Cantsleepperson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Awkwardness of seeing a person who rejected you again, How do you deal with it?	Inner Game	Cantsleepperson	/r/seduction	22/08/22 05:29 AM
1	Best to wait to contact after getting number?	Field Report	Cantsleepperson	/r/seduction	21/08/22 05:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. You definitely work hard on that. Lol!	/r/seduction	26/08/22 04:09 AM
-1	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. Courtney Ryan on YouTube and her female friends say the gym is a good place to meet women… so…	/r/seduction	26/08/22 04:08 AM
-59	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. You’ll be trans in a year.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 01:34 AM
-1	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. Your uncle did, freak.	/r/seduction	26/08/22 01:31 AM
5	Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1? What a ****	/r/seduction	24/08/22 10:11 PM
6	The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRL Hell no, my profile was abhorrent, but somehow I got all my short term and long term GF off OLD. Actually in the same place as you right now. Working on getting better pics before I jump back on the dating apps (It's been a few years). That's why I've been researching cold approaching recently. But, for my pics, gonna get a good one with my dog (probably in gym attire to show off my muskels), a nice one at a bar in a nice outfit, and then doing a free trial at a rock climbing gym to get a cool p…	/r/seduction	24/08/22 04:02 AM
16	The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRL You have a Cillian Murphy albino vibe going on. You are making the same autistic half smile expression in each pic tho. Just hire a professional photographer or research "how to take good profile pics". If I could get likes you can too.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 02:44 AM
3	would posting this be a good idea? Be urself bro.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 01:52 AM
2	Did I fuck up there? Show up with a date for Thursday. Pay an actress if you need to.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 12:34 AM
6	[FIELD REPORT] My first cold approach ever. Come laugh at my cringe. At least you have a new funny story to tell. You’ll get better. Just keep at it.	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:46 PM
5	Advice for Single Guys Who Are Struggling I’m a gay man and I approve this message.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 08:10 PM
3	i though that i would never say this... I've got a GF Congratz!	/r/seduction	22/08/22 06:06 PM
2	Good recommendations to increase my texting game Saved. Please don’t delete.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 03:57 AM
1	Question about cold approach and age He says as he waits for the answer so he can plan his trip.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 02:50 AM
1	Question about cold approach and age If a woman is working during school hours I know she’s probably past high school.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 02:48 AM
3	[ FIELD REPORT ] Huge fail at the club (how I got rejected multiple times) Just went through your history. You dress in clothing one size up and you have a depressing demeanor. Looks like you have a nice body and face, why you sabotaging yourself?	/r/seduction	21/08/22 12:36 AM
1	Anyone here regularly think of suicide? Yeah. I’m hoping I find a soul mate before my dog dies to take the hurt off of it and maybe hold my hand when I have to put him down. It was horrible when I had to put my cat down but my sister came with me and made it more bearable.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:39 AM
1	Anyone here regularly think of suicide? Heh. I felt/sometimes feel the same way with my dog. I dunno what to tell you based off your responses here. Maybe just try things you haven’t before? And if you care so much for your dog maybe your lot in life is taking care of animals? That’s not so bad, right?	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:37 AM
1	Anyone here regularly think of suicide? Wow you remind me of myself.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:13 AM
1	Anyone here regularly think of suicide? You had sex at 19??? Congratz that’s better than me. Take care of your grandma and dog. Pay it forward after they pass. I know it will be hard but it will give you purpose and their lives more meaning.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:12 AM
1	If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or two Umm… they didn’t reciprocate so what’s the diff?	/r/seduction	16/08/22 01:52 AM
0	How important are lingerie and sexy clothes Lingerie is relationship stuff. Why you humble bragging here? You whipping out the lace on the first date?	/r/seduction	16/08/22 01:48 AM
-1	How important are lingerie and sexy clothes Eh, i saw your selfies…. Maybe best to keep it covered.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 01:30 AM
0	How can I learn to talk to women? This…. Pleb…. GETS IT!!! If this basic pleb gets it…. Guess what… Pause for drama…. YOU CAN TOO!!! But seriously, you’re gonna let some nobody off Reddit tell YOU what to do?	/r/seduction	15/08/22 11:04 PM
0	How can I learn to talk to women? Here’s a top secret… Women are human!!!!	/r/seduction	15/08/22 11:03 PM
