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| 47 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness still | Conversation | CancelTraining7677 | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 08:53 PM |
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| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillSorry but how does a guy actually demonstrate that quality? It's a nice thing to say but it sounds quite vague. I'm not saying there's no way of knowing if a guy can look after a child or not but for the most part I think this situation is very tricky and I don't know a single guy who would do that. Showing yourself to be a nice enough guy not to dump someone with a child... It seems irrelevant in the context of western society where most guys if anything come across as completely harmless. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillHahaha ok bro good luckkkk | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYeah I agree. Christians put far too much thought into whether one should have or not have sex before marriage, practically everyone did it before, when you meet someone you fancy and it's mutual it's practically impossible to wait. Game is about just being a man I think. I'm not sure I see any tests anymore, I barely notice shittests, maybe I'm above all of that or maybe I'm oblivious and should pay attention, I can't really tell. Regardless good stuff happens with girls sometimes and it's not … | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 03:59 PM |
| 0 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillThat stuff seems a little weird to me. You can't decide what kind of relationship you want with a woman from the moment you meet her, you don't even know her yet. These things develop as your relationship develops and can go in many directions. I think a woman would find such questions quite uncomfortable to be honest and i doubt she'd be able to answer them honestly. You shouldn't close off the possibility of a full relationship occuring, you should be open to it with every woman you meet, and … | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillJesus is the truth. Yes I know this. But I'm not the greatest Christian and I find it hard to date and stay within Christian morality, I'm not sure how a Christian should deal with sex before marriage. I'm not sure how a Christian could apply game, I doubt many women would be down to wait until marriage | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 01:32 PM |
| 3 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYeah it's a community mostly of people who haven't figured it out yet, giving bad advice, I fully agree with you, i mean this is a public forum where anyone can post so its expected. The best thing is conversation and self reflection no one here should be prescribing a practical education. Owen Cook still has problems in my opinion and we can't know exactly what he is because he only presents himself to us when he's marketing to us and we don't know about his private life. But he seems to me lik… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 10:33 AM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillMaybe I need a break yeah. Well I have a lot of work to be getting on with. another issue is my libido is through the roof right now and I can't calm it down lol so naturally the girls are on my mind | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 09:08 AM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYeah I probably do need to get back to relating to women better. As I said it's been a cyclical journey I have had really good times and really bad times, so I know already how to relate to women I'm just currently doing some things the wrong way. As for studying inner game I think the problem is the words these coaches use, what does "non neediness" mean exactly? The language is vague and the solution is often even more vague. We need to be clearer with our language. Non neediness could be bett… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 09:03 AM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillOk, I might consider it. I did once do some work with a life coach type thing which really helped. It's nice to talk to a person though, costs a smal fortune however | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillWell yeah naturally that does happen. Although less and less these days. I have basically mastered the first impressions and can get numbers with ease. After that though I run into a problem. Maybe I'm not always feeling up to it on these dates, I have been on dates and just felt tired and unmotivated, not excited and happy like I used to be. And I feel complacent. I have probably got too many negative ideas about women at this point and have lost patience and care. I can't be bothered, I'm tire… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillMaybe. I'm not gonna pay for it though. Reddit posting and getting feedback and self reflection seems good enough | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 08:20 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYes but it depends on the context. Initially men have to approach. On a few occasions I have had girls come to me and do all the work. But most of the time I don't like those girls that much but I just sleep with them anyway, some of these girls are ok, atleast for one night. But the girls I want, The girl I see that I like the look of, she is out there minding her own business and i need to be the one who approaches her. I think that's just how that is | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?He just wanted you for sex. But also you could ask him but don't even expect a response or a good response, but you might get lucky and get one. Just forget about it and move on it is not the right thing for you | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 07:31 AM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillAh yeah... Don't let any of these narratives make you paranoid, things are the way they always have been, just perhaps a little more exaggerated and due to the media putting this stuff in our face all the time we notice them a lot more. Ignore it all It's all journalists white knighting for girls, girls have always been able to get what they want in this way and now there's the media that gives them it | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillGreat, probably accurate. