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Agreed though ‘be natural’ feels like such weak advice. That said, I’d say study the masters: Watch Cary Grant act for a solid month. Trust me that was a RP dude through and through. You’ll be motivated to see yourself as charismatic, which takes the confidence of liking yourself, then suggests you know how to amplify it or wah it through a pedal were you playing guitar, as an analogy. Takeaway: if you suck at guitar you will be bad with an amplified one. Similarly your personality. If you want …
/r/askTRP25/05/19 11:19 AM
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Good question if an unusual one. I find the more I like a girl the more I enjoy kissing, and for this camper, there isn’t a lot of foreplay possible without it- Solution tho I’ve employed with those I didn’t like kissing much: Straps and BDSM, or blindfolding, etc. Restrict her somehow for dominance and it won’t be weird. Note: hopefully I don’t need to add but will -don’t introduce BDSM shit in stern fashion. Playful does it. What you want isn’t her tied and blindfolded with a rag in her mouth.…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 11:05 AM
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I love it. We can’t debate philosophy of power without everyone’s T-levels firing off and then the ‘expert’ fighters want to wade in and tell everyone else what a badass they are, or at least could be, were they a fighter. I played hockey all my life and did a good bit of fighting. Nothing powerful about nursing busted knuckles, dislocated fingers, painful head contusions. That said, you learn to take no shit, which women might interpret as power, if any of us really cares what women think... I …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 01:13 PM
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Glad I could provide. Gnite
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 12:36 AM
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Really. So in your mind your Glock, disassembled and under lock and key if you’re law abiding, is any cause for consideration to either your local police force, or more aptly, the largest and most well funded military on earth? No ones coming for your guns or your efforts to guarantee your liberty, which, should the government decide against, you wouldn’t last five minutes -so I’m calling bullshit on that. No -guns are things for scared men. I’m a badass and I need no gun.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 09:43 PM
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Go blow it out your ass you illiterate half breed. Better yet, take one of your guns and remove yourself from the conversation. On the quick All the mass shootings going on, including kids, don’t make a dent in your well thought out social contract huh? And you’re quick to throw cuck as an insult. I smell a massive inferiority complex outta you. Don’t bother replying further. I’m not debating with you, stupid.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 07:11 PM
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So a society armed to the teeth strikes you as one ‘rooted in rationality’? Hilarious
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 07:06 PM
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Yes, but the point being made here is an épistémological one. So your criticism of his criticism of the original post, still neatly missed the point of the post. Which was questioning why women put their faith in argument in statistical outliers. So let’s go back to the original point- I think it’s more of a gentle difference in sexes really. We haven’t given women ANY kind of agency but for the last 100 years, and only THAT because we needed ppl to make the bombs to kill ourselves with in WW1, …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 04:49 PM
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This is absurd. Not the social implications, which I think were dead to rights. But the clickbait claim bugs me because it’s so very easily proven otherwise. Your flowered cupcake wanting our attention is not what is essentially feminine. What is essentially feminine is so much more sexual than us, many of you are overwhelmed and get a little lost in this. She’s no snowflake you guys. -She’s a primate female looking to replicate. And because women have so much more of a sexual drive, men try to …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 12:41 AM
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Masters and Johnson proposed (late 60’s) 4 stage process involved with grief work. Denial, anger, bargaining, acceptance. This from the top of my head. Because, there’s grieving to be done for some culturally imposed ideals we all come in here with. If they’re truly smashed that is. Anger phase guaranteed. :) Again: friend, consult the sidebar. ———>
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 11:18 AM
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Baby works like a charm. You can slip it in earlier, subdued, almost inaudibly , like say at the end of a sentence when you thank a server for a drink. Baby (calling them that right from the get go) is MY shit test if you will. Guys in here be like ‘what do you do if she bites back?’ Why care. It’s not an outright rejection, it makes her look peevish af, and it isolates those who will potentially enter your frame willingly from those headcases not willing to enjoy feeling feminine. Now gents, in…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:26 PM
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Oh look it’s someone replying and -aggressively at that. You must know what you’re talking about then. Good. ‘Don’t hustle backwards nigga’ however, makes no sense in this context. And as to the veracity of my comments I’ll go with Rudyard Kipling, not you, friend. Yep, I’m referencing the poem ‘If’. Look it up it’s pretty inspiring. And the next time you ride shotgun to my comments, add something of value or stay your keyboard hand huh? Attaboy
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:57 AM
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Boys. Don’t care if dating at work is allowed. Don’t do it. Wisdom: (again) do not shit where you eat. And you look weak, not appropriate to your mission. Or am i just old school and stuck in my ways?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 02:23 PM
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This may seem banal, but I tell women I know well that I like me enough for 6 of them. Now the real average for us is 1/10 will maybe say yes to us. I’m smarter so I’d say I choose or read IOI’s better (I loathe rejection). So that’s 6-9 rejections I walk through before I talk/fuck happily. For those supposedly confident dominant chicks, I want a comparable statistic. True confidence comes when no one, but no one, in the room likes you, and you are just fine. That’s internalized frame. And it be…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 02:19 PM
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Which is as beta a setup as one could imagine right from the get go.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 06:09 PM
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Good. -At the expense of not one moment of peace among the males in the Middle East tho-
/r/TheRedPill24/03/19 04:57 PM
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Boom. You nailed it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:01 PM
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I think a week no chit chat after a first bedding is too long unless you feel you really rocked her world that first time. Unfortunately in this case I think you were too composed. You may have had to step in the batters box again a little sooner. If you had sex, and it was only mediocre for her, you get that lukewarm post play response. Only option then really is to show her a little ‘leg’ (that you’re into her). I think you broke rapport unintentionally, but didn’t bring your A game to the bed…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:57 PM
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I play hockey. Goalie friend of mine committed suicide over some women this week. Don’t be this guy. The women don’t care. All the hockey players in the area are upset. https://www.wfla.com/news/hillsborough-county/tense-swat-standoff-ends-as-suspect-takes-his-own-life-in-town-n-country/1849813210 Understand what you need to be loyal to and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:45 PM
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I play hockey too. You gotta skate and deal with her. All night drive will set this right. Good luck
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:43 PM
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I’m with you. I like the snap of tight pussy around me, not shopping for Nazi heirlooms or elaborate costumes so I’m her ‘kinkiest’. While I agree with the spirit of the message, I’ll be honest-being red pill means I now scarcely care what they want while I’m with them. Once they’re gone I truly do not give a damn.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:40 AM
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I’m with you on this. I’ve nothing against cats per se. But when I look in my dogs eyes, every dog I’ve ever had live with me, I saw a friend. Deep friend that would go to bat for me in any situation. I look at a cat as a pure predator. Nice ones exist, but their nature is predatory. Far more so than even the hungriest of dogs. Dogs were initially bred from wolves to do work. They emphasized preexisting social compatibility by breeding out a lot of wolf aggressiveness, and inflating dogs’ sense …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 08:12 PM
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Well I suppose we all drive lines in the sand. I eat pussy like it may be my last one. I’m not shy about it either. Now and then I have sex without eating twat, but it’s a delicacy I’d find the absence of to render my life a kind of painting without color. Most women I know are clean and taste good, or I show them the door. So I don’t find that (oral sex on a female) emasculating. Marriage though, that to me appears emasculating AF. Oddly, I wasn’t inclined to eat pussy while married. I found it…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 08:04 PM
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none of your teachers ever spoke positively about Nappy because he was primarily interested in removing the Sea control the UK had over literally every traded good that landed on the continent. Since UK ultimately won, all the literature and propaganda that remained was inordinately biased. Imagine in a 100 years reading about the US foreign policy of our time. Everyone disagreeing with US foreign policy becomes a pariah, because the US controls the world media. Thats how England was during the …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 07:34 AM
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I. Am. The. Prize.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:19 AM
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Do NOT disrespect other men with commentary. Anything other than a grunt and return the phone with a shrug is beta. For an alpha, talking about other men is a no no. Especially if you know where he’s coming from. My advice, say nothing about other men. Especially nothing negative. Because you get it. She’ll be more intrigued, not less.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 10:52 PM
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I'd give you gold for this description alone, man. "did....did this b1tch just do that?" (said with the same tone as the classic "check out this m0th@fuck@") is about the perfect description of the mindset to hold to once you're redpilled. This is very important for a few reasons: Because BP me might have had the thought, but was vastly too insecure to be the challenge and actually SAY it, much less mean it, much less intend a consequence by it. SO on the surface of it, this glib comment-"Did..d…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 11:28 PM
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That's the money argument boys. It's not JUST that you need to prepare to be cheated on. Stop being weak and thinking you need a woman for anything other than precisely what and how you want things to be, and even then expect those things not to complete you. Women will not make you happy, nor will a long term relationship, period. And if being in an LTR actually REDUCES your chances of having some kind of consistently mutual sex life, then frankly, I can't see any purpose other than really in p…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:12 PM
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I say 'no' a lot, and I make women qualify themselves to me. I do not explain myself to them, as I am now, with you. It's a harsh line but honestly, and kindly, it's behave or fuck off time now. Anything else gets you what you deserve, and even this line in the sand i have to use often. I believe you're trying for what our mothers insisted as "common courtesy". None of us in here is striving for common anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:35 PM
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You need to stop taking yourself so seriously. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:11 PM
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Nope you count on being a motherfucking savage if you have to, to get done what you need. Ultimately you make your reality, as you appear to have done. I'll disregard your ad hominem nonsense. being masculine doesn't mean nearly as oppositional as you've got it mate. You need to dial down the faux testosterone by about 75%, but otherwise I think we can agree.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 02:07 PM
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Good post, and I like your confidence and no bullshit attitude-HOWEVER if you're as bright as you claim to be, rereading your post objectively would yield a very, very specific story and track, one most won't or circumstance wouldn't assist to follow. And so, a poor case to offer a general conclusion from. This is called basic logic. Your conditions aren't met for sufficient conclusive train. And speaking only for this 'credentialed' dude (me), I'm sick to death of the posts deriding a proper ed…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:44 AM
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I know, right? on our behalf, he should bang the fan girls. I can't think of why else one would do comedy? lol. That last was my joke.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 05:06 AM
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trust me, they be quickly forgettin about us and findin others, still. Not required for survival.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:06 PM
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Or, be truly alpha and say what the f*ck you want and stop worrying whether they are going to hold your hand, or kiss you. They're there for sex, almost period. Lotta bright guys in this thread missing the point, if you ask me. If he's worried about this chick reacting differently, then he will in all likelihood project and react. Which,in turn, is classic PTSD. The setup thought is: "I'm worried she will see this as weakness and hurt me"....While she doesn't actually appear to be doing anything…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 07:57 PM
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Thats a Robin Hood bulls eye remark.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 07:51 PM
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it's not the vulnerability specifically, (I contend) but rather what you yourself think of it and display in front of her. For reasons to do with perhaps some of the symptoms, OP has performed some noble acts to try to help save lives, and seen some shit. Yet somehow he cares what this bish thinks about it. Or any bish for that matter. That's the weakness.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 07:49 PM
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While I agree with your claim that women are designed to check your spiritual exoskeleton for leaks, your conclusion that you should trust her judgment strikes me as missing the mark. I'll explain-it's a nuance-Assuming OP can ever get to a place of Zen, he will be able to look back and speak honestly about PTSD without fear about it, because beyond the PTSD is where you do not give a fuck what she thinks. That's what you're aiming for. Opening up isn't driving women away, because women barely l…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 07:45 PM
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I sadly find them creepy a lot. Small wonder they have compromised antennae for their own social behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:34 PM
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gold star given for the reply which exemplifies his point. i want you to be sarcastic, but i sense not.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:47 PM
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Thank you for the reminder that no matter how insane the trip (one to Dubai I had comes to mind), it still includes at least a couple of these kinds of scenes. No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 11:10 PM
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What really resonated: your term "no-hopers". There are many of these people. I qualify them as people with little to no curiosity. It's a depressing conclusion to come to. Much of the world is very broken inside and this interdicts learning.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 11:08 AM
