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All of this is basic stuff. Same goes for any dating app out there.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:02 PM
1

Wut
/r/seduction18/04/14 11:45 PM
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It depends on my mood, but I top at maybe 20-30 texts a day. I "train" people not to text me that much. If I'm setting up plans with several people I might get into the 100's, but that's only a weekend thing.
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:41 AM
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Dude, 114 unread texts? Holy shit, that a lot of cat facts!
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:27 PM
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I'd have my headset hanging on my neck. Not suspicious at all and you have a mic right there.
/r/seduction26/03/14 01:16 AM
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"And after hitting that walk-off grand slam, I fucked the living shit out of her." Yep. I'm using that from now on.
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:06 PM
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Whipping out my dick works only sometimes.
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:11 PM
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I have one that I've kept for about a month now, which is my new record up from 2 weeks. What's worked for me is to simply treat her as your friend communication wise Do you text your friends everyday? Not really. Don't do it with her. I've kept my interactions with her to a minimum and to a point where she pushes me to hang out with her. Then when we hang out I fuck her brains out. Hang out for a bit afterwards and leave. I don't really text her until I want to see her again. Rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:47 PM
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Hmmm...could this work in the more modern FaceTime? I've had FaceTime "sex" a couple times and it's worked out pretty good.
/r/seduction04/02/14 07:44 PM
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Society has trained us to mind our own business and ignore others. Standing alone in line? Check your phone and play a shitty game, god forbid you communicate with someone else! Have your pick of direct and indirect openers. I'd had great results with both, if they're applied in the right situation. Indirect opener route: What you have to do is spot someone that isn't doing anything in particular. Open books are slightly tricky, but if you're informed or interested in the subject, go up and ask/…
/r/seduction03/02/14 04:19 AM
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Listen to him before he's shadowbanned!
/r/seduction02/02/14 12:23 AM
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Chained Bitches IV. Hands down. OR, talk to her about it. I'd lean more towards horror movies, they are a good excuse to get close and "protect" her. Comedies are also fun and take off nervousness.
/r/seduction31/01/14 03:10 AM
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I see myself trying again later on in life. Mid to late twenties maybe.
/r/seduction22/01/14 08:41 PM
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About the same. 2-3 weeks and then I would get needy as fuck. Right now I'm just casually seeing girls, no relationship. And guess what? It's working. I have this one girl that texts me 2-3 times a day and i reply once or twice. I ignore her every now and then. The rest I usually have to hit up to hang out. One girl stands out. Picked her at a Starbucks, hit it off on day 2, fingered her the night after. Then I asked her out, like formally asked her out. She backed our and ran to the hills. I fo…
/r/seduction22/01/14 08:02 PM
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I usually answer with something similar. I always get questions about why I moved here and such. But my go-to answer if the girl seems fun is: Northern South Africa. I look like 5 different races and act white as fuck. That usually throws them off.
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:35 PM
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Keep at it man, you'll get there!
/r/seduction01/01/14 08:05 AM
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Patiently waited for the safe to be opened.
/r/seduction28/12/13 03:42 PM
3

Can confirm. Exited BART on 16th & Mission. Weed. Weed everywhere.
/r/seduction10/12/13 10:41 PM
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Ask questions, comment, interrupt and share your stories. That's all it takes. Everyone loves talking about themselves. Ask random ass questions and if you think of another while she's answering that one, go ahead and ask. Have a similar story? Tell it. Conversation dying? Go back a topic or 2.
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:00 PM
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This is very important. Chances are no one gives a fuck about you. If they do, most would be impressed you had the confidence do do it. In the last week I've closed 2 girls surrounded by people. 1 was at Starbucks sitting across from an older woman. I just sat next to the HB and talked to her. I could see the old lady shooting approval smiles to me every now and then. The other was at my college's library. A guy from a class sat next to me while I was hitting on a girl. He clearly didn't care fo…
/r/seduction09/12/13 06:57 PM
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Let me tell you the story of how I lost my virginity. I'll make it as short as possible. Met girl on OKC. Decent looking, 6.5/10. Took her out for coffee and hookah bar. I hadn't kissed a girl in years. Since I was a bit high from hookah I stopped giving a fuck and went for it. I'm pretty sure I was awful, but I kept my cool. Pulled her close to me and started fondling. Thighs, boobs (1st time grabbing them!), ass. Then I slid my hand to her crotch, over the jeans. She stopped me and to told her…
/r/seduction08/12/13 05:43 AM
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Peoples watching. It takes some skill, but once you get the hang of it, she's gonna have the fun of her life. You can do this basically anywhere!
/r/seduction08/12/13 04:55 AM
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Really? In my experience FaceTiming is like chick bait after the 1st date. It's like a mini date!
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:40 AM
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Then come up with free adventures! Breaking into abandoned buildings is free. City exploring is free.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:19 AM
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Crazy can pass as adventurous. Rob a bank, break into some random place, etc.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:18 AM
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I'm a guy, but I'll help you as much as I can. Here we have the unwritten rule that no matter how you look, you can approach anyone you want. Actually, someone may have written that somewhere in here. Pick up consists of 2 major fields. Inner and outer game. Outer game is what people see. Your style (looks don't matter), how you approach, tonality, etc. Inner game is what people don't see, however people do perceive it. Your confidence and whatever makes you you. If you want to dress better or i…
/r/seduction07/12/13 04:53 AM
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It looks normal on my ipad, but when I saw your post I opened it on safari. Weird stuff.
/r/seduction07/12/13 04:15 AM
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Coffee is fairly cheap. Parks are free. Walking around town is free. Your city/town may have some sightseeing. Find crazy/weird/not ordinary sights/places and go there.
/r/seduction07/12/13 02:22 AM
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I feel like this all the time now that we're getting ready for finals. What I've been doing is hitting Starbucks in the morning and making small talk. That usually gets me in a better mood. Another technique I remember from Simple Pickup is to just do random shit. Just go out there and dance or ask random ass questions to random people. This will warm you up for sure.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:36 PM
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The only way is to face your fear. Just get out there and do it. Start low with light touches and you'll get more comfortable. Then hug her. Then hold her close to you. Then kiss her. Go get her, tiger!
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:30 PM
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After finals: "we've studied enough, it's time to reward ourselves with a night of fun. Let's hit up [fun place] on [date and time that works for you]" Remember to have a plan as to where to isolate her and further escalate when things get hot ;) Worst case scenario she shuts you down, but since no "I like you and I want to fuck you" was said, I don't think your friendship will be ruined.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:27 PM
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Google "questions to ask a girl", read it, figure out what sounds interesting to you and try to remember that next time you go out. "Mr. Interview" comes out when you're just laying down questions after questions. We don't want this guy coming out. But you need to ask a few question until one opens her up. Nicknames, most embarrassing story, biggest pet peeve, etc. One of these will make her start vomiting words and stories. Once you find it keep at it. Stop asking questions and make statements.…
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:22 PM
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It's already been a month without a girl touching my dick...but yes, you're right. I need to internalize that. Thanks!
/r/seduction05/12/13 06:19 PM
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From my experience if she's interested she will reply your text. Within a couple days text her that you're calling her at X time and do it.
/r/seduction05/12/13 04:18 AM
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Ask in the IRC chatroom maybe? OR Grow some balls, go talk to her and quit over thinking. I'm a fan of this one.
/r/seduction04/12/13 10:45 PM
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"Hey, I really enjoy our little chats, lets have [coffee/drinks/whatever] on [day and time that works for you]"
/r/seduction04/12/13 10:40 PM
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Fixed!
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:18 PM
0

