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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 06:29 PM
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Dual-Mating StrategyLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 04:00 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/18 04:31 PM
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Friendzone FionaLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 04:01 PM
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Humor!LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 03:04 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/18 04:07 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 08:46 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/18 01:35 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 03:28 PM
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A ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/18 05:02 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 05:55 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/18 04:58 PM
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Dual-Mating StrategyLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 04:59 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/18 07:48 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/18 08:12 PM
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Dual-Mating StrategyLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/18 05:35 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/18 02:33 PM
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#MeToo BacklashLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 10:29 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 04:48 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/18 03:34 PM
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$ Bailout $LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 02:54 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/18 03:56 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/18 01:35 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/18 01:21 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 02:41 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/18 05:33 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 03:27 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 10:13 PM
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A ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/18 02:30 PM
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Damaged GoodsLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 01:44 PM
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AnnouncementLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 03:36 PM
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Sub MilestoneLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/18 08:54 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre11/06/18 08:38 PM
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A ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/18 04:25 PM
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A ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 06:35 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 03:17 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:44 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/18 03:55 PM
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The Big QuestionLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/18 07:29 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 08:23 PM
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Grave ConsequencesLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 04:00 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:48 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/18 06:43 PM
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AnnouncementLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 02:51 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/18 02:47 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/12/18 10:42 PM
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LeftoversLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/17 02:10 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:38 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 08:00 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:42 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 04:10 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 01:53 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:42 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:50 PM
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A ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/17 04:48 PM
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Endorsed ResponseLewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/17 03:38 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:45 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 06:57 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 01:25 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:26 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:10 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 03:03 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:06 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:10 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 06:31 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:23 PM
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LewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:02 PM
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Question for MenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:42 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/07/18 05:17 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 08:00 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre19/09/18 01:21 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/08/18 01:23 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:26 PM
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DebateLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:19 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:09 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/08/18 01:45 PM
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Question for MenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 04:44 PM
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LewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:33 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:11 PM
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Q4MenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:22 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/08/18 01:43 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:34 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 02:27 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:14 PM
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Question for Non RedLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:16 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:03 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:21 PM
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IncelLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 05:25 PM
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Question for Blue PillLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:37 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:21 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 08:42 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 05:48 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:12 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 08:43 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 08:44 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:33 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 04:55 PM
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DiscussionLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:54 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:55 PM
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LewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:22 PM
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LewisCross/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/18 03:05 PM
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CMVLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:54 PM
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Question for WomenLewisCross/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 02:24 PM
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Why do you think she is advertising this fact to men on an OLD/hookup site? Think hard. Your future and your wallet's contents may very well depend on it. EDIT: Ah, i see from your post history you're a woman. So you woudln't know. What's your purpose for posting here? Why is it so important for you to respond here and debate us when debate is against the rules of this subreddit? Why is it so important for you to establish her traveling is just that, traveling, and nothing else can be gleaned fr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 07:42 PM
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In general, when a woman implies or says she "travels a lot", this means "has had sex with a lot of men in a lot of different places; men who the local boyfriend/beta bux prospects cannot contact to ask about me and men who can't talk about me because they're like 8000 miles away". Also, women advertise their well-traveled-ness because they think that this makes them sexually attractive to sexually attractive men. They project that which they find sexually attractive in men onto themselves; beli…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 07:27 PM
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Looks pretty alive to me. Click on the link up there. oops. The headline on teh sub in the OP is r/believemen, but the sub's actual address is r/imgoingtohellforthis
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 05:15 PM
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All I want to say is: After visiting r/believemen, i do not ever, ever want to hear or read anyone ever complain about this place ever again. The stuff we post/say here is suitable for Saturday morning children's television programming compared to that sub. If anything, we provide a valuable public service here: Teaching and informing men about the dangers of women who complain WAATGM, seeking bailouts, and preventing women from using and exploiting men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 04:22 PM
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Translation: I am on here for validation only. I don't actually want to date or meet any men. I just want to see what men will actually try to pursue me after I've laid down virtually impossible requirements and have excluded 98% of men. It's fun to watch male hamsters run at about Warp 4.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 02:57 PM
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A few thots thoughts for your consideration: 1) Men shouldn't do this. Men shouldn't even consent to donate sperm anonymously to sperm banks. I'll look for the cite if i have time. I remember an article a few years back in which a couple had a child through artificial insemination with donated sperm from an anonymous donor. The couple either died or divorced or someone got sick, leaving the child essentially orphaned. The government (i don't remember if this was in the US or not) identified the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 02:54 PM
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What men would or wouldn’t do is irrelevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:23 AM
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I don’t care about the book. I care about the lyrics in the song and their plain meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:11 AM
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Well, I'm thinking of the primary view here, which is "when women say 'just be nice and honest', they mean....." I think that statement is generally true. It is a ploy to manipulate and categorize men. I think women tell the full truth sometimes. But only when it serves their interests to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:28 PM
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Why can't the opinion be generally true? There are always exceptions to every rule. The exceptions don't negate the rule. Things are true because they are generally true. In the realm of social science/observational data like this, a proposition need not be 100% true every single time for it to be generally true, and for it to be of use and predictive value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:17 PM
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No, I disagree. Fantine is singing about how she doesn't want anyone else because she was (and still is) in love with her baby daddy, which includes the sex, but isn't totally about the sex. Fantine isn't saying "can't have anyone else because I'm ruined"; she's saying "don't want anyone else because I'm still in love with him". The lyric And still I dream he'll come to me And we will live the years together She's singing about her baby daddy. She wants him to come back to her so they can live h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:02 PM
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You didn’t. It is about her being in love with the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:20 PM
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Who knows? At any rate , address the argument being made here, today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:17 PM
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No, you didn't argue those points. You never said those things. You said "she's fictional". The song is not about "missing hot dick". The song is about missing a MAN SHE LOVED very much; so much that she cannot love anyone else. Jesus Christ. The song is about her being in love and her devastation about her losing that love, not about missing hot alpha sex. You're now putting words in my mouth and invalidating what I said, and attributing to me things I didn't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:39 PM
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Yes, i did argue she's an alpha widow, and all you complained about was that she was a fictional character. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:29 PM
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No, we have not had this argument before. Your objection to this song as an alpha widow example was merely that Fantine is a fictional character in a work of fiction. You have never before mentioned this character's symbolism of the tragic victim of circumstance. And i see you've removed my comments. What rule did they, or gradual's comments, violate? I swear to God I can't figure out what moderation rules you all are following.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:00 PM
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Again: I'm not talking about the larger context of the book. Please read what I wrote. I am talking about THIS character's INDIVIDUAL internal emotional experience to THESE specific events involving her "summer of love" with THIS PARTICULAR man, as expressed using the words the lyricist chose. In case you haven't figured this out, one of the reasons this song is so popular is because the words and emotions expressed in it resonate hard with people in general, and with women in particular. Just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:46 PM
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No. You’re wrong. The context is her love affair with a man she loved very much. Read. The. Lyrics. At this point we’re just talking past each other so I’ll agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:27 PM
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I’m not talking about the story line. I’m talking about the lyrics to the song that describe Fantine’s internal emotional experience and response to specific events she participated in. I’m not talking about broad sweeping social implications or Fantines larger role in the story or any statements the novel or the musical make about revolutionary period France. I am talking about this female character’s florid description of formative events in her life with a man, for the purpose of explaining h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:12 PM
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It isn't. Read the lyrics to the song. It perfectly describes this woman's internal emotional experience of the meeting, the time spent, the sex, and the aftermath. It isn't so much the time period or the circumstances in which Fantine lived. It's her rendition of her internal emotional experience that describes the alpha widow phenomenon. Of course it's played up for emotional/dramatic effect. It's a musical, and part of Fantine's character definition/establishment for the show. It tells the au…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:56 PM
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The song "I Dreamed A Dream" from the musical "Les Miserables" describes an alpha widowed woman. The character Fantine is an alpha widow. She describes in that song a "summer of love" with a Perfect Man and how he left her. Her illegitimate daughter Cosette is the product of her summer with her alpha. The song then goes on to describe how her life ever since has been shit. Nothing else she has ever done or experienced, no other human in her life, has even come close to providing her with the fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:52 PM
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BPD is a vile and evil mental illness that can only be tamed with drugs and overpowered by a powerful male figure I disagree. No medications have been shown to be effective in treating BPD. Drugs are usually prescribed for comorbidities like depression, impulsiveness, aggression or anxiety. So for depression you get an antidepressant. For impulsiveness or aggression you get an antipsychotic. For anxiety you tend to get a mood stabilizer (or a tranquilizer). But some of these drugs are dangerous,…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 05:27 PM
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Sure. Let me preface this with the fact that you must assess and determine what you need from her, and what you reasonably believe and can see that she is capable of. I don't know your wife. You do. I don't know what she is capable of. You do. The expectations I've laid out are: --sexual contact in reasonable ways at reasonable intervals. She can turn me down if she's really really tired, lots and lots of things are going on, there's some crisis going on, or she's really really sick. Otherwise, …
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 04:54 PM
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There won't be one. What amazes me is how often this conversation needs to be had. I mean, how many times do we have to point this out to Blues and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:59 PM
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I saw the report to the mods that this is spam, and it should be reported. That said, posting this is a public service and fulfills one of our missions - teaching and warning young men to avoid women like this, and posts/advertisements like this. Don't do it. There's no woman there. Even if there is a woman there, there is no way you should ever pay women money for pictures, with the thought that you might get to meet them later. And talking over text and paying a woman for pictures is not "buil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/19 02:31 PM
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great example of a woman with a young child that now needs help supporting said child. She is looking for men to pick up the slack because her "child is her world" and "her world" needs time, money, and attention. In all seriousness, thank you for connecting those dots. I knew "child is my world" was the common theme here; but i didn't know what its significance was to single mothers in posting it. Now it's clear - me and my kid need time, money and attention, and we need it from a man. I need a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/19 02:23 PM
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I am a sarcastic asshole then I love Jesus Christ and Anal Figure it out boys. Just a bit of her cuntbitchery "sarcasm" dropped on you there. translate: I am a sarcastic asshole I am a raging cuntbitch. If all your pictures have a snapchat filter, let's face it... you are most likely ugly No translation needed. Some refreshing cuntbitchery honesty there. I enjoy the finer things in life like eating pizza in my underwear. Witness my attempt to appear "normal" and "approachable" and "down to earth…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/19 02:17 PM
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No, because even when that "oppression" was "bad", women's lives and treatment in the West (Europe and the English speaking world) was (and still is) better than women's lives in the rest of the world. The West created the most prosperous, most respecting of human dignity, and just fucking plain all around best society the world has ever known. The West, and the US in particular, created more opportunity for more people and brought more happiness and more personal wealth and health than anywhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 02:07 PM
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Just be nice Just be yourself You don't need to change; you're fine just the way you are Looks don't matter (all that much) We really do love nice guys We hate assholes and jerks who just use us for sex. We really really love guys who are nice to us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:50 PM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:44 PM
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Conceive and give birth. And that’s it. As the transgender Miss Spain shows us, men are better than women at everything—including being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:57 PM
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This thread is starting to get circlejerky..... devolving into incel content....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:53 PM
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QED. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:43 PM
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Fun to speculate on why they're divorcing after 25 years together. He's 54, she's 48. Meaning they got married when he was 29 and she 23. They've got 4 kids. That's a pretty good marriage, long duration, fruitful. --one or both is having an affair. --he found a young thot. --she found a hotbody cub. --she, a slender 48 year old top 2% for her age very attractive woman, doesn't want to be married to a short schlubby baldy anymore. She earned her $30 billion or so, she's taking it, buying a yacht,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:41 PM
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I see your post where you describe her contributions to the business when it was a small start up. OK, but did those contributions continue? What were they? Was she a SAHM raising his kids? Eh. I'm thinking about it like a lawyer.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:32 PM
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started Amazon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:30 PM
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I see. an insult. Trolling. Figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:29 PM
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She might not "deserve" half his wealth, and probably doesn't. The law will say she's legally entitled to half his wealth. "Legally entitled" does not equate to "deserve". People can and do claim legal entitlements to things they don't deserve. This happens all the time. She doesn't deserve it because she didn't generate the wealth and didn't help him generate that wealth. He could have done this on his own. But, the law (passed by politicians with majority female votes; the threat being "pass t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:28 PM
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I'm talking only about some women who feel this way about most men. I don't think most women really think this about most men. Most women don't think about most men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:19 PM
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No. Now you're talking about men with some money and status. I'm talking about the ordinary working class guy with a high school diploma or a college degree who didn't want to keep going in college; so he does something else, usually manual labor or manages a retail store or runs a Starbucks or runs a quick oil change place, or some shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:18 PM
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figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:16 PM
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i don't even know what the fuck you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:14 PM
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Yes, exactly right. You've hit the nail on the head and I don't see why you even need to ask women about this. They are never going to give you an accurate truthful answer. These women want these men to just go away. They don't even want to know these men exist. They want these men to shut up, collect the garbage, fix their iphones, build and fix the roads, change the oil in their cars, bring the arugula to the WholeFoods stores, and make their Chipotle food and gourmet pasta dishes at the high …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:12 PM
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But then again, this from the prevailing female zeitgeist that helping a man in any way, doing anything he asks when and how he asks, turns women into spineless doormats signaling the advent of The Handmaid's Tale. Any time a man asks a woman to help him, he's "abusing" her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:44 PM
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And then charge you with resisting a peace officer. Or if it's a federal cop, for lying to a federal officer. If in state court, you plead it down to disorderly conduct. If in federal court, you'll do some time like a Trump Administration member.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:42 PM
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Get well. Get in shape. Lose the weight. Get your looks and physical appearance dialed in. if there are any physical issues or problems, fix them. Do you have a job? Decent job/career? Making decent money? If not, fix that. Get decent hobbies that involve meeting other people and preferably some physical activity. Not video games. Not model railroading. Not attending comicons. Not collecting action figures. Then, learn some good RP. Be confident and decisive. Vet and screen women hard. Any woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:36 PM
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"do i have to answer that? What.... am i under arrest?" "WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE, PUNK??!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:23 PM
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He needs to save all the texts she has sent him. All of them. For a really really long time. Even after this blows over. He needs to save them for a minimum of 3 years (statutes of limitation for sexual assault in most jurisdictions; check your state's statutes, many states have been extending statutes of limitations for sexual crimes). And reinforce with him: No more contact. Cut all contact, after he sends that message rocknrollchuck recommended he send.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 09:20 PM
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You love her knowing her limitations, adjusting your expectations, and keeping boundaries firmly set and enforced hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:13 PM
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i think everyone was using bodily "autonomy" when they meant bodily "integrity" - the right to be free from taking something out of your body or being forced to give the State a part of your body whether by warrant or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:25 PM
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Hi there. Son of a borderline here, married to a mild borderline. My wife's is difficulty with emotion regulation. If you're looking for advice or pointers, here are mine. These are things I know about, have learned, and do with the borderlines in my life. 1) It's not going away. The best that can be done with borderlines is that the borderlines who want help and are really, really, REALLY working on it, can get it mostly under control. The only treatment modalities it's been shown to respond to…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 07:18 PM
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I wanted the Reddit context. I wanted to know the audience to whom it was directed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:55 PM
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The only thing i can tell you is that hopefully you have learned the morals of your story, which are: 1) You vet and screen women HARD. Because, rest assured, they're vetting you hard. They're screening you hard. 2) Be ruthlessly judgmental when it comes to women. Rest assured: They're ruthlessly judging you. 3) If you're not married to her, you owe her NOTHING. Not even a reason why you're breaking up. Not even a "goodbye". Rest assured: She will take the attitude with you that she owes you not…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:53 PM
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I'm not picking on you, but: This is a good lesson in people who marry for the wrong reasons and marry the wrong women after not vetting them properly. You don't marry for sex, or because she wants to, or because she thinks "it's time", or because she ultimatums you with "either we're getting married or we're breaking up" or "I thought you were going to ask me to marry you" or whatever. You don't marry because you're lonely, or you want someone to "complete" you. You don't marry because your mom…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:36 PM
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"No" is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:29 PM
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Damn fucking straight. Women do not go for sensitive, caring men. Those traits might be desirable, but they're a dime a dozen, and they are not sexually attractive traits. I don't care what anyone says - women are not SEXUALLY attracted to sensitive, caring, milquetoasty men who become vegetarians not for health reasons but because they "feel bad for cows".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:17 PM
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But we're talking about what men do for women in this subthread. No one is overlooking anything. God fucking knows, EVERYONE fucking knows, about "the misdeeds of men". Jesus. All of life, all of society, 24/7/365, is all about "the misdeeds of men". Can we spend, oh, 2 seconds, talking about things that women do wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:08 PM
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My opinion differs from yours in that I don't think things are as different, separate, and nuanced as you do. People are pretty much the same, they have a basic nature, and those natures don't change much from man to man or woman to woman. People are not snowflakes. I'm not, you're not, Oryx isn't and her husband isn't. Nobody is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:06 PM
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Knowing where to draw the line is key to getting a relationship that works for you. Most people found RP subs because they did NOT do this, and therefore have had to learn some very painful lessons and uncomfortable truths later in life. Man. Perfect. Yes, i wish i had done these things and known these things as a younger man. I did not, and I have had to pay for those failures.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:03 PM
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No, i would not give similar advice to formerly promiscuous men. Promiscuity affects men differently from how it affects women. Promiscuous men become promiscuous for different reasons than women become promiscuous.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:02 PM
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Yes, actually, men do this by default, for THEIR women. I did not say men do this "for women". I said they do it for THEIR OWN women. It is in a man's nature to do this for HIS woman. It's almost reflexive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:47 PM
3

We're not dealing in impossibilities here. Nice try, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:43 PM
0

Men give their women this without even being fucking asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:39 PM
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You won't get it because you're not a man. Besides, you won't give any credence to anything I say anyway. you'll just accuse me of being a sexist and call me names.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:31 PM
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meatloaf that she slaves 6hrs every other night to prepare, If it takes you 6 hours to make a meatloaf, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:30 PM
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We want you to fucking give a shit when we're hurt. We want you to be there when we need you. We want you to fucking not leave us and take half our shit when we're depressed, sick, or jobless. We want you to do what we ask, when we ask, how we ask. We want you to help us when we need help getting shit done. We want you to fucking act like you give a shit about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:28 PM
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If you have to ask, you won't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:23 PM
1

A man would have to ask to be excluded because he's medically sterile or has had a vasectomy. He would have to object to the breadth of the warrant and refuse to comply with it, and probably ask for relief from the court if the coppers wouldn't excuse him from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:16 PM
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First of all, now you're getting personal and you're reported. You don't get to invalidate my experiences. I am not obsessed with anything. I also don't think that "ladies owe" me "intercourse". My wife does, though. BTW, i don't care whether you think i'm shouting or not. I put them in caps for emphasis because you apparently missed the "reasonable intervals" qualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:15 PM
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reasonable intervals. REASONABLE INTERVALS REASONABLE REASONABLE just once i want a Blue or a woman to link me to someplace where some Red Piller demanded sex from a woman who's recovering from a C-Section or an episiotomy or is projectile vomiting or just after her mother died. Thinking that any man would do this, or even expect it, is the height of idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:10 PM
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Yep. You can work your fingers to the bone, get her all teh shit she wants and needs, and.... It's just what you're supposed to do. You owe it to her. She's entitled to it. She OWNS you. But the minute a husband needs something, needs sex, needs her to be there for him, it's "eewwwww male emotion! Ewww male needs something! Ewww gross! Ewwww get away from me!!" But, dude, selling a house and shit to pay for plastic surgery is a failure to say "no". I know you've learned that by now. "No" is your…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:07 PM
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Yep. When a wife starts withholding or refusing sex, that should be a man's cue to start withholding time, money and resources. If it continues, that should be his cue to initiate divorce proceedings. Being a wife includes sex. If you're not giving sex, you're not acting like a wife and therefore you're not a wife, and you are then not entitled to any of the rights or privileges of a wife. She who wishes to be married needs to fucking act like she's married, and that includes giving her husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:55 PM
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Ah. Got it. Might she have said this in earshot of others, in which case her statement is virtue signaling?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 04:51 PM
1

INteresting. DId not know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:46 PM
1

Well, but, the "balancing" on abortion jurisprudence has to do with when the state can regulate abortion, not about forcing someone to have an abortion. But, wait, you know this already...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:42 PM
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I think people who work in high level securities, bond traders who work for firms at stock exchanges. The NYSE, the Chicago Merc, etc. I think they also get printed. The SEC probably has those. As for people in financial institutions, I would guess DOJ or Treasury has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:40 PM
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Right, yes, that's the kind of phraseology i was looking for. Not all bodily invasions are unjustified - you have to balance the interests involved: The pain/level of invasion, the danger to the individual, the need for the evidence, and the ability/inability to get the evidence through less invasive means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:38 PM
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A guys does things for the woman in his life with the expectation that someday, and that day may never come he may need something from her and she'll be there for him. Yep. MRP correctly calls that "covert contracts" and works to disabuse men of the notion that a wife will believe she owes you anything just because she's your wife. Her attitude is that, no, she does not owe her husband anything; but she's entitled to his money, time, and resources whether she reciprocates or not. Which is why me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:36 PM
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You know, IDK about prints gathered outside of an arrest. People who work for financial institutions get printed. I think that's a federal law that people who have access to lots of cash at financial institutions get printed. My sister was a teacher then started working as a bank teller. (Better hours, better pay, i guess.) She was printed. I had to give a thumb print when i took the bar exam. I have to assume the State has it. And has kept it. And would in a flash give it to any LEA that asked …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:32 PM
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Yeah, and excluded sterile employees - men who could not possibly have impregnated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:24 PM
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I don't know if there's case law on this, but i would think a DNA profile can be used to the same extent fingerprints can. Once the cops have them and you go into the national data banks, those prints can be used for anything. Shared with other law enforcement agencies. Used to investigate unsolved crimes. Once you're printed, you're in the data banks forever. I have to believe it's the same with a DNA profile. It would go into a data bank. It can be shared with other LEAs. It can be used to ana…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:23 PM
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Your first mistake: Responding verbally to her statement. You don't analyze that statement or ask her to explain it. You take her to the bedroom away from the kids and you fuck her. She doesn't actually mentally or logically understand what she just said. She had a brief fleeting feeling while seeing you do something, and then put that into words. She also doesn't want you TALKING ABOUT fucking. She wants you DOING the fucking. Women like fucking attractive men. They dont' like talking to attrac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 04:20 PM
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The prime reasons TRP says "women love conditionally" and "women don't love men the way men want to be loved" and "women love differently from the way men love" are as follows: 1) To counteract the extremely prevalent and dominating messages from culture and society that women are wonderful, women are perfect angelic creatures that never do anything wrong, women are selfless paragons of sweetness and virtue who want only the best for any man who comes across their paths, and women will never eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:10 PM
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This i can agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:01 PM
2

not just a Plan B pill. Any pill. Any medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:57 PM
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The coppers are probably also casting a wide net in the hopes some of them will talk. They're hoping a few guys come in and say "I didn't do it, but, hey, I know who might have done it" or "Yeah, i heard Joe Schmo, the janitor, talking about this. You should ask him."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:48 PM
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No, a pill is more invasive. A cheek swab painlessly takes minute amounts of tissue and saliva. A pill goes into the body and causes chemical/pharmacological changes to the body. Ingesting medicine is the very definition of "invasive" - it literally goes into the body and is absorbed by it, and changes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:43 PM
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Women want to GET married. They don't want to BE married. Women want to have a WEDDING. They don't want to have a MARRIAGE. Women want to be a BRIDE. They don't want to be a WIFE. Women want PRIVILEGES and PERKS. They don't want OBLIGATIONS and RESPONSIBILITIES. You can do the same thing with men. Men want to FUCK. They don't want to RELATE during the fucking. Men want to get SEX, FOR FREE. They don't want to have to INVEST EMOTIONALLY/RELATIONALLY. Men want SEX PARTNERS and MISTRESSES. They don…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 03:38 PM
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He could leave her, but we all know it's much, much harder for a man to replace a woman than it is for a woman to replace a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:27 PM
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The question is who's willing to admit this is true? I'm willing to bet there are a few Blue Pillers out there who will poo poo this and disagree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:22 PM
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Why on earth would a man not want to submit DNA to prove he hadn't raped a coma patient? Because: 1) You dont' ever talk to police. Ever. Not voluntarily. 2) Once you start talking or giving information, you are now in the position of having to prove a negative - you have to prove you DID NOT do something/were NOT somewhere. You have just assumed a burden of proof and a burden of coming forward with evidence - something you didn't have to do, but now that you've spoken up, other people evaluatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:20 PM
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Ha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:07 PM
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the point is that human experience gets so loud and cacophonous, we often forget what the base human sexual nature is. Many men who eventually find TRP have been told and taught that what's stated up there is not in fact female nature, that women are attracted to nice, kind, affable, friendly men, that looks don't matter, and that if you're just "yourself", all you have to do is wait and someday a girl will love you just for who you are. It's actually good to see something like this in writing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:06 PM
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Link, please. Context is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:01 PM
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True. You dont have to self incriminate, EVER. The evidence found during a warrant is not self incrimination, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:58 PM
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A cheek swab does not violate bodily autonomy. It's not harmful or painful, it takes about 30 seconds, and causes no lasting effects. A blood test is minimally invasive. It's a needle stick, takes about 2 minutes, and is minimally painful such that almost everyone can tolerate it with a minimum of pain. When is a judge EVER going to order a woman to take a plan B pill? The funny thing about abortion is that it's always a woman's choice even to the extent that no one can order a woman to exercise…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:57 PM
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There's a difference between an arrest warrant and a search warrant, Smoogs. It is possible that the rapist was a visitor, but the police have to start somewhere and the place to start is with the nonsterile male staff who were working there AND had access to the patient at around roughly the time the patient conceived. Identify the birthdate, calculate backwards a window of time between 7 and 11 months, identify the nonsterile male staff with access to that patient during that time window, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:54 PM
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There has to be probable cause for a search warrant to issue. Probable cause is "reasonable suspicion" that a crime was committed. But the search has to be tailored: broadly enough to get what is sought; but narrow enough to avoid impinging too deeply on the right against unreasonable searches and seizures. So: I think this is probably too broad. It has to be tailored. It should have been limited to male employees with access to the patient during the approximate time the patient conceived, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:50 PM
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Here you go. Typically a man that is so obsessed with porn that he has a distorted view of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:39 PM
2