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I do this too. I find it keeps me motivated to look forward, and not to settle for bad behavior or behavior my monkey brain will hash into "suppressed interest". I've been around enough to know when a girl has the interest or doesn't. There's no shame in that, girls try to be polite for the most part about putting you off. If I don't get the message/vibe of "fuck yes" (M Manson) it's out the door I go.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:12 PM
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....and the first rule of Fight Club, is what? Jesus boys up the game a bit eh.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 11:02 AM
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well, context, and social risk. It's interesting what it says more deeply about us as human beings. We all loathe being socially shunned. It's literally in our DNA. So approaching the girl is akin to your monkey mind seeing a situation unfold that will have the clan of monkeys throw your ass out. So you perceive it as scary, intimidating, subject to ridicule. In the process of thinking about yourself as say, the descendent of a Roman Centurion or Celt Warrior, this seems stupid, banal, trite. An…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:26 AM
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Well stated, might well have described my own journey in here. Mine wasn't a 10, mine was a 8.5 but a figure skater. I literally exhausted her with sexual desire, but that's another story. I don't nail 10's, they're out of my league. But any hot woman with a couple degrees of elegance is gonna be tough to get over. And you're going to hunt, impatiently, in that class for some time to come, and be frustrated. Pardon the crass numeric evaluations, but I ended up having to work my way up from 5-6's…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:01 AM
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For this veteran of the sex wars, it honestly came down to approaching and getting rejected so often. In the process, I've noticed that women, indeed perhaps because they play the lay-back-and-wait game with men, almost universally, have almost zero social polish, spectacular lack of elegance and femininity, and most of all, dumb as wet stones rubbed together. I love a perfect bubble butt as much as any guy in here, but I find it hard to bang people I think might be deserving of remedial program…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 12:48 AM
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Interesting read, for certain, and it cognitively supports what I've experienced as well. Here's my only rejoinder. You contrast the two as though they are drastically different, in a bid to make your point. I sense it's more organic than we'd suppose. Over time the same guy who rocked her world becomes the guy waiting for sex pursuant to finding her some jewelry on a shopping trip. None of us come here without getting familiar with this second scenario. It sucks terribly for us in every respect…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:10 AM
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agreed 150%. I still open, but I have to have some positive signals. And i'm quick to be put off the hunt if it exists. Otherwise, I have things to do, and I have plates already. If it ain't cute and FUCK YES into me, I'm bailing. I've no time for talk, which is what often begins to occur a lot when it shifts to transactional intent. I want none of that sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:03 AM
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I believe the ancients wrote at length about these concerns. Read Macchiavelli
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 10:42 AM
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Naive? Fair criticism I guess. Shrug. So what?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 12:38 PM
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Point of my post missed on you I guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 12:44 AM
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Bingo. And I would add here, hastily. NO, and I mean NO complimenting OTHER than during sex. Then I say what I want, roughly. But outside the bedroom, no compliments, not even side ones. This lesson was bought and paid for dearly, so I tack it on here with some purpose. Pay heed, don't compliment.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 01:04 PM
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Adroitly stated, sir. I do this from time to time, and I almost immediately realize, with a tint of sadness, AS I DO IT that it's incorrect. A recent example: I have a unilingual Brazilian plate who waits patiently for me to call her Fri nights, and occasionally during the week for wicked, wicked sex. We almost cannot communicate, since I have NO Portuguese. It works fine. We really only talk in banalities- While I'm with her, she literally inundates me with giving. I have never given her a thin…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:54 PM
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The best lay I've had in a long time occurred because, initially jokingly, I said-in response to a shit test as to why she should or should not do something cause I said so- "because I'm older. Because I'm smarter. Because I studied and received an education. And lastly, I'm 20+ years sober, so if I say go toddle over to the beer store, and get some beer even, just go get your shoes on.If I wanted lip out of you, I'll rattle my zipper." big smile, deadly serious in the eye. I find it not unlike …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:36 PM
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Can’t find it now but it was a quote from Michael Jordan, citing the # of free throws he had missed, the number of times he missed the buzzer beater, etc. —essentially it was a detailed keeping of all the times he’s messed up. Obviously it was motivation for him to overcome limitations.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:40 PM
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Your social categorizations offered as universals are a treat to read, sir. That was hilarious. And I know exactly the types you're referencing and that's even funnier.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:04 PM
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Understood and sympathies to your bullying nonsense. I've never been bullied. Don't care for it. Anyone legit tough is usually disturbed at the incongruence and lack of legitimacy bullying creates. But it is sometimes a political tool brought about by necessity I suppose. Anyway, I was going to ask TRP_mask if you couldn't see it that anything other than liking yourself as you once did is just madness? Doesn't matter what the cause was. Madness you still carry around the bullying, as an example.…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:00 PM
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chiming in from sobriety (alcohol), 20+ years- You change the behavior to change the thinking. Most people are convinced it's the other way around. Think evolutionally, our ability to act was long engaged before we developed all the cauliflower. In fact, the thinking is frequently the problem alone.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:56 PM
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Gold marks for honesty. In my experience, humble tho it is, life is acting upon you during such times. Try to ease your mind which is trained to problem solve. Sounds like you got no problems, so your mind just says fuck it. Half the battle once the physical dimension is solved has only started. Everything to do with alpha sensibility lies in a focused consciousness.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 12:36 AM
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I won't wish you harm, but the red pill truth on this will only sink in when you get hurt, and cannot work out as you once did. Then, you will long for these times. Try to see it that way instead of listening to all the admonishments in your head (you're lazy). That's just a story you put in the cassette. But you know, until something changes, nothing changes. DOn't regret pushing yourself harder, that's what got us the hell in here in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 12:33 AM
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There's a quote-I'll put it on Rollo Tomassi, but I don't think it was him- "women expect love but desire control, and they'll give up love to get it, the fools."
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 12:53 AM
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That's the thing. When you realize that MEN, while blowing themselves to bits for a few yards of muddy earth in Flanders, required people to run the factories. We were so obsessed with killing one another, we actually appealed to women for help to do so. One thing led to another, now we're here. And I'm damn grateful we kill each other less, but now we have another set of headaches. Women don't fear men. I find them so empowered on their own I largely only have one game to play, and that's kinda…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 12:51 AM
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Black and white thinking would also be assuming I give a damn what she wants to the point of obsessing about it. IF she shows up dressed nicely, but has just come from a successful job interview, a wedding or a funeral, I'd waste NO time at all. Anything else, well......depends on whether I want to. That's dominance. Mic drop.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah I'm not Don Juan Dimarco or anything, but I can usually tell-as a matter of congruence, and a little time, when a girl wants to fuck. And girls love to fuck, I think possibly more than men. But they pretend and it's important to them that they get to choose, or be seen to be choosing. So assuming anything is black and white with them is idiocy of a sublime nature. For simplicity's sake, I assume women are vastly more preoccupied with status and keeping in competition with other women. We ar…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:53 PM
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A compelling read, and dead to rights IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 09:36 AM
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I play hockey with even bigger, jacked men. It's not size of dog in fight, but rather the reverse. I mean to say it's an attitude. 6'4" jacked and history does not an alpha make. I'm sure it helps, but women leave those guys just as easily, man.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:26 PM
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On that quote, Waking-life.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 10:12 PM
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If you agree with all of these categories (and I do btw), I wonder idly sometimes how the sweet f%ck it is people bother having long term relationships anymore. What delusion!!! I'm less awash in nonsense that could keep me down, and perhaps a little less idiotically happy at times than I was when I viewed the world through a more idealistic lens. And times are changing, but honest to god, I don't know why anyone seeks to shack up with anyone else were it not for kids and even/especially then do…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 10:52 PM
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consider the crucible that produced the JBP-Canada, where polarization is NOWHERE NEAR what it currently is in the US. THus the more moderate tone on things. Petersen's view on men improving themselves and 'to always be a bit dangerous' is spank on with Red Pill His nonsense about marriage and not straying is distinctly Canadian.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:45 AM
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just as they're ramping up that bs narrative. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:29 AM
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Strangely, I don't find really good looking women hit my sexual button so hard that I lose focus. It's odd, and this is not universal, but usually the better looking the woman, the more I see a huge ego. And that doesn't inspire me to be intimidated at all. So no need to imagine a load on her face for me. My issue is a certain hip to thigh to ass cheek and pelvis ratio. Put the right one in front of me, and I used to literally follow that into the gates of Hell. And I only wish I was exaggeratin…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:22 AM
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that's absurd. Of course you strive to repeat that level of knowledge or you're just simply a dumbass. The metric of intelligence is curiosity. Talk to a very pretty girl. They're the most un-curious people you can find. It makes dialogue with them sheer tedium.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:20 AM
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absolutely not, there have been, and always will be "men of letters". Despite our current idiotic social climate (flat earthers, conspiracy theorists, and #metoo and that nonsense), many men aspire to know as much as humanly possible about all subjects. But if you want a treat, head over to Buffalo Wild Wings one night, watch the trivia play. Women know nothing. They're empty headed as a brown paper bag you burp into. God and it's worse via text, the preferred means of her having many empty head…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:18 AM
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This is like sports. Talk yourself up man. Its your dick,so you have to act like it's sports agent. Demand pay raises. Remember, you are the prize.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:28 PM
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"nope the fuck out of that situation" is really something I want on my tombstone lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:03 PM
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I'm 100% with you on this one. I vet totally based on that, no matter how hot. If you're some bimbo who was with a guy anything longer than a year, and have only to say that he was an 'abusive' asshole, I'm not listening. I'm already out the door. It's not a moral judgment, I just know I can't bang someone that stupid.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:01 PM
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I think this is interesting, because part of having frame and keeping it is proper emotional calibration. What THAT means is you have to be relatively self-aware of your own emotions. When you are, then you teach people how to treat you (because you react appropriately), and not only do you do that, but you do it at precisely when it's warranted (timely). If you do this with women, it will be understood as dominance. If you do this with men, it's called 'having your shit together'.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:15 AM
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oh yeah, man I think we're all 6th degree black belts on how to become friends with women. I've had to do this with a BPD chick or two. Easy as pie.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:57 PM
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you're (if you are) the first man I've ever heard of that's got any interest in Lady Gaga. Offered for no reason whatsoever. I had just noticed with fascination how fascinated the women I know are with her. I find her.... kitsch, 100 per cent. Admittedly she has talent. Wasted under a rubric of trying way too hard to be creative.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 04:32 AM
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Honestly, finding a reliable mate is ideal, so you shape your strategy to what is real, not an ideal. What is real is that they are not reliable mates. I think you’re right but your sequence shows you’re still hopeful. And as long as you’re that, you’re BP.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:21 PM
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I'm older, so but no kids-just take this with a grain of salt. I love kids, and get along with them great. I always thought I'd have a kid. Then I started realizing the #1 challenge of having a kid is finding a reliable mate. Still don't have a kid. Figure it out. It's not the kids. It's who you have them with.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:01 PM
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I think quite a number of us have that "girl who got away" memory-but consider this- my last 'girl who got away' actually got off (from an identity standpoint) -on being the 'girl who got away'. Now if that don't make your heart turn to stone I don't know what will.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 07:52 AM
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ditto. It's like the moment I think she saw me hurting from a woman, her maternal protectiveness kicked in, and she got serious with her advice, and gave me the straight dope. Looking back, I realize my mom raised me alpha 100%, but verbally gave me all the beta stuff. So, conflicting messages. My dad, as an alpha, didn't say much. He was 'a rock'. Intimidating as hell, and my mom still pulled the same crap as OP is describing of his mom. "Women desire control and love, but mostly control, and t…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 08:13 PM
2