He has his Russian accent going for him and let's face it, he's good looking.
/r/seduction04/12/13 07:26 PM
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People who read this and think this is a good idea, remember HIGH ENERGY ENVIRONMENT!! If you go out on the streets, coffee shops or even a low key bar doing this, you're gonna get slapped. Hard. To do this you have to be 100% serious and 100% outcome independent. And have decent looks.
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:04 PM
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Speak clearly and slowly. Simple English should do. Avoid slang. Don't be pushy or out pressure on them. Be nice.
/r/seduction04/12/13 12:08 AM
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I'm guessing it's because I'm insecure and needy. I'm working on it!
/r/seduction03/12/13 09:42 PM
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A couple months ago I was hooking up with this girl. It was all fine and dandy until I started going for a relationship. Don't get me wrong, she was a nice girl and all, but I don't see myself dating her. But I still pushed for it, and eventually that drove her away.
/r/seduction03/12/13 09:14 PM
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The thing here is that I don't know any different. After I get somewhere sexually with someone I want to lock that shit down. At first I thought it was neediness (I'm pretty sure still is), but even after having several dates in a week I want to gf'd them all.
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:28 PM
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I like this. I'm adopting it as my new MO. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:55 PM
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As frivolous as it sounds: Sex. Maybe even meet a girl worth dating. Having a wider set of choices if I ever decide to date. My end-game for now is all about having fun.
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:51 PM
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"Please don't cut me, please don't cut me, please done cut me..." That's really all I ask for.
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:07 AM
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She's cute/attractive and you wanted to talk to her.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:59 PM
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Skyn by lifestyles
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:30 PM
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For now you're gonna have to fake it. Believe that there are more girls out there wanting to meet you. In all honesty, there are a lot of girls out there that will be into you. And this isn't a shitty online ad, this is the truth. Most girls are pretty receptive and actually nice people.
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:04 AM
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Yes. That was me earlier this year. Down to the T, actually, as I'm 19 as well. Now I've had sex with several women, got numbers on a regular basis (kinda dating someone right now, so I'm taking it easy for a bit), improved my self-esteem, and overall happiness with my female relationships (platonic and sexual). The trick here is the abundance mentality. When you get a bag of M&M's, it has hundreds of them, right? If you drop one, well, tough shit. You have more, so you don't care about that one…
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:48 AM
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significant sample size (maybe 1000s) Challenge accepted!
/r/seduction29/11/13 07:47 AM
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Yeah, man. My uncle smoked a cig and texted once. He hasn't been the same since.
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:19 AM
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I'd go outside. Walk around the mall or something.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:10 AM
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Any music should do, but play it low so you can talk. Use the "us" mentality from the get-go. Hug her and walk her to the car guiding her with the small of her back. Be a gentleman, open the doors, pull back chairs, walk on the busy side of the road, etc. Have coffee and build up comfort. Then walk with her outside. Try to kino as much as possible. Hold her hands, put your arm around her, poke her (non sexually!), etc. While you two are reasonably isolated (not a busy store/street), simply stop …
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:51 AM
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I'm a graphic designer. I've actually gotten better! My positive experiences and easy going-ness helps me work better, cleaner and faster.
/r/seduction19/11/13 03:45 AM
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Instead of listing out IOIs (Indicators Of Interest), I'll give you a better tip. Assume Atraction*. As long as she's smiling, she's interested. It is YOUR job to make sure she keeps smiling and to escalate (make it sexual). *until rejected
/r/seduction17/11/13 09:37 PM
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You need to get into the "I don't give a fuck" mindset. Like, truly not give a fuck and become 100% outcome independent. How do you achieve this? Get out there and truly let yourself go. If she doesn't like who you are, that sucks for her cause she's missing out in an awesome guy.
/r/seduction16/11/13 08:38 PM
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I'n higher energy environments I call their hugs "lame" and make them hug me harder. I love feeling their boobs pressed against me.
/r/seduction15/11/13 02:31 AM
2

3 that seem out of her control or makes no interest in rescheduling. No-show is an automatic elimination.
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:44 AM
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Shake hands and hold it longer that normal. Never pull back, let her do that. High 5 for whatever reason you may find. Joke, burn, mutual interest, whatever. She said something very cute or sad? Hug. Walking somewhere? Lock arms or lead her with the small of her back. Cold? Offer jacket and/or put your arm around her. Small touches on her arms or back whoever you can organically sneak them in. Tickling. Fuck, I love tickling. It's kinda hard to explain, but if you press and run your fingers on s…
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:40 AM
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I love Inc's articles on how to succeed. They're mostly spot on! I've read how to be a good manager, boss, supervisor, sales man, pitch, etc. And I think it made a solid basis for my game.
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:23 AM
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I'm not blowing cute girl off. Just gonna keep it platonic. I never mentioned the word "date" or any other way she'd think I'm interested in serious stuff. I'm gonna still hang out with her some time, but I'm gonna make sure she knows it's strictly platonic first. I'm bust the rest of this week anyways, so they'll have to wait.
/r/seduction14/11/13 04:03 AM
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I ran into the HB and got her number. She seems very outgoing and I'm pretty sure she's into me. I'm gonna go after her and keep it cool with the cute girl. If they ever question me I'll just say I'm a very flirty guy. It just comes naturally to me since I work in sales (Among many other things)
/r/seduction13/11/13 08:28 PM
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Shit. I thought I posted there! I'll move it over there in a sec.
/r/seduction13/11/13 04:53 PM
1