Are you kidding? What average straight man in 21st century america doesnt have access to a bathtub or shower? What average straight man in america doesn't shower more than 3 times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:38 PM
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IF a woman really feels the way the OP feels about her husband, she should just leave him and let him find someone who actually gives a fuck about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:34 PM
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What if you get to a point where you NEVER want to have sex? What then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:15 PM
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So, to you, sex driven, dominant, and physical escalation without consent is "toxic masculinity"? How else is a guy going to find out if a girl is sexually interested in him unless he escalates? Maybe she's given him an IOI, but that's not "consent". So, "going for it" is "toxic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:14 PM
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I was a lot like your husband but not quite to the extent he is. That almost cost me my marriage. So, I'll believe my lying eyes on this one. Your situation literally is an outlier, as you just admitted: "Some of us literally want nothing to do with 'toxic masculinity'." some. SOME. That's not many. That's not anywhere close to a majority. Also, you've just admitted your disdain for actual masculinity by calling it 'toxic'. so, to you, apparently, masculinity is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:13 PM
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Me neither. But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:11 PM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:11 PM
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No. Women aren't unwelcome at the red pill. That's not the same as saying they're welcome to be there, though. It's just that women don't really have any useful advice for men in terms of increasing their sexual success. Women have useful things to say. They have interesting and informative input. But they have no good advice for men in a sexual context. The problem with women showing up at male dominated, male-themed subs and sites, places where men congregate to discuss issues pertinent to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:07 PM
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Yes. this, and they're "bad boy" nonconformists. They do what they want, when they want, with whom they want. They don't give a flying fuck what anyone else thinks about them or what they do. And women find that quality irresistible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:01 PM
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Bullshit. This is women’s idea of men’s “basic hygiene”: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/4f/ee/7e/4fee7e5e99e4f15416bf4b46d7346ad6.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:14 PM
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Dude, to a woman, “basic hygiene” for a man looks like this: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/4f/ee/7e/4fee7e5e99e4f15416bf4b46d7346ad6.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:13 PM
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There is no such thing as a pussy carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:11 PM
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Who let her out of the meth lab?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 12:19 PM
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I don't look at her having a career as a bad thing either. The point is that, for women, if they really want to get married, really want that, they have to make compromises, and one of the places they have to compromise is on their careers. Maybe they can't work 60 hours a week. Maybe she will have to move. Maybe she will have to take a job working fewer hours. Maybe instead of meeting up with celebrities 4 nights a week, she cuts it back to 1 or 2. If you want it, you do what it takes to get it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 12:51 AM
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That woman is disgusting - admitting to using beta orbiters. That's despicable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:34 AM
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Yes, women can spin plates, but you're making it sound as if this is a common occurrence. I don't think most women go through a "plate spinning" phase. I don't think most women have spun plates. There's some plate spinning going on, but not as much as you seem to think there is. (Having one FWB or fuckbuddy is not "plate spinning".) Sure, sometimes a girl fucks a guy once or twice, and decides "no, i don't want more from him, he's not relationship material at all". But that's not plate spinning.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:15 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:42 PM
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Sure. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:08 PM
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Because it's fun to see you sputter. It's fun to see you just go off, like you are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:06 PM
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LOL Go ahead and delude yourself some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:00 PM
1

Wow. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:57 PM
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No, what offends us is the lack of appreciation. But hey, you, a woman, you go ahead and tell us men all about our internal thought processes and internal emotional experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:56 PM
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her response was she hadn’t found mr. right and that her man needed to make more than she did. “6 figure income + (insert some other things)”. I believe she makes around 45k a year. Women very much expect men to adhere strictly to traditional gender roles, while expecting everyone to relieve them and excuse them from any gender roles. Women expect the man to pay for the dates, to provide for her and to protect her, even if she outearns him. Women expect the man to take on the traditional gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:52 PM
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She's got a social media and website presence. I will not link to any of them; suffice it to say if you know how to use Google or Bing you can easily find out what i did on this person. Lisa Linehan was 35 when she made this video over 7 years ago. She's now 43, according to info aggregators. She's lived around the US, in Alabama, Georgia, Texas, and Hollywood CA. According to some media she works doing marketing and business development. She's got a "night job" as a semiprofessional vocalist/mu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 07:07 PM
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second link is bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 06:40 PM
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Yeah. Most of the time, "fuckboy" means "man from whom i wanted more than sex, but he won't give it to me/he pumped and dumped me" Only sometimes does it mean "man who's just good for fucking". Because, let's face it - women around here are constantly telling us they want more than sex, they're not just out to get fucked, they don't want men viewing them as cumbuckets/sluts (even if they are in fact cumbuckets/sluts), and they want to be thought of as more than just a piece of ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:35 PM
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It's not actual concern. I see the mods are going to let your personal attack stand. So be it, i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:14 PM
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When a woman goes on the date and feels unattracted to him because of something he did/said on the date; or because she's found a better, more attractive guy. "I feel unsafe" = "this man is no longer attractive to me". "This man did/said something to creep me out." Creepy = unattractive. These situations where a guy is following a woman around... too rare to be all that concerned about. It's not like this is happening all the time. Men who use force against women are severely, severely punished.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:10 PM
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Let's be very clear that the situation you're now presenting is VERY different from the one i was talking about up there. So my answer that i would be concerned (not afraid, CONCERNED) is completely reconcilable with the one up there. It's different because i was talking about being on the date, whereas now you're talking about some undetermined time after the date. Go ahead and call me whatever names you're going to call me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:59 PM
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It is in bad faith. I was talking about dating and being on a date. You're now talking about a man she hasn't dated at all, but rather some creep following her around. You're comparing apples to oranges, you're addressing me and the issue in bad faith, and you know it. Or at least I know it. You’ve posted this as a “gotcha” so you can accuse me of hypocrisy. If I agree with you then I’m a hypocrite. If I disagree then I’m a monster. I know exactly what game you’re playing and I want no part of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:36 PM
1

Huh. Could have more than one meaning. I've usually heard it from girls meaning "guy who's good in bed but not much else" or "guy who pumped and dumped me".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:59 PM
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No it won't happen. His only real option is to take the $250k he gets from teh divorce settlement. If this is in the US, no he cannot go after her like this. In almost all US jurisdictions, he's the father and that fact has been conclusively established, because he didn't discover that he was not the father until a couple of decades after the children's births. It doesn't matter that that was through the mother's fraud. Courts have considered this very issue before and have rejected ex husband/n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:58 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:49 PM
1

Heh. Gotta make it personal, don'tcha? The question's in bad faith, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:48 PM
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Gynocentrism is an enemy to men to the extent that our society has decided to indulge it and enshrine it in law. It is an enemy to men to the extent that men are required to pay homage to it, support it, and submit to it to their detriment. Gynocentrism as it existed before first wave feminism (in the roaring 20s) was probably pretty much OK for both men and women, because that gynocentrism served both men and women, and the worst parts of it were reined in and harnessed. The most unsavory parts…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 04:11 PM
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No, it's true in real life as well. Or at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:02 PM
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Female intuition. And most men who use force are the kind you can just tell will use force. By demeanor, by manner of dress and style, by manner of speech. "Creepy" guys and fuccbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:41 PM
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No. I'm fine. This isn't far from reality at all. for some reason you feel the need to attack me; I don't understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:38 PM
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Right, usually after she's fucked him, and concluded either 1) "I want more from him besides fucking and he won't give it to me" or 2) "I don't want more from him besides fucking"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:37 PM
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Yes, I know men are stronger than women. The odds of a man using physical force on a woman are so small as to be negligible. And any woman who is with a man who decides to use physical force, knows that he's the type of man who's likely to use force but is with him anyway. She knew before she ever got alone with him that he's the type to use force. Any woman who feels unsafe, all she has to do is peep "I feel unsafe" and within 2 minutes, white knights will arrive to intervene. Within 5 minutes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:08 PM
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Pretty sure you're a Trojan horse/false flag. You're here to make the sub look bad, and get us reported to admins. Not gonna happen. You're gone for good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 03:04 PM
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Zot. Bye.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 03:00 PM
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No encouraging violence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 02:54 PM
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woman personally thinks hes a jerk or a dick for whatever reason. The main reason a woman thinks a fuckboy is a jerk or a dick is because said fuckboy won't do what she wants him to do, won't give her what she wants him to give her, or won't be what she wants him to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:49 PM
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To women, "I am scared" or "I feel unsafe" with respect to dating really means: This attractive man became unattractive to me while i was on the date with him because I got to know him better/he did or said this weird or unsettling thing. This man i thought was attractive, i now perceive as unattractive because i have found a more attractive man i want to date. To women, "I feel unsafe" with respect to a man means "I am not sexually attracted to that man".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:47 PM
1

I'm going to put this in general terms. A woman who presents as "non-hypergamous" does so because she is well aware that the man she is with is the best man she can get under present circumstances. As long as the man she is with is the best man she can get, and as long as she believes this, she will present as non-hypergamous. The moment she believes or perceives she can do better, or is in any way dissatisfied, the hypergamy alarms will start sounding. The longer the alarms sound, the more hype…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:42 PM
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And - the woman does not have to be tested. Only the child and the putative dad. No one's rights are violated. The test is minimally invasive and presents absolutely no medical risk at all. All that's required is a cheek swab from the infant and the putative father. Women's entire objection to paternity testing boils down to --how dare you call me a cheating slut; and --I have a right to identify a man as the father and claim a legal right to that man's money, and no one may question me about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:29 PM

The comments are gold, as usual. **LONG COMMENT WARNING Couple of things here. 1) Note this astute comment from a user named IFeelLikePotato that's pretty high up. (Emphasis added.) The majority of us are not trying to argue that it's easy for women to get a relationship. The majority of us are trying to argue it's easier for women to get a relationship than for men. Exactly right. I'll go even further. I'll state unequivocally - it is easy for women to get most of what they want. If a woman wan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 02:10 PM
0

One can make the case that a society run by men probably wouldn't prioritize children. Then make it, and then I'll tell you what i think of it. I don't understand what you think a society that prioritizes women looks like. Maybe you can tell us what you think a society that prioritizes women looks like, and what you think a society that prioritizes children looks like, and i can tell you what i think about that. Right now, we live in a society that prioritizes women and therefore does not priori…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:41 PM
1

What a bunch of word salad bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:37 PM
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Don’t forget “must lick the kitty” A”requirement” I actually saw on one of these lists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 12:03 PM
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Your words, not mine. Men are much more forgiving and accepting of women than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:56 AM
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The woman in the OP says: “Somebody asked me the other day, ‘Why did you stay single and never have kids?’ There’s answers: Because I was brainwashed by my mother into this. But it’s hard and it’s shameful to tell people, ‘I don’t know. I ran out of time.’ “There’s not a good answer for it except: ‘I was programmed to get into the workforce, compete with men, and make money.’ Supposedly, that would be a fulfilling life. But I was told that by a feminist mother who was divorced, who hated her hus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 12:04 AM
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citation, please. IDGAF about the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:56 PM
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I'd like a cite on that. My paternal grandmother became a widow in 1966. My maternal grandmother became a widow in 1957. How did they manage their money wihtout male relatives? They couldn't have checking accounts? They had to do it all themselves. They didn't have living husbands; and their nearest male relatives lived a hundred or more miles away. Cite a statute on that, please. EDIT: If you're talking about the 1974 Equal Credit Opportunity Act, that was about women applying for credit, not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:21 PM

I'd like you all to notice something about this post and what this 50 year old college professor says. She tells us all about what she did wrong, and what she doesn't have, and tells women "don't be like me, don't do what i did". I'd like you to notice what she has not said. First: She has said absolutely nothing about her sex life or love life. I have a very, very hard time believing there were absolutely no men in this woman's life, at all. I have to believe there were boyfriends, short term a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 08:20 PM
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what do you even mean, "women couldn't open their own bank accounts"? Are you saying some young single woman working as a secretary at an office in lower Manhattan in, say, 1952, couldn't have her own bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:03 PM
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No. Women could be physicians and lawyers. It was very, very hard, and yes there were a lot of obstacles. Most women didn't do it because they didn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:47 PM
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No, you don't. You similarly are dealing with me in bad faith and disingenuousness. So i guess we'll leave it there, and I'll just point out that women saying "yes means yes" and foisting responsibility for THEIR sexual consent onto men is not in any way taking responsibility for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:23 PM
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Nothing to say about the rest of it though, huh? Do you agree that women should take responsibility for the "empowerment" they want and have?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:11 PM
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But not the "worst thing ever". And, he's objectively correct. I personally think the worst thing ever is female empowerment without the concomitant responsibility that should accompany it. Because that's what women want - all the power, none of the responsibility. And that's how it has in fact shaken out because of women's shrieking and screaming about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:37 PM
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Let's go ahead and forget about all the men she fucked, while on the carousel. The men who begged her to marry them. The men she looked down on in disgust, because they didn't have five degrees in women's studies, anthropology, sociology, psychology, and art history. She was a superior being, compared to those vermin who weren't Real Men™. This is a great point and it's one that is always overlooked when discussing women and their "regret". This woman doesn't talk about this part of her life, ei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 04:52 PM
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And in his weak moments displayed so much fear and insecurity he acted like a 5 year old child. But he kept those moments so buried they came out only rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:32 PM
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Yes, men's looks decrease past their 20s, but not in the same way. It's not as rapid, and it's not held against men the same way women's deteriorating looks are held against women. That's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:24 PM
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No. It's a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:21 PM
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Sorry, you'll have to do better than a flippant response. Where I can just post for your misandry www.reddit.com/user/Electra_Cute/submitted/ Two can play that game. Well, i can see you have no response. So, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:21 PM
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It is a gendered issue. Women have choice. Men don't. Women can choose from any number of men. Men have to take what they can get, and sometimes all they can get is "crazy". Also, women's "crazy" is much better at concealing itself. Women get all kinds of social and societal "cover" for their crazy. Women's "crazy" is presented as "just normal" and "good" and 'just women being women'; while men's crazy is presented as "sick" and "perverted" and "violent" and "criminal" and "dangerous".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:19 PM
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SO you disagree that women should take responsibility for their own empowerment? Link to places where women take responsibility for their own empowerment. Link to examples, please. Link to places/sites/statements where men complain about women taking responsibility for their own empowerment. Link to places where men have called women misandrists for allegedly taking responsibility for their own empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:16 PM
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So are you going to take responsibility for it, or not? So, expecting women to take responsibility for their own empowerment is "bullshit" to you? Do you agree that women should take responsibility for their own empowerment? Nowhere have I said "female empowerment is the worst thing ever". All that's being said is "if you want empowerment, take responsibility for it". Do you agree or disagree? If you disagree, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:12 PM
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This thread isn't about that. Why is it whenever someone says "women do X", Blues and women must scream "BUT BUT BUT MEN ALSO DO X!! Therefore, women doing X is not bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:11 PM
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I didn't say it had to be explicit. At any rate, Krispy up there has the best take on it. Be empowered all you want. Then take responsibility for it - something men have done since time immemorial. Hell, not only do we take responsibility for our empowerment; we're responsible for YOURS too -- That's the lesson of "yes means yes" - the man is responsible for his consent, and for hers too. He's responsible not only for himself, but for her too. Which is total and complete bullshit. You want empow…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:09 PM
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Yes, he did, on the premise that they were HIS kids. He wouldn't have raised them if they weren't his. She obtained the money for raising them through fraud and deceit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:07 PM
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Yes, he should be paid back. Every red cent. He should take her to court, get a judgment, and let her walk around for the rest of her life with that judgment hanging over her head. He'll never get that money back, of course. But he should take a judgment for it. He should also sue her for intentional and negligent infliction of emotional distress. He should take all her assets. He should force her into bankruptcy and force her to liquidate all her assets. He'll get pennies on the dollar. But at …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:05 PM
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Are you kidding? please link to one, just ONE, post on this thread that says anything like "female empowerment is the worst thing to happen".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:02 PM
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Feminism does not equal "female empowerment". I want names. I want her, or you, or someone, to name names and post comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:51 PM
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She'll ask "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN!!??" And then settle for a Tom TwiceDivorcedand40, or Wayne SlightlyWeird, or Louie Lawyer (who she went to high school with and laughed in his face when he asked her out) or Ernie Engineer (who she went to college with and whose shoes she puked on at a house party) or Paul Plumber (who she went to church with and forgot about until she found out he has his own $1 million a year business).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 03:44 PM
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Depending on how this woman looks, she'll still be able to find someone to wife her up. All she needs to do is capitalize on male thirst. She still has expectations. She still expects, even at 50, a man who --is good looking, fit, and trim --is intelligent --is financially independent and can support himself and her --is well rounded, ambitious, cosmopolitan, and worldly --has cultivated, refined, and expensive tastes. enjoys "the finer things" like fine dining, expensive alcohol, travel to Euro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 03:42 PM
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Who? Who says and acts like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:23 PM
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you prepared to make all the decisions Which has never been the case, ever, even when there was no "feminism" and women really were "subjugated" make all the cash Also never the case. Did most men work and make most of the money? Yes. But women have always worked. And if a woman didn't marry, she worked to support herself. The main reason women didn't work under "patriarchy" was because they didn't want to work. Being a SAHM and depending on a beta boy for financial support and protection beat t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:22 PM
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*Shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:17 PM
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Funny - she invited him out, then wouldn't pay for him, and expected HIM to pay on a date SHE invited HIM out for. Here's what i think this is. She was interested in sex with the guy and was expecting him to "pay" for the privilege. Because women always expect to "get paid" for their "time", i.e., sex. Women always expect that men are going to "give me something" in return for/exchange for sex. Husbands' relationships with their wives, and their sexual relationships, are always conditioned on hi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 03:05 PM
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good point. didn't think of that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:59 PM
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Meh. I have no problem with women stating racial preferences. It's something everyone just needs to know - that humans have racial preferences in whom they want to have sex with, date and marry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:58 PM
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People don't want to say "no". Because they're afraid others will shame them and call them names and will not like them. "If you don't let your sister live with you then you are a horrible sibling, a terrible human being, and we will not talk to you for a few months until we get over it. And we will always lord it over you how you looked out for yourself instead of for her."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:55 PM
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Then don't complain when you get what rollercoaster assholes always dish out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:47 PM
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Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:46 PM
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Yep. Femcels don't exist. I have met two women in my entire life who really couldnt get sex or attention from a man. TWO. In 50 years and out of hundreds, maybe a thousand, women. Another nonentity is the so-called "low libido" woman. Yeah, right. The "low libido" woman is the one you hear about at r/deadbedrooms. "Oh, I just really don't like sex all that much. I'm just not into sex at all." Never mind that 20 years before she was sucking Chad off in the frat house bathroom and going home with …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:32 PM
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THings will look like they do now, turned up by a few notches. More and more single men will get nothing sexually, the marriage rate will continue to drop, and the white birth rate will continue cratering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:25 PM
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I don't do "women do it too". If i do, i don't present it as a moral counterweight or a reason why it is OK for someone to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:19 PM
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D. means that as soon as the man has provided a ring, commitment, money, financial support, etc.; the woman considers any promise or commitment from her to him to be null and void. Or at least voidable. Meaning his giving her those things at her request in no way obligates her to him. She doesn't have to stay with him. She doesn't have to give him anything. She doesn't have to do anything for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:17 PM
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Here are some things you need to understand about Purple Pill Debate: --most of the women are from the coasts, white, uppermiddle class, and educated. --the few women who don't meet those criteria, are dyed in the wool radical feminists, or from the UK, or a member of some aggrieved minority. But they are still upper middle class on up, and "educated". --most of the Blue men there are men who haven't needed Red Pill, because they either 1) Got really lucky 2) Won life's lottery and have always h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:09 PM
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In this thread: Women and Blues shrieking "But but but Men Do It Too! If Men do it, it must be ok for women to do it! If Men do it, why is everyone complaining when women do it! And if Men do it, there are no moral or other problems with women doing it!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:03 PM
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Men Do It Too isn't a reasoned critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:00 PM
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“Men Do It Too” isn’t really a reasoned critique. Especially when most men don’t. And they don’t, because they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:26 PM
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Or we blamed ourselves. Even for things that weren’t our fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 07:52 PM
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Kegels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 06:49 PM
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No Romcoms are represented as reality. I explained why in detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:14 PM
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Fuck you. Zot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 03:34 PM
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“I disagree with you” is not the same as “hypocrite”. The fact that someone points out an error you’ve made does not mean they’re a hypocrite. You throwing that word around just makes you look butthurt. EDIT: Lol at the downvoting. Gee. I wonder who that could have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:14 PM
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I used to do duty work all the time. I used to support my wife all the time, even when I didn’t feel like it. Now I only work when I want to. If I don’t feel like allowing my wife to buy groceries or pay rent, I don’t. If I don’t feel like paying those things or earning the money for those things, I shouldn’t have to. I feel like working maybe 3 days a week so that’s what I do. And my wife just has to deal with my carrying out my husbandly duties about 60 or 70% of the time. The rest of the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:12 PM
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You don’t sleep with 80% of women you see because most of those women won’t sleep with you. It has nothing to do with your self control. It is all about the fact that most of them won’t fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:13 PM
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It’s always funny how the girls have no response to this obvious truism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:12 PM
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Irrelevant. We aren’t talking about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:49 AM
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Nope. Just telling men how women behave. Women can do whatever they want. Nothing I say will make any difference. And what did I do to deserve you stalking my comments and harassing me like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:47 AM
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READ. THE. COMMENT. Here. I'll be nice, and copypasta it again. Here it is. I used to think sluts had all their mental and emotional problems because the sex and the bad sexual experiences really fucked them up. I had the causal arrow in the wrong direction. The truth is that sluts become such because of their mental and emotional problems. The problems predated and caused/contributed to the sluthood. The sluthood didn't cause the problems. If anything, sluthood exacerbated the problems even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:54 PM
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If you can't understand the plain meaning of the words i used, then i can't help you. Go back and read what I wrote, as many times as it takes for you understand it. I feel very sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:53 PM
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But you're not. You're circlejerking it and reading into it things that aren't there. It's not about hate at all, and if you think it is, then i feel sorry for you and you have a lot of reading comprehension problems. WHO HURT YOU??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:46 PM
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If you read "hate" in any of that, i feel sorry for you. This is apparently the only way you can refute anything i say, is to lie about and misrepresent what i say, circlejerk it, and lash out. Sad. And lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:41 PM
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First: Look at what women are advising you. Then disregard all of it. That includes the women on this subreddit. Never ever ever ever ever EVER take advice from women about any of this. EVER. Women have no useful advice for men. Women will give you advice that serves women, and will not help or serve you. Second: Get around men you respect, and ask them to mentor you. Get around men who do the things you would like to do or learn to do. And emulate them. THIRD: Work on your social skills like bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:38 PM
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Another set of views i've had changed by discussions on this sub are about women's approach to men. --I didn't really believe in the whole Team Woman thing and thought women could set sex/gender aside. I was wrong. All women are Team Woman. That's not AWALT heuristic. That's literally all, as in ALL, every human with a vagina, is Team Woman. All women will circle the wagons and defend team woman, from the reddest red to the deepest blue. All women. ALL. --I didn't think women could be such good …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:31 PM
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THe very notion that some stupid slut gets knocked up and has a bastard and then houses that bastard with her is "responsible" is positively ludicrous. That's insanity. You lost the moment you stepped into this fray. The very thought that sluts bearing and giving birth to douchebags' thugspawn garbage kids, their little carjackers and armed robbers and sluts in training, is "responsible"; is pure, sheer insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:45 PM
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you understand that AWALT doesn't mean "literally ALL WOMEN are like that", right? You understand there can be exceptions and outliers, right? You understand the notion of generalizations and heuristics, right? Sheesh. And people call Red Pillers literalists and autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:44 PM
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If the unborn child is of mixed race, this will cause a firestorm and surely contribute to shame, embarrassment, and humiliation for us and our respective families. No. It will cause shame, embarrassment, and humiliation for YOU. As well it should. YOU are the person who decided to have sex outside your marriage. YOU are the one who decided to have said sex without birth control. YOU are the one who decided to have sex with men of other races. YOU are the one who decided to cheat. YOU are the on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 09:42 PM
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LOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:38 PM
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Except, they're not carrying out their responsibilities. Female teachers are shit. "Healers"? Pah. That's physicians , mostly - men. Women are not caring for the young, old and sick. Women abuse more children than men. Women are worse abusers. Women murder their own children through abortion and for little reason other than they're burdens. Remember Susan Smith? Remember Andrea Yates? How about Casey Anthony? Smith and Anthony murdered their children because they stood in the way of the new live…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:21 PM
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I'm not telling you anything about YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:11 PM
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I'm not telling women what to do. You said women have their own burdens and responsibilities. Looks to me like women are shirking them. How about you women start taking on the burdens and responsibilities you NOT EVEN TWO MINUTES AGO identified as uniquely "feminine"? How about you women birth, nurture, and peacekeep, then? How about you do the things you JUST SAID women are uniquely gifted in doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:04 PM
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It's also how WOMEN interpret his comedy. "Schlubby weird guy, can't get laid, can't keep a woman. Weird. Creepy." This is how ALL women view men who look like Louis CK. Schlub. Weird. Unattractive. CREEPY. "Creepy" is women's shorthand for "man i am not attracted to, but is trying to present as a sexual being or is trying to come on to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:02 PM
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Except... Women are telling us THEY can protect and provide. There are no less than 3 women on this board who are main breadwinners in their families. If women have their own burdens and responsibilities, then fucking DO THEM. Get married, have babies, and take care of your families. Stop trying to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:59 PM
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Wrong. You lose. Women do want to be treated exactly equally to men, except they want all the benefits and privileges with none of the burdens, obligations and responsibilities. And you don't get to have it both ways. We want to be able to do whatever we want, like men have always been able to, while still being treated as the women we are. Men have NEVER been able to do whatever we want. That's an idiotic statement. If men got to do "whatever we want", prostitution would be legal in all 50 stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:54 PM
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Um, yes he was. His "creepiness" was part of the act. It's implied/inferred. It's "oh, hehehehe this is so funny. Look at the schlubby weird guy talking about all his sexual misadventures and relationship failures. He's weird. He's a creep. He's creepy. It's funny. And sure am glad I am not him! Sure am glad that stuff doesn't happen to me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:51 PM
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Except that women don't claim to be femininely strong or independent; and they want to be thought of as strong and independent in masculine ways. They claim to be juuuuust like men in every way; except when they have to take the responsibilities of men and be accountable like men. They want to act, work, play, fuck, and live like men but don't want to be responsible or accountable like men and they don't want to be treated like men treat men. And women who want to act, work, play, fuck and live …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:46 PM
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He constantly talks in his act about his relationship and sexual failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:36 PM
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Eh. Sounds like justifying lying and dishonesty to me. Sure, some men's genes are shit. Women should just tell the truth about why they won't fuck some guys, and let the chips fall where they may. Women are strong and independent, and so who cares if some unattractive guy turns violent (which happens almost never and is a product of women's fevered imaginations)?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:35 PM
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You keep talking about how successful he is. He was successful because his shtick was the trials and tribulations of being an insecure pudgy schlub, and how funny it is when insecure pudgy schlubs try to go through life. Insecure pudgy schlubs are sexual nonentities. The entire point of his act is that guys like him can't get laid. So when a guy like him DOES try to get laid (or even remotely acts in a sexual way at all), you all call it "creepy".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:25 PM
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If they cared about "morals" or kindness, it'd be the first priority. They CLAIM it's the first priority. But they lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:23 PM
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and to most women, anything else Louis CK does that even remotely smacks of anything sexual is creepy. Louis presenting as a sexual being is creepy. It's not because "a man" asked women he's not involved with to watch him masturbate. It's because Louis CK asked women he wasn't involved with to watch him masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:04 PM
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When a woman says she and her husband "distanced", she means they emotionally kept themselves from each other. It means they fought about it and couldn't reach a resolution they could both live with, so they just started living separate lives. It means they were putting up emotional and mental walls and barriers between each other, and self protecting from each other. It means they were acting like roommates instead of as husband and wife. It means they stopped sleeping together. It means they m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 08:00 PM
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Men just can't win. If Louis had propositioned them for sex, he'd be creepy. If he asks to beat off in a woman's presence, he's creepy. If he even just exists, he's creepy. Come on. No matter what he did or didn't do, you'd think he's creepy. His very existence is creepy to you. So, to most women, Louis CK got what he deserved. BEcause he's just a creepy guy. It's not about what he did; it's about the fact that it was Louis CK doing it. Because Louis CK is a schlubby, dumpy, out of shape, neurot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:54 PM
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The only proper response from the husband is to divorce this woman immediately and wash his hands of her. Men, if your woman ever admits she had sex with another man while dating or married to you, dump that bitch. Immediately. No further explanation needs to be made. No second chances, no explanations, no nothing. Just gone. Done. There's no way he could be this child's biodad. She's admitted to cheating. He's out, scot free. That way, she can go on some OLD site, and we'll find it, and someone…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 07:37 PM
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You and the commenters under yours picked up on something I missed. Good job. Ellie spends one paragraph telling the woman to tell the truth. Then spends four paragraphs essentially saying "if your husband doesn't forgive you for this and raise the kid as his own, he's a fucking piece of shit and deserves to die in a fire. Or, at least, he is not a real man. Because a REAL man would forgive you. A REAL man would step up and man up and allow himself to be cuckolded. A REAL man would step up and m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 07:31 PM
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The women he was there with, were there at midnight in a hotel suite. They were there to party and maybe have sex with a celebrity. Anyone with three brain cells knows why he invited them there. Is it "creepy"? I guess. It's NOT illegal. No one got hurt. No one got harassed. No one made those women stay there. He didn't touch them or assault them. He didn't degrade them. Weirder shit has happened with celebrities. He certainly didn't deserve to have his career destroyed over it. Apparently you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:27 PM