true, but I suppose that criticism could be made of you anytime you approach anyone-'you must be pretty desperate to ask rando girls their number' is her challenging you to say something fun to put away the ASD. otherwise, any place you meet anyone, someone could come along and say: "You must not have any friends because you're so friendly". Really, who cares? I don't think it really COULD come off as desperate, except to a girl, who wouldn't risk rejection if her life depended on it.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:28 PM
2

wow that's a lot of approaches, and i approach a lot. My goal is not to make women my full time job, nor is it to establish ratios or even-dare i say it, think too much about approaching. Just approach when something looks the way i want a woman to look. Then it's genuine, and it's congruent
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:23 PM
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agreed 100%. I'm either scoring or I'm diminishing approach anxiety. Either way, it's my story and MY game. If she don't play, that's fine. But I invite to come play when I see someone I want, if i can weasel in an approach. girls are flattered when you hit on them. Honestly, until you do, I think they spend so much time in their heads and hearts, they won't even notice you. Make em notice.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:21 PM
2

THAT sir, is a shit test. You have to have an answer for that, if only a shrug and a smile. Honestly, I wouldn't even address the comment. Just push it forward.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:18 PM
1

Situations and conditions are never perfect. I don't make a practice out of awkward approaches, but to be honest, there's a particular waist-thigh-hip ratio that will get me going, and while I'm no romeo, I do quite well. Per Wayne Gretzky: you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Take a shot, life is short. F' em if they can't take a joke.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:17 PM
2

I just tried the grocery store encounter with a 8-9 (she had an ass like 2 pennies, and a short red skirt on for Xmas) and a killer face and bod, but she was smack dab between both parents. When her dad wandered off to shop, I encountered her and her mom in the coffee aisle. Small talk, had them laughing, she was comfy, I moved in, shook her hand, asked her her name, and made some dumb but hilarious comment (I just remember the reaction). All of which took about 2-4 minutes. It was xmas eve, eve…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:13 PM
0

naw, honestly you're wrong. Scolding others' kids in public doesn't work don't care how 'rebellious' you think you are. I'm a hockey coach, so don't bother telling me about the difference between instructing/disciplining and arguing. I did not run away from a confrontation. I asked mom for cooperation, which she wasn't willing to give. I didn't waste another second. You seem on the right track but you're trying to fight fights (or rather get me to start some) that are not winnable so I can claim…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 08:17 AM
1

My observation and point, regardless of minutiae about lions, was this: The young, or the females, are at all times somewhat under threat. That was MY point. This tension is dramatic, but undeniable. And I made that point to offer a counter to yours, which I read as endorsing heavily a (smart) generous and empathetic approach, My point was strictly aimed at the primal fears that seem to allow males to hold power. None of this is necessarily relevant to human dynamic-mine is a total wind sail arg…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 11:41 AM
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Nothing alpha about yelling at kids, besides-you can’t instruct kids in front of their parents without their say-so. You know this. Also, me addressing child puts me and the kid on the same level, which was what my point was to address.. Remove my ego from it:simple premise really- half formed human plays second fiddle to all full formed humans in matters of respect. If the modern woman (using this mom as an example, can’t get THAT shit right, then the whole family is just not very conscious, or…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 11:32 AM
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I agree-last night we had a small neighborhood get together, kids milling about. About-to-be divorcee sits across from me, her hyper dramatic daughter floating about us. We were exchanging pleasantries, her kid comes flying in screaming as i was asking a question. I'm not super anal around kids, but this was overt. So i asked momma "would you please insist your daughter never interrupt me again?" She said "nope, sorry haha-she comes first". I smiled and nodded, got my plate up and left. I don't …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 03:14 AM
1

Precisely. That said, then, if you do meet a girl you think something more substantial is going on with-even suspect it, then you have to vet. And the only way to do THAT is with time. Once there's a time investment, you've just come back to the original nature of women, which will get you one way or another. Sometimes no-win is what comes to mind, but dude-its the only game in town, unless you're going homo. still, kinda depressing once you know the game.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 03:02 AM
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wasn't trying to contradict you per se, just thought it relevant that in nature, lionesses fear their mates. make of that what you will but I think it's hugely more relevant than being empathic, or offering generosity.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 02:51 AM
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empathy, despite the nobility of it, is not something you want to show women too much of-they'll eat you alive. oh, and male lions have been known to kill and eat cubs. Lionesses hunt and defend the pride against predators- Males defend against other males trying to take their pride. There's nothing 'noble' in lions or lionesses. it's fit in or be killed. and females confuse empathy for weakness because despite our vainglorious 'evolution' and big brains, we are nothing but hairless apes.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 11:59 AM
1

I like this one and use it often: "more than Jesus would approve of". Smile broadly, shake your head.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:24 PM
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If what I sense about them is correct, that means OP became assessed as a potential provider (marriage material)- but in showing his critical faculties at work about religion, made her feel silly and required her to re-frame him midstream. I've done this too, and it's always ankle deep in the conversation where I'm in horror it's gone to deep topics. Gotta keep it fun above all else, man. When all else fails, tickle her. But ya, don't talk.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 09:21 PM
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You speak some salty but real truth there, sir. bang on
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 09:17 PM
5

and......kaboom. and you know it was the legless dude wanted out, huh. (sarcasm off)
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 09:10 PM
6

I'd say, building character means nothing to them, and is evident everywhere, and thus our sub. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 09:08 PM
2

well, maybe you boys take this little experiment of mine and try it out. Next time any situation arises, where someone's character is in question, or where someone has been challenged (legs blown off, say) - make it about "virtue" and be sure to use that word. Then, as open mindedly as you can, ask women if they think women in general care about virtue. And prepare to appreciate what all this is about. I'm of the opinion that -no, they can't love man at his weakest, maybe because they don't see …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 08:57 PM
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some of us still do, and make out like bandits :) Don't knock the caveman appeal.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 08:53 PM
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it's cause we are a commodity, it's not even about love to them, it's about infatuation. Once past that, you're done, its just a slow or fast moving clock. I said: clock. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:06 PM
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avocado, your post brought a memory of a bpd chick I once saw-in one quiet moment, she looked far away, sighed and said: 'I seem to make men find God.' Oh, if I had but known what horrors that implied.... Took me a lot longer than a year to recover from bpd fun, I tell you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:36 AM
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dizzy on top of all that's been said, the true 'fly in the ointment' if you will, is that the more attractive you find them, the more they slap you in the beta box. Try if you can not to be so impressed with their looks, their vibe, their 'whatever' because most of that is just you, creating a mental fiction in your head. If they smell it, your chances die on the vine, and they get whiffs of it hundreds of times a week if they're even an average looking woman. There's a strategy to this, but fir…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:33 AM
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I think I'd agree with you, but with a dash less disdain. The testimonials I reread in here keep me grounded in reality. My best thinking got me in here, as is said in AA meetings. So yeah, maybe not the most instructive of things to read all the time. But I still get a lot of value in this sub, because doing your thing right, if you are, is somewhat of a lonely venture. Nothing kills humans like solitude. And yet most men crave a lot of it. :)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:44 AM
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Listen, I'm with you on interpreting the arguments with some subtlety, but do consider that some of what you're taking issue with is the mandate at hand. So in the way that the auto-retorts of "she's out banging someone because she's late coz women" is an insipid response, so too is demonizing what I think our purpose is, in here. And that is to perhaps constantly remind ourselves of what IS essentially making AWALT. Poor analogy I've offered elsewhere as follows: there are sharks. Lotsa differe…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:40 AM
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I think you open ok, despite the language barrier. You asked some questions, you gave banter, and you got replies. unfortunately, and I could be wrong, you have to get a sense to calibrate this, but after a couple of questions to ask about her interests, or life, I personally back right the f- off. i'l look around the room, and even tolerate an awkward silence, but i'm looking at that point for rapport, and if I don't get it, I don't try harder. I sit in silence, or I walk. That's me. consider s…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:22 AM
1

Grieving, according to Kubler-Ross, is: Denial Anger Bargaining Acceptancee this occurs simultaneously on metacognitive and cognitive recovery. anger's normal, in other words. You might want to rant into a journal. Every guy in here goes through or has gone through an anger stage, if not many.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 03:16 AM
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You're not operating from scarcity anymore. Her physical attractiveness and that power is not having the effect you think it should have on you. But the 'you' that thought that, was broken. He's clamoring for more, and you feel it. You say it hurts, and holy crap it's a lonely set of conclusions to have at the end of the day. So here's your tradeoff-assume it gets no better. Can you go back? Can you unsink your head in the sand? Cause i cannot. So I turn, quite rightly, to the things that were a…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:19 PM
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Ok, no. Women really don’t give a damn about you. These are feminists in a debate, so they’re outliers. But I contend women only give a damn about the story and attention anything will receive. You’re at best a bit player in a cheesy play, at worst you’re ‘creepy’, but there are rarely any substantive compliments or comments on men from them that are unsolicited. I got sober a long time ago, likely the most meaningful change in my life. I’ve never kept it a secret, but it’s an integrated part of…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 09:23 PM
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Everyone has a different path to this point, so I won’t dream of speaking prescriptively for other men- But for the love of god, lads-learn to like yourself resoundingly, unapologetically, actively, and unflinchingly in a world increasingly targeting the masculine as the source of the ‘problem’. I realized when I swallowed the pill that much of the nonsense in my head was put there by mom, and reemphasized constantly by the media that surrounds us, I felt stupid for being male, and I come from a…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:26 PM
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Yes. The “unicorns” (lol) are what get all of us to come in here. Then you realize they’re all unicorns. All 3.7 billion of them, and almost perfectly predictable. Then you come back down to earth, and discontinue the practice of thinking your fairy tale exists, and/or that women stand much of any chance of being virtuous, since being virtuous was never their concern anyway. Then you realize they just ‘virtue signal’, to each other, and that you don’t matter shit to them except as a bit player i…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:19 PM
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I doubt even that it’s that logical, nor that much about the guy. It’s about feelz and that’s moment to moment, man. You give them too much credit.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 08:35 PM
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Good post, honest. thumbs up
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:24 AM
1

While I'm certainly narcissistic, and had those facets of my persona dramatically emphasized when I dated a BPD, I do have a question, having read somewhat about the subject- why but why would a narcissist investigate TRP, which stresses self-improvement in every way? I suspect you conflate narcisissism, which is part and parcel of the human experience across the board, with narcissists, who - a) would never characterize themselves as such because it connotes something negative b) would definite…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:13 AM
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Precisely, we've hit critical mass as a species. So his sense that a bubble pop is about to occur may be right, but not for the end of the telescope being discussed. Really folks, we don't need more humans. It's all the other shit that's getting eat up while we continue to populate ad libidum that's the problem. In light of where we are as a species wrt our intelligence and wisdom, and our capacity for self-destruction, on regular intervals-I'd say birth rates of minotrities and alpha/beta male …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:01 AM
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I can't tell if you're telling us you're on the road, living out of hotel rooms and the like, but I've worked IT (desks, leaning forward, peering into screens) for really long hours on faraway deploys- If I couldn't find a gym, I literally transported the P90X syllabus with me (including videos) so I could pull workouts at random. My only pointer then consists of: don't neglect your modern access to working out things, which doesn't stop at having a hard drive with videos on it, but can include …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:55 AM
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No dude you still have a lot to learn yet. Maybe for starters, observe how little a positive reaction you engender when your posts reek of condescension. We get it. You want to say something meaningful.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:52 PM
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Boys, settle down, this is hardly mature behavior. I'm your age group and godfather, trust me, fucking girls has never gotten old for me, nor for anyone else I know. You know what gets old if you let it? your mindset. -Glad you ironed out your preferences, but cut the shit talking to young uns on here like you know how it goes. THat's just nonsense. You're absolutely right: your life your rules and your choices. But please refrain from assuming you know what's supposed to go down 'naturally'. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:50 PM
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"Grabbing" hit the headlines some time back. No. don't grab. Meme si t'es francais. even if you're french. Don't grab. Lower back move if you're daring, caress the ass, smack the ass, but don't grab the ass. Nice recovery.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 01:03 AM
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Put off physical involvement? Stop right there and ask yourself just what the hell you're talking about. Where would that get us, and what is the point of that? You want to establish character by not sleeping with someone, a woman will find another option, usually by day's end, so what the hell would that provide except a situation that she'd have to lie about. I'm not saying (childishly) that women will do this immediately, nor that all women would, even eventually. But enough do, you're better…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:59 AM
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here's the problem /la_vie_en_rouge You note and discuss one by one each of the findings above- and your conclusion (which I think is solid) is to drop anyone or anything embellishing or lying. But since a heckuva lot of women proceed in this manner, how would you form a sub to give PRESCRIPTIVE (before the fact) advice on how to deal with this? Of course you walk away (eventually) from liars, but the point of this sub is to emphasize how likely it is what you're hearing as a man is a lie. I've …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:52 AM
2

