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So, personally, I wouldn't straight up dump him over some of his old, bad ideas from 13 years ago. From my experience, a lot of men go through cringey phases where they want to be womanizers when they're struggling in relationships before finding stable, healthy relationships. Does he acknowledged it when he is called out for saying sexist things? We've all got subconscious biases, and if he owns up to it when called out (or ast least later) that's a good sign, if not it's kind of a bad sign. Th…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 08:24 PM
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Yo, we ain't hear to judge the person seeking help
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 07:52 PM
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That's pretty disturbing, do you happen to know how old the journal is by chance? It might be some old cringey stuff he got over. Has he displayed any weird, secretive behavior or said sexist stuff in the past? I'm not sure the best way to approach this, sometimes people change, but it's a pretty big red flag
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 07:51 PM
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So, first of all, one group of people being shitty doesn't exactly justify another group of people being shitty. I'm not saying feminism is above criticism, but that doesn't excuse the consistent content from red pill that encourages men to not care about women and use them for sex. I would encourage you to really think about each red pill post you read, and also yourself if these are the people you want to take advice from. Secondly, the criticisms of Feminism you are you using apply to eugenic…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 01:49 PM
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Do people not see then meme/joke in this comment?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 07:23 PM
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Maybe that's what red pill used to be, but it's not anymore. I'm sorry, but I can scroll through that sub any time of day and fine countless posts filled with the most cringy, poorly thought out philosophies from people who desperately want to be seen as an alpha male.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 06:40 PM
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Personally, I've experienced the opposite, but that's just my experience. I would like to point out is that those I've known who do follow red pill and have relationship success often do not practice what they preach
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 03:02 PM
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I think one of the best things you could do would be to talk with her about your anxiety. Long distance is hard, and I know it can go from talking all the time to almost no contact quickly. It's okay to worry when you haven't heard from her in awhile. Maybe you and her could set up specific times to talk Skype (i.e. once a week) Just so you know the two of you are doing okay. Maybe set some boundaries with messaging, and sometimes you just get distracted and forget to respond when you're abroad.…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 04:56 PM
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I see what you're getting at, be it's not necessarily a bad thing to want to go to a place to meet women. You don't have to advertise that it's the main reason you're going. Take yoga for example, I don't think I've ever seen anyone judge guys for going or make assumptions as to why they are there, the teachers and other students tend to appreciate it when men take interest in it. You are right that it going to the activities doesn't necessarily lead to a romance, in fact I think it's smart to l…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 04:44 PM
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So, just a heads up Reddit isn't always the best place for dating advice. So take what people have (including me) to say with a grain of salt. Having your own interests is important, but it is equally important to spend time with some and get to know them. Most relationships I've seen develope over time, they don't just start with a guy randomly asking a girl on a date. What worked for me (it might for you, it might not) is just try to spend a good amount of time with someone you want to date. Y…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 01:18 PM
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Red pill isn't just a subreddit, although that's how it started. It is a toxic philosophy in books and various social media sights. Our goal here is to help people realize the philosophy is toxic, not judge 19 year olds on their maturity
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 12:13 AM
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Please don't try it, she doesn't want to talk with you. Trust me it's not worth it
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 11:56 PM
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I used to be a total douche to this girl a went out with a couple times in High School after she ultimately ended up rejecting me. I know it's really, really tempting to want to reach out and apologize for the things you've done, especially when you realized how toxic you were. My now girlfriend gave me good advice, she was a douchebag to her ex-boyfriend, regretted it and reached out. Reaching out will only either cause more pain or respark their anger and frustration. I'm not saying don't apol…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 11:55 PM
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OMG, "non-pussy getter" you are a legend 🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 10:16 PM
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TL;DR: this is either satire or the guy is asking "why don't we take red pill and replace it with red pill"
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 09:23 PM
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I like charisma on command
/r/ExRedPill29/01/20 06:24 PM
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Being able to comfortably say this was a huge step for me as well. I used to be so obsessed with critising feminism, I would bitch about how it "wasn't inclusive or wasn't about equality" so on an so forth. I didn't take the time to listen to minorities were going through. Now I just say I'm feminist. It's easier, and I realized just how stupid it was to fight over a label (I used to call myself and "equialist," a word I got from the bad guys from legend of Korra). Additionally, I've realized I …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/20 08:06 PM
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