Use posts like these to hone your translation and "read between the lines" skills. You'll need these to navigate today's sexual marketplace. I’m happily married and believe my hubby’s attracted to me just as I find him to be a great husband, best friend, fantastic lover and my most strident supporter during challenging times. Read that carefully. Note what she's saying. Her husband is attracted to her. SEXUALLY attracted. He likes fucking her. But when SHE talks about what SHE likes about HIM, s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 07:25 PM
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shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:02 PM
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You'd be wrong....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:59 PM
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But not by your employers. And not by people you were working for. And you have power over these people calling you names. Just ban them. Men have no power whatsoever over any woman who rejects him, or any woman at all, for that matter. Men have no power at all in these situations. They are completely at the mercy of the woman, or the law. Or, they can just never ever approach, ever, and thus never get anything they want. Their choices are 1) risk getting MeTooed, fired from their jobs and tosse…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:57 PM
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Yes it matters, because the comment i was responding to and the original post has to do with rejected men being called creepy after the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:53 PM
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But none o f the people you interviewed with or worked for shamed you for being "creepy". Louis CK'd = Career Destroyed. Kavanaughed = Taken through the wringer in front of the country; having women lie about you and saying you did things you did not do; or wildly exaggerate what you did to the point of lying, in front of your wife and children, and the country
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:47 PM
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No. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:44 PM
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It's not traumatizing. It's a mildly inconvenient side effect of existing. Spoken as a woman who's never been through it nor had 95% + of her approaches rejected. Being called a creep is not only traumatizing, in the age of PoundMeToo it can be liberty-depriving or job-loss threatening. You can be Louis CK'd or Kavanaughed for shit you did decades prior. Far cry between that and... being stopped at a red light.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:38 PM
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Stop letting women tell men what a real man is or does. When women do this, tell them to shut up. I'm not out here writing blogposts on women's menstrual cycles or what is good contraception for women or how they should manage their pregnancies. So women need to shut up when it comes to how men should approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:35 PM
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Let the male shaming commence. I will bet $100 that there will be all kinds of male shaming and "shut up, men" in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:33 PM
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I'm not ranting. I can generalize all i want, particularly since generalizations are generally true. You shouldn't lecture me. This is a debate and discussion. You are not my teacher and I am not your student.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:30 PM
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Yes. (By the way, this is about the fifth time i've answered this question. There are other threads on this.) I used to think sluts had all their mental and emotional problems because the sex and the bad sexual experiences really fucked them up. I had the causal arrow in the wrong direction. The truth is that sluts become such because of their mental and emotional problems. The problems predated and caused/contributed to the sluthood. The sluthood didn't cause the problems. If anything, sluthood…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:29 PM
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I'm an overly friendly, too charming, and easy dishonest and cheating woman. I like going to bars, finding men i don't know very well, and going home with them and having indiscriminate one nighter sex with them. I don't got time to learn proper English. I will do games and drama if you're hawt enough. I have to say I am Christian because i don't want these icky beta dudes thinking i'm a slut and will fuck them. I'm using the "identifies as Christian but isn't really one" tactic here, by using t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 06:22 PM
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you didn't hurt my feelings. Rest assured, i won't offer you any more compliments or affirmations, ever again. I won't ever make such gestures of good faith ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:11 PM
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Jesus Christ. It was just a compliment and acknowledgment of differences. But of course someone would have to read malevolent, evil intent into it...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:04 PM
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Yep. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:57 PM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:57 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:56 PM
1

We would accept it... if women really did act happy and really did show they're happy being completely alone. But they complain about it. Complain about the lack of men. Complain about shitty men. Complain they can't date. Complain that the men they do date won't commit. Or are fat. Or are out of shape. Or his dick's not big enough. Or he's too much this, or not enough that. Constantly. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:53 PM
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INteresting. When Reds say what you just said in your top level comment up there, people here get the vapors and pass out on fainting couches, and threaten to dox the writer and report him to the FBI.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:36 PM
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Jesus Christ. I'm glad SOMEBODY besides me finally said this. Women, you're just as responsible as men are for the states of your lives. You're also responsible for who you allow into your vaginas. And who you let into your vaginas says a lot about you. Take responsibility and OWN. YOUR. SHIT. If you fuck shitty men because they're hawt, then, well, that's what you get- shitty hawt men pumping and dumping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:34 PM
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Superhero films don't purport to represent reality. They're fiction, they're fantasy, and everyone knows they're fiction and fantasy. Everyone knows there's no such thing as a tortured billionaire who works out his issues by getting into shape, adopting the persona of a giant flying rodent, and fighting crime. Films that depict romantic attachments and the way people select each other for sex and relationships, and the way those people conduct those relationships, DO purport to represent reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:22 PM
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Proof that women really don't care about "morals" or kindness from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:21 PM
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I might believe this if i hadn't heard women screaming to high heaven that they want men for sex and relationships but: 1) Cannot get them 2) Cannot find them 3) Can have sex with quality men but can't get them to stay in a relationship i don't think these women have decided being single is better than what they can afford for a relationship. They hate being single. They hate that they can't get relationships with high value men. They hate the emptiness of the pump and dump. They're not saying "…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:20 PM
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Shots. Fired.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 02:09 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:44 AM
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No. You’re missing the point. Do you really think men are all about emotional connection and roses and gifts and slavish slobbering all over a woman to get her to give us attention? You really think men don’t want sex and just want to be friends and discuss the economy of Brunei withwomen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:19 AM
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Do you really not know the reason men pay attention to women is because we eventually want to get to sex? I mean, you know this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:46 PM
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Shit tests are mind games and manipulation women wreak upon men. Oldest teen is about how to address women and get men to not take them and their tantrums so seriously. Female nature is simply a recognition that women are different from men and they have characteristics that are uniquely female. I guess I don’t see what your problem is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:44 PM
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When does the guy get something he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:31 PM
2

When does the guy get something he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:31 PM
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I've been asked a few times what a woman has to do to repair that damage. My opinion is: 1) Immediately, stop sleeping with men. End all sexual relationships with men. If you have a boyfriend who's not offering you commitment, stop sleeping with him and break up with him. If you have some kind of FWB relationship, end it immediately. And go no contact with these men. 2) Get a head to toe physical exam. Get a full set of blood tests including CBC, BMP and STD panels. Get a full gynecological exam…
/r/RPChristians03/01/19 07:43 PM
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nah. but I get how you could see that. You're missing that it's these men's particular learning style. And it is the fact that talking about this shit on the internet makes Blues squeamish. They just don't like people verbalizing it, in large part because they see themselves in the unsavory descriptions offered. They lack the courage to face the truth about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:52 PM
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I did. I read the entire paragraph. My response addresses what you said directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:47 PM
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that's not the objection at all... nobody objects to dudes trying to improve their dating lives, that's some victim mentality bullshit. That's not what i said. I'm not saying the problem Blues have is men trying to improve their dating lives. The problem Blues have is the way these particular men learn about how to improve their dating lives, and talking to each other on the internet about it in full view of women. The problem is not what they're learning; the problem Blues have is the way they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:34 PM
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Because Blues don't understand the nomenclature or the way they're used or described. Particularly AWALT. You blues still don't understand AWALT despite the fact that it's been explained about 11 billion times here and that if you really want to know what meaning AWALT has, you can easily find that out in about 5 seconds by reading the TRP sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:13 PM
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Let's put an end to this. You can reply however you want after this and you can have the last word. You're prejudiced against me because before you ever wrote your first comment to me in this thread, you had already decided i was wrong. You prejudged me based on preconceived notions you had about me. That's the very definition of prejudice. You get the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:54 PM
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And you've reached that conclusion becuase I'm red and because of the things i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:43 PM
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I mean, I think you're wrong because I've been lurking a long time and have read a lot of your posts. QED. You'd already decided i was wrong, so you weren't interested in finding out anything I had to say at all. You're prejudiced and bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:38 PM
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Hey. Don't believe me. Go read others in the manosphere. You're a hypocrite as well. There is nothing i could ever say or do to convince you I'm right. Because I'm red, you've already prejudged me as wrong. Before you even wrote your first comment to me, you had already decided i was wrong. It didn't matter what my reply was; you had already decided it was incorrect, inaccurate, and devoid of factual or logical support. So this entire exchange is pointless. You're not really here to debate me or…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:34 PM
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the collective experience of the manosphere in and outside of Reddit. Now. You might not like that. Or agree with it. But it's not just me. I'm not the only person in the world who has seen what I've seen, observed what I've observed, or experienced what I have. Red Pill cuts across all demographics. It's not just me. And, if you're really a skeptic, don't believe me. Go to r/marriedredpill or r/theredpill or Dalrock.wordpress.com or therationalmale.com or any other manosphere site and you'll se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:31 PM
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I'm not drawing only on my own experiences when i make pronouncements like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:29 PM
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Consequences of a woman's sexual past after repentance: --STDs like herpes and HPV. And maybe Hep C, to a lesser extent. Those stay with her. She must disclose them. There is a very real possibility that in a long term relationship with her, you will become infected with them. There has been an uptick of late in men with throat cancer who have throat/esophageal HPV. They contract the virus from performing oral sex on women with HPV, and the viral infection causes cancer (it is known to cause cer…
/r/RPChristians03/01/19 05:22 PM
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Eh, only if you're sure she's going to fuck you after she's enjoyed that prime rib that you just paid for. Nah. If she's not sexually attracted to me before she gets food, me buying her food won't make me more attractive to her. Plus, if she's attracted to me, we can fuck first and THEN get food later. It's "Woman, I gave you something you wanted: Attention and validation. I sat here and jumped through a hoop or two and listened to you talk about things that don't interest me at all. It is now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:15 PM
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You're probably right. I have had this exact same thing happen to me as a younger guy, when i was single. Countless times - didn't close the deal. She was either insulted because she thought i wasn't attracted to her; or she thought i was a pussy (or gay) because i didn't pick up on the signals she was sending out and then act on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 04:11 PM
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Because the fundamental objection Blues have to TRP/manosphere is the systematization - that it explains in a logical, linear fashion things which other people intuitively "just got" or "just learned" or "just picked up". It explains things that sound unsavory and unseemly when you verbalize them, but are A-OK when you just do them and are them. Blues have no problem with men who actually DO red pill and ARE red pill. Blues hate it when men TALK ABOUT red pill. This is the genesis of Rollo's "Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:08 PM
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Yeah it is a boss move. But a guy shouldn't be doing this on a first date because it shouldn't be a dinner date. No way should a guy be buying anything more than a beer or a cocktail for a woman on a first date. No food, no meals, no entertainment, ever, period. Not on a first date. And not ever for a woman he's not fucking. No lay, no pay. No fucks, no bucks. No sex, no checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:56 PM
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It doesn't count if you'd been with him a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:51 PM
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She doesn't even have to be young and hot. She just has to be reasonably attractive and willing. All he's really looking for is a warm wet hole to masturbate into, really.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 03:06 PM
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Simps fall for this because she is saying things that are different from the official opinion of feminism I've fallen for this before. "Oh look! An attractive woman who BELIEVES US!! An attractive woman who AGREES WITH US that feminism is wrecking everything in its path!" Bullshit. Because she's thinking: "i can say some good sounding horseshit and get men who I will never fuck to pay attention to me. I don't have to fuck them, I just have to tell them a few things I know they want to hear. And …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 02:55 PM
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No. You have done that to me before. So YOU stop lying to and about ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:50 PM
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For most women it's always fuckboy season. Because, deep down, women love fuckboys. Women fuck fuckboys for fun; then complain when Mr. Fuckboy won't do what she demands that he do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 02:47 PM
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I'm not going back through your 3 year or so post history and my hundreds of interactions with you. I just know that you have, and that's good enough for me. And i'm not responding further.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:46 PM
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She who demands perfection, must be herself perfect. This one is far, far from perfect. Yet, to her, a hot guy pump and dump would be ideal. Most women today - women you know, women you've dated, even women you might have been married to at one time or are now - would rather have a very physically attractive man pump and dump them, than have a relationship with a less attractive man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 02:42 PM
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i can almost hear "Dueling Banjos" in the background....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 02:38 PM
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sigh. OK. You've done that to me more than once. So yes, you are being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:36 PM
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and don't complain when people do it to you. Or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:35 PM
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If ppl do it to Reds; it's OK for Reds to do it to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:33 PM
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Ok. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:19 PM
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really?? Um. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:17 PM
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So you're really talking about most cases that you were involved in, not "most divorce cases". Unless of course you were involved in handling 60% or so every single divorce across the entire United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:09 PM
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Read her post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:08 PM
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Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:08 PM
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It’s in there somewhere
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 01:28 AM
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The idea of rainisthelife being in charge of men’s medical or psychiatric care and having access to their protected health information and access to the most intimate details of their lives, is enough to make me very very sorry for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 12:47 AM
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I’d like to see where there was no hitting crying or screaming. Antifa is the lefts response to Trump. Threats on the presidents life a d the lives of his family are the lefts response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 12:32 AM
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Dragon died? Edit. I see he died today. RIP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 10:47 PM
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Not what Gamergate was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:46 PM
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Thanks. It was supposed to be women's expectations of what they want men to look like, juxtaposed with women's own self-perceptions of their own body types.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 09:33 PM
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yikes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 08:59 PM
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She was doing all kinds of initiating and all, we made out heavily and all of that, but I ignored every cue to escalate further and bang her despite her giving off all the signals. Finally after realizing I wasn't going to bang her she said "I have to go" and left kind of abruptly. Can't tell whether she thought you really didn't like her, or she thought you were a pussy. If she thought you didn't like her, she thinks you rejected her. That's a fate worse than death for some women. Women HATE HA…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 08:51 PM
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This is why conventional "red pill" wisdom is that when you meet someone for the first time online (if not off Tinder), you meet for drinks. Plan on no more than an hour. You limit your time and money investment. That way if you don't like each other and you can tell she's not interested, you can end the date and you're out an hour and maybe $20. You buy her ONE drink. Under no circumstances do you buy anything else. No food. No appetizers. You do not agree to meet for anything other than drinks…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 08:25 PM
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That's a good point. A Tinderella is on there to hook up , regardless of what's in her profile. So if she agrees to see you, she's probably looking to hook up with you. And if you don't close the deal, she's going to think you either (1) weren't attracted to her enough to want to fuck her; or (2) aren't sufficiently masculine or forward enough to press on and escalate and take the risk of getting shot down. She thinks you either didn't want to fuck her or you're a pussy. Because most women , eve…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 08:20 PM
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They're not all shit. They all have the CAPACITY to act like shit. They all DO act like shit, sometimes. I have never met a woman who didn't, at some point, act like shit. Including my mother, sisters, wife and daughter. In fact i've seen them act like shit far, far more, and more often, and worse, than women further removed from me and less acquainted with me. They are like all other humans - self interested, selfish, dishonest and self absorbed, when it serves their interests to be such. And s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 07:28 PM
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Most mainline Protestant denominations have relaxed the rules against divorce and remarriage to the point where this really isn't an issue anymore. As long as you're legally divorced, you can remarry and stay in good "communion" with your Protestant denomination. It's true of every one except Orthodoxy. All Christian denominations are nominally opposed to extramarital sex, but do nothing about this and don't talk about it or teach it. More than 85% of unmarried women have had some kind of extram…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:57 PM
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Posting “I’m not down for hookups”, then guys after guy after guy is like “Yeah, I matched and banged women with that in their profile” I'm convinced that women including any negative reference to hookups, players, or casual sex in their profiles is dogwhistling to attractive men. It's speaking in code. It's I am saying I will not do hookups. But I have to say that because i don't want people to think I'm shallow or a slut. I also don't want these beta bitchboys I need commitment from to think I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:43 PM
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Sigh. It is a misrepresentation. But we've teased this all the way out. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:29 PM
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No. Disagree. Women ARE lying when they say they're "attracted" to beta bitchboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:23 PM
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Volatility doesn't mean explodes all the time. Gasoline is volatile. That doesn't mean it explodes every time you move it or do anything to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:21 PM
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OK. Agree to disagree. I come to disagree with that comment you always make, because it's inaccurate and doesn't reflect reality, and creates enormous amounts of confusion in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:19 PM
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OK. I understand the argument. I don't accept it as having sufficient support in either literature, observation, or experience to suggest that it is a "thing" or that it is something men should premise a sexual strategy on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:17 PM
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Therefore, in your case, the paternal traits amplified preexisting sexual attraction, and did not create it. The OP suggests exhibition of paternal traits creates or generates sexual attraction. I don't buy it. I do, however, believe that other traits can amplify or augment or support already existing sexual attraction. EDIT: I would also point out that your original comment up there suggested that Mr. A's paternal traits created or generated sexual attraction; but your later posts cleared up th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:15 PM
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Not one bit. Women know how to contain that volatility and save it up to vomit all over someone or trash a space in private. I know way, way too many women who can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:13 PM
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I've heard of that alleged condition. I think it's complete bullshit. It's virtue signaling. It's "I will say i am attracted to intelligence because then people will not think i am shallow but will instead think i am deep, profound, and seeking meaning in life. I will say i am attracted to intelligence because I want people to think I am intelligent and that I matter and have significance." Show me pictures of the men who supposedly allegedly are sexually attractive because of their intelligence…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:10 PM
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Then what is sexually attracting those women is hot as fuck men and dadbods; and not the exhibition of paternal traits, and not the fact that his sperm at one time fertilized an egg resulting in the live birth of a viable human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:03 PM
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I disagree. That IS what's happening. Let's just agree to disagree because there's a wide spectrum of conduct in there. Its' not sexual attraction. The woman "loving" the man is NOT sexual attraction. Love does NOT equate to sexual attraction. Women marry men they love but arent' sexually attracted to all the time. Women divorce men they get along with fine but just don't want to fuck anymore, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:02 PM
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This supports the notion that father material men aren't really sexually attractive long term. Short term sexual attraction to the longtime husband who actually fathered YOUR OWN children is a far, far cry from a claim that women are sexually attracted to father material men who they are NOT married to and who have not fathered any children, merely because those men are exhibiting paternal traits or actions and without reference to anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:59 PM
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Great illustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:57 PM
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I'm not wrong. I said women want these men for relationships and women take them. Or accept them grudgingly, at least. But that is NOT "attraction". To men, "attraction" means SEXUAL attraction. It means fuckability. All we are disagreeing on is the meaning of the term "attraction". We're not talking about magnets or insects. We're talking about humans; and with humans, "attraction" means "wants to fuck". Yes, women want "beta comfort" men FOR RELATIONSHIPS. They want those men because they're u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:52 PM
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Women take men they can get to father their children. The sex is secondary. There is no such thing as "attraction to intellect". Women want smart men because since the shift to a service economy, smart men can earn more money and gather and marshal more resources than stupid men. But this has nothing to do with sexual attraction. It has to do with women wanting these men for their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:46 PM
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Right. Which is why there's no such thing as "attracted for a relationship". Women want these men for relationships because they want to use and exploit those men for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:44 PM
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No. Women like good father types FOR RELATIONSHIPS, not for sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:44 PM
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Yes. Translation: --I want to feel attractive and attracted, I want to feel all the yummy ooey gooey feelings in my tummy when I'm with a guy I'm about to have sex with, I want him to make my pussy tingle, I want it to just happen with no prompting on my part, I want him to just "get it" and just do these things to and for me without me having to work at it, and I want it to be totally spontaneous so I can say it "just happened" and to absolve me of any responsibility if it doesn't work out the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 05:35 PM
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regardless of whether anyone has "serious issues" or not, it doesn't make the observations any less true. The only reason you said that was because you wanted to shame despisedbylove and to say, essentially, this: despised obviously has serious issues. Therefore, he is to be shamed. And anything he says is not to be believed. It's argument by personal attack and ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:03 PM
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Also: for you guys out there encountering the 30 something, no kids, never married women, they almost always entail a reasonably attractive woman between ages 30 and 38, has been working a while, is established in a job earning decent money, has at least a bachelor's degree. And her demands are positively stratospheric. She expects her man to be absolutely perfect and flawless in eveyr imaginable way. You are allowed absolutely NO margin for error WHATSOEVER. She "definitely wants kids". You mus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 05:01 PM
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I realize I didn't include the "mid 30s to early 40s never married, who definitely or someday wants kids" category. This is usually one of the following: --I'm totally delusional. I still believe that, at 39, I can get pregnant and carry at least 2 healthy viable children to term. This, even though I'm 39 years old, have been on hormonal birth control since I was 16, had a bout of chlamydia at 24, was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome a few years ago, have never been pregnant, and am 40…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 04:42 PM
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Most never married women will not say anything about their ex boyfriends or past relationships, unless that ex boyfriend is also a baby daddy. But if he is a baby daddy, usually that means: --my baby daddy pays his child support because i had him thrown in jail a couple of times when he didn't pay. And he takes the kid(s) off my hands for his designated every other weekend and major holidays. And we get along OK, meaning he does what the court order says and I get what i want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 04:32 PM
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thanks. was wondering what you were trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:18 PM
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this looks incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:13 PM
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I'm guessing that you got damaged by someone Oh yes, the "who hurt you??!!!" refrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:09 PM
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LOL Has profile on Tinder --I am definitely looking for hookups Tinder is a hookup app, and anyone who thinks otherwise has been living under a rock for the past 8 years or so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 03:37 PM
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No, because I'm not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:30 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:19 PM
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Women are more emotionally volatile. They just confine it to nonpublic spaces. Same with women and friends. They're lovey dovey and caring in public to their friends, then shittalk and denigrate their friends behind their backs in private. As much as women hate men, women hate each other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:08 PM
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Men get pissed about more important things than women do. Women get pissed and punch things and throw things and emotionally act out in private. All the time. They just do it in private. The few times you've seen men emotionally acting out stand out to you because they're in public. They're also men talking to other men, not whining and bitching like women do. They're also getting "loud and angry" about work, not about literally everything like women do. They're also getting loud and angry in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:10 PM
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But I CAN imagine a woman turning down a man who refuses to support her financially. I can imagine a woman turning down a man who earns a fraction of what she earns. I don’t ever want to hear again about women complaining about traditional gender roles when they expect and demand that men make most of not all the money, and spend it supporting them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 12:47 AM
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Well your claim up there that “marriage is about more than sex” was a sweeping generalization purporting to speak for all humankind. If marriage is about more than sex FOR YOU, that’s fine, but don’t purport to speak for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:40 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:08 PM
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For men it’s about sex, primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:22 PM
1

Haters gonna hate. So hate away, hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:56 PM
21

Which is why a woman is supposed to be a man’s daughter first until that man gives her to her husband at which point she becomes a wife. after she’s learned to be a good submissive daughter and wife, then and only then does she get to be a mother. You can tell what women had shitty childhoods. All they know how to be is mothers, ie. Getting pregnant and popping out kids. This one probably had a shit dad or a shit mom who kicked her dad out. Or she rejected her parents efforts and just hopped on …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/19 04:52 PM
1

You say that only because I’m red and you hate reds and you’re hopelessly biased against me. There’s nothing I could say or do to ever make you see anything my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:36 PM
1

You just can’t let it go can you ? I’m in your head because I own you, your Sandpaper snatch, and the rest of you. I’m under your skin and in your head. It’s why you feel the need to respond to me and stalk my comments even during the 98% of the time a purge isn’t going on. I have no doubt you’ll be back here shortly to see if I responded and what I said. Because I own you. Because you can’t help it. And because deep down you know you’re exactly what I said you are- a worthless sandpaper snatch …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:45 PM
1

Hilarious cunt You just keep coming back for more. Like when your pimp smacks you around. You love it when I verbally snack you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:51 AM
1

I just love it. Hilarious. I’ve got your hamster running at light speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:45 AM
1

Haha. I’m going to sleep now. You just rest your cunty pwned head and try to get yourself ready for your ass whipping tomorrow. Pwned. Cunt. Those words really sting you. It’s why you keep coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:32 AM
2

Hahaha I love it. You’re expending all this puny mental energy on me. Look at all these paragraphs. All because you’re a cunt. Consider yourself pwned, cunt. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:21 AM
1

Fuck off cunt I’m not shutting up until the clock strikes 12 noon tomorrow. You’re a cunt. Now get back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich. And shut the fuck up while you do it. Are you enjoying me running around in that empty head of yours rent free, cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:05 AM
1

If I have this much attention from your cunty ass and am under your skin this much I’m doing something right. Your cunty bitch cunt doesn’t get to tell me shit, you cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:57 AM
2

Cunt away , cunt. At least be original, cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:25 AM
5

You are an extremely rare outlier. That’s even if all this is true. So. How’s all that happy divorce working out for the kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/19 06:24 AM
2

You left your ex at 26. How old are you now? Have you remarried? How many kids do you have? How’s that meeting and picking a partner working out for you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/19 06:21 AM
5

As Tina Turner taught us, “what’s love got to do with it?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/19 06:10 AM
1

Thanks for your input. We see it from the men’s side, not yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/19 05:52 AM
2

Nah even Mrs Cross isn’t that horrible. You, on the other hand, are. But I know the mods will let you act like the cunty cunt you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:50 AM
0

You wish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:38 PM
0

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:42 PM
2

But I’m not attacking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:37 PM
1

W/e
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:36 PM
5

Sure. I’m under your skin so much you’re spending your New Year’s Eve shitposting about me. I enjoy roaming around in your head rent free. Think I’ll furnish this huuuuuge empty space in your head....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:38 PM
13

Sorry your ass is hurting that much, electra If I get under your skin this much, i'm doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:21 PM
2

Meh. I'm sure they'll be around. Rain just can't resist. I'll report her, and the mods will do nothing about it, and life will go on. Same with Poppy (Ms. BlackRage).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:20 PM
1

From your first link: the results of this study suggest that recovery from borderline personality disorder, with both symptomatic remission and good psychosocial functioning, seems difficult for many patients to attain. The results also suggest that once attained, such a recovery is relatively stable over time. From your second link: reassessed at 2, 4, and 6 years by interviewers blind to previously collected information. RESULTS: Of the subjects with borderline personality disorder, 34.5% met …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:18 PM
2

of course you do. Figures, dearie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:10 PM
2