Most girls are almost violently superficial. Meaning that you cannot bring them to depth without a fight. So yes, gaming is superficial. Gaming is actually a skill men can learn from women, because no one games like woman on the make. In that domain, (the mysterious doings of romance) women are far more practiced-and superficial.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:47 AM
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our point is that our experiences, as we disclose to one another, are not that varied at all- in fact we wouldn't congregate electronically if there wasn't some consistent playbook it seems like girls are using.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:45 AM
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so your experience growing up was uncommon, to say the least. And you got some tools to be able to figure out what's being said to you, and to discern people's motivations. The only problem is, when you try to examine this from the contrary position (IE as a man), you will look at women analytically, and make logical assumptions that might even APPEAR correct- but since you don't relate to women romantically, you don't see, nor would you ever see, what is really going on. The 'normie' female fri…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:43 AM
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I'm impressed. You speak of metacognition, and I want to know how many of YOUR female friends would even know what that hell that term means? "People" are highly impressionable? NO. But women are extremely impressionable, and not prone to any kind of metacognition. How would this benefit them in any observable way? No one could even show them how it would benefit them to become more aware. No, these are not days for women's self-evolution. These are days for women to try to seize political power…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:38 AM
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your subtle replies tell me you're used to walking this diplomatic line but that you're not convinced. So let me see if I can stress the point: Whether the Venn diagram of women includes ALL women when we say AWALT is immaterial. It doesn't matter that you can find exceptions. Most of my female friends argue in this manner, I actually think it's part of the feminist grooming to take a rule, challenge it's generality with a single exception, and walk away smug like something has been proven. AGAI…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:35 AM
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I agree with everything you said, but I do have to ask the question if you think we're ever #1, even to women who are childless. I'm afraid I'm of the opinion we don't matter shit to them, no matter what the circumstances. A single mom just has every reason to gouge you financially, and almost no reason not to. but otherwise, (I know my view isn't a happy one), I don't think they give a rat's ass about us in general. You're always at least in the #2 spot, if not further down. You might engage he…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:20 PM
2

I might be lucky in this, I've always played hockey and soccer, and if there are two team sports that will whittle your fat off, it's those two. Lifting was in subservience to those crafts, not an end in itself. But I will offer testimonial-I'm betting world class soccer plays drown in puss. I know hockey players do. I don't know if Mr Universe does. So taylor your look to what would keep you alive on the African Serengiti, not what would win a magazine cover in our f'cked up society.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:12 PM
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Yep, I work on maintaining low body fat, but then, unlike our Crossfit crazies, I've always been an athlete. What you need boys, is defined musculature, and a slim waist. You don't need to be the Hulk. In fact, the only cautionary note comes from working too hard and possibly hurting yourself. Otherwise, be as big as you want. But understand, while the women like muscles, this is about health and a sense of wholeness, not becoming the prize stallion. You start off doing this for a million reason…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:07 PM
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In any process, there have to be distinct actions, and distinct information. While there's plenty of info (read the sidebar) about the only thing consistently mandated of us is to lift. I see this as ONLY healthy, but I've been lifting forever. To me it made sense. Doing brings confidence, analysis tends to breed paralysis. I'm giving you basic pointers from all 12 step groups. You have action steps, and you have information steps. Lifting is simply the bare minimum to do. It means you increase …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:55 PM
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Ahh you've climbed all the mountains and assaulted all the windmills you need to, have you? Might I suggest you wander over to Youtube. Listen-no LISTEN to Eckhart Tolle.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:40 PM
1

bingo. Johnny Bravo style ('m winking at PUA that's overt) I've tried-it doesn't work and I feel foolish cause it's not natural for me anyways. just be cool, and I aim for that 'partner in crime' vibe.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 12:42 PM
1

that was refreshingly succinct. I think we analyze at the peril of utilize, meaning only- there's an 'art' to this, as there is to life. Create a flow and be in it, when you fall out of it, as is wont to happen, you get up and get back in it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 12:38 PM
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I'll refine that statement, Wolf: If a societally approved GOOD LOOKING woman had made the app it'd be labelled as empowering. They would literally give her awards.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:46 PM
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so let's be clear, the colloraries here are pretty obvious- if she's banging you and bringing you around her social circle, it's to show off the new toy, to the other girls. If she's not bringing you around her social circle at all, it's because she's definitely into the sex, and is using the hell out of you. It's that binary a system. If you're hubby, or boyfriend, on a date, etc, anywhere public she has to answer for-you're a social peg. Point Final. If she keeps you under wraps, you're her di…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:43 PM
2

See you're onto something here I espouse, and it's not a happy conclusion. Men, RP or BP or whatever, are almost always continually delusional from my perspective (oh hell I do it too) about how important we are to women. How preoccupying we are to them I don't think we matter shit to them, really. Ever. So yeah, they try to impress other women. Not us.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 10:39 PM
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Insecurely? Baby there ain’t nothing insecure about me. Wait is that the sweet smell of projection? Why yes, yes I think it is. :) Seriously, I do hope you’re joking cause your replies are literally making me howl with laughter. Ok my keyboard-sage new friend, I’ll be keeping an eye out for you. Enough for me, tho. I have man stuff to do today. Thanks for the entertainment, new friend.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 11:23 AM
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More arguments right on the money. How do you stay SO competent? I’m in awe. It’s Saturday, buddy. Take a breather from correcting me and posturing as alpha, and see my point for what it is. Girls have too much opportunity, there’s too many thirsty guys who will bang literally anything. This we knew. I guess I’m always a bit surprised at how FAR off their stories are from reality. Mine was mere testimonial, not sure why you’re so mad at me. And no, I don’t give a fat chick fuck about this. Other…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 11:14 AM
-1

Love it. So incisive. You’re so right.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 11:04 AM
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Brilliant retort. Thank you. I see the error of my conclusions thanks to your devastating intellect. Clearly, I was mistaken. I see the light now. Please do comment on my posts in the future, I find your direct and unswerving manner to be not only refreshing, but a read into a nimble mind capable of elaborate argument. Oops. No. Not really, I’m messin with you. ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 11:01 AM
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I’m awake, plate is upstairs. She passed out from wine WHILE I was fucking her lol. That’s not my point, my point is this: She’s at BEST a 6, and I’m not proud-but wait for it, she’s a big girl, pleasant face, still not what I’d call a player, seems like she has a quiet disposition, known her a couple off years... Well she left her phone downstairs, I was bored, I idly picked it up certain it was locked-it wasn’t So I glanced at texts.... I lost count after 20 thirsty dudes’ texts. One guy was o…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 10:37 AM
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Sorry, too dumb for me to comment further. I'll leave Peenor and Tesla and Musk at the big boys' table. I don't understand a word of what you're saying. I work corporate America, I'm no dummy, but Peenor, I don't get your point, and the shitty Nostradamus stuff could likely be left elsewhere, this is a sub for people who think for themselves. The cult of personality is just as dangerous when you think you know better than they do how to handle their challenges. As to the actual logic of your ant…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 05:32 AM
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what's really ironic, is that I thought he was actually drunk and possibly meant to type Trump in there, not Musk. Musk was a surprise, gotta be honest. Lol
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 05:18 AM
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honestly, your read of Musk is really slanted, and I don't know what the hell your point is. I agree Musk is not RP when it comes to women, but otherwise, the guy's attempting (maybe he fails) to retool the entire power grid, while designing and sending rockets. He's at minimum an extremely intelligent man, something critical for the survival of our species, all the moreso when populism puts people in power that have no aptitude for the political arena, nor for running the country. Your post amo…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 11:59 AM
2

Agreed. And tho I’m cynical enough to understand your pitch for ‘relationship honesty’, you’re going to get played in the end, of that I have no doubt. Or you think you can anticipate her deviousness, utterly pointless though it would be. No it will come out sideways, and you’ll be replaced so fast it’ll make your head spin, precisely when you’re at your emotional weakest. Note I’ve not seen my 20’s in 20 odd years. You’re not as crafty, or as slippery with your morals, as they are. I think the …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 06:34 AM
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ok I was married to a female surgeon. That's totally not happening haha. Those careers are sheer madness in terms of work. You've been watching ER too much. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 07:34 PM
5

my advice: let it hurt, and use it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 09:01 AM
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I have zero use for whatever the hell "toxic masculinity" is supposed to imply. Yes, there are creeps like Weinstein the world over. Always have been, and likely always will. As for me, absolutely nothing will make me feel bad about feeling and doing what I damn well please, in the name of masculinity. Period. Somewhere in all of us, yes even the neckbeards, posers and hipsters, lie the long cold coals of a warrior, hunter, maybe a Roman legionary. The world's gone crazy cause it's too easy and …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 07:46 PM
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I sadly believe this, though have never implemented it in a LTR, because since I've RP'd, i have no desire to have one anymore. For some reason, I could tell, as I was reading the sidebar, that not only was this all great advice for me, but also- It was all shit I was gonna have to remind 'her' (generic her) of on the regular. No hell thanks. I'll do plates and FWB's. And you still have to do it even there, but why bother. Just ghost and move on. So much less stress this way.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:11 AM
3

You can only imagine how disappointing your realistic take on things are to those who are only recently converted to RP thinking. I don't see utter nor complete contempt from him at all (towards her), but rather a dissolved desire to reach for "true love" symbols, which are nonsense to begin with. He's telling you how it is. How he got to this place is life. More explicitly , he's telling you (I was married, no resemblance to this situation per se) exactly what love really is, when played out ov…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:03 AM
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Dude. I’m a Classics major so I’m with you 100%, but we could pick Aristotle, Plato (literally any discussion on ethics or character, Acquinas, Moore, any of the German pseudo Christian philosophers, etc to justify a point. So yeah. Old dead white guys.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 07:37 PM
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keep at it bro. I'm almost 2 years removed from a parallel situation. I had to literally 'undo' my thinking...I was trained for oneitis, it's not natural to me, but it feels unnatural to remember that it's not healthy for me. i think as men we get taught a lot of bs. And we learn it well, and we dance the jig as we're meant to. It 'seems' right and maybe in some cases it is, but the truth is, if you're not with the 'oneitis', you're romanticizing who she is, and you're cherry picking memories to…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:49 AM
2

and of course, we have all completely ignored the lesson of Harvey's ATTRACTIVE wife who stood by him for years, likely knew some of it, ignored it completely, and now of course, as the story breaks, has filed for divorce. He had pussy, he had a family, he had a career that completely engulfed his sense of self, where he was made to feel powerful. That power was apparently made manifest that he could act like an utter pig, and not suffer consequences. OP's point about pussy being a commodity is …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 06:17 AM
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FWB is way more relaxed and I find the sex is better because you're not being shit-tested AND comfort tested all the time. It's a difficult thing to parse, but I'd say FWB are with girls who are cool(er) that it's just about sex. I don't trust plates one iota. I trust FWB's about 1 iota, and long enough to consider their feelings before I speak. Plates, I don't care I break.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:41 PM
1

dick game is up good. Good advice tho, since it often comes down to that and that alone. But even that, I promise you, won't keep em loyal. You want loyal, get a dog.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:38 PM
1

