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I think you’re missing the point it’s not that these behaviours aren’t bad per say but that they’re attaching these behaviours to men alone. Where if they made a similar advert using the negative stereotypes of women there would be outrage. Especially when studies have shown they are just as likely to physically abuse there male partners “But when subsequent surveys asked who struck first, it turned out that women were as likely as men to initiate violence—a finding confirmed by more than 200 st…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:27 PM
2

Surely any decent sized hedge fund will want you to have a degree (in finance, economics, maths etc). So if you already have a degree go with the hedge fund because it’s big money and you can do that for the rest of your life. However if you don’t have a degree you’ll have to decide are you capable of studying at degree level and degrees take years to finish. So basically if you’re academic go for the hedge fund, if you’re not then army it is
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:05 PM
1

Congratulations bro, but honestly how did you manage a ONS without drinking?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 12:19 PM
2

Okay that makes sense and I agree women in America, Northern Europe, Australia can be a bit standoffish especially if they don’t fancy you. If I’m being honest you probably don’t fit their ideal type and in turn they’re just not interested. Remember they’ll all have multiple guys who are their type that are already orbiting them, so why would they speak to a complete stranger who they have no desire for. And Slavic women are probably easier/nicer because they have more traditional values and the…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:50 PM
8

Yeah she’s just seeking validation, she wants to feel sexy and desired by men. She has probably told her bf about you to make him jealous. It’s all just a big validation game to her
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:42 PM
1

Can I ask what country you’re from?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:38 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:32 PM
6

My take on this is she’s an attention whore, if she wants you she’ll reach out
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:11 PM
8

When will fake alphas (betas) like you understand it’s not your job to put people in their place, especially when you’re clearly jealous of him. He’s insecure but you shouldn’t give a fuck about him you should be to bothered making yourself the best possible man you can be.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:54 AM
5

Okay if you haven’t spoke to her in a month I would normally say “hey how’ve you been?” And then maybe a “I’m in town this week and meeting some friends let’s do x at y”
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:55 AM
7

The thing is you still know you’re wearing it and guys might not notice you’re wearing it but if you think women won’t notice you’re delusional
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:48 AM
11

You shouldn’t be wearing make up! Men don’t hide behind a mask, they accept themselves and that shows confidence. Wearing make up will just make girls think you’re gay or insecure.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:27 AM
10

Unlimited ghost
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:44 AM
9

I mean worse thing that can happen if you go in the date is you practice and improve your game, the best thing is loads of sex
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:17 PM
8

She needs validation, don’t give it to her
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:34 AM
5

Yeah she’s some bottom tier female if she was engaged that young
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:01 PM
4

Yeah I guess but why would you go after divorced chicks lol
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:00 PM
5

I mean yes of course they shit test more with the rise of feminism, tinder and beta nice guys. They feel a lot more entitled to shit test men because they are told they are equal to men (so they don’t need to settle for just any man, they can sleep around and try out different men) and tinder has given women a higher SMV then what they would have had in the 50s due to all the thirsty betas
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:14 PM
2

Because they’ve watched movies, society has told them this is the type of guy you should find attractive (the nice guy) but they just can’t rid the natural attraction they have for the bad boy who doesn’t treat them the way the nice guy in movies does. In turn she gets but hurt and wants to mould her little prince into the nice guy from the movies
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:08 PM
2

Do you legit have Aspergers or are you self diagnosed? Most people I know with autism struggle with social situations, if this is also you then it’s pretty simple go monk mode and absolutely smash lifting and a hobby of choice. TRP isn’t just about women, it’s about being your best self regardless of your past or set backs
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:48 PM
1

Haha good
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:22 PM
7

Tbh your game is bad and cringe (lots of showing off with clear naivety on your part. I’m guessing she’s a catfish since she’s still chatting with you unless you’re a 10/10. I definitely could be wrong though
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:32 AM
16

Use it as practice
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:00 PM
11

