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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 12:51 PM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 10:09 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:59 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 02:29 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:42 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 03:20 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:27 AM
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DebateCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:26 PM
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Candy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:47 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:07 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 04:59 PM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:12 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 04:52 PM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 01:17 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 08:31 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:06 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:56 PM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 08:57 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 05:41 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:15 PM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:05 AM
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DiscussionCandy_Kittens/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:36 PM
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Romance is where you give your heart and soul to the other person. To die for them. To lay down your life for their eternal happiness. The way you express it is up to the person, but you have to express it otherwise it is clear that you are just using your partner as some kind of business deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:35 PM
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Based on what I have read on these forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:19 PM
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A sociopathic fake flirting high n count person could find a relationship with another sociopathic fake flirting high n count person? Impossible. They don't have feelings or a soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:10 PM
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They don't care about ugly people. It is just something they do whilst they are bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:56 PM
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A relationship that isn't just a cold business contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:55 PM
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I fucking hate red pill. It is a disgusting fucking piece of shit belief system. I want to see that fucking red pill belief burn up in a fucking fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:54 PM
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It indicates a sociopathic mind that treats romance as nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:50 PM
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They hate romance. They sleep with fifty people at a time without really caring about them. Because they don't. They have no heart. Whenever they see a flower they do not weep with joy, they crush it with their feet. Smashing it to the ground until it is nothing. Then they ring their other high n count friends and laugh at the havoc they have caused. And that flower? Well it's not a flower. It's an innocent ugly person. And the feet? That is just fake flirting. And the friends? That is the high …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:46 PM
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I didn't say anything about casual sex, just in regards to high n count. Which is over a hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:31 PM
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Which is true. She wants to see ugly people suffer. With her easy run at life and her sociopathic way of destroying ugly people such as myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:17 PM
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I thought that romance was vital for relationships. That it was needed for two people to be together. But now this sub has proven that I am wrong. That you have to be cold and distant to succeed in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:12 PM
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I thought that romance was vital for relationships. That it was needed for two people to be together. But now this sub has proven that I am wrong. That you have to be cold and distant to succeed in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:12 PM
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I would not have believed it myself if it wasn't for this subreddit where some of the high n count sociopaths that post here reveal their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:06 PM
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I do believe that People with high n counts who have had it easy in life wanting to destroy other less beautiful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:56 PM
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I don't think i am insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:41 PM
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You've changed your tune from earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:35 PM
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Beautiful, Sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:32 PM
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I am perfectly sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:31 PM
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I've never had any real interest in prostitutes. Not sure why. Though I suppose it would be interesting to see one. Might make a good story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:30 PM
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I don't collect pokemon. I collect Tina Arena stuff. Truly the greatest singer in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:28 PM
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Yes. By high n count i mean over a hundred souls they have seduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:21 PM
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grooooovy is hereeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:20 PM
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One of the more sensible comments on this thread. Apart from mine of course. You are wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:18 PM
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I do not need therapy. I am not damaged. I am a perfectly sane human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:17 PM
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The kindness of grooovy singing his song just wondering if we can't just get along. here comes the roosters, here comes the crows now we shall see which way the wind blows. schniff schnoof.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:40 AM
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Your changing the definition of incel so broadly that you might as well label anyone who speaks negatively about sex and romance with the label.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:37 AM
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Then I will not see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:20 AM
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Chad and Stacy have had it easy in life. Everything they do gets handed to them on a silver platter. Which is wrong as they, being high n count people, are sociopaths who do not believe in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:19 AM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:17 AM
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I can't be an incel if I am going on a date though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:14 AM
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They hate to see ugly people being happy. They believe only good looking people should be happy in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:09 AM
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My worst nightmare is fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:09 AM
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I'm just looking out for the non chads and non staceys of this world who haven't had an easy run in life unlike some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:07 AM
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I'm not an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:05 AM
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Maybe they need to update their diagnosis of sociopathy? To include people who fake flirt with ugly people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:05 AM
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Thank you for your understanding in my fight against type 1 sociopathic high n count fake flirters. You are a flower in the valley of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:01 AM
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It is impossible for type 1 high n count people to be romantic because they are too scoipathic to do so. Sure, they may pretend to be romantic but they are not really. They only use their good looks to crush the souls of the ugly like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:00 AM
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Just pointing out the truth. But I can be dramatic at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:49 AM
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Only type one high n count people my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:48 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:45 AM
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High n count people want to destroy romance. They do this by fake flirting with ugly people so that the ugly people get their souls crushed and don't believe in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:44 AM
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Some people want to destroy romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:18 AM
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I don't feel bad for them. Not that it matters anyway as the world will be going to hell soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:43 AM
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Those high n count people proving their sociopathy once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 07:26 AM
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You are so right. Pity other people can not see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:10 AM
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What personal issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:53 AM
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It is just the way I feel about the horrible practice of fake flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:39 AM
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Where did you get the stealing bit from? From my stealing chocolate thing? I just meant it as a way of showing the sociopathic ways of type 1. I don't mean that they steal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:34 AM
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I'm jealous of anyone who has an easy run in life and doesn't care about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:33 AM
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I used to believe that until i got onto reddit and realised that romance is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:32 AM
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Nope. There is an art to fake flirting. Beyond just niceness or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:30 AM
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Fake flirting is awful and should be outlawed. But it won't because we live in a world where romance is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:29 AM
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The key to fake flirting is that it is intentional on the part of the flirter. They know they are leading the other person on but they don't care. Also fake flirting does not apply to situations where they are flirting with you in a professional setting to get more money from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:27 AM
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No, that's wrong. It's when the flirter is leading the other person on. It has nothing to do with if they were nice. I have never thought that any woman who was nice to me was flirting with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:24 AM
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Aloof is another word for cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:21 PM
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Aloof is being cold. You probably fake being romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:20 PM
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100.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:20 PM
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America along with the high n count society of sociopaths are trying to ruin romance and love by making it that one must be cold and sociopathic to succeed in life because to them love does not exist at all life is just an endless pit of nothingness and joy and you might as well just get sex whenever you can because emotions or feelings do not matter at all they want to turn bright souls into darkness tears of laughter into tears of sorrow because in their cold black hearts they feel nothing but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 03:45 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:00 PM
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So I'm not a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:59 AM
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Yes. It sickens me. If I was pm of Australia I would outlaw fake flirting. And erect a twenty foot statue of Tina Arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:55 AM
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Good thing you reminded me, I was just about to be social.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:54 AM
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Because she is sociopathic and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:53 AM
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Well I have only been with one woman. So I'm practically a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:53 AM
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I like you, Groovy. You have what we call "spunk".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:32 AM
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Why exasperated? I do not like you. You seem like the type of person I would avoid in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:55 AM
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Hello, have we met before?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:32 AM
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I never said anything about being romantic. But your posts portray a certain type of coldness. I feel icy every time I read one of your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:05 AM
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How high is your n count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:01 AM
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You come across as non romantic and cold to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:00 AM
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I'm far too ugly (non muscular) to be propositioned for NSA sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:59 AM
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Private reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:09 AM
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I just find fake flirting a fascinating concept. Mainly because I could never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:08 AM
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One likes to have the occasional chocolate, the other steals chocolate from other people and eats it by the kilo. Basically the amount of sex they have. A high n count person who is obviously a sociopath and has had over a hundred partners verses a normal person who likes to have casual sex sometimes. And we live in Trump's world now. The time for PC bullshit is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:04 AM
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I would have thought that only attractive men would have a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:57 AM
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They can be upfront, and I can tell them no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:57 AM
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If two people who want this get together then that is cool. I just find that cold and distant. i was just thinking if I was in a situation where someone said that to me what I would say to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:51 AM
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There is a difference between enjoying casual sex and being a sociopathic high n count person who hates romance and love. Also i'm no incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:48 AM
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If someone asked me that i would say no and then i would say fuck off you sociopath fake flirter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:45 AM
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Yeah that is true about women getting laid every night if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:43 AM
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How come? I have to be honest i was mostly thinking of women when i was typing this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:35 AM
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By the first point do you mean compartmentalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:25 AM
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Type one sounds like a sociopath. They are probably cold and distant and hate romance. I have to take note to avoid these type of people to interact with if i want to have a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:25 AM
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What happens if i am dying all alone in the side of the road and the only one that can save me is a random sjw internet feminist tumblr blogger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:19 AM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:15 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:15 AM
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I'd be scared to interact with a high n count person because i would feel not worthy of them. They would be like a different species to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:12 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:42 AM
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He also takes off his top hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:41 AM
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Oh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:33 AM
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Face and ass. 28 White Australia Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:33 AM
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Only you can decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:30 AM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:23 AM
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I don't mind having a low count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:14 AM
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Why would one need sex to be validated?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:12 AM
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What do you mean by luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:08 AM
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Be cold and distant for months than act like a charming flirt for a couple of days. Cycle then repeats itself. Fake flirting for an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 03:15 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhvLG8JD52M
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 03:40 PM
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Because I am normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:07 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:02 PM
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Did I????????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:52 PM
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I am just being me, and there is no one else I would rather be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:34 PM
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Wow. What a stupid post you sexist piece of shit. Check your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:24 PM
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When I say looks I mean a certain standard of muscles. Because without that women will treat you like shit whilst they fuck biker Chad who just got out of prison for robbing a bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:23 PM
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Well sorrry for not being an old misery guts like you. Always insulting me all the time. I don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:17 PM
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Because you are weak. A pathetic weakling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:16 PM
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Yeah, 28. Why is that a problem? And why are you insulting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:15 PM
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Ohhh, only 28 are you? Such a pathetic weakling. How dare you even post this thread Candy Kittens you worthless piece of shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:15 PM
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I am twenty eight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:13 PM
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Yes. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:08 PM
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I wish that I was attractive enough to bitch about dating good looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:52 AM
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I believe in real love too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 10:49 AM
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I'm not deluded. I just believe in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 09:28 AM
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I do think that the slowly growing method is cold and rational. I could never be with someone like that. I would dump them on the spot so they can go out and date other cold and rational people whilst having define the relationship talks with any future dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:25 AM
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That is true. But there are some people who think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 06:41 AM
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That is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 06:11 AM
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That is correct. Cold and robotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 05:47 AM
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I do know the difference. Instant love can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 05:12 AM
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I'm an INFP bonfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 04:02 AM
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I just don't think love should take ages to happen. Anyone who does that is not worth loving in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:39 PM
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You sound cold and unfeeling. You probably only text your friend once a month and cut in line at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:33 PM
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Only once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:18 PM
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I'd be wary that you were a cold and unfeeling robot who hates life itself. And then I would get scared and wear a cross to bed. Besides love that takes that long to happen is love that I don't care for. Like if a woman said that to me on a date I would dump her right on the spot. I don't need unfeeling humans in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:15 PM
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Never. I have the sense of a tiger, the soul of a cloud, and a heart of a lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:10 PM
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Or just has different beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:29 PM
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Instant love does happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:29 PM
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That's a rather narrow way of looking at things. You need to expand your mind and your soul away from cold and unfeeling things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:13 PM
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A person who takes three months in love sounds like a person who hates life itself. A cold and unfeeling human robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:10 PM
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I never said anything about love being based on looks. Love should be instant but deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:05 PM
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I'm just an INFP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:40 PM
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I'm no incel. I am far too optimistic for that kind of rubbish. Love to me should be instant. You should know it straight away. I couldn't be with anyone who takes three months to fall in love. That to me would be a very cold and unfeeling person. And love to me shouldn't be as mechanical or as scientific as a personality checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:31 PM
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That's a rather cold way of looking at things. I want to believe in instant love because a world without that would be a very despondent and boring world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:13 PM
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I do that. Rarely. Like only once. Not all the time. Am I unrealistic? https://www.psychologies.co.uk/love/love-at-first-sight.html
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 02:01 PM
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Or maybe it is just me going by my instincts which have proven to be correct many times?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 01:54 PM
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Is it unrealistic or just a slightly different preference? I'd dump anyone who takes a long time to fall in love because to me it would represent their coldness and distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 01:52 PM
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I want to fall in love instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 01:35 PM
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I think i'm the opposite to you because I don't need time to think about who or what I love. Your way sounds cold and distant. It actually makes me shiver with horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 01:11 PM
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what makes someone bad in bed? is it a bad thing to fall in love too quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 12:51 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 11:18 AM
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I don't care about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 02:12 PM
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Not turned off, but I would raise an eyebrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:49 PM
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100 plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:48 PM
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I don't think that my envy in regards to n-count would be that strong as to ruin any potential relationships. Coldness/distance would be a much stronger one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 12:19 PM
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Strong forearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 01:04 AM
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Yeah, number 3 would be my reason. Especially if I believe they are the same level of attractiveness as me. If it was a really hot woman I would not care. But if it was an average looking woman then yeah I would probably get a little jealous. And then sad that I wasted my life. Because when I hear a high n count (for me over 100) it represents to me fun and experience. Something I'll probably never get. It represents the past. Something i'll never get back. So I guess the reason I am uneasy abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 12:41 AM
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Maybe she was intimidated by your chadliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 12:21 AM
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that's a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 04:42 PM
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Somebody has a gambling addiction....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 03:09 PM
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i've seen posts where that has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 01:41 PM
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I have noticed on this site a lot of posts regarding dating and the father/daughter dynamic. Stuff to do with her taking her date/boyfriend to meet her parents for the first time. With the father showing the guy his gun collection along with some pretty unsubtle hints. And also the fact that it is apparently a tradition to ask the father permission to marry his daughter. I don't know, I mean I guess they want their best for their children like all parents do. But surely there is a better way of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 11:54 AM
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I have only had a physical chemistry reaction with one person in my life. A woman that walks her dog through the park. Every time i pass her my heart starts beating faster and all the other physical chemistry stuff. Like I get so overwhelmed I can hardly speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:18 AM
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Maybe, if you define chemistry in a narrow and short sighted way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:06 AM
1

