I have read that a guy should be interested in a girl as a friend before anything sexual but isn't that statement hypocritical because girls and guys approach first who they are attracted to before someone who isn't attractive?

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-07-06T00:37:15+00:00

You didn't hear that here in seddit. The women that told you "friends first" were putting you in the friend zone. Attraction first, you can become friends later.

BestSC86 · 2017-07-06T16:54:45+00:00

Never listen to women tell you how to find girls.

Attraction is EVERYTHING.......without it then you become just another girlfriend or worse, if she isn't attracted then you will be a creep who will not go away.

When you hear a woman claim they want a friend or someone that is nice, what they are really saying is that they want a hot, attractive dude who ultimately treats them nice and is their "friend".

moontripper1246 · 2017-07-06T17:55:59+00:00

I don't know where yo unheard that but it's straight up grade A retarded bullshit. Theres no way in HELL that I'm going up to a girl and seeking to be her friend before Im' seeking to be inside her. It's just not how I think. Maybe there are some dudes that do, good on them. But fuck no. First and foremost I'm interested in your body, and that's what I want you to be interested in too, my body. If we happened to be great friends after that starting fact, awesome, but one always comes before the other.

UndidIridium · 2017-07-06T14:17:38+00:00

The only issue in the advice you received is the word "should" as it can work in either sequence. Don't box yourself in one school of thought.

Also, more importantly, this is a non-issue.

THE_Aft_io9_Giz · 2017-07-06T01:03:29+00:00

if there is instant chemistry, she will fuck your brains out no matter what and as soon as she can and come back for more.

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