Flirty friend sounds like the way to go here. In the mean time I'll try to get with the cousin. No spinning plates since it seems that they're close. And the Instagram thing was a huge coincidence. I normally just check them out, like any hot pics and forget about it. Thanks!
/r/seduction13/11/13 04:52 PM
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Under 7 in the scale of attractiveness. And HB stands for Hot Babe.
/r/seduction13/11/13 04:48 PM
1

A good rule of thumb is to keep going as long as they're smiling.
/r/seduction13/11/13 06:07 AM
1

If you see her go up to her and say "hi"
/r/seduction13/11/13 12:34 AM
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If I wasn't saving up for Black Friday I'd fly out there tonight! Gaming with a Brit sounds fun as shit. Hope you find someone!
/r/seduction12/11/13 04:58 PM
2

Day game is your friend! Coffee shops, bookstores, malls, Libraries, college campuses, streets, stores, etc. For night game look for party gigs (hip hop, EDM, raves). They're usually 18+.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:13 AM
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I read this in Chris Rock's voice. It made it as funny as it was inspirational.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:06 AM
1

Well, Dubai is now out of my "to visit" list.
/r/seduction11/11/13 09:46 PM
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You got your pointers, work on them. The more dates you go on, the relaxed you'll feel. Learn to go easy, don't think stuff personally and joke more. Nervousness plays dirty tricks on everyone. Take deep breaths and don't worry about it. You're not there to impress anyone. Just relax and show how awesome you are!
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:07 AM
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Talk to more girls. Get more dates.
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:03 AM
3

I've been using a variant of "hey! What's the cutest fact you know?" And "what's something you love doing but suck at?" Followed by a cute/relatable example. If they reply then I'll actually check our their profile.
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:02 AM
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The only person that cares about that is you. Now, her out there and show the world he amazing person you are!
/r/seduction11/11/13 04:28 AM
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This was a major realization I had this summer. I've met people, not only girls, from my last semester's classes that tell me how much I've changed since last semester. I used to go into class, sit down, shut up, reddit until class ended and GTFO. You know what's the funniest thing? I wondered why I didn't meet many people. After an awesome summer and really getting into this sub, I realized that I fucked up pretty bad. Now I know people from all my classes and run the "loud/talky" circle in 3 o…
/r/seduction11/11/13 02:19 AM
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Getting out of the friend zone is tricky, but not impossible. Here are the 2 ways I see this going. Cut her off and have an amazing life from now on. If you see her say hi and be chatty, but eject soon. Be cool and flirty with her, but show that you don't really care. Make seeing you an awesome experience that doesn't last long. She might become interested now. Ask her out and fucking escalate. Move on. IMO, this is the best one. You're 16, dude! You still have lots of time to meet many more gir…
/r/seduction11/11/13 02:10 AM
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Cool. Now I know it's a widely used term.
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:27 PM
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What does FOB stand for? My middle eastern friends use that for "Fresh Of the Boat". Anyways, I think the way to go is to just go with it. It's hard to tell what helped indirectly since, you know, it wasn't direct. Just embrace your environment and make the best out of it.
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:01 PM
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In my compact car we must stick to missionary, bjs, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. One girl actually managed to do it doggy style there, but I'm sure her face was slamming against he window most of the time. Now, in my SUV is a complete different thing. Mostly everything is possible there!
/r/seduction10/11/13 05:36 PM
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Isn't this against the Bro Code? Haha If it wasn't certain he was hitting on her I'd say approach. If he is, IMO gentlemen's honor should apply and let it be.
/r/seduction10/11/13 04:07 PM
5

Assume attraction, escalate and figure out which one is interested.
/r/seduction10/11/13 01:20 AM
123

Nah, that can't be right. It's too simple. We must go deeper!
/r/seduction10/11/13 01:06 AM
3

Woah, my iPhone makes phone calls? Is it like FaceTime Audio?
/r/seduction09/11/13 08:52 PM
8

Mention your username. It is clearly a conversation starter.
/r/seduction09/11/13 07:04 AM
1

Ah! I have really no clue how big those dating sites are outside of the US. I know people that have used OKC when they're overseas, but I don't think there's an equally large pool to select from as in the US. good luck out there!
/r/seduction07/11/13 09:04 PM
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MeetMe? My experience with that is that they're all immature, attention whores, desperate, or an odd con inaction of both. Try OKC, POF and Tinder. You should get better results.
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:58 PM
2

"Old enough. How old do I look?" Followed a smooth tease so the subject is changed. "Well, you don't look so young yourseld!" Or "oh. Thanks kid!"
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:35 PM
1

I have the same problem. Girls in their 20's are more direct and easier to pick up (and HOT!). My problems is when it comes to out to bars and stuff. They always invite me to go out to the bar with them and stuff, then I reveal my age and they get disappointed and lose some interest :(
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:28 PM
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I have some and I'm 20. They're very handy on mixers or quick meetings. You just hand it over and done! No iOS or Android issues. No need to deal with their phone being slow/outdated. It's easy to forget who someone is on your contact list, but if you have a card you remember who it is. Most business people keep a drawer/organizer with the ones they get. Plus, I feel important when I hand out mine. It's a great booster and maybe a DHV.
/r/seduction07/11/13 05:24 PM
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They're easy. I'll give you that. But they're only FWB material for me. Like a consolation prize.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:18 AM
2

Dude...I feel the same way. And I'm also a foreigner....damn kids with their FAFSA and shit. Maybe that's why they're such a turn off for me.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:16 AM
14