So if online chemistry doesn't exist why do so many women prattle on in their dating profiles about wanting to find a connection with someone before they meet up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 01:59 AM
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Yeah, you were being pedantic trying to clarify about the word chemistry. There was no need for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:15 PM
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Don't be pedantic. You know what i mean by online chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:08 PM
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Could an incel punch a shark in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 04:03 PM
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I think that there is a much wider scope of what we consider attractive in regards to women than we do with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 11:57 AM
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Reddit seems to be 95% American, so i base my observations through looking at this site. A site that has millions of users. From what I have seen in regards to dating Americans seem to be deliberately confusing and contradictory about what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:38 AM
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I always thought that tolerating awful behavior from people comes from low self esteem and not attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:31 PM
1

Well you sound like a Holocaust denier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 11:27 AM
1

I have never flirted in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:30 AM
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A non-Chad can not change their SMV. It is impossible. They have to learn to live with their awfulness in the wider world, trying not to anger the mighty Chads and Staceys that rule the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 02:28 AM
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I am not debating with you because you are misinterpreting my definition of fake flirting and just applying it to flirting in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 12:37 AM
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I'm from Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:27 PM
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I don't need to answer them because I know I am right, and you know I am right. Fake flirting does happen. To deny that is very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:20 PM
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I am talking about people who fake flirt. I have seen people do it to me and to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:15 PM
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There are people (mostly women) who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:57 PM
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Because they are a messing with a person's emotions for their own twisted benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:35 PM
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I'm talking about a different kind of flirting though. The evil manipulation kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:20 PM
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But there are some people who purposely mislead other people through flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:02 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 03:12 PM
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Seems awful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 03:10 PM
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As someone with Asperger's you take any romantic attention you can get. So finding out that someone is not into you when they gave you indications through flirting that they were then that feels awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:43 PM
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Hey aren't you the same user who was a prostitute for a while? If yes did you notice how that job if any effected your flirting skills? Like did it enable you to become a super master flirter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:34 PM
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I would uneasy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:31 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:29 PM
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Doesn't seem normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:24 PM
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But are they aware that you have no intentions? I personally wouldn't flirt with no intentions. To me that would be dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:12 PM
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Maybe it's normal in your world of Chads and Staceys you normie! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 11:01 AM
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Because they might misread your intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:18 AM
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I define it as fake because of its fake intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 06:06 AM
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You do realize that my definition of fake flirting is where at least one person is convinced in the interaction that if they play their cards right that there could be dating/sex. Your example does not fall under fake flirting because both parties were aware of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:51 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 05:48 AM
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How can it be sexual if both parties knew that there wouldn't be sex? And i am not neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:21 AM
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To me flirting implies something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:05 AM
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It would deflate my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 03:20 AM
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Yeah, that is true about it being more trouble than it is worth. As someone with aspergers I find this whole fake flirting thing fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:53 AM
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It is more to do with the fact that i am not very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:35 AM
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I define fake flirting as misleading flirting. Where one party thinks that there might be dating/sex in the near future if they play their cards right, yet the other party has no intention of either of those things and is just flirting for an ego boost/ getting something from that person. Basically a form of emotional manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:34 AM
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Would you ever do it with someone you just met?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:32 AM
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Fake flirting to me is when you flirt with someone but you have no intention of escalating it into date/sex and the other person is unaware of this. If both people know that it is not real then it does not count as fake flirting. Then it is just some banter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:32 AM
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I know one way to beat the friendzone: be a loner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 01:13 AM
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Most of my influences came from the real world rather than a fictional universe. Though I do admit sometimes I like to pretend that i am one of the characters in the tv show/movie. For fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 01:04 AM
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Only the weak get into fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 12:42 AM
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I believe that, maybe it is because i'm a romantic. I think the problem is people who over estimate their looks, personality, and status in life. They are a 4 who wants an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:21 PM
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But being bad requires more than just a simple personality trait. It has to be innate. It has to be something you have, not just something you can fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 10:41 AM
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One person's average might be another person's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 10:19 AM
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This is the funniest thread ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 02:14 AM
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My feeling on the matter is that I am not going to change who I am just to fill the psychological fantasies of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 12:27 AM
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STOP CONFUSING US WITH YOUR DARK MAGIC MUMBO JUMBO! TRUMP IS IN THE WHITE HOUSE AND WE COULD ALL DIE AT ANY MINUTE IF ALEC BALDWIN DOES ONE SKETCH TOO MANY.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 02:25 PM
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Well I am glad it means that and not criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 02:19 PM
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I have always been confused by the phrase "bad boys". Like do they mean someone with a criminal record? Or someone who portrays a certain rebellious attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 01:20 PM
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Who gives a fuck about Taylor Swift? Tina Arena is where it is at. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jC9Insyzgc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:08 PM
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Yes. I thought everyone did that when looking for a ltr?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 12:27 AM
1

Shame starts from within yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:20 PM
2

I find Selma Hayek attractive and she's like 50. But that is only in the physical sense. I was more thinking of mental and emotional maturity comparable with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:02 PM
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Yes, that is what i meant. Not porn in the literal sense. Just basic sexuality stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 12:42 PM
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Don't be stupid, of course America is prudish about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:10 AM
2

Do you think women portray them that way as a way of not making themselves feel guilty for being attracted to Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:36 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 04:17 AM
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I'm a hetrosexual guy though...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:57 AM
2

I love reading Agatha Christie books. Love it. I also enjoy watching the adaptations of her work in film and television. I could talk about her work all day. However, I would rather date a woman who hates Agatha Christie and doesn't want any children than a woman who loves Agatha Christie but wants children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:10 AM
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What is the wall? Is it like Trump's one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 01:47 AM
2

Not doing fine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 04:56 PM
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All the women are getting seduced, fucked, and relationshipped by Chad whilst all the nerdy virgin losers are acting like entitled jerks. I thought this was common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 04:51 PM
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Yeah, i couldn't imagine dating a 23 year old if i was in my 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:06 PM
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because i'm 28 and would only be willing to go maximum five years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:55 PM
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I would never date anyone under 23 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:28 PM
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But what kind of spark is best? Also i wasn't saying anything about no spark, just wondering if there was too much importance placed on the spark?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:13 PM
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Seems like best friends seems to be a common theme on this thread. Which makes logical sense. Do you think that chemistry can sometimes be over-rated? Like we place too much importance on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 01:29 PM
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I see him as someone not afraid to criticize women. Especially in regards to certain behaviors that they both do and encourage in others. Because it can sometimes seem like if you dare criticize women you are just a nasty redpiller and we won't listen to you, you sexist jerk. Which is of course untrue, but insults are a good protective mechanism for not improving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 12:24 AM
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I'm a sexually unsuccessful man and i do not relate to eastern culture at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 03:26 PM
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Well there is the kind of chemistry where you get on well with someone you just met like you have known them all their lives. And there is the chemistry that is so intense when you first see someone that it overwhelms you and you make you look like a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:50 AM
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Progress in terms of what? Career? Health?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 01:34 AM
4

