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If you are uncomfortable going when it is busy, later in the day might help for sure, but people really don't care what other people at the gym look like. We are all there to work out. We all have different goals and different starting points. You are doing something good for yourself. Don't quit because of insecurities.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 10:09 PM
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She said things are great with you and were terrible with him. That means it is special to her.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 12:26 AM
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Men in relationships usually have their partner telling then they are attractive too.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 04:45 AM
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It is each person's choice who they choose to have sex with. It is neither positive or negative to "sleep around". Multiple partners is not inherently bad.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 06:05 AM
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We don't actually know if she cheated without further proof. It could just be he doesn't like her friends
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 12:47 AM
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Most of that is inherently opinion based and different from one person to another though. There is not one thing or one perfect man all women are interested in.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 08:25 PM
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You are not too damaged, you are just unwilling to give it a chance. They can help you figure out where to start, and can help find what is productive. You are saying no without trying.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 10:06 PM
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Why not try, so you can make life more tolerable
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 01:53 AM
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What illusions are in blue pill? It always seems pretty straightforward
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 09:08 PM
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I misread the other post. I thought it meant that the most beautiful people can have "ugly" looks. They are the ones that are usually in happy marriages
/r/ExRedPill09/02/20 02:38 AM
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I am objectively a very high performer in the sack, with a significantly oversized member, and am not concerned with being measured up (figuratively or literally) against any past partner. /r/Ihavesex
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 12:53 AM
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They can still often easily manage to marry and date though.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/20 01:35 PM
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Maybe you are only seeing muscular guys because it is all you look for? I see women of all types with men of all types out holding hands, with their children, etc. I am not just looking for one type of person. I also see men much shorter than me with even shorter wives. It all depends on preference, and there are many different preferences. I am also a woman and have only ever dated one man I'd consider taller than me, most were within 3 inches of my height. That one man, did eventually become m…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/20 11:20 PM
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I mostly just read his dating advice column. I am happy his YouTube is good too
/r/ExRedPill30/01/20 11:33 AM
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He is honestly amazing.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/20 03:45 AM
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I just find that all the good parts of trp aren't actually from trp. Gain confidence, get healthy, etc. Those are good advice for anyone regardless of trp.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/20 04:28 PM
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That probably will make her think he is politely letting her down and she would move on. He has no reason at this time to be jealous of the friend. They aren't official yet, and it would be really weird to tell a 'friend' about your date if you want to get with them. It sounds like she was excited about this date and told an actual friend at work. A second date is when you start figuring out where you actually stand, the first date is way too soon for that kind of talk. Your advice is inherently…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/19 03:03 AM
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None of that is helpful or accurate. She is showing interest in him by wanting to go out again. Canceling the date would just show her he isn't interested, not the other way around. That doesn't make sense.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 09:26 PM
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I think maybe finding a therapist may help you a lot to find positive ways to love yourself. A lot of your post is just putting yourself down. Positive self talk can be hard at first but goes a long way to building someone's confidence. As for penis size...it matters a bit, but not in the way you are thinking. There are no doubt a few girls who are 'size queens', just like there are some tiny girls who refuse to date anyone under 6 ft. However, they are not the rule at all. Look at it from the m…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/19 11:21 PM
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It's impossible to fight a preference like that. I wouldn't try to date a guy that likes 20 yr olds either. You just look for people that have a preference that fits you.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 02:38 AM
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Women that want older men aren't the ones you should be going for. There are many women that don't like more than a 5 year gap or women who like younger men.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 02:03 AM
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You can sometimes. Depends on the girl and what she wants.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/19 03:06 AM
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the successful military relationships I know have an 'understanding' about non-monogamy on deployments. That is definitely not always the case there are quite a few military people who are just fine with/prefer monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 07:14 AM
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me and my common law partner are in. We see each other about 4-6 months each year and we live in the same house. We make it work. If you are both patient and work hard at it you could make it work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 07:12 AM
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The best age for a woman to get married is 27-32 and a man 30-35. Which also means the best time to find a marriage-worthy relationship is a few years younger than that (assuming some time is spent dating before getting married). That's the best time because it allows you to establish yourself as a quality marriage partner, not just a fuck toy, therefore allowing yourself access to higher quality marriage prospects. I agree. I don't think my partner and I were ready when younger for a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:32 PM
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It is super easy for me which is a good thing. I don't have many women who are peers at my workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:46 PM
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My point is the thing you are describing is actually a pump and dump. You can change the words around but it is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:10 PM
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Girl here, I had a boyfriend once that I had to break up with because he wasn't willing to move. I respected his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:01 PM
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then it wouldn't be a pump and dump. What you are describing is definitely a pump and dump, the reasoning behind it isn't the important part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:53 PM
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I will look them up, normally I only like women doing asmr but fredsvoice just does such a good job. I have been looking for more male ones. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:51 PM
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So you are saying he did not pump and dump her, he fucked her and then didn't stay? Sounds so different to me /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:16 PM
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Do you like fredsvoice? I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:39 AM
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Not that I can think of. There have been a few hockey players I thought were cute with their toothless smiles bit I haven't ever had a sexual fantasy about a sports celebrity OR even a regular one now that I think about it. Other than situations where I am fantasizing about a person I know which are uncommon, most of mine are more about the act itself and not the person involved
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 05:36 AM
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Well I will use an example from my life. One guy tried to date me and would say he loved me. I think that is promising commitment. He was lying just to get in my pants and it hurt a lot when I found out. Another guy was just a ONS we kind of expected it wasn't going to go anywhere and it didn't and it was ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:42 AM
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Yeah if he is honest about it it isn't a big deal. At least as long as he is clean and stopped before he started seeing me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:39 AM
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don't actually have said experience beyond a reddit. Experiences I already have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:31 AM
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well my life experiences show me that what you say is not common in areas I have lived. I don't need to do "social experiments" to find these things out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:19 PM
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So something I have experienced is a strawman? or things you said are a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:18 PM
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My friends and I talk about such things once in a while, we all know not to paint a whole gender with the same brush. I have heard a few older guys at my work say some things that did and got talked to about how unreasonable it is. Other people have warned about specific girls or guys but don't say all girls or guys are like that. We know better than to assume awalt, amalt, or even other things like "everyone who wears a turban is a muslim terrorist". Maybe you just deal with unreasonable people…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:15 PM
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It varies. The guy just has to have a look that works well overall. Short or tall, thin to a bit chunky, hair or shaved. I do know I fell for my boyfriend the first time I saw him and since our work clothes are baggy and somewhat unflattering I was pretty much going off face alone. He has a great smile and the best cheekbones. However, first attraction is never enough to lead to something. I need to know the person before I make that decision I don't know...smile at me? Joke or talk to me maybe.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:16 AM
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Well when I met my boyfriend I had saved my head 5 months previous so it was short. I wanted to grow it out and now we both like it. I am ok with his preference because I know me cutting it wouldn't make him leave but if he got rude about it I would probably leave. I don't mind my hair as is though so it isn't an issue right now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:53 AM
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Me thinks you're arguing in bad faith. Me thinks you've done that since you typed your first comment I'm not too keen on the idea of having sex with Rosie O'Donnell either, oh so you don't want to have sex with every woman, therefore by your logic you don't have a sex drive because if a woman doesn't want to sleep with every single man she doesn't have one either. Or maybe, men and women have preferences in who they like to sleep with. but nice job ignoring that I called out your use of survey b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:28 PM
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I talk to reasonable people all the time. It is not that uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:22 PM
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It doesn't come across as more acceptable to reasonable people. It is only acceptable to extreme feminists, just like AWALT is only acceptable to guys who are RP. Feminists are just more visible at this time. Doesn't make awalt or amalt right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:48 PM
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It doesn't come across as more acceptable to reasonable people. It is only acceptable to extreme feminists, just like AWALT is only acceptable to guys who are RP. Feminists are just more visible at this time. Doesn't make awalt or amalt right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:48 PM
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Yes it is, but the fact is it does come across as if AMALT is very acceptable by the lot who say it It isn't acceptable The evidence with "the lot who say it" is signified by the sheer amount of times AWALT gets debated and torn apart. Also not acceptable The people who say AMALT are just as awful as the ones who say AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:29 PM
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Does this disprove the BP's idea that shitty people attract other shitty people? She sounds like a shitty person to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:51 PM
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It is equally irresponsible and inaccurate to say AMALT. I was quite offended by the All men are rapists thing that was spreading for a while because it is clearly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:47 PM
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I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:43 PM
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As proof, I present the fact women have 1/20 of the testosterone men have, the main hormone responsible for determining one's sex drive. Oh darn, still not good proof. If you said women have lesser sex drives than men, that would make sense. However, that isn't what you said. You said women don't like sex. Something easily provable as wrong. Libido is governed primarily by activity in the mesolimbic dopamine pathway (ventral tegmental area and nucleus accumbens).[1] Consequently, dopamine and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:20 PM
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Said every woman ever. as if you know all of them. You only see what you want to see. I have no respect for an opinion that assumes all of one gender is the same without actual proof from a study. Something you have failed to provide multiple times though asked. Whatever. Except mine is still cited even to this day, cited for other reasons because it wasn't only about number of sexual partners and was revolutionary for its time, or cited by a religious website with an agenda that also doesn't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:39 AM
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I assume they used more rigorous methods. Otherwise, their work wouldn't have gone on to be as regarded and highly-acclaimed as it was. From the wiki about your source (emphasis added) Bell and Weinberg commented that, "Our correspondence and personal meetings with these individuals were of great help to us in constructing a viable interview schedule. While the final instrument, devised over many meetings of various Institute personnel, did not entirely please or represent the views of any one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:13 AM
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You did try to minimize it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:55 AM
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See this? This is pretty much my default answer anytime someone tries to use surveys as definitive proof of anything in matters of sexuality. And how do you think they got the information in the source you had? They asked them. If mine is able to be thrown out for that, so is yours. So you don't have a single good source proving what you think then. Great nice chat. it's one of the very few surefire ways for a woman to make sure no man will want to touch her with a 10ft pole. If I didn't like se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:33 PM
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I honestly don't mind at all. If my friend thinks it would help, then I support him. If he just wants some fun that is fine too. I know a couple guys who have bragged about going as well, that is a little ick because some of the things they did didn't sound safe, but they had fun and I was still friends after. I am for legalization though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:24 PM
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We would already be engaged lol Edit: Though I wouldn't be "saving up" for a ring. A cheap one is good enough. We can't wear rings to works anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:51 PM
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It was a weird leap of logic for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:12 PM
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“I’ll tell you this: I’d take my wife’s name in an instant, but only if it meant avoiding that male birth control stuff that plugs up your sperm tubes. That whole process sounds really unpleasant, not to mention untested on a 10-year time horizon.” Really? He would only change his name if it meant not having to use a hormone free form of birth control. Why not just say you don't want to get it. I mean why even bring that up it doesn't relate at all. As for the name change, I don't really care wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:43 PM
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Prove the study is outdated, if you can, or shut it. I gave you a source and used your own source to prove your opinion is outdated but you are stubborn and defensive. I will find more. http://www.aidsmap.com/Consistent-decline-in-partner-numbers-in-US-gay-men-in-last-decade-but-no-change-in-condom-use/page/2635086/ https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Healthday/story?id=4508672&page=1 from that study: In fact, for straight men and women to experience an ep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:25 PM
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What you are saying is common
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:54 PM
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he makes a good point. This kid has an older brother who has friends, and the kid also has friends. He didn't pick it up from his mom but he picked it up elsewhere. Kids are constantly learning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:01 PM
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Did you not read the study I linked you? The study from 1978 that is considered obsolete? Yes I read it. Also you really don't understand how people interact with each other. Even one night stands the two people usually at least talk a bit or meet online via tinder or grnder. To have sex with someone you almost always have to meet them first and at the very least say Hi. so far you've failed to demonstrate why the book should not be accepted as a reliable source of information. And no, it being …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 01:53 PM
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lol clearly you don't know what we are arguing about. The fact that women experience similar issues to what you face. Then you kept going all woe is me so I basically gave up on the debate and started just telling you what you told me because it was going to go nowhere. figures you couldn't see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 01:42 PM
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Most young people these days use a dating website for at least a bit of time in their 20s. OK cupid is also a decent way to meet people so you can have sex on demand. STDs are a problem in the gay community but nowhere near as much as there used to be. The book I found with the numbers you listed is the exact same one you linked and it was explained as being obsolete in the wiki page I linked. That website you linked is also a Christian website that is clearly pushing an agenda. It really says s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:32 AM
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The one you've been talking about this whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:23 AM
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you work in a female dominated place that might be the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:46 AM
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well you choose not to see how women are hurt by similar things and got all woe is me. So ignore those people, find a new workplace with men who will respect you or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:08 AM
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You linked to the reddit homepage... Here is a real survey that disagrees with your statement. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2010/oct/19/gay-men-promiscuous-myth Here is another: Some of Bell and Weinberg's findings are outdated.[36] Philosopher Michael Ruse, writing in Homosexuality: A Philosophical Inquiry (1988), suggested that the AIDS epidemic, which began after Homosexualities was published, has probably made Bell and Weinberg's picture of gay sexual behavior obsolete.[37] Phil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:06 AM
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Can you actually cite that stat that you pulled out of nowhere? I would like to read the study you got it from. Because otherwise you sound like you are full of it. Need I say more, O delusional one? Edit: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2010/oct/19/gay-men-promiscuous-myth doesn't seem true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:55 AM
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Go tell the gay community that. what? not all gay people sleep with each other either...some have preferences. Do those specific men not like sex either? What about a straight guy that only dates/sleeps with girls of a specific race? Does he not like sex? Not all men would sleep with every woman on this planet. Many specifically say "no fatties" or "no religious girls" or "no flat girls" pr even "no girls with an STI" these men all love sex, they just have preferences in who they are attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:42 AM
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EVERY LITTLE THING I DO is tainted by the fact that I'm unpleasant looking and unmasculine then ignore those people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:34 AM
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lol that doesn't make sense. Your logic isn't sound. A person can love something but only like doing that thing with certain people. Otherwise people who like playing chess with a friend who challenges them but doesn't like playing with others wouldn't like chess. Would you really have sex with every single woman on this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:30 AM
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sounds like a you problem. Maybe they love sex but not wit you. Because I love it, but I sure as hell wouldn't fuck just any random guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:22 AM
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lol says the guy that literally can't back up his words
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:16 AM
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the more excited and horny a guy is the less likely he is to last long. Quick sex can be fun, but if a guy is too eager to get his rocks off it definitely isn't usually quality sex for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:22 AM
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you are projecting a hell of a lot more than I am if you think only sex workers and gays use sex toys. lol your hamster wheel is whirring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 02:21 AM
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awe that means I failed too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:39 PM
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Yes, for gays and sex workers. for women too. You don't get it at all if you think only sex workers buy sex toys. There wouldn't be as many sex toy stores open that cater to "women and couples" if that were true. There wouldn't be as many toys devoted to finding the gspot or stimulating the clit if that were true. There wouldn't be as much teen pregnancy because teens love sex and don't know consequences, there wouldn't be as many accidental pregnancies after one night stands or fwbs, children w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:34 PM
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plus or minus 2 inches from my height and anyone not super jacked, obese, or anorexic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 09:24 PM
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gross you only date short weaklings I date 9' or taller and +400 lbs but they have to have less than 5% body fat at that weight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 09:22 PM
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It isn't based on observable fact. Sex toys are a huge market, womens magazines and shows talk about sex all the time. Women may not crave sex as much as men do for the most part, but it does not mean they do not want or enjoy it. Women tend to love sex. Your opinion is based on nothing but assuming every woman is a liar when she says she likes sex, which is a little ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 09:14 PM
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You brushed it off with a casual "ignore them" which is what you should also do in such situations where someone judges you on your looks more than your work. you are just so very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:32 PM
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I am in to bdsm. I have been sexually assaulted. The bruises I got from the guy that wouldn't stop painfully biting my neck even though I begged him to stop are the same as bruises from my boyfriend when he accidentally went a little too eager in the beginning. Scratch marks down a guy's back look the same whether the girl is really enjoying it or fighting him off. But I give examples like this every time and you ignore them and repeat your ignorance. Of course there is a difference between bdsm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:31 PM
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lol because your opinion isn't based in fact in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:23 PM
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From my experience over eager guys tend to have worse sex not better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:22 PM
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it would obviously be best if looks could just not be part of professional judgments or your achievements. They really should be irrelevant. yes of course, no one should be dismissed because of their looks. He just made it sound like pretty people have no issues at all which is untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:20 PM
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You get oddly defensive when someone disagrees with you lol I am not defensive at all, just giving examples why your opinion is inaccurate. You really don't know women at all if you think all of us don't like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:03 PM
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The practical matter is that BMI or other height-to-weight ratios are easier to talk about because it is less common to know all of your SO's dimensions. That is weird to me. I have never talked to anyone about my partner's bmi. I don't need to know how much he weighs. I will say "oh he is skinny" or "oh he has meat on him" if someone asks what he looks like, but to focus so much on another person's measurements seems very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:02 PM
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unless it is a very very new thing I don't think it is, because I grew up there and have never heard the friends I still have there talk about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:59 PM
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I grew up in a city with a decent amount of murder and other violent crime. I grew up in a city with a decent amount of violent crime. Staring at cleavage isn't rape. I think you just really don't understand how far some bdsm can go. Like you think mild rope play and gentle spanks are all there is. It is very clear that you know nothing about what you speak. Also thank you for ignoring my last point and trying to turn it around on me, poorly. I will say it again Give me one good reason that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:58 PM
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You were complaining about an issue you think is worse for men than women. I gave an example of why I don't think it is true and you brushed it off, so I brushed off your complaint too. So it's not that women's achievements are judged based on the woman's appearance always. It's that some people judge women's attention that way. Okay So it's not that men's achievements are judged based on the man's appearance always. It's that some people judge men's attention that way. Which is what I was tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:55 PM
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I always worry my kids will get all my bad genes and none of my good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:55 AM
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inconvenient is not the same thing as being fired for missing work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:51 AM
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People sometimes hide their true colors until something forces their hand or they chicken out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:50 AM
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you think I don't know what it's like when someone ignores everything about me other than those two traits? well then ignore that person I studied and work in a female-dominated field and what you're complaining about simply doesn't happen to women. It does, on the other hand, happen to men who fail to fulfill the conventional requirements for masculine appearance and virility. I work in a male dominated field. Maybe you are just seeing what happens in your own field and not what happens elsewhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:47 AM
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I was horny as hell, and probably would've been great in bed. lacked the requisite social/romantic/sexual skills. lol which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:40 AM
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right now? lol what reason would I have for that. I crave sex. You just sound mad you don't get much, so you have to pretend women hate it. If women really hated sex there wouldn't be so many articles about it in women's mags and toys meant to enhance it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:36 AM
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no you really know nothing about how extreme bdsm can get. Maybe do some research before you share these opinions next time. It's laughable you'd think both would look the same. It is laughable you think they couldn't. A person can slap another person in the face and the mark will look the same whether it was pleasure or violence. A person can hold another person down and the bruising would look the same whether violent or pleasurable. I quite often end up bruised during sex. I doubt you'd be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:35 AM
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Do you think having your achievements ignored completely or viewed as silly/not serious because you are pretty is better? Because it sounds about the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:25 AM
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well I must just be pretending then when I am lusting after my guy then am I? I must be pretending when I get physically aroused and initiate sex. My friends and I must be lying when we say we can't wait to get home to our guys because it has been a long time or lying when we say we love when the guy does certain things. I'm sure you keep telling yourself it is lies over and over again hoping it'll be true someday because it just feels better than knowing the truth. The truth that girls enjoy go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:43 AM
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So you literally want women to make their rapists so mad they could be permanently maimed or worse, instead of not moving in the hopes they don't get hurt worse. WOW Would you say the same thing to someone who is being robbed at knifepoint? Should they just be stabbed to prove they were being robbed? Because the mugger could just take the money and toss the wallet, no proof he did it in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:36 AM
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In that case I also can't consent at all. Which is why having sex with someone while they are asleep without their express consent earlier is so wrong. They can't consent while asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:34 AM
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it's going to really piss him off and he's gonna fuck her up real good. and you are suggesting that that is a good idea? Really? You also know absolutely nothing about BDSM if you don't think it can look like a rape for some people. Some people enjoy "being fucked up real good"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:33 AM
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oh so the other comment was sarcastic. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:01 AM
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And it's a good thing that getting a woman to consent doesn't actually require her to actually want to have sex. Otherwise, it'd be virtually impossible for any man to get sex without committing rape. What? Are you just really bad at sex? Because most of the women I know love sex and want it with their partner often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:59 AM
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Primal play or rape play regularly leaves both parties with injuries and scratches that'd be consistent with what you're saying only happens in rape. no why do you think that? A girl scratching down a guy's back would look pretty similar in those situations. I get bruises sometimes from having my hands tied that would be very consistent with bruises obtained in a rape if her hands were tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:57 AM
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So you'd rather some girls get hospitalized for being beaten? Just so they can "prove" it? Get permanent injuries?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:54 AM
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Why can't I revoke consent in my sleep? Do I specifically have to say "I remove consent for sex as soon as I fall asleep to the moment I decide to re-consent in the future when I wake up"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:50 AM
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I've never heard of this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:42 AM
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All women? Really? Because I don't really remember just sitting back and getting approached. I had to work really hard for almost every one of the times that happened and most of the time did the approaching (and failing) myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:32 AM
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when someone has sex with you and you don't want it or you aren't given a chance to decide if you want it it is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 11:01 PM
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a girl can have normal sex with an ONS and not be a sexual deviant... Having sex with a girl does not mean she is automatically in to unconcious sex or bdsm either. That is a huge stretch, so is the assumption that she doesn't value herself. Besides even if you do think those things, there is a better way to find out than just doing thinks to a sleeping girl. It is called asking first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:45 PM
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accept maybe, but not practice. Most BPs I see say something along the lines of "your way works, but so does mine" or telling someone that their way isn't the only way a relationship works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:09 PM
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Do you have a scientific source for that? Because most of the things I have read say early 20s is the peak because pregnancy can have a lot of issues before that if the girl is still going through puberty or after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:05 PM
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I know that laugh. I know that sadness. it doesn't feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:40 AM
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I think you are really misunderstanding the definition of needy. It isn't wanting. Like I may say I "need" my boyfriend, because I like caring for him, having him around, giving/getting love, etc. but I don't actually need him for my self worth, I will not suffer if he isn't around for a while. We have our own lives. I don't actually need him, I just really really want him around and life would be crappier without him. Crappier still doesn't mean I need him, otherwise I would quit my job that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:19 AM
1

