Help needed: How to keep interest

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-11-09T07:04:31+00:00

Mention your username. It is clearly a conversation starter.

EXV · 2013-11-09T03:59:24+00:00

Be yourself. Plain and simple. My only issue with PU is that a lot of people tend to portray different personas and shy away from their own personalities (at least this is what I get from some of the people I've picked up with). They become so absorbed in doing what they need to get the girl as opposed to focusing on accentuating what makes them unique and confident. Build your character, not the one you think will get you laid.

IMO if you have to ask how to keep a girl, you haven't really learned enough about yourself.

Mr-E-Relevont · 2013-11-09T05:09:00+00:00

never give straight forward answers to anything, and become a master of tones of voice

Jessie_James · 2013-11-09T14:45:01+00:00

Do NOT be yourself, especially if you fuck things up.

Read this:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/whynot.htm

And if you want so good advice on how to keep a woman, go read Doc Love and his columns. His book is genius as well, download it and read it until you understand it (I had to read it three times).

yoloswag420blaze · 2013-11-09T17:27:57+00:00

Being yourself only works if you've already worked to become the self you've always wanted to be. You can't just stagnate and expect to soar in your new relationship.

You said it yourself, keeping girls is not your strong suit, so practice, learn, and keep the communication open, honest, but confident. Don't you dare tell her you're scared of losing her or some nonsense, please, for me lol.

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doug_remer_nsfw · 2013-11-09T07:39:57+00:00

Hey man, I can absolutely relate. Some good advice so far, but what I will add from personal experience is to be aware of the relationship. Keep an objective eye on things.

This is important because it already seems like you went from nothing to her showering at your place. Girls are crazy be careful.

So, I'm not judging her for sex on the first date. I love when girls are upfront about what they want. But I am profiling her. Some girls sleep around and latch on to guys.

I'm not saying this is the case - just tread lightly and if your friends start saying she's crazy ditch her.

(It will save you a shattered laptop and iPad)

Title	Help needed: How to keep interest
Author	SeductionPenis
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	November 9, 2013 3:01 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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