Not that I would shit where I eat but if a someone said me asking them out was sexual harassment and proceeded with it I would sue them especially. I fucking hate all these fake victims, it’s disrespectful of the real victims and those they’re accusing
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:59 PM
14

Yeah there must be more to this, unless she’s being over dramatic
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:46 PM
10

Yes
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:43 PM
3

I mean going back to that situation just shows desperation (or maybe not enough plates?) on your part. If you wanna have her back you’re going to need to make her feel special, but when you show her she’s not special this shit show is gunna hit you SOOOOO hard. Again I would recommend unlimited ghosting on this
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:08 AM
2

Being good looking and athletic. I didn’t really have issues getting girls, I get more now because of TRP and don’t get butt hurt when something ends doesn’t go my way.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:23 AM
11

I would recommend unlimited ghosting for this situation. If you respond with anything, it shows you like the attention just as much as she does
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:20 AM
82

C’mon man you know what this means. She used to think you were on a similar SMV but recently due to those guys saying you’re cooler she now thinks you have a higher SMV. Thus she’s trying to minimise the gap by validating herself that she is as cool as you lol. I had a similar situation with one of my exes where I was probably a bit better looking and in better shape. But because of training for my college sports team I didn’t have much time to party and she would always tell me how much more po…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:53 AM
1

Depends if you want to see her again. Because you could just have sex if you don’t care, but if you do there’s plenty of video and text tutorials online that will give you a much better idea than you’re going to get on here
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:22 AM
1

Okay maybe I miss read your post as it sounded like you didn’t have a partner and you’re just planning shit lol. Personally I would just go with the flow if you really think she’s the one wait a few years and you’ll probably learn she’s not, but if she is then great ask her to marry you.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:24 PM
5

A very spectrum mindset. You haven’t even met someone and you’re planning kids with them! Just enjoy yourself go with the flow but don’t marry some random just so you have a dog sitter ffs
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:24 PM
1

Put her in the right direction I.e give her suicide preventions number and a counsellors number (I would send this over email or a text so you have a paper trail of the worst happens). But I would also end the relationship don’t let people drag you down.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:56 AM
2

I don’t have any data on this, so take everything I write with a pinch of salt. But I would say the numbers are more like 70% of men reproduce where probably 85% of women reproduce now. I believe this to be the case because there’s plenty of women who are having upwards of 3 children with different fathers. That still fits in with the general notion of what you’ve said above it’s just changed a bit because of society morals etc. I’ll give an example as I think you’ll understand better. Let’s say…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:50 AM
52

Can work to some degree on nights out, but I would be cautious using it over text
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:58 PM
13

😂 this is asktrp though
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:33 PM
1

The say it how it is contradicts with most of your other points. Unfortunately I don’t have much time right now to delve in deeper. You’re on the right track, just understand there isn’t a correct answer for every situation as you progress with TRP everything will become a lot more natural for you and you won’t need this list to help you
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:57 PM
1

I don’t think you’re getting shit tested, I think she is weighing you up against the other guy. I feel like for whatever reason you think you’re special to her? This isn’t me insulting you, it’s a genuine question I want you to ask yourself and answer. Do you want an answer I haven’t given you!? She’s 100% into you she was only telling you she wants to meet the other guy because she’s so into you and wants to make you jealous (shot test). Make sure she knows your jealous and act very aggressive …
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:51 PM
15

Did you just show weakness?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:38 PM
1

Lift... But in all seriousness you’ve got some good starting points, but a few seem to contradict each other. Maybe keep it more simple like: Am I giving 100%? Do I need to engage?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:36 PM
3

Yes, also if their fathers are betas etc
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:23 PM
5

What’s your question?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:22 PM
1

Maybe but most guys are desperate and will take any vagina on a plate so I guarantee one of you if not both will sleep with her if she puts out. Also she might just like the attention and is making you joust with him so she can get the winner; who knows? I’ll tell you what I do know though is this girl is bad news, soft next her and stop letting her be the prize you’re the prize. Show her you don’t engage in jousting for pussy as you have abundance and you’re the prize
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:19 PM
1

