misogyny isn't about saying "most women are like that", because that's just observation. It's even egalitarian to make genuine observations about a group, without disregarding some actions just because they belong to said group. Misogyny is instead about adding a sense of "and no exceptions exist, and women are incapable of changing, since women cannot control themselves and it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:54 PM
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"Checking your own shoes" just means realizing the problem is you in the sense that you have a pussy, boobs, and XX chromosomes. Not much to fix there except if you're trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:52 PM
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This discussion is under a post which has, as its whole premise : "Men don't want women to ask for commitment first, therefore what the fuck is a woman supposed to do to satisfy y'all and still choose the right people ?". The whole point of OP is to take away that easy solution (solution being : making sure there's commitment first) because it supposedly doesn't satisfy men and would therefore not be an ethical option. And males are very performative around women, so honestly while in a month yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:46 PM
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I mean when women pair up with men just for said men and not what they provide, y'all decide it's "not real" or "not good enough" since you feel guilty about not providing money. This whole bs is just an excuse to justify making women unable to work. And even then, y'all still won't be satisfied because now you'll feel you're only wanted for your money, which you would have done to yourself. I hope in another life all of you will be reborn as dysphoric mfing pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:36 PM
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It also makes women feel respected and seen for what they actually are, no matter how flattering or degrading that is, which is a big plus since nowadays most women care about being seen for what they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:33 PM
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Main point of OP's posts is actually "men who complain about women are fucking hypocrites" which I 100% agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:31 PM
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I'm not complaining on behalf of women or anything, I'm just saying it's unfortunate for the guy since he's kind of digging his own grave by lying like that, if he knows he can't handle waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:29 PM
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But the whole point of the internet is playing tennis from like two football fields away :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:20 PM
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And typical hypocrite response when they're called out for being hypocrites is deflecting the conversation. Lol. I thought you wanted direct responses, and yet when you get them, you disregard said responses and so you end up only counting the instances where women have responded indirectly, thus heavily skewing your perceived results. So now you're being a hypocrite in two ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:18 PM
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And what would "deradicalizing" look like to you ? Because you know, most women aren't "taught" to be feminists. It's just kind of normal to want to be treated like everybody else when you don't see legitimate reasons to be treated differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:13 PM
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I'm also against using push-up bras to make your boobs seem bigger or using makeup to change your face structure deceptively. It's one thing to truly change aspects of yourself to be attractive, like hitting the gym (for both men and women), but if you didn't truly "become" that way and you're just kinda cosplaying instead, I think it's false advertising. Besides, I was talking about dark-triad types of personalities who fake values, morals, intent and such, rather than people who just wanna hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:08 PM
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Why are men complaining about feminism, if they have the power to stop yapping and to just end feminism themselves ? It must mean it's not feminism they're mad about, but something else that women have control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:01 PM
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Being in your right mind means being able to clearly visualize what you're really getting into, and being able to clearly evaluate whether or not that's okay with you instead of making rushed decisions, emotional decisions, or decisions based on pure principle with no critical thinking involved whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:58 PM
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Whether you'd believe it or not, there IS a difference between a person's actual intent vs what people assume said person's intent to be. And yes, it is related to this thread, because Lysa was talking about what people assumed her intent to be when choosing better (people assume her intent is to settle), regardless of whether or not that was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:57 PM
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Stop copy pasting. Just. Stop. I'm talking to a broken record I swear. And even though what you're saying is right, there's still a minimum amount of time that you have to spend with somebody in order to know enough about them to, well... appreciate their being, as you said. Are you proposing that, with the right mindset, one would be able to pinpoint and perceive a stranger's whole being in just a few minutes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:46 PM
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It's still a legitimate question I'm asking myself. If the man that literally pretends to be the epitome of morality chooses random internet arguments over his own spouse, then I'd think being single IS better after all. I really hope you're just one degenerate fuck and that you don't represent most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:42 PM
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In my own perception I think the red pill does care about consent, it's just that they'll manipulate the woman in order to make her think she wants to consent when, had she been in her right mind, she would have said no. Redpill is big on psychology. I think it's a pretty unethical and dehumanizing practice, but that said, women will flock to inhumane people anyway because said women have the ego to want a challenge from their "partner", so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:36 PM
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We're talking about a woman who takes the advice "choose better" to heart. Please don't lose the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:33 PM
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Thinking that the other person is not reacting "properly" is a pretty fucking masculine way of thinking lol. It's just that instead of taking it as something the other person should and can fix like women do, men take it as something that's inherently wrong with women and will just never change so "might as well take away women's autonomy over it". I'll say this again and again but y'all don't understand how much more content each gender would be if they were treated in reverse : men like women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:32 PM
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Look, if you're SOOOOO convinced that women all want dark triad types, then why don't you become one yourself ? Why not get yourself in jail for some time as well ? I thought TRP was about doing what would objectively give you the most chances of success. If you truly believe in your shit, why don't you actually go through with it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:29 PM
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I thought women were all attracted to the same guys and therefore the same criterias. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:23 PM
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A lot of guys will, in order to get laid, pretend to want a LTR with a woman when what they really want is a hookup. If you pull up to a McDonalds and order a burger, the person at the other end isn't gonna read your mind to learn that you actually want nuggets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:21 PM
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"We" lol. Other men, maybe. You ? Nah. Also you should stop slandering women like that if you supposedly love your wife lol. Why lump her in with your shit just because a friend of yours is struggling to get laid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:18 PM
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Women aren't mind readers and unfortunately have to take more than 5minutes in order to get to know a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:18 PM
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And how does one determine if said better criterias are fulfilled, when you've barely known the guy for like less than a week ? Lol. When OP says stranger, she means stranger. The entire premise of her post is that guys want to be fucked while they're still strangers to her. You missed the point again and just went on with your rambling. Get out of your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:13 PM
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From seeing people argue based off of how they define themselves : self-proclaimed feminist (woman) = believes in equality self-proclaimed feminist (man) = an actual sexist who wants validation self-proclaimed egalitarian = believes in equity (misogyny) That's the definitions I've gathered based on observing people. Feminists want equality, and y'all want equity aka y'all want to tone down women because it "fits them better". I'm saying this so that I can check with you if those definitions are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:09 PM
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You said that the fact that being a slut is legal is actively hurting men, because then they have nobody else to marry or date but sluts. If it's not about desirability, then what is that statement about ? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:04 PM
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If there's no proof I don't see how the woman reporting a random guy would make authorities go "hm yes makes sense i'm gonna track this guy down now". If it worked this way, any woman could point to any random guy and claim him as personal insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:02 PM
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There are a LOT of successful deadbeats lol. If you don't manage to do it, that's a skill issue. Cause it's fucking easy. Of course if you don't find a way to hide that you're the father you're gonna get tracked down. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:00 PM
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When we're still kids we don't truly realize we're women imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:04 AM
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I do wonder if you even want to live in a feminist world dawg. Most of your takes in your posts are SPOT ON, but if you don't actually want anything to change then honestly idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:23 AM
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You said that slutting around is harmful because then men are stuck with sluts as their only options for dating. How is it different from saying that becoming fat is harmful because then men are stuck with fat women as their only options for dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:18 AM
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A ton of women aren't against having their trophy femboy to get fucked by every night you know. Y'alls egos is just too big for that shit. Most of us don't even give a shit about y'alls status or success but we pretend we do because this way y'all will feel better about yourselves. The moment we treat y'all like normal people you scream emasculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:13 AM
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I heard of vaginal lubrication aiding sperm mobility, but clitoral I didn't know that. I'll have to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:09 AM
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I like dicks more than I like pussy. I don't want women to want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:05 AM
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Being the one to pursue literally gives you more control than not doing it though, if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:02 AM
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Of course you would say that, since you want to pump and dump women, you make it seems as though what I'm proposing offers no benefits nor control whatsoever over what kind of man one ends up with. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:00 AM
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"Am I safe with him ?" is the first part of "Do I want him ?". Why do you want somebody who isn't safe for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:57 AM
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Getting a job is forceful coercion now lol. But if we end up living in a country where women can't work and are all forced to be gold diggers, then said gold diggers won't be doing forceful coercion against their men ? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:52 AM
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I hear a lot of women say shit that's basically like "If he was that good then he'd be the one to approach me and take basically every initiative" despite said guy literally being the perfect guy for them otherwise, and ditch him for somebody who'll pump and dump them just because he was bold enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:48 AM
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I'm not a lesbian though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:42 AM
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If you'd let him pursue you, he would have hid all that for a way longer time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:41 AM
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I really don't know how to tell you how much this cheered me up, thanks a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:39 AM
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Anti feminist but egalitarian ? What ? But also I said that no amount of bitching can truly change men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:35 AM
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"Autistic men don't know how to behave" but you expect autistic women to magically know/learn how to behave ? You want women to harm themselves by masking 24/7 ? Stop being a fucking mysoginist. Most autistic people don't bring harm in any way either, so I don't know what's up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:27 AM
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Women hating masculinity is just cope. I'm saying this as a coping person. You can trust me. A ton of us think we're going to grow up into men and when it doesn't happen we feel like disabled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:24 AM
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I guess it's the same kind of thing as voting or being a vegan. You think "one more or one less won't change anything", and it's true, but every individual contributes towards huge numbers. PPD users have this in mind a lot, and that makes it so a ton of people will get harassed just for existing the way they do, because people think that if they can change one person's mind suddenly the statistics will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:20 AM
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Bravo you discovered redpill ? Lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:16 AM
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How do you think that if you stop to look for what people think, in an area of life that's heavily based on what people think, that anything will work out ? This is a literal genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:14 AM
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Manosphere is about manipulating women into getting stuck your ass and making them dependent on you so that they can't leave you once they're broken out of their little trance. It works, but it's not ethical, so women give you advice that's not manosphere. The dating advice women tell you isn't about chances of success, it's about chances of an ethical and qualitative relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:10 AM
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Most women think that those scenarios represent 70+% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:06 AM
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I mean, right now as things are today, if a man doesn't like it, he can just... peace out. Leave the woman and disappear forever. Nobody would know about it, and the kid would still be in great care (the kid's own mother). A woman can't just flee her own body like that, nor can she detach her womb and mail it to the dad or something. And putting her own kid up to adoption, unless she specifically already knows who she'll give it to and can give it to said person right as the kid is born, it's...…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:49 AM
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If a ton of sluts with 20+ bodycount reached out to you, you'd count those women as options ? If yes, I can get behind what you're saying and I'd agree, but otherwise this seems hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:43 AM
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... You got links ? Not for studies or whatever, I mean for the straight stuff you mentionned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:40 AM
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I always thought that sexuality wasn't ever supposed to happen in women anyway, that or that women have acquired vestigial sexuality from men. Basically, for both genders, being aroused by women is normal, being aroused by men isn't. Probably because the way we evolved didn't need a woman's arousal anyway. Only the man's is useful for reproduction. A woman can get attracted by a man through manipulation anyway lol. That said I'm trans ftm so maybe that's the reason why I say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:35 AM
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Capability, reliability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:32 AM
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I didn't say be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:26 PM
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Why are you so fixated on whether or not the guy wants you, and not so much on whether or not you want the guy ? A lot of guys will make you think they want you but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:26 PM
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Yes, but do you seriously want the guys on here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:17 PM
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Problem is that from what I could read from Pristine Object's exchanges with other commenters, he very much conflates "married" and "dating" together when it comes to what women should know about a man. Therefore in my question I also conflate the two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:12 PM
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You know, before you edited your comment, you were kinda laughing at my ass xD But also I'm mad at the absurdity of the suggested scenario, not at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:58 PM
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Men don't literally write like that, they twist their sentences in ways to say exactly that but make the blow softer so that women don't have the right to whine about it. I just say things outright and it gets people mad because they tend to at least beat around the bush to say the same fascist shit. I respect men who did nothing to me. PPD men though I don't respect them most of the time. And while a lot of men, like you, aren't included in what I'm saying, I suspect from seeing the content in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:55 PM
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Did I say "things should stay as they are" ? No, I said "things should be equal". And things being equal means not giving ridiculous amounts of power to one party because of their dick or lack thereof. Basically not going to extremes. Just cause MRAs are right doesn't mean I have to become a fucking pet. I also have to check what's wrong with reddit because why didn't I get the notification
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:47 PM
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We live in a feminist society. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:42 PM
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If they want good results for themselves, yes. If they want to get fucked for the sake of being normal, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:41 PM
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I come on PPD expecting what is on here, which is a ton of people trying to enforce a authoritarian-like society based on statistical averages between men's and women's tendencies. It triggers my dysphoria a ton. I come here periodically hoping that, one day, this bs won't faze me anymore. I don't wish to change anything on here, this is the perfect training ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:37 PM
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No, and that's exactly why you should understand when I say this too. Things should just be fucking equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:21 PM
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You really think women want to live in a world where they have to trust and rely on a man's will ? Lol ? Fuck off ? Y'all are so obsessed by your statistics everyday that now you want to create a whole communist world based on them, it's so fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:17 PM
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Most men want a woman who walks on eggshells around him, yeah, I get that. Listen, if I get in a relationship, it's not to be with a man who will actively stress me out and make me walk on eggshells around him. I have one single requirement for men and it's literally to not do that. In return I don't do that either. So far with what I hear from men, I haven't met a single guy who it's possible to have a peaceful life with, because they'll always invent a problem. Men's egos are too big to ever a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:10 PM
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Lilith is speaking out of hurt the same way many guys on here speak out of hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:05 PM
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If she's promiscuous, I'd assume multiple affairs would be in the definition lol. I mean what else would she be busy with ? Work ? I thought women didn't need to work because they lived on easy mode. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:05 PM
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So if it's so simple to find out if a man's married/dating another girl, mind sharing the tutorial ? You can't just have the cure to such a big thing and then keep it all to yourself. I'm serious by the way. Drop the tips. I don't think every woman's so lucky to be able to see that a guy has a second girl on social media. Heck, I don't think many woman are lucky enough to even HAVE connections to said second girl in the first place. Drop the fucking tutorial. Assume I'm dumber than a rock, idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:59 PM
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When people say "you can jerk off" it's because they live in a world where sex has already been stripped of all emotion. You inverted cause and effect. That or it's just a vicious cycle. We do need more naive people in this world, but I honestly don't know how that would work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:53 PM
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I thought that when I said "don't even recognize themselves in the word 'woman'", you interpreted it to say that normal fems betrayed their own sex by not identifying with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:49 PM
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Only reason why I'm a feminist is because I don't want to sell myself gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:46 PM
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There's more reason than if I don't talk like a monolith lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:44 PM
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I have XX chromosomes and a pussy as far as I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:42 PM
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If we're gonna make laws that you can't become unattractive to men, then we're gonna have to make laws to men that prohibit them from becoming unattractive too lol. Let's also prohibit being fat since it hurts men and women who then are forced to date fat people. Are you even hearing yourself ? If you want that sort of shit go move to a communist country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:38 PM
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You're seriously gonna try to pretend that women are good at anything other than pregnancy ? Is this the game we're playing now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:26 PM
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Now every woman is Taylor Swift good lord... I gotta learn to perform emergency castration...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:22 PM
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You can look like shit and be extremely competent. You can be good for nothing but still be rich af.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:16 PM
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I do think that some extreme things could happen to men with law changes, but that would result in general loss of freedom and not loss of independence. It's mostly agreed upon that women having independence is an unusual thing though, and that consensus might lead straight to law changes reflecting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:09 PM
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Fun is also having men engaged in the activities you do together. You're literally asking to get scammed. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:06 PM
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So what you're saying is that men who try to abolish feminism and enforce laws to force us into traditional marriage, are aiming to make us prostitutes. Yeah. Thanks proving my fucking point, lol. Imagine being so fucking stupid that you argue against yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:04 PM
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Doesn't matter the reward, it matters what traits were evolved in order to get that reward. Men had to become superior and more performant in order to get to reproduce. Women got worse and redirected their body's resources in order to get to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:01 PM
