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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Night life on holidayHow far to go with that? Maybe show them that you're cool unstrange person.. I guess | /r/seduction | 10/07/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop giving a shit about women or anything?I just posted a post on this https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6m8k0j/too_many_people_perpetually_cause_anxiety_by/ It probably won't cure you right off the bat but it may water a seed that u may already have in you or it may give u a general idea of the nature of not giving a fuck | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | People who have once gamed using old school traditional type of game concepts And who have also taken the more modern game approach, what has gotten you more or less success than the other?Yeah that is relatable I've had the same experience man | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | People who have once gamed using old school traditional type of game concepts And who have also taken the more modern game approach, what has gotten you more or less success than the other?Thanks man. Yeah you are probably right about how old game was probably the same but their was a bigger emphasis on technique.. modern game is both too but it's places majority of the focus on inner game. So yeah I agree with you so would you Pick up is a little more "whole" than before because ppl are starting to realize the importance of both sides of the same coin? | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?Yeah good example! It's just funny because it doesn't take much to know this all one would have to do is even look at the behavior of a young girl who gets her crush at school and the girl doesn't even know the boy he's just technically an object to the little girl. I remember a long time ago when I was young that some girl had a crush on me and I didn't even know the chick I never met the girl in my life.. this was in middle school. They were hung up on the word "object | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | People who have once gamed using old school traditional type of game concepts And who have also taken the more modern game approach, what has gotten you more or less success than the other?Well to an extent. But some people do the prior which is basically alll technique and now modern game is more of finding what is authentic to you and still having motivation to become a better version of oensself and from their game in a way that is "uniquely true" | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 09:30 PM |
| 2 | People who have once gamed using old school traditional type of game concepts And who have also taken the more modern game approach, what has gotten you more or less success than the other?Thank u for sharing | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Everything is possible, but you need to take actionDid you ever take a specific kind of approach to pick up girls? Like did you ever try to put on some cool acting type of front (prepared lines etc) or More of a natural approach just by being yourself and experimenting different things? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?Exactly what I'm saying man but I was like shamed whenever I tried to reason with them. So I was like wow some ppl really think this. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Everything is possible, but you need to take actionThanks for the post man. I've been in the same spot and now I'm motivated at least a little bit more so to take action. What internal beliefs about yourself have changed that you think have helped? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | People who have deliberately experimented trying different things to then observe/study what generally worked or didn't ? What have you recently proven to yourself that generally works in seduction?I hear u but but speaking generally "general" and "proven to Yourself" because general patterns and discoveries is probably the best we can get. For example someone who is new to the idea of social skills who doesn't he can do anything to get better socially but decides anyways to edperiment and to try out what people have been telling him what generally works, so even tho he disbelieves he goes out and implements the advice "be more of your authentic self". He goes out and does this for a solid… | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?What is your take on one night stands.. do you think there usually is a level of respect happening if both women and guy want sex but aren't interested in anything further? Because from the outside looking in you maybe could see one night stands being all about objectification but I would say there is probably still some level of personal respect otherwise it probably wouldn't have happened. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?I guess at least have the decency to have/show empathy towards a fellow human being as funny as that sounds I think that is probably the best way to convey you respect her and people in general. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?Well said "the idea that sexual attraction and respect are mutually exclusive is such bs" Respect at least for me is always going to be in the back of my mind and will show up that I see her as a person. But the logic of needing to see someone as someone who you have to be interested in as friend first is confusing because for example I see a cute girl and I do go up to her in the first place because she's attractive, rather making the decision instinctively because she was simply pretty and my … | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?Yeah! It's strange how social conditioning can make someone think being sexually attracted to a girl is wrong and think things like oh I must respect her and not escalate or else.. or I must not become aroused by her! This is totally different than a guy who is just being true to what being "man" is. I've heard of the concept "being Man to women" this just reminded me of it. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 04:18 AM |
| 4 | I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?Slightly older women gave me this advice (couple girls in their late 20s and some 30 yr Olds more than likely feminists) it sounded stupid to me tho.. their logic was if you go up to a girl just because she's attractive that means you didn't have interest in her as a friend first. Seems ass backwards because usually even for a chick it goes like her seeing a cute guy and pursuing him solely for that reasons because he's attractive not because she wants to first be friends then only later she wil… | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Would you like honest advice from a former sedditor who achieved success?Did you deliberately experiment different things to then observe/study what generally worked or didn't? If yes, could you mention what unique ways you discovered what things generally worked or didn't? For example did you keep notes in a journal or something ? | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Ppl with aspergers state that they have to think critically to understand social dynamics & a lot believe or give the impression that regular ppl don't have to think critically to understand social dynamics but instead learn unconsciously/automatically. Examples of this being true or untrue?Of course | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Ppl with aspergers state that they have to think critically to understand social dynamics & a lot believe or give the impression that regular ppl don't have to think critically to understand social dynamics but instead learn unconsciously/automatically. Examples of this being true or untrue?Yes "some do it more subconsciously and can't explain what they are doing" that's what we call people who are "natural" on this sub I guess But a lot of us aren't naturals at least not right of the bat.. a lot of us have to study and observe our interactions like scientists using the scientific method to become aware of common general patterns of what works & what doesn't and from there we can think critically to discover and understand certain social dynamics (of course experience but just spea… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Ppl with aspergers state that they have to think critically to understand social dynamics & a lot believe or give the impression that regular ppl don't have to think critically to understand social dynamics but instead learn unconsciously/automatically. Examples of this being true or untrue?I can see how it could seem unclear I wrote the title stupidly now as I read it damnit. Let me try to provide some context. My thoughts on improving and understanding social dynamics (suduction as well) is basically this, in order to get better with seduction you have to learn "cues" sort of correct.. right? Well it seems a lot of asperger ppl think that normal people don't have to think critically and study social interactions in a logical way to peace together what works and what doesn't. But … | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I get more of a personality?I would say become more charismatic and learn how to have fun but how? I can't tell u so I wish I knew but notice successful guys are charismatic in one way or another and they have fun in one way or another too. Get back to me when you know bro. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 04:22 AM |
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