She’s newly single, she wants to ride the cock carousel. It’s up to you if you want to be one of those cocks, just don’t get hooked on her. Always remember it’s just your turn, especially in this situation. I would simply wait till you see her next and then try something. If you’re not going to see her for awhile just leave her to it
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:03 PM
1

I think it depends on the age of the the person that they’re trying to attract. For example a 25 year old 10/10 will be more attractive to a 21 year old woman then a 10/10 35 year old but a 27 year old woman would probably prefer the 35 year old. At the end of the day it’s all relative, stop being so aut and thinking just because x=y that y will =x
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:20 PM
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No girl wants to fuck lonely Larry, so you need to make male friends first. Join a society or a sports team or talk to people at work
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:14 PM
1

Literally doesn’t matter that much, I would rather less for obvious reasons but it would just be another part of the decision in deciding to LTR her. Also you don’t want really low as she might want to experience what the world has to offer.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:12 PM
13

Okay I’m going to be little bit blunt here so if you don’t want to read it stop now! You’re a loser and you like feeling sorry for yourself. But that doesn’t mean you have to be a loser nor should you feel sorry for yourself. Your life decisions and (a tiny) bit of fate got you where you are. You clearly need to make some life changes and maybe start by not drinking for a month, lifting and reading the TRP sidebar content. If you stay dedicated you will slowly (the key word is slowly) start to s…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:50 PM
1

We’ll find for ignoring her, you could also amplify by jokingly explaining how its very hard to have abs while bulking
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:28 PM
10

This is a great example of word vomit
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:02 PM
5

Just tell her English isn’t your first language and then try your best. She’ll probably be impressed you can speak multiple languages
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:44 PM
1

Join a local sports team or if sports aren’t your thing join a society
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:42 PM
2

Well What countries are you talking about? but most western university cultures will be the same. Looks are important so dress well and lift
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:36 PM
5

Alphas at college parties tend to be the athletes while in college societies they tend to be the richest and/or smartest
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:47 AM
6

Yeah that would probably make her dick limp, but if that’s the way you swing I definitely wouldn’t skip the make up
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:21 AM
8

Saying there’s not going to be a next time will turn her off as you’re showing her you don’t think she’s important. Also if you’re as high value as you say then she’ll want to get ready so I would give her warning in advance. Girls will meet up with but won’t dress up for an orbiter and won’t meet an alpha last minute because they need to get ready
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:19 AM
3

I agree with this completely, however I’ve got many female friends I would sleep with but choose not to because I have more than enough plates that I don’t need to go round ruining friendships. I did sleep with one of my close female friends and the friendship did dwindle out. I think my line was we’re both attractive and like sex why don’t we become fwb lol
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:17 PM
1

Yeah I think you’re right with the boyfriend vibe. She called me out on it mid sex saying no way have you just slept with X girls and for some retarded reason I said yeah you’re right and then she asked me my real n count later. Do you think I should wait till I can actually meet her or or message her sooner while it’s still hot?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:20 PM
13

What’s the point in getting involved in this unnecessary drama. Just delete the number and end it at that, there’s an abundance of women that don’t come with boyfriends (especially boyfriends that know about you lol). If you get involved with this drama it screams beta as you clearly don’t have enough going in in your life
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:49 PM
2

She’s doesn’t want be treated like a slut, so If you’re happy to go there meet her out for a drink or two and then takeover back to yours. You want sex, she wants validation. Give her what she wants
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:45 PM
3

Parties or bars if you have a classic alpha look and stand out, clubs and societies if you don’t so you can use your charm a little more
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:52 PM
1

I mean if you think they just wanted a FWB then it’s the same issue your weren’t a sex god, so they’re going to see what else is on offer. Don’t take it personally, it was just your turn. In your case I would recommend getting a LTR and so you can practice having sex with the same girl (I rarely recommend LTRs). After a year or so you should understand how to make a girl tick and hopefully can keep your plates spinning.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:22 PM
6