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If you don't consider yourself in the bottom 80%, then why would you be mad that women flock around you ? Make it make sense. I started making things personal because you dragged me specifically into this whole vendetta you got against womanhood as a whole. And I think that second assumption I made is very fucking true lol. Not about me, I know you don't like feminists, but about the kind of women you find attractive. . "If you look at me and see "Woman #235643" I don't want you. Because realist…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:59 PM
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You're right, but that's exactly the point. Evolution gave men bodies that are mostly useful to men. Evolution gave women bodies that are mostly not useful to women but are useful for reproduction. That's literally what I'm trying to explain since the start xD Now again I don't care because there are fixes, but still it's funny how I told you "A" and you responded "No it's not B it's A"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:54 PM
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If you don't consider yourself in the bottom 80%, then why would you be mad that women flock around you ? Make it make sense. I started making things personal because you dragged me specifically into this whole vendetta you got against womanhood as a whole. And I think that second assumption I made is very fucking true lol. . "If you look at me and see "Woman #235643" I don't want you. Because realistically then the only reason why you'd want me is because I'd be a warm sperm hole." That is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:51 PM
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For my first point, I meant how men will happily identify themselves with the evolutionary concept of being a man, with their balls, with their chromosomes, with their biology, and they feel comfortable in it. "We men do this, but you women do that". For my second point, I don't care about being left by a man, but I do care about not being treated by him in a prejudiciary way because my appearance gives him a false sense of my personality. If he did this I would have to leave him. For my third p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:40 PM
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You consider yourself in the bottom 80%, yet from your comments I can tell that you're gonna be a manipulative piece of shit in order to fuck me. That's what I mean. I mean you, specifically you. Why would I want to date you if you only look at me as the common points between all women ? If you look at me and see "Woman #235643" I don't want you. Because realistically then the only reason why you'd want me is because I'd be a warm sperm hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:31 PM
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I am literally talking about the self proclaimed other 80% that whine on this sub all the time and literally tell us that they manipulate us to try to get out of celibacy. I'm a virgin. And I like femboys. I'm not "women". I'm just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:24 PM
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It's true it wouldn't be perfect, far from it, but at least it'd give us more autonomy and it'd be feasable without changing too many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:23 PM
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I mean there's the whole menstrual cycle that's unvoluntary and some women even get brain problems because of said cycle, and the fact that we need to rely on medicine in order to manage if we have kids or not. I think most autonomy issues would be solved by a single nerve connection that would allow us to contract the uterus voluntarily. But again a lot of aspects of our bodies are subpar simply because our bodies act pregnant 24/7 even when we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:13 PM
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I mean yeah sure I'm talking about women who want a genuine relationship, not the 20/80 theory. I'm just saying, what's the point of trying to form a genuine relationship with a man if you can't be sure he'll reciprocate because APPARENTLY most men are manipulative pieces of shit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:09 PM
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You can stand up for a thing without identifying with said thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:07 PM
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I've gone to a point where if I don't DIY my transition I'll feel like I've cheated or like I'm not deserving. Probably an ego issue, but honestly I've got plans that work so I'm good. However when I do hear other women speak and complain, it does feel like they're thinking the exact same thing as me, so honestly maybe that's not a dysphoria issue and just a sexism issue, and I myself would be using transition in order to escape a sexism issue that all women live through ? Maybe no woman is cis,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:03 PM
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I did mention the "getting stuck in our heads and the sexism fearmongering" part. Maybe that's just part of it. Idk. From hearing men speak, including the "good" men on this sub and you, I do get this conclusion, but my view might be warped. Also, we're warned by men themselves that men will often pretend to have genuine relationships with us in order to get in our pants, so like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:57 PM
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I mean I really do want to, but I think if I turn a blind eye to the general consensus then I'm gonna become a victim of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:56 PM
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That's why I think we should try to fund research on some kind of thing idk to make it so women can contract their uterus at will. Think about it : ability to abort whenever you want no matter what the law says, ability to have and/or finish your periods early, and that without any risk whatsoever because it's only a mechanical thing and no hormones have been touched. I have high hopes that we'll be able to do this, as we already know that orgasm leads to uterine contraction in women. I also do …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:51 PM
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Male bodies are designed for competition because they evolved in competition. Therefore male bodies have evolved to serve their users. Female bodies have evolved to not be so useful to their users but very useful for reproductive purposes. You can pretend that people are just people, but if you're acutely aware of what your body was made for as a woman, you'll never be at peace. Me personally I don't care about that aspect because I think there's fixes that can be done with enough funding, but f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:42 PM
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I think she's saying that our female bodies are just designed poorly by evolution/God/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:31 PM
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I think they are polar opposites. And as I said I do know that it's my own FOV and a lot of people don't think like me, obviously. But I think that it's important to take notice on the general consensus for a word's definition, yes. I also come from a religious background so to my mind those two definitions are pretty clear cut. Again yes that's a me problem. You just asked me why I would want to do what I want to do and I answered you for myself, idk about others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:29 PM
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Bcs to be honest, to be interpreted in the context of feminity kinda sucks ? I know people who love it don't get me wrong but idk. If you want to redefine feminity you have to at LEAST deviate from it a little, which means earning some amount of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:22 PM
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That's a choice up until men make a law that women don't have the right to work for themselves or something to solve some random economical problem of "women are stealing our money and if they want money they can continue being golddigers" or something. Any law that makes it so a woman cannot be a standalone individual, something about property maybe idk. Right now we're lucky to have our lives to ourselves, yes, but that will be short lived. Most of us know that. Also abortion banned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:20 PM
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It's certainly not women to make laws to punish 100% of women. It's men who make those laws because they see those 20% of women and they decide that all women are like that. And we do hate those 20% of women, but also men for confusing us with them. When men worry about being falsely arrested for rape, they don't express disdain for rapists even tho they clearly hate rapists, no, they express disdain for misandrist law enforcers. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:15 PM
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I have friends, female friends and male friends, and I know that if I suggested to my male friends that I fuck with them they'd absolutely jump to the offer. I do have one male friend that doesn't act like he would react this way, but the rest of them yes they would want to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:14 PM
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I mean yeah it makes sense that if you have a dick and are a man, everything you do actively defines what "masculine" is. But obviously if you're a woman you gotta buy into that "earning your masculinity" thing because you're not defining it, you're reaching for it. I don't know if I make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:11 PM
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Competition then, not competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:09 PM
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That would be easy to say if an appearance didn't also represent certain actions. Unless you actually mean that and accept that, I guess. But for example if you look like a creep it doesn't matter if you rape or not, you're a rapist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:06 PM
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Idk I gave you my raw reasoning. The "especially as a woman" part is because if you have even less things to justify being the way you are, then you got to make those justifications yourself. That's just my reasoning and I don't affect society in any significant way don't worry lol I'm a dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:56 PM
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What's the right reasoning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:53 PM
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Okay, thanks a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:50 PM
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You're the same guy who said you'd have female friendships without wanting to fuck them, which is not what most men are saying, so your opinion honestly doesn't really matter cause you don't count as "most men", you count as "few men".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:50 PM
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I picked the feminine/masculine thing because feminine and masculine are the most opposite of personality/psychology "bundles" that encompass most things that people do in day to day life and how they do it. I picked this example to highlight that I'm not talking about careers but really just the things that are within a person's control which is how they behave and/or think when there is no necessity at play. As for myself I do aspire to be masculine but I don't think I have the honor of callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:41 PM
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I mean we've GOT to blame y'all cause, if we blame ourselves it means that WE're gonna have to fix it by potentially doing something you don't like. So if you don't want us to interfere in unwanted ways, might has well own up to it. If you want a worse experience though, go ahead, tell us to fix it ourselves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:34 PM
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As a woman I think that if I'd fail to orgasm it's because I just was too shy to introduce my own kinda shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:32 PM
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I'm not talking about men being represented by other men I mean an individual man being represented by himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:28 PM
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I edited my comment to replace "they" with "we" as in, no woman would say about herself that her true self is her body and face. Sorry if the edit didn't go through. I mean you'd like it if you looked like perfect femboy material and I treated you like so (but appreciated and fucked you for it bcs i like femboys idk), even though you yourself are a very masculine person ? And I mean honestly careers etc... is too generic to be considered a personality traits, so many people are not passionate ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:25 PM
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Idk. I don't really know. I just know that most parts of my body have a certain specific use that doesn't align with how I wish to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:20 PM
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You're saying that as a woman lol get out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:19 PM
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I mean that's bcs the only real way to be attractive (attract women) as a man is to have money... realistically...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:19 PM
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"You objectify us for something that we do, something we possess, not for what we are - which is our bodies, our faces." No woman would say this. This is my point. This isn't about dysmorphia, this is about THIS quote. How do you manage to identify with your body and your face (something you're trapped with) rather than what you do (something you chose) ? Maybe there's a point of view I hadn't considered that makes all of this make sense. Please tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:16 PM
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Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:13 PM
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"We" is really just "me what I think" but no man is gonna take me seriously if I pretend I'm some kind of exception (because no woman can be her own individual and everything she does is dictated by estrogen aka all women are mostly the same, female nature blah blah blah) so might as well lump all women into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:11 PM
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I mean, you could just stop caring, right ? But have you ever tried stop caring and then you felt like you weren't even a woman at all anymore ? Like your body was made to do one thing (listen to all the shit that makes you dismorphic and fucks up your life) but your mind is trapped in it ? Have you ever resented men who have a body that allows them to get away from all that useless stuff that fucks you up in the head and just... are able to live a normal life instead ? Have you ever thought you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:08 PM
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Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:56 PM
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We give men what we wish we had and we avoid giving to them what we wish to avoid. Learning to treat men like men treat women in practice is pretty hard, because it feels like you're being demeaning to said man. In theory it's something we understand, but it's something we have to practice. The way we treat men is because we want to be treated that way and most of us haven't learned that what we want isn't the objectively better answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:54 PM
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I mean at least they want to accentuate their traits. They try to have stronger jaws, be taller, etc... they don't want boobs for example. They're still in line with the essence of their bodies, and they generally agree with being who they are. That's just trying to better yourself, not trying to change yourself. I'd say that women who go to teh gym to get bigger asses are also pretty comfortable with themselves for example, or those who use push up bras so they boobs get seen, also comfortable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:49 PM
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What ? You wish you were a woman ? Lol ? It's the worst thing to be, stop wishing it. Telling you genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:48 PM
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When you look at the mirror, you recognize yourself. You're confident that this is you. Most women don't recognize themselves in the mirror. Most don't even recognize themselves in the word "woman" because of how much bullshit was spread about the word. And this isn't a joke about makeup, I've never worn any in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:44 PM
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Idc about ugliness, I mean how do men manage to feel represented by what they look like ? How do they look in the mirror and recognize themselves ? How do they manage to connect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:43 PM
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Honestly I think women can get jealous of those guys, but I don't think it's actual appreciation of another person as, say, a potential partner. There are many men whom women would use for status, money, etc... and there are very few men whom women can truly connect with because tbh most of us are stuck in our heads and the sexism fearmongering. But also men don't want to have a woman they connect with so like what's the point in trying to form a bond with a man if he just wants a warm sperm hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:41 PM
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No no, I think it's a skill rather than something cultural and unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:40 PM
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Honestly growing up as a woman really makes you feel like you're possessing some random person rather than existing as yourself. It's something gradual that you start to realize as you live through your culture, your peers, read through scientific studies, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:37 PM
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I'm talking specifically about PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:35 PM
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I'm not speaking for you, I'm speaking for 80% of men which you are part of like 20% of them. Men have the right to not present themselves as monoliths, take that fucking right. I wish I had it. It is true that I'm bitter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:32 PM
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From what I've heard, most friendships that are NOT FWB are friendships that men just kind of put up with and don't really appreciate. If they wanted an actual friend, they'd go with a guy. edited for typo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:30 PM
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Bcs being a slut isn't hurting anybody other than the woman herself ? Especially since men are forgiven and supported for being sluts or even cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:28 PM
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The actions of 20% of women have crippling consequences for 80% of women, yes. We're aware of that. That's why we kind of hate y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:27 PM
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And I didn't use to blame men for it, but then men started blaming me for their problems so yk I'm not gonna stay put like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:25 PM
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I'm just telling you it worked once, so maybe that tells something about women you didn't know before, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:23 PM
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I did forget those existed. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:19 PM
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Since when tf does PPD care about gender affirmation ? Gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:58 AM
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Pick me girls are just people who wished they were men and could live as men. Honestly they're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:55 AM
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I seriously wish polygamy was not frowned upon, at least as a woman I'd be able to be friends with guys... But NO, apparently sex is a big deal if women do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:51 AM
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I mean the only kind of woman who y'all would consider legitimate friends are the ones who let you hit, no matter how reliable she is... but y'all also have a certain disdain for easy women... so basically a female can never be a friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:47 AM
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That's cause those pants are too big for you. If you took pants your size, the hips would be the problem xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:13 AM
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According to our culture, no. Why do you think so many male rape victims get ignored all the time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:04 AM
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I was under the impression that you were like most American guys, ie that you were part of them. If you're not I'll leave you alone. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:02 AM
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By "elaborate" I meant to ask the reason why it's stupid... Because I've been observing a lot of guys who practice nudity and call it normal or straight up call it masculine and are proud of it... Of course the chest, but oftentimes they won't care to properly cover their own asses or they won't make sure their dick doesn't show through their clothes...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:59 AM
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I'd think it'd be pretty easy to make the separate assets option the default one under the guise of "feminism and gender equality". Something to empower women because they don't need to be coddled, something something. I mean that's pretty much how France managed to make it so women get drafted in the army, by using this reasoning, even though there's probably some shitty redpill study that says no woman would be allowed by her biology to want women to get drafted. And then you can make the opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:46 AM
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I'm saying that any "wake up call" a woman gets would never prompt her to change, unlike men who probably would try to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:33 AM
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I mean yeah I'm mad at women too for doing that, but why tf would I blame myself over it when I wasn't even born when it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:32 AM
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You want to elaborate or just wanted to say this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:30 AM
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Just shows that consent culture isn't at all about the fact of being raped in and of itself, but rather that it's about the risk of becoming pregnant. And yet I get called crazy for pointing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:26 AM
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Women buy the shitty pockets because it's quite literally the only option there is that doesn't cost your entire wallet TvT. And if you try to buy male pants as a woman, the cut just won't fit because guess what, women have hips and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:18 AM
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Most women don't care about being objectively attractive. They'd rather find the 1 in a billion people that would want them, rather than forcing themselves to change towards something they don't truly believe in. It seems lazy, but at least it's less manipulative than men. Because when men "change" they don't truly change, and once they get a girl, their true nature comes back full force.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 AM
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Then become a SAH dad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:13 AM
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The same way that religious people say "transgender recruiting" happens. Through culture, and through the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:11 AM
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Y'all show your buttholes everywhere for free and then pretend it's empowering because it makes y'all such practical and superior people TvT
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:07 AM
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"Demanding collective respect is female behavior. Men want individual respect" Funniest shit I've ever read. But you're a little out of the loop, aren't you ? Can't blame you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:04 AM
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I don't know, I'd be pretty worried if it's what you describe because it seems like it's not actually something you like and more so something you're cursed with ? I know that some humiliation kinks can be acquired through actual serious self esteem issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:01 AM
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So if a lot of us begin having sex with femboys, are they gonna be considered the real men ? Lmao ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:58 AM
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Yeah okay I'm sure it's instinct my brother in Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:57 AM
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Women have a herd mentality because it's quite literally beaten into them. Only way to escape it is to become a fucking man lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:56 AM
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I mean she's not gonna ask for a man with huge boobs... the male equivalent to huge boobs though might be a huge brain...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:54 AM
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And now Reddit teaches me that I'm Jess the random-ass asian woman from twitter. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:53 AM
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Women give dating advice based on ethics because they don't want to be shat on by their own man. Men give dating advice based on success rate because getting pussy is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:52 AM