I'm sure you'll tell me. Remember how little I care about what people think..... If you think the worst I've heard is "loser", think again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:10 PM
15

No. They must have legal marriage. 2 reasons: (1) The FSM/Sisterhood confers higher status on married women. (2) Legal marriage gives the woman a legal claim over her husband even if she decides to divorce him. It's about status and money. It's about being able to use the State to make that man do what she wants him to do, on pain of penalty, impoverishment and imprisonment. A man she's shacking up with can leave any time he wants. A man she's married to, can't. She's got him by the balls and ov…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 07:06 PM
1

Thanks!! Now along will come BiggerDThanYou to define it for us....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:52 PM
1

hahahaha This is a purge thread. The purge is on. Everyone's fair game. And the term is "phallocentrism".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:47 PM
19

"divorced" carries the connotation of "you made a promise for life and you broke it" on it. That's how men see divorced women. How women see divorced women is "she at least got someone to commit to her, even if that marriage failed. She has more value than a woman who couldn't/didn't get ANY man AT ALL to commit to her."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 06:46 PM
0

Oooh, so serious. Ok, little sweetie. I don't have all the knowledge of what dating and male-female relationships are. But i have more than you do - a fact you demonstrate every day here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:44 PM
1

Meh. There is no team man. I'd prefer the "Toxic Masculinity" badge, please....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:43 PM
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Are you saying "single" is higher than "divorced" as men see it; or as women see it? If we're talking about how men see it, then yes, i think "single" is higher than "divorced". But in GirlLand, "divorced" is higher than "never married/single". Divorced women at least got SOME man to commit to them. A never married/single woman couldn't even get that. And to women, in the FSM, the ability to get commitment from a man elevates her status, even if that commitment resulted in a failed marriage. In …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 06:43 PM
2

aw. can i borrow it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:37 PM
1

OK, little electra. Let us know when you have an experiential and knowledge base on which to express opinions. I'll pick you up for our date at 9 pm. Be ready with that little black number i like. New Year's Fuckin' Eve, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:36 PM
2

She's blaming men for making her hate men on the internet. I'd like to think i helped her along....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:34 PM
4

Here's your wastebasket to puke into. See you tomorrow....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:33 PM
2

How is this a "purge" post? This is 100% legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:32 PM
1

OK, electra. You yourself are like a pet we keep around. Cuz your naivete is so cute. Edit: WHO HURT YOU????
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:31 PM
5

Good thing you'll be over it by this time tomorrow. It's a 24 hour bug, i hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:29 PM
0

That's not saying much.... Chimps and retards can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:29 PM
2

Kindly pin that badge of honor upon the LEFT lapel, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:28 PM
-1

I'd just like to get rid of the Cunty McCuntersons around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:27 PM
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She was probably married. I've discovered that women don't want to reveal their divorces and instead want to be known as "single.". Also, divorced women don't want to talk about their divorces even on anonymous subreddits. Even in situations where no one will ever know who they are or anything about them, women don't want to reveal anything about their divorces or talk about them. If they will discuss their divorces at all, they do so only in the vaguest terms. At purplepilldebate, about a year …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 06:22 PM
1

Yeah. Help me out - is this a 24 hour enema purge or a 7 day fast purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:15 PM
10

Outfuckingstanding. Can you please ban that bitch rainisthelife? Just have her Go. The. Fuck. Away. Disappear her annoying ass off this subreddit, please. Same with poppy_blu. Jesus their very presences are like a colonoscopy prep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:14 PM
3

BPD has the benefit that it's treatable. On the contrary, borderline personality disorder is not very treatable at all. It is one of the least treatable psychological disorders/defects in existence. (The only less treatable ones are antisocials and pure sociopaths/psychopaths. The Ted Bundys and Charles Mansons of the world. They are lost causes, cannot be treated or cured, and the only remedy is to remove them from society by any means necessary.) BPD does not respond at all to medications or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:02 PM
1

Yeah. She might walk away. Let her. She might divorce you. Oh well. She might change the rules and say "no more sex for you" or "sex, ok, but on my terms or not at all". Say "No" and end it right then and there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 05:16 PM
-1

Again: you can have whatever requirements for your life and sex partners/boyfriends/husband(s) you want, so long as your value is sufficient to demand and sustain them. if not, well.... then you will have no sex partners/boyfriends/husbands. Or then you will have to adjust your standards. That's how it works. There is no other method. And by the way: The only way he gets uppity and nervous about not getting to eat from the pussy buffet is when his GF/wife is not supplying him with sufficient pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:39 PM
1

Wow. you're rainisthelife lite. And you can set whatever requirements you want for your life and sexual entanglements. So can he. Just know, like most men do, that the amount, nature and extent of the requirements you can set bear a direct relationship to your sexual and relationship market values.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:35 PM
6

And under what circumstances they have sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 04:23 PM
1

they are extremely dangerous for a certain type of man, but probably most men are relatively safe. Those are chances I'm not willing to take. it would seem that the most toxic cluster B requires a fairly idealistic/giving (at least) source to draw from Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:21 PM
0

He doesn't necessarily want multiple pussies. He just doesn't want to commit to yours... yet. The world does not revolve around you. That man you're denigrating is a human being. He has wants, needs, desires, hopes, dreams, and plans for his life too. And if you want to be part of that, you have to accommodate him and what he wants and needs too. The only way you'll be on WAATGM (which is not "my" subreddit), is if you were a post wall woman shrieking about it and demanding Chad wife you up or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:18 PM
0

LOL NARPALT. No, that behavior isn't paranoid. If protecting myself from women bent on ruining themselves and everyone else around them is "hostile", I'm ok with that. And it is in no way "narrow minded" to say "i don't want that shit in my life."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:14 PM
2

True. But i don't care. I'm not here to help people identify mentally ill men. I'm not here to help mentally ill men avoid getting killed. I'm not here to help mentally ill men at all. I'm here to help men who want to listen to me identify mentally ill women so they can avoid those women and protect themselves from and against those women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 04:10 PM
1

I don't know how else to C this V other than to fisk it. The top 20% of men have easy sexual access to the majority of women and the lower 80% of men have to work for it. This is more or less correct. The top 20% of women get commitment easily from men whereas the 80% have to work for it. More like the top 10% of women get commitment from top men. I don't think it's all that easy for them. Most women are not going to get commitment from top men no matter how hard they work for it. There aren't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:08 PM
0

After a couple months of dating go by, you go to the guy and say “are we going to be exclusive now?” That's a surefire way to drive a guy away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:58 PM
2

Removed this one too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 03:50 PM
6

I'm giving you one, and only one, warning. This is not a debate site. Keep it up and you'll be banned. Follow the rules. Don't follow them, and you can dance on someone else's stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 03:47 PM
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You're not alone dude. What i hope for you, though, is that you can get past the bitterness. I hope you can eventually someday find it in yourself to laugh a little bit at women and blue pill cucks like this. I hope you can find it in you to put down the boundaries you need to put down, enforce them hard, and then live your life the way you want, with or without women, on your own terms. I mean that sincerely. I really do. Life's too short, man. So laugh at them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 03:46 PM
6

If you actually think your girlfriend has BPD then get her to a therapist, don't just complain about her! Yeah, no. If you think your GF has ANY kind of Cluster B personality disorder, or exhibits ANY of the above symptoms, end things with her as cleanly and nicely as possible, or ghost if you can. And then never contact her again and stay as far away from her as you possibly can. Do not take her to a therapist. Do not take her anywhere. Do not be alone with her. Do not do anything with her othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:35 PM
7

It's not "obsessed" with anything. RP talks about and educates men on BPD, mostly on how to avoid them. Also, the other cluster B personality disorders: histrionic and narcissistic. Also, another personality disorder that is in a class by itself: the antisocial personality disorder. The reason it talks about BPD so much is that so many of the men who wind up there have had extremely negative experiences with BPD/cluster B women. Many of these men (including me) are sons of Cluster B mothers. Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:31 PM
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Gives the phrase “bottom of the barrel” a whole new meaning. That’s tearing through the bottom of the barrel and spooning up the maggot infested compost about 4 inches beneath it. Just... gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 02:10 AM
3

They're wrong That's "chubby" or "a few extra pounds" or "full figured" This is a "landwhale".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:24 PM
2

that's not landwhale. That's fine for a lot of men. A bit of advice... you'll catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:06 PM
1

ok. fair enough. But.... having money will not attract a 21 year old woman, unless he's 31 and very good looking. It's all about hotness now. All day, every day, all the time. Hotness is all that matters now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:05 PM
5

“Vibrant” neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:53 PM
2

This. It is really something when women get to around age 40 or 50, and find out that no one pays attention to them anymore. No one helps them. No one cares about them. Many of them are divorced, and can get, oh, maybe some sad sack schlub to buy them some cab sav and a broasted chicken at the local nice place. That is about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:28 PM
0

What does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:24 PM
2

Oh Gawd. Here we go again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:21 PM
3

I see this all the time. All the time. It’s a bad thing because it’s leading men on and using and exploiting them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:20 PM
2

It’s absolutely true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:52 PM
0

The difference between cat calling and approaching is based solely upon the attractiveness of the man engaging in the conduct. If he is attractive, it is “approaching”. If she believes he is unattractive, it is “catcalling”, “harassment,” and she will be calling the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:31 PM
3

lol, yeah, back in like 1989
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:47 PM
1

it's usually the woman having that talk. Though I will admit that women are more and more often reporting that men are the ones who want to get serious right away. Mostly because most men are blue pill cucks who'll do anything for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:45 PM
1

Removing this because it does not add in any way to the discussion. This is all very well and good. That said, one anecdote does not disprove the general rule. And race is important in determining women's preferences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/18 05:42 PM
0

Wrong. We are around bottom 80% of women all the time. And yes they have beta orbiters. Yes they get fuckbuddies, FWBs, strs ltrs and husbands. Certainly the kinds of attention women get are not the ridiculous hyperbolic circlejerky extent you’re claiming. And no, they don’t all get Channing Tatum. But they do get male attention and lots of it. If a woman is alone and single it is solely because she wants to be. The average woman has an admitted N of 6 and has been married at least once. So aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:31 PM
1

I was trying to get you to comprehend something you can’t conceive of. I’m done now. And no, I’m not mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:37 AM
0

It’s RIGHT THERE IN THE GODDAMN VOWS. “Take”. And it’s an ATTITUDE of ownership. You obviously don’t get it, so yeah, we are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:34 AM
0

It’s an ATTITUDE of ownership. A woman who’s attracted to her husband very much wants him to stake his claim upon her. And he very much wants to stake his claim on her. It’s primal. Oh, and during a wedding ceremony, they each say they TAKE each other. “I, Man, take you, woman, to be my lawfully wedded wife.” Take. TAKE. TAKE. They are TAKING each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:29 AM
0

When you marry you claim the person you are marrying for your own. My husband, my wife. My. Mine. Yes you also commit, but the man especially takes “ownership” of his wife. No one else gets to fuck her. Only him. She’s his.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:15 AM
1

Nah US is around 50% for all marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:08 AM
0

I can still answer. Your statement was word salad nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:07 AM
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Precisely. For a woman, marriage is a representation to the world that she was deemed worthy in the eyes of a man. It is “I was good enough abd hot enough and smart enough to get a man to make the ultimate commitment. I got him to pledge his entire work output and production for the rest of his fucking life. I fucking own him now. And his money. All the money he has and all the money he will ever have. It’s all mine now.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:03 AM
0

The general rule still applies even if it does not apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:54 AM
1

No. Women invest heavily in their WEDDINGS. Not their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:53 AM
-1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:51 AM
2

i did a post on this. A summary of the responses: Marriage gives women status in the FSM. Marriage gives her a legal claim on a man’s resources— even if she divorces him. It was made quite clear in that thread that it’s about status with the sisterhood, money, and being able to make their husbands keep paying even if those women decide to make those men ex husbands. Women want that status and money. BAD. HAVE to have it. MUST MUST MUST secure it at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:48 AM
2

I’m sure you think that. If FWBs are so awesome then why do so many women with FWBs Try to convert them into husbands and boyfriends, and complain that the FWB doesn’t want any more than FWB? Just observing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:36 AM
1

I’m not even talking about “where are the good men” types. Your experience isn’t what I hear women saying. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:34 AM
1

That’s a lot of deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:32 AM
0

Because you replied in a top level comment to a Q4RP thread. Red pillers are the only ones who are allowed to respond and top level comments to Q4RP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:39 PM
0

So you’re red pill now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:36 PM
1

Yes to all of it. That’s why a man has to make clear that he can giveth and he can taketh away. If she starts taking him for granted or if the sex falls off, it is over, done, finito, immediately, and he will get someone else to fuck him. And all his time, labor, money and resources will be gone immediately too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 06:00 PM
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No. Insanity is the inability to distinguish fantasy from reality. The inability to discern between “right” and “wrong”. Non drug-induced hallucinations are an indication of insanity. Depressed people are mostly sane. They just have a disorder That causes things in their brains and personalities to not work correctly, and which cause those people difficulties in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:49 PM
2

I’ll c that v. The facts you recite are probably true. Where you’ve gone wrong is your conclusion that these women you speak of are not lonely, ie they are satisfied in their relationships and have all the company they want. I think you’re right that pretty much any woman who wants to can have multiple FWBs and fuckbuddies. Even some STRs and very occasional LTRs. But as we learned in a thread I authored some time ago , that’s not good enough. Marriage is what they all demand. Second, these wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:39 PM
2

No. Women view marriage as retiring from the freaky deaky sex on demand game. “I’m a WIFE. I don’t have to do THAT anymore. Blow jobs and anal eww gross. STFU and get your ass back to work, asshole!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 02:23 PM
6

At least she admits why she does this. It’s al ost like she has the insight of a man. Because this right here is exactly why girls with SOs flirt. Low self esteem, daddy issues, love male attention, need external validation. And because it gives her immense power.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/18 02:01 PM
1

Post was deleted. What was it about
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/18 12:21 PM
1

They can journey all they want. They just don’t get to do it at my expense , on my dime, or to my detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:10 AM
1

still ranting. and right on cue. Your view point is narrow and irrational, candidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:33 PM
2

Yeah, that's really what's going on here. The parents can see their daughter's a trainwreck and that the OP is a stable, solid guy. They want him to "save" their daughter. If i were OP i'd just tell them exactly why he broke up. "I found out she was cheating on me. She had sex with someone else, and i have the photographic evidence to prove it. I won't show them to you, at least not now. But if you continue to pester me about this, I will show them to you. "Leave me alone. I do not want to discu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 10:29 PM

Going to sticky this as a PSA. Lots of discussion below about women who have mental illnesses, their conduct in intersexual relationships, and whether women with mental illnesses can still make good wives and girlfriends. This is all well and good, but there are things we need to realize as we muster up the courage to face the truth. And the truth is that by and large, women with mental illnesses, addictions, and mental health issues are poor relationship risks. Much like sluts and "reformed slu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 09:57 PM
8

maybe this place isn't for you. Move along now and scoot. I'll help you out.... ZOT.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 09:05 PM
41

Hi. I'm just your normal ordinary everyday slut party girl problem drinker. Just looking for someone to spend fun nights with for drinking and partying. Also, bonus if you've got spare cash for bail money after my next drunk driving arrest. Could also use some help paying for my Valtrex prescription. Hit me up, babes!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 09:03 PM
4

she has her own gravitational field.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 08:54 PM
1

Come on, General.... that's a catch 22 and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:24 PM
1

If i do that i'll be banned for witchhunting. Besides, we've had this discussion before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:20 PM
3

I'd refine that to "alpha" is "men who are getting what they want and need from their relationships". And there are specific kinds of men who have specific traits, whether red pill or not, who get what they want and need from their relationships. And there are specific men with specific traits who tend NOT to get what they want and need. So it's pretty easy to identify those traits and men who are successful, and who are not successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:57 PM
1

Nah, they don't. I don't believe you. Post evidence to prove it, otherwise i don't beleive you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:50 PM
1

Yes, i know that bad men don't wear signs on their backs. That's why you learn what the tells are. And charming is one of them. It is not about being psychic. It's about not being stupid and it's about paying attention and it's about learning from people more experienced and knowledgeable than you are. Those men reacted the way they did because they were expecting you to be an easy lay, and when you were not, they got pissed. Bullets dodged. Tell them to fuck off. You don't have to do anything y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:49 PM
3

No, it's "dating a moody broke alcoholic is fun and the sex is great, but I'm 27 and i need to get this baby thing going. He's fun, but the risks he takes... and he never does what he says he'll do and he never does what i want him to. "I need a safe guy, a guy who i can control and manipulate will do what he says he'll do, a guy with a job and some money. A guy who's nice to me. A guy who will marry me when i want to get married, and who will let me run the relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:39 PM
1

ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:37 PM
2

White alpha: Chad Black alpha: Tyrone Middle eastern alpha: al-Chad French alpha: Chadcois Hispanic alpha: Reynaldo Biker alpha: Harley McChadboy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 06:36 PM
1

OK. You asked me what i would do. I told you. If it's safer to go along and play nice, then 1) Don't be around bad men. 2) Be a good judge of character so you can identify bad men. 3) Don't complain when you choose to be around bad men and bad things happen because they're bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:32 PM
1

I didn't say anything about being a kung fu badass. I might lose. But doing what i said above gives me a fighting chance, and that's better than submitting and just taking it. If i submit and just take it, i'm definitely dead. If i fight back, i might make it long enough to get away, or at least rip his balls off so that after he kills me he can't do it to anyone else. If i'm going down, he's going down with me. Yes, and i have had a fight or flight response. Men have a keenly developed sense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:29 PM
0

You're also in Eastern Europe, which is not the West, and it's not the United States. I've been a gentleman, and it's not worked for me. I've been less of a gentleman, and THAT HAS worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:26 PM
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Read the edit above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:24 PM
0

are you male or female? Why would i be in a room with a 6'5" bear? Why would i even be TALKING TO a 6'5" bear in private AT ALL? EDIT: If i somehow am in a room with a 6'5" bear, i'm fighting like hell. My thumbs are in his eye sockets. I'm kneeing him in the groin. I'm ripping his balls off. I'm cracking his knees. I'm using whatever i can find as a weapon. Either way, i might be dead or overpowered. I might as well go down swinging. I am not going down without a fight. If i'm going down, he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:19 PM
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Times are different, yes. A man who doesn't push boundaries in today's day and age gets nothing. He gets fucked over, shafted, disrespected, taken advantage of, used, and exploited. Nice guys finish last. If he isn't bold, assertive and forward, he'll never get anywhere and he will get no respect. Fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:18 PM
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I'm a big boy who protects myself. Yes, all these situations are happening in public. I'm not going to be in private with a 6'5" bear. As if there is such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:13 PM
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You're not describing a gentleman. You're describing a craven white knight sycophant. Women have made it clear they don't want gentlemen. I'm just giving women what they are screaming from the rooftops that they want. When women become ladies again, i'll think about becoming a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:12 PM
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OK. Go fuck Chad, Tyrone, Al-Chad, Chaddo, Fernando, Francois, and whoever else you want. Do it on your own dime and your own time. I'm moving all the money out of the joint account and into one in my name. Here's the divorce papers: The petition for dissolution, the temporary restraining order, the order of protection that directs you to stay 100 feet away from me, and the temporary order of marital home possession. There's also an emergency petition for custody of the kids. I've taken the libe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 06:10 PM
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Tough shit, wife. DO IT ANYWAY.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 06:01 PM
1

No he should not protect a woman he's not related to and is not fucking him. I have no responsibility to protect any woman i'm not related to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:01 PM
1

"Faggot, stop touching me." Then get up and walk away. Make a scene. Call attention to yourself. Move closer to the owners of the establishment. "HEY YOU ASSHOLE MOTHERFUCKER DICKWAD STOP TOUCHING ME THIS ASSHOLE KEEPS TOUCHING ME IF YOU DON'T STOP IT RIGHT NOW I'LL KICK YOU IN THE GODDAMN BALLS GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:59 PM
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Marriages have functioned swimmingly on this dynamic for thousands of years. Man: "Either you fuck me, or i'll get someone else to fuck me. I'll also be taking my resources with me. That's how it's gonna go." Woman: "Though i don't always feel like it, i'll fuck him, and lo and behold, the more i fuck him, the more i feel like it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:56 PM
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Well, the guy gets more attractive and makes clear she's either going to fuck or he's leaving and getting someone else to fuck him. And he refuses to tolerate one ounce of shit from her. She needs to do her part by fucking this man she says she's physically attracted to but just not getting into it. Don't feel like fucking him? Do it anyway. Don't feel like initiating? Do it anyway. Not all that exciting for you? Do it anyway. He's your husband; it's your job; it's what you agreed to. DO IT ANYW…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:52 PM
2

Huh. Could be. Certainly not a redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:43 PM
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these women have zero clue about ANYTHING. She had a kid and has no idea what is involved in raising it. that's why she's gunning for a marriage. Her status is lowest of the low - she's a never married woman with a bastard. She needs money and help, and lots of it. She needs money to pay for shit the kid needs. She needs help taking care of the kid. See, dumb bitch woman, this is why you fucking get married before you get knocked up. This is also why you make sure the guy you do let knock you up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:42 PM
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Yeah. But she does say she doesn't get excited until they're actually having sex. It's common. Women's sexuality is reactive. When she's around a lot of hot sexy men, she's reacting positively to it. When she's around one man she's attracted to, she's kinda ... "meh. Take it or leave it. Sure. OK. Let's fuck." So this is on her to adjust her attitude. She's not saying she's not sexually attracted to him AT ALL. She's not refusing the guy. She's just got a typical married woman's "meh" lukewarm a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:35 PM
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That's why i partially agreed with you. It's a revenge fantasy because they want her to end up alone (as many of them do) or having to settle for a BB (as even more of them do). So... yeah. As much as you want to disagree with me there, you're... agreeing with me. And i agreed with you. Women arent' attracted to stability or "success". They WANT those things, but they aren't SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to men who have ONLY those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:26 PM
1

Eh, there's only one who's been married that many times. Most are on their first or second marriages, and (claim to be) happily married. It's just that i don't believe their husbands all walk on water, like they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:23 PM
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I'm gonna put the best face on this i can. This is a woman getting into the rut of married/family life. Seven year itch stuff. She's just bored. She needs to take some initiative in having more sex. She needs to have sex, and lots of it, and keep doing it until she feels like doing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:21 PM
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Holy shit this baby thing is hella expensive. The hospital bills are huge. Babies need a lot of newborn medical care and stuff. Sitters cost a shitton. And time consuming. I haven't had a good night's sleep in 3 months. I don't have time to sit down and take a shit without that baby demanding soemthing. Hmm. Guess i shoulda thought of that before letting Chad knock me up. Mom and Dad can't really help. I mean, look at them. Dad's clueless and still a little pissed off about me whoring around. Mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:18 PM
1

OK. I disagree with you. And you can have the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:12 PM
1

Yes. A+. Most of the women here are double digits N. The paired up women grossly exaggerate their husbands'/partners' good attributes and paint them as almost superhuman. The single ones complain, and rail against men simply pointing out facts. There are a couple of disgruntled, disenfranchised, pissed off pessimistic divorced grouses, who exist to sit back and lob spitballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:18 PM
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Sigh. "I could go spend NYE with my best friend, but her friends are assholes. Boring in the burbs. I could travel to see other friends, but those friends aren't worth airfare. I could volunteer, but ... lame. "I have no life because i hate people and they hate me back, i'm pessimistic, life sucks all the time, and people suck. "Can someone tell me why i'm 35 and single? Can someone tell me why i have no socializing options? Can someone tell me why i have few friends and almost no options for ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 04:03 PM
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No, to the extent it's a revenge fantasy, it's a woman getting her comeuppance and her just desserts. And a woman having to settle for a BB she's not attracted to is getting what she deserves, even if the man isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:59 PM
1

No. Questioning the veracity of the "experience" because of internal inconsistencies or suggesting the choice made was unwise is NOT "attacking" or calling someone a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:57 PM
1

Yeah, no. "Questioning said experiences as unwise" or "suggesting that the choices were unwise" or "questioning whether said experience is being reported accurately" is NOT "attacking". And it is NOT calling them liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:56 PM
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There's always more. There's always a back story. As usual, you have to work hard and drill all the way down to get to the truth. It's "I'm not a slut". Or if not that, it's "I was a slut but not anymore" or "I was a slut but didn't mean to become one; it just happened" or "I didn't want to be a slut! I just wanted to be a wife and a mommy! All these men were so mean to me and just wanted to fuck me! They LIED to me! They duped and tricked me!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 03:55 PM
1

You just don’t know where or how to look. Second, I don’t have to prove anything to you. Third, this society spends all day every day 24/7/365 holding men accountable. That’s why you bitch and bristle at even the tiniest criticisms of women. Relax and untwist your panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:30 PM
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Not so. You women apparently care very much. The last “wall” post was yesterday, posted by a black pill no pill woman, and it has over 350 comments, with women posting most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:12 PM
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Your panties are always twisted up. Relax and chill out. Please. I hold men accountable all the time. You’re just complaining that I ALSO hold WOMEN accountable. Holding women accountable and holding men accountable are not mutually exclusive, regardless of your irrational narrow world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:11 PM
1

Then don’t complain when I do the same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:08 PM
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When someone here criticizes reds personally. That criticism always boils down to “you’re a bitter angry small dicked loser who can’t get laid!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:08 PM
2

No. It’s women who constantly bitch that The Wall isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:56 PM
1

Which has nothing to do with you. Why do you feel the need to object yourself into a conversation having nothing to do with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:41 PM
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What have I done to deserve you following me around like this? You’re wrong. I’d say red pill men are pretty credible and they’re not included in those groups. Oh wait. I forgot. To you, red pillers are incels, assholes, rapists and losers with not a single good redeemable trait whatsoever. . So yeah, in your narrow minded irrational, frustrated little world, I guess they are. Right I. Suuuuure. Carry on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:14 PM
1

Let’s get serious here— there is nothing I could ever say or do that the likes of you would ever consider to be in good faith. So even if I sent you such a post you would discount and denigrate abd deride it, like you do everything I say or write.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:11 PM
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Those men don’t marry anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:00 PM
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No. Saying "if you can't tell a guy to leave you alone, then you're a child" is not immature. It's relating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:07 AM
1

That's a far cry from what is usually said around here, which is "My husband has a jaw of granite, arms of steel, a 13" titanium rod for a cock, can deadlift a Ford Taurus, and is sooo nice to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:06 AM
1

how does this comment in any way relate to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:05 AM
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OMFG LOOK WHO IS BACK!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:04 AM
1

He's overstating it a little. You've got player burnout. You realize that sex is just sex, women are pretty much the same, and that a relationship with one woman might not be your cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:01 AM
3

More than a few, less than a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:57 AM
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Because men will be happier in their relationships. (So will the women, incidentally.) Male dominance in relationships and men having more power in their relationships makes everyone happier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 01:03 AM
3

Clearly that would be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:02 AM
1