Definitely doesn't have to be a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:12 AM
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I think the abs turn me off more than the height, but kudos to that guy that takes some fucking dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:12 AM
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Sounds like you just don't know how to control yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:49 PM
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How is someone supposed to consent to sex when they are asleep? It was assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:47 PM
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Never. I have no reason to assume all men are as bad as the shitty ones I have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:01 AM
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I am within the healthy ranges for waist to height ratio and waist to hip ratio which are far better indicators for health than bmi. However, I am usually at the top of the healthy range for bmi as well, and try to stay within it. 130 may be healthy, but it wouldntt be a look I am after
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 10:25 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 10:23 PM
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So you only like the low range of healthy I see. Unfortunately I don't think I have been that skinny in many years lol. I am normally the high end of healthy, around 24, sometimes jumping to 25 and then going back down when I realize the error. I don't like going under 160 personally. I like having a butt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:09 AM
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barefoot? no not really doesn't sound that sexy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:04 AM
1

5'9" barefoot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:17 AM
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Yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:38 PM
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If we are talking about height alone I see no reason why a guy much shorter than me couldn't satisfy me. I have had crushes on much shorter guys but haven't been with anyone more than 5 inches shorter than me. He was a bad lay, but it was coincidental, I don't assume that would be the case for everyone. As for exceptionally large, if we are talking over 6'8" there might be some logistical issues but if he was nice enough and patient we could probably make it work. It would be weird feeling that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:33 PM
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Exactly, are we going by hair, abs, willingness to fight, willingness to protect, height, size, intelligence, etc? Because all of those things belong to different guys I have dated. It is too confusing a decision
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:33 PM
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Not really, different people are just different sizes. A small girl can be "bigger" than a tall girl and vice versa. It is constrained to an extent but there is quite a lot of space for things to fit within our torsos, it only needs to start growing out when there is a large baby involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:30 PM
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sane reason it doesn't always scale with guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:47 AM
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there are a few of us for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:46 AM
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Girl and I prefer 5'7" to 5'10" because it is +- 2 inches from my height and I like to be able to look a guy in the eyes. I will date outside of it though because it isn't hugely important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:45 AM
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I don't know if any of them stood above the rest in terms of masculinity. They all had masculine features/mannerisms, but each was different from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:38 PM
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you can have passion for your job and still not want to be your own boss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:28 AM
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1) Age 27 2) Gender if it's not obvious from your PrincessSparkleFairy / CertifiedAlphaSilverback username Female 3) Relationship status, cohabitating or not etc Commonlaw 4) What's the budget situation like? Do you have any logic to it or do you just buy whatever and look at the damage at the end of the month? I don't really have a logic to it other than making sure I always have 9000 in the bank in case of emergencies and making sure bills are paid before I can do anything fun. I don't often m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:12 AM
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That is what I don't get, it is repeated multiple times a day to these women, of course it can create a hostile environment. A person that cat calls is a part of that harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:36 PM
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I'd have elijah wood's baby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:22 AM
2