Agreed with what you wrote 100%. Day to day, they seem nuts, awfully unstable about things. They want relationships they don't want. They have sex with people they say they don't like. They react to everything, and seem never really in control. But ask them to end a relationship, quick, and get some fresh dick, and they all turn into ninja assassins. That's when I realized (Manipulated Man) that it's not that they're so emotionally stable after a breakup, but for them, a breakup is context for f…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:36 PM
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epictetus is not a bad recommendation, man. But seriously this is way beyond the scope of what's going on here. It's fun to pull up dead white latin/greek/german guys by way of justification. But honestly, what I'm after is to quiet the voices in the head, not feed them. Not anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:20 PM
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naw this has some good points, but honestly, if you're a guy who actually is good at what he does- -don't claim expertise, ever. It's a foolish claim. -do showcase your knowledge if someone challenges you. Otherwise, use the team and plural pronouns because you're going to need a team, help, and likely these people will want to if you do. DO NOT bullshit. In my field, people will smell bullshit like the sweet smell of napalm in the morning. ALWAYS assume there's someone on the call smarter than …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:51 PM
2

You can see our (well yours anyway) own hamsters at work here: -When a chick splits (and they all do eventually which is the point), and we disagree-we dress it up nice for ourselves: "Exploited my principles" is the same description as "fucked me purposely by being manipulative" which is the same as "I couldn't stay one move ahead of her, no matter how impressive I thought/kept myself". The truth is she might have left because someone else had better dick. Or she left because you're too good fo…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 06:58 PM
1

I think you make peace with it. it's neither friend nor foe. It's a conception. A thought. Truth lies beyond such arbitrary and academic splits. When this is internalized, and realized, ego ceases to run you. But for this jedi, that took a whole lotta face in dirt rubbing.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 06:50 PM
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Oxada, i take issue. I don't think you're wrong, in that hacking your ego makes you more impervious to the more common shit tests. But that is a never-ending ...evolution. It's never complete until you cease to breathe. I rarely underestimate an enemy, and I don't wanna start now, but to be quite frank, I've been on this ego-congniscent path for a long time. It hasn't stopped girls, who from the age of about 8-11, begin assessing social situations, from shit testing me in the slightest. The test…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 06:43 PM
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you know, something about the flavor of your text struck me-IF you have any sense (I finally have) about the general state of emotional upheaval women are in from DAY TO GODDAM DAY, then you get why they're hoes and move on faster and replace you quicker than Soviet Russia. To them, feeling bad because a relationship has ended doesn't really feel different than feeling bad because a relationship is working. My sense about this is when a relationship IS working, naturally, that takes effort. Just…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:30 PM
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Yup this, honestly, my last LTR and I were Fbook junkies, or rather she was, and I BP rubber stamped her shit with my likes. I have no use for Fbook. I keep an IG, and a LinkedIn. But to delete my Fbook was not happening. Modifying its use, I log in perhaps once a week, for a few minutes. This online shit of posing will not interrupt my workouts, getting to hockey, work, nor actual sex life, as it once did. But there's literally nothing of interest on Fbook anymore, if there ever was. Other than…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:32 PM
1

I think, quite simply, that I come here, to often read my feelings being expressed. Don't go so hard on the F/R's guys. sometimes they're awful but in general, they're expressing something that never really goes away, I don't care how 'red pill' or 'alpha' you are. I'd express it as a rather deep and abiding disappointment in what I thought women were. I thought rather highly of them at one point.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 06:35 AM
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always. And have someone you can go to in the middle of night, car running, with a body in the trunk, that will just go silently get a shovel, and get in. I exaggerate for effect. You get yourselves your local equivalent of the mob. Watch each others' backs. And don't isolate from men.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 06:32 AM
2

that's an honestly well crafted insult. Quite eloquent. Props
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:47 PM
2

I think you meant, you're never hers, it's just her turn. ;). Remember who is the prize, boys. Internalize that shit
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:50 AM
3

precisely. You gotta keep your wits about you at all times, which is why unless this stuff is deeply, deeply internalized, it's not possible. Better if you can redirect without there being an 'audible' clunk in the room when you do it. Do it gentle, with touch, and make it a fun thing. I recall a story from one of my plates about watching children. When truly rambunctious and you have NOTHING to distract them with, you can use this- "I smell popcorn". Works every time. Start to answer, and then …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 10:12 PM
2

THIS could be the epitaph for everything Red Pill you know. Summed up, this is to a large extent our collective realization. Expressed differently, we might see that our moral compasses are entirely shaped to push buttons in us that women manipulate, and well at that. Heroism is, and can only be, a principle that other men will relate to. DO NOT try to be in any way heroic to women. You were warned.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 10:06 PM
2

True-that way you pick what to reveal. I recall clearly the sheer delight my mom expressed one day, in my dad, when (he was much older than she) he revealed a whole host of jobs he had held down. By that point he'd been with her for 20 odd years, and he didn't talk about himself. If she annoyed him, he'd kinda mumble: "Jesus, woman". She'd shut up. And she's retired military, high rank. Not easy submissive thing to push around at all... He just didn't take her shit seriously, no matter the ranti…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 10:02 PM
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agreed, but when you're getting probing questions, they smell something. In my experience, you're better off changing the frame to something lighthearted, not reply direct. Ever. And I'm telling you that because I used to think I enjoyed talking to women. I don't. I enjoy bantering with women. Which is a lot of words, very little substance. With men, very little words. Make them count. And stand by them. Period.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 09:58 PM
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It's a social thing. Because with a gun and a big mouth, you're a badass. Without a gun, we know who the real badasses are. This is key to understanding the differences between posers with pistols and tough guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 02:14 AM
2

Sasquatch you're on to something I think- Are there really any of us in here that went "wow that's revolutionary?" when reading the sidebar? I realize I'm older than your average poster in here, but I kinda just nodded as I read one topic to the next. It fit. I always kinda knew this stuff. I recognized myself in it and my internal struggle regarding the "be a good guy" routine. Somehow it always smelled of shit to me. I'm not nice in the least. I got small satisfaction out of being the guy all …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:06 PM
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Honestly that has absolutely nothing to do with Red Pill thinking to my mind other than a sad place to park my identity. I'm above these dumb political stereotypes, but I sure as fuck am reembracing some sexual ones. The Democrats use certain social concerns to get elected. Team A The Republicans use certain social concerns to get elected. Team 1 My concerns may parallel society's to one degree or another. But we are not a nation of philosopher kings so I don't embrace calling each other names s…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 09:11 PM
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Agreed, and it took me awhile to deprogram. I would go 3-4 months happily cynical (maybe a bit pissed off) and then this weird sense of lack would take over. I realized I am completely indoctrinated to start looking for a 'new' oneitis at regular intervals. It's like a drug.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:46 PM
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6 months in is early. I'm on the end of year 2 since my wakeup call, and my emotional spectrum is at the far end of the universe from when I swallowed the pill initially. It's about patience with yourself, kindness to yourself. Cause you won't get that from women. BTW, speaking personally, I think FWB is the best way to go. I've got 4-5 of those, and they're way better than plates. Just don't read into those whatsoever. They're meant to be comfy, enjoyable sexual situations with women who earn i…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:44 PM
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well it ain't mainstream among my peer group males not by any measurable standard. I think it maybe a bit more mainstream among guys at the gym, but only marginally, (observing fawning behaviors @ the hotties). I have dozens of friends who would drop everything and run the moment their girlfriend or wife call. And i was that guy until 2 or so years ago. You really have to hit a serious bottom to ingest RP truths. And even then, it's a hard pill to swallow. I don't think it's mainstream yet-
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:39 PM
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i think your point is made-however-food for thought: Maybe women are largely boring, and thus are easily bored. I think we're being a tad too introspective herein. And I don't think women really care, we are but tools to them really. Even the most dominant, assertive personality has a half life of 3-5 years talking to the same girl. Nope. You do you, unapologetically. Trying to keep women's interest is a zero sum game. You simply cannot. They don't see us as people. They see other girls as peopl…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:36 PM
1

And, I've heard some whisper in dark corners, THAT effective counter comes with male oral contraceptive. I'm not smart enough to see how that plays out, but an impact it will have. It'll be interesting.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 01:13 AM
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I'll give you props. Your attitude is spot on. And your rant was honest as tits. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:56 AM
1

I did a lil schoolin on philosophy some time back :).... and we had discussions on virtues all the time, naturally. It's kinda what you do, lol. Relevant to this discussion was that when we discussed 'vague terms' (liberty, love, loyalty, courage, etc)our profs would force us to use real-world examples. Otherwise the lingo, removed from real-world testing, protects your ego. So, a thought experiment for all you bad-ass mummagumma alphas is: A plate calls you tomorrow, and says a man has robbed h…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 05:04 PM
1

I agree with your point on why men value loyalty so much, Sasquatch. But I'm here because i realize that there is no "girl who could provide it", not really out there. While the causality remains suspect, to say that those points are mutually exclusive doesn't ring right for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 11:27 AM
2

...and once you' tamed, son.....dey are gonzo. My life is a Greek play in subservience to this point, until I landed here. I always thought my way, a bit brusque but essentially sincere, was the way. But date a girl and you date her mom, her milieu, her echo chamber, and damned if between all that, and Disney, and society at large, if you don't start to believe what they spout. Once you believe you're putty to them. And they loathe putty apparently. Jesus. SMH
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 11:23 AM
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agree 100%-to the point that I don't bother with the ratings anymore. Listen, unless I think I am a 10, I get intimidated by calling a girl a '10'. But I digress-the takeaway is- for me, super physically attractive girls tend not to be the greatest in bed. I'm assuming that those types end up doing porn. still, there isn't much in society that frowns on a good looking woman, and i find this engenders complacency, a lazy power stretch attitude, in all matters. find a 7 or 8, preferably still youn…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 10:17 AM
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your Edit: note is what saves the day. Take note boys of what you can control, and what you can't. Thanks for the motivation-
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 10:11 AM
1

I agree it sometimes feels like a grind. I've posted on here before about how utterly frustrating it is, not to be rejected, not to succeed, but to waste time in that vague area where you're texting, or calling, or cutesy-ing (the pre-coital dance) but then she flakes for no reason or 'outs' because she has no active game or isn't showing much motivation. Dumb bitches largely aint' got game boys, it's all on you to do the sad modern version of what must pass as a minstrel show on our part to kee…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:23 PM
1

this. You don't negotiate. Once it comes to negotiating a better way, it's her salvo\broadside announcing downhill times ahead. they won't 'negotiate' it'll be all you. Hell look at what's involved to go have an evening's fun with them. I say if it's not a convincingly positive reaction to you, yours and your actions, she's announcing she wants out. Letting her go guarantees her interest on some level. I know, I got here by negotiating, and trying to win back approval I lost. Don't do it. I hate…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:15 PM
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have you ever lived with a woman? Grant you many of the posts still echo bitterness and anger. Grant you many of the posts would clatter with misogyny were they read aloud. Grant you it's an indelicate way to deal with hypergamy, to come here and lend poorly written testimony to the frustration and despair some guys feel when the rules are rewritten with some time in on LTR.... SO just how does your solipsistic and overly critical viewpoint lend anything to the sub? How does your "superior and c…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:57 PM
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I'm offering a suggestion that in many ways, the only real way to have an authentic frame-is, quite counter-intuitively... you have to like yourself deeply. I mean real deep. Into the solar plexus deep. Nothing moves that, and nothing shakes that. Because it's relevant- Rudyard Kipling's "IF" is worth a read- won't repost it all, it's lengthy but it starts- "If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:20 AM
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Funnily enough, I was musing over my plates the other day, hungering for "something"-and it wasn't sex. I realized that-every so often, I am trained to 'hunger' for oneitis, and that was pushing me unconsciously. I see this as a holdover to a once FLAMING codependency. So back to lifting I go.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:44 AM
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Naaaa. Dude... this is kinda all women. As has been stated.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:59 AM
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All good advice, but word to the wise around here, we speak sometimes (in hushed tones) of the BPD siren..... If you give them the 'benefit of the doubt" (point #1), they will eat you alive. I don't give benefit of doubt. I give benefit of surety. Doubt on my part immediately sets them down a notch. Trust and verify NEVER stops. You give a crazy bitch the benefit of the doubt (which you will cause they are crazy in bed usually) and your life will become a nightmare. MY point: trust, but verify i…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 12:35 PM
2