That's your interpretation. OK. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:49 PM
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No, it's more like "you left out this very, very important but unflattering, unsavory fact that changes the entire complexion and context of the answer".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:48 PM
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You're unlikeable because you pay no attention to anything anyone else says and you personally attack people (especially me, and especially reds) all the time here. I don't really care that you don't like me, so, really, don't like me all you want. For some reason you just had to insert yourself into this conversation that had nothing at all to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:47 PM
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i'm sure you will. If anyone will do that, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:45 PM
1

couple of things about that: most of those women in their late 30s and early 40s having kids, starting having kids at the latest in their late 20s. Your grandmother lived in an era of much better nutrition and she was probably in much better physical condition and shape when she married at 40 than most women now who marry at 40. Stronger, healthier, lower body fat, more muscle tone, less sedentary. Also even 50 to 60 to 70 years ago, your grandma was an anomaly - most women at that time were mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:13 PM
1

And the divorce papers will be on file the very moment she's married to him long enough to qualify for alimony and an "equitable" property division.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:10 PM
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No, she went from "good earner" to "man with a lot of money i can use and exploit and stay married to long enough to get vested with alimony".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:09 PM
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There sure seems to be an uptick in married women cheating on their husbands. And man are they good at concealing it. Women are superb liars. They are exceedingly good at hiding and concealing cheating. I bet you her husband never found out about her cheating. Never the wiser. Never found out and never will. I bet you she has all sorts of ways and means to avoid getting caught. All sorts of tangled web lies. All sorts of covers, alibis, and escapes. She's probably got some married friends who kn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 11:03 PM
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But that's not accusing you of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:54 PM
1

Maybe not to you. The point is credibility. incels, assholes, rapists and losers are not credible. Liars are not credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:53 PM
1

Please remember i'm hampered here by my age. Yes, you all can save that comment so that you can throw it in my face when i debate here. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:52 PM
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OK. But the point is, no one told you you were lying. What you were told was what i quoted up above. Not that what you said was not credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:39 PM
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I also want to tell you that with respect to the post you're talking about: The response to this Several women responded explaining men sometimes react poorly/violently to an outright rejection, women are socialized to be “nice” at the expense of their own comfort, and that freezing is a natural response to scary situations. was not "i don't believe you" or "you're lying about this." The response was "your reactions are not consistent with the claims that you are equal to us or that you want equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:34 PM
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LOL I pick men's positions apart here all the time, especially Blue Pillers. You just attack me because you're a liberal feminist and you don't like me because I'm a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:28 PM
1

So, your argument is ad hominem. "This poster is an incel, therefore, he should not be believed about anything he says". Come on....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:26 PM
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It's not that we "don't like" a "truthful" answer. It's that the answer is almost never completely truthful. When we continue drilling down and exploring the answer, we discover that it's not completely true. Also, as u/passepar2t said down there, "Sometimes it's illuminating to watch what people say even when you know they aren't telling you the whole truth."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:24 PM
2

There are more of them when women are younger. Women have more access to quality men when they are in their early 20s, when they are at their most sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:19 PM
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i deleted it. it was a troll.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 10:18 PM
2

as is awalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:17 PM
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Wow you just stated what i was thinking better than i could have put it into words. Brilliant. EDIT: This: Sometimes it's illuminating to watch what people say even when you know they aren't telling you the whole truth. happens ALL THE TIME here. Sometimes i read shit women say here and just think "yep. TRP confirmed."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:17 PM
2

I have explained it. Several times. I don't have any more explanation to give you. The fact that you don't like it or agree with it doesn't mean it's not an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:11 PM
2

::facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:08 PM
1

OK how about just "handsome men over 50". Sam Elliott? I don't know. Fill in the blanks with whomever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:02 PM
4

It is an answer. It might not be the answer you like, but it's an answer. You might disagree with it, but you don't get to tell me my answer is "not an answer". Here's the other answer, way up there: Because it's a debate site. We are here to pick apart and analyze each others' positions. You do it to us; we do it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:01 PM
0

For teh same reason women here argue with men and debate men and call them names. Why would women want to debate incels, assholes, rapists, men with resentment, and losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:55 PM
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Hi. Don't worry. You need never stumble upon this place ever again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 09:53 PM
4

For the same reason women ask men about their experiences and then call them incels/assholes/rapists/full of resentment/losers. It's a debate site.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:49 PM
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Well, a lot of the women are married. What makes me look askance at most of what women say on this sub is that they all claim to be married to/dating superhuman demigods. They're all married to Chuck Norris.... No one is married to men this perfect. Men as perfect as these women claim simply don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:43 PM
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Because: --women lie. About everything. All the time. --this is a debate site and implicit in debate is picking apart people's positions --women call men liars all the time here --we are exploring the hypocrisy of your positions. You say you want to be treated equally, then complain and bitch when we treat you equally. Because "equal treatment" includes the bad as well as the good. If you want equal treatment you don't get to complain that you're being treated like men. That's what you wanted; t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:42 PM
1

Yeah, you could say that too. Am older man (I'm 50)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:32 PM
2

i don't understand what point you're making
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:32 PM
2

Oh well. At least we seem to be done for now with the "which would you rather" posts in which you must pick between two equally undesirable choices....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:13 PM
-4

So touching women is raping them now? Talking to women is now rape? Approaching a woman and using light kino/touch is now "rape"? Who's thinking black and white now? Do you realize how idiotic and insane this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:50 PM
1

No. I disagree. Today, in 2018-2019 America, boundaries have to be defended. That's just reality we all have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:30 PM
1

Yes, but we're talking about women and teh wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:29 PM
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OH yeah. I'm 50. If i were dating now, there's no way i could pull a woman under 40. That's not happening. At least not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 08:00 PM
2

This is why women are right when they say men are entitled. No. This is why YOU are right when you say THIS PARTICULAR man is ACTING AS IF he is "entitled" AT THIS PARTICULAR TIME. "Men" are NOT "entitled" and don't act "entitled". Or maybe you think you are, in which case you should speak only for yourself and not for "men", because you certainly don't speak for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:56 PM
2

meh. most of those women bring it on themselves and have no one to blame but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:47 PM
3

OK. I disagree with you. Men consider women's ages for starting family and having kids when they know the woman is 35 and under and not at the wall yet. Beyond that, kids are not happening, so men are not thinking about "can she get pregnant"; they're thinking about "do we want to fuck each other". Remember: We are talking about the wall. We're talking about post-wall women. Source: Am man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:41 PM
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How is "can't have kids with her" the "male to female perspective"? Men aren't declining to marry older women because they think those older women can't have kids. They're avoiding marrying older women because those women don't want to have sex with those men and reject those men. They're also avoiding marrying those older women because they aren't sexually attracted to those older women. When they finally do break down and marry one of those older women, it's because they're so incredibly thirs…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:29 PM
1

OK, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:26 PM
1

Yes, they do deal with women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:15 PM
4

Fertility is only a small part of the commitment wall. And no, the number of quality marriage minded/marriage eligible men dropping is a major reason for the commitment wall. It's not a separate topic; it's a major reason the commitment wall exists. The major contributors to the commitment wall are (1) her delaying marriage for whatever reason; (2) her declining physical attractiveness; and (3) her declining ability to lock down a marriage minded man she is also sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:14 PM
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These men date these women, fuck them on the downlow, and never marry them. Because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:10 PM
1

See my edit, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:09 PM
1

The op isn't talking about an implicit approach. Physical touch and kino is extremely explicit. You've also missed the point. In real life, men deal with each other explicitly. If you want to operate on equal footing with men, you have to expect men to treat you like they treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:07 PM
3

This is part of it, yeah. There's more complaints about it - single women over 40 who can't get the hot guys anymore; have to settle for lower quality dick; treated like cougars; have to fend off "cubs" who think they are cougaring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:05 PM
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There's also a commitment wall. These women can still get men to wife them up but the quality of men to wife them up is low and number of men willing to wife them up is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:04 PM
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1) Some of those men can date women in their 20s. More likely early 30s, though. 2) Men in their 30s-50s who can fuck women in their 20s couldn't care less about others' "harsh judgment".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:03 PM
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Nah. The wall does exist, it's just that it's more like tissue paper or a trampoline. Sometimes women pass through it or "bounce" off of it. Yes, a woman will still get sex and some orbiters. But she's not as hot at 50 as she was at 20 even with the best of selfcare and attention to nutrition and appearance. The quality of men she will get will decline. The quality of men she can get for commitment will decline, if she can get them at all. The evidence against your position is the cacophony of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:59 PM
1

What? You've never heard women complain that men don't initiate? You've never heard that women can 't get guys interested in them? You haven't heard women complain about men being abject pussies who won't man up and ask a girl out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:50 PM
1

Because women want to be treated as "equals" in every way. Because real life is that some people need to be given explicit rejections. You women wanted equality. Here it is, good and hard. "Equality" is that you get treated like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:49 PM
1

Let's call this what it is. This is "Rules For Men I am Not Attracted To".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:47 PM
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But not saying no IS "your actions". Take responsibility for it. This is the real world, where sometimes guys cross a line. You have to tell them where the line is and then say "no" when they cross it. Because men WILL cross it. I wish you girls would make up your minds. First, you tell us we have to step up and man up and take risks and risk rejection and if we don't we're pussies. Then, when we DO actually do all those things, you accuse us of raping you. WHICH IS IT?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 06:40 PM
10

Why do women reduce themselves to sex objects? You know why. Women very, very much enjoy it when attractive men objectify them. Women absolutely love sex with attractive men. Women want fun hot sexy sex with fun hot sexy men. And then, sometimes, they want those hot fun sexy men to commit to them so they can have lots of hot fun sexy sex whilst getting "paid" for it in the form of commitment and investment, money, time, attention and labor. THey also want those hot fun sexy men to commit to them…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 06:06 PM
9

Just my personal rule, borne of hard experience. Here's why: (1) when you're a younger man, 22 or 23, getting serious with an older woman will surely get you bumrushed and railroaded into marriage. These women push HARD for getting serious and getting married now now NOW NOW NOW. They are also experts at manipulation and deceit - even better than younger women. (2) Older women don't feel like they should submit to younger men. Older women want to run the relationship. They will shit test you to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 05:57 PM
1

Show me where i said anything about treating women's bodies as someone's property. Yes, i am calling men predators. Some men ARE predators. Men's sexual conduct is BY ITS VERY NATURE predatory. What's happening though is that women want men they're not attracted to, to not act like predators; and they want men they ARE attracted to to act like predators. Women want men they're attracted to, to chase and "catch" them. Women very, very much like it when attractive men act like predators. Women ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:53 PM
1

THis is the rough and tumble of the real world. I'm not a savage (nice personal attack there), but some people are. The world is full of bad people. You set down a boundary, you have to be ready to defend it. You acknowledge the reality that there are bad people out there who don't respect boundaries, and you defend those boundaries against those people. What the fuck is so hard to understand about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:51 PM
0

Real life is that you set down boundaries and you defend them. Sometimes everyone has to defend their boundaries, including women defending them with men. That's just real life. And someone who cannot do that, and needs adults to protect them, is not an adult, but is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:46 PM
1

And when you resort to "you' have issues and you're mentally ill and you need to see a therapist" is the kind of comment that gets removed and the user warned or banned. Keep it up. All your comments are getting reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:42 PM
1

By all means, be vigilant. Say you don't like something and then move away from the person. That's not the same thing as "i am a child who can't defend the boundaries i set down and i can't tell someone "no" or "stop doing that i don't like it"."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:39 PM
0

No. When you have to resort to "resentment you feel for not finding the success you want with women", that's a personal attack and an indication that you have no rational response. You have to resort to "loser man" and "loser who couldn't get laid". That's a declaration of surrender, and that you've lost the argument. Personal attack. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:37 PM
2

INsanity. Boundaries are intended to be defended. Sometimes you have to defend them. You live in a fantasyland where no one ever has to defend boundaries. If you set down a boundary, you have to be ready to defend it and you will be called on to defend it. That's real life. That's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:37 PM
1

People on this thread who disagree with me are essentially taking the position that women are children. They are proving TRP's point - women are children, women have no agency, women can't do for themselves as men can. And women should not be expected to do for themselves as men can. I personally don't believe this. But the women and extreme feminists on this board seem to believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:32 PM
1

When you attack me personally, you've lost the argument. When you have to resort to the equivalent of "small dicked loser who can't get laid" and shaming language, you lose. Because you can't respond with actual facts or a rational argument. Reported, and bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:30 PM
1

Maybe saying "no, don't do that" and "Stop doing that" and then moving away isn't "direct conflict". Women think every situation involving an unattractive man is a potential rape. Rape almost never occurs like that. Rape is almost always someone you know. Like a man is going to punch a girl he doens't even know because she's being a bitch. Silly. Most women who get beaten up by men are beaten by their husbands or boyfriends, not by some guy sidling up to her in a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:28 PM
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I don't understand why anyone would think anyone would care what anyone thinks. 3 years on PPD and 7 in the manosphere have disabused me of any notion that anyone would care what anyone thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:25 PM
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I see. So you're a child who can't defend your own boundaries? No. If i were attracted to someone i'd make it known. It's everyone's responsibility to defend their own bodily integrity. It's not my responsibility to self-reject and self-censor and just slink away. It's your responsibility to defend your own bodily integrity, just as it's my responsibility to defend mine. It's everyone's responsibility to use their words and tell people they're doing something they don't like. Everyone needs to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:12 PM
1

Wow. So you would not expect that person to defend their own boundaries? How do you even know you're invading their boundaries? You expect women to be children. You expect men to be children. This is insanity. OK, you have a nice day. At least your flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:09 PM
12

--She's 33. He's 30. Violates the Rule of Two: Never get serious with a woman more than 2 years older than you are. --she's a slut who couldn't get a man she really wanted to commit. --she's alighting from the carousel after her failure to attract and get an attractive man. --she's clearly settling for her "friend" who's still there to unpack her baggage, support her, and pay for her Valtrex prescriptions. --he's a sad sack borderline mentally ill simp who stalked a woman for 10 years plus --she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 05:08 PM
1

Listen to the question. Wouldn't you expect someone to say something about it if you DID disrespect someone's boundaries? Woudln't you expect someone to DO something about it? Don't evade. Don't deflect. ANSWER THE QUESTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:04 PM
1

But what if you didn't? Wouldn't you expect the woman whose boundaries you're not respecting to fucking say something about it? Do something about it? I would, because most of the women i have known are grownups and USE THEIR GODDAMN WORDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:00 PM
0

Grow. The. Fuck. Up. Women who can't use their words and say "no" and then move away from said men are CHILDREN.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:56 PM
1

i have had to tell men no, sexually and nonsexually... I was a big boy and said "no". I used my words. Be big girls. Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:53 PM
3

No. It's the responsibility of the WOMAN who DOES NOT LIKE IT to speak up. Essentially this is more evidence for the notion that women who cannot speak up are children who need responsible adults to protect them. A woman who 'freezes' in response to sexual behavior should not be allowed in public. A woman who is afraid of men's sexual behavior is mentally ill and should be in therapy, not in a bar or a restaurant or anywhere else in public without a responsible adult. No. I am not this woman's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:43 PM
5

Somebody's gotta do it. I'm willing to take one for the team. I'm willing to venture into the breach, all for the advancement and betterment of humankind. You can thank me later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 04:33 PM
1

Which is the best response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:31 PM
1

And another part of becoming an adult is realizing that people are going to do bad shit and being prepared to confront people who do bad shit. Another part of becoming an adult is realizing that if you set boundaries, you have to defend them. Another part of being an adult is defending those boundaries and not demanding that other people defend your boundaries for you. People will never all act the way that makes your life easier, Exactly. So why do women demand that men take responsibility for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:30 PM
-1

Yes, you did. You are essentially saying women are children. Sometimes men are going to do shit you dont' like. That's just life. That's just reality. You have to be able to speak up and say "NO don't do that" and "stop doing that". and you have to be able to make it clear. And if a woman cannot do that, she's a child. Sometimes men are going to touch a woman without consent. Sometimes men are going to not respect her bodily autonomy. Is it wrong and bad? Yes. Should they not do it? No, they sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:26 PM
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RIght. I wasn't talking about you, because it was clear you weren't talking about you. The point is, women who have the perspective that they fear a rage response or a lecture are essentially saying women are children and cannot handle telling someone to stop doing something they don't like. Women have to have a responsible adult tell someone else to stop doing something. You know what we call people who can't do basic adulting? We call them CHILDREN. I give women more credit than that. Or at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:21 PM
1

Comments said fake
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:17 PM
2

women used to say no all the time. I remember high school and college. I remember women saying "yes" (verbally and nonverbally) and saying "no" (verbally and nonverbally). Something happened to make women's brains and mouths evolutionarily regress over the last 30 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:14 PM
1

last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:12 PM
1

Last word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:12 PM
0

Men are accountable for what they do. Women are accountable for what they do. Men are NOT, however, responsible for your bodily integrity. YOU are responsibel for YOUR OWN bodily integrity We are not talking here about you getting beaten, raped or molested. We're talking here about a guy coming on to you. Until you accept that a woman has a duty to protect herself and to say "no" to conduct she does not want, we have nothing to talk about. Women have a duty to themselves to protect themselves. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:02 PM
-1

Respond however the fuck you want. If a man is doing something you don't like, you have no obligation to sit there and take it until it gets really dangerous or unpleasant or whatever. GROW THE F UP and if you don't like something, then say so or move away. Grow up. Be adults. Act like adults. If you don't want something or don't like it, then say so and take action to back it up. Stop acting like children. GROW UP. If you can't tell if someone wants to be touched So it's my responsibility to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:59 PM
1

I thought he WASN'T enjoying the flirtation. I thought YOU weren't enjoying it. YOU ENDED IT. You strongly implied you DID NOT want to fuck the guy and that this was something of an annoyance for you. Except, you didn't end it. You're torturing him, as i said. And he's letting you. You deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:56 PM
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Women have to be responsible for their own bodily integrity. If a man is doing something you don't like, and you're in public, you do what must be done to protect yoruself. I'm a man. I am not responsible for women's bodily integrity. THEY are responsible for THEIR OWN bodily integrity. This is the "independence" women wanted. Except... now they demand that i be responsible not only for myself, but also for them. How's women's "independence" working for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:55 PM
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But you're not flirting. You "ended" it with him; but you continue to entertain him. Fuck him, don't fuck him, i don't care. But when you come on here talking about what you're doing with this guy you want to fuck but are trying to manipulate him into doing and being what you want, don't be surprised when i call it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:53 PM
1

link is long since gone, the pics were posted under throwaways, and the individual links to the pics have been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:51 PM
1

You're enjoying the attention now? So i'm right. You are toying with him like a cat who's captured a mouse. You're torturing him. Eh. You and he deserve each other. He is a masochist to your sadist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:47 PM
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Any woman who is that mentally and emotionally fragile should not be allowed in public. Any woman who is so emotionally brittle that she can't say "stop doing that i don't like it" or "no i don't want this" should not be allowed to go anywhere unchaperoned. Men are not responsible for protecting women's bodily integrity. WOMEN are responsible for protecting THEIR OWN bodily integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:45 PM
-1

If she is that mentally fragile she should not be allowed out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:45 PM
1

Yeah. I wish women would make up their minds. On one hand, it's "when we say no we mean no" and "if we're not saying yes, it's no" and "if we're not responding you should just walk away" on the other hand, it's "you men have to step up and take risks and risk rejection and if you don't you're just a bunch of pussies" On one hand, it's "we are teh awesum women, i am woman hear me roar, i am independent don't need no maaayunnn" On the other, it's "oh woe is me! This man is touching me! If i say so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:44 PM
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IN 2018 America, any woman who can't speak up enough to say "no" and risk that "rage response" or "lecturing" shouldn't be in public and shouldn't be allowed to go anywhere unchaperoned. Grow the F up. Be big girls. If you don't like something, fucking say so. If you don't want a guy, fucking say so. "Rage response"? So fucking what? All you have to do is peep "i feel unsafe" and within seconds, white knights will arrive to remove whatever is making you feel unsafe. Within minutes, large men in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:41 PM
2

Then break it off, don't text him back, block him, and scrape him off. What you're doing now with this guy is borderline sadistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:34 PM
2

Why don't you break it off? Why don't you tell him not to text you anymore? Why don't you block him? If it's over, then let it be over and stop even engaging this guy. You're like a cat torturing a mouse that it's caught. You've beaten it almost to death but you keep it alive so you can torture it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:32 PM
1

You might consider that to him, you're just another warm place to park his dick. You might consider that most likely, he's at various stages of getting laid with about 6 other women more or less like you. As for him texting you after this, consider that he's just enjoying the chase, and sooner or later he'll disengage. Because to him, you're just another warm wet hole and if you won't be his booty call, there are 3 or 4 women who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:30 PM
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No, conflict is not fun. Witty banter when you're just getting to know someone is fun. Flirting with some shit flung both ways is fun. Deliberate antagonism in a long term relationship is 24/7 fingernails on a chalkboard. And to the extent MRP/TRP wants "submissive doormat women", it's wrong. It doesn't want submissive doormats, it just wants nonbitches and noncunts. Somehow, today, it's too much to ask for a woman to just not be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:25 PM
2

Eh. I don't see men saying they "love" batting away shit tests. I personally don't like it. I do it because i have to. Price a man has to pay for a marriage, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:21 PM
1

I dont' like it. It is not "attractive" at all. It is one of two things: 1) a woman acting like she wants a man to act. It's a woman projecting how she wants her man to act. She acts like this because she herself finds it attractive when men do this; so she believes men will find it attractive when men do this. 2) Indicative of very deep mental/emotional disturbances/traumas. You're describing a slutty ragecunt. "giving you a challenge" and "testing how confidently you respond to her remarks" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:18 PM
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AAAUUUGHH! Oh my GOD! What the holy HELL??!! That's a dumpster fire thrown into a trainwreck. That's five miles of bad road. That "woman" has 250,000 miles on her and counting She's tired. That's 3 decades of hard living, hard partying, hard drinking, and a 2-pack a day habit. Are you guys seeing this? ARE YOU? Are you seeing what the cock carousel does to a woman? Because the cock carousel is an entire lifestyle for women. It's not just getting dick run through her. It's staying out all night, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 03:12 PM
2

Train wreck$ in $earch for mi$ter beta buck$. I ju$t want kid$! I ju$t want$ to be a wife! That'$ all!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 03:03 PM
2

We aims to please and we're glad you enjoy it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 03:02 PM
2

Merry Christmas, Good Men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 03:02 PM
1

probably not, because a 30 year old KHV has unresolved baggage and issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:47 PM
1

if i had known that throwaway automod circlejerk response was going to provoke this much consternation i would have never put it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:46 PM
1

you can't do family law work that way... it's unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:57 PM
1

support who? The young girl who marries the hot man she's attracted to who also supports her and loves her? No, i'd support her 100% - IF AND ONLY IF she's sexually attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:55 PM
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Thanks. I think. I find it useful to translate these from womanspeak so as to understand what's really being said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 06:46 PM
1

REsponse to edit: I'd like to know why anyone thinks that giving the actual reasons for the answers is "triggering" me. It's not triggering. If anything, it's some fun circlejerking, which, last time i checked, is OK in automod. But LKF is over here freaking out and apparently you are too. I'd like to know why THAT is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:23 PM
0

Ok. You’re having some difficulty with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:02 PM
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They might be the only possible answers to the OP; but the REASONS are different. The REASONS are the important thing. Are you having some trouble comprehending THAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:41 PM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:56 PM
1

You'll have no problems whatsoever finding "an equal to hang out with, do relationshippy stuff with, and have monogamous sex." The problems you'll have are finding a man YOU want to have sex with. They won't be physically attractive to you, you'll tire of them, and you'll just move on after a time. You won't be able to keep them with you. Either they'll move on, or you will. Because you can't bond to a guy unless he's hot enough; and you won't be able to get physically attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:49 PM
2

things are great for women. Not so great for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:43 PM
1

You should want to get married young because that's the best chance you have of getting the most you want - a man who is hot, who also can support you and loves you. You can wait to age 30 but you won't get attractive men. You can wait to age 32 to try having a baby, but you'll struggle to get pregnant and you'll probably suffer multiple miscarriages and run a high risk of having a Down Syndrome kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:32 PM
-1

Who's triggered? I'm just giving everyone the shorthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:29 PM
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I love the experience of how the ONE guy she had sex with treated her like a used dishrag, pulled out, and left her laying there like yesterday's news Yeah. And i had just realized after i typed that long summary up there: The guy who fucked and chucked her? That was the guy she picked out/was already fucking when she "opened up" the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 04:27 PM
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Doesn't matter. She's a mod under another name. Mods can circlejerk, troll, lob personal attacks, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:23 PM
1

Is ANYONE going to come on here and say their man is physically unattractive? Seriously? Shit. Every woman on here is married to a superhuman demigod, according to their descriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:20 PM
5

In this thread: "Virgin! Cuz virtue signaling!" "30 partners! Cuz virgins are unattractive men who can't get laid!" So predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:16 PM
3

You always give the best explanations. Thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:06 PM
2

Good point. the hamstering and justifications are really fun to watch, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:53 PM
2

Sheeit. There are a lot of women on this board who meet the description of "party girl from 16-20, slept with [a whole bunch] of guys". Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:51 PM
1

I'd choose the 4/10. Hands down, every time. If you pick the 4/10, how ugly does she have to be before she ceases to be preferred? I don't know , but there is a hard line, and i know it when i see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:49 PM
1

Yes. How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:48 PM
2

We have to define terms: What is meant here by "attractive"? Do we mean "what girls like to use for financial support/security/resources" or "what makes girls want to fuck"? I would have to say No, because "personality" by itself is not "attractive". Personality by itself does not make girls either accept a man for resources; or make her pussy gush.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:47 PM
1

Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:45 PM
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Men's Sphere concepts are making it into the mainstream. The two primary ones that have seeped in are 1) marriage is a bad deal for men; and 2) AFBB. (It's not called this but that's what they are describing.) The way it's described is always "fuck hot guys until they can't anymore, then settle for some nice guy to support them and get them the house and car and kids they want, treat him like shit, then divorce him and steal all his money".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 03:43 PM
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That's a good point. When she suggests opening up the relationship, she's already picked out the guy(s). Many times she's already fucked the guy. She wants moral cover though, because a woman cannot ever feel as though she's doing something "wrong". So she has to get her boyfriend/husband's "permission". Women always justify this and make it in their minds such that what she's doing is not 'wrong' because 1) everyone else is doing this 2) her boyfriend/husband/whoever gave her his 'blessing' or …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 03:38 PM
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Translation: I started losing attraction to my boyfriend so i decided i wanted to start fucking other guys but still keep his commitment and money and financial support to come back to in case i didn't find anything better to branchswing to. To give myself some moral cover and to assuage my guilt, i suggested two way open - we could both sleep with other people. That way, he can't hang anything moral over me, because after all, he's doing it too. Also, he's good looking, but a bit weird. I reall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 03:28 PM
2

"Conservative Christian" is virtue signaling. She's gunning for nice Christian guys here. This woman is the hottest piece of ass those milquetoast pussyboy church going Christians have ever even gotten to stand next to, much less be even considered for "dating". So she'll have Chris Choirboy and Paul Pulpit and Alan Altarboy fighting over her. Cuz she said she's a "conservative Christian" who at least didn't get an abortion. She's a "nice girl" who just made a deliberate decision "mistake". And …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 03:10 PM
8

You'd think a pre-med student would know how to not get knocked up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 03:02 PM
1

While we are delighted to see women visiting this sub and starting to participate in it, our bitter realization is that the concept of a redpill woman is just not practical. Can some women be trained to overcome their own nature? Yeah. Can they do it themselves? We don't think so. The way to change women is to change men first, change society and then women will change themselves. The concept of a "red pill woman" is not to "change her". As originally conceived, the "red pill women" and later "r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 02:58 PM
1