Pizza is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 01:48 PM
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From women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 07:33 AM
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Wow, that must be an old Cracked article. I can't imagine them writing anything like that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:35 AM
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I've seen some people on reddit claim that the friend zone doesn't exist and that anyone who believes otherwise is obviously both sexist and entitled. Internet feminists: the red pill's greatest recruiting tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 01:42 AM
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I wonder how OP feels about this lol: https://unrealfacts.com/a-woman-had-sex-with-919-men-in-a-day/ ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:42 AM
3

Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:21 PM
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But don't only Chads achieve maximum sexual success? And it is something that comes natural to them? Therefore wouldn't a parent helping their child in this scenario just lead to failure because it would indicate that their offspring was not a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 01:41 PM
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Trump won middle America, Clinton California/NY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:40 AM
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I am not going to pretend to be someone I am not. No woman is worth that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:37 AM
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I'll tell who I like. And i will report who i like. Especially an obvious red pill recruiting user such as herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 02:07 PM
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So you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 08:08 AM
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I have reported your post for offensive content. Hopefully you will be able to learn your lesson and be a bit more civil in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 06:23 AM
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I have reported your post for offensive content. Hopefully you will be able to learn your lesson and be a bit more civil in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 06:23 AM
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I have reported your post for offensive content. Hopefully you will be able to learn your lesson and be a bit more civil in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 06:22 AM
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They only notice Chads. Just Chads everywhere they go. Non-chads to them don't exist on their radar. And who can blame them? Why the fuck would they want to even acknowledge the existence of a non-chad? A disgusting piece of non-chad garbage? Of course they wouldn't, because the deserve to notice all the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 12:17 AM
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Sharona Fleming from Monk. Because she takes no shit yet has a heart of gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:51 PM
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That is correct. They are chads who use their magical powers to convince people that they are just merely betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:47 PM
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Just a bunch of sore losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 02:19 PM
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You can't tell if someone wants to fuck you based on how awkward they are around you. There could be a hundred different reasons that they are acting like that. Not everything has to be sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:59 PM
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That is because you are blind to the ways of the Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 04:33 AM
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I have asperger's and i believe in love and always will. I'm a romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:44 PM
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Those so called beta fucks you see in relationships are just Chads who have learned to adapt to their environment. They use their mystical Chad powers to re-calibrate their thoughts from a Chad to a beta fuck. They may act like beta fucks but they are really Chads. Because as we all know only Chads date. All the rest of us are just virgin nerdy losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:43 PM
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So when you were born you knew about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 09:52 AM
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From what you were saying, from the stuff about your family, it seems that you did realize that. You just chose to not let it consume you in bitterness. I'm just interested to see how posters responded when they realized that life was not fair. Because from reddit i have come to see that some people, mostly males, do not take it all that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 09:21 AM
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I never said it was a big problem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 01:44 AM
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The reason I asked this question was because whenever I see a virgin man complain about his dating life there is always this young woman telling him to shut the fuck off because they have it way worse than him. And to stop acting all fucking entitled you fucking jerk. And they say this even though the man's point is irrelevant to the struggles of a woman. He realizes they have their issues, but he is talking about his problems. So the so called internet feminist shuts down a debate through perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 12:23 AM
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Attractive intelligent young women with great personalities will dump Chad and start going out with virgin nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 12:19 AM
1

Alistair and Judith from As Time Goes By
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:56 AM
1

I wish I was a beautiful high n count man. Or a seagull.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:49 AM
1

So basically, a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:44 AM
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One cannot merely "become" Chad. No, one must simply chosen to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 03:52 PM
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Sex is a pretty integral part of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xe1a1wHxTyo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 01:58 PM
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What is the point of trying if chad will date all the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 08:31 AM
1

"Be yourself" catch cry of the Chads and Staceys of this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 07:59 AM
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I don't think I have ever really believed this lie. No matter what pop culture or my education tried to tell me. I mean I have two eyes. I'm not stupid. I knew that there were certain personality types that would be more attractive to women. but i wasn't going to change who I was just to get empty validation from a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 03:09 PM
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I could tell a story to someone I don't know well. But small talk would be torturous to me. That is because when I am telling a story I am in control of the social situation for those brief couple of minutes. But small talk? Then there are a thousand different things i have to concentrate on. You are right that most people tell terrible stories. For me I have found that Toastmasters has helped me with my stories because it forces me to get straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:11 AM
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I find travel stories ten times more boring than a critique of a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:37 AM
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I can tell a story. I can also tell a joke. But i am an introvert who has aspergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:37 AM
1

I thought you had to be a Chad to have sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 11:25 AM
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become a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:42 AM
1

I can tell a great story. Problem is I can only do so after practicing telling that story a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:41 AM
1

I wish i knew some sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:37 AM
1

Ah ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 12:19 AM
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Don't be silly. Only Chad has sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:11 PM
1

So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 12:10 PM
1

It is insane, and an insult to the feminist movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:51 AM
1

I can't become a chad anyway because my Asperger's makes social interactions difficult. Sure i can and have improved, but it will never be as good as a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:50 AM
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I was talking about her music. And of course i'm a misogynist, i'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:39 AM
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Did that happen? Shit. I didn't know. I thought she just left.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:26 AM
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Ha. That reminds me of that reddit post a couple of weeks ago of that guy who put his coat down on a puddle whilst on a date and his date bailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:19 AM
1

So true. If it wasn't for Tina Arena I would see no point in even existing. Or doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:18 AM
1

Ohhh. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:06 AM
1

Maybe it is because of loneliness, or self esteem issues on behalf of the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:02 AM
1

What can us non-chads do to make the chads life better?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 11:00 AM
1

I heard that Chads can shoot blue lightning from their fingers and walk on water.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:59 AM
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Us non-Chads are the trash. No, wait. Trash is too good for us. We are the litter on the ground. Pathetic pieces of trash floating in the wind whilst all the Chads rule the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:49 AM
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It means that Chads rule the world and always will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:28 AM
1

i meant friends with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 09:21 AM
1

so true. wish i had learnt it earlier. then i could just be friends with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 08:16 AM
1

I actually think us men are far more weaker than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:20 AM
2

So true. Reading reddit has opened my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:18 AM
1

Everything is worth it for a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:17 AM
1

Then they go off to laugh at that nerd Englebert for being such a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:17 AM
1

For the chadly Chads of Chadstone Street?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:05 AM
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Not undesirable to me. But I must confess if it is a huge number (triple figures) I would probably raise a silent eyebrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:46 PM
1

why desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 10:48 AM
1

how does he become secure?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 05:36 AM
5

Who or what is Teachman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:37 AM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:30 AM
2

Why? Can't you have faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:30 AM
3

that is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 03:24 AM
2

I think standards are a great thing as long as they are clearly communicated at the start of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:21 PM
1

I could understand like a massive discrepancy. That is mental torture. But a small one is just not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:18 PM
2

Most advice here is so vague as to be useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:17 PM
1

Who says it is a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 06:20 AM
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"Love yourself and you'll get seven dates a week like me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 04:51 AM
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I laugh when they give advice to us ugly people. It is usually very vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 04:22 AM
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Difficult for ugly men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 02:14 AM
3

Men here seem to define slut as any woman that has sex more than them. Even if it is only by a couple of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 12:55 PM
2

Nothing at all. Unless you are a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:30 PM
1

Why is it weak to reject someone? We do it all the time, and for reasons more absurd than n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:41 AM
1

I enjoyed that Beastie Boys scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:13 PM
1

The only thing i am high on is life...and possibly skyscrapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:12 PM
1

what did you think of the latest star trek movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:27 AM
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i don't know, i'm not a scientist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:15 AM
1

What if it was Chad McChaderson himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 09:56 AM
2

I just think if you are thinking about dating someone and you found out their sexual history by them telling you, then you would be well in your rights not to date that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:18 AM
2

that is way too broad a definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 07:06 AM
1

They don't have to be ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:58 AM
2

To a low n-count man, a high n-count woman is like holding up a mirror to their sexual failings. A reflection of regrets in their past of doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:00 AM
1

I thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 12:19 AM
1

Why tragically low?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 12:18 AM
1

I like the varied responses thus far. Interesting that I seem to be the only one who enjoys the MILF stuff. Not sure what it says about me. And by MILF i mean someone like Julia Ann.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:07 PM
1

People here talk about n counts freely so I see no reason why they would be shy about porn habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:03 PM
1

The word crazy can mean a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:43 AM
1

i'm so glad my mum has never done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:23 AM
2

Dating several people at once is mind blowing to me. Still, your comment really needs to be bestof'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:11 AM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:14 AM
2

Ohhh ok. Interesting, thank you for that. Being both non American and inexperienced this is all a fascinating learning curve for me. My observation so far is that people make dating far more difficult than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:41 AM
2

Most of the pornstars that i enjoy kind of look like her body shape. Though obviously in real life i am not that picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:00 AM
1

Was that an American or international custom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 06:59 AM
1

No, sorry. I have noticed browsing on reddit that the topic of exclusivity talk sometimes comes up. As in when and how you should talk to the person you are dating that you should just be dating each other and not other people. I was just wondering how this came about. Like did people who dated each other like a hundred years ago assume that the other person was probably dating other people too and that they needed to have a talk to see if they were on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 06:49 AM
3

How the fuck is Iskra Lawrence chubby? Also i much prefer that type of build than the thin one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 06:45 AM
6

I consider anything over a hundred to be a high n count. Why? Because I can. Having sex with a new person I suppose. I don't know, but in truth this isn't really about her, it is about my insecurity. Insecurity about my own sex life combined with such a huge disparity of sexual experience that I feel we are speaking different languages and therefore incompatible in forming a relationship. I really don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:50 AM
3

Because they are in control and take charge. They know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 04:54 PM
4

Fuck yeah there are tons of attractive women in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 04:51 PM
2

OP is not referring to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:07 PM
2

I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 01:28 PM
1

My aspergers probably also doesn't help with the inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:23 PM
1

I am 28 but very inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:07 PM
1

Huh, that is interesting. Even though I am Australian I seem to approach dating in that kind of attentive courtship way. I don't think I could be informal. But obviously I would only do that if the woman i was dating enjoyed that. If she didn't then we would probably not see each other anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 11:53 AM
1

What other differences did you find between how that American viewed dating and Australians (i am Australian)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 11:41 AM
1

high n count people should be with other high n count people where they can be awesome together. whilst the low n count people like me should hang our heads in shame and be grateful that we are allowed to even exist on this planet. oh high n count people you are glory, you are life! we bow down to your greatness! please forgive us for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 09:30 AM
1

