Could a relationship between a high n count woman and an inexperienced man work out?

SmurfESmurferson · 2017-01-15T03:22:17+00:00

Yes.

Source: Am a high N woman, married to a low N man, celebrating 8 years of completely monogamous marriage this year (and 19 years of being in each others' lives)

acecutty · 2017-01-15T10:39:44+00:00

Sure, if the guy is desperate enough.

slothsenpai · 2017-01-15T17:45:00+00:00

Though my n-count is 27 and I have pulled multiple women (not a Casanova but like to think I'm better off than most guys at least), I still do exhibit those insecurities I admit from past rejection and losing my v-card so late into my life. My issue with sexually experienced women isn't that they're prone to cheating but rather I wouldn't want to be with someone who would've rejected me or treated me like shit during my youth. I do know a girl who went from highschool geek to drop-dead gorgeous and even she's told me that she doesn't find jocks/muscular men attractive due to the way they used to treat her. It's kind of the same for me tbh and I want to overcome that.

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EchoZeroEleven · 2017-01-15T05:16:49+00:00

Depends on his insecurities.

If insecure: low chance.

If not insecure: sure.

ummidkhi · 2017-01-15T08:02:59+00:00

Yes.

I've lied before and said I was a virgin and he believed me.
Didn't have to lie and we had no issues. We broke up for different reasons.

BeyondTheLight · 2017-01-15T12:30:11+00:00

I don't why it couldn't work really. It is just that the partner with a lower N-count has had little experience and wants to taste what else is out there on average. Also it could be so that they are insecure and will doubt their partner even if he or she doesn't do anything that warrants that. For example thinking that the higher N-count partner will cheat on them. Pester that partner enough and eventually it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. It is no different from the stereotypical case of that one girl that keeps annoying her partner by telling him how she is sooooooo ugly and that she doesn't deserve him. Eventually that man does internalise that and just gtfo's, because he does think he can do better.

Transmigratory · 2017-01-16T01:10:26+00:00

If he's got a lower SMV and less options compared to her? Of course. If not... probably not.

winterrider · 2017-01-16T07:04:34+00:00

It could. Anything is possible. There is the famous case of Crystal DiGregorio, a former porn star and Christian minister Dave Bassette. They met, fell in love and are now getting married. Obviously, his n-count is nowhere near as high as hers. I wish them all the happiness in the world and I sincerely hope that their romance works out.

Now having said all that, these kinds of relationships typically do not work out. Women are incredibly turned off, grossed out and disgusted by low n-count men. I am not shaming women for feeling this way, we all feel how we feel.

ZombieWifeFoCo · 2017-01-16T08:15:12+00:00

Absolutely. Higher N count than him. He had skill regardless and was absolutely willing to try new things and listen when I explained how I liked things. Honestly? Turned out to be a better lover than any other man I'd been with. Still going strong after 10 years.

It was nice that he wasn't a pretentious dick. He wanted to please me. And I enjoyed pleasing him in new ways.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-16T16:29:19+00:00

It's not impossible, but it's unlikely. It is an awful bet for the man.

High n-count women are on average more nagging, whining and demanding, requiring men with stronger leadership to handle such relationships.
Low n-count men are on average less imposing and inexperienced, and more prone to be fascinated by sex for too long.

Your exceptions are very non demanding women, almost apathetic, and women who learned how to fulfill their partner's expectations while avoiding the tempting trap of letting (or even incentivizing) their partners overinvest in the relationships.

Under RP, it can be proven that somehow n-counts don't matter.
CC ridden women are a population filled with potentially poor partners. If you want to avoid them altogether when looking for one, you might save yourself some time (but they do have their appeal).
When you are looking at A WOMAN, whether she is CC ridden or not doesn't really matter. What matter is whether she is a good partner or not, not the causes for it, or "the causes for the causes", as it happens with cc riders. Some cc ridden women are good partners. Many low n-count women are poor partners.

gamercboy5 · 2017-01-18T15:10:09+00:00

Don't know how much this is worth but I was a virgin before meeting my high n-count girlfriend and she said I was the best lover she's ever had

despisedlove2 · 2017-01-15T04:27:13+00:00

Not if it is intended as an LTR. Regardless of his level of experience.

LewisCross · 2017-01-15T04:29:05+00:00

No.

lilchaoticneutral · 2017-01-15T06:43:06+00:00

Cucks are into it and they are plentiful these days

Title	Could a relationship between a high n count woman and an inexperienced man work out?
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Date	January 15, 2017 3:20 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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