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I thought we agreed on the fact that men identify with their cocks so for them "being loved" means their cock being loved. Would also explain the whole sexism and anti-trans attitude that's more prevalent in men : how tf can you be like me when you don't have a cock to identify with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:50 AM
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"Love" and "care" just means don't be a sexist towards your own girl... there's no fucking material conditions it just means don't be a fucking sexist to the point that you girl wishes she died in the womb...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:48 AM
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You still have the inkling of hope left to want to spread your genes lol. Cherish that feeling. I know many who think their bloodline isn't even worthy of continuing to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:46 AM
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I think a lot of men have this mindset you have. At this point I think I'm just gonna keep living my life as a celibate, because the thought of my own man blindly treating me like some average statistic of every woman on Earth in everything he does, instead of using cold hard observation to judge my actions is... strangely dysphoric-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:37 AM
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"Porn brained" doesn't mean being interested in casual sex. "Porn brained" means thinking and/or feeling that women only exist in the context of porn, or at least that they're only supposed to exist in the context of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:33 AM
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To answer the question in the title : it's not the same thing. However when laws are applied to a group, they're applied to the WHOLE group.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:31 AM
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Today I learned I'm apparently supposed to be sexually attracted to alcoholics. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:28 AM
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Oh wow isn't this the exact definition of what y'all do with women also. What a shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:25 AM
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If masculinity was deemed good on women, then I wouldn't have been deemed a trans piece of shit and reprimanded for everything I do (not on reddit though, i understand my reddit posts are actually insane). People are just lazy and deem masculinity as horrible regardless of who has it, and feminity itself is deemed as this angelic thing that everybody should follow even though most of the time it's all about image and never about doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:23 AM
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Problem isn't that it feels like being interchangeable, problem is that, chances are the man that chose you expects you to be a perfect average of every women on Earth, and everytime you deviate from the average in either direction it might strain the relationship in ways you're too tired to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:20 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:18 AM
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Slut shaming in itself isn't wrong and nobody gives a shit about it. We're just afraid that some people will make an actual law about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:17 AM
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It's not a red flag. Men can have incel behavior even tho they fucked a ton of women. Men can be underrated gems that for some reason were left untouched by other women. Who fucking cares about the number of pussies they had it's their attitude that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:15 AM
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I already take that shit up with god, it's just that if you explicitly tell me to use my body in a way it cannot be used, then I'm gonna ask you "how tf do I do that ?", simply. It's a natural reaction as well. There's not much more to it. Now if you didn't tell women that, then you don't need to answer on the behalf of all men. I thought men weren't a monolith, so please don't present yourself as such. Also can you give me some sort of proof that the women who refuse to be homemakers, are the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:52 PM
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I absolutely am interested in having kids, just not the permanent side effects of pregnancy. I know how one can prevent tearing during childbirth so that's covered, but that's really just a mechanical issue and doesn't take into account the things that happen DURING pregnancy... Trust me if I knew I wouldn't have kids anyway, I wouldn't want to prepare myself, and I wouldn't be asking this question... Not to mention you can take the risk once, but generally once is only like one child... if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:28 PM
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"how to make it so that marriage doesn't negatively affect a man's financial status forever?" Idk, what's the ideal result you'd want compared to how things are ? We can think about this. It's not as hard as changing biology, so I'm sure there's a solution that maybe even some country out there already implemented. I can come up with solutions, but only if you tell me what's your ideal end goal. Is it about the whole marriage or specifically about divorce ? If it's just about split marital asset…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:11 PM
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Okay then ig you have a become a femboy ? It's technically something that can physically happen now. The problem is that it's not so accurate now, and in order to be accurate I HAVE to use transformation bullshit as my hypothetical because that's what pregnancy does : it transforms your body in a fucked up way. I figured that one transformation that males would fear most, and that would therefore be most analogous to what pregnancy is for women, would be a transformation from male to female. Of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:45 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:32 AM
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All men are muscular. That's why they're men. Else they would be women. All men are x2 stronger than women. That's what muscular means. Having testicles. The amount of fat on it doesn't change the fact that you have balls, even if too much fat makes estrogen but so little that it doesn't change anything. And being too skinny doesn't change the fact that you have balls either and that therefore you're x2 stronger than me. All women like muscular men, but all men are muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:30 AM
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I'm only saying this for you, but if you don't want twenty angry replies to come around you should probably edit that last part of your comment. Right now it sounds like rape when it's very likely not what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:27 AM
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The desperation does most of the talking, not the hormones... When you grow up thinking that all men want you dead because they get off on your helplessness, then you learn to not hope for unicorns and settle for what you have... or you can stay single and be the evil cat lady that deserves to die, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:10 AM
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Honestly, I'd love a SAHH, but being in such a relationship feels like I'd be abusing him, whoever that "him" is. Men just aren't made for and don't deserve that shit treatment. Women already have that shit treatment, trying to put it onto a man for "fairness" is just... wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right. I'm trying to lift myself up, not bring my man down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:04 AM
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Does that mean that men aren't brainwhashed by feminist women ? I thought your narrative was that they were ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:59 AM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:57 AM
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Idk, maybe being schizo helps. After I made this post I was able to get better control over my uterus. With enough training I won't fear existing in a world of rape anymore. Maybe I'll finally be human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:55 AM
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Honestly ? I would be okay with being raped if I didn't get pregnant from it. Yes. I don't have a high bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:53 AM
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Bad drugs with a mix of dysphoria and taking things way too literally. But it's cathartic to try to make y'all understand my unhinged shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:52 AM
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Honestly, I think the only reason why y'all haven't made rape legal yet is because there exist too many men that were brainwashed by women in one way or another and have therefore turned against you. Also I'm dumbass pill I'm gonna keep doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:49 AM
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I've mastered the art of evading the censor. You have not. Trust me I've got plenty of cancelled posts. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:48 AM
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It's not hate, it's acceptance of a reality, and it is a justification as to why we women should fucking get up and do something about our own biology before it's too late. It's not the main point of my post, it's the context to justify the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:43 AM
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Conservatism is good when you can choose which side you're on based on your capabilities and how much you think you can tolerate each lifestyle... unfortunately conservatists hate trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:30 AM
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Don't majority of women complain about becoming single mothers after a divorce...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:29 AM
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Honestly ? Gay men are way better than straight men as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:25 AM
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Why would you ask a woman what would work for a man. I'm not a man. I didn't test that shit. And it's not like I'm a good judge either cause my type is femboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:22 PM
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Alright. Thanks. It's just a strange concept to me : "I want you therefore I'm gonna ruin your life so you can want me back". I know I need to hate them, but at the same time I kinda understand where this comes from. damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:14 PM
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And of course NOW that the real question's been asked, you flee, because you know damn well your answer and you know that said answer is too hypocritical to ever work with your worldview, so instead you just... don't answer ! Of course ! Genius ! "If the questions don't exist, then I can never be contradicted, ever !" Edit : (For context for those passing by, it's just that each time I ask him a fucking question on his teaching session he flees and I've been trying to catch this man for months o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:03 PM
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See ?! You make up reasons to not answer ! Of fucking course it's not possible that's why the question is hypothetical you moron ! It's meant to determine what you value most !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:59 PM
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You'd be willing, as a man, to actually have your body changed towards femaleness if it meant protecting a foetus ??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:55 PM
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Female puberty specifically. Not male. Thanks for answering though. Still, the wrong question you answered. You, as a man, having to go through female puberty. Would you make that sacrifice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:53 PM
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I asked a fucking yes or no question and you react by dodging the question and rambling on about random bullshit, what is WRONG with you ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:51 PM
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You didn't answer my question, would you be willing to go through female puberty to keep a foetus alive ? Yes, or no ? Why are you so infuriating, dodging questions all the damn time ? I didn't ask that you have to use your body, I asked that you have to go through female puberty specifically. You fucking troll. Would you be willing to go through female puberty or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:48 PM
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If that's such a foreign concept to you then maybe it's just the French who are like that ? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:26 PM
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I see. How should I react ? Should I take men as my enemies then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:08 AM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:07 AM
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I'd agree with you but most of the toxic traits seem to be straight up... praised ? By other men ? Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:06 AM
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Preference is fine but why tf make it into law ? Bruh I'd accept being single if I don't fit men's preference, it's men that don't accept that some women "ruin" themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:05 AM
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Idk man I'd much rather be wanted for my money than be wanted for my lack of health. One is straight up destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:04 AM
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You don't seem like my question is geared towards you. I'm asking to men who specifically love to stunt women in the hopes that because they'll have shit self esteem, they'll start seeing regular men as Chads. I'm asking if they're stupid. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:59 AM
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You didn't understand what my question was. The hypergamous woman was context for the question. What I'm asking is why, knowing she won't change her standards because of it, do you want to stunt her growth and force her to be a pathetic piece of shit ? If it's for revenge or something like that, fine, but don't tell me it's strategic. It doesn't work. It's not about morals, you can think whatever about women and think they deserve any kind of punishment for existing I don't care. No, it's not ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:54 AM
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The problem isn't that you don't want to lower yourself, the problem is that when she tries to climb up you beat her down, because in truth you want for women to only be cum socks and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:47 AM
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Everything is false ditchotomy to you lol. Each time there's a simple question you don't want to answer, you always say the question itself is invalid. Why tf do you do that ? Genuinely, what ? You're confusing af despite being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:45 AM
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At this point I'll take any improvement. Thx though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:39 AM
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I'll kill my unborn kid if I want thank you, this is a PPD not r\prolife. You don't understand what going through with a pregnancy to term actually entails. If you knew the terms, you would also try to kill your own kid. Would you keep your kids if each time you, as a man, made someone have a kid and kept it, you went through female puberty ? You wouldn't. If you would though, I'll take back what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:17 AM
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It cannot heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:14 AM
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My only problem is that they say this shit about women being inherently fucked up but then they don't allow women to better themselves. Like what. Be consistent. My ass has been trans female to male ever since puberty hit and always men have been treating it like it's some kinda equivalent to a genocide, even though behind my back they probs criticize me for even being a woman (saying that cause I've seen them do it with multiple other women and why should I be spared). Explain ts. Please. Wtf. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:06 AM
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Alright, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:41 AM
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Still willing to try :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:41 AM
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Then what's the word I should use to describe my idea ? Is there a word for it yet ? Do you know it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:31 AM
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You don't understand that when I said "like men" I meant literally lol TvT Honestly I'm being troll here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:30 AM
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Male narcissism either makes me want to prove him wrong or makes me feel like shit if I know I can't. It doesn't make me lust for said male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:28 AM
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Better to be rejected by women than to be rejected by reality itself smh. At least if I have one it means that SOMETHING liked it enough to let it exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:23 AM
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And if you want to have the same social status as something you generally need to become closer to being that thing. Same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:22 AM
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Even as a woman it's pretty easy to imagine why you'd want a trad wife... The hard part is realizing you'd have to BE the trad wife... suddenly very unpleasant...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:20 AM
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Oh no I pulled it out of my ass it's my definition of feminism as a feminist lol. So far interacting with other feminists this hasn't let to misunderstandings, so I thought my interpretation could be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:17 AM
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... You don't make a lot of sense. Women who want to be like men generally aren't gold diggers, because men generally aren't gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:15 AM
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Even if you oppose it doesn't mean it's not gonna happen lol. Y'all men take the real things and leave women with all the useless frivolous shit. We women wanna be real too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:06 AM
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It is about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:05 AM
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Why tf does a woman not have the right to like femboys now. But I get it, all men want is for women to have less and less value and less and less self esteem. It's fine. I understood that social value is not something that women can depend on for self esteem. Biological however... it's not something you can just take away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:00 AM
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Oh well see my selfish ass would have hoped for you to get mad and therefore to tell me all the reasons why it'd be my fault so I can take notes and prevent it, but now I feel like the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:54 AM
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Hm for me it's because I've completely annihilated the idea of identifying with one's dick in my head. I used to identify with my dick up until I realized I don't have one. Made me pretty fucking devastated and jealous. So now I deny the right to be loved for one's dick to everyone. Lol. Cause I know I won't be loved for mine, since it doesn't exist. It is selfish, but I am selfish. And at least it may explain why the post cb8585b linked to looks a lot like a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:49 AM
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You know, I would be VERY FUCKING GLAD if it was actually mothers' faults that deadbeats exist. Means it could be preventable. I don't think it is though with how many women were unwillingly put in that position of having a deadbeat husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:41 AM
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You want to be loved for what you identify as. Everybody works like this. And men tend to identify themselves with their dicks. When men say they wanna be loved, they mean they want their dicks to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:39 AM
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I'm so sorry but the whole "women think men are mad at them when they don't shower them with attention 24/7" thing is so funny to me because from hearing friends, I thought it was the opposite, that men did that. But also I never interpreted the "are you mad" thing as an accusation ? I moreso thought it was worry that he/she maybe did something wrong and he/she wanted to check in. I'm confused. If wanting to check in is bad but not wanting to check in is also bad then wtf is one supposed to do ?…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:27 AM
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What you're saying is fair but me personally idc what man you put in front of me if I know I'm gonna get pregnant I'm not touching him with a ten foot pole. I'll just take care of my horni by myself. Lol. Though I doubt that what you want is just the thought that a girl might be jerking off to you. You actually wanna get in. And that's the not-so-safe part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:21 AM
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Oh, I figured anti-individualism was the RedPill's end goal. No thanks. I don't want to be lobotomized yet. I think I still got things to live for. Come pick me up when I've truly given up on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:19 AM
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Good. I don't want any of that gender deterministic nonsense anymore. Only thing keeping that awful thing afloat is how people still want to accept the "positive generalizations" without realizing they're still fucking gender deterministic generalizations. If we wanna be taken seriously ALL of it has to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:15 AM
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Oh, I always thought ambition was about your life goals and like how you can impact the world, rather than about money. I'd see somebody who does volunteering for a good cause as ambitious. Doesn't make sense for me as a feminist to want a rich man anyway because I'm already money ambitious myself. I got that covered. That's what our right to work is for. That's why I'm worried about losing that right. Heck I'd feel hella useful if I could actually provide but something tells me male pride would…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:07 AM
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You'd take the blue haired feminist liberal that begs to be picked rather than the perfect trad wife that's too modest to approach you ? What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:02 AM
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"Pick me" is not a term I take seriously. It's a word to be thrown around to any other woman you might disagree with. It's the default insult that doesn't mean anything. Hell I could even argue ways YOU'RE being a pick me. Use another word that actually has meaning and conveys what you want to say, and then we can discuss. Also just so you know, "pick me girls" aren't a threat to you okay ? And they certainly aren't a threat to gender equality. So if it's about that, which should be the priority…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:54 AM
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When medicine finds a way to make pregnancy into something that doesn't ruin a woman's body forever, I think we're gonna get more cases of women acting as willing surrogates for their husbands. Until then, the cost's too high to provide the service. Like, imagine if you as a man could get kids, but the catch is that as soon as one of your kids gets conceived, you go through female puberty ? And that for each kid of yours ? You wouldn't do it, right ? Or would you and in that case I should shut u…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:47 AM
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There's probably like 1-2% of mentally unhinged women out there who actually burden themselves with a whole-ass child just for more cash... Seems like the same kind of thing as women saying all men are rapists when it's actually just a few mentally unstable people...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:43 AM
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Thanks a lot for the comprehensive reply, it helped me understand and honestly I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:40 AM
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If I knew I was anonymous and untraceable I'd say so much more unhinged shit than what I'm saying now lol. And honestly the "not explaining my views" thing is less about fear and more about it getting tiring explaining the same bullshit to braindead people all the time so you kinda just don't bother anymore. I am talking solely about myself here of course. I think I have to specify that or else I'm gonna get spammed in the replies lol. Seriously though I know what I need, and it's not what most …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:31 AM
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Thanks for the kind warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:27 AM
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Don't you understand idc about how males or females work I care about how I work lol. It's my project for myself only and affecting nobody else, I'm not gonna look at others. I know the reason why I personally do things and it's because I'm insecure about not having a male body. Therefore I'll fix it and get myself one. It's not more complicated than that. There are men who have a male body and still behave like conformists. I'm not them. There are women who manage to be themselves even with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:23 AM
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So in your point of view, men absolutely are the sole power that make the law, yes ? Which means that when you say "women demand that men prevent rape" implying that it's a bad thing, means you say that the law (men) shouldn't be involved with preventing rape, basically making it legal. As to why you haven't done it yet, it's a good question I still don't have an answer for. I believe we're inching towards it being legal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:20 AM