I fully agree with your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 05:07 AM
1

thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:47 PM
1

oh well the only exercise i do is walking. i am addicted to junk food. i crave it every day. i found that listening to her was like a replacement for those cravings for the time being. that enabled me to eat less junk food and lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:33 PM
1

i know. i lost about 83 pounds (38kg) a couple of years ago by listening to singer Tina Arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:26 PM
1

by more attractive do you mean like more muscular? also when i say unattractive i mostly mean fat/obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:18 PM
1

Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:10 PM
1

Holy fuck you have an Apple Watch? Awesome! What kind of cool stuff does it do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:51 PM
1

in terms of smv i don't rate women or myself by numbers. i divide them by attractive and not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:50 PM
1

that's because he realizes he could never improve his smv, no matter how hard he tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 03:22 PM
1

he doesn't feel like he has been robbed or that he deserves a relationship. his envy comes from a place of self loathing and regret. not entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 02:43 PM
1

But guy B does not believe he is deserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 01:06 PM
1

They don't feel that they deserve sex. In fact they feel the opposite. And if you do feel entitled to something then it indicates a certain amount of arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:29 AM
1

I do understand it though. It is the people who use that word when referring to virgin or inexperienced people (mostly men) that do not understand the word. They use that word in the hope of shutting down debate and belittling people for being different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:17 AM
1

Yes it does, it does mean arrogance. You can't be not arrogant and also entitled. So therefore I do understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:01 AM
1

I just thought that they used the word entitlement in entirely the wrong context. Which showed a severe lack of understanding about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 09:37 AM
1

Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 09:31 AM
1

Entitlement is arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 09:15 AM
1

I think that if someone is entitled then they have lots of confidence, maybe a little too much. They have this expectation that they should get what they want. Which does not correspond with guy number B who is clearly lacking in any confidence at all. Guy b has no expectations at all about deserving a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 05:49 AM
1

I'm not defending their actions, merely pointing out that your use of the word entitled is not appropriate in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 01:45 AM
2

Well I have never been on red pill so I have no idea if they would complain about that. However from the posts by the red pillers on this subreddit I can see that they are already fully aware of this situation. Besides it is a bit of a logic leap to think that someone is complaining because they feel that they are owed something. People complain for all sorts of reasons. And I think in this case what other people may perceive as complaining is just a man emotionally expressing himself. Which as …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 12:38 AM
1

But they don't believe that they are owed anything, therefore they do not feel entitled to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 11:56 PM
1

No ugly or plain guy is as successful with women than someone who is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 11:43 PM
1

What you just wrote has nothing to do with entitlement though, just frustration. Frustration at the world that they are living in at this moment. They do not think that they are owed anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 11:38 PM
2

They are a requirement for most people on this planet i would say. Also if you have bad genetics it is kind of impossible to become good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:41 PM
2

Looks matter a great deal, everyone knows this. Especially with dating But that is so obvious that I wonder why I need to point that out to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:33 PM
2

Please, of course he is good looking. An ugly guy would certainly not be very successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:26 PM
2

Entitlement in this context is an emotionally evocative word. Really designed not to do anything at all. These people don't feel entitled. They don't feel like they are owed anything at all. Anyone who thinks that these kind of people come from a place of entitlement has really no understanding of the issue, or so blind by their first week university type of thinking that they fail to see the truth. For you see guy b does not cry because he feels entitled. He cries because he is a human. With th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:24 PM
1

if we logically conclude that the man who is very successful with women is good looking, then Guy A (unless he too is good looking) and definitely Guy B do not make any sense at all. in fact these guys are so illogically thought out and simple that i am starting to wonder about the point of this thread at all. was it to promote discussion or just to merely snigger at all the non-chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:15 PM
1

That is true. Have you found that your preferences changed during your life time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 02:47 PM
1

Ah ok. Maybe i'm too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 02:20 PM
1

Ah ok. Very nice. Mine would be someone like Blake Lively or Selma Hayek. Not looking exactly like them but something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 12:39 PM
1

What is your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 12:16 PM
3

i like none of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 12:04 PM
3

There have been studies done that men fall in love quicker than women, so i do agree with this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:41 AM
1

A self esteem issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:40 AM
2

You are right, to me they would be shallow things to look for in a partner. Kind of irrelevant too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:33 AM
1

Men have a far wider range of what they consider attractive in a woman compared to what a woman finds attractive in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:31 AM
1

were you asleep for the whole of last year?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:06 PM
1

not to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:03 PM
1

that is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 04:00 PM
1

I agree with that. Did you always think like that or did your thinking change?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:52 PM
2

i like that kind of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:21 PM
1

I don't drink lol. It is like they think that every man should easily be able to look like Chad. Forgetting that Chad only looks like Chad because of genetics and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:15 PM
2

The unrealistic and creepy kind of romance that Hollywood likes to put in all of its movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:06 PM
1

Or those threads which ask women what they find attractive in a man and they describe Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:04 PM
0

I like how posters are still arguing with you even though those couple of threads rating a guy on his smv potential proved your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:28 PM
2

I think in some cases the death of romance might prove to be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:27 PM
1

That sounds like my ideal relationship tbh. But from what i understand a very rare type of one to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 08:17 AM
2

One sister. She has anger issues like my mum. Unsure how it affected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 08:16 AM
2

for me it would have to be: http://wallpaper-gallery.net/image.php?pic=/images/denise-milani-pics/denise-milani-pics-15.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:52 PM
1

2 would get the most. But 1 and 3 would have enough attention for it not to bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:46 PM
1

http://www.behindbigbrother.com/forums/threads/what-would-reepbot-say.54060/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:30 AM
1

http://www.behindbigbrother.com/forums/threads/what-would-reepbot-say.54060/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:30 AM
1

Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:01 AM
1

What type of personality do I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:41 AM
1

Clear about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:34 AM
1

Ohhhhhhhhhh, can you please read my entire post history and do a personality write up of me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:30 AM
1

I do not fall into that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:25 AM
1

Wow, going for low insults now? Charming. And way to go misreading my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:18 AM
1

But why would i take advice from someone who has never had to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:11 AM
1

I am not superior. I am an inferior fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:04 AM
1

Well those people are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:03 AM
1

It was though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:57 AM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:53 AM
1

I'd rather read advice from a person who had to try. Not one who easily had a hundred partners. i am not married and do not ever want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:49 AM
1

i just wanted to indicate how much better she was than me with her triple figure count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:48 AM
1

Just that I won't ever listen to any advice that she gives as her sexual experience is so greater than mine that it would be pointless for me to listen to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:44 AM
1

No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:43 AM
1

I wasn't shaming her. Just merely pointing out how different I am to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:39 AM
1

Hence why I used the term Mrs. Do try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:33 AM
1

No i'm not, Mrs. 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:32 AM
1

I'm not shaming her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:29 AM
1

The fact that she stated she has slept with around a hundred people. Which means that she is so different to me as to be from another planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:28 AM
1

I didn't say anything about ashamed, Mrs. 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:26 AM
1

To not get spit on by the many Chads and Staceys of this wonderful world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:02 AM
1

If you say so, Mrs. 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 01:31 AM
0

I can't even understand what you are saying Mrs. 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:20 AM
0

Well you are a totally different species because of your high sex count. So for me talking with you is like talking to a cucumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:08 AM
1

What's your type? Breathing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:48 PM
1

Oh come on, it was pretty obvious that they all would choose man number two. We would do the same if two pictures of women were posted similar to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:46 PM
1

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:40 PM
22

If I have learnt anything from reddit, it is that anything can be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:19 PM
3

Triple figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:22 AM
2

I think I would care less if I had more experience when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 01:46 AM
1

I would happily date someone who has had 62 partners before me. Though I can't deny I wouldn't raise an eyebrow at those sort of figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 01:43 AM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:55 PM
1

On reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:14 PM
1

I don't get it. Why would you be afraid of this Sean guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:13 PM
1

I'm just the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:04 PM
1

Everyone is not equal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 02:53 PM
0

Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 01:09 PM
2

You mean that Chad McChaderson is not real? The most Chaddliest Chad that ever did Chad? Now I don't know what to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 11:05 AM
1

I think it all comes down to jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 08:33 AM
2

I have found women to be more cold and unfeeling. And i am not talking situations involving me but my general observations as an outsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:07 AM
1

Do you think that men are more or less tolerant of virgins/inexperienced people then women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 06:16 AM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 05:27 AM
1

That is why i said some.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:24 AM
1

It doesn't make sense to me either. But that is how some of them feel. They look down on us from up above.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:06 AM
0

I don't think that. But i think some people with high n count think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:00 AM
1

I think acting oppressed is the worst thing you can do if you have low smv. Mainly because it is not an attractive quality to have. Sure complain about one or two times, but if you continually act like the whole world is against you then you will not get anywhere at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 02:06 AM
2

Anything can hurt you if you let it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 04:35 PM
4

Still doesn't excuse you acting like a self entitled bitch though who looks down on anyone not popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 04:12 PM
8

Men have the choice? Clearly you are trolling, so this change my view thread is pointless. Though I kind of already knew that when you were insulting virgins for no reason at all. If you wanted to make your point you would have done it without those kind of attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 02:03 PM
1

"...consolidating wealth and building a household." Damn that is cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 11:42 AM
1

I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:47 PM
4

Oh yeah that is great advice. Possibly the most important advice on here. I think if men knew that earlier then society would be a lot happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:29 PM
4

Go to parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 03:46 PM
1

TIL I have a wand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:29 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 01:30 AM
2

INFP. Unsure if i am blue or purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 01:15 AM
1

What size is in the too big category? Like in inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 01:12 AM
1

So why be obsessed with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:56 PM
3

That a person who is misogynistic once will most likely be like that again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 01:22 PM
2

Misogyny isn't just a one off thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 12:36 PM
2

It must be so exhausting to be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 12:35 PM
4

Anger and hatred has never solved anything. For men to go down that toxic mindset will not enable them to achieve their goal of dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 12:25 PM
1

i don't really care what women do with their lives. up to the individual person i suppose. what i do know is that i probably wouldn't gel well in the dating sense with a woman who was obsessed with advancing her career. mainly because as an infp it isn't of great importance to me. and i am not attracted to potential housewives either. that would just make me feel guilty and icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 12:17 PM
1

Whatever, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 12:12 AM
1

ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 03:29 PM
1

Never had any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 03:17 PM
2

Because i'm a romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 03:06 PM
2

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:30 PM
1

It kind of reminds me of those old chuck norris jokes. Except they are not taking the piss, they believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:14 PM
2