It gets easier after a while. At least it does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:50 PM
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It isn't the only way, but it helps. Every guy I have been with I met through a group of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:09 AM
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lol if I listened to that I'd be an incel too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:08 AM
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Why? It is fine as is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:48 AM
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I am in to some strange things so I try to be open to all sorts at least non-judgmentally because what people enjoy is their own business, however: I do not think it is safe or ok if one person actually doesn't want to be involved in the kink, both people have to at least be willing to try I do not think anything that involves extreme irreparable damage to a person to be ok, a few little scars are fine, needing stitches probably isn't. There needs to be at least some semblance of safety involved…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:42 AM
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There was a time in my life where I did cut. I didn't want to be known as "that person" so I hid it well and tried to stop. I still needed that release though. So I started scratching myself hard to get it, it was healthier but not really a huge improvement. I then found that going to the gym worked way better for me. I can totally see how the people who cut to release the pain would like getting their legs waxed as a replacement, but some do it to see blood, and it might not work as well. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:34 AM
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interesting, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:20 PM
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That is another good point. Now if someone really hates animals and wants to harm them for no good reason, now that would be a problem for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:38 PM
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finally someone who agrees with me on that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:31 PM
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My mom is a weird case. She doesn't hate dogs, she doesn't want harm to come to them, she is just absolutely terrified of them and has been since childhood. It is a real phobia. This allows me to have more understanding towards people who are scared of animals. Like I am terrified of spiders and wouldn't want someone to put one on me, so I get that I should do my best to keep random dogs or my friend's dogs away from my mom. So I don't always think something has to be up with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:07 PM
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I am saying it is very very uncommon for things like bdsm and rope play, actual "wild" sex, to happen between two people without a discussion previously. "Rough" sex isn't really all that crazy or non-vanilla. It is just normal sex with a bit more physical enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:51 PM
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Yes more open to it. With discussion. Which is my entire point. It won't just be random and completely casual at that point you will have had to discussed it at least a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:42 PM
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Yea, I like some degrading things, but that is completely unacceptable to me. So so gross. I also think it is funny how that is assumed to be the one taboo thing and not any other number of things that might happen in a sexual relationship. Like the couple might have sex once or twice a week but it is like all sorts of rope play but they'd be standard and vanilla because they don't do ATM lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:53 AM
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Both of those things are almost always at least discussed beforehand, at least casually. It is not a good idea to tie up a person who isn't in to it without them knowing it'll happen. Casual sex between two people who know each other well or who have at least had a few conversations may include that, but casual sex between two casual acquaintances or a random hookup normally won't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:20 AM
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I do love hairy guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:54 PM
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s that women DO like getting jackhammered but not by men who aren't fitting for the role of course, there has to be more to a guy than that. If that is all a guy can do he will not fit that role in my life. If he can do other stuff, and I know the sex won't only include jackhammering I can enjoy it from time to time. All the time would suck and it would probably hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:13 PM
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especially if one or both are into BDSM is much higher really. That is usually discussed beforehand though, if it is actually random that is an unlikely intro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:37 PM
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It has done nothing but strengthen mine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:12 PM
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Well then say "not interested" and ignore them. It is their right to interrupt your workout. You are only annoyed because they aren't attractive to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:05 PM
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thus my mention of big chins. Basically the most muscular bulbous men possible are what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:16 PM
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Not the right type
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:15 PM
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giant pecs and immaculate calves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:09 AM
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Big chins, big traps, and big dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:51 AM
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I was 24 but I was also a very different person than I was at 20 and 21. I grew a lot through my experiences from 18 to 24. What I wanted and who I was at 24 was a lot different than at 20. If I met the guy I did at 24 when I was 20 we would not be together, it would not have lasted. I am also a lot different now than I was when I met him. I know who I am and what I want, I don't pretend to be something I am not anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:21 PM
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I met the guy I am with 2, almost 3 years ago and it was after I had realized my behaviors were starting to hinder my chances at finding someone. I had been a very casual person before that with some other personality traits that didn't help. I learned a lot about who I wanted to be, who I was, and who I was looking for during those years. Then when I found the guy I am with now, I knew who I could be. I am still improving, as a person should throughout their life, but I knew myself enough to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:24 PM
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You don't know yourself any better, you don't feel any different to when you were younger, you're still attracted to the same qualities and physical attributes that you were before. I do feel different now at 27 than I did at 21. I do know myself better, enough that I know why my previous attempts at relationships didn't work out. I am also interested in physical attributes I wasn't previously. So maybe you don't feel different, but it sounds like your own problem, not everyone else's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:01 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:01 PM
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You are the one in denial. Pretending everything is oh so awful all the time so you don't feel as bad when you are trying to find reasons to hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:51 PM
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That isn't even worth commenting on, it is such an extreme and exaggerated version of real life. That is nowhere near as common as you are acting like it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:13 PM
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Most of them refuse to admit to their parents that they are having sex and are at an age where they think they are untouchable or "It won't happen to me, he pulls out" and then do nothing to prevent it otherwise. Once girls go to college and live on their own they are more likely to do the research and find a method that works for them. By that point it will already be too late for some girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:02 PM
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So you don't watch how men select and play women. You don't look at how women act when not in public. No wonder you don't see it. You aren't looking. That is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 07:20 PM
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So you watch them go home upset that they have been played? You see everything they do and there is no possibility of them acting like everything is ok in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:42 PM
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possibility of them faking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:21 PM
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Big dicks are what make average looking men fuckable. Most guys that are fuckable are fuckable before the girl knows how big they are, there aren't many women measuring before they bring a guy home and there aren't many who bring a guy home and will tell him to leave when he is too small, average is normally fine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:20 PM
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learn biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:16 PM
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Then you don't know many women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 06:03 PM
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and women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:11 PM
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I have had my heart broken a few times. I used to be quick to fall for someone. It happens. It doesn't make me hate guys though, it doesn't even make me hate most of the guys that broke my heart. We were just on different paths and it isn't their fault they didn't love me back, it just happens. No reason to hate people over it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:10 PM
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Why should an ONS be special to me? I wanted sex, the guy was available, I went for it. It was meaningless and terrible sex so I never went back. Also my hubs is gorgeous. This will be my only reply to you because I know you'll take it to a weird place if I continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:02 PM
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I mean, I'm not bitter or anything oh ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:24 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with this movie? It isn't real life for most people. I have had a couple of short term flings/ONS, but I had seen the person before at least once before that and they weren't really special to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:29 AM
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Depends, Do I know him already? Am I in a relationship? If I was single and knew the guy enough (like I had met him a few times or he was in my friend's group) I would If he was a stranger I wouldn't at all If I am in a relationship I definitely wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:04 PM
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It has been both. You look at a 25 year old guy 40 years ago and now they are totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:59 PM
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If the traditional and conservative men who wanted to get married are going to get married, then what accounts for the marriage decline? The guys that no longer want the traditional/conservative marriage account for the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:11 PM
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Experiences don't require sharing indiscriminately with strangers. They don't, and sharing pictures with your friends isn't indiscriminately sharing with strangers. Some experiences do involve meeting new people though, people who might be strangers. Travel, when properly conducted and wisely chosen, is a spiritual experience. No, that is how you do it. Your way is fine, but it does not have to be a spiritual experience for everyone. It can be a way to relax, a way to see something you've never …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:57 PM
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I agree with this. It shouldn't be the only factor, but it should be one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:45 AM
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You can have an adventure on your day off though, or after work. IF you consider travelling for work just work, then you haven't really ever traveled for fun or for the experiences and you really can't judge the people who have because you don't have those experiences. You don't have to be shallow to share pictures of your experiences with friends and family, sometimes people really do just want to see. You clearly don't, but that doesn't make them shallow. Do you ever have fun and want to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 12:04 AM
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Seems fair to me. It is her choice to wait and yours to stay, I don't know why that would ruin someone's confidence either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 11:56 PM
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I don't pretend that it is an adventure and certainly don't post pictures while making faces Why isn't someone else going to a new place considered an adventure to you? Also why do you have a problem with people having fun and "making faces" you sound like a wet blanket. Someone who just goes places and does nothing fun because you don't want to look "silly" or "shallow"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 08:55 PM
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So most of your travel is paid for, yet the people who save up and go somewhere themselves are the shallow ones? Most of my travel is paid for by work as well, but I still don't think the people who take a road trip or go to a beach in mexico for a week are shallow because they want a break and want to explore the only way they know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 08:43 PM
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yup, exactly. Only your way of travel is considered non shallow I assume. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 07:03 PM
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Nothing that I didn't already know, except I now know Incels and MGTOW are things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 06:59 PM
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You sound like the delusional one. One of those people where if someone doesn't do something specifically the way you do, it is shallow and empty. Your way is not the only way to live
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 04:52 PM
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I would probably be very very unhappy in a relationship I no longer wanted to be in because I wouldn't want to have no money in the bank
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:55 PM
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You can experience a new place and stay in a hotel... You can also share new experiences on facebook without being shallow. It is also ok to use travel to escape to somewhere new, it is still traveling. You just sound like a downer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:52 PM
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I pretty much hate when guys try to pay for things when I have the ability to do so myself, so I haven't dated any guy who insisted he pay for very long (one date ends it with exception of my 1st boyfriend where I didn't know any better and stayed longer than I should have for multiple reasons) So I am not in to BBs, though I also don't think I am really in to AFs because I have never slept with someone purely because of their looks, they need more than that even for a fling or ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:04 AM
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Would you want a guy who rejected you , then went after all your friends? Then was interested in you after being rejected? Someone who basically ignored or used you to talk to your better looking friend. For months until they gave up? No I wouldn't, but I would want an awesome guy who happened to be shorter who knew better than to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:57 PM
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that is a very roundabout way to say "yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:56 PM
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most women will make exceptions for guys they like enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:54 PM
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Who says people travel to escape their inner voice? Maybe they travel to find it or sate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:53 PM
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Like I have a guy friend that just came back from a year of travel and had suspended his facebook account during it because he wanted to be in the moment. Others I know just leave their phone home for the week they go away. It is probably pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:52 PM
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Travel is fun! I wanted to travel more than I could afford so I got a job that pays me to do so. I love learning about and experiencing different cultures, going to museums, seeing something new, visiting old friends, meeting new friends, seeing family, etc. I think young women just use social media more so you see it more often. Guys are traveling too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:34 AM
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Have you never traveled? Do you not want any experiences you can't find in your own backyard? Are you a shut in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:31 AM
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some, not all. Just like not all men act weird about being short
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:28 AM
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and that she didn't respect herself enough to wait for someone compatible for long term. she doesn't expect or demand marriage, or even monogamy for that matter, while being exclusive towards me so do guys not respect themselves if they aren't exclusive with their first and will "nut" on any girl who lets him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:35 AM
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I think if I was in the marvel universe I might fall for Deadpool. I kind of relate to the making the best of a bad situation humor he has, and that deep down he wants to be appreciated. He would clearly be annoying sometimes, but I think with patience and love he would start to think he was worth it, which would be important. I bet he is in to some weird stuff too. It is hard to think of a recent character in something live action I really liked, but I did love Jeff Goldblum in Independence Day…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:28 AM
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I don't like when guys act weird about being shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:18 AM
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god I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:17 AM
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No height requirement for me, but I do require that shorter men be confident enough to not get upset if I am in heels and taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 03:16 AM
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You are the "I" YOU are the thing behind your thoughts, not everything is purposeful, but there isn't anyone else pulling the strings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:24 PM
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But why did you say no over not say no? :) because I chose to. Actions are something we choose, thoughts are something we do not choose. Actions are the important part here. I can be hungry and choose not to eat something I am allergic to. I can find a man attractive and choose not to have sex with him. It is really that simple. You should always have control of your actions, your thoughts help make the decision on what to do, sure, but you have control of the way things turn out. I also said "y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:14 PM
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If I say, picture a tree, and say its name out loud. What control did you have over which tree you pictured? And if you pictured multiple, how did you choose which one to settle on and speak the name of? True, but you can ask what tree I thought of and I can say no. Just like a person can say no to having sex with someone they are attracted to, just like a person can say "maybe we shouldn't hang out anymore, this is getting inappropriate" or " I think I am going to leave my wife" You may not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:21 AM
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yes they can. If you can't control where you are putting your dick, you probably shouldn't be putting it anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:00 PM
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Obese people do choose to continue eating the amount they do. And a person chooses to cheat instead of leaving their partner when they have found someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:02 PM
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To say it's simply up to them to control themselves isn't really in line with reality. It is in line with reality. It is as simple as not having sex with the person or avoiding them whenever possible. Yes it is hard to control your attraction to someone, but you can control where it leads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:49 PM
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no, I don't. Funny you think I would though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:17 PM
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looks, height those aren't leadership qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:02 PM
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Weird because I wouldn't really consider myself one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:00 PM
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belittling me or getting physical when angry. Those are hard nos for me and I would probably leave
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:10 AM
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No and no I mean the guy was charming, but I wouldn't want to have sex with someone knowing they are cheating, nor would he have been in my acceptable age range
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 10:29 PM
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I don't think it is understandable. If you can't work it out you should leave. It is simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:04 PM
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In any situation, if you can't work it out with the other party it is better to leave. If this means no longer being exclusive and both sides are fine with it, ok, if it means leaving, ok. Cheating is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 04:19 PM
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clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:16 PM
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women should also get std tests then, just in case the guy is getting some on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:35 AM
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to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct That is the definition I used. It did not say it has to be repeated, though I would argue multiple pics sent by multiple men would count as repeated. I found it here: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/harass The second definition. I also found this one: To subject (another) to hostile or prejudicial remarks or actions; pressure or intimidate here: http://www.thefreedictionar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:18 AM
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totally makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:04 AM
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I got the definition I posted from a dictionary, thank you. Yours was not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:04 AM
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they are often random and repeated. Sending random dick pics knowing the person doesn't want them, especially if they have said no, is harassment. It can also be harassment if you are one of many sending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:45 AM
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left right, but totally not someone I would date at all right, because of the shaved face, but still not my type left neither, I just don't like them either, both are fine Left, that chest hair left right but attractive to me right left but not my type right, but I wouldn't say no to left lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:49 PM
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to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct Getting random dick pics is unpleasant, getting them repeatedly by strangers is worse. It is actually harrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:32 PM
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I disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:00 PM
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normal goes to 24.9 I am about a point over normal which is about 7 pounds. It isn't that much over. I am just tall and like food. When I have time to go to the gym and have the ability to cook my own food I am usually 167-170 which is where I like to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 04:32 AM
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I just rarely see that in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 03:27 AM
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I really don't think he is as popular as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 02:20 AM
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I didn't say it wasn't primarily for hooking up. I said not everyone uses it for that. You know 80% of the guys on Tinder? Also, yes "Chads" will do great with the type of women who want them, they won't do great with the rest. That is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:35 AM
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I would say that or a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:31 AM
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I'd feel fine, it would change nothing. I am not a small person and I don't like being picked up anyway. It scares me when it does happen lol. I've never been carried in someone's arms and I don't expect to be. I am 5'9" and 175 lbs. It is not unreasonable to think at my size I would cause back problems. I am not a tiny delicate flower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 01:23 AM
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you are higher than a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:05 PM
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Not everyone uses tinder for only hooking up, and even the ones that do will usually tend to pick people they are attracted to and are looking for different things. A goth and a prep may both participate in "hook up culture" for example, but they most likely won't be looking for the same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 09:36 PM
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http://imgur.com/3PIQ5K6 like a 6ish?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:56 PM
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the 2nd is so much better despite the cigar. I would not peg the first as a 10 maybe a 7 or 8 but not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:33 PM
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That is why I said hope and not expect. There is a huge difference between those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:18 PM
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Of course the mousy girl at starbucks can have tinder, she is just probably looking for someone a little different that the party/club girl for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 08:16 PM
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So that goes the same for RP then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:36 PM
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I think most BP try to just be themselves in the hopes that they will find a woman who fits with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:36 PM
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Exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:35 PM
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To a lot of BP the "sniper" approach works better, because you may not get as many dates, but you get dates that fit better with your personality. So many guys on RP complain that women act like children and only go to the bar and party, when those are specifically the type of girl these things will usually work on. If you want a different type of girl, the sniper technique is better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:55 PM
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I honestly do think RP can work on certain women. I also think it can be wrong and harmful and it not the only way or even the right way in a lot of situations. Some act like it is the only way which I hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:13 AM
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Just because we hang out in different circles, does not make what we see less true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:11 AM
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Why not just leave though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:07 AM
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Average women probably start in high school around 16-18 and have maybe 2-3 relationships and maybe 1-2 fwb or ons until finding someone who is right. I, however, started at 21, had 3 fwb, 1 ons, and 1 relationship before I found the right person for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:06 AM
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Seems reasonable to me 96% Rope bunny 88% Submissive 80% Masochist 55% Experimentalist 49% Voyeur 48% Brat 45% Pet 37% Switch 35% Slave 32% Rigger 27% Exhibitionist 26% Degradee 24% Vanilla 19% Primal (Prey) 15% Dominant 9% Sadist 8% Master/Mistress 5% Girl/Boy 5% Primal (Hunter) 4% Non-monogamist 4% Brat tamer 3% Degrader 2% Daddy/Mommy 1% Owner 0% Ageplayer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 11:08 PM
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No, I am saying if you don't analyze during, it is too late after. He didn't analyze during in my example, he kept pushing and getting angrier. He should have picked up that I was uncomfortable instead of pushing forward after I said no. He should have realized that manipulating me with fear and anger to do something I didn't want was wrong. He should have realized that it is really hard for a person to say no when you are holding their head down and they can't breathe. He didn't realize any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:08 PM
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That obviously isn't how it works, but to pretend it isn't ok to want to work up to sex with someone is a little strange. Just because you go right in to it doesn't mean it is the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:52 PM
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Very very true. Assuming that your loneliness will go away if you sleep with someone can be a recipe for disaster when it becomes clear it didn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 12:50 PM
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it is awful for sure, I was very lonely growing up for the most part as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:12 AM
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i think it was meant to be self-defeating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:05 AM
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really? because almost all of my friends started being alone with a guy they liked by at least making out or oral, and worked up to the rest after figuring each other out. I don't know many that fucked right away. Not everyone (including some men) want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:48 AM
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yea, say that to the guy that misunderstood my tenseness after getting angry at me that I wouldn't have sex without a condom. He was not the book learning type. He was dumb as a brick and has a couple children to show for it now. Thank fuck I was able to hold my own enough for him to back off a bit. The rest of the experience was still a bit traumatizing but at least he didn't rape me. Not all girls can, especially when it is their first time and the guy is a manipulative dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:46 AM
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neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:40 AM
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It is very lonely to know you are only as good as the hole between your legs and that men want nothing of you besides sex. Sex isn't always companionship and love. Those things are nice and prevent loneliness, but not all women can get them. It is a similar feeling to guys who pay and feel lonely because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:37 AM
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Have you ever moved to a new place where you know no people and also don't speak the local language? Have you ever rented yourself an apartment knowing it'd take months to speak to the neighbors and that going to the grocery store or a restaurant would be difficult because you wouldn't even be able to make small talk with the cashier or waitress? Because I have. I know what loneliness is. Maybe you should just lower your standards since you think women "choose" loneliness, when they are just hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:31 AM
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I think it's stupid to overanalyze how a woman acts during sex. What matters is how she feels afterwards. That is what you said. If you wait until after to see if she is ok, it may already be too late. You are the one not understanding what I am saying. Yes being tense doesn't have to be a no, but it can be. If you want to have sex with someone it is on you to make sure it is the ok tense, otherwise you could be in for some trouble. She may not be ok at the end if you wait. This is why understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:50 AM
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What would you suggest instead? Having someone in the room watching to make sure everyone feels safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:46 AM
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Rape will happen if the guy wants it to, doesn't matter if you had the original intention of sleeping with him or not. He can also take it farther than you intended as well. Would you suggest to a woman who went home with a guy for sex that is is her fault if he puts it in anally without asking because she should have went in to the situation expecting it? The rape is the fault of the person who does the raping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 10:29 PM
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if you think it is weird for a woman to not want to have sex with a man she is alone with. is what I said because you said: So if she doesn't want to have sex, what is she doing with this man She is with him to do things other than sex I said this: The first time a woman should be alone with a guy they should skip making out, bjs, handjobs, foreplay etc and get right to the PIV because you said this: If a woman has sex off the table or doesn't understand the primary reason for such an invite to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:20 PM
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smudges are the worst thing ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:16 PM
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you really never worked up to fucking someone? You always did it the first night you were alone with them every time? There was never a time in your life where you just did oral? A guy is strange at the beginning of a relationship, a girl doesn't have to fuck him right away nor should she be expected to. Some people like to test the waters with things other than sex first and that is fine. Just because you skip right to the fucking does not mean the people who don't are wrong or needing to be ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 09:15 PM
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didn't see or read it sounded boring
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:21 PM
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Yes I saw that, you underestimate how violent and intimidating some men can be. Especially when you thought you could trust him previous to that moment. If women never trusted men not to be violent a lot less willing sex would happen. In a relationship or FWB or even ONS there will be a time where you have to be alone with the guy. It is smart to try to make sure it is someone you feel safe with. However, the guy could have been pretending, or the girl could be a poor judge of character, sometim…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:21 PM
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I wear glasses too lol so sometimes I just have to grab both pairs and take them off haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:15 PM
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How is a woman who wants to do things other than sex with a man a strawman? Does that make me a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:14 PM
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Nicolas Sparks? I don't know, because I don't think I have seen any ever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:41 PM
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What matters is is how she feels during. If you wait until after, it could already be too far and you could be getting in trouble. No one is saying it is "blink 3 times" means she is not ok, you are the one over exaggerating. There are signs, and those signs can sometimes come from a girl who is ok, but nervous or a girl who is not ok and scared. It is your job to make sure the things YOU are doing are ok, because if they aren't and you didn't pay attention to the signs well she could feel as if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:06 PM
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If a woman has sex off the table or doesn't understand the primary reason for such an invite to a guys place is for sex, she shouldn't be going home with him. You seem to not understand what it means to work up to sex, if you think it is weird for a woman to not want to have sex with a man she is alone with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:00 PM
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I looked up canada which was 5' 3.4". Most women also don't wear 4 inch heels every day, and 5'8 or 9 is still shorter than 5'10" if they want to be technical, and a lot don't care aas long as they aren't taller than him. There are exceptions of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:59 AM
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She needs to be chaperoned because she wanted to try something with someone she thought she could trust because he was acting like she could, and he changed and pushed more on her than she was comfortable with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:54 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:53 AM
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I think they are cute and make a guy look better if they fit his face well. Like Johnny Knoxville from Jackass, he was so much better looking when he started wearing glasses, at least to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:11 AM
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sigh, of course not if you exaggerate like that. Most signs are not like that they are subtle. She may tense up, not be as enthusiatic, say she isn't comfortable a few times, suggest doing something other than sex, etc The fear can also come out if she says or does those things and the guy refuses to stop or gets angry, especially if he gets angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:08 AM
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some women like glasses a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:04 AM
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I love guys with a nice pair of glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:03 AM
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5' 10 is a perfectly reasonable height for a lot of women who prefer taller men because the average woman is 5'3" or 5'4"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 04:03 AM
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ok so no woman should be alone with a guy if she wants to do anything other than sex. The first time a woman should be alone with a guy they should skip making out, bjs, handjobs, foreplay etc and get right to the PIV because she shouldn't be there for anything but vaginal sex. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:56 AM
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It does depend on specific actions. Example from my past: I meet a guy, he seems nice. We start seeing each other and he invites me over after a couple of dates. He starts out nice, knowing I had never done anything previously. Then rushes through everything (hands, oral, etc) trying to get to sex. He gets more aggressive and less nice with each thing. I am sore, my throat hurts, I don't really want to be there anymore but he is getting mad and rough. Insists it is time for sex, I say ok if he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:12 AM
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is a woman only allowed to be alone with a man if she is guaranteed to have sex? Can she not want to work her way up to sex, or change her mind half way through the night?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:57 AM
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muscular guys in the gym aren't often being aggressive. That is a key point. Some women don't like some/all aggressive behaviors because they feel threatened. You saying they shouldn't feel that way doesn't make the feeling fake. A guy can be muscular and not be threatening, and a non-threatening guy can become threatening depending on behavior. Getting someone alone is often a time where they can show their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:55 AM
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for other reasons? Why does she automatically need to have sex or even need to find those things listed attractive? Maybe she wanted to make out or mess around a bit without sex? Pinning someone down and being verbally aggressive can definitely be a normal part of sex for a lot of people, but that doesn't mean it would work for everyone. I definitely wouldn't feel comfortable the first time with a guy if he pinned me down, I need to trust someone more deeply for that. I also wouldn't like it if …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:50 AM
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because maybe she wanted to do something else? Maybe she believed him when he said that wouldn't be on the table? Maybe she isn't alone with him in a house, she is as a party and he cornered her in to a situation she wasn't entirely comfortable with? Maybe they were going to have sex but he said something or did something that changed her mind? Any number of things really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:42 AM