I'll send them your way!
/r/seduction06/11/13 10:57 PM
20

Like, a turn off? Ghetto speak. "Aye nigguh, you is funny!" No. Fuck no.
/r/seduction06/11/13 10:32 PM
4

I like yours better. Poodle job!
/r/seduction06/11/13 09:42 PM
2

I'm just regurgitating what I've read here. I don't have time for books. I'll give Models a shot soon.
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:17 PM
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"Don't try to beat coke. Be the best DP out there." I tried to make it as ambiguous as I could.
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:10 PM
1

Yeah. Today was kinda weird. First time I've felt creepy opening a girl. I'll stick to indirect game unless I get some serious IOIs from now on.
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:42 AM
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Your college sounds better than mine! I wish we had an improv class. Question: when you say you spent time hanging out, what dud you do? Just walked around or went with some friends? I usually just walk around in circles scanning the place and start getting self-conscious about looking creepy. But yeah, to me it seems that you're doing great! I'm trying to do 10 approaches a day. This week I've done only 6/day, but I'll try my best to get to 10 before the weekend.
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:19 AM
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Join me in this venture. It gives you a goal: 10 approaches a day. All you gotta do is that bad learn from it!
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:13 AM
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I can't spell today. I'll just give up and go to bed early.
/r/seduction06/11/13 05:52 AM
1

Agh! I even proof read it. Good catch!
/r/seduction06/11/13 01:19 AM
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"Aye girl, u want sum fukk!" It was my turn to say it. Someone always beats me to it. Now let's get serious. Read up on as much content here as you can. Look for books that are recommended here. The Game, Mystery Method, Models, etc. Don't just read, go out and practice! I'm still learning, but I make it a thing to practice daily around campus. Cafeteria, library, hallways, EVERYWHERE. There's girls all over the place waiting to me you. This isn't a shitty AdultFriendFinder.com ad, this is real.…
/r/seduction06/11/13 12:17 AM
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My go-to post kiss talk is "Mmmmm, is that [whatever] lip gloss? Nice. Let me try that again. " If no lip gloss is being used I usually comment on their tenderness.
/r/seduction05/11/13 11:33 PM
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I've had success with commenting on whatever they're wearing or the book in their hand. Someone told me to just smile, introduce myself and ask a random question AskReddit-style. I'll try "what's the cutest fact you know?" And "what's your least useful skill?" tomorrow. I'm also reading up on more direct openers.
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:32 AM
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He showed his confidence, DUH! And I think confidence is penis. In which case, props to OP!
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:24 AM
1

Awesome! I feel the same way about indirect openers. I feel like my intentions aren't getting through most of the time. I'm going to read up on that tonight and test it out tomorrow. Good luck out there!
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:03 AM
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That's the idea behind this! I usually did 3 or 4 in a very good day. 6 was a nice push. I'll try to get to 10 tomorrow!
/r/seduction05/11/13 04:15 AM
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Ever since I started only 2 girls have refused to give me their numbers off of cold approach. I have dozens of numbers, but that doesn't matter at all. What matters is how many of those turn into dates. #-closing is easy and most girls hand them out like candy. Actually going out is what should matter to you. Don't see her number as the prize!
/r/seduction04/11/13 05:11 AM
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I make it a thing to approach at least one girl a day at school. 10 sounds interesting. I'm down.
/r/seduction03/11/13 12:38 AM
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I used to be your username, then I thought about mine and did my best to become it. That's all I have to say.
/r/seduction02/11/13 10:07 PM
2

Tell her what happened! Maybe she thinks you're not that much into her anymore. Subtly let her know that you're still into her.
/r/seduction02/11/13 02:59 PM
1

I went out with a Philippino girl once. We had a lot of fun, but she would always stay a couple inches away from me. Then I told her that we should take a walk. I tried guiding her from the lower back and hugging her once outside but she would speed up or pull away from me. Then she just stood there staring at me, so I figured I'd kiss her. It was a weird kiss. She cooperated but pulled back several times and did sort of like a pecking motion...anyways, she told me that kino in a first date was …
/r/seduction02/11/13 02:56 PM
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To me it sounds like you got needy and she freaked out or lost interest. She still talks to you in person because she doesn't want you to feel bad, but she's freezing you out through text. I would forget about it and move on. Here is my system to weed them out: I give girls 3 strikes. 3 flakes, cancelations without rescheduling, etc. Pardons are given if it's out of her control or an honest mistake, shit happens. After those 3 I quit trying, delete the texts, and move on. There is a slim chance …
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:05 AM
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DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT Seriously. Don't. Instead, use it to become more confident. See which topics of random conversation work and which don't. Then use them in the field. After a bit you'll know what hot girls respond to and you'll be comfortable talking to just about anyone.
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:54 AM
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Everyone says that any excuse to come over to your place works. Pizza, movies, tv show, whatever. Just make it happen! Since I still live with one of my parents that's not so much of an option for me. My go to car sex spot is near a river. So that's become my code with any girl I've hooked up with. "Let's go to [name of the place]." To this day no one has given me any LTR there, but the offer has been turned down here and there.
/r/seduction02/11/13 01:44 AM
1

My AA is usually "well, what do I say?" And that comes from overthinking. I've stopped doing that as much as I can, but it still happens from time to time. Now I just scan for something to comment on and if I get caught I simply introduce myself and ask whatever comes to mind. I'm pretty outcome independent now, so if she doesn't hook I just move on. And I'm more afraid she's wasting mine! I could be off hitting on other girls! Be outcome independent. If she's not cool with you hiring on her you…
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:47 PM
1

Rejections happen, bro. Just brush it off and walk away with your head held high. Only thing is that you should've isolated the girl you were grinding with and escalated even further (making out, etc), and if you wanted to see her again or finish the business, you should've gotten her number. It seems to me that you're doing great, keep it up!
/r/seduction01/11/13 06:02 AM
2

"Food" or any excuse to go to your place, really.
/r/seduction01/11/13 04:31 AM
9

That's how we all wish to run into out exes was like. Living the dream, man!
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:28 PM
0