1	I am enjoying dating a women who has more money than me Nice!	/r/seduction	15/08/22 03:49 PM
1	Do you seem to attract a certain type of person / ethnicity more than others? Mixed women (half black half white). I’m half white half Korean. Maybe it’s being mixed we dont feel we belong to either race and can relate on that.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 07:31 AM
1	If a girl doesn't offer to split the bill when you suggest you'll pay for both of them is that a red flag? Overthinking. You made the offer.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 07:29 AM
59	Aproaching guys during college You’re a woman. Anything you say will work.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:48 AM
-15	The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summary “I’m in charge!!!” “Say it now, bitch!! I’m in charge!!! Who’s in charge?!! IM IN CHARGE!!” “Oh god, I’m cumming… say it again… who’s in charge?!!!”	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:46 AM
-19	The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summary That sounds like rape, my dude.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:22 AM
6	you're not a nice guy. Ok, I just PM’d you	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:20 AM
2	you're not a nice guy. “Bitch, get in the kitchen!!!”	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:07 AM
0	you're not a nice guy. Lesson learned. Next time I see my best female friend imma smack her on the ass and give her an ultimatum: “fuck me now or I ghost your slut ass”	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:02 AM
1	Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them? Damn, OP BTFO!!!!	/r/seduction	11/08/22 09:22 PM
2	Is it ever too late to start dating and stuff if you have no experience? I’m approaching thirty and getting a bit worried about it being too late 29 is a great age! Not too young not too old. And your background seems interesting. I’m sure you have a lot of life experience and stories to share.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 08:29 PM
1	Strangest cold approach of my life today Practice, a boost in self esteem maybe?	/r/seduction	11/08/22 08:26 PM
1	FR - Solo night out Could have been a shit test	/r/seduction	07/08/22 04:02 AM
3	i... i may have a date from daytime cold approach? wow Nice job	/r/seduction	06/08/22 10:18 PM
2	Thank You Nice job	/r/seduction	06/08/22 10:15 PM
1	Why do their friends cockblock? I’m starting to realize this is a thing, too. But, when I think about it I’ve had friends that do this to me. It’s kind of rude to your friend to get caught up in the moment and forget about them. Maybe try being more considerate of their group and show them more attention. Will show that you’re aware of their friend’s feelings and are a good person. And if you’re hitting it off with the person it’s a good excuse to set up plans for later “I don’t want to keep you from your group. I had a great …	/r/seduction	06/08/22 03:24 PM
1	Stuck? Just stop focusing on women True.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 10:59 PM
-2	what to do on first date with MILF ?? This. And they’re usually crazy.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 01:10 AM
3	Where are these single women you guys cold approach to? What if he’s approaching at the local animal shelter?	/r/seduction	01/08/22 09:00 PM
2	what can I do to develop an abundance mindset? This guy FUCKS!!!	/r/seduction	01/08/22 08:26 PM
4	How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appeal No, you’re absolutely right. I’ll take blame for what I brought to those fast burn relationships, but they were also learning experiences on what I really wanted, and what I needed to improve about myself. And real life approach is a good way to improve my social skills and cut through the bullshit of online dating. And yes, dating regularly would be great at this period of my life where I somewhat have my shit together. And by “younger women” 28-32 wouldn’t be a bad age range lol.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:58 PM
2	How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appeal Same as you- mid-30s, asian (half actually)… Had some luck with online dating. Encountered a few women my age range where the sex was amazing but they were slightly… “crazy”, so long term relationship was out the window. Took time out to work on myself to attract younger, better women. The crazy single mom myth is not a myth lol. Want to find a cool younger chick and make her “the one”.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:36 PM
1	How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appeal Kind of in the same boat. My last few relationships have been fast burners.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:24 PM
3	Has anyone successfully asked a waitress out? My friend Lyle did and then never contacted her. Lol!	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:22 PM
2	Just some thoughts in my head You got balls, bro. Give yourself a pat on the back.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:22 PM
6	What to do instead of shaking a girls hand? “Covid fist bump”	/r/seduction	28/07/22 07:13 AM
1	Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach! People say the grocery store is one of the best places for day game….	/r/seduction	28/07/22 04:27 AM