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Nothing about any of that is a threat. but it can be if the girl really doesn't want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:09 AM
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awkwardly laughing because you laugh when nervous while saying something like "maybe another time" is a no. There is playful and there is nervous. It can be hard to tell the difference sometimes, but there is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 01:08 AM
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age 27 Pill: blue leaning Score 83 MBTI: pointless to me Love life: It might have been easier to get certain men if I was more feminine, but I prefer the ones who like me as I am, so I am a-ok as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:44 AM
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I think it's one of this things where a lot of people don't know any better until it happens to them. This can happen to anyone regardless of gender. Learning who to trust and when can be a difficult thing to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:10 PM
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I was the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:09 PM
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I don't mind doing things I am not interested in as well sometimes. I mean it isn't fair of me to not let the person I am with enjoy their own interests, however, pretending to be something I am not is not something I ever want to do, and I really really hate baseball lol. If he wanted to go to games on his own or with friends that would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 02:12 PM
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It is interesting to hear the differences. I do know a couple of women who pretend to be interested in sports if they like a guy, I also know one who really loves sports and that is something they have in common, then there is me, where I turned down a date with a guy I thought was cute because he wanted to take me to a baseball game and I can't stand it. I didn't want to go down that path. I found someone who also doesn't really care about sports now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 01:50 PM
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or you can be a better judge of character as is always suggested here to women who complain about assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 12:18 PM
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That isn't what I see most of the time where I live at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 12:16 PM
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it does but not in the way he thinks. Jeans and a tshirt can be great or awful depending on a number of things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:59 AM
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yea...since when is a pink button up shirt crazy? I know so many guys who wear one occasionally without feeling CRAZY. Maybe the difference between red and blue is knowing that pink is just a color and not all that wild/feminine when worn properly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:58 AM
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Which is just a huge hassle and totally not worth it at all to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:28 AM
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how? There would be less guys fighting for the same women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:06 AM
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Most women date average normal men because they are average normal women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:06 AM
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Probably beta, the first sounds like he gets in bar fights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:04 AM
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wouldn't it just make it easier for other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 10:19 PM
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I know a couple girls who are married to their first. The relationships are good but they are no better than the rest of our friends. Every relationship has a few problems, it is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:21 PM
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unsymmetrical faces
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 09:17 PM
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Q4All: Do you wish you had married the first person you had sex with? If you had, what do you think your relationship would be like now? I thought I was eventually going to marry him at the time, but I am really really glad I didn't. It was not a healthy relationship by any means. I wouldn't have learned as much as I have and wouldn't have become a better person if I had of stayed. If marrying the first person you had sex with was the cultural norm, would you have chosen your first partner more …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:19 PM
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The only way someone would be able to do that to me would be by force, and I wouldn't stick around long enough to let that kind of abuse happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:48 AM
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So pretty much you are only talking about girls who wear makeup daily and not the ones who don't. Ok makes sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:29 AM
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Well I want a person with a dick but there is a lot more to it I think. I need to read more as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:59 PM
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who is they when you say they all wear makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:25 PM
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Eli Roth is pretty amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 10:17 PM
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You agreed that relationships take compromise but they shouldn't take compromising who you are as a person. Which is why it is ok to have "not wanting children" as a reason not to date someone. You shouldn't have to compromise on things that are important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 09:35 PM
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It is if you are using the term a certain way. Like someone else said, "bad bitches"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 02:43 PM
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Personality and intelligence are good, but why not also pretty? Does putting on make up make you dumber? Does a skirt make you any less motivated? There is a time and a place for it though, There are definitely times where those things can do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 07:03 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:59 AM
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specific tattoos or any tattoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:42 AM
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Yes relationships are about compromise, but everyone has certain things they refuse to compromise on and that is ok. Are you suggesting it is expected that I should date an awesome guy after I find out he is a casual meth user and is no longer awesome to me? Are you suggesting a very religious catholic marry a militant atheist because they should both compromise a belief they hold very dear? Sure sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too, that is why you move on to look for someone new w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:24 AM
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that is insane, if guys didn't have a list of criteria for who they date no woman would ever be turned down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:47 PM
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How is wanting someone who also wants kids an unreasonable expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:47 PM
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It isn't objectifying men, it is just a hard preference. I am not "using" men for children, I like one man enough that I hope he would also want to try to have kids with me. If he doesn't, then I hope to find someone else I love enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 01:47 PM
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hat you're essentially saying is that as long as your significant other wants kids then you are going to marry them. Regardless if they have a negative personality, no sense of humor and has no interest in anything that you find fun. He was saying that the person needs to be all those things AND want kids. It isn't one or the other. I love my boyfriend a ton, but I want kids at some point. That meant that as soon as we were getting serious I made sure to discuss kids and make sure he had the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:26 AM
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he wasn't that awful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:00 AM
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I always wondered that. It made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:59 AM
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he has left her for dead before, she has just been incredibly lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:58 AM
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It doesn't always lead to drama, it can end up as a relationship sometimes. As for me, I have had 3 FWBs, all three led to drama, one to a sort of relationship, and then to regular friendships. If someone catches feelings it is going to suck for a while. That doesn't mean things can't be friendly again after, I really enjoy these guys as friends. They were better as friends, I just had to learn it. I wouldn't say they have to be all negative. It is just nice to fuck someone you get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:57 AM
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If it isn't some of the more awful RP stuff and something similar to Dr Nerdlove I really wouldn't care, some people need advice and help. Clearly it would have worked out for him and me, so it seems fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:50 AM
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a person just needs to pass their basic attractiveness threshold and basic personality threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 03:25 AM
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no... it is looks plus an ok enough personality for a ONS, and looks plus a great personality for a relationship. The person doesn't need to be as charming if you are just looking to get laid and don't give a fuck who does it for the most part, but a person with a god awful personality won't get laid as much as someone who is decent enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:36 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 10:34 PM
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some girls don't give a shit either. Some guys do want ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 05:41 PM
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lol sure. I admit maybe for a ONS where you can put up with a shitty personality enough to take a chance at getting off, but not when they are supposed to be an LTR. Those guys need to be a lot better in the personality department
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:05 PM
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He was just so so pretty in Jurassic park. I loved him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:03 PM
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casual sex is so much different than an LTR, a lot of people accept things in a ONS that they wouldn't in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:02 PM
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they'd take the cold douchebag who treats everyone else like trash, as long as it comes in that package. a lot of women wouldn't take that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:00 PM
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which is different for different women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 03:59 PM
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Also doesn't the idea of a case specific Chad kind of mess up with the concept of a Chad? It does, but that is kind of the point. Not every woman wants that stereotypical Chad, they want a guy in their own scene or with specific traits they look for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:36 AM
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Voice is a huge thing for me as well. It is why I love Jeff Goldblum as much as I do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:34 AM
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that sounds gross to me, I hate when guys cut/bite their nails too short, that sounds like it would look the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:32 AM
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Seriously, how many girls want an average-looking guy who's really aggressive and gets angry really easily... versus a guy who probably has decent social skills but is extremely good looking. No competition. In your example it is the anger that is the problem. If you swapped the personalities in your examples the average guy would be the better choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:27 AM
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No, "caring, supportive, vulnerable, warm," is what a lot of women want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:22 AM
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not really. You have beauty and the beast on one end where everyone is talking about Emma Watson and her "feminism" because she chose not to wear a corset, and you have rap on the other end where they basically advertise using half naked chicks. You have country songs where they sing about women leaving abusive relationships, and rnb ones where the song is pretty much about an abusive relationship, all of those things are mainstream popular media. It really does depend. It isn't all about the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:19 AM
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jackhammered isn't good either. There needs to be a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 11:14 AM
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Like causing pain to someone you love doesn't make a lot of sense. but does causing pleasure for someone you love not make sense either? Because they can be intertwined. I would also be heartbroken if after I had a kid my guy no longer wanted to have fun with me, that is the best way to cause a complex about not being attractive enough after pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:40 AM
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We've all heard that "sex is more about emotion for women." it very much can be, but that can come from rough sex. It can be so unbelievably emotional and cathartic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:37 AM
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It both is and isn't sexist and gendered, it both does and doesn't confirm R.P. truths, etc - all entirely contingent... on on who is the one making the media. Not all "mainstream media" falls on the same side of the spectrum, it would be weird to say it does. Mainstream media is all and none of those things, depending on what you are looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:33 AM
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so sweet <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:29 AM
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That is great if it works for you, but I definitely don't think that would work for every woman. I would not be able to handle it. My job is already too much "do this now" that I like having choices outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:19 PM
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fur lined? That is way too gentle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 11:16 PM
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This is seriously it though, no more replying for me, you have wasted enough of my time complaining about being insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:48 PM
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I disagreed with a lot of what you said as being logical and valuable. That isn't an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:21 PM
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just give up. It isn't worth the frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:20 AM
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you haven't said anything valuable since the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:12 PM
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do you really get offered sex multiple times a day by multiple people? I never have. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 10:13 PM
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it is me basically saying I'm out. Done. Leaving this thread. You do you man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 10:09 PM
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you do you man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:18 PM
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lol nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:05 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:32 PM
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so have you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:07 PM
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you are also deluded about not being deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:40 PM
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possibly, if you think religion has never once done something good, but it comes across more as a delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:39 PM
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Food poisoning would do that. At least you gained something from it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:37 AM
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When someone uses the hand dryer it is like a dream come true. I love when that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:35 AM
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seems like you can't imagine a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 11:35 AM
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The couple that's gross together stays together, I say. Good motto to have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:25 AM
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but the thud when that dude hits the propeller on the way down...timeless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:01 AM
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I would totally be Matt the Radar Tech, but like the real one, not the one that is actually Kylo Ren in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:00 AM
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it was sarcastic, but if you love your religion that much go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:58 AM
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So so true. I have a mildish case of IBS myself and I really need someone who can handle poop talk. Not to mention my period. I was very casually seeing a guy for a while and I couldn't even mention it was happening without him getting grossed out. It was very difficult to warn him lol. Now I can casually tell my boyfriend and have it not be a big deal. So much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:56 AM
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then you are no better than the people who believe in god without proof. You are just as bad, you have turned hating religion in to your religion. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:47 AM
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I have seen men get free non alchoholic drinks at bars, many times. I know my sister sometimes gives out free coffee to regulars to keep them coming back or to brighten their day. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:46 AM
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You don't have to be for sure, but it is normal in my relationship lol. Then again I accidentally let a noxious fart out on our first date and he yelled loudly asking if I had just dropped ass. I was very very embarrassed and then started laughing and now there is nothing we can't talk about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:45 AM
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well you are shitposting without valid proof
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:38 AM
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I have seen blood all over the seat and floor before it is horrifying how unobservant some people can be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:36 AM
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But what if he would have been your future husband! if my future husband can't handle knowing I poop, he can't handle me at all and it would be time for us to part ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:34 AM
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that is when you flush your own toilet and hope to god you finish before the sound ends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:31 AM
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My friends do from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:26 AM
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I don't buy drinks for strangers because I don't want any mixed messages, but a bartender or barrista comping a coffee or pop to a person who seems lonely or is just sitting and talking to the said bartender makes sense. It isn't a gendered thing so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:26 AM
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or we were both close to being blackout drunk and didn't give a shit about walking all the way home to his house where his mom could hear us. It wasn't really lustful, it was a matter of convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:23 AM
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well then you freely admit you are talking out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:19 AM
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Nah I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:19 AM
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you can fight it all you want, but you still come across as a lonely guy if you go out by yourself most of the time. This is coming from someone who goes out by herself for food and sometimes to the bar. It comes across as lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:43 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:41 PM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:31 PM
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Sounds better that way. lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:06 PM
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yes. Do you not talk to your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:06 PM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:05 PM
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lol well you didn't put certain useful info in until after prodded for it, but somehow that isn't forgetting info... The new info was new, because the stuff you think I "glossed over" was inherently vague
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 08:05 PM
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1-3 partners a year if not in a relationship seems pretty average and most likely "enough" It seems to be on par with most of my friends anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:05 PM
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then you mentioned chads and lost me again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:03 PM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:02 PM
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I gave a perfectly reasonable non sexual explanation based on info you gave and you just kept adding more details every time,, but wait I forgot this, but wait I forgot that. Based on your original post, I stand by exactly what I said. Based on the additions, I still do, but think the one specific bartender or whatever, who you slept with actually really liked you. That is it. I didn't come "charging in with an agenda" lol I told you what I have seen in life, you are the one that got weird about…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:02 PM
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Don't hands count? They would have progressed but... no rubber. I am not an idiot. I wouldn't say it was all fun. There are a lot of unhappy bad situations in my past, but they made me who I am. I am happy with where I am now and that matters the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:18 PM
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My user name has nothing to do with what I am saying Either don't be so vague, or don't get upset when someone takes you at your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:14 PM
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Most men do well enough. If you are shooting for only models of course you aren't going to succeed, but guys and girls who date within their friends groups tend to do decently well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:13 PM
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I have met enough who confirmed it the way you say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:12 PM
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My speaking style and attitude come across as a 40 yr old? hmm interesting. lol oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:51 PM
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"I've only acted on the 'is she into me' vibe once, and that was with a whole host of other signals (she was)." You acted on it and she was in to you. That is what you said. Nowhere did you say it progressed to sex. A girl can be in to someone and still turn them down. lol it is funny you don't realize that. 'nah, it's pretty common for a host of reasons.' That was my answer and I gave you the reasons. I gave you 2 reasons why it could be happening commonly, they either give non alchoholic drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:45 PM
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I have observed it working in other relationships. It is strange how two people can see things so differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:41 PM
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I had my first kiss at 20, I have had 3 ons (only one prgressed to sex), a few fwbs (one turned in to a relationship sort of), and 2 boyfriends I was figuring out who I wanted to be for a while, but I figured it out now and I am happy where life has taken me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:40 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:26 PM
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do women ever do this as an IOI/do they do this often? No not often, especially as bartenders. That is why I was giving examples of what else it could be (DD, etc.) Though you seem unwilling to listen. You are the one with poor reading comprehension if you think I didn't answer the question. As for you fucking one of them, I did not read that in the OP, just a vague mention of "acting on the signals" with no clear mention of whether it worked and you also mentioned that it wasn't the free drink …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:26 PM
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lol that isn't how it works. You have to back up such an opinion with facts to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:13 PM
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Do you have a source? Prove it, otherwise there is no common sense in what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:09 PM
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None of that really relates, other than it proving my point a little, that girls who are young and partying are often not at their "best" and it is kind of ridiculous to assume that young immaturity is the best a woman can offer. If you want that fun, that is fine, but if she isn't good enough for you to shack up with, she clearly isn't her "best"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:44 PM
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Do you have actual proof of this or just your own bias? Because to say religion, all religion, has never once cause a good thing is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:39 PM
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They cause nothing but hurt and trouble for all. Really? No religion has ever helped someone feel better or done a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:20 PM
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lean blue 27 female slightly agnostic in that I like the thought of thinking something is out there, but I know it probably isn't true I don't think a lack of belief is important in my day to day, but I would never convert to a religion There is no conflict duck sized horses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:16 PM
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I am trying to explain to you that the two extremes can show the same behavior. Why ask your question if you are just going to brush off answers that aren't quite what you want to hear? Let's just give you what you want: The girls that give you drinks are just so super in to you you should go ask them out immediately because they are probably dying of lust as we speak wondering why you haven't yet. Is that better? Let me just lie to you if you can't handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:52 PM
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of course it won't work for everyone, everyone is a bit different. However, it doesn't mean it can't work either. The world isn't that black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:50 PM
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and by greatness you mean immaturity and drunken behavior, because that is what the early 20s are about for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 12:47 PM
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saying you talk to people who want to talk to you is part of the reason I am saying the things I am. Are you seeking it out 100% of the time? because that can come across as desperate and lonely, but sitting and waiting for someone to talk to you 100%, also can come as lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:35 AM
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You read books by yourself at lunch. You go to bars by yourself and talk to women but don't really bring friends. Your question would be easier to answer if you weren't so vague and contradictory. Everything you have said makes you out to be someone who is lonely. You may not feel that you are, but you come across that way. Instead of attacking me for trying to answer your question you should try some reading comprehension yourself. The women who are working the bar probably think you are: 1- dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:16 AM
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We are terrible terrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:08 AM
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Wanting someone who is "your whore" still doesn't make a girl's party years her best years, she can still have and enjoy sex with someone outside of that. Assuming otherwise is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:08 AM
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corrupt how?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:59 AM
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If both people have had casual stuff previously, it makes sense that they would both want a bit of caution with someone they like enough to make sure it will be a non-casual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:51 PM
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So you go to the bar alone at night and order one drink. Either she thinks you are the quiet friend who is the dd or just being reasonable and assumes you are driving and makes your drinks free or she thinks you are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:47 PM
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I roll either alone or with one friend max if it's to a bar. If it's to a cafe I just bring a book or something and read for lunch or something, or talk to whoever wants to talk. You said you go to the bar alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:35 PM
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yup, you also didn't respect any of them either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:31 PM
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Your fiancee knows that you made him wait while giving it up easy for some bro in a backwards baseball cap and has no problem with that? My guy also wanted to wait. We both wanted to know this wasn't just another fuck buddy. You don't get how a lot of people work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:27 PM
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If your woman forces you to put a condom on all the time, there's a good chance she didn't make men in her past do it. The distinction is they were more attractive or more dominant in her eyes, and so she respects them more. Or she just really really doesn't want kids yet I am on the pill, in an LTR, and not ready for kids yet. I still insist on a condom unless another back up is being used, either pulling out or the spermicidal gel. In my previous relationship, and every ons I wasn't on the pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:23 PM
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You just hang out by yourself at the bar during the day? It is usually the same bar? She may feel bad for you if she thinks you are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:11 PM
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that's great. Doesn't make me a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 10:09 PM
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If you are only getting one beer it may be assumed. Who are you going with? Are others drinking more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:05 PM
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Most of my guy friends had a couple of casual situations before settling down and moving in with someone, and most of my girl friends had a couple before doing the same. Depending on who I compare, some of the guys had more experience than some of the girls and vice versa. It is pretty normal. It was the same in previous groups I hung out with often as well. All pretty average people sleeping with other average people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:01 PM
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If you only get one beer and then the rest are alcohol free it might just be a rule at that bar that designated driver's drink for free. I know a lot of bars do that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:53 PM
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If he explicitly gives you permission to pry into his life and commits to giving you 100% honest answers, then it's morally A-OK. This is what you said later on. It is assumed in most relationships that this is the case. People tend to want honesty and trust in relationships. Asking a question isn't a violation, and you are free to say you don't want to answer it, but it isn't smart to base a relationship on a lie. If you think the other person wouldn't be happy with your answer (enough to break…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:24 PM
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free for women and all but elusive for most men. It isn't elusive for most men. Most men do well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:21 PM
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That is what I am wondering myself. Why are these things a woman's best? Sure one time I got so drunk I thought it was a good idea to do it behind a dumpster with my fwb. That definitely isn't my best or proudest moment. The number of times I puked somewhere aren't my best either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:20 PM
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It is sort of a matter of opinion. Some women will be horrified and not be attracted to you any more. Some won't care either way and will still be attracted to you. It doesn't inherently lower your worth unless you let it. As for the dishonesty, if neither of you ask about the other's past it is fine, but if asked, it would be wrong to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:30 PM
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If she is only sleeping with you, why does the past matter that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:21 PM
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At the very least, it's not worth it while I'm young and want pussy. Actually it's not even really viable to be a beta bucks until late 20s earliest with a good career established. So doing the exact thing women do then? Party for a few years then decide you want to settle down and you stop partying/sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:20 PM
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After that, it's just women micking at them. I won't subject the rest of my life to 70% of a womans best. I don't care how she got there, I got one life, and it's not for her to have. Why is it always assumed that the few years she drinks more than she should, stays out later than is healthy, and sleeps with people randomly are her best years? They just sound like a childish party phase to me. I had that phase, but it definitely wasn't my "best" it was immature and not something I really wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:14 PM
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I definitely love having the same job as my partner. Makes things so much easier because we understand the wants and goals of the other,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 03:53 AM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:25 PM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 03:55 PM
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Second of all, why is it so bad to be the man that a woman marries after she's slept around? Most of the winners in the real world are guys that rp would consider "beta". This part bugs me too. Like why are they whinging that they can't be the guy who isn't actually good enough for a real relationship? Why would you want to be not good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 01:05 AM
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Second of all, why is it so bad to be the man that a woman marries after she's slept around? Most of the winners in the real world are guys that rp would consider "beta". This part bugs me too. Like why are they whinging that they can't be the guy who isn't actually good enough for a real relationship? Why would you want to be not good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 01:05 AM
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that is ridiculous enough to get a response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 12:40 AM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:34 PM
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sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:36 PM
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and you lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 12:45 PM
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I used to see my college teachers every day for weeks. I still didn't want to kiss them. There are guys who have to wait weeks. Others who have to wait months. So your boyfriend wasn't a 90s Brad Pitt but he's still far better-looking than most and he's nearly a Chad Definitely not 90s brad pitt and I wouldn't have it any other way. We bonded quickly over comic books and tmnt. It was amazing 2 weeks is pretty ok if you have 2 dates and see the other person often between them Every time you see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 03:14 AM
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I wanted him immediately after the kiss which was after about a week of seeing him almost daily and after a date where we didn't kiss. The kiss was the second date but I still waited 2ish weeks after. It was about a month after meeting him and 3 weeks after starting to date. Wow the power of a chad to make me want to wait. So powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:38 PM
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So in this case it wasn't a backhanded insult, but just stating the fact. oh it was a backhanded insult. You aren't as high and mighty as you act
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 08:16 PM
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All very good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 04:05 PM
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People who like a certain song and play it multiple times will 90% of the time memorise the lyrics and sing along. This isn't some weird thing. No it isn't a weird thing. My point is that even memorizing lyrics doesn't mean you have to like or understand the content involved. Singing along can be fun. People sing what they can when songs like gangnam style play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:33 PM
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No, because it was a small minority of people. There are always going to be some people who are offended by lyrics, otherwise the parental advisory wouldn't be a thing. However, in general songs do well because they sound and feel good to the people who listen to them, especially popular music which tries to be as catchy as possible. I was never saying lyrics don't matter to anyone, there are a lot of angst ridden teenagers listens to songs feeling like the lyrics are speaking to them. I am sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 11:44 AM
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oh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 11:39 AM
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That is the reason though. It isn't a cop out. The lyrics aren't a big enough reason for a lot of people to be turned off of a song. It is like the song Blurred Lines, some people got offended by the lyrics, but not enough for it not to be a huge hit. A lot of people simply don't care when a song is catchy and feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:17 AM
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My answer for the original question is that music is used as an escape and a lot of people don't focus on the lyrics. Music is an escape for different reasons for different people, but it is often just because it sounds good and feels good to listen to. The lyrics can be a part of this, but they don't have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 01:54 AM
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My point was that there are musicians who sing about terrible things and it is either automatically assumed to not be real and is used as an escape or it is catchy as shit, sometimes a combination of both. Most people aren't endorsing the awful shit in music lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 01:24 AM
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Do other women get pleasure visually, mentally or from seeing and hearing your partner enjoying themselves? yes, or at least I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 12:52 AM
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The closest I can think of in terms of mainstream artists would be Eminem, but Necro and other horrorcore artists are far more explicit ICP has a huge fan base and sing about god awful stuff. I think people enjoy the escapism sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 12:29 AM
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I actually have manners and was raised well. wow a backhanded insult as well, along with comments calling me dumb. Good going on that. Hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 10:27 PM
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sure. Sure you wouldn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:01 PM
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and the fact that you insulted me should also be banable in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:52 PM
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sounds like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:27 PM
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seems like you still don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:26 PM
1