I said giving up because i have noticed a couple of posters here that run with the logic: "Chad is just so awesome that i don't see any reason at all for improving myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:10 PM
1

So Chad to you does not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:01 PM
1

Feminism does seem to have gotten more extreme lately, which is bad because it hinders progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 12:49 PM
2

To be honest i'm starting to get a little creeped out by his obsessive and repetitive posts regarding how he comes across in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 09:07 AM
3

I have Asperger's and i could never imagine myself giving up on finding love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 09:04 AM
1

Two things I have learnt: Women are much more colder emotionally than men, but they are better at faking emotions. Hence why 90% of customer service roles are filled by women. Men are overly romantic, which often spills over into creepy neediness. That serves as a turn off to women. Giving rise to the whole nice guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 09:01 AM
1

Ah huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 01:02 PM
1

my question was aimed at everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 09:48 AM
8

WHAT A FUCKING INVASIVE QUESTION OP! I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ASKED THAT. GOD I HATE YOU SO MUCH. LEAVE ME ALONE!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 04:16 AM
1

Have you got the wrong sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 04:13 AM
0

I think the real question is who would want to spend time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 04:16 PM
1

And then you'll bitch about it on here!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 01:01 PM
6

I would rather an emotionally close conversation than just dryly ticking off any similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 03:46 AM
1

I'm more interested in how single women handle the changing face of male employment in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 03:42 AM
2

I don't worry about Chads. More concerned with men who are the same level as me look wise, and those slightly less good looking, who have more success with woman than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 09:02 AM
1

28 Australia. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:31 AM
2

All in a single dayyyyyy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:29 AM
2

To be herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:22 AM
2

Chad is a metaphorical representation of your biggest fears and worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:20 AM
1

Yeah, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:14 PM
1

But who doesn't love candy and kittens? Though i must admit that there are some aspects of me that don't correspond with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:13 PM
1

Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 02:42 PM
1

I forget the thing i write.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 02:14 PM
1

Why did you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:47 PM
1

I'm a man and i am awesome at getting gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:56 PM
2

What was wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:22 PM
2

I'm not really sure what Jessica Jones is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 11:52 AM
1

Oh that is interesting (not in a good way of course). I always love to see more women as lead roles in tv and movies. doing instead of reacting to the lead male. My favorite character of all time is a woman. Lynda Day from Press Gang. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Press_Gang
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:35 AM
1

Real life feminism is excellent i feel, and has made great progress with equality over the years. However there is still much work to be done. Internet feminism is really nothing more than thinly disguised misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:31 AM
5

BOOK ONLY GOOD FOR SMASHING TO BRING FOOD TO CAVE!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:28 AM
1

Is that true about Jessica Jones?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:25 AM
3

And they are all dirty pirate hookers!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 02:55 AM
1

No thank you, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 05:24 PM
1

If you say so. But i respectfully disagree, Sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 04:55 PM
1

I have a mum and partner who enjoy arguing with each other. Like any excuse to argue they will. Every single day they will argue. And whilst that may be exciting to them, to me it just sounds awful. I couldn't put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 04:39 PM
2

Do you seriously want that for the rest of your life? I mean i can understand the attraction for a while. But it would get pretty depressing very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:42 PM
1

Outer- Attractive eyes. Not fat/obese. Inner- -Honest. similar taste in pop culture. understanding. God it is really hard. Only because i think if i provide more choices i might be limiting myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:38 PM
3

ITT: Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 05:49 AM
3

According to some on here only a Chad can get women. All the rest of us have to sulk in the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 05:45 AM
1

I think man or woman we all want to believe the best of people. Which is why it is so shocking when we find out that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:19 AM
2

Errrr, I didn't mean real enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 12:11 PM
3

Sometimes i find it hot. Sometimes i don't. Depends on my mood. To tell you the truth it is the enthusiasm that attracts me with porn. When you see how into it she is it can be a real big turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 11:50 AM
2

i just have a low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 05:29 AM
1

I don't think I could ever go with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 03:50 AM
5

Makes me sick too. People crapping on about time/energy investment is very dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:52 PM
2

I would be excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 01:56 AM
1

Yayyyyyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:46 PM
1

No it is not. Compliments? BLERGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:28 PM
1

Ohhhh I remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:39 PM
1

That sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:38 PM
1

John Edwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:22 PM
1

I hate getting complimented.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:19 PM
0

you know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:34 AM
1

From the replies from you are making in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:27 AM
1

What's your point? That men can not be sexually attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 02:08 AM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:14 PM
1

So you were being irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 04:55 PM
1

He didn't really explain it clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 04:31 PM
0

uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 04:15 PM
1

Non-straightforward- body, language, facial expressions. Straightforward- Actually telling someone you are not interested in them. That is what i took from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:59 PM
2

The aggressive behavior from SOME men, as far as i understand it from reading posts by women in regards to this subject, have often meant that they can't be upfront as they like. Because if they do things might turn ugly very quickly. She doesn't know this man or how he will react to her rejection. He could be polite and leave her alone. Or it could be worse. And from i understand it is the worse case scenario that makes them not be as upfront as you would like. It's a matter of survival. Don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:54 PM
6

Kindness isn't flirting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:41 PM
1

But if she feels that way then unless he has autism or is just a massive selfish fucksticle he will not approach her. My problem is when the op from the linked text assumes that every man who approaches women are disgusting pieces of shit and that they are just as bad as people who catcall. Approaching people, if they are open to such a thing, is completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:35 PM
1

But this never was about extreme cases though. This was about lumping all men together regardless of intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 02:09 PM
5

No wonder men hide their emotions when it is viewed as whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 02:08 PM
4

If reddit is any indication: no, no they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:08 PM
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Attractive people get approached more. That's just a fact of life. Once they get to know the other person through conversation the attraction may change or stay the same. However we are talking about the initial movement, not the conversation afterwards. I don't want sympathy for the man. But it is unfair that he gets scolded for being social. I mean there are thousands of threads on reddit from men about approaching women. And then to see such an awful post that the OP linked can be really demo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:04 PM
1

But the man who approaches her doesn't know anything about her past. Therefore he can't be blamed if he approaches her. And if she rejects him then like any normal human he should be on his way. Though I do suspect you are putting the cat calling and approaching together when it was actually meant to be a comparison. You are doing that as a way of eliciting sympathy for your view point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:48 PM
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We are talking in the context of a man approaching a woman in a situation where it is clear that the woman would be available to approaches from her body language, facial expressions and general demeanor. According to the linked text, that is as bad as cat calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:35 PM
1

But why mention cat-calling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:29 PM
1

Because it has nothing to do with cat calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:25 PM
1

Say hello to the girl you are approaching. You know, like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:25 PM
1

Say hello?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:12 PM
1

I think it is more to do with lack of boy/girl friendships when younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:09 PM
2

The thread the op linked too was about PUA culture, a movement, as far as i understand it, relating to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 12:01 PM
1

Who is saying anything about cat-calling? We are talking approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:57 AM
0

You didn't have to say it. Your hypocrisy showed itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 11:56 AM
0

No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 10:43 AM
1

But of course it is fine for her to use men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:42 AM
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People get extremely anxious when they are around people they find attractive. It is a perfectly normal reaction. To say otherwise is to dehumanize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:41 AM
1

It's the hypocrisy that rankles with me. Because I am pretty sure they would have no problem with women sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:32 AM
3

Not being sexually attracted to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:15 AM
3

I think I am nervous, therefore I am nervous. I think I am confident, therefore I am confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 02:01 AM
3

What about a steak and a blowjob at the same time? Then you'll both be sucking meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:46 PM
2

Bloody hell that second quote is awful in so many different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:39 PM
3

Even Bernie would call me a dirty commie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 01:27 PM
2

"Date me" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 01:24 PM
1

I am not crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:15 PM
3

I personally think that sites like reddit have made red pill views more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 06:56 AM
2

He's a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 06:48 AM
2

How is Trump red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:10 AM
1

I love it when women take the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:09 AM
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God I hope not. Besides I don't think Trump gives a fuck about red pill. He just wants to prank call China with his bestie Putin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:06 AM
2

So would the white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 05:01 AM
3

For me it wasn't the hookup culture but the realization of how easy most women could potentially get sex. Which logically made sense, I just hadn't given it much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:56 AM
1

Bloody hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:48 AM
2

If you say so, Madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 01:01 PM
1

Oh so one of the causes of someone having no friends might be because they are sexist? I can understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:42 AM
2

But how can I get to know her if I don't approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:26 AM
2

How did you get entitled from what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:24 AM
2

Yeah she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:22 AM
0

Am I right in thinking that the type of feminism one encounters online is different to the version in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:02 AM
1

I have found, that a woman saying yes to a date with me after a long period of no dates, single mother or not, somehow makes all my pre-conceived plans go right out the window. Besides there is a huge difference between dating and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 02:57 AM
2

I don't care if someone has no friends. Seems a silly thing to judge another person for because it just seems so petty and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 02:50 AM
2

How does having no friends relate to sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 02:48 AM
1

How can you tell if you are being asked out at random though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 05:39 PM
1

Her comment was so insane I just had to make a thread out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 10:36 AM
1

I don't agree with my reasoning. I was just using a different perspective from my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 01:21 AM
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TRP will always be the bad guy. You just have to accept your badness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 12:14 AM
1

Still a cold way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 03:29 PM
1

I prefer to see people as individuals. Generalizations suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 02:47 PM
5

I'm not a fan of redpill. But I can see a situation how someone might be ready to follow that type of thinking. Like an average man, who is not having much luck with women, decides to vent on Reddit. He's not the type of person to complain in real life. Plus he always treats people with respect and never expects anything. He just needs a place to vent and express his feelings. Wrong move, buster. Soon enough every white knight and extreme feminist that would even make Germaine Greer roll her eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 01:59 PM
2

I kind of think that the woman who did make the original comment, after reading what she said afterwards, definitely needs some kind of help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 01:41 PM
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They are not very good PUAs if they flirting with people who are busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 12:30 PM
2

But you wouldn't put it on the same level as cat calling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 12:22 PM
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reading her comment i can kind of understand why so many men are seduced by rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 05:51 AM
3

I just keep thinking two things: If what she says is true than nightclubs would fail. Also humanity would cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 05:32 AM
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Edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 04:06 AM
1

Low-value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 01:28 PM
3

Nagging I kind of associate with a parent/child relationship. Mum or dad telling their kids to do housework or whatever. Getting the children to do their homework. That kind of stuff. So to put nagging in a romantic context, considering the association I have with it, makes it seem very creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 01:26 PM
1