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I'll believe you, but wtf. You've genuinely blown my mind today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:03 PM
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I don't really care about becoming like men psychologically though. I only care about physical. I know that my female psychology will stop being a coward if it's paired with a male body. That's all. It's less about trying to become a real man even in mind and more about frankensteining a combination that'll work. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:58 PM
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Pyschologically ? I meant changing my body. I said "physically" in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:56 PM
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Oh, I guess we have different priorities then. Honestly I'd take my issues being solved accidentally like in the examples you provided any day TvT I can see why you wouldn't though. . "The argument that men treat women like a hive mind fails to acknowledge that many feminist arguments do generalize about men as a class, which is what men are responding to." Funny, I thought the generalization of men was women's response actually. I got it in reverse. At this point it may be a vicious cycle lol. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:55 PM
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"There's literally a sub dedicated to women who are conscious answering the door naked, "accidently" dropping their towel, none of them have been arrested." I have a genuinely hard time believing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:31 PM
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I'd argue very few people are Jessica Valenti, but sure. But wait, you don't want for women to work towards solutions for your problems, you just want them to pity you ? It's just about perception, not solutions ? I don't understand why it's important that women care about you or themselves, if in practice it's the exact same phenomenon that they're talking about and changing. For example I've seen men complain about not getting custody most of the time. If feminists suddenly turn it into a fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 PM
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Yea I know you addressed that, just basically telling you how a woman might confuse the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:14 PM
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Honestly you're right. Big reason why I'm a coward is because I'm hyper aware of the fact that I'm a woman, and that if I get out of line I won't be able to impose or defend myself because I'm made like shit. I'm trying to fix that helplessness by becoming more male-like physically, so that I know I can at least have a chance. So far without a doctor that shit seems impossible lol. But I know my ego will go through the roof if I manage to do it, so it's worth it I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:10 PM
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If it would've been about anything other than nudity I would've agreed with you. But since it's about nudity, I think the TwoX reaction is gender equal. If a woman had been naked like this she would've been the one to get arrested because it's considered her duty to control who can see her body. I don't see why it shouldn't apply to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:06 PM
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So what, you want that instead women in power just make female assault on men legal so that women can defend themselves ? Or that they make weapons made specifically against men ? I don't understand. It's either men stop of their own volition or men get punished. Of course you're a man so you just want rape to be legal. Still it's funny how you look at mercy and you decide that it's oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:57 PM
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Just a nitpick : Men inventing wars and male-only drafts --> men complaining about being drafted is the exact same as Women forbidding men to approach them --> women complaining about being approached Not in terms of importance, but in terms of reasoning. And why not a small mention for the Goomba fallacy that you present as a Kafla trap. And look, why not be happy that women reframe men's problems a women's problems ! At least now you can trick selfish people into caring for you, by making them…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:50 PM
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"How come women don't realize that men who beat them or cheat on them don't actually like them? Is it because they are stupid?" That and naive. Then again, depends on how you define "like". Some women have learned that men aren't capable of liking (liking) a woman, but are only capable of liking (lusting for) her. That makes it so that in a relationship and with such a mentality, then only liking (lusting for) is a variable. When such a woman says "But he likes me !", she means "But he likes (lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:41 PM
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As a woman let me tell you how we perceive it : thoughts and feelings are perceived in the exact same box for us. Feelings are either just over-exaggerated thoughts, or thoughts that themselves aren't exaggerated but that are assigned great importance. Both exaggerated ways of perceiving thoughts can be useful for motivation. Because of this, if there's no actual factual reason to block it, you can theoretically train yourself to feel however you want towards whatever you want. When I read you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:09 PM
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Ok ? Wow ? I don't see how tf women, who have been begging to live life like normal human beings since day 1, wouldn't want to also go up and ask men out like fucking normal human beings ? Did you think this was gonna be so Earth-shattering thing that was gonna rile women up so much you'd get banned or something ? I don't understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:19 AM
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You talk as if abortion is set in stone and will always be an option lol. Abortion is a fragile system. Just a nitpick. I guess you're right on the "if the parents can't take care of the kid then the kids shouldn't be in their care in the first place" thing, if there's an accidental pregnancy (which can happen with all precautions applied).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:13 AM
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As a woman I recognize my jealousy for male bodies and honestly I think other women are also coping with the fact they don't have male bodies, so they fill the void with useless priviledges. Real solution is hrt smh...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:08 AM
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Look all I'm saying is, abortion will soon disappear as an option anyway, so let's not even consider it. Just give men the option to give the child up to the woman, and give women the option to give the child up to the man. I don't wanna have to do surgery on myself and kill my own kid to avoid raising it, and at least it gives y'all equality. Heck, maybe even finally some more male custody. Imagine if all those aborted children turned into single fathers' children ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:05 AM
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Idc about how good your acting or emotional labor or anything labor is, I just wanna know that : you're being natural you'll accept me for being natural we both wanna fuck each other on a regular basis I have literally written out, black on white, every criteria. There's no hidden clause, there's no catch, there's no small writing at the bottom. It's these words, interpreted as literally as possible. I think many women have the paranoid thoughts that point 2. will never happen with any man ever.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:47 AM
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I guess reading his post I thought he was talking about the whole of society and using her only as an example. Didn't think he was only talking about her. Sorry. I really need to understand that "women" really just means "that one specific woman" in PPD. I've made that mistake four times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:44 AM
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Maybe it's the perception that it is a man's choice if he has sex or not, but that a woman can never avoid sex, as sex is her existential duty and her purpose and basically what she's for, or something. It'd be like asking for a dildo to not go up people's asses. Idk what I'm talking about, honestly. This isn't my take. Only shit that worries me about pregnancy is the whole "alter your body irreversibly" thing. I'd be chill about continuing a pregnancy only bcs the husband wants a child, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:38 AM
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Look all I'm saying is that if a woman clearly, word for word, dictates everything that's on her mind to you, and you still choose to pretend you're in for a relationship, you're the one who decided to lie so you're the one who's responsible if that turns against you. I'm not taking the time to sit you on an interrogation table to extirpate the truth out of you. People generally don't like those who fix their own justice through morally grey means, also. Doesn't mean you shouldn't do it I guess,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:17 AM
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I honestly think the only solution would be medical advancements to make women not be inherently 10x more vulnerable to bad choices than men are. No matter how men change, the paranoïa won't, because the problem isn't outside of women, it's inside, it's the body itself that's too fragile and self destructive to trust anything around you. Doesn't need societal change, doesn't need for men to do anything, just needs more research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:14 AM
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Idk to me this seems like a very fucking big goomba fallacy. To be fair if you're a man I think you shouldn't really care about shame. You already got the best thing in the world to be proud of : you're actually already a man. I'm not saying that to excuse the people who shame you or anything, just telling you what I'd do. Idc about sex robots. I suspect many people don't think that sex robots are gonna be a replacement to women, but rather that sex robots are gonna be the next model of expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:09 AM
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The only surprising part about your comment is about how you acknowledge that Goomba fallacy can exist when talking about women... which I'm sure you only used as a point and don't actually believe anyway... not blaming, just being sad on reddit again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:33 PM
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To me it seems like Goomba fallacy, but I could be wrong. Just seems too illogical to actually be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:32 PM
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I do feel targeted and I'll let you know that my unhinged shit, if you see more of it, is not representative of women in any way shape or form and is more indicative of a potential undiagnosed mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:30 PM
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Let me tell you a secret. We don't mature, we just internalize made up rules REALLY quickly, by (perceived) necessity. Then when we start applying those rules, we aren't able to keep growing up mentally. We stop. We're stuck in an infantile brain age because we learned to ACT like adults and the brain being the lazy shit that it is says "Alright that suffices". Also because being so restrictive with your own thoughts actually limits learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:26 PM
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Women get this confusion because many women seek a relationship, not sex. They project their own thoughts onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:22 PM
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Did I say it wasn't the case ? No, I didn't. I'm just saying the consequence. Women who want a genuine relationship end up as losers, because women who want performative men are preferred/more numerous. What you're saying also basically confirms what I'm saying that genuine men don't exist and if they do, they correct themselves out of existence. But oh well, you'll just pull a Goomba fallacy on my ass and say it's my fault so why should I complain, or something. I get that I shouldn't complain …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:15 PM
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If women were closer to their females friends than their husbands, they would all be lesbians. Most of us can't really bond over bodily stuff anyway because there's too much biological variation between female body parts unlike for males. For males it's mostly the neutral/generally human stuff that varies. For us it's the female-defining parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:06 PM
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Oh alright then, I thought you were in the same boat as the rp'er you responded to, who clearly has an opinion on this but refuses to answer because he thinks the answer is so obvious. You may say it's assumptions, but I mean he did that before on many other dumb posts I made so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:57 PM
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Idk you familiar with TRP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:53 PM
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I mean at least you're acknowledging I'm genuinely stupid instead of flagging me as a troll, so can you please answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:52 PM
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It only makes sense if you take the post literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:47 PM
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Nah I'm very much just a reddit troll, it's just that I told you too much in some comments. Sorry for making you think I was someone you knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:45 PM
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Obviously there are psychological consequences to physical realities, but it's not what TRP is talking about, is it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:44 PM
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I wonder what would an example of a woman being "introspective, objectively self-observant, and objectively self critical" might be in that context though, apart from her telling herself "git gud". Genuinely. That is the one question that needs a straight answer, and like always it will be the one you avoid, because you talk big words but no examples. You're just like me fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:38 PM
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Aaannnd I edited my comment too late. Sorry lol. Honestly my reply to that is just gonna be a copy paste of my edit so I'd tell you to go see that instead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:37 PM
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You know what, fair. Thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:34 PM
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So you think that women are blinded by their desire for gain, and that bad men are actually pretty obvious to spot ? For us I assure you though, it's not easy to spot them, even without any veil on our heads. Or any ulterior motive. Even when we don't look for a mate and view men in purely detached manner, we misidentify them, because their very beings are faked. It's not like they're shitty publicly "but oh he can give me this and that so I accept it", rather they act their entire fake selves i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:27 PM
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Her "point" wasn't "Hey your analogy is shit". I told you what her point is, and it's the one I develop in my initial reply to you. The one at the very beginning of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:23 PM
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You're being too considerate towards a literal internet troll. My main concern though was that maybe, men observe how women act, deem it as good or bad or whatever, but still internalize it as a key defining caracteristic of what makes a woman... a woman. And since straight men are attracted to women only, then that would mean being with any woman who doesn't have those behavioral defining caracteristics of being a woman, wouldn't even count as being in a straight relationship/hookup/whatever. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:19 PM
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It's true, but I just don't want to genuinely objectively be in the wrong/immoral because of a behavior I could have avoided doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:13 PM
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That is fair. I didn't really have specific things in mind that I could cite, so much as I was referring to the whole picture that this sub drip-feeds about women's inherent nature and behavior. If I find one specific thing I'll come back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:11 PM
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By "women's behavior" I do mean what you said. Reading your username though I'm pretty sure you already know quite a lot about me. I don't want to reiterate yet with so few replies and the post being so recent which means so much visibility. Later I will if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:07 PM
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Alright, thanks for giving me a straight answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:59 PM
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For what I said about you, I didn't say that because you're a guy, I said that because I remember your username lol. For the TLDR, well, I had to translate what I'm talking about so that a gender essentialist can understand it. I don't want to argue over the cause of female behavior, I said that in my post, so I'm just going with "okay sure whatever it's a biological cause if you want" in order to actually focus on the main question being : Do men want women who behave like women, or not. Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:56 PM
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Please don't lump me in with other women, simply because I think it'd be pretty shameful for them to be associated with me. I'm brainrotted beyond repair. I don't represent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:50 PM
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Thing is I didn't find out that doing X doesn't work, for all I know it does and is the only option even.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:48 PM
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I see how redpillers describe women's behavior and nature. I emulate that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:47 PM
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I'm talking about, for example, when women play innocent in order to seem more attractive, but end up just looking like they're assholes avoiding responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:46 PM
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Do men actually want women with female brains. You're not a guy who answers anyway, just a guy who mocks, but I'm giving your TLDR anyway cause I'm a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:44 PM
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I am naturally a woman. I act in a stereotypical redpill way because I think that's what being a woman is. Men want women not men. Therefore men want stereotypical redpill women. People complain about women being women. I think it's hypocritical since those people complaining would be the ones asking for women to be like this in the first place. But wait maybe they never asked for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:41 PM
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What I crave is clear answers. When I don't get those, I tend to seek validation too much, yes. When I do have a clear answer though I'm able to not give a shit because I have no "benefit of the doubt" to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:37 PM
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When I say "settle" I implied no notion of "better" or "worse". I simply implied a notion of "what I want" vs "I don't care about that". You can argue that a man who doesn't waste his time with deep connections and instead furthers humanity is an objectively better man than the one who deeply connects with his wife but does nothing worthwhile, for example. Yet if I were with that first man, I would be "settling" because it's not what I want. Basically don't waste your time pleasing women, it can…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:31 PM
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I don't pretend to be a guy anymore. I realized it makes me long for something like that in real life too. Better to not indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:43 PM
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Sexualization in media is only annoying when it warps people's perception of reality, and when 90% of medias depicts women as sex dolls, it can make little girls lean a bit more towards LGBTQ+ solutions lol. Apart from that, not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:40 PM
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I've literally seen feminists advocate for being equally taken to the army too because they thought it was demeaning, belittling and discriminatory towards women to not be drafted. I've also seen so many feminist women complain about how they're always the ones to get custody and always the ones who get the burden of taking care of a child. My point is you can twist anything into benefitting anyone. There's actually not much else to my comment. That's why I'm a dumbass pill. Oh yeah no my point …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:33 PM
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If : you allow research on women's reproductive health to safely and 100% prevent pregnancy You receive : horny-ass women who have no reason to fear or gatekeep sex anymore, and if they try to do so through only societal reasons, the societal reasons will crumble anyway because it won't be backed up by anything anymore . Is this a better format ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:26 PM
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For fuck's sake all communities are discriminatory, selfish and downright lobotomized. Getting in a "feminist community" is useless, being a feminist just means live your own fucking life and please avoid voting for women becoming cattle or something that's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:23 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure me being finally allowed to study in medicine and help my kin is fucking self sabotage. I should instead rot at home with no goals in life and no motivation to live nor purpose to my existence. I should also abuse my husband and act like a petty spoiled child towards him robbing him of his hard earned money instead of providing for myself and doing things for him for a change. I should then divorce him for no apparent reason rather than "he's not the life I'm looking for" in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:18 PM
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You're either a man roleplaying as a woman or a woman roleplaying as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:16 PM
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I didn't mean to mock anyone, I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:14 PM
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You jump at calling her incompetent to show your superiority to her, instead of adressing her point that she finally showed you (the point I develop in my initial reply to you so please go see my initial reply instead of hers cause hers is not very clear). It's an error in communication on her part to only reveal her entire point now, yes, but what you chose to do just tells me how fucking hypocritical you are lol. In another comment I remember very well how you said that only women feel the nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:09 PM
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Responsibility is taken when you have control over what happened. Like in your analogy where you yelled nationalist slogans in a bar, that was in your control. Now, choosing a man is absolutely in the control of the woman, but if she is blindfolded and then is told to choose, is it really in her control what she ends up with ? Men's whole existence is lying, creating false personalities of all kinds in order to find the one articial act that gets them pussy. Women aren't mind readers, and unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:00 PM
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Goomba fallacy is what comes to mind. That, or maybe women are just blind to their perfect men standing right here in front of them simply because he doesn't artificially over-perform his own personality. Women are drawn by acting more than anything unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:54 PM
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But if a guy gets approached by two girls and chooses the abusive one simply because she's curvier, suddenly all women including the good girl who approached him and got rejected, are fucking evil. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:51 PM
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Stoves can't deceive you into thinking they're NOT drug dealers. Men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:47 PM
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Women aren't mind readers and men are excellent deceivers. When they say "why can't I find a good man" they're not saying that good men don't exist, they're asking themselves why they're so shit at identifying good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:45 PM
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In my sentence I said "stay with a man" so uh unless we're talking about a gay folk I thought it was pretty clear I was talking about "why would a woman stay with a manipulative human like that" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:42 PM
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Maybe it's just that you use different words to mean the same thing ? You may think that meeting up with some people over sports or to get drunk and whatnot is just normal colleague behavior, but to me that already sounds like friend territory even if it doesn't go further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:39 PM
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I may be completely wrong and projecting my own feelings onto every other woman on Earth, but I think many of us were jaded by how much we hear that men's relationships with us are just performative. We end up thinking everything he does is fake. I mean is it wrong ? If we want a genuine relationship with a man we love, best chance we got is becoming a trans man and trying to be his friend. But also for the example you mentionned I'm pretty sure it's people turning their own preferences into uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:32 PM