You let her control the frame, you should have ignored what she said or amplified it. Just forget that happened because that was a small L for you, hopefully she didn’t notice she scored a tap in. Just tell her you’re going to the movies with her and stop being so sensitive.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:15 PM
2

Yeah why not she seems keen, maybe go on a date and make your intentions clear. If she’s DTF great, if not soft next her
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:08 PM
6

What I think is happening is you’re doing everything well and the issue is because you give off boyfriend vibes. What I mean at that is you’re not bad at sex but you’re not a sex God with a 7.5+ dick, you’re good looking, in shape and have shit going for you. I think the girls want to LTR you and since you’re not down for one they leave. So to answer your question they’re not leaving FWB because you’re bad at sex, they’re leaving it because your average at sex and they want you as a boyfriend. I…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:06 PM
1

I’m in a similar situation, but my issue is I’m the one who’s busy. The way I’m playing this is no contact for the time being and I’ll message her either just before I fly home or I’ll message her when I get back asking if she wants to meet on x date? So if I was you message her two days from when you want to meet and avoid random messages
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:56 PM
11

Step 1) get some money Step 2) buy a device that can get the Netflix app Step 3) download the Netflix app Step 4) open Netflix app Step 5) pick something to watch Step 6) chill Hope this helps I really struggled my first time as well
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:32 PM
1

FUCK SAKE YOU THINK WAAAAYYYYY TOO MUCH
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:19 AM
0

That literally made me feel sick (I thought about going down on a 40 year old). On a side note enjoy yourself and lose that V plate
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:15 AM
2

You probably looked weird by sending her a passive aggressive test when you don’t know her that well and you could have spoken to her in person
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:48 AM
2

Isn’t the simple thing if you’re scared of gay guys don’t work in a gay bar? Your job as a bartender is to serve drinks and make sure everyone is having a good time part of that is flirting with customers!
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:10 PM
8

Wow what a mature alpha response, please teach me your ways. How’s the closet?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:24 AM
8

Trust me they prefer it if you’re straight, they like a challenge. Just make sure you flirt and have a good time
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:25 PM
17

When I worked in a gay bar I would get more than double my pay in tips
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:20 PM
4

Ask why she doesn’t have to wear uniform (special privileges) make a joke about it and play dumb. Then tell her you’re joking but wanted to come say hi, introduce yourself (read the vibe) and if the vibe is good ask for her number
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:32 PM
0

Sorry bro but if it’s been a LTR for two years she’s 99% not loyal
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:27 PM
7

Maybe don’t deactivate, as it does have its uses. But I would recommend reducing how much you use it
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:29 AM
6

Here’s some validation
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:29 AM
1

Greece is a different country with a different culture to America, Britain, Canada, Australia etc. I think it’s a little bit more old fashioned where it is first come first serve, if you speak to the women first and she likes you that’s how you win. So maybe SMV doesn’t have as much to play in rural parts of Europe, or maybe SMV is defined in different ways in Greece (social/family hierarchy might be more important?). I’m just spit balling tbh, I’ve only been to Greece once and that was Crete so…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:39 AM
1

For one night stands I think it’s fine to become the chad of her dreams and a few white lies don’t hurt anyone. However for plates I would avoid lies
/r/askTRP01/11/18 08:33 PM
18

You acted like a child and got grumpy because she wouldn’t have sex with you. Next time say cool, then make an excuse as to why you have to leave and leave. That way you still keep your plate spinning. You’ve basically just grabbed your plate and smashed it on her head. Better luck next time
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:57 PM
7

She was probably just looking for you to validate her, you did, the end.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:39 PM
16

Yeah just ignore him, don’t engage with betas
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:43 PM
2

Ritalin, modafanil and adderall are the only ones I’ve seen people take and work
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:38 PM
3

I would share your idea but in a very rough format, most people won’t steal your idea because most people are lazy as fuck and can just about do a 9-5
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:36 PM
54

This sounds like some attention seeking behaviour on your part and I would recommend against it
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:01 AM
1

It’s like 5 inches, https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:40 PM
4