It's only shallow if it is the only thing you care about when dating. Because then you are defining them into one dimension instead of acknowledging their humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 01:17 PM
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On reddit. Especially if you have a lot of sweeeeeet imaginary internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 02:40 AM
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I presented it as complex in previous posts. But what it basically boils down to is this: A mixture of low self-esteem issues and regret of not doing more with your youth. Of course this is only an issue if one believes that their partner is on the same level of them look wise. I mean if i saw a good looking woman, one way better looking than my male self, i'm going to assume that she could have a lot of sex. Not that she will, but that she could. So i would not be surprised about that. However …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 11:57 AM
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I'm not displeased with your answer. I'm just amused that you think my issues with promiscuity has to do with the person who was promiscuous. It is far more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 11:36 AM
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Anyone who says that numbers don't matter is a liar. That's just the truth. Nothing to do with values or beliefs. Why should I date someone I am not compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 11:20 AM
1

So you think that everyone should feel the same as you? People have different values and beliefs. I don't have a problem with how many people a person has sex with. But it is in my right to choose not to date them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 11:12 AM
1

No it's not. Anyone who says otherwise is an idiot or a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:43 AM
1

Yes. Surely it is reasonable for anyone to re-think their relationship after they found out that their partner has slept with more than a hundred people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:32 AM
1

You do realize that my threshold for promiscuity is a hundred or more people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:06 AM
1

That's not the reason that it is an issue. What do you think of people who don't want to date virgins or inexperienced people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 09:01 AM
1

It's not dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 07:15 AM
1

lol chan. What is his first name? 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 02:27 AM
1

I don't watch rom-coms. Mainly because they are so poorly written as to not be worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 02:26 AM
1

Even before I posted this thread I understood looks were only one part of why some men were called Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 02:10 AM
1

I'm not trolling. Jut being meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:44 PM
2

Yeah Chad is lucky he has both options. Plus a billion dollar house. And some cool kung-fu moves not to mention all the countries he has traveled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:32 PM
2

i'd rather one true love than a hundred one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:17 PM
3

That is obvious. But some people like to hide the obvious for their own illogical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:11 PM
1

Sounds like being a Chad isn't all skittles and rosebushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 04:10 PM
1

Uhuh still funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 03:04 PM
1

no they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 02:41 PM
3

If it wasn't for the internet and its little hole of male insecurity and fake bravado I never would have heard of this Chad thing. The whole, from my point of view, overt sexualization of this mythical Chad figure is just hilarious. Mainly because of how absurd it that they worship him with such deranged fervor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:22 PM
1

Finally, a sensible answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:16 PM
3

it'll probably make the poor guy even more repulsed by women. and he sits crying in his bedroom, tears of pain, as Chad gets all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:48 AM
1

Maybe in your messed up world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:24 AM
1

Pretty creepy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 11:42 PM
5

I wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:32 PM
1

Ok. Thank you. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:33 PM
1

What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:24 PM
3

I'll tell you who isn't hard to find. OP's Mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 01:30 PM
2

Well if you are under six feet your life is over. Mainly because you'll most likely be in a coffin due to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 01:28 PM
1

Chads to the front of the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 08:24 AM
2

There's personal questions and then there are personal questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 05:18 AM
2

Reddit for some reason really seems to hate Amy Schumer. For me she is not important enough to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:13 AM
3

Bit personal for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 12:23 AM
1

A lot of good looking women in porn. So much so that when people ask me who my celebrity crush is I have to blurt out some generic Hollywood beauty rather than telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 12:10 AM
1

Well good luck sir or madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:36 PM
1

Do you find that makes it easier or harder for dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:30 PM
4

9:04 pm actually you uneducated philistine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:18 PM
2

Fan of scat play?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:50 PM
1

Oh ok, i thought something had gone over my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:49 PM
1

I enjoy a spot of pornography every so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:35 PM
1

Why woosh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:27 PM
1

How am i cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:23 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:20 PM
3

I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:02 PM
1

I meant the dating divide is by attractiveness, not by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 11:47 AM
2

You mean like a woman putting on makeup to show off her femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 10:21 AM
1

yes. yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 10:19 AM
2

I'm child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:11 AM
1

the whole sphere of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:10 AM
2

The dating debate seems to do more with attractiveness rather than gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:15 AM
1

People are predictable, so predictable that we don't even remember them. It is when they become unpredictable that we remember them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 02:56 AM
1

Is this a joke thread? Because if it is i'm not laughing. Fucking hell, I swear that some men like to turn any issues they may face into a sort of competitive victim-hood Olympics. I mean does it really matter about which gender is facing the most problems? What is important is how we deal with those problems both as an individual and as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 11:19 AM
1

Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 11:01 AM
2

Typical incel. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:04 PM
1

I think if society dropped the whole "women are wonderful" point of view then the slut debate would not be a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:02 PM
1

It wasn't meant to help men with dating. More with shifting their mindset towards women into something less toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 07:59 PM
2

Why are you so obsessed with my mum? Pretty creepy incel behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 06:38 PM
2

Isn't that what incels do? Bitch and moan about women all day because they are all insecure misogynistic basement dwelling cucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 05:27 PM
1

Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 04:39 PM
1

I always thought that the word slut meant to imply that that person had a lower standard in regards to who they would have sex with. Which enabled them to fuck a lot more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 04:37 PM
1

Shouldn't you be busy bitching about that woman who rejected you in high school to all your incel friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:32 PM
2

It's true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 12:36 PM
1

That the incels sub should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 12:35 PM
5

Men tend to overrate their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 12:34 PM
1

i personally think the incels sub should be banned. for promoting hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 12:06 PM
1

Incels are disgusting. They make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 11:34 AM
2

I wonder if it has anything to do with the madonna/whore complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 11:25 AM
2

What is positive about incels and their disgusting ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 11:22 AM
2

I don't hate unattractive men. What ever gave you that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 11:09 AM
1

Why would i?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 10:50 AM
0

I thought all incels were woman haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 09:14 AM
1

You don't sound like an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 05:29 AM
1

Did they wonder that about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 10:08 PM
1

Who cares what other people think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 10:06 PM
1

Surely people don't care if you don't have friends? They have their own worries and issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:59 PM
1

A cycle of resentment building to hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:53 PM
1

Yes isolation is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:50 PM
1

Well if they were uncool they probably wouldn't be getting much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:41 PM
1

Well who wouldn't be insecure if you had those issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:29 PM
1

TRP are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:20 PM
2

Also I noticed some of those posters wanting a partner with a certain n-count. Like in double figures. They don't want someone inexperienced. They want someones who shares their way of thinking in regards to sex. So therefore wouldn't it follow that people who want a low n-count partner are perfectly in their rights to choose one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:14 PM
4

Could encouragement and promotion of male-female friendships early in childhood help with the destruction of the toxic thinking of incels later in life by enabling them to see women as human rather than sex slot machines?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:03 PM
1

Yeah but the people in those chain of comments all had reasonable n-counts. Therefore their perspective is different to the virgin/inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:55 PM
0

Does promiscuous = slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:45 PM
20

If we go by that logic then this site might as well shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:27 PM
1

Ah ok. I'm never sure of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 07:05 PM
1

So a hundred partners is unusual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:42 PM
1

But everyone likes candy and kittens!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:31 PM
1

For me it is more than a hundred partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:08 PM
2

Yes I would. Mainly because I would feel more confident and secure within myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:50 PM
1

I'm a he.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:47 PM
1

"The grass is always greener" syndrome?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:34 PM
1

I think 100 would be my moral limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:28 PM
2

That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:25 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:31 AM
2

Still the same thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:17 AM
2

I don't see what is so complex about not wasting your time pining after people who will never be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:13 AM
5

My point is why waste your time complaining about women who aren't attracted to you because you are not rich? Why not focus on people who like you for who you are and not because of your bank balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:02 AM
3

Why waste your time pining after someone who isn't interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 07:48 AM
1

Also I'm thinking that because of the religious thing these men had to act "pure and innocent". Which may be the only persona that these women knew them by. So when they found out that these men were not so "pure and innocent" it causes them psychological damage. Seeing a person act different to what they were in the past can be really unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:37 AM
2

I'm just expressing my feelings. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:10 AM
1

The line of Candy Kittens!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 10:00 PM
2

Vox. The smugness of the Hollywood elite should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:55 PM
1

One of the worst things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:58 PM
0

I am very calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:51 PM
0

No It is the best idea ever. If I could I would dedicate the rest of my life in making sure that the red pill gets banned from the internet forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:51 PM
1

Red pill is pure evil. A festering wart of horrible people. It is truly despicable. Their ideals and way of thinking makes me want to cut off my feet and stuff them in my mouth. Every time I read a post by them a part of my soul dies. They should be banned from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:15 PM
0

I thought polyamory was normalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:17 PM
1

That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:08 PM
1

I could never date a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:51 PM
1

To show that there were different perspectives to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:50 PM
1

Well it seemed like an opinion than truth to me. The part about your partner being your best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:37 PM
1

That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:19 PM
1

Maybe he had blood on his shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:58 PM
1

Is that a new red pill theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:57 PM
1

But if their partner tells them his or her's n-count then it is going to be their business too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:55 PM
1

Maybe he smelt bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:43 PM
1

I read somewhere that your partner should be your best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:39 PM
1

That's what I think too. That looking for friends thing just confuses things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:39 PM
1

That's too logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:36 PM
1

Why do you get creeped out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 03:11 PM
1

What do you think of dating sites that has the 'looking for friends' option? Do you think it is a waste of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:47 PM
1

Be friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 01:15 PM
2

Mixed messages are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 12:24 PM
2

Well i'm on okcupid. And one of the questions has to do with if you would date a virgin. About 99% of women who have answered that question say no they would not. Then there are the many threads on reddit asking women if they would date a virgin. An overwhelming majority of them are truthful and say that they would not. So those are two examples from the perspective of sexually experienced people that they would not be compatible with virgins. Now for the side of the virgins/inexperienced. Which…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 12:22 PM
3

My point is that to think that a large discrepancy between two partners absolutely does affect compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 11:49 AM
2

Do you believe that a person who is inexperienced/virgin be in a loving relationship with someone who has a really high n-count? Let's say a hundred or more partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 11:08 AM
13

I guess if you're raised to believe about no sex before marriage because of your religion you are going to become a little bit obsessive about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:54 AM
1

Oh ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:43 AM
1

Aren't you claiming that you miss the attention carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:40 AM
1