I don't mean to generalize, but bigger girls are mostly bitches. That's what keeps me away from them. I guess it comes down to not knowing how to react when someone genuinely hits on you. But when you come across a nice and confident one, it's very refreshing and makes me at least want to befriend them I think the same goes for really ghetto girls. They're so used to the "aye shawty, you got a big ol' booty, let me show ya a good time".
/r/seduction29/10/13 08:43 PM
2

Dude, you make it sound like an Inception-style plan. It totally makes sense too. Thank you!
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:58 AM
1

I'd side with letting her know you had a good time and leave it there for a day or two until you ask her out again. She knows you enjoyed your time with and the no-text day(s) lets her know she's not your center of attention/life. Win-win.
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:55 PM
2

I read your title as "Flying Solo With Weird Sluts". I was a bit disappointed after I finished reading this. But yeah, sometimes people are boring or you just don't fit/get along with their circles. It happens dude, just remember it as an experience and don't let it get to you. I think you did great!
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:35 PM
1

How attractive would you say you are? OKC is amazingly superficial. You might excel personality wise, but if the girl doesn't find you "cute" enough, she's not gonna bother reading your message or even checking out your profile. It's still a numbers game. I message dozens of girls when I get on, I may get a couple replies or none at all, and some fade after a bit or I lose interest. The rate of first messages/dates has to be somewhere in the 100's:1 Swing by /r/OKCupid, they're pretty good at ju…
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:05 PM
3

I fully agree with /u/ElCidVargas. I never get numbers at drunken parties. In my head they're there for the moment and that's it. I can't think of why I would hit up a girl a slept with without even talking to, I think it may even be a it awkward! Try only gaming where you can talk and get to know the other person. Bars are ok, but the rest of the world is your playing field. Class, library, mall, bus, around campus, etc. Anywhere is better than a rave/drunken party.
/r/seduction27/10/13 05:48 PM
2

How would've you reacted if she hadn't texted you again? Whenever I do that I usually just don't get a reply anymore and ed up texting her a day or 2 later.
/r/seduction27/10/13 05:43 PM
4

I'm average looking and of average weight. And I do mean average, not average, I'm not fat, but I could use some exercise and better eating habits. Anyways, I've been on both POF and OKC for about a year now. I'm not very active, but I get on to message girls there once a week or so, and when they do reply I reply fairly often. Usually I'm talking to 1-2 girls at a time and get 1-2 dates a month. I live in a small city (300k), there's not many people there that fit my standards, so I'm not worri…
/r/seduction27/10/13 04:18 PM
3

The hard truth is that most (if not all) FWB/Fuck buddy don't last. Someone always ends up getting involved, and I think it's you. Keep on approaching and going out, don't stop!
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:34 AM
7

This. Assume attraction.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:27 AM
2

I'm going in dressed normal. Here's the catch. When people ask "well, what the hell are you supposed to be? Average college student!?" I'll reply with "nah, a buddy and I had planned to dress up as Ryan Lochte and Michael Phelps. I got the speedo and everything, but my friend chickened out last minute and I'm not missing this party, so I just threw this on top." Then I proceed to unbuckle my belt, unzip my pants and show the speedo I'm wearing underneath. "The cap and goggles are back in my truc…
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:26 AM
2

Biz student here. I usually donate all my magazines (Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc) to the local library since I read them on my iPad, but I forgot an issue of each in my backseat. Girl gets in my truck, checks the backseat and sees them. Picks one up and says "oh, you're really passionate about business, aren't you?" I got sexed that night real hard. Truth is, I just skim the articles to have something to discuss with my professors. Most of the stuff in there bores the shit out of me.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:02 AM
32

I really thought this would be about trick or treating.
/r/seduction25/10/13 08:02 PM
2

I would plan ahead a bit. You don't want to have a schedule, but plan on bouncing her. Start at the coffee place, then take her to a different location(s). Remember to kino and escalate. Isolate and escalate even further. My last successful day coffee date consisted in coffee shop comfort building, then we went to the mall that's nearby. While walking I started kino, hugging, arm around her, etc. Then I took her to Macy's to play dress up. She was unwilling to model for me, so I took her to the …
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:36 PM
8

One day I had one too many beers and almost lost my voice. At the end of the game one of the players approached me and told me that everyone in the dugout was laughing because of me. I felt special!
/r/seduction20/10/13 05:47 PM
8

This worked for me back in HS, this is before I had any knowledge of attraction and game. I basically pushed her to try new things. Even though I wasn't the most extroverted person, I made her do things she would've never done. I started taking her to games and heckling, showing her to be carefree, being loud, laughing out loud, trying new food, etc. It was fun!
/r/seduction20/10/13 05:34 PM
4

I'd go for bidet. That's on my list for this Christmas.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:45 PM
1

Exactly. I wouldn't call this a very good approach. To me this seems like just another approach, nothing really special about it.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:20 PM
7

As a hairy man, this would make me roll some tears. But I see your point.
/r/seduction17/10/13 02:35 PM
2

I usually text them right away so they have my number. While on the dating site I feel like I'm getting to know them, when I text I act like they're long time friends! Hope this helps.
/r/seduction16/10/13 09:10 PM
1

Make plans in person. Before you part ways make plans and use text as little as necessary. I've never believed that. I used to think to myself "the people that say that are 25+, young people like me (20) use text as a basic form of communication". Then I met one girl that didn't text back until the afternoon or in random intervals. I started to get needy! Then we agreed to be FWB and I decided I'll stick to that and only text her when necessary. Stuff is pretty good! Getting a text from me is so…
/r/seduction16/10/13 09:07 PM
7

Yeah, I thought it was about sporting which girls are easier to pick up.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:52 PM
2

I can confirm its available for iOS too.
/r/seduction13/10/13 05:41 AM
3

here you go. But I agree with you. Maybe OP projected that image and that's how he attracted that crowd. Maybe he settled for/with them. My best advise for OP is to keep talking to guys in his classes and to join clubs. Project more how he wants to be perceived.
/r/seduction13/10/13 05:39 AM
1

Oh! No. I was just walking by and I tapped her on the shoulder, but kept going since I was late for class. Then I ran into someone and he told me it was cancelled. So I made my way back to her and that happened. I overreacted about this whole thing.
/r/seduction11/10/13 08:45 PM
1