You’re above average so I wouldn’t worry, and trust me you’re the only one thinking about it. Most girls don’t have a clue what size your penis is, everything’s average unless it massive or tiny
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:39 PM
6

You’re just a sad little attention seeker, no one likes you, no one will ever like you
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:33 PM
12

Just shut the fuck up retard, you’re the type that give TRP a bad name
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:27 PM
1

I meant relatively heavy for himself, so he can do say 8rX3s with proper form. There’s no point in doing half of what you can lift it’s just going to slow you down in the long run, it’s the same as lifting really heavy weight but you can’t lift it for more than 4 reps
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:59 AM
2

He means do more reps and sets instead of lifting really heavy weights. But if you’re starting out I would personally go heavy (with proper form) find the area you’re comfortable with and then start upping your stamina with more reps and sets. There’s so much information on the internet though, you’re better just typing your questions about the gym into google.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:58 AM
8

It’ll really help with your abundance mentality, so if you find her attractive enough to sleep with her go for it. It’s a dog eat dog world, but be upfront and honest with her that you’re just fwb.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:45 AM
4

Protein! Take some simple sugars straight after you workout as well
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:33 AM
23

Yeah that’s some beta shit, he was just helping and you took that as he might be trying to steal your girl lol And I would have said thanks to him, then probably take her home
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:04 AM
1

At the end of the day if they don’t know the guy, then he doesn’t owe him anything. The girl is the cheat and therefore should get all the blame. The most I would do is let the guy know, so he doesn’t waste his time
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:26 PM
1

I mean I personally would never delete anything that’s been up for a while, if anyone comments on it just laugh at yourself. I’ve got some weird pictures from when I was younger, but it’s funny and normally a girl might will send them to me and it can normally start a good chat and show that I’m not insecure. But I would do whatever makes you most comfortable
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:14 PM
1

The intelligent investor by Benjamin Graham Understanding Wall Street by Jeffrey little The essays of warren buffet But also if you want a challenge find Econometric Theory and Methods
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:12 PM
1

Sorry mate I’m studying investment banking, so wouldn’t know. Literally you picked the area I’ve got the least knowledge in haha. But I presume people skills will be important so maybe read some books on that?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:57 PM
1

The only one that actually cringes me out and top tier girls will also cringe at is the 3rd one when you’re smoking, glasses on, looking into the distance and the belt is dead mate lol. But get on tinder you’ll definitely get some matches
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:55 PM
1

What area of banking are you going into? It’s a massive industry
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:49 PM
7

Yeah girls will like you, you do look a bit try hard though which top tier girls can see through
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:48 PM
0

Personally I would fuck her, and anonymously message him letting him know she’s cheating and link him to TRP so we can’t help him out
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:11 PM
1

I meant it terms of modelling lol. I didn’t structure my sentence well
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:58 PM
1

Yeah I had an offer of being a model or going to university (I chose university) when I was younger so I’m naturally very good looking, little bit short at 6ft. But I was socially retarded when it can to girls, always tried to be Prince Charming worked a few tunes but always led to getting so many shit tests. Now I’ve adopted the red pill philosophy my life’s going on amazing directions, I’ve managed to secure three top tier graduate job offers, I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been, mentally hav…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:24 PM
3

I don’t think we’ve met before trolololol
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:59 PM
1

The psychological reasons are massive and I don’t have the time to completely explain, but yes ego will almost always definitely play a part in this mindset. We are always told to work harder and we will reap the rewards, however when dealing with people it’s a whole new ball game
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:07 PM
3

Just forget her, we always want what we can’t have but part of really becoming red pill is about stopping that childish/beta mentality. Oh mum said I can’t have sweets, I really want sweeeeets. But you can have chocolate, go get yourself some chocolate boy
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:40 AM
1

She definitely ain’t a 5/10 or 6/10, I would you’re rating relative to yourself. A 5 or 6 out of ten should still be attractive enough when sober. 5/10 is average 6/10 is above average. Maybe just meet her and practice your chat game and leave it at that. But from the sounds of it you need to hit the gym and start improving in other areas.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:58 AM
17