4	Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach! Nice job. You get 250 xp. 750 more to reach level 2.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 12:14 AM
2	Tips for Better Conversations right click save	/r/seduction	27/07/22 02:59 AM
0	Fashion advice for dates and nights out? Form fitting anime graphic tee with slim fit jeans and white sneakers. If you’re in good shape anything looks good on you.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:50 PM
1	Fashion advice for dates and nights out? Perfume is for women. You meant cologne?	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:49 PM
10	I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you. That actually sounds fun. I’ll need to double my efforts.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:42 PM
39	I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you. She’ll even let me toss salad and suck toes?	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:33 PM
-5	I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you. Truth be told!!! Hail OP!!!	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:32 PM
1	cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a woman You can probably find an income based priced one near you.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 03:48 PM
2	cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a woman See a therapist.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:52 AM
3	She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?” Have fun. Bring protection and disinfectant	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:42 PM
3	Is directly telling a girl you find them attractive and are interested in them a bad move? Good on you for being upfront	/r/seduction	23/07/22 05:19 AM
5	Do you ever have real conversations with woman that you’re interested in? Deep convos usually come around the second or third date. Usually a sign you’re clicking.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 03:40 AM
0	What would you do in this situation? Don’t be a simp. She wants you there for her own comfort.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 02:59 PM
13	I'm a socially boring person... YOLO, bro. Do the things you want to do. Be the person you want to be. You don’t have to be boring. Explore new hobbies. Do some impromptu traveling. Take risks. All will lead to new stories you can impress women with.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:52 AM
2	Just finished a 1hour phone convo, and she texts me and wants to call again bc she said she enjoyed it. What should I do? Yeah, fucking pillows would get old after a while.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:06 AM
4	Just finished a 1hour phone convo, and she texts me and wants to call again bc she said she enjoyed it. What should I do? Cool, make sure she doesn’t find your Reddit history. LOL.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:02 AM
1	Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited! That sounds so hot. Congratz!	/r/seduction	20/07/22 11:22 PM
1	Is it okay if I see a pretty woman walking in the parking lot of my apartment complex and I introduce myself to her while I’m driving out or driving in? Like say “hi, excuse me?” They’ve seen me around since we all live here Get a cute dog so you see the women while you’re walking it. Instant conversation starter.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 03:31 AM
1	So confused. Missed chances But he went in for the kill later and touched her thigh and tried to kiss her when they were laying down together.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 05:23 AM
1	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? I had a therapist compliment my body LOL but no women my age.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 05:19 AM
10	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Think of it as good practice. If you can crack their shell you probably will develop mad conversation skills.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 08:29 PM
3	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? That would help. How do we set it up?	/r/seduction	18/07/22 03:33 PM
2	I f***king love rejection. Thanks, this was good motivation!!!	/r/seduction	17/07/22 03:04 PM
26	PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps. I got put in stocks for doing that	/r/seduction	17/07/22 05:27 AM
1	Beginning of a series - The road to the alpha wolf I’m game	/r/seduction	16/07/22 09:54 PM
1	Does anyone else create a monthly budget for their girlfriend(s)? Sounds smart. Dating can get expensive.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 05:42 AM
0	What the f*ck to talk about during during a cold approach? I ask random questions based on my own interests hoping they catch on. Like “Dude, did you watch the news episode of Made in Abyss?” “No, what’s that?” “Oh sorry, you’re not a weeb?” “What’s a weeb?” “A person into anime and Japanese stuff.” “Oh, like Studio Ghibli?” “Yeah, but that’s like normie level anime. Made in Abyss is like the Game of Thrones of anime but with Precious Moments looking characters. It will fuck you up. Oh sorry for cussing but it will. Heh.” “Oh, sounds interesting.” “So w…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 05:56 AM
4	What are some funny lines I can use when joking about my shory height? “Which Hobbit do you think I resemble most?”	/r/seduction	12/07/22 05:50 AM