We had agreed beforehand and confirmed last night. I'm not worried about anything anymore. I'm blaming this to whatever remains are of my insecurity.
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:45 PM
1

I was expecting to hang out with her for a bit, but he basically waved me off. I'm wondering if maybe she wasn't interested anymore. Which doesn't make sense since we're still hanging out tonight. It could be just me being paranoid due to having a bad morning. Yeah, that sounds like it.
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:06 PM
0

I ran into a girl I picked up about 10 days ago. We've gone out 4 times and fooled around once. We agreed to go to my place to watch movies tonight. I ran into her at college today. She was talking with her friend, so I didn't interrupt and texted someone. When I was done I look up and she asks "what's up?" And I say "nothing, class got cancelled so I have nothing to do" and I introduce myself to her friend. Then she said "great, well, I'll see you later bye!". She. Blew. Me. Off!!!! I simply wa…
/r/seduction11/10/13 05:43 PM
1

"I'm [name]" and mention something situational. "What brings out to this mall?", "cool [accessory], how did you come across it?", etc.
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:25 AM
6

1) IMO you should never ask this. This gives them a chance to doubt of shit test you by saying that they do. Assume they don't. 2) Consensus here is not to ask for a date and I agree. You simply tell her to hang out with you, it's your job to make it a date by escalating.
/r/seduction11/10/13 01:21 AM
2

Are you asking for an escape of the friend zone? It's tough, but it's doable. Once you're friend zoned I honestly don't see a point on trying anything else. If she's well connected I'll keep in touch and ask her to hook me up. If you fail to make a move and end up there is mostly your fault and you should own up to it and move on.
/r/seduction09/10/13 02:34 AM
1

Overcome my loneliness due to me expecting stuff to happen. Now I have both male and female friends. I was afraid I'd try to get into relationships with every girl and I did at first. As girls came (I wish that was a pun) and went, I started to realize what I want. I still hit on every girl I'm attracted to, but I can separate them into "hook ups" and "relationship material". I've met several girls that now are my friends, several hook ups, but only 2 I'd deem worthy of my full attention.
/r/seduction07/10/13 03:44 PM
2

I'd say go with drinks, but you can milk the smoking thing. Night smoke-out at a park? Preferably near someone's house.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:10 AM
7

Try coming up with a "I'm teasing you" face. Somewhere between a smirk and passionate look. That's what I do and it works most of the time.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:08 AM
13

My past successful dates have involved them calling me an asshole and making out. This man speaks the truth!
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:06 AM
1

It was mostly telling stories, movies, likes and dislikes. Light teasing, poking fun and call-back humor are great too!
/r/seduction07/10/13 04:09 AM
8

I know who can make it happen for the right amount of Bitcoin...
/r/seduction07/10/13 03:30 AM
2

I usually do, but I never spend a lot. Coffee is fairly cheap. Buying the first round isn't that expensive. But I don't treat them to a Michelin star restaurant or fancy $12+ drinks.
/r/seduction06/10/13 09:46 PM
4

I'd be more interested in his flake ratio. Ok, you get 3-5/day 21-35/week, but how many actually agree to meet him again or even reply at all! Flake ratio for me has been around 3/5 reply and 1/5 actually agree to hang out again. That's all with regular day game. Engaging her for a few mins, suggesting to hang out and getting her number. I have a feeling this method has higher flake ratio.
/r/seduction06/10/13 04:25 PM
9

I never add anyone I'm trying to get with on facebook unless I'm already with them or decided they're just friends/connections. I do, however, love Instagram. Why? I only post stuff that shows how fun and interesting I am. And girls love posting pics of how hot they look. I admit I don't post much, I think this shows that whatever is on there isn't even close to how awesome I am. And I always tell her to "take it easy with the stalking" or call them out on liking something from months ago. All p…
/r/seduction02/10/13 07:32 PM
3

Maybe there's just one in town...now, pin-pointing which McD's or Starbucks they work out. That's a challenge!
/r/seduction01/10/13 07:09 AM
2

I've found that asking specifics leads to them to quit replying. Don't ask "where do you work?" Ask "what's your job?" Or "what do you do?". Same goes for IRL game. I never get specific until I've already ask her to meet. Then I ask what area does she live in and pick a place based on that
/r/seduction01/10/13 06:03 AM
21

He should've just cut off the audio instead. That beep was wayyyyy to long.
/r/seduction01/10/13 05:55 AM
1

I know, that's what my first class does. I want something that gets me happy and pumped to listen on my ride there. After my first class I'm set for the day. But maybe something to listen to while on my way to a social event.
/r/seduction30/09/13 10:06 PM
1

Niiicccce, haha.
/r/seduction29/09/13 07:56 PM
2

Dude, don't be a douche and get them in trouble. Unless you're in one of those awesome states on which consensual age is 16. In which case "NICCCCCE".
/r/seduction29/09/13 03:36 PM
1

I'm gonna follow the 3 strike rule. That was the first strike. After the 3rd I won't try anymore. And thanks! Hope you're doing good as well
/r/seduction29/09/13 06:36 AM
1

I waited until Thursday to see her. I'm there waiting for my class, she walks out of hers and I catch up to her. I tell ask her why she never texted back and played the "oh! I never sent it" and showed her my screen with "good morning beautiful :)" typed. She smiles and says she has to go and has not time to socialize and went on to explain herself. Tutoring, hard class, midterm. I said "ok, but let's go out this weekend, I'll text you", she agrees and walks away. On Friday I texted her that "mi…
/r/seduction29/09/13 02:38 AM
3

Through my case studies I've found that Latinas dislike beards. Italians, Dutch, German, middle Eastern and South East Asians find them very attractive. I can't speak for the rest, but I know most country girls like them too. There is a good chance I'll be beard-less for a couple weeks (sports bet), so I'll report back with my baby face me results. My best guess is that my appeal for older women will drop and jailbait will go up (I always run away if she's a minor).
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:56 AM
1

Thanks! I honestly felt like everything worked out perfectly. Besides not making out. But I'm making sure she know I want to tomorrow when I see her again.
/r/seduction26/09/13 01:54 AM
1

Haha, thanks! Everyone here vouches for that, so I thought I'd give it a try.
/r/seduction25/09/13 05:39 PM
1