In this thread: If you don't pick the slut, you are obviously a small dicked loser who can't get laid. If you pick the slut, you're just using her. If you don't pick the prude, you're an insensitive uncaring asshole. If you pick the prude, you're obviously a small dicked loser who can't get laid. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 02:56 PM
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Women who don’t want their men to deal with them like this should not arouse suspicion and should not be cunts to their men. Men don’t demand paternity tests of women who don’t give them cause to believe paternity is in issue. If you dont want your man to think he’s not the father, don’t say or do things to make him believe he’s not the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 07:26 PM
1

Then don’t complain when he tests them behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 05:13 PM
3

That’s how I did it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 05:12 PM
3

Don’t even try to explain this to some people. They will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:54 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 04:53 AM
4

I thought you were joking with me. I see you were serious. We don’t allow shaming of men here. Take it somewhere else. Do your dance on someone else ‘s stage. You won’t be doing it here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 10:23 PM
3

Sorry you feel that way, sweetheart. Zot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 10:20 PM
4

waaah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 08:42 PM
0

I'm sure. Really. Because most men are not gay, after all; so it would stand to reason that most men in show biz are not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:16 PM
1

cost/benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:14 PM
1

why is this an earthshattering intolerable heartbreak of terror and horror from which there can be norespite Because a woman who's friends with a man she's sexually attracted to can always find another man to have sex with whenever she wants/needs that, and/or to be sexually attracted to. A man can find other women attractive; but he cannot always find another woman willing to have sex with him whenever he decides he wants or needs that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:05 PM
3

Do you think men and women can be just friends? Only if both parties are not attracted at all to each other. Even then, i question the benefit to the man of that friendship. If one party is attracted, can that person deliberately stay as a friend No or should there be no friendship if attraction exists? Yes, no friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:03 PM
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The midwest, in college. As a singer and actor. I have no idea where you're talking about people who can squash their egos. The theatre is chock full of people with enormous egos. So is any college music department. There are prima donnas and divas everywhere. Petty jealousies, people who hate each other, people envious of each other... the whole nine yards. And those are descriptions of much of the faculty, to say nothing of the participants/students. I've continued on in semi-professional capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:46 PM
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Just by law of averages, any woman who's had that much cock run through her has, or did have, at least one STD. That's to say nothing of the mental damage done to someone who did that kind of work. Though, i'm sure much of her work was getting $1000 an afternoon for having some fat 55 year old business owner sit with her and watch TV or eat room service, or give a tugjob to some 50 year old senior manager whose bitch wife hasn't even looked at him in 10 years; and didn't involve her getting jack…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 07:27 PM
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so ghey I grew up in the midwest in the 80s, where being in the high school chorus and doing plays and musicals was "gay". Same thing in college: you're a man interested in music and drama, you're probably gay. If you're a singer and actor, you must be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:22 PM
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Damn, So pubic lice is still a thing? You can get MRSA from sex? Hell, you can get that just from being around someone with it. Here's another thing physicians are noticing, but no one's talking about it: An uptick in men with HPV related throat cancers. They picked it up from eating out girls with HPV. Or they're gay men getting it from performing fellatio on other men with HPV.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 06:00 PM
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They're fine for sex. Just not fine for any kind of commitment at all. Also rule out any divorced woman who admits to cheating on her husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 05:12 PM
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Use this one as a lesson. 1) Automatically rule out anyone who's ever done any kind of sex work at all. Porn, prostitution, stripping, camgirl, whatever. They're mentally ill and damaged. 2) Notice the pic. She's 24. Looks 34. Sex work ages women. It's not so much the sex, it's the lifestyle. Most porn actresses get into coke. Numbing up with some good blow is the only way most of these women can get through having sex on camera. Or, it might go the other way- they get into porn to support a hun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 05:00 PM
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just wanna watch someone skate to the death for my heart I'm done with pump and dumps; i'm gonna make you work for the pussy. Dance like a monkey until i'm satisfied. i have a 5 month old daughter so if that scares you bye I'm clearly suffering from post partum depression. You should be scared for my daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 04:54 PM
4

"insecure bragging" why you gotta attack the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:07 PM
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Everybody is adapting Red Pill to their own purposes. It's what men do - craft individual solutions to fit their own individual needs and lifestyle choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:06 PM
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Nah. I'm the stump jumper from Flyover Country. Those people from the coasts who think "the midwest" is a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:04 PM
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Yes, you are correct. i was trying to be brief, and to me that fit under number 4, overly picky/standards too high. But that description is right on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 04:03 PM
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Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:46 PM

Just gonna sticky this. This 43 year old woman is very attractive for her age. She will get someone to wife her up if that's what she wants. But she's made clear she doesn't want that. She's made clear she wants dick. And dick is what she will get. She will attract high quality cock from very attractive men every day, all day long. High value men will be all. over. that. for quick fucks. This woman will get so much quality cock, so much pump and dump cock, so much STR/soft harem cock, she'll spe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 03:02 PM
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It's flaired CMV. We have to abide by the flairs whether you assign it or the mods do. If the mods decide it's a CMV even though you flaired it something else, it's a CMV and will be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:58 PM
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Some women in their 30s do. Most women hit the Wall in their 30s. And no woman is as attractive in her 30s as she was when she was in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:50 PM
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The women in those 5 imgur blurbs you posted? All will end up frivorcing their husbands because "unhaaaaappy" and "just didn't work out" and "just grew apart". Translated, that's "not sexually attracted to him (anymore)". Mark my words. You read it here first. I'll be the first to gleefully tell you all "I told you so".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:48 PM
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but this is a discussion thread and that's how it's flaired. If it's a CMV could someone on the mod team change the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:48 PM
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How could anyone possibly challenge this view? This doesn't even present anything with a contrary valid viewpoint. No contrary viewpoint could possibly have any validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:42 PM
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No, no they do not. No, they would not fuck gay men (except for their bodies - gay men are more fastidious and meticulous about their appearances than straight men. Gay men tend to have the actual six pack abs and muscular definition women SAY all over the place they do not like. . But when a straight man presents sexually to them and actually shows it to them behind closed doors as a prelude to the fuck, their pussies gush like Niagara Falls.) Women in the performing arts are sick to death of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:31 PM
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You know why they should get married by 25? Because that's when they are at their most sexually attractive. That is when they are most able to leverage their looks and get the best men they can. THis is when they should be picking out some man who's aged 27 to 30, on his way up in his career, and doing it with the help of her parents so as to weed out losers, nonhackers, scumbags, addicts, lazy fucks, and other men of low character.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 02:28 PM
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If he acts gay, women won't want to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:49 PM
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and as long as he doesn't act gay. Many people will think he's gay even if he isn't, merely because he's artistically inclined.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:28 PM
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I, a sexually and romantically unsuccessful 33 year old virgin who has never ever dated a man, been in a serious relationship with a man, had sex with a man, broken up with a man, had my heart broken by a man, broken a man's heart, or gotten over a man, will tell and instruct you how to get a man and conduct a relationship with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 07:59 PM
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We're not here to save women. We're here to help educate men and laugh a little. Women who want saved will have to save themselves, or hitch themselves to a quality man and toss themselves upon his mercy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 06:37 PM
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She has no problem with pump and dumps. That's what she's looking for. She's a cougar looking for hot sex with very physically attractive men, for the purposes of validation and affirmation. This is I feel really bad about myself. So I'm going to do what I always did - find a very attractive man to give me attention, make him dance, make him think he's working for the pussy, then sleep with him to make me forget how shitty my life is/the emotional pain I have because of [insert mental disorder/b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 06:29 PM
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Maybe i'm just stating the obvious. This one is a firstball fastball down to fuck cougar looking for hotbodies, affirmation and validation. This is I am a hot woman. I want some hot guys to fuck me so I can prove to myself I am still the smoking hot 23 year old girl who turned every head in the room. Right? I mean, that's what I still am, right? Come on, young guys. Bring your six pack abs and your 10 inch titanium rods and your T-drenched bodies. I need that hard dick and that attention to help…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 06:15 PM
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OMG. This is so much fun to translate. I am a 31 year old lawyer, I am of Indian extraction, I have a low paying job (relatively), and I live in the fucking boondocks. Do you fucks have any idea what it's like to be a Hindu living out here in the hinterlands? You ever tried to meet any men out here as a 31 year old Indian public interest lawyer? Shit. There isn't another desi within 500 miles. So anyway, I meet this very low value guy who's like comparable to my own low value. And i'm just think…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 06:04 PM
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When a girl gets murdered, it didn't "happen to" her. That sick bastard did it. When a girl gets knocked up, it "just happened". When a girl has a shitty sexual experience, it "just happened" to her. When a guy she goes home with pumps and dumps her and gives her an STD, it was a terrible hurtful thing that "happened to her." When she cheats on her husband, it "just happened".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 05:56 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA Merry Christmas you all. This is IT RIGHT HERE
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 05:50 PM
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Hi. Here are some photos of Chris Watts, the man who allegedly murdered his pregnant wife, unborn kid, and his living kids. (Each of these words is a separate photo. Note the last photo is one showing Watts' back tattoo. Apparently Watts had a mistress named Nichol Kessinger. She says they had "violent sex" and he would "turn into a different person" during sex. It's been suggested Watts was having, or did have, numerous affairs. Here's another selfie of his mistress(es) juxtaposed with a photo …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 05:48 PM
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All the time, guys, and I mean all the time, when a woman has made it to age 30 without a marriage proposal, it's one or more of the following: 1) She's a slut. 2) She's a bitch. 3) She's mentally ill. (i'm not talking like colloquially like cray cray weird. I'm talking personality disorder, depression, PTSD, Bipolar, addiction, alcoholism, autism spectrum. Usually undiagnosed. Something she is doing to cause her to torpedo her relationships with men.) 4) She's overly picky/standards too high. 5…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 04:59 PM
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I LOL'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:22 PM
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The view is almost accurate, but not quite. You said: Marriage is about creating an optimal environment in which you can propagate your genes and raise and develop the carrier of those genes to be the best fit for the environment for their survival and reproduction as they can be. The correct statement is: Marriage is used to be, is supposed to be about creating an optimal environment in which you can propagate your genes and raise and develop the carrier of those genes to be the best fit for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:27 PM
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This. I heard this All. The. Time. growing up. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:22 AM
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Good. This is the key: People don't have to cooperate with each other all that much to get through life anymore. You can go through life interfacing with people online, through email and text, or on phone conversations. if someone wont' do what you want, you just get rid of them and get someone else to do it, or do without, or get some online program to do it for you. I have clients who don't want to talk to me on the phone. And they definitely do not want to meet me in person. Email or texting …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:20 AM
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In general, everyone was more trusting and more cordial and polite. Because there were no cell phones, if you had a disabled car or were lost, you could stop and ask a stranger to use their phone, or you could ask directions. Those days are gone now. I would NEVER let a stranger into my house to use a land line phone (if i had one). I would never let a stranger touch my cell phone. I don't ask for directions or ask to use a phone. I don't have to, and no one else has to either. People do not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:12 AM
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Yeah. Women didn't go nuclear on you unless you were being a real dick or just plain not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:06 AM
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Yes. Very much so. For the white hetero nonhemophiliac non IV drug user community, it passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:05 AM
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AIDS was a blip on the radar. We were just born at the right place and time to be affected by it. I mean people were just losing their minds over it when i was in school. The attitudes seemed to change when the Chicken Little/Sky is Falling/AIDS Will Kill Us All predictions didn't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:07 AM
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Oh yeah, definitely. Girls understood the name of the game was to either encourage him and flirt, or make it clear "it ain't happening" or "i'm not interested" or the ever popular "Let's Just Be Friends". They made it very clear if they were interested, or if they were not. There were few true bitchcunts. There are way, way, WAY more bitchcunts now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 11:58 PM
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Yeah. In the 1980s, women were much less indulged, more responsible for their own sexuality, and at least acted like they were pickier and would make you work for the pussy. And i forgot to mention up there - women also were much more direct about saying "no". There was none of this affirmative consent, enthusiastic consent or ongoing consent. None of that bullshit. The standard was "she has to say no, firmly and clearly, and then take action to back that up." Say "no" and then leave. Say "no" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 11:55 PM
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i'm not suggesting that clubs and bars have completley gone away. People still meet there. They're still called "meat markets" for a reason. All i'm saying is that now, there's clubs, and bars, AND online dating for women. It's a literal smorgasbord for women. Whereas before they were limited, now they arent - there are thousands of attractive men who are just a swipe and a message away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 11:35 PM
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You also had to hone your interpersonal skills. If you sucked at talking to girls, you lost out. You just had to get halfway decent at it to get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 11:23 PM
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Yes. the potential pool of people available to you to date was smaller. You had no way to meet people outside your social circles other than to get into that circle somehow, either by yourself or have someone else bring you in. Online dating blew the doors off choice for women. Just expanded women's choices exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:51 PM
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i think "cheating" is normal for the divorced and remarried set, like twice or three times married. Probably not for ppl who have been married 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:29 PM
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I am 50. I grew up in the 80s. I was in high school from 1982-86 and college from 86-90. I don't think dating has changed much for top men. They have always been able to "hookup". Dating for them has been pretty much sex-date-relationship or sex/fuck and chuck. For most men in the 80s, mostly what u/57M2D2 said. For most men in the 80s, it was meet-date-relationship-sex or if you were lucky, meet - date-sex-relationship. If a girl did get physical with you on the first date it was always just he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:27 PM
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eyeroll OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:21 PM
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No, it's really not, but Okay. I disagree with you, but Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 08:19 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 07:06 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:26 PM
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okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:25 PM
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I'm fine with letting ppl do and be what they want, but let that not blind us to the general rules and principles at work. There might be good male nurses. But nursing is a generally female profession for a reason, and it is that women by and large are better suited to it. There might be some good female CEOs. But senior corporate management is generally male for a reason, and it is that men by and large are better suited to it. Edit: Wow. More downvoting. Who's triggered by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 05:30 PM
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None. It's already been tried, and it's failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 05:27 PM
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The point isn't that she's fucking a string of bad boys, necessarily. It's that she's doing it on his dime, in his house, purchased with money he earned. Shit, go fuck whoever you want. But you pay for it and you shouldn't be doing it while freeloading off the money of a man you divorced. The problem is also that she keeps the house and all the money and her lifestyle doesn't change, while he is forced into poverty. That's fundamentally unfair. What is "fair" is "wife, you live on what you make,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 05:16 PM
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DDDAAAAAAYYYYUMMMMMMMM!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 05:08 PM
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ooof
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 04:27 PM
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It's the lie to men that being Blue Pill, "woke", SJW, feminist-ally, feminist sympathizer, means you're sexually attractive. It means if you wax rhapsodic on how toned and athletic Michelle Obama's arms are; if you talk about how teh awesum RBG is, if you talk about how Blasey Ford was so wronged and how it's so bad that there is now a Justice (yessssss HAHA!!!) Kavanaugh on SCOTUS; then her nether regions will tingle for you. Riiiight. Sure. That feminist will ask you for cab fare so she can g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:25 PM
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Stolen from Tom Leykis.... Origin is the Arnold Poindexter character from Revenge of the Nerds (1984)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 04:11 PM
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The essay is and should be one of the foundational documents of the Manosphere. The manosphere is really just conventional time tested wisdom on men, women, sex and relationships, rediscovered after feminists made a concerted effort to conceal it from about 1960 to about 1995 or so. These are the same people who sold Alan Alda and Phil Donahue and the insecure neurotic nebbish Woody Allen affects in his films as "sex symbols".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:08 PM
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Aaaand you get the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:05 PM
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No. I am not required to refrain from editing my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:02 PM
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If my only options are (1) she cheats, we stay married; and (2) she files for divorce because she's unhappy, i would choose (2). What's your point here? Are you trying to get men to say " hey, OK, divorce is great and you shouldn't have a problem with women divorcing you if they're unhappy"? Men don't have a problem with the divorce. What they have a problem with is the divorce rape. (Not including caps, because they hurt ppl's feelings, and apparently everyone else here except me is allowed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:00 PM
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OK. Bye I am not required to refrain from editing my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:56 PM
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You didnt' read anything i wrote. I'm just wasting my time. OK. You go have a great day. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:20 PM
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Pfft. If you marry a slut, she won't be attracted to you. She's marrying you because she couldn't get the men she's really attracted to, to marry her. So if you marry a slut who's not attracted to you you'll get dead bedroomed. If you marry a virgin who's not attracted to you and you don't understand how female sexual attraction works, you'll get dead bedroomed there too. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. All other things being equal the slut is a worse bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:15 PM
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I am glad you have the courage to face the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 03:13 PM
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Couple of things. 1) Let's leave this for now. You've said what you have to say, and so have i. I don't agree with you, so let's leave it at that. 2) I have kept an open mind. I do listen and read. I just disagree with people. Disagreement does NOT mean "i am not listening" or "i am not reading" or "I am not paying attention". On the contrary, I DID listen, I DID read, and I DID pay attention. That's how i can disagree. Neither you nor anyone else has a right to have anyone agree with them all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:11 PM
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Pure speculation. I don’t believe in the whole “casual sex and looking for relationship at same time” thing. Girls who want marriage find quality men and get it done. Girls who want to fuck (which is most of them) are avoiding marriage. If you all want to marry you can get that done inside of one year easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:04 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:57 PM
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Now you're talking about something different. I'm not telling others their experiences are wrong. I might have told them their interpretations of those experiences are wrong. I might also have said their understanding of the effects and implications of their experiences are wrong or will not be borne out in time. I might also have told them their relationships will fail, but only because (1) time and experience shows that most relationships do fail, for any number of reasons, and (2) most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:25 AM
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I'm going to say this again. I tried it your way. I am not disparaging age or experience; I ALREADY lived through your age and I ALREADY HAD the Blue Pill experience you all are telling me is The Only Right Way To Do Anything. I tried it. I did it. I did everything your side told me to do. For the better part of 30 years -- longer than you've been alive. It didn't work. Why this isn't getting through to you, I just don't know. I am, however, not going to listen to people who have never had any k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:43 AM
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OK. I'm done. Last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:17 AM
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Why is it when other people ninja edit, no one calls them out on it, but when I do it, people have a problem with it? Atlas ninja edits all the time, no one calls her out on it. Your experiences shape your worldview. I didn't bring up your upbringing. YOU did. YOU mentioned it in a disparaging way to me. ("What, do you live in the middle of nowhere?" as if to say "doesn't EVERYONE have three houses?") That's quite telling, really. I also see from your post history that you're 25. Also telling. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:09 AM
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I do listen to them. Here, let me copypaste it for you. I said: If it all worked out for them and they never needed a Red Pill, I'm happy for them. If they don't need the Red Pill, that's awesome. I have no problem with people doing things differently. I have long been on record that not everyone needs The Red Pill. If you were lucky and you won life's lottery, good on you. If you were given that road map at birth, great. I didnt and i wasn't. I've long been on record as saying that there are pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:05 AM
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I didn't interrogate anyone. I listed your experiences and how they have undoubtedly shaped your worldview. Which they have. Certainly, someone whose parents had more than one house and had untold millions to spend on their upbringing (more than $1.5 million on housing alone) has been advantaged in ways that 95%+ of people were not, and certainly this shapes one's worldview. It IS relevant that you were brought up upper class. Answer me this: What is true is that Blues have a problem with ME and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:51 PM
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No. This thread was about some insolent 26 year old kid lecturing and pontificating to me about how to raise my son. I'm going to say again: I have no problem with people who don't need Red Pill. I've said that many many times. What actually happens here is people telling me "Red Pill is BAD BAD BAD and that means you, Lewis, are BAD BAD BAD". No, i'm not. I'm just trying to live my life and do the best I can, just like everyone else here. I just didn't get the road map at birth, I didn't come o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:38 PM
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excellent point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 11:22 PM
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I have to agree with you. The things you describe in your Ex wife are things that are different only in degree in all other women. All women have the characteristics your ex wife does/did; the issues are --to what degrees she has them --to what degrees she indulges them --to what degrees others tolerate them/allow her to indulge them --the ability of other men to tolerate/control them All women have these issues/problems. Some women overcome them. Some women harness and control them. Many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:18 PM
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Oh. Yes. The "WHO HURT YOU???!!!!!" circlejerk/personal attack that always comes out. Way to go. I was wondering when someone was going to trot that out. I don't have a problem with people doing things differently than i do. I have a problem with people telling me i should do things the way they do, when i already did, and it didn't work. I have a problem with people telling me that Blue Pill is the ONLY way to do something. I have a big problem with people presuming to tell me how i should rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 10:52 PM
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You're the one who's talking shit. You don't know anything about how to raise kids. Actually i have finished raising one kid. Try again. Look, you're boring me. A 26 year old woman who thinks she knows anything about anything is just... laughable. Married 4 years, no kids? Um, yeah. You know about taking vacations and fun weekends away. YOu don't know shit about raising kids. Get back to me after 2 am feedings and 4 miscarriages and job losses and intractable fights and making sure the kids have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 10:03 PM
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About much of anything, really. Certainly, about how to make boys into men, how to raise boys, and, well, how to raise children. Because you've never done it. I will tell you again - i've already listened to these arguments and claims. 100 times before. They were wrong then, and they're wrong now. They did not become less wrong merely because of time passage or because you and not someone else is advocating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:57 PM
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OK. You do you. You be "disturbed" all you want. You really don't know anything at all. I have already listened to the arguments you've presented. I've heard them 100 times before. They were wrong then, and they are wrong now. And they will be wrong in the future, no matter how many times and how many different ways they're advocated. I have already considered these claims, and they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:52 PM
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Well, no, actually you don't. You can't tell me to fuck off - at least you can't, and stay on this subreddit. Let's agree to disagree. You are never going to convince me you're correct. I know more than you do about this, through time and personal experience. I've already listened to your claims and arguments; they've been presented to me 100 times before by more articulate people than you are. They were wrong, and so are you. You are wrong, you have always been wrong, and you will always be wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:41 PM
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You do you. good luck. You dont' get to tell me how i should raise my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:32 PM
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Yeah, Mr. Beta Orbiter. So, you're doing this because you want to prove to Gillette that there ARE no other men out there good enough for her, so she will pick you. You're doing this so you can tell her "look, you tried, but there aren't any. HERE I AM!!" Let me tell you something, Poindexter. Gillette is NEVER EVER EVER going to sleep with you. Never. Never ever. If she were going to, she would have done it by now. I know you truly believe your white knighting and running interference for her i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 09:21 PM
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Translation: If you're not arguing with me and you're just taking my shit, it means you have no other options. If i can just push you around and make you jump on my order, you're not attractive, and i don't want to fuck you. If you are still here after i yell at you, it means you got nowhere else to go for pussy. When the hell are you going to stand up for yourself and tell me to fuck off? Dude, if you can't even get my skankho friends to fuck you, you're lame. They are ALL beneath me. I know da…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 09:13 PM
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Thanks for that well thought out comment. And yes, that guy 2 paragraphs above, he gets laid (if he is hot); while Mr. Sperg does not. Yep. But the question was how to narrow that gap, and apparently your response is "men learn how to communicate indirectly". This works only for physically attractive men. For less physically attractive men, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:04 PM
1

So you have no kids, but presume to pontificate and lecture to me about how i should raise mine. LOL. You are not a man, but you presume to tell me how to make a man out of a boy. Out of MY boy. Yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:57 PM
2

Really yes. Making and building is a form of defeating and taking. If you made it or built it, you've done it before someone else did. You've "defeated" others who also tried; and you've taken it from someone else. All that i have, i have, because i did it better than other men, and i took it from other men. If i lose something, it is because it was taken from me because someone else did it better than i did. I have my job and my money because i do my job better than others. Others who do my job…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:53 PM
1

OK. I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:47 PM
0

How many kids do you have? How long have you been married? I know my son better than you do. I know better how to raise him and what he needs taught, than you do. So thanks for your parenting "advice", but i'll stick with what i know to be true. "wait and see" is too late. Also, since you're a woman, and I am a man, i know better what boys need to be taught than you do. Women trying to teach their sons how to be men, and doing it alone after kicking their fathers out of their lives, has been an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:45 PM
3

Yep. me too. "Looks don't matter, be nice, be nicer, if you are failing it's because you're not being nice enough, etc. etc." Bullshit. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:43 PM
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Maybe he will be like you lucky people. Maybe he won't. I'm not telling him it will be easy. I'm only offering him the truth. In any event, I'm his father, so it falls to me to impart to him what i know. It's my job, not yours. So with all due respect, I'll do it the way i think is best, not the way Blues think is best. I was raised Blue Pill and it was an utter fucking disaster dumpster fire trainwreck. I'm not doing that to my son, regardless of what you think about it. Again: Life isn't fair.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:35 PM
3

Men compete with each other. You're doing so without knowing it, and other men are doing this with and to you even if you don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:34 PM
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No, the gender communication gap cannot be closed. I have often suggested that women learn to speak more directly to match men's communication style. I was told to shove off and talk a long walk off a short pier, because 1) Men are the ones who want the pussy; we have what men want and men have nothing we need. Therefore, men have to talk to us the way we want to be talked to; and we don't have to do shit other than "make minor adjustments". 2) Women are scared of men getting violent when they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:31 PM
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Women love the "nice guys are actually assholes" meme because it makes women feel better about rejecting nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:28 PM
0

Believe me - i wish you were correct about this stuff. I really do. I thought folks like you were correct. For a long, long time i did it your way. I tried everything you told me to do. I did everything you told me to do, exactly the way you told me to do it. And it failed. I failed, doing it your way. I did it Red Pill, and it worked. Blue Pill didn't work, Red Pill did work. For me. I really do wish i could have done it your way. I tried. It didn't work. I've long been on record as saying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:19 PM
2

It’s not about defeating other men for sex. It’s about defeating men at life, work, play, everything. To win. To get more land, more money, and more stuff. To get rich. To take other men’s land, money and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:14 PM
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These are people who will not acknowledge simple truths about male and female sexual nature: It is much, much easier for a woman to get sexual attention from men than it is for men to get sexual attention from women. Men's attraction filters are much wider than women's are, so more women "get through the filters" than men get through women's filters. This is because men's imperative is to spread the seed far and wide, while women's is to get the best man she can for sex and reproduction. Men - m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 05:51 PM
1

OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:57 PM
1

I just did prove you wrong. You can tell me how wrong you think I am all day long. I don't care. So you go ahead and think whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:50 PM
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No. I disagree. You are wrong. Deal with it. You're NEVER going to convince me I am wrong when I have more than 20 years experience with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:43 PM
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No. There are no misrepresentations. You said "sexual fidelity is normative, but sex is not". Therefore, according to you, I cannot expect sex, but I must pledge my sexual fidelity to the very person you've told me I am not permitted to expect sex from. I give give give, she takes takes takes. She gets what she wants; I get none of what I want. That makes no sense. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:32 PM
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My only objection is her "do as I say, not as I do" stance. It's fine for women to listen to what other women say. Since I'm not a woman, i'll pay attention to her actions, not her YouTube pontifications.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 04:29 PM
1