seems like you still don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:26 PM
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good example
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 08:25 PM
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Sounds like he goes on some interesting adventures
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:40 PM
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It's also a good way to experience the much needed pain men require. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:38 PM
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If women truly didn't like rp truths and misogynistic lyrics, they wouldn't tolerate them, they wouldn't buy the music, go to the shows, dance to it, be happy when they hear it. They would feel bad when they hear the lyrics. If people truly didn't like murder and gangs, they wouldn't buy music and movies about them. Except they do, because they know music and movies aren't real life. A person can be offended by something in real life and not mind it mentioned in a catchy song. Other people can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:53 PM
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The lyrics really aren't the most important or noticed part of a song for a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:50 PM
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Sometimes, but the themes tend to be a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:49 PM
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Depends on the type of music really, but there are some really heinous songs out there that do pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:40 PM
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and you lost me. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:10 PM
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The lyrics aren't always needed at all, otherwise djs wouldn't be as succesful as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:09 PM
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The argument is moot when you realize not everyone listens to music because of the lyrics, nor do some care. People like tv shows about serial killers, that doesn't mean they endorse the content as a good thing. They just like being entertained. That is what music does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:08 PM
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great. You do you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:30 PM
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Yes their masculinity is why so many guys love their music
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:39 PM
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The beat. That's it really. People like music that sounds good. Some do listen intently to the lyrics but not everyone. Like I hate Meghan Trainor for some of her lyrics, but she is catchy as hell. I sing along sometimes even if I think the lyrics are horrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:18 PM
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Because there is more than just LTRs? I have turned down a few jocks when they hit on me before. I have messed around with one as well, I thought he was different enough from the the usual jocks that it would be fun enough for a night or two on a vacation, but he ended up being scummy and all around not worth it for another go. Now it is just a story of an interesting night with a guy I wasn't all that attracted to. I learned my lesson on that one. It is way better to be with people you are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:15 PM
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at least you admit that it isn't all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:08 PM
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Some of their songs are about some pretty messed up stuff actually. I have looked up translated lyrics before. Still catchy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 01:08 PM
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Really? So that is all women? All women hate themselves and look up rape on porn sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:06 PM
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why do songs with this particular theme become so popular consistently? they are often in a really popular genre. Rapper tend to rap about similar things, R&B singers sing about similar things, country singers do the same too. A lot of people really like R&B right now, so you will hear a lot of it and hear a lot of the same themes because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:04 PM
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Why do people who don't understand germen love the band Rammstein? Sometimes people just really love catchy music and singing and don't care about the lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:56 AM
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that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:52 AM
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wholesale orders are what you said you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:52 AM
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lol doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:52 AM
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All of those things make it seem like he works closely with you. Also resume does not equal the title of your job. Seriously though a "I don't feel comfortable saying that" when I asked originally would have sufficed. I have never heard of a man bragging about his wife's feminine job in wholesale ordering, but whatever. Not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 03:36 AM
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Not really but it seems you aren't comfortable sharing the career your husband brags about and also involves ordering things when he pisses people off which is confusing. He brags about it, yet he also seems to either work with you, or purchases something from you when he makes someone angry, and feminine things fix that somehow. The whole thing makes no sense really, but if you don't want to say you don't have to. No reason to go this round about way to say that. I was honestly just curious wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:57 AM
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What? When I say "Hey man, nice shirt" I am being honest. It doesn't mean I am hitting on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:41 AM
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but what is it? very feminine doesn't answer my question, you already said that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:39 AM
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It isn't perfect, but at least a few of them would probably work on women in general. It kind of depends though. Like romantic dates would work better on some women more than others as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 02:38 AM
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lol Alpha does not equal jock A guy doesn't have to be a jock to be alpha I know I won't be able to convince you that not all women want the "alpha" but it is ridiculous to think that only jocks are alphas. Rock stars? What are they? Lawyers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:51 PM
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keep telling yourself all these delusional things to make yourself feel better. You really think most goth girls want jocks instead of goth guys? You really think most punk girls want jocks instead of punk guys? or does it make more sense that some women are interested in men who have similar interests to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:34 PM
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did you read what I said? I can get them. I don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:28 PM
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I usually compliment men I don't know very well for a few reasons. Either I really do like their shirt and I want to become better friends, I think it looks good and I think they would appreciate the boost, or some random mix of the two. I don't compliment someone's shirt as an attempt to hit on them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:24 PM
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hello. I am a straight woman who dislikes the stereotypical jock. I could get one if I wanted but I choose not to because they aren't attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:21 PM
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Some women do that. My point is that it isn't the case in every situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:11 PM
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I have no problem with the milder forms of feminism, but the thing most know as feminism right now is too hateful and uneven. The same goes for TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:56 PM
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it wasn't really specified how long we were going to wait but I was trying for a monthish. I wanted him immediately after our first kiss, and we got close to giving up a few times previously, but we both separately without talking stuck to our plan for three weeks before we gave up. He mentioned later that he had been waiting because he wanted it to be "special" compared to other girls who he hadn't cared much about. I was thinking pretty much the same thing. We knew neither of us had had a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:46 AM
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what is your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:35 AM
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You can't assume that is the case in every situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:33 AM
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My boyfriend and I tried to wait because we wanted it to be more than just the fwb situations we had had previously. We managed 2-3 weeks I think but it was enough for us to know it was more serious. We wanted each other enough that 3 weeks wasn't going to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:30 AM
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not my fault you didn't read the OP thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:11 PM
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It is hot. Even the things I know we wouldn't do, were interesting and good to discuss. I like knowing what he wants. I like knowing how he feels. I like discussing what his fantasies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:07 PM
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Some men view it as a means to an end sure. Boys may not dream about the day, but there are quite a few who want a family and the wife is included in that. Some guys do actually want to get married and it isn't just about kids. You can't assume the way you think is the way every guy thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:58 PM
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I don't care about frequency unless it interferes with my personal cock rations. lol true dat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:47 PM
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Why is it smart not to know? How else are you supposed to experience those things with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:43 PM
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I already know what they are. They don't bother me at all. He also knows mine. We have purchased magazines to share before out of curiosity. He has shared videos with me and I have shared videos with him. Porn women aren't necessarily the ideal woman for a guy either, they are just doing something hot. I can't say any of the guys in porn are my ideal man either. It is just something to watch. It hasn't weakened our relationship but it has made it more open and trusting. Like we tell the other wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:42 PM
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If relationships are only the goal of women why do some men want them? Why would I be in one if the guy I am with didn't want it? We had both had previous fwbs, it wasn't like he had to actually ask me out, but he wanted to. It is pretty easy to be worth more than the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 08:36 PM
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Men, have you ever lost control of yourself and gone into rage? In a relationship especially? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:52 PM
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I care about far more than food and spending. Also spending is really vague
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:51 PM
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you don't have that while watching porn either. You just see a lot of vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:14 PM
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Why is wanting regular sex when your partner is around a bad thing? I have been to parties with military guys and girls. I know guys like you are saying, but I also know my boyfriend left me before I went to basic because he knew he wouldn't want to move or wait for me. I know a girl who's boyfriend for 4 years left her during basic because he didn't want to wait anymore. A guy who left his wife of 5 years for a coworker who laid it on thick. Of course it isn't 100% of deployments. I just don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:48 PM
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those things can also manipulate can they not? People can get addicted to exercise. People use art and crafting to calm down or relax after a long day which in it's own way is a manipulation of their feelings. Almost anything can be negative if someone takes it too far. Even sex between a married couple can become manipulative and addictive for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:41 PM
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The OP asked about relationships. Incels are not related. If you want to talk about that go to the post devoted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:15 PM
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Only if the guy is addicted to one of them. However that addiction was in his personality to begin with, lots of guys can play games and watch porn a reasonable amount and still be strong members of a family. They don't cripple thinking skills anymore than watching regular movies or playing sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:12 PM
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Most were saying a year or more would be a dry spell but about a week if they were in a relationship because the sex is expected. However that doesn't mean that when their guy is deployed they would all automatically cheat, a lot of women just sort of switch back to the other frame of mind and don't have any issues waiting, right up until he comes back, then it flips back to expecting it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:09 PM
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men are the primary target of mind control tools like video games and porn mind control?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 03:00 PM
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ok thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:48 PM
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Most people feel jealous or insecure at some point in their lives, but we weren't talking about incels. We were talking about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:47 PM
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I know a lot of girls in the military and I know a lot of guys. A few guys and a couple girls were definitely the cause of their divorce because they cheated while they were deployed. A few stay at home wife/husband were the cause for the divorce because they cheated. I know one couple where the husband got deployed and cheated and then the wife deployed and cheated and each is 100% blaming the other. I am not saying there aren't some girls who sleep with as many guys as they can, I know one. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:46 PM
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So why are you here if it seems you don't want a girlfriend or an easy lay? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:40 AM
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it can work well. It can also fail. Depends on both sides for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:36 AM
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Plus iirc outside of food and spending she doesn't care, should be plenty of opportunities then. really? that isn't true in my case at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:31 AM
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this is what works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:30 AM
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awe you don't get it thats ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 05:17 AM
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you don't know what I am thinking lol. It was an attempt to be funny, you aren't right on this no matter how much you try to convince me otherwise. You aren't actually me, you don't actually know. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 08:10 PM
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You are talking to me, so it would make sense to phrase things in a way I would understand to continue a proper debate. As it stands it seems you brought up incels for no reaon other than to try to say they also have said feelings, which adds nothing to the point and has nothing to do with OP. Of course most people sometimes feel jealous or insecure. We were talking about a specific situation that incels are not related to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 05:17 PM
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A high value woman is a woman who has a lot of things the man values. She could be intelligent, beautiful, hardworking, feminine, really in to MTG, funny, etc whatever the guy views as high value. The same goes for what women view as high value in men. It all depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 02:22 PM
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whether I'd clipped my nails very important question, though an addition would be if you'd clipped them recently. They can be sharper when fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:55 AM
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I had a guy in high school give me just the candy sticks out of the lickemdips because I said they were my favorite part. That was pretty awesome I would still really appreciate a yummy candy as a gift. I know for valentines day my guy got me ferreros because he knows I love them and I was super happy. We rarely ever get to spend our anniversary together, actually I don't think we ever have... hopefully this year will be the first. Anyway, if he mailed them to me I would be really really excited…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:40 AM
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you not finding my insult funny is your opinion you not really succeeding at calling me out is my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 09:30 PM
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and then the petty insults come. Typical Just explain why you brought up what you did in relation to my comment and the topic at hand or just stop talking to me. I have no idea what incels have to do with a question about having a meltdown in a relationship. Maybe you can enlighten me, instead of assuming everyone understands your vague references and leaps of logic where you relate incels to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:44 PM
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Umm...this isn't something I would normally think about but... Most Preferable: Job that is the same or similar to mine so that he understands what to expect; otherwise I don't really care as long as he can support himself and is fairly happy at it. Least Preferable: Something illegal or relating to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:32 PM
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It should be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:26 PM
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I am common-law right now with discussions of marriage happening. I am basically considered married already by the government though. N-count didn't affect it at all. We didn't actually know each others for over 3 years, and only kind of found out recently when we decided to share the stories of how we got to where we are now. It still hasn't affected anything, except now we have a better understanding of each other's past and more respect and trust. It wasn't easy but it has made things better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:19 PM
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Feeling underappreciated or jealous is not something only incels feel. How is it absurd for two people to have a volatile relationship? It is a well known thing. I don't know what it has to do with incels. The original question wasn't even about incels. Why are you mentioning them if they don't really relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:14 PM
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It totally is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:20 PM
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It was a very volatile situation. I think we are both happy to be out of it. He is still a very good friend, but the fights we had were not healthy we brought out the worst in each other. We are both in much better relationships now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:18 PM
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It happened a lot to both me and my sort of ex while we were together. We kind of brought it out in each other it wasn't the healthiest thing in the world. Usually because one of us felt underappreciated or jealous. We would both meltdown, sometimes at each other at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:46 PM
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You never actually believe anything I say and just rant/post about chads. Go bother someone else with your delusions. I am done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 11:54 AM
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During the act itself I don't fantasize about anything it takes me out of the moment and distracts me. I like to focus on the things happening. When I am by myself I will occasionally fantasize about him to get in the mood, but once I start I focus on the task. It isn't a fantasy about an ideal, it is previous experiences or things I would like us to do. I imagine him as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 11:51 AM
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Other than the one time I had a FWB who didn't want to be exclusive when I did I have never had a back up plan. I have also once seen a couple of guys casually and non-exclusively at the same time when I wasn't looking for anything exclusive. Once I am in an exclusive relationship I have no need or want for a back up plan. I stick to one guy and the rest become uninteresting to me. This has caused me to become single for long periods of time while looking for someone I trusted enough to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:14 AM
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How does only ever dating women mean they are attempting to attract alpha men? Especially when they don't want anything to do with him sexually? I know a couple of lesbians who were each in very long 5-6 year relationships and were very happy until a job move separated them which is common in my line of work regardless of sexuality, and I know 2 who have been with each other since they met about 4-5 years ago and don't show any signs of stopping or unhappiness. Seeing as I don't know many people…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 03:01 AM
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You have said you gave up women and can't even be attracted by them anymore because you are a chronic masturbater. You did this to yourself. Quit the pity party. You are being delusional. Now I am actually done replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:45 AM
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You have said you gave up women and can't even be attracted by them anymore because you are a chronic masturbater. You did this to yourself. Quit the pity party. Now I am actually done replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:44 AM
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Enjoying penetration is a biological thing. There are nerve endings there. A woman can also penetrate another with her fingers, and do a good job of it. A woman can enjoy the stimulation from penetration and not enjoy or be attracted to men. How are you not understanding this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:43 AM
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I tried to jokingly insult you and you tried to call me out on it. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:36 AM
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They're both penetrating objects one of which is not connected to a male. There are a lot of penetrating objects not connected to men, a girl's own fingers, her girlfriend's tongue, anal beads, plugs, dildos, vibrators, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:35 AM
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I absolutely have no chance of ever getting sex again. Without paying for it You have already admitted that you did this to yourself. I am done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:33 AM
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Because I'm trying to understand that with my 12 months blue balls. you have already admitted that you did that to yourself. I am done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:32 AM
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You think a conservative who has anti-conservative beliefs about gays rub off on them won't find issue with that? You think a conservative who hates gays and changes their mind might not have an issue with that? Or a conservative who hates gays and doesn't want to change their mind wouldn't let it happen? There are many anti gay conservatives who are very good at mental gymnastics. "Oh gays are sinners, blah blah, no marriages, etc, but that gay Jerry oh he is an alright guy, I don't mind catchi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 07:40 PM
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men have penises. Not dildos. If you really don't know the difference between the two, it would explain your confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 07:15 PM
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Still doesn't inherently make any of that toxic. It can make people more accepting, but it still doesn't make them gay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 06:59 PM
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The contagious part was a joke. As in being friends with a gay person or trans-gendered person will not make you one. A person can be gay and have similar beliefs to a person who is straight. I can see certain people having influential beliefs, but I can't see how social outcasts (which is far from the case in many areas), are automatically poisonous because they have different beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 05:31 PM
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Fair enough. How does this relate to the question I asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:41 PM
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Which is ridiculous, seeing as casual hookups have been around for a long time, as have "slutty" women. No tinder though, so that is accurate, but I remember newspapers having casual meetup pages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:27 PM
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Yea...women won't get rejected if they ask a guy. Sure... that has never happened to me ever... oh wait it has, multiple times. It is almost as if not every guy wants to have sex with every girl, and some of us do struggle. He doesn't get a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:21 PM
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If you look back at what Oncle Julian posts, he apparently has never seen a woman in real life under 5' 7". So I don't really believe anything he says anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:19 PM
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If you look back at what Oncle Julian posts, he apparently has never seen a woman in real life under 5' 7". So I don't really believe anything he says anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:19 PM
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You are being ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:16 PM
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all beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:47 AM
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sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:46 AM
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the feelings from being penetrated are biological. A woman can want that and not want men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:45 AM
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but every guy I have loved was in the nerdy/anime/cosply/gamer. There are some very cute nerdy guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:14 AM
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That doesn't make sense though. A woman can be penetrated by many things that aren't a penis and have it feel good. By your logic are men who penetrate other men but don't get penetrated themselves not gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:11 AM
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Gays, trannies, and other similar weirdos are outcast for a reason, normal society members don't want their influence. What influence? It isn't contagious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:09 AM
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You sound like you are on your way to success in multiple ways :) I am happy you aren't letting it define you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:58 AM
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I agree with most of what you are saying here, I am just a bit different on the deployment route. I do crave it while we are separated, but I only crave it with him, I have no interest in anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:51 AM
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He doesn't believe short women exist, so there is a lot he has trouble believing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:49 AM
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It was definitely the case. I made a joke, you didn't find it funny. That is exactly what happened. It is ok, admit you didn't get my joke. It can be our little secret ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:36 AM
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When it was a joke to start out with I can, and it was. Not my problem you got butthurt because we don't have the same sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:34 AM
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Do you need me to quote you, because I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:32 AM
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I can make jokes that are somewhat insulting. You can choose not to find them funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 10:27 PM
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It was still a joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 10:26 PM
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When I said I don't automatically view "alphas" as stoic you brushed it off and basically said I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 10:25 PM
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lol wow you are really bad at this. Even when I said I don't see things the way you do you said I was basically pretending. You just really don't like even a hint of being wrong do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 06:37 PM
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Wow nice try at a misquote there. Your opinion is irrelevant because it isn't how real life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 05:18 PM
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27F I would say 8-12 months is a dry spell outside of a relationship and more than a week in a relationship if we are around each other often. I am in a relationship now where sometimes we aren't around each other and going 3-4 months without is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 05:10 PM
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We were originally discussing respect. Then you said: It's how your typical alpha usually tends to live a life mostly devoid of hardship, and yet is praised for being stoic and strong. Which I disagreed with, because you also said they are viewed as stoic even when breaking down, which is pretty ridiculous and not something I see. Most people who are viewed as stoic are viewed that way because they don't break down. No one really knows how much hardship other people go through unless they are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:41 PM
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I agree with that. A lot of them find one flaw they can not change and assume it is the end of the world and give up. If you give up that easily you are not involuntary, you have chosen what way your life is going
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:28 PM
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you will also be more confident in yourself if you look down at other people That's not confidence, that's inflated ego. That's a guy or girl that's never really been tested. And they won't listen either. Anything to keep the ego pristine and unattached to reality. That is a great point. Height is only a hindrance if you let it be. I know a few majorly confident short guys that do just fine with ladies, and a couple of short guys who do terribly. It is all about how confident they are in themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 11:33 AM
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Probably right now starting a year ago when I hit 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 11:21 AM
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A lot of men do the same thing. This just seems like a thing people do often, not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 11:19 AM
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That must be the one I live in then, because I see that often
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 11:16 AM
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Your point being that some men are viewed as stoic when they might not be. Which really what does that have to do with anything other than some people are shitty judges of character?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 11:15 AM
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Notice how there's a social push to get more girls interested in STEM but not a peep about more women being sewer workers or garbage collectors There isn't any peep about anyone working those jobs though. There are "peeps" about men being in STEM, but not sewer workers. Those jobs are rarely advertised at all, let alone to only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:15 AM
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if you're a cute woman you get a lot more leeway and favoritism People sometimes tend to think that when it isn't happening as well, which causes them to think the cute woman isn't there of her own merit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:11 AM
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I think that is where you should go. You don't really have a real point if you have to keep resorting to petty insults like that. Your opinion on this isn't really how real life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 11:16 PM
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Yep. Possibly because you also see them as stoic due to appearances Except I am telling you I and others I know describe emotional people as emotional. I have never once seeing someone who was losing their shit over something described as stoic unironically. Yep. The reason being physical appearance and attitude, but not actual behavior under stress. Them being stoic under stress and then being described as such is something I have seen way more often. You apparently don't think what "relevant" …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 08:18 PM
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You are failing to observe this thing I describe. The reason could be either because that thing isn't there, or because it is there, since the essence of what I'm point out is exactly that - a failure to see that most people who are considered to be stoic, are actually anything but I literally don't see emotional people described as stoic. I don't see most people being described as stoic. When it does happen, it is almost always for a reason. Sure I admit some people may use it when it isn't acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 07:34 PM
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The typical guy who gets lauded as stoic is usually 100% the opposite though - they are pampered and break very easily under minimal stress. And yet, they respected as "stoic", often even by people who witness them flying off the hook due to something completely minor. I did disagree because it isn't something I have ever seen. I'm not one to judge your own personal experiences, but if I were to wager a guess, I would put my money on you simply committing the same fallacy - assigning stoicism to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:43 PM
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I am an average woman, actually average, not one of the above average women you posted. Attainable is important in that most people do tend to date and be attracted to others around the same level as them. A person doesn't have to be above average to have someone else find them attractive. The more above average you are, the more interest you can get, but it doesn't mean average people are ignored, or that the female standard of beauty are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:11 PM
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We are saying you are either really picky or not seeing actual average skinny girls. Your standards may be too high if you think those women are just average and not above average
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:35 PM
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If you are using the pictures you are using to prove that, it isn't working. Those women are either above average or put in a ton of work to look like that, hair removal, makeup, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:25 PM
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and some women are not genetically blessed. It is a part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:48 PM
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I personally wouldn't enjoy it, but I do enjoy things my partner likes that gives me no sexual stimulation, so it makes sense that some women would enjoy it. Some women are in to domination and would enjoy it that way, and some, like myself, think pleasing their partner is hot and enjoy it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:45 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:43 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:43 PM
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the comment he made is saying those girls are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:40 PM
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That's just plain ridiculous. No one (except incels) seriously believes most men have no hope beyond plastic surgery. It is totally ridiculous. It is like they don't see the multitude of average guys in relationships. Were all these men raised by Chads? Because I have to assume some of them have average looking parents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 02:37 PM
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I don't laud people as stoic though, so why does it matter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 03:09 AM
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When I read things like this I wonder if I live in an alternate universe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:30 PM
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Every person is a little bit different, but overall we are all also pretty similar as well. It isn't as black and white as you are making it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:49 PM
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I rarely view people as stoic as it isb't something i often think about, I know some people who are less emotional than others but I don't know everyone's backstory. Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:44 PM
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Gotta wonder about a woman that needs a manual on how NOT to be a bitch to a waiter. Like the bitch is hard to please; perhaps she's been waited on by much better "staff". not all women need a manual in how not to be a "bitch" maybe you are hanging around the wrong ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:31 PM
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What? Enjoying something is seductive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:23 PM
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reread your own posts, I am am done here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 04:13 AM
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exactly, you may as well give up and leave them to the guys that care enough to put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:57 AM
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If you enjoy simply giving pleasure to your man, you'll help yourself keep him by simply focusing on that regardless of what else you get from the sex(not saying what else you get doesn't matter btw). See, but I don't do it "to keep him" that is the furthest thing from my mind. I do it because I enjoy it. I don't have sex to keep someone around, I do it because it is a lot of fun and feels good. I rarely think about "how to keep" my boyfriend because I am confident in knowing he will stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:49 AM
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reread the quote from you that I shared with you. Don't pretend you don't know what they were talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:46 AM
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TIL Some guys don't understand you can't know sex will be painful or terrible until you are having sex, after saying yes to someone's advances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:31 AM
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Nothing prevents a woman from stimulating her clit while having sex. Well, being lazy and lacking the motivation to get herself off would be a strong reason to why women do not ''enjoy sex as much as men do'' and yet they all have a lot of sexual partners. They must be seeking for dat emotional connection and giving sex to get it. Don't pretend you don't know what the person meant when then said the 5% number, you commented directly on it already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:29 AM
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Do you feel pleasure by giving him pleasure or is it more like satisfaction and esteem? It is hot, I think about it sometimes instead of sex. I feel satisfied at the end, but I enjoy the process, is that strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 11:12 PM
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That is the best way of putting it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:13 PM
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The typical guy who gets lauded as stoic is usually 100% the opposite though - they are pampered and break very easily under minimal stress. And yet, they respected as "stoic", often even by people who witness them flying off the hook due to something completely minor. I have never seen that. People like that are usually regarded as emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:24 PM
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or mocking the men they consider masculine and attractive. It isn't so much mocking what they find attractive. It is mocking what they think women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 01:19 PM
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Appears stoic is good enough anyway though because most people aren't always 100% stoic, most people have a breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 01:07 PM
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So Only Some Women are like that then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:52 AM
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So NAWALT then. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 11:16 PM
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Sometimes they treat me better, sometimes they treat me worse, but most of the time it is about the same. I find that clothes get more attention than heels though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 11:10 PM
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She won't have had sex with other people, so she won't be carrying over sexual kinks or appetites from old relationships that won't be compatible with you. A woman with a big sexual history might be into BDSM or some other stuff that you might not like, so you're more likely to be sexually incompatible. A virgin girl is like a clean slate, she doesn't have kinks and a defined sexual appetite, as she hasn't tried that stuff in the past, so she wont try to make you do stuff you don't like. Are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 09:47 PM
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I didn't say "to me" you are right. Though I don't really care much about trying to write properly to Onclejulian anyway because nothing he says is reasonable to begin with. I am not judging you for not saying "to me" I am saying that if you are using that example of my writing the "to me" was implied, so I attached it to your point. However, my point does stand. If you didn't mean all women towards men, and you didn't mean all women towards you without saying "to me", what did you mean? Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:49 PM
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According to my logic I was saying average guys are way more fun, to me. Chads don't bring anything extra to the table to me. That is what I was saying. but going by that logic, you are saying all women are incapable of giving a shit about you, not men in general as you stated. Which makes more sense logically, because some women do give a shit about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:09 PM
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How can I change your view when all you are doing is telling us what you aren't attracted to? You don't like women who go out and work, you only like traditional things. No one can change what you are attracted to. However, a woman's security in herself shouldn't have to come from making you lunch either. I would consider myself fairly independent. I have a job I love, I have enough money to buy the things I want, and I respect my partner for bringing things to the table I can not, such as compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 12:36 PM
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by saying "women don't care about ____ " you are saying all women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:58 PM
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This: You don't need a citation to know that women don't pay men for sex, or that men spend more money on dating and relationships. That's common knowledge. does not equal this: Well, women clearly don't give a shit about or value men Women have paid men for sex, and men paying more on dates does not mean women don't give a shit or value men. I asked for a real citation showing women (all women) don't give a shit or value men. You can't come up with one and instead said something different that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:37 PM
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the part where I said it will be our little secret was a joke. I know what I typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:34 PM
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lol joke/insult same thing in this context. It was funny to me regardless. I am not a wet blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:33 PM
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Yes it would. It makes a lot of sense really
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:12 PM
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lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:56 AM
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quit pretending you know what BPs mean better than they do. Just because you want to shoehorn some dark purpose into anything a BP says about TRP does not make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:36 AM
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It's how your typical alpha usually tends to live a life mostly devoid of hardship, and yet is praised for being stoic and strong. A person can actually be stoic without a need for hardship you know. Not everyone leads awful lives. Good looking people can also easily lose respect when they open their mouth and speak, which is why respect is earned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 11:32 PM
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it'll be our little secret ;) lol that was a joke. Are you upset? You seem to be defensive about being the butt of my little joke. I am asking because I "don't want to put words in your mouth"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:50 PM
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Roasts that the "roastee" don't find funny exist. You just don't find my jokes funny. No skin off my back. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:49 PM
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To feel self righteously angry and get their hate on against the "other". Sounds similar to TRP, a reason to hate the "other" with a sprinkling of "self improvement"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:32 PM
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Respect is earned though. It may be from someone seeing you have dedication to your job and worked hard to get the money you have. I would say it is uncommon that people who are wealthy because of their parents woould be respected right away. They would have to prove their worth instead of just showing they take handouts. Also what some women view as worthy of sexual attraction is not what they all view as worthy. You take it to the extreme. Most women don't need "wealthy" guys. They just want s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:04 PM
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mocking ridiculous things is the point of all hate groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:24 AM
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Well, women clearly don't give a shit about or value men citation please, something that happened to you doesn't count as a source. I want a real one. You treat women like shit, expect to be treated that way in return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:18 AM
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If all men treat women like shit, they won't have a choice but to be alone or with someone who doesn't give a shit about them, the same choice that men are presented with in modern dating. Maybe that is what you and some other guys deal with, but that isn't that case for everyone. A lot of people actually give a shit about the person they are in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:13 AM
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Except women suck at sex and don't do much. lol maybe with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:11 AM
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a woman can value a man in ways that aren't sexual you know. It isn't all about sex 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:08 AM
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sounds like your wheel is spinning on that one, you don't actually have to look at any of the posts, not even your own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:01 AM
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Hint: There is never any argument, just strawman mocking. that is kind of the point of most of the posts there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:57 AM
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lol you said you "do what you want" which is my flair here. Then you said you don't pay attention to those, and as a joke I said it could be our little secret. It was saying that I didn't believe you but that we could pretend you were telling the truth. However, it fell on deaf ears because it has already been explained that you don't get jokes all the time, you missed that one too. Then you called me dumb because you don't understand a joke. It would be funny, if it wasn't so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:52 AM
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Insulting someone as a joke is called roasting someone. It is a thing. It can be mean, but it can also be funny. It is a type of joke. There are multiple types of joke, just like there are different ways of being smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:49 AM
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Lol it is obvious to everyone but you that people can be smart in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:47 AM
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It isn't funny to YOU. You can't expect to find every single joke ever funny. Some jokes just aren't meant for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 10:20 PM
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What does out earning someone else have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 01:37 PM
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very true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 01:36 PM
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and why should women wear dresses and cook for men who do nothing for them? You get respect when you earn respect, it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 03:44 AM
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I agree. I got .69% based on my choices and I have met the right person in a situation that seemed almost impossible at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 11:53 PM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:06 PM
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Possibly. I mean if one man/woman is incapable of loving you, it makes sense that the rest would also be incapable if you believe in awalt/amalt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 04:14 PM
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Yes anyone who thinks that from the other side is equally sad. They must have dealt with some awful things as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 03:05 PM