Absurd conclusion, sorry mate. Judge a man on anything but the woman standing next to him is how TRP works. You're off base by 100%
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 09:15 PM
1

I'm a bit taller, but have exactly the same experience. I can't tolerate the attitudes of most extremely attractive women, just little assumptions they make that your interest begets complete lack of spine. You effectively lose them just by showing interest. The only really stellar looking women I've ever gotten I got by ignoring completely.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 07:05 PM
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Stinky, that's a great nom de plume btw- and, I have to agree with him OP. Looks, being buff, all that helps me initially, during the very first meeting. Thereafter it fades to black unless I'm face to face with the girl. They simply are not that impacted by the physical alone. What blows my mind is how little game girls have, how little an attention span, how rarely you'll find one even able to focus- And that last is murder to my intentions. I can have great rapport, lots of teasing and flow i…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:54 PM
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Well I have a couple of minutes before a conference call, so I'll wade in- From where I sit you're making a few mistakes here, and maybe this should be on AskTRP, but I'll let others chime in on that score- Firstly, women are fickle as hell. All women. All the time. If you get one that acts consistent, you've settled her down. If it means consistent and consistent sex, you've played it perfectly. Doesn't mean you get a pass from it tomorrow. With women and dating and vibes and sex, it's almost l…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:59 PM
2

I'm from there and frankly that is a delicious description of it. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 11:21 PM
1

indifference is key, because indifference tells them you won't judge them which is all they really care about. For this control freak, I'd rather know what the hell is going on and kick the cat (hyperbole) later, than to exist in dumb, happy, uninformed and cuck'ed bliss. They'll only tell you MAYBE if they don't sense you'll judge them. To me, this is all the workup, all the shit tests' purpose. To discover your weakness, and for all too many guys, it's jealousy and possessiveness. Besides, the…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:37 AM
1

Oh I disagree. In all situations, there is indeed a winner and a loser. Losers, tend to be identifiable with their lofty, sweet Disney characterizations of relationships. See what I've done here.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:33 AM
1

So I get that, but the first one told me essentially I was moving too fast (I always assume familiarity), the second I escalated in a parking lot, kino, joking, then it was numbers exchanged and then everything else by phone. The third just fizzled. Honest to god, I'd love for someone to watch me it is likely that it's my timing. But if you've digested the pill, it's equally likely it's just something else, take your pick. In all of these cases, I shrug and say: "she wasn't attracted enough" or …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 02:16 PM
4

OH MAN. Am I growing. Can anyone relate? Had a positive day last week late, ended up trading particulars with 3 women. Day game, so slow work up. A week later, 2 have flaked, and the remaining one shows only declining interest. Couldn't have forced it better, had one conversation by phone each with all 3. I'd say they went well. Lots of laughing, overtly sexual. Apparently, though- no. Nothing- I mean nothing- to learn from these three situations, either-other than women are creatures not necess…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:24 PM
1

um where I'm from, it's watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:17 PM
2

no man, you're right. I don't bang friends girls' either while they're together and often after they're no longer together. just skeeves me totally. Sometimes you gotta have boundaries, and there's just too many damned women in the world to bother creating melodrama with my friends. Period.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 07:51 PM
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I'm afraid you're missing the mark here. We are nothing but animals, that's the point, so in effect, TRP is about looking more biologically at women's reproductive strategems, rather than listening to the pompous BP nonsense we've been force fed all our lives. Our advantage lies in being closer to the animal kingdom without denigrating ourselves, than women, conceptually, think of themselves. animal kingdom might makes right. The easiest way to demonstrate alpha behaviors around women, is with d…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:20 PM
0

I'm afraid I disagree that women are curious. They're not. That's what differentiates their existence in a way I cannot relate to. Moreover, the hotter the girl, I find, the less she's curious about a damned thing. The only way I find I can create curiosity, is after banging, and that's to start melodrama of some kind. That's about the only way I find I generate curiosity in them: act unpredictably and forcefully. It's simply not in my nature to want their curiosity that much (shrug).
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:16 PM
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I work with software, ratio of male-female about 10-1 and I like it that way. Remember fellas, don't shit where you eat. Hunt away from work, I promise you it's not worth it to blur that line.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:04 PM
2

I have dogs, and I've been married. Trust me, dogs and man are mutual friends AFTER the institution as well. You want to be dominant, relax your game, be yourself and be accepted followed, trusted and loved for it? get a dog. For sex, get a woman. The end.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:36 AM
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now that's an interesting feature you highlighted for a number of reasons, but primarily the old "chicken and egg" thing- ALL dogs are 99% wolf dna, thereafter bred to reinforce certain traits-but THAT trait, the assimilation of another species to take on alpha role, is the quandary: Wolves are notoriously shy, and stay away from humans, but the domesticated dog evolved from presumably hungry (and not-shy) wolves that would follow, just as you had your mastiff follow, the nearest male....wolf or…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:33 AM
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I appreciate that, I wasn't addressing that. I was addressing his lack of evolved consciousness as regards the other life forms that we share the planet with. queue the Carlin on the arrogance of man. ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:28 AM
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Huh? the dogs are PARASITES? man. And you're bringing up boys with that attitude. That's a damned shame.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:19 PM
7

Hey reread your post, you asked for help. Why the bitch attitude with everyone's reply?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:03 AM
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I hate to have to ask if there's a shred of doubt in your mind that the child isn't yours.... because.... women. I'm sorry. But this reads like she's reacting guiltily which is generally what gets ppl using again.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:35 AM
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That's because women 'shop' for LTR's. And I use TRP to vet out the 'shoppers' cause that's rank bullshit that eventually shows it's true colors (she doesn't give a single fuck about you). It's odd too, because I remember during the most difficult periods I have had to face, women were NEVER helpful nor particularly loving. Where did I get the idea that women were particularly good at loving? I plate ...abundantly, and the women I plate are constantly on the seek/search for boyfriends. Actively …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 07:01 AM
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AS to the N-count of a woman. Never believe what you hear, because that # is the # of men she remembers. Emotionally you think she remembers the randoms along the way? That's how they work. You know this. IT's all FEELZ. Cause honestly, I don't. And for them, counting is 'hazy': a postmodern construct about as deeply rooted as a politician's truth.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 09:39 PM
3

I can only echo this with a hearty "hear hear" If you change direction now, you will loathe what you become. And that will poison you. Allow for some interest, because if she does or does not feel for you what you think she does, doing nothing oriented her way will reveal that fastest.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 09:29 PM
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There's billions of bitches to choose from. I don't piss where my mates do, nor vice versa. Not even old exes. Nothing there. They don't exist as even potential dates. This is hockey law. Adapted for the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 12:46 AM
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Sadly I give this perspective a big nod, OP-OR someone else is in the picture, might just even be a FWB. But I smell other dick. That last bit doesn't read well.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 10:46 PM
1

One word: Plyometrics. Bit jarring cause it's jump training and the vibrations might impact your wrist. But Plyo keeps me lean no matter what I eat, works off the testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 05:05 PM
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compliment in bed. Simple. Learned the hard way to never ever really compliment much otherwise. Only validation gets given when I see behaviors I like. It conditions. This is important.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:41 AM
1

There are some. I've been in AA for almost 20 years, I've met some. They're impressive people. Your game better be spot on with them. They're for pros only. As for the vast majority: Interestingly I mention my sobriety to women I hang with-and it elicits almost zero interest. I find that incredibly.....telling.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:46 PM
1

Man, I gotta give props to this response. There is behind every seemingly random act of unkindness I've received at the hands of women, a sense that I no longer occupy that space of compassion. I could sense it, in fact the last girl I LTR'd-her face literally changed over the years, from a bit of an eagle eyed sweet sexiness, to an open eyed flatlike expression. With that change came a sense of what you're expressing here, but I lacked words to put it in. Growing apathy-but that's how I got to …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:44 PM
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dude bro got stuff goin on. His point was, that if he's not on his "game" she don't gaf. And that's confirmed by my entire relationship history. Possibly confirmation bias but I see the light in the eyes go out if I ever have an issue or a problem... And health problems are necessarily a quick recovery else they're gone. It's not long before the juice ain't worth the squeeze, and that's saying something cause I'm a horndog. Seriously, do I believe in love at all anymore? No. I don't, I realize.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:00 PM
1

well I guess you better be open to learning how to initiate, huh, Janee. That's what equality buys ya
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:53 PM
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well said, Davie. The truth of the matter is that all human beings can get lazy or irresponsible for their happiness. It's the human condition, and why TRP helps men-but only after the pain of re-birth. My dad used to mutter "You are what you eat" when you choose women. If you pick clearly unhappy, self-centered women because you get into the "HB1-10" evaluation of a woman's perceived "hotness" and feel that's relevant to your game/status/reputation- in any way, then I think we mirror this 'stat…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:43 PM
2

pleasure is secondary to fertility, mate. Have a watch of animals in the savannah. Big Cats for example. Pleasure and the leisure rewards of society are secondary factors (important, admittedly to our sexual strategy)....but I read the point in here as a math sketch of why it seems i always gotta hunt. And hunt. And hunt. How come they never really hunt? haha well this explains why, in a rough basic way. Quibble with the math, the point being driven home is still valid.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 01:20 AM
2

At one point, back in my schooling, I believe it was Newton who spoke of "mathematically representing the cosmos". It of course is hyperbole, since to suppose the cosmos infinite betrays the effort to count it. Here too, is a breakdown, I read as hyperbole, to draw from the basic evolutionary basis for man and woman to fuck. Remember lads, the higher brain is the newer brain-IT likes to fantasize and has all this bullshit societal programming, familial dysfunction and whatnot. But at our basis w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 01:11 AM
1

well said. Perhaps the overarching point of all we discuss in here, stated eloquently.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:38 AM
1

I'll echo that, I do not chase. Ever. I do size up situations to put my "lap" into play, but I'll be damned if I'm going to lose a shred of "face" to pursue a woman. So they better be nice.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 08:54 PM
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yep they get to choose. Pick a delusion and repeat it should be the modern feminist mantra. That'll make us all feel good about how real it might be, so long as Bill, Sara, Sara's neice Sharon blah blah and the 80 other members of their little world validate them. Nothing like 'objective' truth spat back at you when your desperation for acceptance screams for it. Then there's just time enough for a Facebook post or 6 -before driving to Starbux up the street for an iced vanilla latte. And don't f…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:16 PM
2

Good god she slays me with her beauty, elegance and voice. Now when TRP starts to hone in on elegance in women, I'll lead a charge or two. You can take a beautiful woman or an ugly woman, add a generous helping of elegance, and watch me move on them. Elegance: the single most rapidly disappearing trait in North American women. Replaced by saggy walruses with tattoos.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:54 PM
0

Now here's something interesting to come out of your observations- You quite accurately assert we are animals. I'm comfortable around my fellow man because I know, he knows and we know our animalistic side. I thusly distrust people who tend to prosletyze. That said, ever try pitching the idea to women that we are nothing but hairless "great apes"? Try having an in-depth conversation about evolution, particularly as it applies to humans, to a woman. My experience? They universally fall silent. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:02 AM
15

Oh hell I read that with a huge grin. Well done boys. Spot on. I think I hit every rung on the ladder down to swallowing the pill. I'm thorough like that. ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:02 AM
1

finally someone points out the obvious weakness of Trump's line of reasoning about things-the industries he's likely to try to save, aren't savable. The cool thing about Musk and his companies is not his financial acumen, nor his business sense, clearly not his functioning in relationships- it's his vision. Having a vision and leading are almost synonymous. And, I might add, having vision becomes essential if you're to hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:21 PM
2