I thought the term "cock carousel" was used negatively? But you are using attention carousel in a positive way? Therefore invalidating your change my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:32 AM
3

If sex is only what male incels wants then they would only need to visit a prostitute. But I don't think they want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:36 AM
3

You were single: men flirted with you. You now have a boyfriend: men have stopped flirting with you and have begun to treat you like a normal person. Surely you knew when you got into relationship that the attention was going to stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:34 AM
2

It is hard to get a proper read on the OP's situation. However I think we have all come across the type of person who flirts with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 07:23 AM
2

Well if they are mistaking your happy go lucky persona for flirting then they are idiots. Flirting is sexual in nature and what you have described to me sounds friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 07:21 AM
8

I'm wondering about the OP's behavior towards her male friends. Is it totally normal and fine without a hint of flirting? Then those men are idiots and should focus on something else. Or is she someone who is very flirtatious? Who behaves towards her male friends in such a way that they develop feelings for her? I was just wondering because the fact that it happens so many times with her indicates that there is something wrong with how she makes friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 05:02 AM
1

God even when I am interested in somebody I'm never as crude as the snapchat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:52 AM
5

Vertigo. A movie about one man's obsession over a woman. Perfect for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 09:10 PM
1

The first question. The one about if you should be friends with someone before becoming lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 08:45 PM
6

Donald Trump is the literal representation of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 08:21 PM
1

For the record I also disagree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:51 PM
2

Neither do I. It's like a whole different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:41 PM
2

I bet buzzfeed already has one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:24 PM
2

I've never seen dating as an investment. I just don't think that coldly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 06:40 PM
3

Through friendship. Love is too fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 02:31 PM
1

Ok. That's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 12:57 PM
1

Women are individuals. Women do not want to get raped by anyone. It's my fault. There is media out there that portrays women as humans with flaws and all that enjoy sex. Unfortunately at times there seems to be too much in the role of passive role play for women (as in their part in the tv show/movie seems just to respond to what the male character is doing). -I said something wrong. This individual woman is a cheater. Communicate. The truth. The rapist. Yes, the age of consent should exist. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 12:02 PM
3

Oh. Well if i had to choose i think i would be a bluepill. Though my favorite color is red. But it has been ruined!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 08:45 AM
1

is there some kind of test online where you can see which pill you belong to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:59 AM
2

People who use the word "healthy" in this particular context seem to be fond of vague and useless advice that never seems to go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 09:12 PM
1

I was thinking real life as well. Online is a whole different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:08 PM
1

Well when I said attractive I meant more than physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:05 PM
1

Sounds like you are just being charming to me. Not your fault if other people mix up words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:02 PM
1

being charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:58 PM
23

Stop the presses. Humans want to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:26 PM
2

Thank you, Wolverine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:11 PM
1

And tells his future children all about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:00 PM
4

That's rather a cold way of looking at things. There are times when I feel like I am a romantic living in an un-romantic world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 12:39 PM
1

I wonder if there is an attractiveness divide also? Attractive people are flirted with more often so they have better practice at deciphering the ancient art of flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 12:11 PM
3

A good sign of flirting is to be able to read people. If there is misreading going on doesn't that mean the person is a bad flirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 12:09 PM
2

Well in that context I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:21 AM
2

I just find honesty and straight talking to be turn ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:20 AM
2

INFP. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:10 AM
2

Another word could be charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:56 AM
1

Agreed. It is boring and lame. I like that word save face. Because that's exactly the type of flirting it is. Risk-free and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:46 AM
1

Are you talking about the kind of flirting where BOTH parties are fully and totally aware that it is not anything serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:44 AM
1

Why can't a woman seduce me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:59 AM
2

More likely to get a restraining order than laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 06:31 PM
1

Oh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 06:08 PM
2

I thought it was a great show. To be honest I relate more to Ted Mosby but wish I had the life of Marshall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:50 PM
1

I think an Alpha is a state of mind. Like an attitude in life. Which of course comes with various pros and cons. Thinking about it I think that Barney sleeps with a lot of women because of psychological issues. I remember an episode where it was revealed that he slept with over a hundred women to get back at a high school bully. I should re-watch how i met your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:42 PM
1

What about Ted Mosby?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:39 PM
2

What is an Alpha anyway? Someone who fucks a lot of women? Or an attitude in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:23 PM
2

For a second there I thought you were going to advertise some penis enlargement pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:21 PM
1

A meek, submissive woman is a turn off to me. I much prefer the complete opposite to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:15 PM
1

I always thought that the discussion of n count was in context of the woman having talked about her n count with her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:57 PM
2

To Lily?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:39 PM
2

Why is Marsh the beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:35 PM
2

That is true. It could be irrelevant. When I think of high n count though I think of somewhere over a hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:19 PM
3

Would Barney from How I met your Mother be an Alpha? And would Ted Mosby be a beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:15 PM
3

Yeah romantic types may be willing to disregard the past.....for the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:12 PM
3

I think it can be both. Men might feel that a woman with a high n count does not match what they are looking for in a partner. This could be because of religious reasons or personality differences. Also a man might have a problem with high n count because of jealousy and insecurity issues. Or it could be a combination of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 03:10 PM
0

Third sign of the apocalypse. After Prince dying and Trump winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 02:50 PM
2

I think it is a combination of jealousy, low self esteem, and a lack of female influence in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 08:27 AM
1

When did change my view become post obvious statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 08:20 AM
0

no. but i don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 07:02 AM
2

no. but there the one's probably most obsessed about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 07:01 AM
4

i'm pro slut. as long as everything is safe and consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:24 AM
2

reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:16 AM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:14 AM
1

I hate the word slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:08 AM
5

Monogamy is the best thing to happen to low value men (which is like 80 percent of the male population).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:00 AM
0

So people who have aspergers/autism don't deserve love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:56 AM
9

Aren't the type of men who get obsessive and petty over n-count the same type of people who have trouble finding women to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:54 AM
1

i think in this context intimidation is another word for jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 08:57 PM
1

Is that why alcohol was invented? To drink to calm the nerves?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 12:01 PM
1

That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 08:03 AM
2

How pushy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 08:02 AM
1

Well it is a fair better way of thinking than having a selfish mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 06:29 AM
5

Wow OP sounds like a controlling creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 05:51 AM
3

Why would the cops talk to you for talking with a woman? Unless you are leaving something out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 04:19 AM
2

This kind of thinking seems to be the mantra of the American dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 04:17 AM
1

Damn biology!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 04:11 AM
1

No, sir. I just meant it in the context of relief. Because I always fear that i might date people similar in personality to my mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 04:35 PM
1

That is good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 04:20 PM
3

Being incel is not a disability and it insults the people who do have disabilities. I believe incels are a menace to society. they are ppure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 11:10 AM
1

Why is that the case though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 04:38 AM
1

loosely in the romantic context more in terms of niceguy stuff. As in someone says "I hate it how guys think they are entitled to sex just because a woman is nice to them" or something like that. And sure there are cases where that occurs. But most of the time is that person is misreading the man's posts as it being based in sexual stuff when it doesn't seem to be the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:53 PM
0

No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:24 PM
1

Oh, ok. Hey, do you think people also misuse the word 'entitled'? I've noticed that word come up many times in a romantic context. And often it is used rather irrelevantly to the situation but as a way of someone to shut an argument down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:20 PM
3

We meet. Instant chemistry. We may be strangers but it seems like we have known each other forever. We then go to an Italian Restaurant where the food is delicious and the conversation is lively. We debate, argue, and tell stories. There is plenty of laughter. Afterwards we catch a showing of 'Vertigo' on the big screen as Alfred Hitchcock is our favorite director. After the movie finishes we talk about the film. Then we go back to my place and have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:17 PM
1

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:12 PM
-1

Just because I disagree with you doesn't mean I'm a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:11 PM
-1

Of course power is a personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 07:05 PM
1

Body language makes sense. But I have had a creepy feeling from people before. Something not logical but emotional feeling in me that sees that person as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:58 PM
1

it's a feeling in your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:26 PM
1

Yes it is. You can have power without being powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:26 PM
2

Yeah, like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:50 PM
1

I am a man, but I think that I have a more verbal way of thinking. Anyway, I like reading erotica stories online. Sites like literotica and what have you. They can be quite good at times. Though other times you can read some absolute rubbish. I don't mind reading sex scenes in other genres. They have to be well written though and fit in with the flow of the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:34 PM
1

Some people give off that creepy vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:29 PM
2

Sometimes you get a feeling about a person. Even if they are doing nothing wrong you can get a creepy vibe from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:28 PM
2

No one gets anywhere with just one personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:24 PM
1

I've read that we men are often awkward around women who we find attractive. Nothing to do with porn but with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:18 PM
1

Yep. I sometimes wonder why I am that way though. Especially since you hear that as a man you're meant to be thinking about sex 99% percent of the time. For me it is 25% percent of the time. 50% is romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 04:09 PM
1

I can only fap to porn like once a day. I can't do anymore than that. I even go a few weeks without fapping at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 03:59 PM
1

That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 03:19 PM
1

I've never had an idealized version of my mother so I don't think i'll have that issue. Though I do wonder if i'll end up dating women with similar personality traits to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 03:01 PM
1

Do you mean that men place too high expectations on women that they are dating? Like 'Why can't you be more like my mum'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 02:54 PM
4

Several hours of porn a day? Wow! I only watch half an hour at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 01:59 PM
1

Do you question this theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:16 AM
1

What did Freud say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:09 AM
1

I think rebellion during teenage years plays a bigger role.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 06:04 AM
1

I'm a man and i'm not attracted to women who pretend to be dumb or ignorant. That's a huge turn off for me because it indicates to me that they don't respect me enough to show me their real selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:57 AM
1

MGTOW is ripe for mocking though. Their hatred for women doesn't seem to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 05:40 AM
2

By unromantic is that I meant in the context of me being in an open or poly relationship. Because I don't think I could split my romantic love in multiple directions. I'm just not that type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 04:34 PM
4

Not for me. My jealousy issues would ruin it. Not to mention that it doesn't sound very romantic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 03:54 PM
2

If you changed the genders around your point would still apply I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 06:41 AM
2

it's an unfortunate part of human nature. the jealousy. i mean logically one should not be jealous of that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 04:15 AM
2

Ah ok. Would lack of experience also explain why some men (and i include me in this group) feel so resentful and jealous of women and men with high partner counts? Because it makes us feel that we have wasted our lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 03:59 AM
2

Is it because society confuses equality with being the same? Because i'll always agree with equality. But not the notion that we are all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 03:34 AM
2