LOL "You have to be sexually faithful to someone you're not fucking." That is ridiculous. Prima facie bullshit. OK i'm done with this nonsense. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:26 PM
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K, if you want to believe that, you go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:25 PM
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Remember this: How many times have women told us and lectured us that if they don't respond to a text or a phone call, that's a tacit rejection? How many times have women told us to learn to read the nuances, to learn to read between the lines? Send it right back to women. Turn it around on them. MAKE THEM LIVE BY THEIR OWN PRECEPTS. "Look honey. If he's not returning texts, if he's not responding, he is not interested. He is just not into you. Let it go and move on. You don't have a right to an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 04:23 PM
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I'm not dehumanizing anyone by saying women have a specific manner in which they love men and that this is natural to them. If anything, I am recognizing and affirming their humanity in all its flaws. I disagree that women can love men for who they are. Because they do not, and I've never seen a woman actually do that. Women take a utilitarian view to men - what does he do for me, what does he bring to me, what can I get from him. This is just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:16 PM
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No, you're the one who's wrong. There is no double standard here. You are wrong from start to finish on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:13 PM
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So, sexual fidelity IS normative, but sex is not? Please explain to me how one can be sexually faithful yet not expect sex. Your position makes no sense at all, and cannot be reconciled. The statements are internally inconsistent, and we have no basis on which to proceed with this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:13 PM
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"Those guys who fucked me - it was THEIR fault! They lied to me! They used me! They tricked me into having sex with them! They told me they loved me! They told me they wanted to be my boyfriend! I didn't do anything wrong! They LIED TO ME REEEEEEEEEEEEE!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 04:10 PM
1

Agree to disagree. You have the right to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:01 PM
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On the contrary - I saw the article, and the point. Women commenting here are virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:56 PM
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You are lying about what I said. You're also lying about the nature of women. Women love men they have sex with not for who those men are; but for what those men do for them. For what those men can do for them, and what they expect those men to do. Men have a burden of performance. Women do not. Men who do not or cannot perform, lose. That's just how it is. And we do men and boys no favors when we don't tell them the truth about this. I can't accept your pie in the sky pipe dreams about what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:55 PM
2

Not what I said, and you know it. Why do you lie about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:43 PM
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Translation: --ghosting = rape --Men are required to act in good faith and fully above board at all times. Men are under a mandate to make full disclosure of their plans and intentions at all times. --Men are not allowed to keep cards close to the vest, make less than full disclosure, or serve their own interests. They must go all in, immediately. They must invest and commit all they have at once, on the woman's demand. They must slavishly serve and fulfill the feminine imperative at all times. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 03:40 PM
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I'm gonna be that one parent who won't allow his children to be lied to about the nature of sex, men, women, dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:37 PM
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---pregnant -- noncustodial single mom -- smokes occasionally -- posts photos of vodka bottles in profile -- loves partying Yeah. Looks like a good bet to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 03:35 PM
1

Reported, personal attack Not telling children the truth is child abuse. I won't abuse my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:32 PM
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I don't care if Lauren Southern had a black boyfriend or not, or whatever else. My objections to Lauren Southern and these other conservababes/ conservathots is twofold: (1) that they preach it, but don't live it. (2) the schtick seems to be "men, please don't go away! We'll be good! We'll change! We won't be hypergamous, we'll stop fucking bad boys and douches! We'll start being attracted to you nice, good guys who don't turn us on! We'll have a nice wedding and a nice marriage and a nice life …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 03:30 PM
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LOL. It's true. All you need do is look around you. What will emotionally scar a boy is not telling him the truth, and allowing him to find it out the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:18 PM
1

So, sex is not normative; but sexual fidelity IS normative? Please clarify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:04 PM
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--Men and women are different. They have different goals and life outcomes. Sex and sexual conduct affects them differently. Promiscuity affects them differently. --Marriage is a fool's game for men. Marriage is great for women. Women: Latch on to a high value guy and don't let go. Lock him down early. A high value man is the goal. Men: Put off commitment as long as you feel you need to. Women are an extra, not the goal. Never, ever commit until you find one that gives you the most of what you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:03 PM
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Debate in good faith or don't, please. That isn't a good faith accurate statement at all, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:56 PM
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This is just as RP would predict. Women divorcing their SAHD husbands because not attracted. This is pretty much what we would expect and predict. TRP confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:53 PM
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u/sirkolbath, u/moorekom, u/kevin32 please check modmail on this issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 02:51 PM
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Then answer my questions. WE ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX ON DEMAND. We are talking about sex. Respond to the questions I raised, or I won't continue this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:47 PM
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NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT SEX ON DEMAND ALL THE TIME EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY. AT ALL. I AM TALKING ABOUT SEX, NOT 'SEX ON DEMAND'. NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT OLD PEOPLE OR INJURED PEOPLE OR DISABLED PEOPLE. Can you please talk about this in good faith. Can we agree on this: "Sex AND sexual fidelity are normative in relationships". Agree, or disagree? If you disagree, then we have nothing more to talk about because your own positions are internally inconsistent and cannot be reconciled. You did not an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:44 PM
2

Their husbands are all superhuman demigods who call down thunder and lightning (very very frightening) and can deadlift 10,000 pounds. Every woman here is married to Chuck Norris.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:40 PM
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Nah, if you don't push for it and make your needs known, you won't get it in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:36 PM
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If you're saying a spouse or SO who has not agreed to a relationship where sex can be expected on demand should feel pressured into having sex when they don't want to, you're dead wrong for it. We are NOT talking about "sex on demand". We're talking about reasaonably frequent sex at reasonably frequent intervals. If you can link me to any man anywhere demanding sex when a wife is recovering from an episiotomy or a C Section or who has a 105 degree fever and projectile vomiting, provide it. No ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:35 PM
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Financial support is a "hard yes" - hard yes what? Like you're entitled to financial support even when you don't want to support them or can't? Wow, double standard much? "I, woman, am entitled to financial support from husband, but he is entitled to NOTHING from me"? Are you serious right now? I can't take seriously anyone who says "I get stuff I want from relationships; but I shouldnt' have to give anything". GTFO with that. Sexual fidelity is normative to a relationship - I agree, but it sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:26 PM
1

Not a double standard. It's called "reality".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:24 PM
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But at 19 you don't know what personality fits yours best, hell you haven't even developed it completely yet. Then why didn't you stay with him for a few extra years before getting married? My ex is a decent guy but when we moved in after a few years, we just couldn't live together. I need quiet time and peace much more than him. He needs to get attention much more than me. He couldn't stand it when I just wanted to do something for myself, I couldn't stand the fact we had guests over all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:23 PM
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Just because you're married to someone doesn't mean you're entitled to financial support, or kindness, or sexual fidelity. Just because you're married to someone doesn't mean you're entitled to that person's company. Commitment isnt' about financial support when your partner cannot or just doesn't want to. "I don't feel like working anymore, so I won't. There will be no more money from me to support us. You'll just have to deal with that." You good with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:15 PM
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Sorry, you don't get to expect me to accept anything from Blues. If a woman isn't willing to have sex with her husband, she deserves to be divorced and to be kicked to the curb, and to be as divorce raped as she would do to the husband she hates. Why would a woman EVER marry a man she doesn't want to fuck? I know why, because they do it all the time. EDIT: You're the same one who last week got yoru comments against me removed for calling me names. If you're going to go down that road again, i'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:13 PM
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The unattractive provider type who is boring and bland, and who women end up settling for when they can’t get commitment from the men they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:53 PM
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lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:03 PM
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in your opinion. EDIT: Haha the downvoting. Somebody's triggered. Wow. -6 points. You all are REALLY triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:38 PM
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Some things cannot be undone. A person cannot unfuck all the people they fucked. A person cannot go back and change the past. And the past is what makes a person who they are. They are the sum total of their past experiences - whether they want to be or not. This is why i advise men to avoid women who have been raped. I mean really raped. It is very sad and unfortunate that that happened. Even though it wasn't her fault, she's still damaged. And men should avoid her for sex and relationships. Be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 08:37 PM
1

and today, it's easier than ever to find out things about someone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 08:34 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:23 PM
1

Yes. I mean, i don't know what else to tell you. I've seen the exact same thing, both currently and looking back in retrospect. It played out exactly as Red Pill theory tells you it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:19 PM
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Heh. Why should i tell anyone this? So i can be doxxed and told that i'm full of it anyway? It doesn't matter what my answer is; i'll be told i don't understand, i'm lying, i'm full of shit, i don't know what i'm talking about, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:13 PM
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Yes, and yes. OK, well, we'll just agree to disagree because PPD isn't a representation of the real world at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:32 PM
1

I'm still not making myself clear. Why can't a young attractive woman, who is at the very zenith of her value and worth, find anyone she wants who also wants her and they're minimally compatible? Are you kidding? They're young. They're hot. They've got things to offer. They want to marry. WHY CAN'T THEY? There are men out there who want to marry. They might be older. THey might be far away. It might require you to move. There are enough attractive men out there who want to marry. IF they want it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:24 PM
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Agreed in general that most women want unattractive men to crawl away and die in a fire. The cashier was acting inappropriately with the customer. You don't talk to customers like that, if for no other reason than you've lost a customer who's weirded out by a weird pervy employee. Granted, the guy doesn't deserve to have his life ruined just because he's weird and socially awkward, but in today's day and age, that's probably what will happen. He'll probably lose his job, because it's now illegal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:20 PM
2

The ones I know who want to get married are. Precisely my point. I'm in exactly the same place - the women in their 20s who want to marry, marry. Those who don't, don't. Women who aren't getting married, aren't because they don't want to. Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:08 PM
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OK. Let me go back. I must not have made myself clear. I didn't say anything about YOU PERSONALLY. But now that you brought it up, i'll go there. If you broke up with the men that you were partnered with, then you don't want to marry badly enough. If they broke up with you, then you weren't right for each other and either you or they chose poorly. If you haven't found a man you are willing to partner up with for life, then you are like the women i was talking about - you don't want to pair up pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:05 PM
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Doesn't sound like it. I don't know that about LSTW. That might or might not be true. Or the woman picked poorly. Or whatever. I don't think it's always because "oh, she thought they were going to get married, but he cruelly dumped her". No, most of the time the woman dumps the man, because he's just not all that important or because she's decided to move on, or other things are more important, or whatever. I don't see most women in their early 20s wanting to marry. I see them dating around and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:55 PM
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what's difficult to understand is why a woman who wants someone permanently to commit can't get that or do that. I am not going to ask you personally because i constantly get accused of things i didn't do or say, and i get reported all the time for merely responding in kind, so i will not ask anything personal. A woman is reasonably attractive. She's got her head on straight. She's not overly demanding. She isn't demanding perfection. There's a lot of men out there who are available to her for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:45 PM
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Women in their 20s looking for a serious partner/LTR should be able to find one, even if he's just a beta bux. There are plenty of men looking for that in their 20s. Not most, but enough to match up and pair up with the women who want those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:26 PM
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Mostly, i don't want women to work at my workplace, because they're not very good at their jobs, they waste money and time, they can't get shit done, they don't get shit done, what they can accomplish usually has to be redone, I have to fix their fuckups, and they either (1) fight with each other and cause drama, or (2) fight with their husbands and kids on the phone, causing scenes, and wasting time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:19 PM
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Sure. And you're the girl who thinks married men have no right to sex whose fiance has acquiesced and caved to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:16 PM
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most women who find themselves single in their 30s were not consciously avoiding “partnering up” in their 20s, they just didn’t find anyone they wanted to partner up with for life. I don't understand this. How is it that women can't find anyone to partner up with by age 25? From my perspective it sure looks like they don't want to because they're enjoying the "dating around" (i.e. the carousel) too much. And shit, i don't blame women for that, to be honest - if i could have sex with pretty much …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:59 PM
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Douche game doesn't work on trad women with brains. But aloof and amused mastery game works on all women, and conventional attractiveness works on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:22 PM
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It should be "women find BS men attractive want BS men because BS attitudes and behaviors signal that a man is willing to invest and submit to being used and manipulated. It shouldn't be controversial at all anymore that women are sexually attracted to sexist, douchey behavior; and that women want (but are not sexually attracted to) benevolent "sexist" pedestalizers and supplicators for provisioning and utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:21 PM
1

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:14 PM
2

By "purple pill life coaches" he means people who acknowledge some of Red Pill but call it "hateful and "misogynist" (Susan Walsh, Dr. Nerdlove, Mark Manson); or those who want to use Red Pill to achieve Blue Pill goals (Athol Kay). Biggest example of the latter is using Red Pill because you think it will insulate you from divorce, that it will make your woman love and respect you in exactly the way you want her to all the time, and that Red Pill will remove and change a woman's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:11 PM
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Sometimes i think these just have to be fake. I mean, it can't be this easy. Evidence confirming Red Pill/Game/Manosphere precepts just can't be this glaringly obvious. Can it? Let's translate just for shits and giggles. My boyfriend and I are very happy together and are going on for a year. He treats me like a queen and we have such a good time together. He’s probably the most genuine, golden hearted, loyal person I know and I would be a fool to let go of him. My new boyfriend is a Nice Guy who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 03:56 PM
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OverheardUber, 6 months from now: This is so boring. Why can't i find a guy who's worth fucking? 1 year from now: So i tried that OC swiping right thing, and there's no one around. 2 years from now: Mom, oh shit, I'm 36 and yeah, the last 3 "boyfriends" (read: FWBs) didn't work out. Well, um, i dunno. You know anyone back at home in Nebraska? 3 years from now Mom, guess what? Poindexter and i are getting married! We're moving to Palo Alto soon to be closer to his job. 5 years from now: Mom, yeah…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 03:30 PM
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Of course they're getting angrier. Think about the men they have to turn away. Think about the treatment they get from the men they have sex with, who are the only ones who can manage/handle them. (Again - you don't have relationships with women like this. YOu handle them. You manage them. Most men cannot do this.) No one wants to have a relationship with them. NO man CAN have a relationship with them. They're totally unfit for relationships. These women cannot and will not do the give and take …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 03:16 PM
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Laws on marriage and divorce, child custody, family relations, et al are governed under state law. So we have 50 separate legal systems on that subject matter. Federal courts and Congress just don't want to get involved in that. Congress really can't legislate in that area very well other than to pick at it around the edges (VAWA, for example). Federal courts constantly turn away constitutional issues surrounding family relations actions/decisions by state courts. No fault swept across the natio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 03:02 PM
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what subreddit was this posted in?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 02:58 PM
2

Looks like satire and trolling to me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 01:54 PM
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I’m happy to do that. I just wish Blues would accommodate Reds, and realize that not everyone led the charmed lucky lives they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:24 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:20 AM
1

Yep pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:39 AM
1

Sigh....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:01 AM
2

If women don’t need men, why are so many women screaming about needing “good men”? From what I’ve seen of most women, they can barely regulate their emotions long enough to get through a day. 25% of them are Being treated for mental illnesses. They can’t seem to keep relationships going or pick decent men to have anything more than a series of pump and dumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:40 PM
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You have no evidence. Ergo the entire exchange is worthless. It’s not about on the internet. You yourself are fond of asserting “no proof, no credibility”. You don’t get to complain when you get hoisted on your own petard. Edit : It’s really funny how people here get so triggered and I get downvoted. So triggered; so unable to face the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:20 PM
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The entire exchange began with you making an affirmative claim at your top level comment. Which claim was asserted without evidence. You have failed to carry your burden of proof and your burden of going forward with evidence. That which is asserted without evidence need not be responded to or refuted with contrary evidence. Edit: Why so triggered and downvoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 07:16 PM
1

Most men do feel this way about their women. Here’s the thing - and read carefully because you really need to understand this. So read this as many times as you need to to get it — you women have to earn it and be worth it.. She earned it. Most women don’t. She’s worth it. Most women aren’t. In before “hurr durr but yeah cuz you see only low value wimminz hurr durr incel ugly low value shitbag guys”. Don’t even give me that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:37 PM
0

Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:15 PM
2

Lololol “No, you!!!!!” Stupid. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:55 PM
1

Lol. “No, you!!” You’re even more ridiculous than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:54 PM
1

You’re ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:51 PM
0

You just can’t disagree withoutcpersonal attack. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:50 PM
0

Because you’re the one making the affirmative claim. You therefore bear the burden of proof and the burden of coming forward with evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:51 PM
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We wouldn’t be astounded that women want to be single when so many of you are screaming from the rooftops demanding that men give you everything you want. The reason we comment about women shrieking about demanding men is that so many of you are shrieking about demanding men. The few women like you who don’t care are outliers. And you’re the same ones who think if you were men you’d just “be kind and just be confident” as if it takes no effort at all. Sure. Just more bullshit from you. Worthless…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:19 PM
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That’s great for her. Not great for the men. No man wants a woman who’s with him because “you’re better than being single. You’re better than cats. You’re better than admitting to the sisterhood I couldn’t get anybody”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:15 PM
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Saying the same shit over again only more insulting, doesn’t prove anything. You’re a waste of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 03:06 PM
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You’ll need to link to where I, personally, have said that. That’s not something I believe or espouse, here or at WAATGM.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 02:57 PM
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No. You were banned because, like most posters here, you have nothing of value to offer there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 02:56 PM
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Goal post moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:21 AM
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We rely on incomplete data all the time. Everyone does. It is not toxic. You do the best you can with what you have. I absolutely will generalize. Generalizations are such because they are generally true. That’s how they become generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:19 AM
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Sure. Maybe once. Not 10, 20, 30 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:16 AM
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It absolutely is based on potential outcomes. It’s “I’m afraid this is t going to work out because she Is not attracted to me, will lose attraction for me, will cheat on me, and cannot bond with me”. This is clearly based on past experience, tens of thousands of anecdotes, and CDC data about promiscuous women. I am very afraid that a woman’s past will affect my future relationship, because it almost always does. This is evidence based. Women With high N usually have serious mental and emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:13 AM
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Yes it is. That is exactly what’s being discussed and we men know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:06 AM
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Lots of words to say “I disagree with you”. Perhaps you’re feeling a bit convicted. Better get that looked at. Edit: Downvoting? So triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:04 AM
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Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 11:46 PM
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And: "A woman is supposed to take care of her man and I won't accept anything less than that."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 11:01 PM
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I am very old fashioned and I expect you to fuck me. I expect you to fuck ONLY me, no questions asked. A woman is supposed to take care of her man and I won't accept anything less than that. I am very old fashioned and I expect you to cook and clean for me no questions asked. A woman is supposed to take care of her man and I won't accept anything less than that. I am very old fashioned and I expect you to have my babies, as many as I want, no questions asked. A woman is supposed to take care of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 11:00 PM
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"There's nothing wrong with you; you just keep picking the wrong guys." ???? Um.... Women who pick the wrong guys have things wrong with them. That's why they pick the wrong guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:32 PM
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I'll see if I can find it and will send it to you. If it is not removed I'll report you to Reddit admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:31 PM
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warts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:19 PM
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Google Amy Horton and check out Redonkulas' video. Check out other MGTOW videos. Amy Horton is a former actress turned author who's put out a couple of videos lamenting her shitty dating life. She --cheated when she said she wouldn't. --contracted genital warts. --complained constantly about men pumping and dumping dating and ghosting her. It's truly entertaining. Check it out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:19 PM
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Because she was young hot and made a lot of mistakes deliberate decisions to fuck douchebags and assholes and badboys and now she's old with Einstein level IQ desperate for anything she can get and ready to settle downpop out one designer kid that might or might not be the man she marries, ok? FIFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:15 PM
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I'm not necessarily talking about you personally. I think that this is generally true about most women in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:04 PM
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I agree with the "divorce and move on" bit. I don't agree with the rest of it. There's some unresolved issue that led her to accept a mismatched man. And she will continue to have said problems until that issue is identified, addressed, handled and resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:51 PM
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This is why women lie about their Ns. Because they know men don't like it. Because they know men do not want to commit to women with high Ns. Women want to act like slut whores. But they don't want men to perceive them as slut whores. This is why women shame men who object to wifing up sluts. This is why you see all the elaborate defenses and justifications and workarounds for slutbags who now offer themselves up as wife material after spending anywhere from 5 to 15 years avoiding being wife mat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 09:49 PM
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video link is broken. Other link?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 09:45 PM
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ORiginal, new, factory MSRP sticker price.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 09:45 PM
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There are mental/emotional problems there. that's what you're missing. There's more to it than just "made a mistake, it just didn't work out, we grew apart". Yeah, no. I don't accept that. Why did you get married in the first place if you didn't want to? You listened to other people instead of paying attention to what you wanted? Immaturity? Grow up. Financial stress? Make it work. Infidelity? Yeah, but - why did one or both of you cheat? Why did one or both of you think that cheating was a "sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:42 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:33 PM
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YEah; i'll engage when you stop with your "it's all men's fault, TRPers are such loooooozzeerrrrss" screeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:32 PM
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Yep. That's the world women wanted; that's the world we have. Great job, women. Great job, feminists. Great job, feminist sympathizers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:29 PM
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And in THIS instance we are talking about WOMEN and their N counts. If you want to talk about men's issues, don't, because all the world, all the news, all day every day 24/7/365, is always all about how men are doing this and aren't being that and won't do the other thing and how that hurts women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:28 PM
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This is rich, especially coming from a nonredpiller. Nonreds and blues are constantly excoriating Reds for allegedly not relying on Science! And now someone has finally said "here's some Science! that supports Red views". Your response? "Science! is toxic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:27 PM
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Men will when women will. Stop giving it away for free and stop bitching about the fact that high value men only pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:24 PM
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OK, but let's not pretend that she's having casual sex only because she just likes it. There are some problems there - why did she get married young? Why divorced young? These women need to own their shit and get it handled. It can't be fucked away. It has to be addressed and handled and resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:24 PM
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You're welcome. I don't want you to feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:22 PM
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a few girls I knew had Ns by the end of 8th grade. Probably half the girls I knew from high school (graduated 1986, I know, I know, 3 billion years ago lol therefore totally irrelevant, right) had Ns.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:21 PM
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Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. It's pretty well established that casual sex affects men and women quite differently. Men and women are not the same. Deal with it. Accept reality. Edit: Have you retracted your libelous statement about me yet over at r/thebluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:18 PM
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And then divorce each other and make each others' lives a living hell. Yeah. great world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:17 PM
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But you can be certain that much of the data does not apply these days. Why? How can we be certain that your personal opinion is concrete fact? The women who sleep with 3-10 men before marriage were able to procure a higher quality man for marriage. Not necessarily. They might have been more accepting of the man they actually got. "Fucked more guys" does not necessarily mean "able to get higher value man". The problem with promiscuous women as bad marriage prospects has less to do with her fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:15 PM
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But your personal experience can't be extrapolated to all women everywhere. Nor do I think it's typical. What's more typical: Woman has mental problems, uses sex to "fill the holes" in more ways than one. Why? Because she can. Because sex and attention from men makes her feel better and helps her numb up from the mental and emotional pain. She does this instead of actually addressing the shit from her past, examining her own role in it (this is key - women have a very very hard time accepting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:12 PM
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No. Guess who gets to unpack that baggage? The guy who gets stuck with his nutcase basket case wife/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:06 PM
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Using this as automod since it's not here. In this thread: "Pay no attention to those facts behind the curtain! YOu can fuck 10,000 men and be good to go for marriage! No problem at all! It's just insecure pussyboys who can't handle that I took on a whole football team AND the opposing team! No ill effects AT ALL!!! "REMAIN CALM! ALL IS WELL!! Move along, nothing to see here....."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:05 PM
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In this thread: "You men are making me feel bad that you don't like high N men! You are required to like, date, love, and marry us high N women so that we will not feel bad!" "Rejecting high N women causes feel bad! It's hatespeak! It's thoughtcrime! Men are NOT ALLOWED to reject high N women ! Rejecting high N women makes them feel bad, and that means YOU MEN ARE BAD!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:57 PM
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Her own past history. She hasn't been able to make it work with 20 odd other men (that she will admit to). Why am I different?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:52 PM
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You're arguing that "it makes me uncomfortable" is the same thing as "I am insecure". First you say it's perfectly valid and not unreasonable; but then you launch into your shaming language with "that's YOUR problem, you're disingenuous, it's a myth, the real problem is you're insecure because you don't like it and that's why it's negative - just because you don't like it". No. Either "I don't like high N because I'm uncomfortable with it" is valid, or it isn't. What is your stand? Is it valid, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:41 PM
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Not what I said and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:59 PM
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I just remember that from that old movie "An Officer and A Gentleman".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 08:22 PM
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I see. It's always the man's fault that she can't be bothered to spend 15 minutes with her husband having sex. It's always the man's fault that she can't uphold her end of the marital bargain. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:18 PM
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why
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 08:14 PM
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yeah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 08:03 PM
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When I finally said something about it she responded with the idea that I was a "nice guy" because I had nothing else to offer. That's the thing. When you say something about it, in her eyes you're a butthurt little bitch NiceGuy and she loses all attraction for you if she ever had any. So you know - if she's talking about him like that with the eye twinkle and the faraway wistful look, or even "what an asshole", you're dealing with a girl who is still attracted to him and is settling for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 07:51 PM
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Cuck porn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:43 PM
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For whatever it's worth, I agree 100%. Women have companionship from men, whenever they want it, however they want it. It might not be the best, but they can still get it, whenever they want. If she wants to get laid, she can get that done. She can decide "I'm having sex tonight", and it WILL Happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:27 PM
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You and u/the_calibre_cat are both correct and incorrect. Women will still marry, but they'll keep doing AFBB. They'll insist on open marriages. "Monogamish" marriages. They'll have their beta bitchboi husbands for marriage "partnership", and alpha studs for sexual pleasure. The marriages are conventional in most ways except that she is free to fuck other men. Beta husband gets sex sometimes, when she feels like it. In more and more cases, the wife will insist that alpha stud move in, and beta h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:13 PM
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No thanks, BiggerD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:26 PM
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Only because YOU (the royal "you") DON'T SEEM TO GET IT OTHERWISE.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:24 PM
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Jesus Christ the circlejerking. There's so much of it people are splattering all over this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:23 PM
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If you're too cunty to be useful to your husband, if you can't be bothered to spend 15 minutes having sex with your husband, then yes, no marriage, no kindness, no financial support and no sexual fidelity for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:22 PM
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Yep. You get it. I am not here to be treated like shit and abused and sex-deprived for the privilege of writing checks and paying bills. I am not a utility or a major appliance and I won't be treated like one. I'm also not "just another child" she has to deal with. She wants my resources, she wants the title of "wife", she has to meet my standards. And if she can't or won't she is gone. End of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 06:12 PM
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That's all we're asking for - meet us halfway. We've done our part. Now you do yours. So, really, what you're complaining about is not the concept; it's the words used to express it. Makes sense, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:02 PM
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does the dorm or the college have exercise rooms? You could use those. When I was in school they were free. Any resident of the dorm could use them, free of charge, from about 7 am to about 10 pm, every day. The university had a health and wellness center you could use, also free. Look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:58 PM
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Good. Go and do as you have said. A membership is worth it. Spend the money and get one. Maybe you can buy some used weights or an exercise machine. Another thing I want to tell you: It is in women's nature to make everyone around them serve their interests, through overt means if possible (asking, cooperating) and through covert subversion if necessary (manipulation, fraud, deceit, subterfuge). That's what your mother is doing - she has gotten you and everyone else around her to do and be what …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:54 PM
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Several things here. --you're only 18. You haven't even really started your upward attractiveness trajectory yet. --if you can possibly do it, move out and go live with your father. You could use a positive male role model. You also need to get away from the abuse. You might have to just sacrifice your relationship with your mother. Sometimes, when we self improve and do things to make our lives better, some people have to be removed and cut off. Sometimes the people who must be cut off are clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:50 PM
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excellent post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 05:39 PM
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When PoundMeToo goes away and dials back its ridiculousness, we'll stop talking about it and we'll stop calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:38 PM
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It is not the NATURE of male aggression, but the proper time, place, and form of its expression that is under scrutiny. But what feminists and most women are saying is that for most men, there is no proper time, place or form for its expression, AT ALL, EVER. That's the whole "masculinity is toxic" meme that's circulating now. It's also less about the expression of masculinity and more about the kinds of men and the attractiveness levels of the men expressing that masculinity. Because today, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:34 PM
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Yes. Which is why I said men have a right to know whatever they want to know about a woman when she starts demanding commitment and exclusivity. Because a demand for those things is ok, man, it is now time for you to start paying up for the sex I've been giving you. It is time for me to get all the access to everything you have, all the time. You have a right to condition that commitment and exclusivity however you want to. You have a right to know what you are "purchasing" with that commitment …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 05:24 PM
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Take what she tells you and double or triple it, and now you have a good idea of her actual N.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 05:20 PM
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I think women do start caring about figuring out all this relationship stuff. Is it too late sometimes? Sure it is. RPW wasn't intended to be an ideology or progression of self. The Red Pill isn't an ideology. It's a set of tools and precepts, what was common knowledge about men and women going back to Biblical times but carefully wallpapered over by feminists and other evildoers because "mean" and "asshole" and "equality" and other BS. RPW was intended to help women keep their relationships wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 05:16 PM
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You were lucky to have gotten that instruction in grade school. Good on whoever sat you down and taught you that. I find the translation helpful, and so do some other guys, I think. Even if it's not "helpful" or is unnecessary, it's funny, and we aims to entertain too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 04:17 PM
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It's always a combination of the above. Whenever you read about it or ask some single mom/divorced mom about it, you always get some version of the fill in the blanks. Know what's missing from it? Her role in all of it. Ever noticed that single/divorced moms NEVER EVER did anything to produce their predicaments? They NEVER EVER did anything that caused the demise of their relationships or caused their babydaddys to skip out on them? It's always the babydaddy's /ex husband's fault. All this bad s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 04:14 PM
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Here's a photo of the lovely and gracious Ms. Teague, with a painting of her supposed "husband". Let's see. --10,000 cock stare. --works as a Jack Sparrow impersonator. She impersonates a man. --claims to talk to ghosts. --claims to have had sex with a ghost. Yep. Psycho. EJECT EJECT EJECT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 03:24 PM
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HAHAHAHA This is even funnier than the women who marry themselves!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 03:20 PM
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Zot. This place is not for you. Move along now, sweetie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 03:03 PM
3