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Alternatively I may leave you solely because you try to artifically please me. I look for genuine connection or nothing. And I know I will never get that from a man, but let me not be an adult yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:30 PM
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My sexual attraction depends more on if I think the circumstances will get me pregnant rather than the dick I look at tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:27 PM
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So what's the purpose of staying with a man that simply views you as a specimen to be manipulated into staying like you described ? If two people are close enough I'd figure they wouldn't need to perform for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:25 PM
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Men don't have much to expect in their friendships because they already have the one most important thing : genuine connection. And yeah, obviously not all are close friendships, but the little bit of closeness that is there is at least real. Women don't have that, they either have performative friendships with other women or the minefield walking that is friendships with men. That's another subject though so I'll stop here. Honestly the simple fact that men don't want to bother pretending like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:25 PM
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That would mean you'd need to increase natural libido in women though. Good luck with that, but technically possible since through our modern nutrition alone we managed to make puberty come at like 11 instead of in adulthood in girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:18 PM
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In my opinion a woman can be 30% close to a LOT of women and like only 5% close to majority of men, but a husband is somebody who you can be 85% close to. That kind of companionship is a gift, but recently men realized it's a gift they don't have to give to get some pussy because women have self esteem so low they settle instead of just staying single until they find what they want. And there's the fact that when you're this close to somebody, their personality becomes yours in a way. So you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:11 PM
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There is a difference between there having losers and there having literal discrimination. You could argue in the dating world men are discriminated against, except like 1 or 2% of them that have some super-human quality to them that surpasses even said discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:07 PM
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I meant lover as opposed to fucker, so I guess I meant friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:50 AM
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I'd reckon many women would love the idea of men using artificial wombs... Women always say they hate being equated to and used for their wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:15 AM
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This sub is a sub made to dehumanize people. You don't have a flair so I assume you're new here. Get. OUT. NOW. THIS IS FOR YOUR SAFETY.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:26 AM
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We'd still call them something different because one has a dick and one has a puss. The only thing you're doing is validating trans identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:25 AM
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Conversation is for idly talking about what the problem is or what you're gonna do maybe in a thousand years. If you actually wanna do something you gotta shut up and do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:21 AM
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Quitting an addiction is actually pretty easy by experience. No, sex is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:18 AM
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Self control can't exist if someone else is at the wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:18 AM
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I'd hook up with both. Maybe fwb if they fool me enough to want to be friends with them. I'd be wife to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:14 AM
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You can't solve a problem if you don't know what the problem is, else you're just making things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:11 AM
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I wish most men on here would be offended. I wish I would be banned for sexism. My horror was in seeing they agreed and found this reasonable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:07 AM
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The first one started wanting sex at only 43 and no doubt only because she felt like she was missing out. The last two are platforms made to catter to women who don't get what they want, not what they need. Because again, there are a lot of systems made to support women's pettiness alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:00 AM
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No, they were men. Tell me, if I fall in love with a man, should I become a man as well in order to actually become his lover ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:55 AM
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Sometimes getting tricked by all this hurts a lot. Falling in love with somebody who doesn't exist, who essentially is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:54 AM
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So would an accurate translation mean that if a woman wants a "relationship" per se (meaning for all that isn't hooking up), she should really just get a girlfriend ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:52 AM
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A woman will appreciate respect even if there's no sex (if she's still in the illusion that a man is something more than a sex toy and that his (often fabricated) opinion is gratifying in any way). A man requires sex, and then for her to also feign respect for something he isn't ? (Women will be happy with either sex or respect, but men require both in order to stay in her bed ? It's also funny that you expect respect when you don't deserve it). So what, I'm just supposed to believe y'all are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:12 AM
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Tbh if a woman CAN'T cook or clean she probs can't maintain herself either so I don't know if that's really a variable per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:43 AM
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I never said I was empathetic, and I certainly didn't try to imply that in my original post LOL. Don't know where in the world you thought I was virtue signaling about empathy. I've seen virtue signaling, empathetic women under this post, and they seem to defend that men are more than their dicks actually. And human beings as a species rely on their intelligence to conquer things outside of themselves, yes, but in order to dominate their own kind they do use physical strength. Why tf else do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:38 AM
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Of course it's not insulting to you since it's what you are. To you it just seems normal. But that's also a reason why I'm not gonna respect you. I wouldn't care less if you don't respect me either, not like a sex toy's opinion of all things is something I'd value... Right now I'm just continuing for entertainment while I do other stuff. I'll respect you when you're not a literal sex toy. And what would I care that you call me a bitch or whatever if you still fuck me every night like the good do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:27 AM
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Of course it's not insulting to you since it's what you are. To you it just seems normal. But that's also a reason why I'm not gonna respect you. I wouldn't care less if you don't respect me either, not like a sex toy's opinion of all things is something I'd value... Right now I'm just continuing for entertainment while I do other stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:21 AM
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I wonder how things like you even get to vote, or are able to pretend to your wives that you are fully fleshed out people when in truth you're just mimicries of people. Y'all are just really lucky to be physically stronger cause that's the only thing saving your sorry asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:12 AM
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I did follow that up with "he thinks you give him [respect and dignity] when you ride his dick". Lol. I know what y'all want and what y'all are. You're just sentient dildos. I did test something here, and it's if guys would be honest. They're not. As always, men lie as often as they breathe. Even you pretend like love and respect are things that are needed, but really both are covered by exclusive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:56 AM
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I doubt it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:55 AM
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Reddit doesn't allow me to post what I was gonna say, just know that most of the points you make are you not understanding what feminists say. Edit : nevermind I can post if I remove me citing you. feminism is generally... theres no attempt to remove stigma... Honestly that's just because it's assumed that men aren't clients to the women who really want to do this, and instead are clients to the women that have no other choice but to do this. Men aren't attracted to girlbossing, but they are att…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:56 AM
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Why ? They say women are androids after all, no ? :) Come onnnn let me in everything's gonna be fiiineeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:47 AM
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Don't tempt me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:43 AM
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I used to call myself a feminist because I thought women had the same goals as me, but turns out in order to live as a true feminist I'll have to turn to being trans lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:32 AM
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Fantasy is supposed to ease you into reality, so honestly that makes sense. The one unrealistic part is how he'd be kind to you (he wouldn't). If women wrote fiction to delude themselves they could have an equal relationship, or hell, even one where they take care of their guy, then when they go back to reality they'd end up as alcoholics lol. And I know what I'm saying is true, because it's literally my reason for avoiding any other fiction than this stuff : I need to stay realistic and not cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:23 AM
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Same shit women have been doing for decades, thanks for realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:20 AM
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I lived in the illusion that men are as complex as women for my whole life lol. Men proved me otherwise. And no, I don't mean a shitty ex, or multiple shitty exes. Stop pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:05 AM
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Thx for correcting me, I'll edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:04 AM
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Let me tell you something, the only reason why I care about sex with other women, is because he could get a disease and then transfer it to me. That's it. Else I don't give a single shit go fuck any amount of women you want lol. There's a ton of diseases that are not so bad for men to get, just a mild inconvenience, but in women it becomes awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:13 PM
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Getting checked by a doctor because I'm not a man lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:10 PM
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We know we should treat y'all like sentient dicks incapable of higher thought anyway. Don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:09 PM
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You say that, but if a woman saw your as if you were a Leper or a hobo or whatever, with the exception that she fucking loved your dick and couldn't get enough of it, that's all it would take to satisfy you. Don't talk like it's anything more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:08 PM
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Yes, my point is that to women, getting sex is not getting love. For a man, if he gets sex, he feels loved. Stop venting under a post that is irrelevant to your shit. I was only stating a fact so that people understand female psychology, not to complain like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:04 PM
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That's what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:56 PM
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Exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:54 PM
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You can give love, acceptance and emotional support to their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:50 PM
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No, it's just that you're just your dick. There's no changing it. It's biology, it's nature, and I don't blame it. And if loving somebody is loving them for their core, for the fundation of their nature, then I should love you for your dick, not the other traits you hallucinated into existence and that are ultimately not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:48 PM
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Trust me my post is not a barely disguised vant/rent like you'd think lol. But go on, you're free to imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:46 PM
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Well that's a whole other case now isn't it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:45 PM
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Men who look like they're not hyperfocused on sex, I'd reckon all the other aspects of him are a mere mimicry in order to attract women. Men have literally mimicked society and culture into existence just so that they could get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:45 PM
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Just have them as your personal prostitutes and actually go get a relationship with a woman smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:41 PM
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Men don't want love. Men want sex, and in order to make it seem important to others, they falsely use the term "love" to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:40 PM
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In practice you would, though. If she doesn't tell you that her philosophy is this and instead just acts according to it, you'd absolutely would go near her, and stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:40 PM
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I never complained that women don't get appreciated for their skills, I just said that they don't get appreciated for their skills and that they accept it, unlike men who don't accept not being appreciated for their dicks. Get your whole spiel about male superiority out of here. I only highlighted the reason why I concluded that sex is the only thing a male truly needs. But again you wouldn't listen because you love to distord my words in order to vent instead. A man doesn't need things like jok…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:32 PM
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Going back on this, it feels strange how your entire goal wasn't even to engage with my post (because you know my post is right : you reaffirm its contents in every single one of your comments) but to convince me that women want/like sex. Seems like you wanted to convince yourself. I assure you though, women appreciate the other little things like cuddles way more (turns out having a dick is the optimal way to enjoy sex and otherwise it's pretty shitty lol, some bodies are made wrong). I don't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:19 AM
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And his experience should be invalid because it's not yours ? Suddenly he doesn't represent men at all because you decided that you didn't want people to think that about you ? Look, if I can reassure you : My post will be treated as just an insane rant, and forgotten as soon as the new one comes. I don't have much bearing on public opinion. You can rest easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:37 AM
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So what, the man above me is being a sexist against himself, is that it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:29 AM
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Guy above me is also a man though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:27 AM
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So what do you mean by "they" ? Do you mean my application is wrong ? You wouldn't want for women to express their love for men through sex rather than through other things ? Even though you just told me right now that sex is everything ? What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:24 AM
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And my point is that to a woman, if she is sexually desired, that is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:22 AM
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Women saying "I want to fuck this man" doesn't mean women say "This man clearly loves me : I mean look, he fucks me !". I am talking only about the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:17 AM
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Maybe it's one of those comments I had posted wrong and then quickly edited a few seconds later ? You seem to be responding to something else. Can you reread the comment you were responding to, to make sure you weren't responding to an old version of an edited comment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:14 AM
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If you find your female equivalent is true, then please go ahead. I'm also saying what I find true about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:56 AM
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I assure you idgaf about the reason why you're lying about yourselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:55 AM
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On another note I did understand that, for the majority of your comments, you seemed to want to convince me that men's perception of sex is just the correct one, universally and across all genders. However I think it's a matter of perspective and sexual dimorphism : women generally don't get love out of sex. Men do. It's biology changing your perception of things, and it's certainly not the magical properties of sex itself or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:51 AM
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I don't see how the application is flawed though ? I'm telling those women : "Don't bother trying to love him in other ways, because he won't recognize it as love and he doesn't care about it. If you love him, give him the sex, because that's what he wants, even if you yourself might not understand it this is how men work, so give them what they want."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:47 AM
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Run away while you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:42 AM
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Your whole comment is literally my description of the male mindset. I don't understand what you're trying to argue with me about here. You're literally agreeing with me that this is how men think. What ? For women, sex is not the core of a relationship, it's frivolous at best, and it doesn't mean being loved. But for men, sex is the core of a relationship and of love itself. Some women don't understand that for men, sex is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:35 AM
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Strange, I've read those exact words before... so I'm gonna spit out the exact responses I tend to see under them : I'll be convinced when y'all actually change your behavior. But right now ? You're just lying, for x or y reason I frankly don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:32 AM
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First time I hear this complaint instead of the opposite. Most seem to find connection easily but have a hard time getting their dick sucked. You're probs gonna find a lot of jealous men under your comment, who will say you are ungrateful for what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:27 AM
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The difference is that I actually listen to men before saying anything about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:24 AM
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Bots aren't as bad at English as me xD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:22 AM
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There also exists the notion that being very close friends to somebody of the opposite sex hints towards a relationship rather than a friendship. Most notably amongst women, there's the notion that your husband should also be your best friend. That is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:21 AM
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Apparently : some men are trying to deny it right under this post xD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:20 AM
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I think the fundamental aspect is this. You may also deduct a fundamental aspect of women if you've found that aspect of women is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:19 AM
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Yes, and I said, take away those other sources, those other people that fulfill those other "needs", such that those other "needs" aren't fulfilled anymore, and he still won't care. Men therefore don't have other needs. I did read your comment. You didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:15 AM
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You don't make sense. In situation A, the person pays for something but gets nothing in return. In situation B, the person gets something for free. I wasn't talking about that. I was talking about how, if given a choice between everything in the world, and sex but nothing else in the world including the other forms of being loved, and both options are given for free, then men would choose the sex. Is that really such an outlandish notion ? I'm not even insulting you : hell, as a man you'd probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:07 AM
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I'm telling them to technically get in relationships, but to just get the "relationship" part of the relationship, out of their friends instead (and the sex part out of their man). I'm also telling them, that in said relationship they'll enter with their man, how said man would want to be treated, so that the relationships fares better. Women understand my post, just cause you don't understand it as a man doesn't mean it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:59 AM
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Right, but that implies that if they got sex but got all the rest removed, then they'd run after those things they lost. Yet that's not true. If sex is here, all the rest can go to the trash for all they care. What I just said is basically a dummy version of my previous comment, but maybe it's needed. If it can go to the trash, then it's not a need. Being valued for sex can never be lived without, so it's a need. Being valued for your intelligence/creativity whatever, you can live without. So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:55 AM
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You define "affection = sex", and "sex = affection", which proves my point, dumbass. Women don't think like this, but men do. Therefore in my post I was highlighting that this is male nature, to all the clueless women out there. It was literally just that, not any form of blaming anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:52 AM
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Generally the more frivolous things a human being has, the more frivolous things a human being is gonna expect, how would you have guessed ? My point was about the fundamental aspect of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:49 AM
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You didn't consider if maybe there was sexual dimorphism at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:47 AM
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If what you're saying is true, then men would have learned to deal with it. Because women deal with never being valued for their intelligence, creativity, humor etc... and only for sex (basically the flipside of men), and they were able to get used to it and subsist without it anyway. So if it were just about the fact of being valued to sex, being hard to reach, then y'all would have gotten used to it right now the same way women have gotten used to their own stuff. Yet that's not the case. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:39 AM
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I mean, if you found that this female equivalent you presented is true, then you should also abide by it, no ? I don't understand what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:33 AM
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An honest one !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:26 AM
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It's not about jerks- I'm sorry for them. Even though, now that I think about it, I really shouldn't be. I mean at the end of the day it's what they want, so why should I feel sorry that men want sex ? It'd be like a conservative man being sorry for women because they want careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:22 AM
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So now you've learned from women the sacred skill of deflection and ignoring a whole part of what someone says ? Damn xD So I'm gonna assume you don't want to talk about it because you think it's stupid. So plz tell me how an effectively single mother but financed by a man, is gonna be a better parent to her children than a single mother financed by the government ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:59 AM
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Most women have a lot of friends wtf are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:56 AM
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So now you're gonna pretend it's just that you don't trust women to do as they say ? What a joke. But whatever, I'll let you say whatever you like. On another note though, still, children of an absent-at-home father end up raised the same as if they had a single mother. Which is... pretty badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:51 AM