I'm not ashamed to admit playing easy game at funerals- not usually the grieving widow mind you- nor am I surrounded by death daily. But the few I've been to, there's been hookups on the go for sure. People want to feel alive when they witness death.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:01 PM
6

I dated a girl for 6 years-when I met her, pre RP swallowing, I was somewhat taken aback that when I went back to her place, ex bf was still hanging around. In fact, he still lived with her. It bothered me a lot. Still, she was cute, had a great ass, and I loved her. So I pursued and got her to move in with me. That image of him, looking weirdly inchoate in the corner of the living room the first time I picked her up...stuck with me.... until literally 6 years later, during a complete role rever…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:59 PM
5

Oh you've got feels galore going on in this situation. You have a dead spouse, from suicide, a soldier- so you've got guilt, shame, fury, anger, revenge, and a probably somewhat normal desire to bond with the men who served with him, perhaps not knowingly sexual, but most times in the face of death of a loved one, people hook up to "celebrate being alive" and evade the pain for at least a little while. AWALT: true Women don't generally really care about men: true Women are unfeeling assholes: no…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:51 PM
3

hanging around with kids is indeed a blast. Being a parent would be a blast, but that's kinda beside the point, isn't it. The issue was...how does this play in your partner's mindset? Cause a lifelong partner that I could rely on is what I'd like most of all. Reason in my life for the absence of kids, is an absence of likely candidates for that task. Otherwise, there's 8 billion of us. Having kids is by no means now essential to the survival of the species, in fact, by and large the only people …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:24 PM
6

Not sure I agree, but food for thought is that I've asked many a married female friend if they thought that their husband had somehow become effeminized- THROUGH the act of marriage. No good reason for my question other than a sneaky suspicion of it. All of them said yes.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:03 AM
1

I appreciate the amplification of where you're coming from, but I don't need permission nor your hyperbole stated as fact to frame our discussion. The point of everything is to be aware of nuances and shifts, not cling to empty headed notions of fair play, equity and the "sad dignity" of shared human experience. Too many men settle for subpar experiences with women as an expedient means to grab sex. Along the way they pedestalize women as they have been, almost universally, taught to do. So the …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:12 AM
1

no one said anything about treating anyone inferior. I said do not respect a sex because it's a sex. You've failed to convince me otherwise- and I positively don't care what you think of my posts. Nice try. :) Your impression of love sounds cartoonish and single minded from a woman's point of view. I don't care for it, and frankly, it seems a bit trite to repeat the societal standpoint of agonizing over what a woman thinks love is. This (TRP) is about what WE think love is, whether it's worthwhi…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 06:11 PM
1

Nope you got it way wrong Belle You will RESPECT PEOPLE who earn it. And your benchmarks, your standards are those we invoke in here. You absolutely DO NOT respect women, because they're women. Jesus, you missed the point entirely trying to defend Red Pill in your head to the complaints of those not on the sub. How about this? Respect who you want, for whatever dumb ass reasons you want. But do not respect "A sex" because of a tautology. Women, trust me, do NOT respect men just cause we're men. …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:39 PM
2

Consider that post Revolution France was literally dying for heroes and that he was the ONLY one. He racked up military victory after military victory. He was his era' rockstar beyond anyone else.... But Josephine thought she could do better until he just didn't give a f*ck. This is well-known. Wikipedia entry from Josephine: "The marriage was not well received by Napoléon's family, who were shocked that he had married an older widow with two children. His mother and sisters were especially rese…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 02:40 AM
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This. Remember AWALT, but more importantly, human nature. I'm a big history buff so I've been poring over the Napoleonic era. Now his romance with his wife is prime example of how this operates. So long as he was a young general, and writing her letters of undying love while he was in Italy....literally begging her to come be at his side... She was banging half of Paris. He came back, saw that, crowned himself Emperor, and said: "I shall love her for the rest of my days, but she will never again…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:11 PM
2

See my other post. Women worked factories in WW1. And to say men are doing the important things in those contexts really means: "Men are busy systematically killing other men" -no time for factory work. Get the women to help. Nothing about any of this was in any way noble or sentimental.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:26 PM
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Historical Note: Women entered the modern work force in factories during WW1, when our "red pill" attitudes (you want red pill? Look at the Prussian generals from 1900) caused men to blow each other up at a rate that was unsustainable-we needed someone to make the shells so we could go on blowing ourselves up. THAT was why women were invited to the workforce. Only reason was our own collective insanity. Moral (if there is one): Humanity is nuts. Men are crazed and violent at our core in ways wom…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:21 PM
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OP: remember this part of your story- "Her effirt wasn't even comparable to mine, it was like a 85%-15% ratio. My feelings have been fading away as I could have forgiven cheating, but the betrayal feeling just made it worse. At month 8/9 I wanted to break up, but couldn't. The fact that I invested so much time, money and effort into the relationship (into her actually) kept me attached" This is called a sunken cost fallacy. Don't EVER do that again. Trust me, I'm not telling you this from a posi…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 01:55 PM
1

maybe it's not DATING advice, but the nature of things. Consider it, instead of putting yourself in the position of hearing these things, as it stands, entirely out of context. This is not a place for you to get insulted or offer examples of NAWALT, you can do that on the 1000000 other blogs about relationships.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:20 PM
5

Hey grass cutter-a suggestion from a guy who once gave the compliments as they occurred to me. After digesting the Red Pill, and realizing how deep the need for validation in people (women) is, I now ONLY compliment in bed, while fucking. No compliments otherwise. Genuine thanks if they're sweet, but THAT. IS. IT. I compliment behaviors not women, in other words.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:17 PM
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squid, no hell way you can compete with women in terms of sexual availability, man. Props to you on your Facebook recovery, but really, if a woman wants to get laid inside of an hour after breaking off with you, it's done. And that assumes she's waited until the end of the relationship to act, which itself is a crazy assumption.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:25 AM
1

I've met a few. And I mean, a few-and they were of the generation before mine. Meaning, they grew up prior to the advent of feminism. Otherwise, it's slim pickins
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:09 PM
3

I think pure dread game (and thus, not game at all, but a reflection of your true mindset) is the only way to extend that.... and even then, I think you got 2 years tops before they get bored enough to act on something. Seriously guys, they're not like us AT ALL. I keep making this point, they are really beyond coming up with a 'winning strategy' on. Learn how utterly temporary they make everything and do the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:57 PM
1

agreed. And while I work on looking like a greek god, I do NOT have the expectation any woman I meet in the US is going to see me as such. Hell I'd settle for getting same behaviors beyond 1-2 months. Boy I'm hot until that first 28 day cycle comes thru, then.... I die to the Chad of her imagination. Happens all the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:54 PM
11

"You have to find a woman that has her shit together" -ayayayayayayayay. Good luck wit dat my friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:51 PM
1

this is gold, but man does it take a lot of pain to swallow and digest that pill that thoroughly. I spin plates constantly, they are as wax. They take the shape of whatever their hamster dictates, and sorry boys, that ain't got zip to do with us. it's ALL about them, how they feel, what they feel, and when they feel it. And a 28 day cycle that governs that. You're literally nothing to them unless you dick them. Until then, evaluate them as people, and you'll find there are very, very few that ar…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:47 PM
1

Vagbutters, I agree in principle with what you're saying but honestly, women I know think SO DIFFERENTLY from us, that our entire strategy where they are concerned is 'off'. I think we project on to them what we want, often, when we chat in here. Getting in shape is how you stay alive well. It literally better have NOTHING to do with getting poussy because they take attitude, and "how you make them feel" more than anything else. I'm handsome and have a good strong body I've tended to for years, …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:43 PM
3

So true. Fellas, you gotta have game, frame and the attitude more than ANYTHING ELSE. I'm fit, I work out constantly, and have long before I swallowed the pill. Unless you're in her back yard shirtless raking or building a pool, they won't appreciate your body until you're in bed with them. They literally often don't even 'see' your body until you're naked with them. I've had girls I talked to for months (in clothes), finally convert to bedroom games and they've been surprised by my fitness. The…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:37 PM
1

Agreed, and well replied. I'm after authenticity. I could give a shit if the world describes it as alpha or not. But the mindset I suffered under as 'beta' is unrecognizable to me now, truly.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:42 PM
1

another keyboard tough guy. ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:39 PM
2

I don't like looking greasy. So I smear it on and rub it in during the hot part of my shower, then soap up/shampoo up and rinse. Every day for a couple of weeks. Your hair and skin will thank you and women will love you for it. You'll notice a difference almost immediately. Oh yeah, and cook with it. And mix it in with the dog food, it's naturally beneficial in all respects
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:38 PM
1

get it from grocery store, anything marked organic will do- smear it on before you shower, knees elbows face and hair feet, legs, what have you. Cooking with it better than olive oil mix it in with the dog's food too. It's a cure-all, man.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:36 PM
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Absolutely spot on, OP. Those things you chronicled are your LIFE SITUATION. and you are life. We are always better than our situation. Or, to quote a woman (Lol), namely Louisa May Alcott I think it was: "Storms don't bother me, I'm here to learn to pilot my ship."
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:30 PM
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telling you boys this straight up from Florida: Coconut oil before or while you're in the shower. Saves your skin, which is important for attraction.... Oh and btw-this is one of those comedic things that Bill Burr mentions: "registered firearm" is the social item lacking from black neighborhoods, that white boys know intuitively. "not being ashy and using moisturizer" is what our darker brethren might know intuitively. Try it. Hair, skin and cook with it. Itchiness and flaky skin is gone.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 12:03 PM
1

ironically, as to your last point, the quote I'm offering is from a woman, Louisa May Alcott: "I don't fear storms, for I am learning to pilot my ship". This is it expressed right here-
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:08 PM
6

Old school mentality: your name is absolutely something to be proud of. If I'm rejected because of my last name being given, f*ck em if they can't take a joke. Seriously, man. agreed. OP, that's kind of inane and borderline mob criminal behavior, at a time when you're supposed to be drawing her INTO your frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:30 PM
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this made explicit any and almost all success I've had, I like it fine. Thanks OP- I know this attitude actually has a physiological correlate, in that I operate not out of my head, not out of my voice box, but from a place just south of my solar plexus. It begets quiet bemusement, centered- "amused mastery". Grounded. Mind you, if I get lost in lust (there's a certain waist/hip/thigh ass combo I'll confess to losing it to, often). ...it's all really in the head. You're literally living out of a…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 01:42 AM
16

hit it out of the park, mate.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:06 AM
1

That's silly. We make claims to a mating process, in many ways women are unconscious of, that's over 50000 years old, so as to loosely characterize these label s: alpha' and 'beta'. Of course the genes desired by women would place a high emphasis on intelligence, else the species would not have evolved as it has and continues to. Initially offered that "alpha" is a set of behaviors and gene traits. #1 on that gene trait list is intelligence. Moreover, if we discuss strategies in here, it's becau…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 09:14 PM
2

"grammar nazi"? -that old saw? just correct your grammar and be grateful for the lesson. I'm tired of living in a society where stupidity and attitude make up for a lack of education. Notice served. The fact that you misspelled idiosyncrasy in your reply marks it as a reply from emotion. Slow down, no one is trying to shame you, just trying to clarify a TYPEWRITTEN medium, so we kinda need grammar, lest you're misunderstood.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:22 PM
1

this is good. If being able to dance doesn't help you, god help us all, they're just too messed up to deal with any longer lol
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 06:33 PM
3

"I experienced depersonalisation, where my life no longer felt real, it was like an abstract concept. I was inside of this body, but I just wasn't really "there". It's hard to explain without going through it yourself." That disconnect continues to accompany me, but in momentary fashion-in fact some days I might have it 2-3 times. I think it's healthy, now that I've befriended it. It's always jarring, but I choose to view it as a kind of mental reboot: that my "persona" and "image" (ego) aren't …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:46 AM
2

boom, there we go. That was quick.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:47 PM
2

snag one for me wilya I think there's a dial-in service somewhere. Maybe Thailand? Singapore.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:47 PM
1

