| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How long is too long before asking someone out? | Inner Game | Camdaman0530 | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:57 PM |
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| 3 | 90 rejections in 20 days!!This is the one aspect in life I really want to get better at. It's hit or miss for me when hitting girls up over text/online, but in person it's really hard to gauge who's single and who's interested in socializing. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Is getting hot girls still fun if you’re a late bloomer? Like a virgin in your 20s or older?I was the same honestly. Though being the very shy and awkward kid didn't help at all and I had zero ability to talk to girls while I was in high school. I can at least get some now but not like most of my friends can. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 06:56 PM |
| 36 | It's easy as fuckYeah that all sounds fine and dandy until you're not what they want you to look like | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 02:55 AM |
| 8 | Assholes always win.....I'm almost the exact same at 29. People always rave about how great of a guy I am, which of course is a great trait to have, but that only gets you so far. I just don't even know if I could be an asshole or show some kind of attitude even if I tried. I have lost a ton of weight and put on a good amount of muscle which has helped a bit but there's still a lot I need to work on. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Assholes always win....."You treat me better than any of my bf's ever did" "Your cool" "Your very sweet" I'm in the same spot. Always good but never good enough. No matter the interest level there's always someone else. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:04 PM |
| 4 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?If you're this sketched about it then don't go through with it. But if you do want to though then just be cautious, and try to verify her age too like others have said. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Girl cancelled less than 1hr before first dateAt least you didn't get ghosted immediately after she said yes to going out. | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to approach women in gym?Yeah that's true. I guess it just comes down to if it's an appropriate time or not. Like obviously I'm not gonna be weird and hover over them while they're in the middle of a set waiting to talk to them, but when they're inbetween sets and it isn't obvious they don't wanna be talked to I think that should be ok. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How to approach women in gym?I agree. There's been a couple of women I've wanted to introduce myself to but the gym is a bit of a grey area for that stuff. It's not expected like it would be at a bar or nightclub and I've always been way too socially awkward to do something like that so I just mind my business, do my workouts and leave. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Does hitting a girl up after she already rejected you and some time has passed and asking out her out again ever workI'm in a similar situation. I've moved on myself BUT, I still see her on tinder from time to time and she's pretty quick to view my snapchat stories. I know the latter doesn't mean a whole lot but if she really wasn't interested in seeing what's going on with me then I doubt she'd view them. For context, I asked her out a few months ago and she said yes she'd just need to find a ride into town. She suggests Saturday so then I offer the time and place but she never opened that message. Being ghos… | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Your reasons for wanting a girlfriend are illegitimate and that’s why you won’t get oneI'm boring and don't have game like the rest of my friends do. It sucks but I get it. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Pulled hot college chickMight have to try that myself sometime. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 06:58 AM |
| 11 | Pulled hot college chickGod I wish I could be as confident as you. I've just never had it like that. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 06:10 AM |
| 29 | What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once?No more than 3 for me. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Do I text her?Coming from personal experience just text her. Hesitating myself has cost me too many opportunities. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Having only success having fwb / onsI've been the same recently also 28M. Though my thing is, I've had mild success hooking up with women from tinder and other dating apps, but I've never actually slept with one of my friends or someone I've known for a decent amount of time. I think I'd want to try that next. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid?Don't be fake at all. I'm no women expert but they pick up fake shit very quickly. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How long is too long before asking someone out?That's what I'm worried about too, I'm just a serious procrastinator especially when it comes to women. Sorry to hear though that's a tough break. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How long is too long before asking someone out?Yeah that's a good point. The funny thing is though I didn't really start getting these feelings for her until just a few weeks ago | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:33 PM |
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