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There will be 4billion men sharing 2 or 3 post menopausal women... Humanity WILL die... Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:44 AM
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I'm sorry to tell you that, but when feminists try to apply that exact principle you just tell them to go back home...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:41 AM
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By the definitions of all three of those things you probably have in your head, you just want a suicidal woman. Lol. Yes I assumed things about you because you're a man. No I have no reason not to. I mean you're okay with it, no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:38 AM
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Just cause you control the house, and are generally a more reasonable person that should therefore be listened to more, it doesn't mean you own that woman's entire life as if you were her father or even herself. Then people wonder why women think that "freedom = being single"...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:34 AM
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A truly submissive person WOULD be happy in that position, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:32 AM
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What you're saying IS true though...? So idk what's your point ? If you're feeling entilted to have a partner, that has a trait that actively makes them unhappy, then you don't deserve that partner, yes. If you want a provider man, knowing his life would have to be shit in order to provide to you, then you don't deserve that man. If you want to force him to be a leader when he doesn't want this kind of life, you don't deserve a leader. If you want him to be empathetic to shit that'll only make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:28 AM
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My confidence is shit, for one. It's why I'm on this shitty sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:24 AM
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Making up new emotions doesn't mean understanding other people better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:23 AM
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We tend to think that the women who do support that, are masochistic idiots who'll eventually grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:22 AM
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If you're in love with a man, don't be a girlfriend, be a fwb. You two will be much closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:18 AM
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See ? Saying it wasn't that bad ! Damn I wish men were honest like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:17 AM
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She's seen this with friends. What's the difference between friends and her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:15 AM
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It's not about not being human it's just about how in general if a man is bold enough to approach a woman, it's because he probably has bad intentions (since he's the abusive Chad, if you prefer). Because with how men are insentivised not to approach so boldly ever else he's a creep, then the men who don't give a shit about that must be the actual creeps. Especially with how we're warned that "good men" will actually just be manipulative bitches who were Chad womanizers all along, we learn to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:08 AM
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You really think the bedroom should dictate what happens everywhere else ? Damn. I didn't know guys thought like that. We women think of sex like any other meaningless activity/hobby, not as a life defining thing. Do you think like this because the bedroom is the only real place where human beings can be "wild/natural/anarchists" again, and therefore it would be the only place where their real worth shines, not one imposed by an arbitrary set of rules created by the invention of civilization ? O…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:01 AM
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Bro I swear if you try to spank me I'm pulling out the hunting rifle... See if your testosterone fueled Chadsexuality is bulletproof lol. You even got OP disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:57 AM
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I'm just happy you said 90% instead of all. I'll tell you something though, those 90% who want to be submissive or whatever, they probably want that because they think being dominant is ACTUALLY harmful to a man. They think that makes them a bully that'll make him kill himself later. I don't have much proof other than myself : it's been a concern of mine. I could love dominating or being kinky or whatever all I want, but I'd be too emotionally attached to a man to actually go through and hurt hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:47 AM
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You don't care about rejection, you just care that people think your dick is awesome. I can insult you with all the names on the planet, and literally bully you everyday, but if I say your dick is awesome, you'll be a barking dog for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:42 AM
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Yes, because public indecency. She was supposed to lock her home and close her blinds and make sure nobody can see her naked. Her fault. Absolutely. Not sarcasm, absolutely genuine. That is what happens. Better yet she shouldn't have been naked. Again, not sarcasm, just how the law works "because women are inherently more indecent than men, they should be more careful".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:30 AM
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I mean for women yeah, so why not you taste it as well lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:29 AM
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You know, I just find it funny how here she's the one who invaded his privacy or whatever, but if that were a woman naked there, she'd be arrested for public indecency.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:28 AM
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They'll say "duh of course there are outliers dumbass". Then they'll consistently claim there are no outliers whatsoever afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:25 AM
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Women can certainly get sex way easier than men lol. I do know that as a woman I'll never be loved though, only my disease will be loved and me I'll be treated as a disease to be removed. That's because I'm trans. I've never been the promiscuous type, so I don't give a shit about my sex priviledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:14 AM
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Have a good one too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:35 AM
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Oh ok xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:21 AM
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We WERE talking about how common it is to use toys, right ? Not the perception of dick size ? Or maybe I thought the discussion was way more specific than it actually was... For what you just said, I have no idea about that. Culturally apparently "small dick bad", and APPARENTLY some stats somewhere show that women select big dicked males, so what can I say really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:18 AM
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If they make ten billion an hour I have a feeling you're not here because you "like them as a person" xD I see your point though, but honestly I think a woman in this situation would try to act as like a sucker as much as possible in order to keep that man lol. She'd prolly fuck him raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:09 AM
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Aren't women more likely to end relationships tho ? I thought that was the main complaint. You're saying it would be men ending relationships because they feel they're not truly wanted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:01 AM
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It could have been brought to you naturally to your algorithm, but it's still an algorithm, tailored for you. And look, if it were that common, then why would women select partners based on their dick size ? If it was that common to "fix the size" with a toy anyway, then having a small dick wouldn't even be a problem for getting a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:57 AM
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No she's saying "if you're looking for it, of course you're gonna find it dumbass it doesn't mean it's not like 1% of cases that you ACTIVELY SOUGHT OUT AND DUG UP WITH A SEARCHING ALGORITHM"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:53 AM
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The way it's supposed to work is you're supposed to be attracted to/disgusted by the number as soon as you actually hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:52 AM
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That's because women are known for one defining trait : being liars, to others, AND to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:51 AM
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Has this happened to you or something ? If so I'm very sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:49 AM
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Idk I'm mostly relying on the stats when I'm saying this. You should apply whatever's applicable in your actual life, not silly stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:46 AM
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We tend to use things other than porn lol. But IF we do use porn it's mostly lesbian. Again, IF. Not many things that women like in porn. And if you don't like what's on there, you look somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:39 AM
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So... what ? Your point is that she wouldn't accept the women's side of it as well ? Everybody fucking knows what you're saying is facts, even women themselves, and even women who aren't like that. edit : nevermind I saw the reply...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:37 AM
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Tbf if I was asked to wear fake boobs I wouldn't take it personally, but that's probably because I'm mentally ill in some way I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:35 AM
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He's probably just rolling with the premise despite the fact he doesn't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:34 AM
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I'm with Cauchy on that one. If you just looking for an excuse to motivate yourself to do that shit just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:32 AM
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Yeah, women get spoiled way more easily than men. Men can recognize when something is an exception, but if women taste anything better than they've had before, they set it as their new standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:31 AM
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So wait, the way guys work is that the person they like most is the person that has one busted stat, not a more well-rounded spread ? I should've known that sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:29 AM
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I just want to give you that fact freely, not convince you. I want to let you analyse that yourself in your daily life and then conclude if you think there might be some of that or if you think it's complete bullshit. I'm just saying this for the benefits of others so they can at least know for the sake of knowing, or at least consider and think about it for three seconds. It gives me the illusion that I'm not completely selfish even though I actually am. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:07 AM
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But society works this way. Women towards men and men towards women all apply this reasoning no matter if they know it consciously or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:57 AM
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My point is not what's actually happening lol, else I'd be counter-proof to myself since I'm so fucking out of my mind. My point was that what's actually happening doesn't matter, if you choose to be a certain gender it's because you wish to present yourself as agreeing with the statistical majority on fundamental things. So you're actively deceiving people if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:54 AM
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Look, at least from my experience a lot more people have applied that shitty reasoning than not. I may just live in a shitty place, but what I'm saying is not unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:48 AM
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Bullshit what ? The reasoning itself ? Or that people do this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:45 AM
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The reasoning that people use is simply that yes, fundamentally they all agree, at least on fundamental aspects of life (but they may disagree on useless things), and the women who "disagree" are simply lying/virtue signaling/actually deluding themselves into thinking they're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:43 AM
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Did I ever say it was a belief of mine ? I presented it as a fact of society, which is what it is. We have to follow facts in our reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:38 AM
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If I can spew out crazy shit like that, it's probably that people are already insane enough to actually apply this ruleset while having the hypocrisy of never saying it out loud. I never wanted to believe this. I had to because at one point you gotta stop being deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:36 AM
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By y'all I meant the male species. I learned that male and female ARE identities, despite people claiming that no it's just your chromosomes. If you chose to stay a male, you agree with most males in life. If you chose to stay female, you agree with most females in life. That's how it works. You're male. So you agree with most males about whatever is said about women. So I was talking about you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:34 AM
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I mean that I'll stop trying to disagree with y'alls view on women, I'll just validate whatever y'all say meanwhile Imma prepare my transition and be finally free to not give a single shit. I'm tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:29 AM
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Yes, yes, sure, I don't give a shit anymore just believe what you will. It only takes for one woman to be like this for all women to be labeled this way anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:25 AM
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Yeah, love how it's my fault that other women don't do jack shit. I swear I should've been born with a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:21 AM
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I mean the things I say literally. You make sense. I think like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:18 PM
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Idk, I always thought women stayed single if they thought that being in a relationship with a man would make their lives worse or more stressful, either because in this very moment in time they're not ready to manage being so close to another person, or because they have preconceived ideas about men and therefore what the relationship would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:15 PM
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So what, it's just about honesty ? About deception ? About knowing wtf you're getting into ? Same. You make so much sense that I wonder why you're on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:07 PM
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I mean, women could try to enjoy the last few years of possible usefulness they COULD have (and yet they don't use it and it's sad), but when the world will become conservative it'll be pretty much impossible. I think by the time I become of legal drinking age I won't be allowed to even try helping lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:02 PM
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What you're saying IS true... educated women should find a way to make pregnancy easier to go through this way women won't view it as a literal nightmare and try to avoid it. Women's medicine is not advanced at all. I believe it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:00 PM
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Well that's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:47 PM
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Live for yourself, what tf can I tell you apart from that ? If you go down that path next thing you know you'll literally be someone's dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:46 PM
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It's definitely more of a taboo to be paid for sex, so at least if you say you're the one paying it lessens the gravity of things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:43 PM
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Also the fact that as a woman you can't just be a douchebag and leave the unborn fetus because it's inside you xD So responsibilities strike harder, and maybe that sense of responsibility (or irrational fear, whatever you may call it) got biologically wired into us women through evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:40 PM
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I mean I don't mind this, if it means a free pass to be natural in bed. My problem is when men act like female enthusiasm is a turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:37 PM
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I wonder how nobody has accused you of being a woman yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:36 PM
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"Even around other women" As if as a neurodivergent woman you were ever supposed to feel safe around women, who are the most strict enforcers of normalcy across genders... If you're a nd woman, either you're surrounded by very kind people, or you're not a woman anymore. I imagine it must be the same thing for males, but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:30 PM
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It's probably a very childish notion of "conservative" that I have. To me it really just means like going back in time, "conserving the way things were" and that's where "conservative" would come from or something like that. You can tell I'm not into politics. But I mean I don't vote either so I consider it fine, it's not like I'm a danger to society bcs of my ignorance or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:21 PM
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College gives you permission to do certain jobs that are illegal to do otherwise, like jobs in the medical field for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:18 PM
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The problem is really just needing a degree to be allowed to practice. It's illegal to do any kind of job in the medical field if you're not specifically allowed to, for example. And how tf do I get that permit in that scenario ? Not rethorical, genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:16 PM
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Men tend to think that no matter if a woman earns money or not, it won't be repaid anyway, because women are hoarders/money black holes apparently. So idk if what you're saying makes sense in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:09 PM
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Charity work is a thing, hobbies are also a thing and some jobs are really just paid hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:06 PM
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And why do you think women pick men that are "better than them", when everytime they pick otherwise they're left to feel the guilt of a man abuser simply for that reason ? Because somehow it's emasculating ? Having a husband/boyfriend that's not "better than you" is basically the equivalent to beating your wife !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:05 PM
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I don't think of it as the only way, but it's definitely one of the only fulfilling ways. At least for me. Being able to at least try doing something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:01 PM
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Yeah sure let me do medical malpractice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:59 PM
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It really wasn't a troll question though, that's how desperate y'all making me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:58 PM
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But it is a gender subreddit, and way too many people talk politics on here (as a side effect of this being a gender subreddit) for this to NOT be on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:01 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's troll, considering his other comment. Idk, it seems a bit too over-specific and goofy. I'm sorry if it's not troll tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:49 AM
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Okay, I get it, it doesn't work, plz tell me why because I'm not trolling I'm genuinely stupid and I want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:41 AM
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Last time I tried I got bullied so hard I turned trans lol. Women stick very hard to the majority and WILL shun out anybody who strays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:02 AM
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If the only thing I have to do is get a random guy and have three kids it'd be pretty easy to accept. Thing is I also have to become useless to society and have no aspirations no goals no nothing no reason to live for people to be happy. And probably a lobotomy. You're not gonna convince me otherwise, you're just gonna say "yeah, what are you gonna do about it ?" so there's no real way for me to change my stance here. If you're not gonna say that then plz respond with your actual response. The w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:57 PM
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Religion is a big thing. That's why they're not banding together, probably. Because they believe it's the right system themselves. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:55 PM
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2 is explained by 1 cause if you can't sustain yourself you've gotta use SOME man as your personal wallet. And I mean women still get to fuck under THAT system... and if men are married then birth control still exists cause sometimes men don't want children... So not that bad overall... Women still get to fuck, lol. The only women this hinders are women who actually wanted to become useful members of society. So being a bitch wins in your scenario. You kept asking the same question though "expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:46 PM
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I'm just one person, I don't change anything, and I don't think I'm gonna influence other women to act better or something lol. I don't have that power. No matter if I as one person do anything or not, society's still gonna be broken, there will just be one more idiot in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:41 PM
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In their eyes I DID do something. The proof that I have a pussy is just as much of a proof as them having seen me do it with their own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:35 PM
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It's more about identity. If an individual person hates me and I knew them long enough for them to know one or two things about me then it's prolly my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:34 PM
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Don't hate them. Hate me. Because the only thing I view as pick me is trying to appeal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:19 PM
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Why am I even trying... At this point I'll just accept my voting rights getting revoked I swear y'all don't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:17 PM
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That's assuming me acting different would lead to a different outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:16 PM
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No I'd say you're the only one that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:16 PM
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If you weren't talking specifically about me then I don't care and I'm sorry for taking it against me. It just seemed like an odd choice of words to talk about one big group. I can't change all women in the world, though. In truth I doubt I can change any. Do what you must to survive. I'll do what I must to survive too, which unfortunately pits us against each other indirectly. And I wasn't threatening, I was legitimately asking why tf wouldn't I do that if it's easier. I understand I'm not a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:15 PM
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Look, you just can't come under this post, supposedly defending me, and then basically making the same exact points that sexist men make. That's just not how it works. Get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:56 PM
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You're literally the people I'm complaining about but female version shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:50 PM
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You can't change people against their will. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:49 PM
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I'm not blaming anybody, just saying why wouldn't it make sense for me to start doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:40 PM
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I am not arguing by the way, this is a legitimate question in my last comment. What the fuck am I supposed to do, I did nothing of what you accused me of having done. The only way I found so far is to transition into being a man this way men will understand I am on their side not against them. Because apparently picking your gender is like picking a team. I genuinely don't know. You can answer in DM's if you're scared of reddit moderation. I'm not even mad about Trump, I don't live in USA. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:37 PM
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"Oh, you mean literally the exact same thing women have been doing for the last hundred years?" I wasn't doing it. "Remember how you were mocking the red pillers a decade ago with remarks like: "You won't do anything from your mothers' basements", when they said that?" I wasn't doing it. "You thought you could manipulate, humiliate, exploit, and abuse men in mass" But I wasn't doing it. And you still treat me as if I were. That's what I fucking mean in my post. And my point is that, if my rights…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:21 PM