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYeah I'm detoxing on the woman hate as I realise it is all fundamentally a lie, I understand what women are a lot better now. Yeah I see guys in their 40s do really well, I mean if your options are girls in their 30s and 40s then it's understandable because those girls are needier. "Seduce without being an ass"? I get very mixed results, and I run things on vibe mostly, no canned lines, so it's hard for me to describe what I'm actually doing. Things work with some girls and don't with others....… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillOk.. so I should show that I can look after a girl more? Sure that's true, but I don't wanna put in the cash or the time to be honest, things are very expensive these days and I have one of those jobs that requires a lot of hours, a girl is the last thing I need to be honest. I don't expect a Disney relationship, I know none of it is easy. I'm just starting to wonder if a relationship is right for me at all, at least in this stage in my life. I have had dozens of dates and met dozens of great wo… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillRight. Except it's better to just "like" plenty of them at once so that chasing them seems counterproductive. Meaning, you need to know deep within you that there are so many girls out there who are into you, that if it doesn't work with 1 or 2 of them then there's another two or three options you could go for. You gotta have that kind of confidence and you should, because fundamentally it is true, yes men chase women but women also chase men especially when we've got things locked down well. Yo… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 05:59 AM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillTell me, Have you ever pulled a girl without saying anything at all? With just pure vibe? If not then you don't understand what I mean about inner game being more important | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 05:38 AM |
| 3 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillOk.. you don't get it | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | She invited me to her house, how do I escalate ?You don't have to do anything bro just chill she'll probably do all the work. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillRight. I'm beyond thinking I need to "seduce" anyone in order to find what I'm looking for | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:16 PM |
| 3 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillI've been considering martial arts but ok thanks for the recommendation I'll check it out! | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:06 PM |
| 5 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillNo bro, that stuff is beyond the point Game is 90% inner work | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillCasually dating for lays is also a massive time sink if you're dedicated to your career. Guys who work hard might desire companionship and loyalty more than anything, we dont have the time to dance around and attempt a silly ONS. Companionship and loyalty is ideal because it's actually more efficient, the girl is there long term! But she needs to be well behaved, so you have to chose the best one or else she's going to drive you insane and productivity will go down. Where are the good girls? | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillExactly. Well here's the thing, after many years I don't find one night stands very satisfying anymore so something long term is what I desire now. But I see many men in old age struggle with their wives, and the older they are the worse it is.. this is an eternal problem, many men are just hard to domesticate and don't conform too well to things like that, I might be one of those types of guys. Some of the greatest men in history have been unmarried or even celibate (altho many great men also h… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillI actually look good and body fat is 10%. Have had a couple lays with very little effort. I could be cockier though that's a good idea but that works for one night stands only. Anything longer than that and it doesn't work | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:38 PM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillEssentially this is the thing. Women are not there for you. They are not trying to chase you. Everything happens on their watch not ours. The dark triad (like direct violence) historically does not work. Why would we do all of this, have all these forums, if we had the upper hand? I'm not ready to blame this on academic feminism, for the most part girls are just behaving as natural as ever. We appeal to their nature, they are the immovable object that has a nature and that doesn't change, we are… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYeah maybe you're right maybe I just hate myself, that might be it. Will think on it | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | When did women gain so much leverage?Theyve always had leverage! Men chase. Women also chase. But men have always chased more! | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillLooks are great, I look like a guy who looksmaxxes but doesn't. Money, yeah I could do with more. I think I just don't want to wait around longer than a day for girls to fuck me, know what I mean? I'm not sure it's a confidence issue I'm just not patient, I want what I want | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillI seem to just want quick results, one night stands are fine but I want regular companionship and loyalty.. But, you know, why should I wait 2 months for that?? | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillObviously. What would you suggest? | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:36 PM |
| 3 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillVery funny ha ha | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:34 PM |
| 3 | 10 years experience with game and dealing with loneliness stillYes, but kindof. I lean on canned stuff and manipulation in certain areas of my game, the rest is mostly all natural and works extremely well. the areas that aren't natural are when I'm with the girl after talking for a week or so and I'm not quite getting the vibe I want from her, usually when things are taking too long to get to sex to be honest. It's my fault as I play a slower game these days, I meet people online, or whilst I'm out and about and it isn't usually appropriate to aim for a ONS… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:20 PM |
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