your being on a hookup app looking for a partner with another man’s spawn growing inside you! Gross. Just... GROSS.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 03:02 PM
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Everything except she didn't have sex with Boaz before they got married. I was corrected down there....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 02:56 PM
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Woman: How tall are you? Man: You're shallow Woman: HEY FUCK OFF ASSHOLE. I can have any requirements I want. I want a man who's over 6 feet tall and all other men can fuck off. Man: How much do you weigh? Woman: YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE NONE OF YOUR GODDAMN BUSINESS I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU WOULD ASK ME THAT YOU SHALLOW MOTHERFUCKER Man: Hey FUCK OFF BITCH. I can have any requirements and standards I want. I want a woman who's not morbidly obese. All morbidly obese women can fuck off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 02:56 PM
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"Long story on what the dad did" Yeah. You have to just fill in blanks here. My baby daddy/ex husband is an asshole/a drunk/a drug addict/a layabout good for nothing broke ass punkbitch/a cheat who beat me/abused me/left me/said mean things to me/won't support me/stole all my money and spent it on booze and drugs/cheated on me and was mean to my mom/got locked up/lied to me/is married to someone else and didn't tell me/I hate his family/his family hates me So I Took him to court/fucked him over …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 02:49 PM
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Yep. that's what I've figured out....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 02:39 PM
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I don't think it should be. Here is why it persists. read the comments. Women demand marriage for two reasons: (1) status, and (2) legally enforceable claims on men's resources. She wants to be able to show the feminine social matrix that she could get a guy to commit to her. She knows that the FSM confers higher status on married women - even if she married a worthless beta, even if she didn't want to be married to him, even if she hates his guts and abuses him. "I got a man to commit to me. Su…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:36 PM
1

No. There is no such thing as alpha and beta women. The hierarchy is Stacy, Becky, Jane, Martha. Stacy: Hot girl. hotter than a thousand suns. Becky: Basic bitch. Above average attractiveness. Frenemies with Stacy. Jane: Most girls. Average women. The world is at least 50% Janes. Almost all women can make it to Jane status with some effort. Some Janes can become Beckys. Martha: Below average attractiveness. Fatties, uggos, goths, weirdos, basket cases, freaks. Almost all of them could be Janes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:22 PM
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sounds kinda pointless without a goal. which is the entire life situation of your average 23 year old noncollege graduate thot. "Pointless, without a goal" other than getting drunk, getting stoned, getting high, and getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:18 PM
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This is fine as far as it goes. What you're ignoring is that she can still hook up with a guy from the bar/club. It just depends on how she feels, how certain men "strike" her, and what she's looking for. If she is at the bar/club with her grrrrlfraaands, and an attractive man is there, and he starts running Game on herthey strike up a conversation, and they get along together, and she is "feeling it", he picks her upshe goes home with him. Sure I know you said something about it up there, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:15 PM
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Anything you do with someone of the opposite sex that you are deliberately concealing, and taking steps to prevent your partner from discovering because you don't want your partner to know about it, is cheating. Apply that standard to any situation you like, and you will have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:11 PM
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Ever heard of divorce rape? Ever heard of family courts and judges ramming spike studded baseball bats up men’s asses? Ever heard of men not seeing their kids again? Ever heard of female agency? If she’s not fucking him, obviously she isn’t happy. She’s the one who started this. She should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:25 PM
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If that’s what she has to do, so be it. She brought this on herself. She has to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:07 PM
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Rules for you rules rules rules for you You must do this for me and get this for me and here are all the rules and boundaries and standards for you and you must bring this and do that and plan the other thing and figure out everything and buy me this and get that...... While I do nothing. While I bring nothing. While I give you nothing. While I offer nothing. I want all the benefits of being a trophy wife with none of the obligations of being a wife. I want all the benefits of feminism AND all t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 09:50 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. They also always had so many men slobbering all over them, that they didn't need to put in any effort to keep a man. Yes. By contrast, most men have had to work their ever loving asses off just to get somebody interested in him. Most men have worked their tails off just to keep mediocre, relatively unsatisfying relationships going. Men have lots and LOTS of experience forging and sustaining even crappy relationships. Why? Scarcity mentality: Men know what they had to d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 09:21 PM
-1

I'm not American so things might work differently here. That explains much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:46 PM
3

Very well then. War it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:30 PM
0

LOL and you're married? You've never had sex with, dated, or been in serious relationships with any of them AS A MAN, though. So, yeah, lesbo relationships are quite different from male-female relationships. So as long as we're going to personally attack each other: Now I know you really don't have any idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:29 PM
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Free Willy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 08:04 PM
2

How do people like this even get together? I mean, I get the usual "fucked 20 hot guys but couldn't get commitment from them now have to settle for boring beta" . That I get. I don't get "am into all kinds of kinky shit but somehow ended up with Gary Gamma who wouldn't know a pussy if he saw it on a porno". How does this happen?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 08:03 PM
0

No...stop conflating no sex at all and particular sex acts she doesn’t consent to at that moment. You don't get to tell me how to characterize an argument. Do you buy every identical purchase for your current woman that you did for your ex? Are you fucking kidding me? I've been married to her for 22 years. I've spent north of $1.5 MILLION on her, supporting her and our kids. DO NOT even come at me with this bullshit. No he’s not entitled to anything she doesn’t agree to, I do agree that it’s abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:49 PM
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I have no idea what point you're trying to make here Are you saying men are supposed to know that certain women are attracted to them and that those women aren't responsible for how they respond to that attraction? Are you saying men should do something about the fact that these women are attracted to them? What do you expect them to do? How can you say women cannot be actors when they're attracted to certain men? Can they not decide to act, or not act, on that attraction? I mean, women are attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:35 PM
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But you’re wrong that the woman is required to do certain sex acts, regardless of if she likes them or did them before, just because he wants to. That’s really messed up and entitled. Nope. He IS entitled. He's the HUSBAND. If there is ANY man she should be doing giga anal for, it's the HUSBAND - the guy who actually bought the cow. Husbands are entitled to sex from their wives. Period. Full stop. Any woman who believes her husband is not entitled to sex from her is unfit for marriage and should…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:32 PM
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OK. Don't want to answer. That's OK. How many women have you dated? How many have you had sex with? How many women have you been in serious relationships with? How many women have you been married to? I think that watching women work in relationships, dating and fucking women, and being married to one for 22 years, gives me as good an idea as I need of how women work. So, yeah. I'll believe my lyin' eyes on this one, over the word of pixels on a computer screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:25 PM
1

OK. I don't think so, but OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:17 PM
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Where good menz On your last graf on Red Pill Women: The original purpose of RPW was actually a pretty good one: To get women to use Red Pill concepts to take care of the men they have. It was an effort to help women stop acting like bitches and stop doing things that torpedo their marriages and relationships (gee, where have we heard THAT before?), to stop picking alpha fucks and expecting them to act like beta bucks (Wow. Can I help?), and to get women to either accept their BB husbands or cut…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 07:17 PM
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I was being facetious. It's not a conspiracy. I think that YOU, personally, are generally telling the truth when YOU talk about what YOU find attractive for sex or a long term partner. What most women will not admit to is: 1) What they find attractive for sex is very, very different from what they want in a long term partner. 2) What they can get for long term partners is not usually as attractive or good as they can get for sex partners. 3) They are SEXUALLY attracted to sex partners; and NOT s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:08 PM
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OK. I don't agree with you, but that's your opinion. So, are you saying it IS a grand conspiracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:57 PM
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all those little jabs were the ten thousand wounds that chipped away at his sexual desire for her. At first, he plowed ahead anyway while still trying to communicate the seriousness of the situation to her for the thousandth time without issuing threats. When his pleas continued to fall on deaf ears, eventually he loses interest in her. Some men lose interest altogether, other will still acquiesce when she asks for it. He stops begging, he stops asking, he makes no moves on her at all. He finall…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 06:49 PM
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And when that shit happens there are equal and opposite reactions and no one is immune from them. Not even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:52 PM
3

Women figuring out new ways to destroy their relationships and fuck up their lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 05:37 PM
2

You're delusional yourself, since you seem to think that real world consequences don't apply to you. OK. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:36 PM
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Yep. Fake it till you make it. Fake it until you get to a place where you're no longer faking it. If you can't do that, you should cut the guy loose and just end it. If you can't do that, you don't give a shit about your husband and you deserve to lose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:22 PM
2

Men need sex, especially from their wives, and that support HAS to be communicated nonverbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:21 PM
2

Five years. Unmarried. Either of you could leave anytime. No kids. Your relationship has never been truly tested. No, not everyone is me. Not everyone knows what I know or has the experience I have. But they will, sooner or later. Just as you will. I don't "need" to do anything some five-year unmarried relationship inexperienced man tells me. get back to me when your "wife" has been through a couple of miscarriages. Get back to me when you've been through, together, a job loss, parents die, taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:18 PM
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No, I live in the real world, where words mean things and where promises must be kept and obligations must be met and where actions have consequences. That's how people, relationships, and all of society work. Words mean things. Don't let your mouth write checks your body can't cash. Don't take on obligations you cannot or will not meet. Don't make promises you won't keep. What you say and do matters. What you say has consequences. What you do has consequences. Every one of your actions produces…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:15 PM
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She isn't going to pursue sex; you will have to. You're the man, you initiate.... Ah never mind. You'll learn soon enough. You save that post up there, and remember what I told you. Lotsa luck. You're gonna need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:10 PM
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Does your spouse to be know that you won't sleep with them when you don't feel like it; but will at the same time demand financial support even when they don't feel like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:05 PM
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And if a woman really feels that way, she felt that way BEFORE she married him and she never should have married him in the first place. That's on her. And if she really feels that way, she should cut him loose because she's a selfish bitch who cares only about herself and not for a man she made promises to and took on obligations to. So, yeah. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:04 PM
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You also are making a shitload of assumptions (Sex slave, "socially harmful", relationships doomed) I've been married for 22 years. You have never even been married ONCE. I know a wee bit more about this than you do. But yeah, you go ahead and tell me about how married life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:02 PM
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The specific problem I mentioned doesn't work for ANYONE because men cannot solve their wives' internal problems and character defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:01 PM
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If you think that you will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS, every single day of your life, very very much want want want to do all the things you promised your spouse you would do, you have a very, very rude awakening coming. If you think that married life will be a neverending bed of rose petals and burning incense, where you never ever ever have to do anything you do not want to do, I pity you, because you will be sorely, sorely disappointed. If you think your spouse will never ever let you down, never p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:58 PM
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Wives need to bother keeping the promises they made and executing their obligations to their husbands, that's all there is to it. Oh yes you can make it work and fix it. Make it work and fix it, or end it. He'll just cheat or leave, if she won't do her job. Most of the time it wasn't just him who "broke it". They both broke it. They both have to do their parts to fix it. He does his; she does hers. Problem here is the man keeps working and trying; but she won't do her part. THAT is the problem. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:53 PM
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OK. Then, let's get divorced, and you can support yourself, and I'll support myself, and i'll fuck other women. I'll spend the money on hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:52 PM
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No. That's not a good analogy. A better analogy is She wants me to support her financially, and sometimes I don't feel like it. But I do it anyway because she needs it and wants it, because I care about her and the marriage, and because I find that it brings satisfaction. Also, I agreed that that would be one of my jobs, one of my obligations. So I do it. I do not get to say "nah, I don't feel like it, so there's no mortgage money or food money this month. Too bad, so sad. But, just like you did…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:49 PM
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How does talking solve her complaints? I've found it does not. I've tried it. Doesn't work. Just gets her more pissed off and she finds more things to complain about, especially things I can't solve. The problems are hers, within her, and I cannot solve them. She doesn't get to say "I have this problem within me that has nothing to do with you, husband, but because you are my husband I am laying it at your feet. Now fix it." No. I'm not going to deal with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:46 PM
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Someone else's arousal isn't just a given that can be relied upon no matter what. There's times when no matter how deep you reach there's no more arousal to find. Spend too much time trying to find arousal once this point is reached and all you're doing is becoming acutely aware of how lacking in attractiveness your partner is, exactly how they kill your ladyboner, and exactly how they don't give a shit that they kill your ladyboner so long as they can still get laid. Tough fucking shit. She pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:42 PM
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The guy needs to stop caring about whether she orgasms. She is responsible for her own orgasms. She's responsible to tell him what she likes and what gets her off. I'm not looking for her orgasm, not anymore. I'm there to get what I need, and for her to tell me what she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:32 PM
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I can't believe this even has to be a topic. Don't women know this already? Don't women know their men need sex? Actually, now that I think about it, it needs to be a topic, simply because so many women and Blues just do not give a shit about men who need sex. On the one hand we ask men to be more open, intimate, emotionally closer.....and then we demand they don’t get upset if we’re “not in the mood.” Can’t have it both ways ladies Yes. You women also do not get to say "I will not have sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:31 PM
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I'm a man, and I would rather have sex than endless talking and talking about this or that or the other thing, particularly about all her complaints. Talking really doesn't solve anything for male-female relationships. If you're in constant problem-solving mode, you have a bad marriage. You need to do. you need to have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:29 PM
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fake it till you make it. So she doesn't feel like sex. She should do it anyway. Do it because her husband needs and wants it. Do it because she cares about him. Do it because she cares about her marriage. Do it because she just might find that the more she does it, the more she likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 04:27 PM
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To the dilrod who reported this: This is not "targeted harassment at someone else". This is a comment on a public post put on a public website containing information the poster decided to make public about herself. If you post a photo of yourself on a dating/OLD/meetup/advertisement site, and you write things about yourself using your real photo, and you do so PUBLICLY, you have no privacy interest in it and it becomes public fodder for people to discuss publicly. No names are used. No identifyi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 02:43 PM
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You just can't win sometimes. If you mention liking a woman and saying "don't want to be used as an emotional tampon", it's Well, you're a pussyboy for not asking her out. You should have asked her out. You don't get to say shit about this if you didn't sack up and man up and express your sexual interest, boldly and unapologetically. Then you say "yes, I did, and she LJBF'd me." Well, then she either 1) wants to be your genuine friend, or 2) is telling you she doesn't want to fuck you and is sav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 02:24 PM
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u/poppy_blu I know you hate me and you probably won't read this. I summoned you here in hopes you'll actually read this, because this is a complete answer to your question. But, I won't be surprised if you ignore this, or read it and then lash out at me. Women are not "conspiring" with each other in a mass disinformation plot to mislead and lie to men. It's not an evil plot. Women do this individually and collectively by training, because 1) They don't want to look like shallow superficial bitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 02:04 PM
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Well, yeah, I doubt very much that catholic wives were doing oral either.... But yeah, a lot of this is also Calvinist sexual/family/work/life ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 10:29 PM
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Yes this is what I'm asking. I haven't met a married women who has this mindset. It's a "sometimes" thing. Not a "all the time" thing. Are you kidding? I think many, if not most, women today have sex with their husbands even when they're not in the mood, because they know it's good for the marriage and for both of them. They do it because their husbands want to and they care about and love their husbands and want to do it for their husbands, if not for them or their marriages' overall health. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 10:08 PM
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That's a message I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 10:03 PM
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Right. Because talking to their wives solved the issue. (NOT). If talking solved the problem, MRP and the manosphere would not exist. Those guys tried EVERYTHING, including talking, and nothing worked. NOT talking is what works. DOING is what works. withholding attention is what works. Self improvement is what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:59 PM
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that's not the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:58 PM
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Wives were absolutely not expected to go down on their husbands, to do anal, to do threesomes, to do anything degenerate. aren't you really talking about Roman Catholic sexual ethics here, ie that all sex is supposed to be procreative or at least have the possibility of procreation? That's why the man is not supposed to ejaculate anywhere other than inside his wife's vagina, no anal, no oral, no masturbation not even within marriage, etc. - ? And how that bled over into cultural mores? Not so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:55 PM
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That's actually pretty reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:52 PM
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What are you asking here? Are you asking whether most women view marital sex the same way you do - i.e. that you're not always in the mood but you have sex anyway because you know it's good for the marriage and for him and for you? Are you asking if it's always been this way? Also for men, would you actually find satisfaction if your women fulfilled your sexual desires even when she wasn't always in the mood or would you feel like it's not worth it if she isn't turned on every time? Yes, I, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:51 PM
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Uhhh, no, men do not want to see well endowed black men fucking white women. Blacked.com isn't for men. At least, not for white men, who consume the most porn by far. I would bet the audience for BBC porn is black men, and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:45 PM
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when I was talking about "sacrifice" in that comment you're replying to, I was talking about her general attitude toward sex with him. I was talking about a situation in which the wife is NEVER in the mood for sex, is "low libido", or unattracted (which is the case most of the time in marriages where this is a problem). All married women have had sex with their husbands where they weren't particularly "feeling it" at that moment. No, they're not in the mood, but they do it anyway because he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:41 PM
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I am not talking about you, personally. I am talking about the hypothetical situation where she supports him but doesn't fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:08 PM
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Because you aren't married to him, you will not support him if you break up, he won't get any alimony after you break up, and you can kick him out any time you want. You can withhold sex for any reason or none at all and there's not a goddamn thing he can do about it except leave. So he might as well nip it in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:28 PM
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change or end the relationship. Cheat. open it up. End it. Any way you slice it, when someone in the relationship ain't getting the sex they want/need, something is very, very very very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:27 PM
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Break up with him and find another man. You could do that today and be with another man by Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:21 PM
1

THen you're fine. Just about every man has physically defended his woman. Then you were pretty smart not to marry. If he were smart, he'd move out and continue the relationship with you from his own place, with no commingling of property whatsoever. He'd also start cheating on you. Legal insurance? No, they hire low buck shit lawyers who don't get paid past a certain threshold because the carrier puts a ceiling on the fees that will be paid. You won't get quality representation that way. Lotsa l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:20 PM
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Men don't expect sex because "they hold the purse strings". What men do is start withholding when she starts withholding sex. as they should. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. You can't start withholding sex and expect things to keep going on as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:17 PM
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It might be true that men should commit to pleasing their wives in bed. But that's not the main problem. The problem is women marrying men who they do not want to please them in bed, because those women want nothing to do with fucking their husbands. A woman who wants her man to please her in bed has to be open to THAT MAN pleasing her in bed, and many, many women are NOT open to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:16 PM
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"since you won't fuck me, your husband, I'll go fuck other girls." "Since you wont' fuck me, your husband, I will not physically defend you." "you might make most of the money, but if you will not fuck me, your husband, I'll divorce you. I will assert refusal of sex as grounds, and will seek to have the family court punish you for that. Since you make most of the money, i'll divorce you and sue for alimony. And because you earn most of the money, the court will give at least some alimony to me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:12 PM
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And I won't exchange my money for pussy, nor will I support a woman who won't have sex with me, nor will I remain faithful to her, nor will I defend her physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:08 PM
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Any woman who views sex with her husband as a "sacrifice" has no business marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:07 PM
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And some MILFs doing porn, around age 40, are just damn HOT for their ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 07:38 PM
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"OMG OMG OMG HOW DARE YOU say something like this to me! That is SO not true! I am so OFFENDED!!!! I just wanted to be a wife and a mommy! I just wanted to find a man to marry me! I wuz used! Everyone lied to me TOO! I didn't know what I was doing - I just wanted those guys to love me! "It was the alcohol's fault! It was the drugs' fault! It was mommy's fault for not teaching me! It was daddy's fault for not giving me enough attention! It was my friends' fault for not stopping me! It was society…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 07:27 PM
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If you said any of this to a woman, if you mention this to a woman, she will run screaming from the room. Women can't even read what I just wrote up there without dissolving into paroxysms of rage and pain, needing fainting couches and smelling salts. Women will deny all of this forever and ever. Women will NEVER EVER admit that what I wrote up there is the god's honest truth. But it is, and we all need the courage to face it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 07:15 PM
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Hentai: because people like their fetishes: Furry, enormous tits (especially in japan because so many Asian women are famined in the chest department), huge dick, etc. MILFs: Because they look more "real". MILFs resemble women most men see everyday, only with better hair and makeup, and about 20 lbs lighter. Because more and more older men are consuming porn and they want to see non-teen women. EDIT: Also, because MILFs are viewed as "accessible". A man could actually be in the running to fuck a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 07:11 PM
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We all need to have the courage to face the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 06:59 PM
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Non-player character. The internet/alt right/manosphere meme du jour. The idea behind it is women, or people, or anyone really, mimicking or spouting or saying stock phrases, statements or beliefs, without thinking for themselves or drawing their own conclusions. They're like non player characters in a video game, responding to player characters using various preprogrammed algorithms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 06:44 PM
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Yes, that is the point. A woman's looks declining as she ages is not "failing or falling off". That's normal and natural wear and tear. A guy doesn't get to dump his wife at 55 just because she doesn't look like she did when she was 25 so long as she's taken care of herself. If she's let herself go and gained 200 pounds, that's a different story. And yes, women are supposed to love their husbands even if they lose their jobs, but we all know here that that ordinarily doesn't happen. a man's job …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 06:41 PM
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Here's yet another. Don't feel any compunction about lying to a woman, judging her, evaluating her, or rejecting her. She's lying to you. She has lied to you, she is lying to you, and she will lie to you. She has her reasons for doing so. So don't think you owe her total and complete above board honesty, because you are most definitely NOT getting that from her. Gents: Honesty, valor, forthrightness and full disclosure are reserved for other men. For your brothers in life, employment, work, soci…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 06:35 PM
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Men Just Want to Fuck Turns out your mom's not wrong about literally everything: Boys really are after one thing! This is news to women? Women are just now figuring this out? And people criticize Red Pillers for not seeing the noses on their own faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 06:23 PM
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Ok. We’re just talking past each other. You have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:47 PM
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Only if she's not attracted, which is what causes women to view sex as drudgery and give starfish. A man's boundaries and standards do not cause women to hate sex and go starfish. What causes that is lack of sexual attraction, and that's mostly looks for women. Here's a novel concept: you agreed to be a wife. You do what it takes to be a wife. DO. YOUR. GOD. DAMN. JOB. just like you all expect men to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:35 PM
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No, "on her toes" means meet my standards at all times, and be subjected to correction or the end of the relationship when she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:30 PM
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Yep. Men, take the attitude: It's my money, time, labor and attention that are on the line. It's my resources. It's my sex life. Therefore, if you, woman, are demanding commitment and unfettered access to everything I have and am, then it is my God given right to know whatever the fuck I want to know about you, and to discover it by any means necessary, including subterfuge, subversion, manipulation, and deceit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 05:29 PM
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No. Read my last edits. You willing to hold wives to that standard? On her toes, all the time, don't fuck up or youre gone? You good with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:23 PM
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What you're listing isn't seduction. It's treating a wife like a wife. When you have experience being a man, you let me know. Again: Sometimes you need the itch scratched, and you need it now, and you don't get to seduce. Much like sometimes the wife needs time away, she needs it now, and he doesn't get to object. Or much like sometimes the wife needs a good hard cum and he has to get down there and get the job done even when there's a bit of funk. Or much like the wife needs help and needs it n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:20 PM
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No, you don't, and no, you can't. When you have experience being a man, you let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:18 PM
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Here are some other lessons: 1) If you want to find out what your girl really thinks of you, get her drunk or stoned. With her inhibitions down, she'll tell you. 2) When a girl tells you she finds you "attractive for your qualities not necessarily your looks", she's not attracted to you. 3) When girls use the word "attractive" in relation to men, it means whatever they want it to mean at that time. Could mean "sexually attractive". Could mean "I want him for resources, money, time, labor, attent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 05:14 PM
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Sure. But men can't do that ALL the time. Moreover, you shouldn't have to seduce your wife ALL the time. Sometimes, you do. Sometimes you just need that itch scratched, and that's what the wife is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:07 PM
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I feel another public service announcement coming on. Whenever a woman talks about what attracts you to her and uses the words "safe", "kind", "nice", "hard worker", "good father", "gets along with my family" and "has a job", you're being settled for. She's settling for you. She is not sexually attracted to you. She doesn't like fucking you. She WILL fuck you in order to gain access to your resources; but she isn't really all that into fucking you. Whenever she uses the words "fun", "unpredictab…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 05:04 PM
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HOW DARE YOU reject that woman's "friendship"! How dare you not play along with the script! how dare you not help her not feel bad about rejecting you! How dare you not just slink away and help her save face!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 04:46 PM
2

No, because I wasn't. I'm not going anywhere, so you best get comfortable with my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:45 PM
2

You didn't ask anything worth answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:43 PM
2

Those aren’t human nature. No. Wrong. Human nature is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:37 PM
2

Yeah. Whatever works. It’s really just having boundaries and standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:34 PM
2

Those are not human nature. Those are things that are over laid on top of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:32 PM
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Yep. She's an asshole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 04:19 PM
2

Sorry, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:19 PM
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