If you represent Alpha rather more as the collection of attitudes and gene-desirability then you're more on the mark. That means by necessity, (if you're human) that "alpha" better mean intelligent. We're raising the bar here gents, not sliding back into silverback. Alpha might mean a lot of things to a lot of people, but stupid is one thing it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:06 PM
1

yup that's a valuable book, one of the few on this notion of mindfulness (valuable especially as it was written by a skeptic)....
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 09:27 PM
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he's not alpha and despite my issues with feminism and Hillary and the state of the BP media- to warrant my support you have to have a brain. I don't see it in the orange man, sorry kids. Alpha doesn't mean stupid.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:48 AM
1

and I think, in this case, that's when change happens. What kind of change, who knows, but you'll be ok with it. Sometimes anger holds us back, or in fact, is the reason we claim with justification is holding us back.... either way, you've just had a breakthrough/evolution. Good on ya
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 11:49 PM
1

"If all of a sudden we get Trump as president and he stops all our support of terrorism and makes peace with Russia and China" I'm sorry, I stopped reading after this bit. Stay out of politics, or rather the canned bs we read and hear and watch, please. I'd like to enjoy your points, but no point speculating speciously about a Trump presidency. It detracts from your message.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 03:17 PM
1

hear, hear. Same pattern as you, same observations, same conclusion. Not much to contribute in the forum other than to stamp my feet in approval at your process.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 06:02 AM
3

Um Philosophy major here. Reminding you of what our mission here is in TRP: at it's essence, it's a philosophy. How much money would we all have saved with a bit more philosophy than our BP nonsense? First rule of philosophy is question your presuppositions. All of them. I know it seems "not practical", and for someone incurring huge student debt (like US students) only fit for the kids from wealthy homes. But honestly, that's kinda the point of being educated. Not "having an education". Being e…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:57 AM
1

IF-big IF, you internalize the red pill...and digest it right, you start to be observant of how utterly full of shit AND lost, most women are. I find that detracts from my desire for them, just enough. Just enough to want pussy, and to avoid being one, at all costs. If anything, err on the side of difficult, quite often. I'm super direct about this. Sometimes I just say no-(try to do this over the phone, so your face doesn't heave while you do it, because mine still does)- I honestly have never …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:31 AM
9

awesome discussion, boys. I'm watching from the cheap philosophy seats. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 07:17 PM
2

Again, I live in Florida. Sharks abound, of all types. Since "we" as humans aren't a delicacy to them, they essentially leave you alone. So, uninformed as to the way of the world, or 'coached' by Disney and the sway of public opinion, you might happily head to the beach without fear. But a shark's nature is to bite, and a marine biologist would know this. AWALT is trying to address more of a 'nature' thing to my mind, than comment statistically in a meaningful way. Women's nature is not what we …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 01:53 PM
1

Note to all: change of mentality doesn't come from thinking different- rather you "do different" and your mentality will come along for the ride. Seriously. First lesson in all 12 step groups. Applies here.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 09:39 PM
4

remember the words of Charles Sheen: I pay them not for sex, I pay them to leave. If your intention is to keep them around, studied indifference except when you're in each other's presence is the ONLY way. Otherwise, you need to open her up conversationally, or you don't hear about all the other bs. Over time, you won't hear about the other bs anyway. Familiarity breeds contempt. It's a human trait, not a female trait.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:55 PM
1

meh. I'm not convinced that's a workable situation at all-YMMV, but for this camper, I cannot guilt, shut down, nor "show backbone" because all that will do will shut her up about her hypergamy. You cannot guilt or be controlling or even SNIFF of being judgmental. The lies begin in earnest if you do that. You simply cannot be ruffled by any of the replies you get. That and ONLY that is workable. I get that we all want loyalty. It doesn't exist no matter what you do, and women will lie their asse…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:51 PM
1

DISCLAIMER: I'm assuming you aren't, but if you're screwing like wild things, then you don't really have a problem. OTHERWISE- You're deep in it. It's only after you step back do you notice how much the shit smells. If you cannot leave, or aren't ready to-make yourself scarce. I mean scarce as fuck, and see if it improves. Don't apologize nor explain, don't answer texts and don't be a "good boyfriend". Oh, and no point in arguing since she's not listening. Problem with these attitudes is they co…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:38 AM
1

Agreed, the ego is just gallivanting forward in the West. The "individual" now is SO important we must necessarily ignore great segments of society and not only that, shame people who call freaks, freaks. I'm convinced that "things" like a guy in the public eye, who doesn't submit to a sex-change operation (I'm looking at you, whatever-the-fuckety-fuck you've become, Bruce Jenner), takes hormones, grows tits, wears a dress, isn't by any definition a woman, but a complete freak, now deserves my r…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 02:33 PM
2

"women can be devious as hell". There's your mystery unravelled as to what this is all about. It's right there. Look no further.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:44 PM
6

bah, don't get sidetracked into defending your SMV. Just understand what the subreddit is for, it's for men, realizing that we've bought into some damned stupid 'stories' for want of a better word, that kept us confused, wavering and trying to be "nice guys" and earn our women's 'devotion'- only to realize, too late, that women aren't about devotion. Oh there might be the odd "mother theresa" (yes, I think it's about that rare), but in general, vastly overwhelmingly, they're not. Don't personali…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:39 PM
4

I'm sorry, I live in FL. You can swim with sharks, they often ignore you...but what TRP is insisting is to be aware that sharks bite. It's what they do. Your points are made quite simply if you'd said: NAWALT, and, because of that, it's the guys' fault for looking for less, and settling for less, ultimately. Not a bad point, but how many of us are going to win that lottery? and what, pray tell, would YOU if you were male, be warning us about? It wouldn't be that there are occasional diamonds in …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:31 PM
10

wolves don't care what sheep think. My confidence works for them. My kindness doesn't. They can call me an asshole, they can call me the love of their life, it's words, and I don't pay attention to their words. Their actions tell me all I need to know.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:52 PM
35

THAT, my friends... is the Red Pill Truth of all truths. I spin plates, and keep them going for months, some cases, years. We get in the door because of women's idealism and solipsism. During that quick phase, you get thought of, complimented, and treated well-not sex on demand, but demands for sex. The sad truth is that they are so ADD (thank our modern society) and the 28 day cycle rules them, and their feelings. If you watch closely, after 1 month, the compliments die. The tests begin in earn…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:25 PM
1

I wasn't making a point about actions above words or words above actions. I was making a point about words and actions and having some consistent connection between the two. There was more of it (female consistency in thoughts and behavior)-I think, prior to the internets. If I was to base the solipsism of women in anything nowadays, i'd say the validation they can get via the internet is likely the thing that's changed the most.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 02:04 AM
-2

Utter nonsense. I have plenty of good relationships with women. My mom is a retired Lieut Col, my paternal grandmother started her own business in the Depression. I have nothing but compassion for women who walk what they talk. And that is not the norm. Moreover, neither my mom nor my grandmother would entertain "feminism". They did what they did, and wanted nothing to do with a 'movement'. Despite coming from a mostly level-headed, well heeled family, I ended up with some seriously amplified ex…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 05:38 PM
6

This. I'm gonna rant a bit here- I think we've all collectively to one degree or another thrown everything we've got (at the time) to a woman(s) to make things work. We've all had to earn our RP stripes, and that likely involved a bit of falling on the sword of BP effort. There's a kind of rebirth thereafter, with its own agonies, but I believe we eventually get to evolve into what Socrates' alluded to as :"participant observer" and more rooted in our own identity. As such, we can choose how to …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 03:55 AM
1

yeah that gets a thumbs up from me. In my case, simply put: I got out of my own way. Well told, OP
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 12:22 AM
1

Interesting thread, but I might have something for you folks- awhile back I had some er, substance abuse issues, particularly drink-(runs in my family), so I checked out. I bottomed. To get sober, to gain a different perspective, I had to start doing things differently. I spent awhile in rehab after 6 months, terrified I might relapse... And that's where I first heard this expression: "you don't change how you think because you decide to think differently. You DO differently and your thoughts wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:58 AM
1

I started reading Tolle about 8 years ago, and found my frame. By not thinking, you make room for creativity and health, (it's mindful meditation). I used a bicycle: And I'd pick a distant signpost and just focus on my body, my breathing, with no other thoughts, for as long as I could. Amazing how difficult that was initially. I'd say the idea of "zen" is perfectly suited to RP. I heard of and read Tolle (voraciously) but I still spent another 7 years totally in cognitive dissonance, with full B…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 01:29 AM
18

well done. I'm approaching this stage myself, brother. Keep at it. You want loyalty, companionship and kindness in 2016? Unlike what my mother used to suggest, a woman is the last place I go to look for those traits. I got a female labrador retriever. She "gets me". So in essence, the average family dog will "get you" better than any female human being you meet. And won't flip on you nor try to convert you. Dominance/submission guaranteed. Much better travel companion, and what's more: active. I…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:21 PM
3

Dude, I got sober at 23. Talk about reinventing yourself.... Now the bad news. It took me 24 years to return somewhat to who I was when I was drinking and didn't give a damn about the "rules". TRP is a recent wakeup call (under 1 yr). After I got sober, I started to look after my health, I have good genes and I'm more or less always ripped. But I tried so hard for so long to be something I wasn't, either a totally self-destructive waste case or a mildly self-destructive BP'er. As is said, before…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 10:00 AM
2

A word on charisma: Prior to waking up and swallowing said pill, I noted some damage after a recent LTR ended: my emotional barometer was busted. I couldn't "read" people's moods or trust what I was seeing. I was in the grip of the BP paradox. I tried everything I could to keep the last LTR alive, and when it was done, I was utterly confused and emasculated. Charisma is what is returned slowly, as the confidence of what you're seeing 'under the covers' about women becomes real, and I'm not sure …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 09:56 AM
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Well said. Honestly there are parts of Paris I'd sooner not visit than Chicago. 76 years ago, the french surrendered quickly to a German military that was and quite possibly is still, the best military on earth. 100 years ago in 1916, they died in droves at Verdun. And 205 years ago, under Nappy, they crushed the combined armies of Europe, handily, repeatedly. Not knowing history is how buffoons like Trump come to be considered Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 12:48 AM
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I had this experience as well and I assumed it was pure evil until I did lots of research into the nature of bpd. Once you understand the hooks (great sex, perverted nature), but see it for what it is- Bpd ppl are like burn victims experiencing heat. They have no inner framework of personality, they merely mimic what they see, and moreover, twist everything immediately away from themselves with a determination that will get you questioning your version of 20/20 reality, lest they themselves see …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 10:22 PM
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Poison ivy, your comment requires me to reply. Forgive the length- First off hats off to you for challenging us to defend intelligently (I stress this) the purpose of what brings us in here- it's (The Red Pill) as I see it, a wake up call to men to find themselves, simply. What you're witnessing is a de-coupling, perhaps a bit of a rough one, from women to accomplish this. It's honestly too generic, to basic, for it to translate into politically mandated things, because that's not finding yourse…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 11:37 PM
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I think more precisely, TRP: commit if that's your thing. Know the risk/reward scenario fully, devoid of our collective "Disneyfication" of commitment. They're just as shitty as us, but on the whole, they're cuter. And in Disney, (sorry I'm in Florida, it's pervasive) cute=good. It's really that idiotically simple what we buy into as BP. Personally- I get smitten by the right set/ratio of hips/thighs/waist/pelvis (and I mean lose myself there), and I look to this sub and you guys to give my smel…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 10:29 PM
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Hey boys. I feel you. Kinda same situation here. Same result. Now, same fucks given in general, which is to say none. This seems on the one hand empowering, but still reactive. I'm synthesizing thru that angry coldness. But nonetheless, I'll be honest, from like grade 6 I wanted a girlfriend. So I sucked at the BP titty for a long, long time. A little horrified at how misdirected I was. For me, holding frame is entirely a discipline and nothing to do with who I am essentially. It's kinda surreal…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:29 PM
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