There are numerous scientific studies though that show how different women and men really are. And I personally think it is great that we are so different. I mean how boring would it be if we were all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 03:21 AM
2

Both would be good. And maybe education through media such as tv and movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 02:55 AM
2

Through education?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 02:42 AM
3

I think more socializing between the genders when growing up maybe would be helpful too. Because society subtly encourages us males to view women through a one dimensional microscope. But by socializing between the genders more at a younger age it could encourage males to view women in a more humane way. Therefore getting them the confidence to have experience because they are not viewing women with a lack of self-confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 02:38 AM
3

But how do boys get experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 11:52 PM
1

If we narrow down the definition of women having it better than men in terms of the ability to have multiple sexual partners than I would agree. Apart from that though us men have it wayyyyyy easier. Funny thing is though is that 'the multiple sexual partners' thing can at times occupy a large place in the male brain, especially if they are inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:04 PM
1

Would he get money for saving the Princess? If so he could then go out and get a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:00 PM
3

it explains everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 03:42 PM
1

Looks aren't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 09:58 AM
2

I have no friends and I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 02:12 PM
2

Dating is gloomy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 07:17 AM
7

If people were happy with their dating life this sub probably wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 06:44 AM
1

I don't think looks are everything. It's funny but sometimes I might pass an attractive woman but not be attracted to her at all. Like my own eyes can she is good looking, but I am not attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:16 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 04:37 PM
1

Pure evil. A disgusting cult of pure and utter evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 04:00 PM
2

I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 10:55 AM
1

I'm not crying. Just simply stating the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 05:48 AM
1

Being a Chad is something you are born with from birth. You can't teach it, nor can you do any sort of improvement to become a Chad. But I don't mind. In some ways there is less pressure in life being a non-Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 05:47 AM
1

thank you umbrella''
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:10 PM
1

I use my own lingo. I march to my own beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:56 PM
1

Up to speed about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:36 PM
1

I think you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:28 PM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:21 PM
1

My alternative is treating everyone as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:14 PM
2

Redpill is a childish irrelevance. Doomed as a bunch of pre-pubescent boys who don't realise that the world has moved on from their dated ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:11 PM
1

It is a harsh lesson that every non-Chad man has to learn. But I guess it is good in a way because we know our place in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:29 PM
2

I personally think that the red pill is very dangerous and not for me. But I think I have an understanding why some men are seduced by that way of thinking. A Chad person doesn't need that red pill or seduction crap. He is Chad so all he has to do is be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:17 PM
3

God those people that can get laid that easily are like a whole different world from me. No amount of advice would enable me to replicate what they. It's something you can't be taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:04 PM
1

Who is Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:49 PM
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I'm a man and I don't believe that virgin stuff. As far as I understand it, a reasonably attractive woman could theoretically have an unlimited number of sexual partners if she chooses to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:30 AM
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If I was dating/in a relationship with someone with a high partner count (let's say 100 plus partners by the age of 25-28) then I would start to wonder how compatible we are. I mean first I would probably try to play it cool. Not causing offence or anything. But as the days and weeks go by that thought about our difference sex experiences would become louder and louder. That toxic emotion of jealousy and regret would come bubbling up to the surface. Jealousy that they could find sex so easily. R…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:27 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may be unattractive to you may be attractive to a different person. Also OP sounds a little jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:17 AM
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I'd tell Nina the truth sooner rather than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:12 AM
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There is a huge difference between being friendly and being flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:00 AM
1

Ah ok. Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:40 AM
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When I make friends I just try to be friendly. There is no flirting involved. Getting something out of you? Well I guess that proves my point about how sociopathic that kind of behavior is to see. And whilst it may be fun for the person doing the flirting because clearly they do not care about anyone but themselves, what about the poor person being flirted at? Who thinks that this person really likes them? When they find out that the other person wasn't being serious are they going to think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:36 AM
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And I feel that kind of thinking towards women as them being 'perfect creatures' that society subtly and unsubtly enforces on us seems to be quite sexist. Like i don't know if it is or not. But by thinking of them through those lenses you are saying that they are one-dimensional. That there are no shades of grey. That they are not human with faults. That is why i try to treat people as individuals rather than part of group. Also i don't know if i should feel sorry or not for white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 04:40 PM
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Is the reason that the girls didn't get the flack you got because of society's different perceptions in regards to how they view sex and gender? With men being seen as sex hungry deviants and women being seen as pure and innocent? Also what we are talking about kind of relates to the 'women are wonderful' effect. Especially in regards to perception of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 03:54 PM
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I think the other thing that really pisses me off about those fake flirters is how they try to act all innocent once you call them out for their behavior. Then they try to blame you for mistaking their "niceness" for flirting. But you're thinking to yourself: "BULLSHIT!". Because you know when someone is nice to you, and you know when someone is flirting with you. There's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 02:40 PM
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What's hypergamy? I just find it crazy that there are people that can have sex so easily that they end up treating it like one big joke. It's like a whole different world that I find fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 02:01 PM
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i don't find her attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:10 AM
1

Because they are selling false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:10 AM
1

Probably because they can see you carrying an axe in your right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 11:34 PM
1

I don't think all asexual men are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 11:33 PM
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I personally think that people who flirt without meaning it to go further are the scum of the earth. Fuckwits who enjoy the mental and emotional abuse. Truly sickening. But I think that pedestalization originates not only from the relationship with the mother, but from society in general. Where girls are portrayed as innocent and pure; and boys are seen as a menace to society. How does that part in the nursery rhyme go? "Snips and snails and puppy dog tails that's what little boys are made of. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 05:21 PM
1

I take it date by date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 03:15 PM
1

Ummm tallness does not matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 09:39 AM
1

I wonder what incels did before the internet? Become serial killers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 01:28 PM
1

I agree. It seems more like an anti-women sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 12:59 PM
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They should ban that sub. The incels one. It just promotes hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 12:42 PM
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You were an angel. But all they saw was the devil. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 12:14 PM
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Thank you for that. Times like these that I am grateful that I am an average looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:15 AM
2

But you never mentioned anything about asexuality. You framed your post as sexuality being more of a choice. Asexuality is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:12 AM
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Because sex is one of the basic urges of humanity. By saying that most women would be happy being celibate you are saying that women are not human.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:00 AM
2

Wow I think this is one of the most offensive posts I have ever read on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 01:52 AM
1

WaW?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 01:16 AM
1

Growing up I always felt that looks mattered. But as I grew older I began to realize how much looks can matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 01:13 AM
3

Yes. And independence is an attractive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 12:01 AM
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Most advice seems to be vague and useless in my opinion. From both men and women. The best advice that I get is not advice at all. It is just about reading and listening to other people's dating experiences. For example one lesson I took away is don't be bitter or lash out. No matter how hurt you may feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:59 PM
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Independence in an increasingly expensive and automated world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:34 PM
1

Without reddit where would they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:03 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:25 PM
1

Ah ok. Thank you for that. Do you think I should post in their sub and tell them that they are being silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:16 PM
1

Reeeeeee? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:05 PM
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I have had a look at a couple of their threads. Enough to get the feel of it, but not enough to fully understand it. For all their bitching about not getting laid do they do anything to improve their chances? Do they work out? Do they socialize? Do they do anything at all except bitch and blame? I mean I have, like all of us, problems and issues with sex and romance. But I don't complain or moan about it because I know the fault truly lies with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:39 AM
2

Thank you for your explanation. Very interesting yet so depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:19 AM
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An honest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 11:03 AM
1

Thank you for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 08:05 AM
1

Am I right in thinking that a 'nice guy' is someone who hides his intentions because he doesn't have the guts to express his true feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:01 AM
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Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 01:36 PM
1

Isn't sex enough of a motivating factor without going into some psuedo-psychosexual babble?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 08:38 AM
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Yeah, and look how well that turned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 03:12 AM
3

I never knew that love was defined by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 12:04 AM
1

They seem to be blaming anyone but Hillary for her defeat. Because let's face it. She lost this election more than Trump won it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 11:23 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:30 PM
1

You might as well give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:17 PM
2

As long as you think your brother is a Chad you will never have confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 03:45 PM
2

There is a difference between telling yourself that you are hot and acting confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 02:00 PM
2

That sounds depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 01:18 PM
1

I'm sure SJWs have their good points like most movements do. The thing is though that they seem to be wrapped up in pathetic pedantry and aggressive arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 12:50 PM
1

From this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:12 AM
3

I'd rather be single than be stuck in a unhappy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:31 PM
2

Why would I want to be with someone who finds me unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 12:07 PM
1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 11:57 AM
2

Incels seems to be a self perpetuating misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 03:15 AM
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I am a left winger in the political spectrum. I believe in the philosophy of the left. However I feel that some on the left do not realize that someone who has just lost their job and is struggling to put food on the table really doesn't give a fuck about Bechdel tests or whitewashing. Not saying that those are not real issues. Just that you have to know your audience. It was interesting reading and hearing about the reactions of celebrities in regards to Trump's win. They tried everything they …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 02:53 AM
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I reckon that the militant behavior of social justice warriors driving away potential Democratic voters did more to affect the outcome of this election.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 02:20 AM
1

I have seen the woman on a pedestal concept play out here on Reddit. Where they use amazing leaps of logic to try and excuse a behavior of a woman poster when they would never afford the same courtesy to a man. I find this mostly seems to come from male posters. Where white knighting occurs often, especially if the woman in question is rather attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 11:50 PM
2

The terms sisterhood and brotherhood seems a very cult-like and guilt tripping word to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 11:33 PM
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Stop using your condition as a crutch. Instead see it as an opportunity to grow. Also maybe your standards are so high that you ignore 95 percent of single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 12:23 PM
0

If you think you are ugly, then you are ugly. But if you think you are beautiful then you are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 12:07 PM
2

We know our place in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 10:50 AM
1

twenty two billion and three quarters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 10:00 AM
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Yes I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 01:51 PM
1

Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 04:46 AM
1

I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 06:31 PM
6

You are more likely to tell people about bad experiences than good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 06:26 PM
1

You might have well asked "What makes a human a human?".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 06:06 PM
1

Booooo to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 06:03 PM
2

Politics is a big topic. This is just a topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 12:58 PM
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I like porn. But it is a bit like chocolate for me: too much of it and I feel a bit queasy. Small doses are best. I don't have a favorite type of porn. I hate blowjob ones though. I love seeing confident and assertive women on porn videos. That is a big turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 12:43 PM
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She stole the election from Bernie Sanders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 06:01 PM
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Trump is a bigoted coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:45 PM
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