Well, it was all over text. I usually would never have replied because I gain nothing by it, but I was feeling extra confident and extra bored. All I did was play dumb with his threats. Never threatened back, but mentioned that the cops would love to see this conversation that includes: blackmail, physical threatening and racial slurs. He freaked out and told me "well, I'll just tell them someone stole my phone" and stopped replying. This was a very very rare case, but the "Agree and Amplify" us…
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:03 PM
2

This is the very long version. I was bored haha. The short version goes like this: Walked into the library and scanned for HBs. Eyes met with one, sat down by her and smiled. As time passed looks were exchanged and she even shared her snack with me, it should be noted that up until that point I hadn't said a single word to her. More time passed and I just made comments on situational stuff (her laptop, the music outside, my iPad, etc) and slowly started asking questions and getting to know each …
/r/seduction25/09/13 05:58 AM
1

That's what I'm doing now just as a precaution. I'm not texting her again until Thursday (she only has classes t and th) and if we do hang out I'll tell her that I want to date her or push to hang out, but this time I'll make it clear is a date. I think she's LTR material, but I'm still talking to other girls until I'm sure this is going down or not.
/r/seduction25/09/13 04:33 AM
1

She did! She shut down that idea for some reason. I'll leave it there for now and I'll text her again on Thursday to see if we can hang out again, and I'll make my intentions very clear then.
/r/seduction25/09/13 04:29 AM
3

Genius! I said something similar and she hasn't replaced yet. I'm gonna leave it there until Thursday or Friday and see where we go from there. Thanks!
/r/seduction25/09/13 12:05 AM
2

I was thinking just scrapping it and tell her to meet me for coffee on Friday. If I can get her into town i can take her to a coffee shop near the waterfront. After we're done with coffee we can go for a walk.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:33 PM
5

Thanks, I will! The girl from today wants me to go shopping with her. Is that good? Sounds good to me if she's gonna model her stuff for me haha.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:04 PM
2

Open in safari and use the reader thing that's strips ads and bad formatting.
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:53 PM
16

Hang out is like code for 1st date, but without the social pressure/expectorations. It eventually is what you make of it. Take her to watch a game at a bar and act like she's your buddy and guess what? She will be your buddy. Take her out for a more personal thing, kino and escalate like she's your girlfriend and guess what? She'll be your girlfriend. The rule of thumb is "Assume Attraction and Escalate."
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:20 AM
1

I would message her and joke for a few messages, then go for the hang out/date. WhatsApp is the same as texting IMO.
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:03 PM
1

Any advice on how to I could find more women to date in my town? Coffee shops! Be it Starbucks or a local place. i want to loose my virginity I'm no expert in loosening virginities, but I think once you lose it it's gone for good. I don't think there's either tight or loose virginities.
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:56 AM
1

I'm barely 20, but you know what? Texting right away (within a day) has gotten me nowhere this far. Maybe they weren't even interested to begin with, but it's worth a shot with these. I added a reminder for Sunday afternoon to call them. Thanks for this great advice!
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:43 PM
1

It was my understanding that when your interaction is very brief it's cool to text her shortly after. Just a "hey, cool talking to you, here's my number" kinda thing. But yeah, seeing that she said she was busy for the weekend I think that's the best way to proceed. I'm still pumped and feeling extra confident today, fuck yeah!
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:50 PM
1

I whole heartedly agree. Last 2 first dates I've taken there ended up in an f-close and everything-but-f-close (eventually dated for 2 months). I've never gamed there though, any advice?
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:16 PM
1

Next time I'm in the very touristy city by me I'll try that for sure!
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:15 PM
1

Talk to everyone! In my opinion the best way to be the life of the party is when you can have fun with whoever and bring in people that you just met. Introduce people around and they'll think you're very social and know everyone!
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:48 PM
2

My favorite game when I had a wingman (doing solo game now) was to guess their name or birth month. You can keep score and you have no reason not to approach since its just an innocent game. Calibrate with her reaction. If she's interested at all she will like to know what's going on and smile, maybe even laugh.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:45 PM
1

My whole class game is: Get there early, make small talk. Sit next to cute girls, make small talk before class begins and as you pack up to leave. As you walk out catch up with cute girl, make small talk. If you've already built some tension, be it by small talk or flirting I'd say you go ahead and try it. But be careful, she might find it rude you're distracting her, or the professor might find it rude and kick you out. I've seen both happen.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:41 PM
3

Are you in middle school? I've seen this work for my friend's younger brothers. Are you in high school? I've seen this work for restraining orders against you. Are you in college? Maybe if you have/had her in one class. Otherwise NO. Or at least I don't think so.
/r/seduction14/09/13 01:45 AM
8

Dude. It was her first date and kiss and you wanted to go to her room? Take it easy! On my first date I felt pretty damn accomplished by putting my arm around her. Yeah, I was like 14 but still, come on! You have to ease her into it, especially if she's new. Ok, I've actually opened Filipino girl at a Starbucks who spoke little English. The way I did it it was by speaking slower and clearer. Toning down the slang might be good too. Show her around, introduce her to local stuff and build up the s…
/r/seduction11/09/13 10:13 PM
1

"Hey, my name is [whatever]" extends hand Maybe throw in a comment about the situation (her clothing, accessories, etc.) Yeah, maybe chase her down a bit if she didn't pay you attention, but not trick her into it. I'm no PUA, so I might as well be wrong.
/r/seduction10/09/13 04:34 PM
1

I agree with you. I don't like canned openers, but this is far worse. I would even call it needy if he ran down to the girl and basically cornered her into the interaction.
/r/seduction10/09/13 04:08 PM
48

The one time I've hit on someone in the pool was a memorable story. Here it goes: I start my usual 80 lap day. I take short breaks every 10 laps. About halfway through this girl jumps in. She's has a pretty tight body, small boobs and a nice ass. I try to catch up so I'm behind her to...you know...asses the situation. At this point I'm basically swimming with a boner, which on speedos is quite the sight. She's way slower than me and takes breaks every 4 laps, but this one set I timed it some too…
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:36 PM
2

If he's calling us pimps, I'm pretty sure he's got tons of bitches.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:16 AM
1