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Yet look at your first reaction, and then look at how censored men are IRL. How can I not think that your first reaction is what every man thinks of me IRL, and that they're gonna screw me over to punish me for it ? How tf can I convey that no I am not a praying mantis I don't eat men's heads for lunch ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:18 PM
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Why that question ? I legitimately give no shits. If I'm shorter than most men and I'm helpless to change that, I'm not gonna ask for a height requirement. Because I know damn well it can't be changed I mean just from experience. Nah it's just the simple fact that I have boobs and people with boobs are known to bully short men to death, therefore I must've done that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:14 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:09 PM
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I'm saying I did nothing wrong and yet people treat me as if I've bullied men to death for being too short or something. That's what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:08 PM
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I have a personal target on my back whether I do anything or not though. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:07 PM
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Except I never complained about there not being chivalry. Yet I'm being treated like I did. You proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:04 PM
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I am talking about IRL, I know the internet is a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:02 PM
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I'm not complaining about myself, nor am I complaining really. I'm shy IRL. I don't take risks. I don't have much to prove what I'm saying is true, because my memory doesn't register every case scenario I've encountered, I'm just remembering the conclusions I drew. So I'm really counting on suspension of disbelief right here, because from the dynamics I've seen there's big chances what I'm describing could be true, and if it's true I wanna know what's the approach to take. The only thing I can r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:58 PM
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Shitty also means lying and manipulative, certainly not honesty, so I don't think it would help much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:52 PM
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I don't mean get treated in a shitty way specifically, I mean getting treated like the women that are described as being shitty. Because "female nature" and no matter what you do you can't prove you're doing anything different/thinking anything different from them, even if you're that "guy who would be such a better woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:47 PM
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So when you talk about her having fucked other men before, it's more about the time wasted than about being tainted ? Or more the opposite ? Do you have a ratio estimate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:40 PM
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I know they don't dumbass, I was asking for them to be invisible, not saying that they are. If I'm asking, it means they're not. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:27 PM
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I got a question, why the fuck would women change if they knew they're getting punished anyway ? I didn't do ANYTHING y'all are talking about when you talk about women, yet my rights are still being taken away because TECHNICALLY I have a pussy. So why shouldn't I say fuck it and take my priviledge while I have it, since no matter whether I use it or not, I'm getting punished ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:26 PM
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Well it would be nice if you explained wtf used car means, for a start. I can't just be worried about some insult that's currently meaningless to me because I don't understand it yet. What are the present (physical or psychological) differences, aside from the past history, between a virgin and a used car ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:23 PM
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Also I would've done tube ligations if the tubes weren't so deep in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:43 AM
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I never wanted to be a woman, fuck you for insisting on lumping me in with all of them. Fuck you. I hope you die happy of old age. With your loving wife. Fuck you nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:21 AM
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I am straight, that is one reason why I've never dated a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:18 AM
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I also just wished to be a man so I could be my own person instead of always having to defend a hivemind because people treat me like one and punish me for THEIR actions. But I guess you'll never understand crushing your breasts with kitchen tongs at 2am just for the chance to finally be a human being. It actually kinda works, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:15 AM
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The only ways I've found so far for the not making my existence kill men thing was making myself seem more masculine to appear more friendly or less judgemental, more like "I'm just a random ahh human like you" without leading people on by making them think I wanna suck dick (like if i'm friendly but stay explicitely feminine for example), but it's not durable. I am not a man. I'll never be. At one point I'll grow up and that will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:11 AM
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To be clear I'm talking about this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:09 AM
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So not only you don't know the solution to the problem you're crying about (which you said so i didn't expect it from you), you don't even know WHAT you're crying about ? What ? I was wanting to hear you out wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:06 AM
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Fine then, I misunderstood. Sorry. When I see comments like these spread out over multiple threads, they generally reveal themselves to talk about what OP is saying. You weren't. My fault. I shouldn't have assumed. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:05 AM
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Ways to what ?? You didn't even state the goal what is the GOAL ? And there is no y'all, I'm not a hivemind, I'm one singular woman, and I've disagreed with many women in the past, and I don't have much power in changing women's minds as a whole. So what is the GOAL ? I'm asking you literally. PLEASE. Take me LITERALLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:02 AM
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I'm talking about myself, please don't take it against you. I often use Reddit to vent my frustrations until a solution comes to me, because I'm a very impatient person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:54 PM
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The difference between you and I is that you can only better yourself and I can only become more ignorant. I just hope you have a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:49 PM
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I ripped those words directly from a black pill man's narrative. I figured speaking your language would make y'all understand my post more. Women don't actually feel that way about men, at least as a woman I don't. But it's how men experience/interpret it, therefore it's what I'm calling it so you understand what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:41 PM
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You got my post all wrong too. I understand I'm bad at English but PLEASE. I said older women ACCEPT becoming less attractive. They'd just like to not be bullied about it and told they should die about it. That's it. You don't understand that ?? You've really got to put words in my mouth, as if I'm complaining, when I'm literally still a minor and have no business worrying about that shit ? Why do you have to invent a whole new species of women to lie about ??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:38 PM
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What change is there to be made though ? What fucking change ? Any man answer this, what the fuck am I supposed to do as one (1) woman for my existence to not convey to all men to kill themselves ? LOL ? I get that I should die for having stayed female but damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:31 PM
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It'd be easy to ignore if reality wasn't formed by the male consensus. It's hard to think of males' opinions that many men agree with, as anything other than a societal fact. I like to think it's because it's what shapes our culture, but I don't know. You may think men and women have two distinct bubbles of culture through which to see reality, but actually many women tend to follow men's cultural rules. You could argue it's a choice then, and I'd agree with you. Many males absolutely don't diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:23 PM
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I'm sorry, I interpreted this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:14 PM
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Bitter old hags understand that, but they're at peace with it and accept that they won't have as much success as a 23 year old. They would like to be left alone about it- heck, be invisible like some guys complain about being. Cool, she doesn't attract dicks, doesn't mean she should give up on everything in life and become depressed now because she's worthless or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:41 PM
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I think women would be happy if the real reason why they're only wanted for sex is, because they lack in other departments. It's empowering to think that you're considered "not good enough" in terms of personality, because it implies you are expected to have a good personality, and that itself implies it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:32 PM
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I mean some women think that consentual prostitution IS just a job like any other. And some are driven crazy by people who say that sex makes them inherently less valuable, so they integrate that in their brains and then repeat the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:26 PM
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In the second scenario you would first use your logic to find a way to get rid of your female body lol. High IQ women exist, they generally don't fare well with gender. Nobody likes being the very thing they despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:18 PM
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What I don't get is why, because you're mad about women's dating habits, you decide that taking away the right to be a legal citizen for all little girls is a fit punishment. The only way I'd think it would be right is because somehow, a girl's entire essence would be dating, in and of itself. It would be like a woman being mad that guys don't like her after she got old, and then she decides all boys should live in prison for their whole lives because "they'll grow up to be predators anyway" or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:17 PM
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Highly attractive men are not the same as women. You would know that as a redpill lol. The genders are different. For one, a highly attractive man fucks women, not gets fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:08 PM
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When you feel too much of something you can let it out in different ways, and the most passive way to let it out is to cry. I heard punching things or acting like a hyperactive kid on drugs helps too. Anything that lets you act on it. Feelings that you don't understand generally present themselves like urgencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:03 PM
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I mean women could go full literal mode and actually initiate sex for you but look, women care a lot about the flow of things, the developping feelings, the way it's set up, like a movie. We're the ones tasked with that part after all. It wouldn't be as fun or special if I took your arm, plainly said "you're hot, let's bang" and dragged you on the fucking bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:59 PM
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Just from the title without context- yes you're absolutely right. Now I'll read then edit my comment. After reading : Many women want to be individuals, in their relationship and in their friendships etc... You asking out multiple people because it's a numbers game and she just happened to be open to it, means that she's not an individual to you, rather she's representative of a whole group- you're not dating her, you're dating womanhood. And she doesn't like that. Because to her, her individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:45 PM
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If it gets a woman no pregnancy and no STDs, she sees that as consequence-free, generally, yes. And I was telling you what women's INTENT is, not how men perceive the actual action, nor what it really is. But I get that, for the world, women are literally the same as sex dolls. Which why I don't understand why men don't just buy sex dolls. This is not rethorical. I am demanding answers. I also never understood the "used" logic. A body cleans and renews itself continually, it's not like there's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:23 PM
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If I'm scared of anything about men, I'm scared of sperm more than I'm scared of violence or whatever else... Maybe it's that fear that translates to the fear of men ? Idk ? For me it just translates to fear of sex though. In contexts other than sex it doesn't affect me. Only sperm can make me pregnant, after all. And it's probably just as a bad now that I'm saying this, since a guy would take it that you hate him if you're sex adverse, no ? I told you in an edit the reason why I, personally, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:58 PM
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Yeah... feminism... lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:43 PM
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It's a naive conception you can believe in before you grow a chest, but after that you're pretty much reminded everyday of the opposite. There's not many things one can do to change that reality. But there are things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:41 PM
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I'm sorry but isn't your first paragraph a goomba fallacy... Idk I know I can sometimes get caught in goomba fallacies towards men so I'm telling you the same thing people told me. Maybe you did catch the same women saying the two things you mentionned and in this case I'm an idiot, but idk, just seeing it on paper it doesn't make sense to me. One reason why most of us defend each other blindly is simply because... if one of us critiques general things women tend to do more : "And what, you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:33 PM
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You sound like you're enjoying vengeance against women or something, when in fact you're just being a deliberate feminist... So what the fuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:29 PM
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Keep up with men. And where did I talk about the loneliness epidemic as a primary subject and did even OP do that ? Being attractive or not doesn't mean giving pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:33 AM
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Alright fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:31 AM
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I don't know, I'm not somebody who makes morals or whatever and on a practical standpoint you should just listen only to yourself. I'm just saying why it's more convenient for a random dickless human to be able to work than not be able to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:28 AM
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I know, it's just me being naive and not wanting to think of every guy as a manipulative prick yknow ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:27 AM
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Is it such a wild what-if ? All I see men talk about on here is about how "Our whole personalities are just us pretending so we'll get pussy", or about how they don't wanna bother with women anyway they just want the sex from them. So why would they want to act as their literal parents ? They'd obviously neglect them, and they wouldn't care since they'd get their sex anyway no matter if they're good or awful husbands. They'd stop bothering. It's so good for you guys, but obviously women aren't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:41 AM
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You know what's being said ? Wasting your time with the weak stop you from going as far as you could've otherwise. And sure, that's true, but the only answer if you're a woman then is just to fucking keep up. Keeping up would mean becoming less attractive to men. Women complaining on here is a warning that they're gonna change and not look back if you truly don't care about what they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:34 AM
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You seem very convinced of your claim. Be confident. Don't look for women's validation lol. They'll never give that validation to you, because you'll surely use it in order to take away a basic human right from them. Just clearly say what you think is true, instead of making hypothetical scenarios that only imply where your train of thought is going. You know, the whole hypothetical scenario to make other people guess what you're thinking thing is a very female thing to do... Just tell us what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:20 AM
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Sounds like you're being insecure about being insecure. Stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:14 AM
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I know what you're hinting towards, but I'm not that kind of person. I don't want to be a woman if it means being the biblical woman. I just wanna be a fuckable man with a pussy and tits honestly. Call me a failure I don't care, I wanna be a failure if that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:04 AM
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Because if men are mad about something women do, then said thing women do is probably gonna get outlawed. If women are mad about what men do, they're passively mad, so they're not gonna change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:58 AM
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The one reason why men are mad is because women refuse to subject men to the same level of objectification that women themselves wish to escape. Women give men respect, and in turn men whine. I'm convinced y'all are masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:56 AM
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Yeah, usually it's the guys that men on here are so jealous of. Thing is whether or not you wanna fuck that specific guy (at least in my experience as a normal woman with XX chromosomes and functionning ovaries) just depends on if he's in the right place at the right time : ie. if I'm thinking my body will cooperate with me right now. Any scenario where I can see myself getting pregnant and being in deep shit because of it, the guy can be anybody he wants I'm not doing it. Birth control exists b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:54 AM
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You know what makes women feel sexualized, objectified and most importantly used ? A man fucking lying about a hallucinated "relationship" just to get in a woman's pants, when in fact he COULD have been honest about wanting a fuck buddy from the start and it would've been enjoyable. But NOOOO, he had to MANIPULATE his way into it like some... like some woman ! xD Honestly that's what the definition of being used is, to me. Not being told what you're really doing, but being manipulated into doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:42 AM
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You're beyond saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:34 AM
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Wouldn't be happening if God didn't command women to follow social norms lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:21 AM
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Women generally don't respect the hot men you're jealous of. That's why they don't dedicate their lives to them and instead just one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:56 AM
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List the many possibilities. You don't have to list them all, if you think there are that many. Just list an amount you think is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:36 PM
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I don't care about your percentages I'm specifically asking what to do in those less that 1% cases, in real life. Yeah theoretically it should never happen to you, but what if it does, what do you do ? I'm literally just asking, and you don't answer, because you think my questions are rethorical, because you're such a retard you don't even know how to read. Or you just want to play the complicated guy, I don't know. I'm asking a very simple question. If abortion banned, and you get raped, what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:28 PM
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Ok, then what ? Who to give the kid to ? The raped woman ? To punish her for having a womb ? Adoption is a fucked up system right now and unless you have that one aunt who always wanted a kid but never could have one, I don't see how that situation can be sorted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:51 PM
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I'm arguing that hypergamy is moral because it allows men to have women they certainly don't look up. Complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:49 PM
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It's true. All that you said is true. My main point wasn't even that. My main point was, why, with you being so right about this, do people hate trans men, and think that women shouldn't have the right to better themselves into manlier versions of themselves. Just tell me that. It's the only thing I care about really. It's even the only reason I joined this subreddit in the first place, to try to get an answer to that. But I never really wanted to ask for fear of coming off as a sexist and the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:41 PM
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I generally argue with RedPill people in order to argue with religion. But you don't seem too religious. So I don't really care. Women don't like hypergamy either. We just do it to not get thrown in Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:38 PM
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You're a man who loves his woman. There are men who aren't like that, but know how to hide it very well. "Just avoid these men", but how to avoid these men when you'll rush to get married at 18 anyway, since you won't have the right to sustain yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:32 PM
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And I said, fine, if you want to make abortion end, then give custody to rapists. But you don't fucking listen, you just repeat the same stuff like a broken record, the same way your religious leaders repeat the same thing to you like a broken record when you dare ask questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:28 PM
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The values I am using are religious values, that I and many women heavily disagree with, but that I most often see men defending. Women don't give a shit about their men being masculine, feminine, or a fucking chair. They'd fuck anything that moves as long as there's no pregnancy out of it. It's not about "being as x by strangers", it's about "being seen as x by God". God, is very important. His words are truth, and He decides your fate. (Also you talk about polygamy, like it's better, but hyper…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:18 PM
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It's not the way people think on a conscious level, but on an unconscious level yes it is. Nobody's going to respect a scrawny guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:10 PM
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It's not just about invisibility tho, pretty sure OP talked about stoning to death
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:54 AM
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That just means you wouldn't want to date her though, why kill her ? It's like women killing all the men they don't find attractive, instead of the well-known making-them-invisible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:51 AM
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It's not about whether or not you would do violence it's just about your physical strength basically lol. Can I beat this person in a fight ? No ? He's better than me then, I respect him. It's caveman think but it's probably how most people think. It's the realest way to think about respect, cause it isn't founded on arbitrary social rules it's founded on something universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:12 AM
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Materially, women are only fucked biologically, because they can't control if they get pregnant from an encounter or not. This makes them dependent upon their social priviledge (need medicine, favorable laws on birth control) to give them what they need in order to control their own physical life (prevent pregnancy). Such a vital and impactful thing should normally be in one's full control, but women's bodies are way more autonomous than men's so uh it's not. Because it's so vital and impactful,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:06 AM
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There's only one single way to prove men wrong and it's to go to the gym and somehow have mutations that allow you to hit harder than them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:58 AM
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It's not even about strength it's about the threat of pregnancy. A guy with a functionning uterus (don't ask how such a person would exist) would still be pretty fucking vulnerable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:57 AM