Don’t pay for sex you absolute BETA
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:15 AM
1

Says yes and tell her why? If she can’t change or has no plan to change, end it
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:17 PM
2

Sounds like you’re on the right track and overcoming your insecurities, so keep doing what you’re doing! Also if you stutter just ride it out, literally no one will care unless they see panic in your eyes.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:46 PM
0

Maybe stop taking drugs and learn how to function without them before you start pursuing women. I think you don’t understand TRP your supposed to make yourself the best man that you can be, not learn how to sleep with women that’s just one part of it.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:14 PM
7

Walk up to them, say hi, cry, shit yourself. Get a pitty fuck, works every time
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:56 PM
1

Fap if you want, just don’t let it control you. If you’re horny and you don’t have anyone that will fuck you, then you fap. It’s pretty simple, don’t over complicate things.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:52 PM
1

I mean I don’t think you’ll meet many natural alphas in drag racing. But at the end of the day do what makes you happy and be the best at whatever that is.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:50 PM
4

Join a sports team
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:45 PM
1

Yeah that’s fine
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:25 PM
1

Well that’s fair game if you speak to multiple girls she should be able to speak to multiple guys. Stop getting so caught up on one girl
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:24 PM
1

To be your girlfriend? Or on a date?
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:22 PM
1

If she’s playing the field, you should be playing the field stop being an orbiter
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:05 PM
4

Don’t wait text her now
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:03 PM
1

Very nice
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:53 PM
2

Literally be honest there’s nothing worse than having a psycho shouting at you when you know the only reason she’s shouting at you is because you lied. When she asks ‘where is this going?’ say it could go anywhere, I’m enjoying myself and do like you but I’m concentrating on improving myself at the moment so don’t want to over commit to anyone as that would be unfair.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:53 PM
1

Completely agree don’t engage in shit like that
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:43 PM
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Don’t overthink things! Text her when you want an answer, which sounds like now. So send her a text confirming where you want to go and the time, then go see her.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:41 PM
4

People are different bro, do what you enjoy and do it to your best. If you’re socially awkward at parties don’t go to parties. It’s pretty simple
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:10 PM
57

One mans 9 is another mans 5
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:05 PM
14

Just say no, it’s controlling behaviour
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:38 PM
1

I would normally introduce myself, then ask to dance (this is when you should see if she’s interested depending on how she dances with you), then go get a drink or not if she’s not interested, as you’re waiting for the drink make the conversation sexual, then once you’ve nearly finished your drinks tell her you should find somewhere more fun I.e. your house.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:26 PM
1

I get what you mean, I only go for smart girls as well. But I don’t talk to them much about what they study on the night out, I might ask them once what they do and maybe make a light joke about it. I might even chat to them about it in the morning, but at night I’ve got one thing on my mind and want her to have the same thing on her mind so it’s best not to distract her or yourself.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:14 PM
1

London’s a great city to get laid in especially if you have an accent and can bullshit. If you’re only there for a few days, become chad and make up a good story (money).
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:02 PM
1

Sounds like you friend zoned hard when talking about politics etc. She was probably was just lonely and needed someone to talk to, that was you. Also you payed for all her drinks without any confirmation of anything.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:58 PM
5

You meet other red pilled men by becoming a red pilled man. Go to college, play a sport get a good job. You’ll quickly meet other strong men who can help you in your journey as you will help them.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:51 PM
1

I did regret saying it in that way as it does look like I’m just at home doing nothing. If she does message me I’ll just tell her I’m busy. I think my issue is since splitting up with my LTR I’ve been very successful (partly due to TRP) and almost every girl I’ve approached or has approached me has worked in the way I wanted. So this girl playing hard to get has confused me a bit and needed further help. She’s also told her girlfriends not to flirt with me when I know a few of them are intereste…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:53 PM
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I have read the sidebars on my main account. I’m just looking for advice on my specific situation
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:51 AM
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