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There are a few guys here who seem to think women are incapable of love, it makes me sad for their childhood/previous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:13 PM
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wanting many girls doesn't mean having many girls. Occasionally being attracted to someone outside of your relationship is normal. Doing something with it when you are expected not to is what causes problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:12 PM
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Then it is totally cool. I have been in a non exclusive "relationship" before where the guy got all butt hurt when I took it seriously. He wasn't actually looking for anyone else at the time he just didn't want to make things exclusive in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:04 PM
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They are just average. I hang out with average people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:02 PM
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that is totally cool as long as the girl is also allowed to have a few herself if she so chooses
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 04:24 AM
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Yes I have. It started a 2 year drama spiral because he was a nice friend but I wasn't attracted to him. He reacted well enough the first time, and ended up getting a girl friend, but it got progressively worse once they broke up. I wasn't caught off guard at first but was later in the friendship. I don't know how he ended up there other than being attracted to someone who didn't return it, which has happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 03:51 AM
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they are also not models but they are pretty and skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 02:59 AM
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I was talking about the men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:33 PM
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maybe you aren't truly being honest about yourself and your body language, and when you only see 10% of women it makes sense you'd miss a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:23 PM
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How worse? Well their hair is not well maintained, they are a bit flabby, they aren't tall, they tend to be pale, at least a bit nerdy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:19 PM
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How worse? Well their hair is not well maintained, they are a bit flabby, they aren't tall, they tend to be pale, at least a bit nerdy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:19 PM
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they all look worse than zac efron based on your standards of what is attractive (aka homoerotic) don't be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 08:59 PM
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you probably aren't approachable because of your body language or because women don't approach random strange dudes on the street very often. the women are all cute enough and not 300 pounds, but I can't expect you to understand that. I am surprised you even count 300lb women as women with your weird standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 08:58 PM
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Keanu Reeves is fine So are shorter guys. If a guy who is 5'4" can get women fairly easily or a guy who is 6'2" can get a woman who is 6'5" height doesn't matter to a lot of women if you are awesome enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 08:44 PM
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You are delusional and none of my friends look like Zac Efron
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 08:42 PM
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Height isn't your issue, lots of women are shorter than that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:55 PM
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Yes, they do. Why do I see 6'6'' men take women home and I don't see no other man do it? Same reason you think short women don't exist. You just don't pay enough attention. Your eye is drawn to the tall men. I think you might be just very different when it comes to other women and what they're attracted to in men. Not when a lot of the guys I know in relationships are around my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:55 PM
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How am I supposed to see a short woman when there are no short women around me? I have never seen a short woman. Point proven Guys who get ONS don't have to be chads Then what makes them ''very'' attractive to you? Personality, voice, something about how they look, they just aren't chads. They look nothing like the homoerotic pictures you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:09 PM
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or you are crappy for a different reason. Take apples for example, they may both be red, fresh, and juicy looking, but if one has a worm coming out of it, most people aren't going to want to eat it. Even if the apples are identical otherwise. I have told you what is attractive to me. Read again or pay attention
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:07 PM
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There are many guys who are your type? Why do I have the feeling those men are chads but just not Hollywood Chad? no abs so skinny or chubby, goths, punks, nerds, not famous, not wealthy, rough, gentle, bald, matted long hair, etc. What's wrong with the jock face? Nothing other than it isn't attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 04:30 PM
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What exactly would those other types of women be Short for example I'm confused. There are bp women here who say its easy for any guy to get laid, to just go to a bar and pick a drunk slut. If its easy for any man to get laid that means that most women are drunk sluts. So now they aren't? Guys who want random ONS can usually find them easily from girls who want random ONS. A lot of people tend to find ONS/FWB within their friend groups and they aren't random. You also don't need to be a "drunk s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 04:28 PM
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Spiked and IDGAF metality? Guy Fieri confirmed alpha. Also the corporate boring guy has such fantastic cheekbones I love his face and the computer/woodpaneling is lust inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:22 AM
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Probably smart and capable if I had to pick, but the top 2% isn't what I am after, and handsome doesn't really include height in my idea of it. So it would be cabable and one of the other two. I found someone in real life that fits all three very well though so I don't really have to pick in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 12:53 AM
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wait so there is a program that helps men and women who are bad at STEM related things get better at them so that they can pass university and get a job by their own merit? Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 09:57 PM
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Definitely. I'd split a dinner bill with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:06 PM
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This guy is average for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:08 PM
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That average guy speaks to me a little. I like him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 11:03 PM
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When it is her charity, it is most likely her fault. I dislike that she says her brand is her true self when it is clear it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 08:45 PM
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Yet you call me the dumb one. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:34 PM
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It was a joke, you didn't find it funny. My sense of humor doesn't match yours. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:34 PM
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I got that you were saying I am dumb, that was also obvious. You are the one doing the insulting lol. No, I'm not upset and there was no bluff. And most of all - you didn't call anything. You could even I could even what? Not my fault you don't understand that "smart" doesn't have to mean in every single thing. You are trying really really hard to prove that I am "dumb" by making strange changes to the way the word smart is normally used. It isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:33 PM
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lol sure ;) it can be our little secret
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 06:05 PM
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I am also laughing lol, a sense of humor can relate to the amount of fun a person has. Laughing tends to make people happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 06:05 PM
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Even the dumbest americans speak English. Just look at you. Don't try to back-peddle now lol. You can't say something like that and honestly think it wouldn't be taken the way I took it. You don't understand context at all. It is hilarious. There can be ideas and concepts relating to language, there are ideas and concepts relating to being safe when going out, and ideas and concepts related to learning things from a book. You are just stubbornly refusing to admit it because I called your bluff. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 06:04 PM
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Most models are all about makeup and photoshop but don't turn around and pretend it is real or as tess does, where she tries to be known as beautiful at her size and then photoshops out a bunch of things. She isn't honest about what she is trying to represent. She has also ripped people off http://imgur.com/gallery/260BU
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 06:00 PM
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I kind of did once, in that I was in a non exclusive relationship but I wanted an exclusive relationship so I was actively looking for a bit and had another guy for a while. He also didn't want to be exclusive, which honestly made sense, so I eventually went completely back to the original guy when he decided we were exclusive. Other than that, which was a stupid idea on my part, I have never had or looked for a backup. If I am in an exclusive relationship there is only one man I have interest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 04:37 PM
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She is still mostly makeup/photoshop and lies in her ads. Her face is decent, but it doesn't make up for everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:51 PM
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I was impressed by it. It is tough for adults to be "the braces person" so it is awesome that she still wants to go through it And it is totally clear the picture is on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 04:25 AM
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That I am not entirely sure of
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 04:22 AM
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Tess is mostly makeup though with an ugly personality to boot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:15 AM
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I thought she had clear braces which seems fine to me. it is a poor picture, but she probably looks fine otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:14 AM
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bald is fine for me as well, also too skinny/chunky works as well. I have been attracted to all sorts of people so I only really know what dents are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 12:03 AM
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That's Ryan Gosling. From notebook, Drive, blue valentine, yeah. You know that its pointless to talk to girls when someone says not even Ryan Gosling is good enough. I have never seen any of those movies. However, while Ryan Gosling might not be my type there are many guys who are, and who I have been attracted to, but you always brush them off as just being rich because they aren't attractive to you. Paul Newman looks about as good as Ryan Gosling but is still not my type. That last picture giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:40 PM
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That goes to show that a man needs to be absolutely perfect to even be considered a 7 or an 8, meaning that every other man who isn't exactly 6'2''+ built + perfect face + whatever else isn't attractive let alone hot. or that different women like different things, but that would be hard for you to understand seeing as you only believe one type of woman is a woman and can't see the rest. Most of the ratings he got were 7s and 8s. Do women need a man to be an absolute 10 for them to drop the panti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:35 PM
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"I do what I want" is my flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:32 PM
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lol I am having fun here, so it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:30 PM
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I am not American but nice try. Clearly you aren't smart with assumptions. A person can definitely be smart in one thing and not another. Otherwise "street smarts" and "book smarts" wouldn't be defined as separate things. I know the English language a lot better than some other people would. I have the ability to operate the concepts and ideas included within the English language. What you misunderstand, is that a person can have fun or poke fun at something and can still be intelligent. Honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:30 PM
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Oh I loved fight club. It is a fantastic movie. I thought Edward Norton did amazing and I loved meatloaf as well. Brad Pitt also did a really really good job. I haven't seen legends of the fall though. I can't say I have even heard of it. It is probably a good movie if it is considered a cult hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:01 PM
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is that first guy from the notebook? because he isn't attractive to me. I don't remember his name, but he looks like the same person I think. His face is just all off for me The last guy looks too old so he is definitely a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:58 PM
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Most either gave him a 10 or pretty close to it. go back and look, most were 7s or 8s This absolutely means Cristiano Ronaldo is the least attractive of all the men posted. of course it doesn't mean that, but it also doesn't mean that he is everyone's type. A few women said they wouldn't be interested. The chicks with good taste rated him as a 10 or up there, pretty closely you mean the one's who's tastes align with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:56 PM
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better than he was in whatever the movie was that you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:53 PM
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if women all had the same taste in men, all of the ones who replied to this would have given him a 10. Instead there are a couple 9s a couple 10s and a lot of 6, 7 and 8s. Women clearly can't agree on how attractive he is. So nothing you are saying is the truth because there is no actual proof of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:53 PM
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If he approached me and I was single, I would have no idea who he is. I would not know of his wealth, or power, and if I did that would come across as bragging and unattractive, he looks like he is probably the type to wear a lot of hair gel and smell too much of cologne which isn't for me. I get that he is conventionally attractive but not what I am looking for. I am also not really a fan of beckham, he seems too fancy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:51 PM
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and you like Beckham more than women do, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:15 PM
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lol delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:13 PM
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I did not see every girl give him a 10. Are you just assuming anyone who didn't give him a 10 is not a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:13 PM
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fight club is the most common answer I see
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:08 PM
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Or you think they don't because you've flirted with guys who weren't attracted to you and misinterpreted it that way. bit of both I would say. I know not every guy is interested in me. Flirting on both sides is subtle - that's what separates it from explicit sexual talk. But it's still pretty obvious on both sides. No, I don't miss flirting. but if you say it has never happened how do you know you aren't missing it? Or they weren't attracted to you. some weren't some were. They still missed it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:07 PM
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It takes pretty much the same amount of time because the surface area is the same. I just don't care enough to do it often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:05 PM
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and the girls who don't have "super high standards" didn't rate him a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:04 PM
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Women say they have varied tastes because they do, if they didn't they would all be all over this Ronaldo guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:03 PM
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So then why would your first assumption at hearing that I don't get flirted with, be that I just don't notice flirting? Because guys often don't notice the subtle flirting women do. Yep. It does. You flirt with attractive men, so you think unattractive men don't exist. Yes I used to flirt with men who are attractive to me. You probably be surprised if you know what they looked like though. They aren't "gorgeous model gym chads" or whatever. They were average guys with good personalities, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 02:10 PM
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I mostly kept to myself and read books and ignored boys so I think I missed it too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 02:07 PM
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definitely not Brad Pitt's best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 02:02 PM
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I kind of assumed you were a guy I just don't think every woman is a huge soccer fan lol Well maybe those are different girls? One of the replies I saw rated him very highly. He just seems like too much of a "pretty boy" for my tastes, but I am basing this off of one picture. I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:14 AM
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Does it? Or do not all women have names like soccerstar77, and not actually care much about him. Like he looks decent, but I would need to actually meet the guy or at the very least know a lot about him before i would decide on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 02:07 AM
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This is tough but I will try. I do normally need more than pictures to judge if I am attracted to someone but going off of pictures alone: 1 is like maybe a 6? He looks ok but probably doesn't have many of the hobbies I do 2 is a 7.5 or 8 seems like he might enjoy his job which is a plus, also looks nice 3 is a 6 as well, decent looking guy 4 is a 5 or 6 hard to tell with the bad picture, nice hair though 5 is like a 2, he has a really good face but I prefer guys who keep fit like me and who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:52 AM
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1 is 4/10 2 is 3/10 3 is 5/10 4 is 5/10 5 is 6/10 6 is 2/10 7 is 2/10 8 is 5/10 9 is 4/10 10 is 4/10 Thanks for the lesson in how different the rock can look, you missed his fanny pack picture though. That is a solid 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:21 AM
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Meanwhile, I had 2 drinks, and he was hawt, and please don't tell brad, he'd freak out is perfectly acceptable among women. I said none of the women I know view this as acceptable. Yes some have cheated but not like that. They are also looked down on and are guilty feeling themselves because they know it is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 11:50 PM
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deny the guy who takes her for dinner for sex, maybe part of the problem is that you think you are owed sex for taking someone out to dinner. Otherwise this entire post just sounds like jealousy that these girls are going out having fun and living their lives the way they want without you. You might not see them as a potential good mate, but others could. They want a good man and an LTR, and maybe they are looking in the wrong places, but that doesn't mean that all the guys at clubs are "residen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 11:45 PM
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Well my attitude can be very unattractive, so I have had issues getting a boyfriend before. Not really a huge deal now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:21 PM
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not any of the women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:06 PM
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and what you want seems to be quoting me. Neat :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:58 PM
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awe sorry you don't have a similar sense of humor to me. Not everyone finds the same things funny and that is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:57 PM
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Smart can be related to multiple things. It would be dishonest to say you are smarter than me in English perhaps. It would be dishonest to say I am smarter in French grammar than someone who grew up speaking and writing French. It would also be dishonest to say I am inherently smarter than a plumber because of my degree because the plumber probably knows things I don't. So it is probably a lie to say you are inherently smarter than me in general without actual proof in multiple scenarios. Hate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:56 PM
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The point is that it is a guy explaining condescendingly to a woman because she is a woman. He assumes she automatically knows less because of her gender. There are condescending assholes in both genders who are just like that and I am sure some women "femsplain" as well, but the idea is gendered for a reason. It isn't just random condescension. That is also why I don't think it happens as often as some people think. I think regular assholes are mistagged fairly often
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:46 PM
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I did have one guy spread nasty rumors about me after but he was just an asshole and didn't get another chance lol. Most guys are chill about it. I do rarely (like once yearly) shave just for the surprise factor lol but it is never worth it after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:42 PM
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lol I get it. My hubs is super hairy lol so he can't judge. We just get hairy together haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:41 PM
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not with a few girls at least. I have friends who watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:40 PM
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I don't really shave unless I feel I have to, I don't do hair or makeup unless I really want to, I am normally just a jeans/tshirt kind of person because I don't care about dressing up just to go to the store, I can be very sarcastic, I am often "one of the guys", and I can be very loud and confident. It has paid off but I am pretty sure it has caused me trouble a few times. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 09:02 PM
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I know so many people who play pokemon and who also play poke-go. We go on hunting trips sometimes it is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:59 PM
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Oh my god the ingrowns suck so much. I wax occasionally and trim slightly more but I am the same way. I have never had any real issues because of it. I agree with you completely that my comfort is more important. Honestly I am too lazy to do my legs as well unless I am planning on a dress or shorts the next day. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:57 PM
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it does seem kind of braggy to bring it up when meeting someone which would be a turn off. Like if I knew through a friend that the guy was wealthy I might ask what he does out of curiosity but I would probably do that to any guy when getting to know them. I like hearing about what people do for a living and see if they get excited about it. The amount made isn't that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:54 PM
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I have said this a few times. I agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:50 PM
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then why do you keep replying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:47 PM
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That you're not one of those some. That isn't a well written sentence for trying to prove that you are smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:47 PM
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You seem upset that's all. Not my fault you didn't find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:46 PM
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it definitely exists, it just isn't as predominant as some would have us believe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:53 PM
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you seem upset
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:47 PM
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lol sure some are. I am sure some are smarter than you, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:47 PM
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lol many jokes are at others expense. Otherwise the roastme sub wouldn't exist. Otherwise negging wouldn't be a thing. It is not "elementary school level" but I am sorry if I hurt your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:46 PM
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You really do believe that your own experience (that of a person who gets flirted with commonly) is the experience of everyone else. Which, again, only goes to show how privileged you are - you can't even fathom anyone having a life different from your own. You make a lot of strange assumptions. No where did I suggest I get flirted with commonly. I suggested something based on that women often flirt differently than men do and men often miss it because they are looking for the wrong thing. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 04:15 AM
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She can abandon them the same way he could. She would still have to pay money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 04:13 AM
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which also mean the guy doesn't have to take care of the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 10:45 PM
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Not really any more than the guy gets after birth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:37 PM
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Jealous of what? That is how it works. If you don't want the baby don't have the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 08:28 PM
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I don't know how male privilege feels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:18 PM
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pretty much but this happens when you make a baby that ends up having rights of its own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:17 PM
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That was kind of the point of why I was asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:02 PM
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I could say the same thing about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:01 PM
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By your logic I have never seen any of these guys in real life so they don't exist. You seem to be very obsessed with make believe things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:55 PM
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If you think women under 5'7" don't exist you are either really unobservant, don't think they count as women, are delusional (even with given example), really poor at math, or you think you are a lot taller than you are. Yes I buy comics. Trades are very important parts of society. I would totally date a plumber or garbage man.Why not, those can be interesting jobs. IF he loves his job and works hard that is awesome. I exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:54 PM
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I don't see short girls because there is no such thing as short women. so you are just bad at math got it. Is that so? In what ways do you think differently than most other girls? already gave an example, reread it Sure, sure. I'm sure a girl who can reject male models is attracted to a man because he likes to talk about movies and comic books. You read Old Man Logan? The comics? I read some of old man logan but was spending too much money on other comics at the time to buy that one all the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:43 PM
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maybe not being so obsessed with chad would be a good start. Also all I said was that the photos are always homoerotic and more about what men like than what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:37 PM
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men. If no man could impress me, I wouldn't have had any.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:36 PM
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and you lost me again with the homo erotic shirtless pics. Enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:18 PM
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so why have I had so many?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:16 PM
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I'm not ignoring women at all. Women don't approach me. How am I supposed to notice them? How is it my fault that when I look around I don't see any girl who is shorter than 5'7''? you posted an example of a tall girl and I proved you wrong, if you aren't seeing shorter girls you must just be really really poor at guesstimating height. It would explain a lot. Why do you have so little faith in me? have i ever let you down before? all the time really Because I've had women tell me one of the reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 03:14 PM
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and a woman is punished having to carry a baby she doesn't want to term. If abortion was illegal and neither parent wanted the child both would be punished. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:55 PM
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I am just making sure that if abortion was illegal that would continue. It takes two to make a baby after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:53 PM
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above average men should be chads according to the crappy definition of chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:52 PM
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But she isn't real remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:51 PM
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Neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 07:00 AM
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so the guy should also be forced to care for the child as well right? Unless it is given up for adoption of course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 06:52 AM
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I work in IT now. I have dealt with it both places
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 06:48 AM
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Well now at least you are relating it to sexual validation so at least you admit that that is the thing you missed out on. Though I wonder if you just missed flirting because you didn't know it was happening. Girls don't always flirt the same way guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:46 AM
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I am saying that above average girls would have more luck. Just like above average men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:44 AM
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I guess I always just think of obese as very obese. Though if the average is 16, this guy definitely isn't hanging out with average women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:43 AM
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average does not mean obese, that is extreme to the other end. Average is a woman around 5' 3" give or take a few inches who is the average weight for that height. If you are hanging out at parties with above average people it makes sense that you'd assume they are average. Every picture you are posting would be an above average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:02 PM
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if that is an average girl to you I can see why people think average girls get sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 10:39 PM
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No, I see every woman that exists. I don't see women shorter than 5'7'' because they don't exist in my enviroment. In the world? Short women? Surely. I mean, I'm sure that there are women who are short in some desolate Chinese village. But in the western world? The average for women is 5'7''+ certainly. The average height of women in canada is 5' 3.4" I am the average height of men. What state or province do you live in or what area? The midwest US? Eastern Canada? The Great lakes region? You ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:55 PM
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I hang out with nerdy people for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:26 PM
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Anyway, I'm pretty sure that what keeps me from being highly sucessful with women aka getting laid without effort is my lack of 6 feet stature. I see plenty of guys who don't have much in the order of a personality get women on account of that. but we have also come to understand that you see plenty of guys getting women but you don't see plenty of women because they are invisible to you. So how can anyone trust or respect your opinion on this? I tend to prefer guys around my height so I can loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 09:26 PM
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An act you put on to try to impress girls is not your real personality, and they can probably see through it. I thought you don't even try with girls anyway? because you can't get it up? That's what you said anyway. So what am I supposed believe? I have turned down models before because they were trying too hard to be charming, it wouldn't work on me. I prefer average guys That woman is short. Short women exist. Now you can say you've seen one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:59 PM
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if the guy doesn't want to be there that is fine, but we don't exclude them if they do. Most things we do are mixed gender. I am not sure I am in what is considered a liberal area because we aren't really locals, but my friends group is from all over, and I have lived other places where mixed gender was more the norm. The one place where I occasionally saw it not happening was weird to me and even then it didn't happen all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:56 PM
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I have had girls nights with friends, but when the boyfriend would appear in the hallway we never ignore him or only let the girlfriend speak to him. We give snacks, ask how he is and have a decent conversation before he sneaks away to play games or something. We don't turn guys away at the door. I have also had "girls nights" where a guy is invited because his girlfriend is away for work or something and he wanted to hang out and get food with us. It just seems normal to me not to exclude peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:36 PM
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I only go off of what I know and from what I know you'd never be attractive to me regardless of looks. I'm not trying to fuck you. Of course you aren't. I probably don't count as a woman to you. They aren't short. How the fuck would I know she's short when she's only looks a few inches shorter than Robert Pattinson who is 6 feet tall + when she's next to him? ok by that picture and google it is easy to tell her height. He is 6ft tall, she looks to be about 5-6 inches shorter in that picture as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:33 PM
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I said I have been deprived of sexual validation for long blocks of time. If I have experienced something and had it taken away would it not hurt more than someone who has never had it? You didn't specify that it had to be sexual validation originally so I didn't move goal posts, I said it was ridiculous to have never once had any validation in your life. It is clear you just don't count it unless it is sexual. Your view matches someone who thinks they are missing out on something they just don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:56 PM
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You could be brad pitt times a million and still I would dry up like a raisin the moment you spoke. I don't date guys with 10/10 male model good looks. So it doesn't impress me much. What impresses me is a good personality, which you lack immensely. Also delusions are unattractive. You managed to pretend that short celebrities aren't actually short because they "don't look short" they are short though, so short women exist. hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:53 PM
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In single sex groups I have been a part of the other sex is usually accepted very well and talked to as if they are part of the group. The ones that weren't were weird to me. I have usually almost always had a mixed gender group of friends so everyone talked to everyone and SOs were more than welcome. Even then it was weird and uncommon for me to see when certain girlfriends would ask me to go talk about girl stuff so the guys can do guy things. We can have similar interests to guys, it is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:49 PM
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I don't give a fuck about what you look like. You could be the hottest, richest person ever and your attitude on what counts as women and your delusions on height and what women want would still make you the most unattractive person I could meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:26 PM
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How can I see a woman under a certain height when they don't exist? In my enviroment there is no such thing as a woman shorter than 5'7'' to 5'8''. So you don't count women under 5'7" as women. Got it. Where is your environment? Give me a state or province or country? You work in a gaming store where only models shop? Really? Yes, in this context. In the context of women I'm attracted to I'm not going to see grannies and wallpaper as sexually attractive. Remember that the vast majority of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:06 PM
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Hey now. What do you mean by that? You have said that you have never seen a woman under a certain height, that means you don't count a large percentage of the female population as women. You have also said that you view female people who are not women as grannies or wallpaper. So it further proves my point. You don't consider a lot of women to actually be women. If anything it sounds like women = female you want to have sex with, and no other female counts. That is not the accepted definition of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:56 PM
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A woman who doesn't give a shit about money. Holy shit, The Rapture is coming. This is rich coming from someone who literally doesn't include a bunch of women in his definition of women. Of course you would be surprised. So you're down with guys who work hard at becoming novelists/actors/painters even if we ain't making much money and things don't look like we'll be making it big anytime soon? Yea sure, I do think it is cool, I mean there is a point where it becomes an unattractive delusion if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:37 PM
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No, I don't give a shit about that. I just like guys who work hard and want to improve at the job they do. It is a bonus if they also love their work. I make my own money, I don't need a guy's. I knew you'd bring the money up though you are kind of a broken record about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:27 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:24 PM
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great
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:14 PM
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In my group too many attempts to leave the wife out is seen as rude. She is at the table she should be included in at least some of the conversation, otherwise there is no reason for her to even be there. I have been in a relationship of sorts where I was invited out for drinks with his friends and they mostly ignored me, it was awful. It definitely isn't something I am looking to repeat and would be something that would turn me off of a relationship. It shouldn't be seen as rude to include some…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:14 PM
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What I say is a good personality for me might not be the same for other girls because we can have different opinions, but normally someone who is funny in a way that meshes with my sense of humor, someone with similar interests to me who can carry on a good conversation with me, someone who is caring, someone who can tease and be teased without it actually being mean or getting offended, someone who works hard at their job, someone who has friends and is friendly and some other things I guess, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:10 PM
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I agree with this. It is how it works for me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:26 PM
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No one person represents the majority. People also tend to seek out others who are similar to them or who they are interested in. This can make it seem like your normal group is the average when it is not. This is something everyone does at least a little. This is not just women. So Men of RP you do not represent the majority either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:21 PM
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0-10 is a perfectly reasonable number for most people though. Not everyone wants ONS their whole life, but I have read that a lot of RP tend to want that so it may skew your opinion. Let's imagine a guy's ambition is to get a wife and kids. He has 2 ONS when younger, 1 LTR with a girl, and then meets his wife in a second relationship. His count would be 4. All of this could happen, and would most likely happen in a 10 year span, giving him 4 new lovers that decade and 0 new ones for the rest of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:13 PM
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Possibly, but I really haven't seen any of the women in my schooling or work be encouraged to trail blaze. Even at easier jobs. I worked at a grocery store stocking shelves. I started the same day as this kind of buff guy. Everyone gave him tips and ideas on how to make work easier and really didn't give me much at all. After he quit a week later, people told me that they had expected me to be the one to quit because I didn't look like I could handle it. Then people started passing on tips to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:02 PM
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You apparently have never been in a situation where you have been completely deprived of any sort of sexual validation, nor have you ever been in a situation with people who refuse to be polite with you. Otherwise, you wouldn't be equating the two I have been in both which is why I can equate the two. I just find it next to impossible that someone has never received any non sexual validation ever in their life. What really throws me is why you think I have never experienced any of the things you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 02:58 PM
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It isn't that, I just know a couple guys who have trouble with girls because they death grip so tight at home, girls can't compete because they just don't have the grip strength
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 02:54 PM
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I am saying I didn't see anything like that at my school or my job. They like having women for diversity but everything I have seen is based on merit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:23 AM
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I haven't seen much of that at all other than telling girls that it is ok to do a job they are interested in even if it isn't a female dominated industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:04 AM
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I don't think I have been encouraged to trailblaze, but I have been discouraged to go to university for what I did and at my job by men who were trying to hint that they didn't think I could do it. I have also had guys get upset when I "make them look bad". For the most part people are as encouraging to me as everyone else, but I wouldn't say it was more. Even when I volunteered for a "Women in STEM" presentation for local high school girls, it was more about not being afraid to do something you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:59 AM
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I see the same thing in my job which is also male dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:41 AM
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True enough, I just find it very strange when a guy doesn't even have like one wife of another guy he is at least friendly with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:35 AM
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There are also women in the military lol. Certain jobs may be male dominated but women can and do exist in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:17 AM
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It is normal to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:15 AM
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Are you giving it the death grip by yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 02:48 AM
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A handshake is a positive experience. A stranger who has never spoken to you who shows you his dick is a negative experience. You have proven that you ignore any validation that is not sexual. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 02:40 AM
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he is a bit on the extreme but good personality can definitely make a guy go from meh to fuckable for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 02:20 AM
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It literally isn't validation of they know nothing about you and just know you are looking for "fun" it isn't about being desensitized, it is about it having nothing to do with you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 11:43 PM
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I was under the assumption we were talking about Craigslist only. Women on dating sites do also get a lot of messages, but even then not all of them are validating. It is quite clear when a guy is only looking for sex and the person he is responding to doesn't matter. One word messages, copy paste messages, etc show that the guy hasn't taken the time to actually read your page. Dick pics can also prove it. Messages that were like that always felt off and a gross to me because it was clear they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 09:13 PM
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When the original question states nothing about attraction and you answer Nope. It's too much of a barrier to positive and low-key and chill interactions. It comes across as you saying you don't have any friends who are women, then you said it was because you'd want to fuck them all, now it is that you have female friends. Your answers are all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 08:46 PM
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Sounds like it... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 06:42 PM
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Except for those guys who don't count because you didn't like them anyway. Yeah, I've heard this story a million times Nope, I I know when I am getting sexual attention even if I don't want it. And it has happened while all the girls around me were getting a lot. I know the difference. Oh and your condescending, maybe that is why you don't get the sexual attention you want. I am sure you have had regular positive attention at some point. Have you really never been smiled at on the street by a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:30 PM
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I am a woman. I am telling you how I feel. I have also had no male attention while the girls around me had lots, I know the men messaging a person who they have no description of or picture of and who asks for sex without that is looking for sex with anyone, it has nothing to do with the specific girl, because they don't know her, and no one has no attention at all on them permanently unless they are a shut in. People talk at work and with friends and family, and bad attention is still attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:02 PM
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None of those are validating though. The guys don't want her, they can't even see her. They just want sex, that is all they are thinking about. It is not validation whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:26 PM
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It doesn't show I am wanted if there is no picture or info about me. It shows sex is wanted. That is not validating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:22 PM
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Yes but it sounded like you originally couldn't be friends with women at all because you'd want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:30 PM
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No I haven't witnessed girls being that shallow. I have discussed sex with my girl friends but never penis size. If I am honest I can't say I even know the sizes of the partners I have had. I know one was smaller than the average I have seen, one was bigger than the average I have seen and the rest were somewhere in the middle, just average. Couldn't give you a real measurement. However, I am sure this does happen in some groups of friends. Some women put a lot of stake in that, I am just not on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:35 AM
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Then why say this when asked if you have female friends? Nope. It's too much of a barrier to positive and low-key and chill interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:02 AM
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So you can't be friends with girls you aren't attracted to either?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:46 AM
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It is just strange to me to be so attracted to every girl you meet so that friendship can't be an option for any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:34 AM
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Even back when I was younger it was very easy to be platonic friends with guys. Not every situation for sure, some did get weird, but it is totally possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:26 AM
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There were times where neither of us were and times where neither of us were in relationships. Some people are just friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:25 AM
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I just know a lot of guys who are good friends without attraction getting in the way for either of us
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:54 AM
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interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:37 AM
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So you can't just find someone attractive and leave it at that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:23 AM
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I don't lurk and I don't read everything in detail. No point, sometimes I enjoy other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:14 AM
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lol I'm not the one spewing nonsense but you go ahead and think that if it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:13 AM
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Awe someone forgot how to have fun. Not everything has to be super serious. You are being a wet blanket
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:12 AM
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What is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 09:07 PM
1

