I have a monthly budgeting app and when I date, I realize that I didn’t keep track of the amount of money I spent on the girls I date. That usually led to me either overspending on a girl or not spending “enough” (according to her).

So today I decided to start a monthly budget for each girl that I start dating regularly and I was wondering if anyone else did the same.

Right now I aim to put $50-$100 per month towards each girl that I regularly date as a “starter budget” depending how much I hang out with her and even based on how much I like her (budgeting more if I see something serious with her obviously).

I’m planning to START the budget the moment I spend my first dollar on her; whether it be for a meal, gas money, Uber, etc…

I also aim to keep this info confidential so that the girls that I date don’t feel like they’re being bought OR to keep away from the gold diggers.

If anyone else does the same, would love to hear your take on it. I know this sounds weird and oddly hilarious, but I do want to take this seriously so that I don’t get taken advantage of financially but also allowing each girl that I see to at least not worry about money when she’s with me :)

Any helpful advice would be appreciated. Thanks!