Well, thus far I have not been given money while approaching women. If anything, I've given out like a $1 on random bets.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:14 AM
3

It was my understanding that most of Europe knows English...but go out to clubs and grab them, maybe even try the claw!
/r/seduction08/09/13 02:30 PM
4

Tell him that. Show him this. Let him know what's going on. Girls can be friend zoned too, you know?
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:58 AM
4

Did you do heavy kino at the concert? Cause it sure as hell sounds like you didn't kiss her. That was your shit-test. You should've made a move at the concert. Now, what you have to do is hang out with her and fucking escalate. I always wondered why I was single for so long and it was all because I didn't escalate.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:55 AM
3

You need to beat the Approach Anxiety. It's a bit scary at first, but after a dozen or so it's just normal. I've been trying this for about 3 weeks now and now I don't hesitate, I just go for it and figure out what to say on the fly. Someone else here said to just go and talk to store employees to ease your mind into it. Most people are used to asking them for directions or recommendations and most of them are pretty nice. After you're better at that just make small talk to random people (be it …
/r/seduction07/09/13 12:30 AM
1

Yup. Maybe I'm not going to go out with her anymore (maybe yes) but I don't want her to think I'm a total creep.
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:11 AM
2

I actually did today! She wouldn't give me her number though...but hey, I didn't scare her away!
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:10 AM
3

Ok, then we were missing some info. Maybe you're taking too long and they think you're not interested or they lose interest. So far I've #-closed, texted for a bit and asked them out either over text or next time I see her. Try it next time! Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction30/08/13 05:08 PM
7

From your post it sounds like you ask them out too soon. Do you just like notice a girl, go up to her and ask her out? I mean, I'm sure it works sometimes, but you got to build some interest! Talk to her, get to know her a but, feel her vibe and then ask for her number/ask her out. Keep on truckin'!
/r/seduction30/08/13 07:25 AM
1

Should've gone with Party in the USA then? Haha. Great tip!
/r/seduction30/08/13 06:57 AM
1

Can you link me?
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:06 AM
2

I've had this happen to me twice. I haven't been on the game for long though. I take it as a "no, but I'll make you think you have a chance". But hey, who knows, she might send you something, but I would not count on it.
/r/seduction30/08/13 03:29 AM
2

As /u/kingcal said, it's not going down as you expect it. You have a good idea for an approach. What about just join her for lunch right then and there? I've done that a couple times and I #-closed both.
/r/seduction30/08/13 03:20 AM
1

I actually downloaded that but haven't gotten around to reading it. I'll do that today.
/r/seduction30/08/13 02:27 AM
6

Got it. Now I have some experience on how not to act.
/r/seduction30/08/13 02:27 AM
3

Well, the experience alone was worth it. Next approach will be better.
/r/seduction30/08/13 02:26 AM
2

Oh I know. I didn't realize how much I had fucked up until you guys mentioned it. Do you think I can do some damage control or should I just cut my losses and move on?
/r/seduction30/08/13 01:07 AM
2

If there is another chance! Honestly, I'm sure it will. I just don't know what to say to her now.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:47 AM
1

I did, but then I skipped. I started with the tap on her shoulder. Then grabbed her arm a couple times to show her the way I was going. Then helped her up some stairs. Then she said the no touching thing and I thought I was being playful. I don't think I fucked that up that bad. I might go in for a save next Tuesday. I just have no idea how to do it without apologizing.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:45 AM
-4

Because I thought I was being playful! It never crossed my head I was borderline rapey.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:41 AM
3

Now that I think about it, yeah. I'll try to get another shot at it and keep my distance.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:40 AM
1

I did do light kino beforehand. I touched her shoulder and grabbed her arm a couple times. When she said that I thought I could playfully pull it off. I guess I failed majorly. I'll see her again on Tuesday, maybe I'll try again.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:39 AM
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Stand straight Take up space Walk proudly Use your man (deep) voice. Talk to EVERYONE. Not only girls, but every single person you come into contact with. Hit on girls.
/r/seduction29/08/13 01:55 PM
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Oddly enough she didn't like long make out sessions. But she taught me so much.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:42 AM
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I would say truth. I told the first girl I really made out with (not just touched lips) that it was my first time. Her reply? "I'll make you good at it". And indeed she did.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:20 AM
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Just go for it. I mean, it's not like "hello, how are you? Great, me too!" Followed by you slurping her face off. But build it up with a bit of kino and once you're in an isolated place just go for it. As simple as that. Get in front of her, look her in the eyes, then down at her lips, pull her closer and go for it.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:09 AM
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I actually found myself is a predicament close to yours today. Got 2 #'s on friday and I texted both on sat and no reply. So I thought "hey, maybe I'll go for a call, let's look some good call options on Seddit" and I found a post about a texting thing that had supposedly worked for the guy 100% after no-reply's. Simply text "If I had to grade your text-back skills I'd give you an F!" or something along the same lines. It was worth a shot so I tried it and I actually got a reply and a date for t…
/r/seduction26/08/13 03:58 AM
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It's all good. I was thinking Sunday. Friday and Saturday nights I'm usually out anyways and I'm guessing she will be too. Thanks for all the advice!!
/r/seduction23/08/13 11:44 PM
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Got it, I'll give her a call on Monday and see how it works out. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/08/13 11:20 PM
1

Got it. What would be a good time frame to call her? I also looked her # up on facebook and found her, but I thought it would be a bit stalker-ish if I added her. Also, if she doesn't pick up should I just move on? Past me would've never even asked her number so I'm really lost here lol
/r/seduction23/08/13 11:09 PM
2

Call her then? Suggested time for this? You damn right I'm asking her out.
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:53 PM
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I'm new to this so these 2 may see dumb, but any help/critique will be appreciated! I got a girl's number quick, you could call it a hit & run, asked her name and added it to my phone. As I was getting home (5 mins after) I realized I never told her mine so I texted her telling her my name. No reply. What are my options now? (Besides moving on) I was having lunch and I noticed this girl sitting by herself, I asked her to come sit with me and she did. We hit it off and ended up exchanging numbers…
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:32 PM
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This should be on the header!
/r/seduction23/08/13 06:16 AM
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