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It does seem like social conditionning is a whole lot more of a cage than actual laws will ever be, for a feminist woman. Because, in order to be a feminist woman, you need to be a woman at all. What a "real" woman is, it's often societal. And you wouldn't sacrifice your cunt for a freedom or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:52 AM
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Social pressure is the only reason women are even women as we know them lol. Without social pressure making those women, you guys would never be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:48 AM
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I honestly thought settling just meant a man being monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:45 AM
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Lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:43 AM
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Her friends aren't a part of her, she can disagree, she can leave them if they prove not to be friends after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:38 AM
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If you're not happy get a gf who's also into the games you play what can I tell you TvT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:33 AM
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Cause to everybody, "male" means normal and "female" means attractive. Yes this makes women lesbians. It's hard to convert a lesbian. Now, I'm female which obviously means I'm lying, but still you gotta give it some thought. What if attraction is a trait normally only found in males, but is a vertigial trait in women who end up either neutral or lesbian ? Same as clitoris being a vestigial trait on women from men having dicks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:27 AM
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Yeah, women only get anxiety from casual sex cause what if pregnat lol, it fucks up everything that could have been enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:25 AM
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I hope you knock up those women cause apparently we don't have enough humans on Earth or something and that's why feminism is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:06 AM
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Why is "being treated worse" such a fear with you guys ? Women don't fear being treated worse than past women so obviously I don't get the perspective. Like, even if he got treated better, he still got dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:02 AM
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Some women can even put up with being a fourth wife and y'all want that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:01 AM
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I think it's more like, she knows she wants to spend most of her time with him now, so she's testing him for long periods of time ? Even if just to see if he can withstand sexless relationship for some time ? Cause in their lives she might have issues that stop her from doing sex with him etc, so basically if he doesn't like that she gives him a chance to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:58 AM
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Why "LTRs" with an s bruh, you don't deserve a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:57 AM
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Most women think that doing C is so illogical, they don't even count it. So they think men are mad about either A or B and then get all offended about how men want them to die or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:55 AM
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A woman generally doesn't want to feel like the man of the relationship, even if just by moral standards and not personal preference. It feels like crossing a line and siding with the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:50 AM
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I don't think redpill cares about high status individuals though ? Isn't it a common people's thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:46 AM
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I always assumed sexual attraction was a male thing anyway, maybe a vestigial trait in women cause I think most of us are at least somewhat lesbian, or at most neutral. You attract a woman the same way you attract a straight man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:44 AM
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Honestly I just think it's women recognizing men are better and wanting to emulate them... everybody wants to better themselves... "Fake it till you make it" or something... That's one reason why I'm so outraged when people try to correct trans men but not so much when they try to correct trans women, cause like, you got a woman who's got male qualities, you want to fix her by making her... worse ? By making her rot ? Why ? I can understand how a trans woman it might be more outrageous, but a tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:54 AM
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I mean once again I said I don't care about whether or not men are better I just don't want that to mean I'll legally be a hamster in a cage that's all. Cause obviously finally admitting it WILL bring consequences. It's better if it's something unspoken but that everyone knows in truth. This way no one gets hurt. There's just the fact and no crazy people to try to make a communist regime based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:38 AM
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Maybe you can allow yourself to be emotionally fragile when emotional strength just won't solve your problems because your body screws you over. The brain's a lazy organ. It does the necessary. And it does what works. If it doesn't work, it ditches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:35 AM
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Yeah but what I'm trying to tell you is-- it's the same regardless, so it's not even a question of why it's a question of why not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:27 AM
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Expected doesn't mean it's actually biologically feasible, just means people are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:26 AM
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Accept that you're not an equal unfortunately doesn't just mean admitting : "Oh, I can do less things than he can" and then going on with your life. It also implies you're a fucking masochist and want this fact to be acted upon for EVERYBODY. You want to be punished for existing as what God made you. And you want everybody who resembles you to be punished for things they never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:20 AM
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Look, if you take away abortion all that I'm asking is, give custody to rapists. Cause you know I'd think if you're raping me that means you clearly wanted that kid. Bro is accusing females of having female bodies like that's a crime, knowing damn well the only reason why women are such an evil is because God made them as women. Lol. We tried making contraception, so that accidental pregnancies don't happen, but guess what ? None really work. Because God designed women to get accidentally pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:09 AM
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So basically the solution is more accidental children and a focus more on numbers than quality of life of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:07 AM
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The competition between home and happiness thing is more a religious thing and not really based in actual reality outside of the US. Of course, in the US the government is ruled by religion, so it's reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:02 AM
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I mean for men sex is an energetic thing, for women sex is like... the actual opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:58 AM
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That is true...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:58 AM
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Excuse me what do you mean men can turn on at will now ??? If anybody can do it it'd be women with the whole "sex is psychological to them" thing. For men it's a purely biological physical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:57 AM
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Why tf would you care about a woman's opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:56 AM
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Uh so the reasoning may go like this : Men have a mandatory requirement of "She's fuckable material", else even if she'd be a good wife/mother/partner/whatever it's impossible to have a relationship with her. So if she sees she's fuckable, she thinks "Oh great, I got the basic mandatory requirement and that's working so well, that means I'm now enabled to escalate further into the other stuff to form a relationship !"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:53 AM
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Taking instagram seriously... How have you fallen this far...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:49 AM
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And the man just shits the money ? I mean I doubt the government would have a bone to pick with women particularly. They don't give a shit about anyone. Whether you rely on government or you rely on man who relies on government it's still the same result... Unless it's not, in which case please correct me. I'm just nitpicking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:47 AM
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The most logical conslusion wins. It's not about who says it, it's about what makes the most sense. You COULD argue that the husband would bring that logical conclusion 99% of the time. Still, an important distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:42 AM
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Okay I did NOT see that going there uh... that's a very personal thing of yours and actually forget I said anything cause I don't know you enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:42 AM
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The difference is that one is a single human with emotions and whims and that shit, the other is a tightly regulated system with legal consequences if they're infringed upon. Also one only acts on your work the other acts on your whole life. Now, I AM talking about Europe, probably having a boss in the US is basically like having a husband idk... Wonder if that makes most men gay. But uh, yeah, the answer is security. A system that states everything it does and generally doesn't deviate and you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:36 AM
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Bro teaching is like the one female job at least leave it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:33 AM
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I mean, duh the relationships aren't genuine, heterosexuality and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:32 AM
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If you want to raise your child right ? A boy. A girl is easy, but the only way for her to not live an impossible world is for her to become an immoral, mind-numbed piece of shit. See throaway73737828's comment. A girl the better she's raised the harder life gets (and if she's raised like shit then life is the easiest of any human being). A boy the better he's raised the better life gets. So I guess, it depends on how you estimate you'll be able to raise your kids, if you put more emphasis on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:26 AM
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The philosophy of Redpill is to take advantage of the world, not change it. Redpill is the anti-idealist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:23 AM
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Ok communist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:40 AM
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"You might think it's because men want a personal pocket pussy to use. That's obviously not true either." If that's the case, then there is no point in my post and ig it's all based on a delusion. So uh... yeah. When I see or hear men envying women though, the examples they give are women who are being used like this/are about to be used like this. This gives me the impression that at least a good portion of men want the scenario I'm talking about. Am I right or wrong in assuming that ? If you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:11 PM
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Before I get banned I just need to ask this question. Do you want this, yes or no. I need to know men's nature. Maybe to us women it is bad, but to you all you want this exact thing. I wouldn't know. It would put a lot of interactions with men into perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:00 PM
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If you saw the mess that this post was before edit, you wouldn't say the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:51 PM
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I never said anybody was evil, I never blamed anyone, I just said that living on the receiving end of that is not desirable like some would think. People who complain about not being on the receiving end of that seem to think that being used = being appreciated. But nobody appreciates the autistic nerdy boy in your example. And some would want to manipulate the autistic nerdy boy so that he'd change in a way that allows him to be used more and more. Nobody likes him, and everybody thinks that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:48 PM
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If my take is hysterical, means you want that. Cause my take is "hey that's not something any human being would want". If you think that's hysterical, means you want it. It makes me a bit scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:39 PM
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They'd say yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:37 PM
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Look I just don't understand how it's more desirable than living peacefully unnoticed and it makes me think that men are masochists and the idea of men being masochists makes me scared ok ? I have no fucking clue why but it's uncanny. Wanting to be used by others so that you feel that you have worth as an utility, even if it means YOU needing to disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:34 PM
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It's because people give a shit about non-pregnant women that people also give a shit about pregnant women. They're still the same people just before and after. If women weren't treated like they're treated now, accidental pregnancies would happen way, way more and would be way more devastating cause people wouldn't care about pregnancy ruining the pre-pregnancy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:28 PM
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I just don't get why you'd be so masochistic as to want to be used as a personal dildo, and anything you say or do is utterly hated because it ruins your ability to be used. If I wanted to use you as a personal dildo, I would know that it'd be because I don't respect or love you at all and I see you as less than nothing. I'd probably want to shut you up every second, wanting to use you as an appliance and nothing more. I would never want to get close to you. I'd grow to hate you, because your be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:10 PM
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I am not talking about periods I'm talking about pregnancy though, I agree that you should control yourself on your period wtf where did you pull periods from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:02 PM
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I don't want them to empathize, I just don't want to see their dumbasses complain about something they'd hate to have in reality, cause it's kinda scary to think that maybe men are masochists after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:58 PM
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There's a reason feminists are hated and why women are hated way more than men, why women are resented for not giving their bodies and for wanting to live as people with brains. It's better to have nothing to give in that department, this way nobody wants anything from you, so nobody wants you dead. Like tusks on an elephant. Elephants understood that they don't wanna be killed, so they have no tusks now (yes I know I'm personifying evolution but you get what I mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:56 PM
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Then don't respond. What the fuck. Just keep pretending women are complaining about being priviledged or something if that's the echo chamber you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:56 PM
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I don't need help, I'm just saying that if YOU want this and are genuinely jealous of this, you need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:50 PM
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I'm not blaming men for that, I'm just saying "please don't be jealous of something you actually won't like, here's why you won't like it". That's literally all. Thanks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:45 PM
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I mean they don't care how women feel about it, but if they lived like women then they'd feel the exact same as them. Unless you mean that it's a feeling that they like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:43 PM
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You may argue it's only about feelings and that basically women are delusional, but most of the time those gut feelings are proven to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:43 PM
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... What do you think my backstory is lol, I'm none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:41 PM
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Being invisible absolutely beats that. Being invisible means having neutral (0) value. What I described means having negative value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:39 PM
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Anger and libido are neurological things. The uterus does its thing on its own. It's not the same. No matter how much meditation you do you won't be able to flex your fucking uterus like a muscle, and trying to access it and control it through external means is either impossible or dangerous. In order to control their weakness (uterus), women need society's whole help through laws and medical attention and all that shit. Literally only reason why women need to be treated as little victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:37 PM
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I wasn't hurt, which is why I know I'm not biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:34 PM
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Problem is not "being seen only as a body and nothing more". Problem is that, because your body's wanted, anything that might ruin it or its access or its enjoyment needs to be removed and exterminated. Your brain happens to be one such things. You are basically a parasite in your own body. It makes you feel hated, like you don't belong on this Earth, like you should die. Leave your body and have somebody else in your place, or just leave your body and have your corpse become a sex doll. It's li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:25 PM
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Most women do recognize that everything else is a negative though, it's my whole point. I'm talking about the "woman what do you mean you're dying of thirst you're surrounded by water" thing. That premise implies that sex = appreciation, but for a woman it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:17 PM
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Fine, enjoy being used a personal dildo with no worth by a woman who hates you I guess, if that's what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:14 PM
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Only reason why women need that "fragile person" societal treatment anyway is cause most of them aren't infertile. Women aren't fragile, they can get their asses off, it's just that the uterus is too fucking eager to bring things upon itself that it's not ready for, which makes a woman's life seem fragile cause pregnancy can happen at any wrong move, therefore the whole woman seems fragile. Being weaker is an inconvenient but it's not life defining. Having a biological process designed to bring …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:12 PM
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I mean anytime they don't talk like that it sounds so forced, like it's social convention forcing them to not speak about women this way else they'll get jailed. When they're their most natural selves the things they say pile up to essentially be summarized by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:07 PM
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... Essentially. Just wished being ugly bcs of that wasn't a crime. "I can fix her" no please don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 PM
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They do get friendzoned, which is essentially stealing relationship from a guy without giving sex in exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 PM
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I am literally responding to the average guy's complaint, not making a complaint of my own. I largely prefer being the invisible average guy rather than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:01 PM
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A guy being attracted a woman would make him want her to preserve her sexual appeal, and so to have less and less agency as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:55 PM
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I sound dramatic on purpose to get the point across about how it feels for the woman's perspective to be bullied this way. Obviously feelings aren't rational and they're very exaggerated, so I write the same way. I'm saying, that guys don't want a woman to live as a human being, basically, because it ruins her sexual appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:53 PM
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I am calm, I'm just talking in a deranged way in order to get the point across. I don't understand how wanting to be loved for only your physical attributes and therefore hated because of everything else is not a masochistic idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:51 PM
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Yeah, I understand there's like a LOT of guys who don't think this way. Sorry for sounding like I hate men or something. I guess I was trying to talk about this side of sexual interactions more because it's the one that guys (only those who complain about not being treated like women) seem to ignore the existence of, and generally when they express jealousy for women's treatment in society they always seem to take an example from this side of things where she's actually just being hated and used…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:45 PM
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Why tf then do guys only talk about how women are such a fucking mistake and the only reason why they're even on this Earth is "oh I want her hole so bad" ? I didn't mean dead literally. Also. Just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:39 PM
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According to guys being celibate is a crime. EDIT : Also what gecko said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:35 PM
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Me, yes. Just a bit annoyed about some things guys don't get. As I said it's not a rant, it's not a vent, it's just me trying to explain in the most deranged way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:33 PM
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She became depressed because of gender identity because she's not a guy. It turned her into essentially a trans woman. Look at trans men's depression rates before/after transition instead. If you can prove to me that a man's life is worse than dysphoria, I'd be inclined to believe you. Otherwise, stfu, respectfully /gen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:31 PM
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Nah, women want men as companions first and foremost. I guess you can also say that sex represents that companionship, surely for men it does. Just saying that female POV sex doesn't represent companionship at all, which is why guys shouldn't be jealous of that and instead strive for whatever the fuck they invented about women's lives which seems infinitely better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:30 PM
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Men have a selfish way of looking at the world. They look at the way something is useful to them, and they assign it that definition as an inherent value. For example, a woman is useful for sex, so men define a woman as a sex doll, even if in reality it's a human being who also happens to have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:30 PM
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No matter what signals you give, if a woman sees that but doesn't approach you it's an issue that in HER head and that SHE has to solve. You as an outside person can't really change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:30 PM
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"Or are you affected by a male-created system that pressures you to attract men?" Yeah that. When you don't treat yourself like a product you're basically not a woman anymore. Accepted myself as a guy a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:22 PM
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Unfortunately the world isn't made for men who want a relationship, only for those who want a personal prostitute. Maybe you'll find some closeted trans man out there to fill the hole in your heart. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:20 PM
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It's because those women who say men are stupid are actually the ones getting manipulated. Everyone knows weaponized incompetence is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:07 PM
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Yes yes we understand guys are fucking awful but there are so few of us who don't hate men already and we'd like to hold out for a little longer... The only way to peace is removing our breasts anyway. It's the main thing making guys awful. Without it we're finally brothers and sisters. Nobody hates girls. Only women. Only the ones with boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:03 PM
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Attractive and drama-free are mutually exclusive. Having breasts turns you into a nervous, anxious wreck. Being drama free means not having them. Means not being attractive. Accept women for being fking women you want a male/female hybrid who's got all the characteristics you like but zero repercussions like they're magically gonna be a healthy person or smth. The whole female way of life is the contrary of the male's, and because the male's was designed to be healthy, the female's ends up being…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:01 PM
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