What is wrong with vaudeville?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:47 PM
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It happens to a lot of us. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 07:43 PM
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he has such a strange face though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:38 PM
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they have to learn somewhere. The girls in the class aren't going to fault the guy for learning. I know a few guys that have been salsa dancing for years. They were crap when they started, now they are pretty good and enjoy getting to dance with women a few times a month
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:54 PM
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19 or 20. I started late.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:41 PM
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I didn't lie, I just didn't love him or anything, but I also never said I did. My "I guess" was honest because I really did want to continue but wasn't confident enough or smart enough at the time to know I could FWB someone. I figured that out later. We also did nothing but make out despite my efforts. Lying to get in someone's pants is awful. It happened to me (mostly) with the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 12:36 PM
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That is really sweet. The guy I was with knew I was a virgin, but was also a scared and unenthusiastic pot head. He was always high and always lazy. I tried to progress to sex by moving his hands to over my shirt or on my butt while kissing but he would move it. The only time he did anything other than make out was when he got drunk instead of going to work, got mad at me for not wanting to also call in and then proceeded to grope my chest a bit too hard in full view of everyone in the living ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 12:32 PM
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Probably RP because they are already so used to being the laughing stock
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:13 AM
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I planned the one I had to be that and it worked. It wasn't that fun but I wasn't too hopeful in that department anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:10 AM
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ok so my first boyfriend was not serious. I got super drunk had a crush and people at a party pressured me in to making out with him. It was my first kiss and I liked it. I wanted to continue this new thing so I would go to his house and make out. I didn't want anything else because his personality was horribly dull, but one day he asked mid make out "so does this mean we are a thing?" I didn't want to stop so I said "I guess" and it started the most boring relationship I have had ever and the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:08 AM
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meh, refusing to believe that a word can have multiple meanings is pretty silly though, so I fought silly with silly to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 11:20 PM
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evaluate you lol, I have figured you out enough based on what you post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:05 PM
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'cept you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:04 PM
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lurk more? where? why? what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:04 PM
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I had one one night stand and it was because I wanted sex. The guy I wanted went home to bed early so at the end of the night I accepted a friend who was good enough and available. That was the only one. I knew him well enough and he was ok looking enough to make it work, but it wasn't that fun for me so it was a waste overall. He told people after that he used all these techniques on me to make it work, but really I just picked him because he was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:33 PM
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you've proven it time and time again with what you type. You don't actually see the world for what it is. it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:28 PM
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shhh it's ok you can't be right every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:28 PM
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That is not what I have seen. Where are you even looking where you think only certain guys get laid? The population wouldn't be as huge as it is if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:27 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:13 PM
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awe and here I thought we were getting somewhere. oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:05 PM
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lol no not every guy is a variation on the same type. That doesn't even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:04 PM
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what a nice thing to say about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:04 PM
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I know but he said there was no other type of attraction lol he was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:03 PM
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I proved you wrong. You seem so stubbornly against realizing attraction can be non sexual, despite being told otherwise, so I gave you an easy example. I am not the one that lost this debate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 05:05 PM
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There is more than one thing that is attractive and different women are attracted to different things. Something that works for me, might not work for another woman and vice versa. There are also a lot of different reasons for dead bedrooms, you can't just assume they are because of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:15 PM
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Are magnets attracted to one another sexually? No Therefore there is more than one type of attraction checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:11 PM
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It has happened to me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:08 PM
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Having any chance at happiness is better than having no chance at happiness so in this way, an open relationship is a waste of time to me I wouldn't be happy or very healthy in an open relationship. Some people can, and that is great, but I know I can't. I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:50 AM
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The with open relationships is higher for me. More arguments on either end because of jealousy that was promised wouldn't happen, higher chance of stds, higher chance of a baby with someone else that one partner wouldn't want, the risk is far from static monogamy is more my style regardless of risk because it is what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:42 AM
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I've just known a few who weren't selfish and knew porn was exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:38 AM
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committed monogamy isn't a waste of time for the people who want it however, I would say a healthy relationship is one in which both sides agree well on if it is open or closed and work together well in other ways as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:07 AM
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Men don't care about women's pleasure and they all think sex is like porn. like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:46 AM
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I didn't get it until 21, I was completely content before it without. I only did it because I felt I was supposed to. I would have been fine otherwise. I am never "desperate" enough to fuck anyone who agrees but did have some "fun" previously when I was figuring myself out. I learned that it can be something I love and enjoy very much very often with the right person but is not something I "need". I have a hand and even then I can't be bothered half the time. I go without for at least 6 months e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:45 AM
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Smarter would be nice. The conversations would be enjoyable. I don't really need a rich person, I am fine on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:59 PM
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I really don't think every guy is like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:56 PM
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how do I prove it otherwise? Because I honestly don't know how. I really don't love abs on guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:16 PM
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links then please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:03 PM
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except, a lot of different types of guys get laid, and you didn't use as many words last time you tried to explain that so it wasn't clear at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:02 PM
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I am saying it would not increase my attraction in any way. If the guy is awesome enough to sleep with it has nothing to do with his abs. It isn't a deal breaker, it just isn't my thing. I prefer a bit softer guys. It is kind of like height. I prefer guys who are 5' 7" to 5' 10" but doesn't mean anyone outside of that would be a deal breaker if they are awesome enough. It also doesn't mean I would date someone only because they don't have abs or because they are the same height as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:01 PM
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you do make very little sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:59 PM
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that's fine, no hard feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:52 PM
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I don't insist on sleeping with guys with abs because I insist on sleeping with guys who don't have abs. As in I have outright asked almost all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:42 PM
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I listed a number who's kids I know are the fathers. You can't extrapolate without more data My sample was also pretty close to at least the math diploma
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:40 PM
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that is why I specified on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:38 PM
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repeating it doesn't give it meaning. It was not worded well. I have no idea what you are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:38 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:30 PM
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because I would assume it'd happen as soon as I stop having sex with a cheater for my own health reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:29 PM
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Then why do the guys I sleep with never have abs? Why am I grossed out by super cut abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:27 PM
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I gave you a number. I also said that discussion is important to decide what is ok in a relationship. Not my fault you are trying to hamster so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:20 PM
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so you attract girls who like abs. That makes sense. Now remember that not every girl is attracted to you or abs and it becomes easy to understand why abs would add nothing to my attraction to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:19 PM
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Did you just ignore the numbers I gave, good job. Most teens have a shitty sex life. Most teens don't get it as much as they want. Almost all girls don't have it as good as they want because they certainly aren't able to sleep with whoever they want for the most part, and the guys they do sleep with might not want them either. Give me a number, a real number of how many women you know personally whose sex lives you know about enough to really say they are happy. Do the same for men while you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:11 PM
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thanks, I will delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:05 PM
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If the relationship is over in every way but on paper and I tell him so is it still cheating? I don't think so, but it would depend on his opinion I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:05 PM
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let me think...one guy once out of all the guys I wanted or did something with had abs. I didn't sleep with him, none of the guys I have slept with had abs. He was the least attractive to me out of all of them, but he was available for what I wanted at the time. He looked ok enough. The ones I was truly attracted to, didn't have abs and abs wouldn't have added anything to my attraction to them. I don't really care about abs. Now, somewhat visible triceps and a broad back, those are nice. Why is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:44 PM
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In this weirdly specific situation I would not be cheating "to get back at him" as we would be over as far as I was concerned even if not officially. If I would be cheating it'd be for me, and even then like I said it probably wouldn't happen, because I don't really need sex to survive. I answered it and said it is weird and specific and doesn't really match up to real life. That is my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:37 PM
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You really expect most marriages to be adoptions? You expect most to be open? I know one open relationship in my job, and I know at least 15-20 that I know are their actual children, and more than that where I can assume it is true. Almost most people have a shitty sex life in their teens what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:34 PM
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thanks, I will delete a couple and see if that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 07:37 PM
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I am pretty sure I know exactly what I want in a guy, or else I would be going after guys completely different to who I am going after. Who I say I want and who I sleep with match up pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 07:37 PM
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lol sure, sure they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:56 PM
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I am pretty sure I consciously know who I have been attracted to enough to try something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:56 PM
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Can they? Or are they just assuming something based on looks like everyone does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:55 PM
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They can't really, at least not on body type alone. Posture can lead someone to believe the person is one way or the other, but without actual evidence there is nothing that proves it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:07 PM
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I don't prefer abs, am I not a girl? I prefer a bit softer and not well defined. You just said all girls prefer abs, yet are trying to tell me you are saying all girls aren't attracted to the same thing. Which is it? You contradicted yourself. Who are you trying to convince? because it isn't working on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:03 PM
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Maybe it is something else with you then. Though I have rarely ever seen women "form a line" for anyone who wasn't a celebrity giving autographs. The dad bod was a popular trend for a while at least, it is still popular with a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:01 PM
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Ok that makes more sense. I misunderstood your point originally. I get it now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:14 PM
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I am not failing to mention that because not every girl prefers guys with abs. Just like not every guy prefers girls with abs, or big boobs, or any number of things. Not all girls are attracted to the same thing. If you think that you are not really in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:13 PM
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AF is such a shitty excuse for it. Women like who they are attracted to. You also can't tell by someone's body type if their personality is "alpha" or "beta". Some women want short term with jacked guys some want short term with dadbods, some want long term with either as well. It is a preference in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:30 PM
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So you only feel worthwhile when you put others down? You don't need hatred of others to feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:24 PM
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Totally. My problem was OP saying lifting isn't important when trying to look toned. It is an important part, just not the only part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:41 PM
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Not every time. Different girls do have different preferences in what they like. Just like some guys like girls with big boobs and some like girls with small.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:40 PM
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I am using normal in the way it was taught to me. I don't really give a shit about the myers briggs test because it seems almost useless to me. It is not far removed from horoscopes in my opinion. So I don't know what type I would be. Especially since I took it twice out of curiosity once and got two different answers, it doesn't seem to be a good judge of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 01:30 PM
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That is also important, you are right. Some girls do like the bulky looking guys too though, so it might work for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 01:25 PM
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Normal means "conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected" It means being a regular human being, which almost everyone is. It is as normal to be goth, just as it is normal to be a sports fanatic, it is normal to play DND with friends, as it is normal to play pool at the bar with friends. People who fit the "social norm" aren't always normal people. Some do have issues of their own to deal with. I am not mocking you but you seem to be hurt by the "social norm", It was an observation. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 12:28 PM
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Most guys can weightlift and just look toned, huge bulky guys put a lot more effort in to get like that. If a guy wants to look toned, weightlifting is important
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 12:20 PM
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I honestly think most people are normal despite outward appearances. Goths joke and love like everyone, punks appreciate their hobbies and enjoy having families, nerds do the same things too. Your use of the word "normie" comes across as an insult. Almost as if you are someone who hasn't fit in and you are trying to own it but it isn't quite working.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:04 AM
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Most nerds are really just normal people with an uncommon hobby. I find it weird that you think otherwise, yes they may be bullied, but that doesn't make them less normal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 03:49 AM
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Nerd is a subculture that stems from the hobbies. It is for the people who relate over said hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 02:50 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 11:28 PM
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It is not a necessity to me not because I "can get it anytime I want", but because I just don't need it. I was fine from puberty to 21-22ish without it and I have gone without after that. It just isn't really something I need. I love it, I want it often, but I don't need it. I do need the support, trust, and love of my partner. The sex is just a bonus when I am around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:28 PM
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there never was anything wrong with it. There is however something wrong with this weirdly specific question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:54 PM
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If they don't stay virgins how can you say the majority of STEM guys are virgins? that doesn't make sense. You can't cherry pick which people to include. Also being married and having kids is a pretty good way to assume they had sex at least once. Therefore not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:53 PM
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Knowing peoples names and their family life is pretty easy when they tell you they have kids in intros during classes. I also did certain classes with people who were at different times in their degree. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:24 PM
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exactly my point. He added in the cheating later. If they both cheat I would still pick the first because I don't agree with polygamy and then not sleep with him because he cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:22 PM
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nowhere in the original did he say they cheated, he extrapolated so so did I. Easy. If I can't though, I wouldn't. I probably wouldn't even if I was allowed in this specific impossible situation, because it would be hard for me to meet people but the option would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:02 PM
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The ones that were married all had kids for the most part. I knew everyone in my degree and a lot in others. Same at my workplace. The study only shows one school, it proves nothing about the majority of tech students country-wide
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:59 PM
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The source linked originally was a small sample. 33 mathematics majors and 114 engineering majors from one school responded. How does that describe the majority? The source said: Out of all the other majors, our engineering majors had the highest percentage of students who have never had sex. Of the 114 people who answered our poll, 53 percent have never had sex. But 10 students — more than any other major — reported having sex “Every day. Without fail.” And we definitely appreciated the 0.877 p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:21 PM
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Yes, though nowhere in the original did it say I'd be stoned either so you are also adding your own stuff in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:11 PM
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Seems pointless otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:10 PM
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why does it relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:06 PM
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what was the point of your jewelry question, since we seem to agree that you missed her point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:56 PM
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The OP said in another comment that both options would cheat. I read that, did you? If I would get stoned if I cheated, then I would just take care of myself for the rest of my life because the cheater sure as fuck wouldn't get to. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:55 PM
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I do have a tech degree. My sample proves that the studies don't relate to every place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:52 PM
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whoosh and no I don't care for jewelry at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:37 PM
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there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:36 PM
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Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:36 PM
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Why does it matter if they aren't mainstream though? The mainstream isn't all that great anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:05 PM
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you posted it in a place where casual sex is wanted and said she wanted "fun". You basically chummed the water. Of course your "experiment" got attention
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:11 PM
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whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 12:33 PM
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Prostitution is legal in some parts of America
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 12:33 PM
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They aren't social outcasts in their own groups though. Nerds do tend to have friends, good friends, with the interests they share. They might not fit your group, but they fit in in their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 12:30 PM
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The first 2 I guess. Height has never been important at all and I have never seen a "subpar" penis, but I guess face and penis make sense if i have to pick between the 3 27, white, canada, blueish, and upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 12:25 PM
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It is the value differences that bugs me. If it is just a question it is fine, but guys who can't stand a higher count and I just won't get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:38 AM
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it works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:06 AM
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You are right, if it is a guy or girl without much experience or who are religious or something I kind of get it. I just know they wouldn't like me, so I avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:34 AM
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and it is good of you to realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:24 AM
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I just don't like having my feet off the ground. Luckily I am tall so it is pretty easy to wiggle out back to the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:24 AM
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That is why I avoid guys that care about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:14 AM
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lol I am definitely the best version of me so far. I have learned a lot about who I am and what I want and found someone at 25 who is happy I am who I am and not the disaster I was when I was "young and carefree"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:12 AM
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Confidence in who he is, a sense of humor I get, a style that works for him, and...playful without being hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:06 AM
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That isn't how it works. It would make sense in a world where each person is only allowed one child, to ensure genetic diversity as much as possible. You being "hot" wouldn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:18 PM
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you wouldn't get 100 free passes, you'd be arrested probably after the 3rd when they realize how much you are breaking the 1 child rule. Men already do much of the physical work in life, why would that change with a rule on how many children you can have? Why do you also think you wouldn't have to follow said rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:48 PM
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Why should I have to "comply" in a situation like the example? I should be allowed to ask for details on where we go in any situation to make sure I am properly prepared. I am a perfectly nice girlfriend without being tested in such shitty ways. I certainly wouldn't date someone who expects such things either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 09:46 PM
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It wouldn't just be women policing this policy it'd be all officers most likely. Also no one person is good enough to deserve a population of themselves. Especially with inbreeding being such an issue after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:26 PM
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I would not enjoy that situation. How is that being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:25 PM
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It is natural to me, or a fetish of sorts. Outside of the bedroom I do not enjoy being submissive. I grew up being treated as a doormat by many people and hated how it made me feel. I had no confidence in myself. Now I do and I stand up for myself and feel good when I am on equal footing with others in my daily life. I love being on equal footing with my boyfriend in every other situation in our relationship. There isn't one of us in charge, it depends on the situation. I like that. It feels rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 05:59 PM
1

Yes, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 05:50 PM
1

We would need to keep the same level of genetic diversity. If we don't issues could arise later down the road. If it got to the point where the whole world was strict on the one child policy, parentage would probably have to be strictly controlled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 05:19 PM
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I am a bit masochistic in bed and nowhere else. This wouldn't fly with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 04:42 PM
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It most like would. It is possible there may be waivers for new marriages but they wouldn't want guys sewing the earth with multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 04:41 PM
1

no, I love my best friend in a non sexual way. I get that. However, I am not "in love" with him. "In love" usually denotes something stronger and more sexual. You really do love posting pics of shirtless men though. Your posts often have more than one. Are you sure there is nothing sexual behind it? Because it is totally cool, and you might be happier if it were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:47 PM
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I wouldn't be a good rpw either, that sounds kind of awful being thrown in to something. I am lucky to have a guy who gets that and doesn't think the day is ruined because I want to change in to something more reasonable for the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:43 PM
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wouldn't you also be under the one child policy? It is enforced. Guys who have a lot of children with multiple women would probably get in a lot of trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 03:38 PM
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She has an ugly personality, I think that is what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 06:12 AM
1

That you need to figure out on your own by talking to drunk people. There is a line, but it is different for each person. It isn't like 3 drinks or something specific
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:15 AM
1

I know all of those things and I am still BP. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:14 AM
1

within reason it is ok. not all drunk people are drunk enough to not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:07 PM
1

your explanation of why you posted earlier, being "in love" with their masculine features
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:04 PM
3

That doesn't actually count as polygamy if it is still only one marriage at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:03 PM
1

you don't have to drink to have fun out with people. I do it often
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:48 PM
1

words you type say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 09:47 PM
1

bars mostly. There are always a few people at the end of the night looking to go home with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:27 PM
1

because you have a thing for posting shirtless men. Hey, you might be bi. Nothing wrong with that either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:11 PM
2

tinder does not work the way real life does. Everyone knows that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 07:11 PM
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sure they do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:11 PM
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Sounds like I'd rather be celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:11 PM
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The problem is women not wanting to lower their standards. If men lowered there as well they would be just as lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:10 PM
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You don't get how it worked with the mormons. I also wonder how only dating one person at a time is considered polygamy in your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 04:51 PM
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I like the quiet. It isn't as easy to figure out as vocal guys, but after a few times you start to see their hints, hear those tiny gasps, etc. It is crazy how obvious it can actually be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 06:24 AM
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every moment I have had has been special in its own way even if it was with different people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 06:21 AM
1

how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 06:20 AM
2

no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 06:14 AM
2

So, women don't play wow? I know a girl who met her husband through wow. Girls don't play DND, I know a few, including myself who do. Girls don't have boxes upon boxes of comics in their house? Girls don't read books and enjoy science ever? Girls don't ever game? Really? You think girls can't be nerds? Or are you just ignoring the ones you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 03:29 AM
1

you just seem to have a fixation on shirtless men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 11:35 PM
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I just find it odd that someone posts so many pictures of shirtless dudes still uses the word "faggot" I think he might be repressing something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 11:35 PM
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seems like you enjoy dudes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 08:02 PM
1

I don't feel the red pill shows a lot of what reality actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 08:01 PM
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So you find muscular men sensual. Interesting. You are also "in love" with a guy's facial structure. So why do you like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 07:26 PM
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I was going off of the common AMALT thing #yesallmen where it is assumed all men could do that. I think it is ridiculous The strategy for me is to do a bit of both. Take control of my own happiness while waiting for someone who likes my idea of happiness and wants to be a part of it. It worked. Women are more likely to leave a man over a lost job and men are more likely to leave women in cases of illness. It is an interesting point, but yet again, a what if. It is not proof of AWALT or AMALT in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 07:25 PM
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The first guy is so much more attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:31 PM
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I don't really find those super muscled guys to be attractive. Then why do you constantly look them up and post them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:30 PM
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I don't really find those super muscled guys to be attractive. Then why do you constantly look them up and post them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:29 PM
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how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:26 PM
1

What I get from AWALT is that all women could cheat, which is far from the truth. Just like I don't think all men could rape. Some people will stick by you through thick and thin. You just have to find them. I also find being hurt is a part of life. Without a little pain I wouldn't have learned what I have and wouldn't have become the person I am today. They are learning experiences. Right now I have complete trust in my partner and know going forward they will stick by through any issues, becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:25 PM
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My question is, why is it automatically assumed that to be a "nerd" you have to be hideous or a complete stereotype? Not every guy who plays DND for hours is hideous or morbidly obese. Not every guy who collects comics is a sweaty neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:52 PM
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yes because the excessive stereotype is exactly what most nerds look like /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:10 PM
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Anyone could theoretically cheat for sure. You don't know. That still doesn't mean everyone will or even want to cheat. Certain people just don't care and it is their choice. Improving yourself is fine, assuming it will happen if you don't is a bit ridiculous. As for scum bags, they are usually guys who say they love me too early because they are trying to get in my pants, guys who I know don't last long in relationships before hopping to a new one casually, guys who hit on me while their girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:07 PM
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It really isn't that tricky once you have met enough people. I can tell the scumbags apart from the decent guys. Improving yourself to help ensure you aren't left is just common sense. It has nothing to do with the type of girl you are seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 12:36 AM
1

It wasn't just my school. I work in tech, I know people in tech in different places. It doesn't seem logical to think the majority in all tech related schools are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 12:33 AM
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I don't want to cheat. I would tell him the relationship is as good as over despite being unable to divorce and that he is free to sleep with whomever. I would just also be allowed. It would be cheating technically, but basically I would stop having sex with him regardless because the relationship would be physically and emotionally over. It just wouldn't be on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 12:29 AM
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not the same type usually. I can talk to anyone as a friend, but as a partner? Not at all. Besides, men can get everything they need from other men, but the only ones who enjoy it are gay/bi. I also don't know why I would need much physical strength from a partner really. I should be capable to do most things on my own with the right tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 12:23 PM
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They can but it scares the shit out of me lol. I hate being picked up I feel like I will be dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 12:19 PM
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I am saying it isn't a luxury in most places
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:09 AM
3

conversation, friendship, love, romantic companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:07 AM
1

Not always or even usually, it depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 11:14 PM
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I have lived a few different places, one school does not equal all of the tech world. The majority are married/in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:46 PM
1

Yes it is. In REAL LIFE if they broke their side of an agreed (key word) thing you are more than welcome to leave or rediscuss said agreement. In a HYPOTHETICAL where I am not allowed to leave at all, I would stop having sex definitely or cheat maybe. I was never saying that a person has to stay with someone who cheated. I am saying someone who isn't comfortable doing something shouldn't be forced to, and if someone stops doing something, discussion is better than cheating by a lot. That entire …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:45 PM
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I did lol hearts shaped food is awesome. This year I sent a handmade card instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:39 PM
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if you only know 8...well it might just be your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:38 PM
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Not all women do that. Nor do all men stereotype women as a whole. I don't see AMALT as a thing. I am not one of the ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:37 PM
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for sure, but we use it as an excuse to try to make as many heart shaped food items as possible. Heart eggs, pancakes, pizza. So fun. I wish I could have this year
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:09 PM
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In real life I would never cheat. I have said that. In real life, my partner, by cheating, has broken his vow. I would immediately break up and leave. I did also say I would just not have sex with the cheater as well. But, in the HYPOTHETICAL situation where for some stupid reason I am not allowed to leave, my relationship with said person would be over in every way but on paper. So that would mean no sex for them and possibly me cheating as well. The vow was already broken, I would no longer ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:06 PM
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if it had nothing to do with sex, sex wouldn't cause babies. If you want a say in the decision, date women who can't have babies or refrain from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:02 PM
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